The Tragic Story of The 'Elephant man' Joseph Merrick | Well, I Never

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  • @birdflipper
    @birdflipper Год назад +1191

    His skull looked like it had barnacles. It's bad enough he suffered such physical pain, but the psychological abuse Joseph had to endure is unimaginable. Poor man.

    • @dfuher968
      @dfuher968 Год назад +78

      And he was not even been given basic human respect in death, he was still a friggin exhibit.

    • @puffchick4197
      @puffchick4197 Год назад +10

      @@dfuher968 very true

    • @geneticdisorder1900
      @geneticdisorder1900 Год назад +17

      And all these years later, people still insult Joseph by referring to him as the elephant man.
      Can’t you just use his full name !!!!

    • @ZeroOmega-vg8nq
      @ZeroOmega-vg8nq Год назад +12

      @@geneticdisorder1900 its the same thing with how frankenstein works. The monster wouldn't exist without his creator but the creator wouldnt even be remembered because everyone only remembers the monster calling it by his name. Its an inescapable legacy for joseph.

    • @yeahokbuddy2510
      @yeahokbuddy2510 Год назад +5

      @@dfuher968 I think it’s really cool that his legacy has been preserved. At least look at the positives

  • @susannewton970
    @susannewton970 Год назад +16

    I watched the film many years ago and cried my eyes out through most of it .This dear man suffered so much in his life , if there is life after death I hope he is having a wonderful time and no longer in pain or disfigured. Xxx

  • @megalopolis2015
    @megalopolis2015 11 месяцев назад

    A gentle spirit, a sweet heart, and a unique mind. His poetry is touching and perfectly stated. I'm grateful that the hospital became the closest thing he had to a home, and the staff his family. May he forever rest in the Loving Arms of the Father. ❤

  • @jessicaboisvert3138
    @jessicaboisvert3138 Год назад +1

    WOW this was so very interesting to watch and thanks for sharing this I enjoyed watching and learning about John Merrick..

  • @lindalee3408
    @lindalee3408 Год назад

    Thank you, sir. I first heard of Joseph on a AMC Biography show back in the early 1980s. Since then, I watched every RUclips show I came across about him.
    You revealed more than anyone: his childhood, broken family relationships, the workhouse, how he actually died, and the measurement of his head.

    • @timekeeperz9714
      @timekeeperz9714 Год назад

      fun fact: he still has indirect relatives living today, one of those relatives run a famous pokemon website.

  • @darianthescorpion1132
    @darianthescorpion1132 Год назад

    I remember watching a movie, I forget the name of it, that recounted Joseph’s life. It was a neat movie with a very hopeful message. God rest his soul. Joseph Merrick was taken from us too soon. Knowing his intellect, he could’ve been a famous philosopher or poet, but it’s nice to know that medical science has improved because of his deformity.

  • @paulhemingway9149
    @paulhemingway9149 5 месяцев назад

    Well done again Paul.
    Excellent.

  • @David-uf8ex
    @David-uf8ex Год назад +1

    Such a sad story of such a brave man . I hope Joseph can now RIP

  • @johnmagill7714
    @johnmagill7714 Год назад +1

    I have never had a story about someone who suffered so much, more than any of us can imagine. Make me shed a tear, but also feel happy for him at the same time. He had every right to hate and mistrust people. But that wasn't Mr. Merrick's style. He had an amazing soul and gift to touch people, through his poem's and his art work, building those replica's. How he did it I do not know. He made friends with royalty, and many very important people of the day. He was to me the most amazing man I have ever read about. His desire to be normal, just to sleep like everyone else would be the cause of his end. Thankfully his last few years were happy one's. If anyone was an angle on earth, it was him.

  • @scootermom1791
    @scootermom1791 7 месяцев назад

    There's an excellent film produced in 1980 about the Joseph's life. It's intentionally made in black and white. In fact, when I first watched it (not in theaters), I'd thought it was made in the 1930's. I was surprised there hadn't been an earlier film made about his life.
    At any rate, the film portrays a first person view of Joseph's life (from what I can remember). One can't help but feel the anguish this poor man endured resulting from both the physical torture of his disability and the mental abuse he had to suffer. He was such a wonderful, and extremely under appreciated, man.
    I'd highly recommend anyone watching this film, along with one called "Mask" with Eric Stoltz and Cher, who needs a good dose of empathy. "Mask" is based on a teenager who has a severe physical disability, and IMO is in direct contrast to "The Elephant Man" in the way society treats "Rocky" (played by Stoltz). Rocky is essentially raised in a motorcycle gang, which, by default, makes him seem "cool" despite his appearance. It's a really good movie, too.

  • @albertaadams4640
    @albertaadams4640 Год назад +2

    I feel so bad for him that one of his last requests was to not have his body displayed and the poor man couldn't even be allowed to rest in peace and dignity

  • @Chihayamoon
    @Chihayamoon Год назад +2

    I would have given Joseph Merrick a hug

  • @martinedingivan
    @martinedingivan Год назад

    I feel really sorry for Joseph but they didn’t know any better back then I wonder how he would be treated now I’m not so sure but I’d hope with dignity thanks for sharing I’ve always been fascinated by him but not as a googling bystander

  • @richardbradley1598
    @richardbradley1598 Год назад

    I've seen his bones and his free possessions, including his hood in the hospital where I worked. They were on display without fanfare in a corner of the museum area.

  • @gdbd6181
    @gdbd6181 Год назад

    such a very sad story

  • @cerovk6000
    @cerovk6000 Год назад +1

    This guy looks like a explorer of the past.

  • @scootermom1791
    @scootermom1791 7 месяцев назад +1

    Throughout the centuries, people (aka men!) often blamed the mothers for their children's disabilities...as if they did something wrong in their pregnancies.
    Sadly, mothers often can't help but blame themselves even when most of the time it's not their fault. Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, and babies born prematurely due to a mother smoking and/or using drugs used during pregnancy is the mother's fault. But mother's choose healthy lifestyles while pregnant and have a baby born with a disability isn't the mother's fault.
    Many people who has physical disabilities had no other option but to join so-called "freak" shows to make a living. Otherwise, they'd never be able to survive.

  • @snowcloudshinobi
    @snowcloudshinobi Год назад

    i'm glad that he got to experience some happiness in his later years. i'm kind of surprised that they didn't rig up a special bed for him which could support the weight of his head.

  • @bridiewhite9450
    @bridiewhite9450 4 месяца назад

    Wow poor bloke. He must of been in agony! The abuse he suffered aswell 😢

  • @garywinterbottom4930
    @garywinterbottom4930 Год назад

    Hard to believe his own father shunned him like that how incompasssionate he was to his poor son. Shameful .

  • @beelzebubpigbenis4119
    @beelzebubpigbenis4119 Год назад

    RIP Joseph Merrick, an angel imprisoned in his own body and mocked by lesser people, lets hope he is somewhere where he can be the person he dreamed of.

  • @drumdad54sdl47
    @drumdad54sdl47 Год назад +1964

    How beautiful it is that despite the unimaginable cruelty he suffered from his father, his step siblings/ stepmother, society, and his manager who abandoned him abroad, Joseph was able to maintain a spirit that didn't become bitter toward the world or life in general. God bless the doctor who brought him to the hospital and made his last few years of life relatively happy and peaceful for him.

    • @foo219
      @foo219 Год назад +115

      Some people react to cruelty by becoming cruel. Others react to cruelty by becoming kind. He chose wisely.

    • @drumdad54sdl47
      @drumdad54sdl47 Год назад +37

      @@foo219
      Yes. Appealing to the better angels of their nature. What a beautiful discipline that requires more than I have within myself alone.

    • @foo219
      @foo219 Год назад +25

      @@drumdad54sdl47 All we can do is try our best.

    • @paddlefar9175
      @paddlefar9175 Год назад +34

      The Bible texts taught people that anyone with a blemish on them or is disabled, blind, etc. was not worthy and should stay out of Church and be kept from entering.
      “And the lord spake unto Moses, ... Whoever he be of thy seed in their generations that hath any blemish, let him not approach to offer the bread of his God.... a blind man, or a lame, or he that has a flat nose, or any thing superfluous. Or a man that is broke footed, broken handed, a dwarf, or hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken... he shall not go in unto the vail, nor come nigh unto the altar, because hath a blemish; that he profane not my sanctuaries: for I the Lord do sanctify them.”
      (Leviticus 21:16-23)
      It made people feel ashamed for being disabled or for having a disabled child, maybe even look down on themselves or their disabled child, so as a consequence, parents would often hide them away from society, which was often very cruel, just so they wouldn’t be judged by other irrational, indoctrinated, non skeptical thinking people who believed the bunk! Luckily, nowadays we have learned that the Bible is not to be taken literally or even seriously, in my opinion.

    • @crashburn3292
      @crashburn3292 Год назад +27

      Oh yes. God bless the doctor. Because everything good that happens is "God's work." And everything horrific that happens in life isn't mentioned to be a God's fault as "God works in mysterious ways" or some bullshit logic like that. But sure, credit God for the people who helped Merrick.

  • @JoMungoTours
    @JoMungoTours Год назад +948

    Thank you so much for the mention, it really means a lot. After finding Joseph's grave, I make an effort to visit on his birthday, the anniversary of his death, and Christmas. I also lay flowers at his mum's grave. Many people now visit and pay their respects to Joseph's. May he rest in peace.

    • @usamaaqeel7992
      @usamaaqeel7992 Год назад +56

      You've done a really good thing for him.

    • @JoMungoTours
      @JoMungoTours Год назад +28

      @@usamaaqeel7992 bless you. Thank you 😊

    • @FucU4ever
      @FucU4ever Год назад +29

      Oh that was you who found his grave?? Bravo!

    • @evelynmcconnell6833
      @evelynmcconnell6833 Год назад +24

      God bless your respect and empathy for this poor man, he’s up blowing you kisses and sending you love 🙏🙏🙏

    • @llochopslater1185
      @llochopslater1185 Год назад +8

      GOD BLESS HIM.

  • @peternesbitt
    @peternesbitt Год назад +306

    How incredibly heartbreaking. It's nice to know some people treated him humanely.

    • @scottswan7830
      @scottswan7830 Год назад +5

      Heart breaking yes. It's left me scared I believe.

    • @HavianEla
      @HavianEla Год назад +5

      I just wish more people would have :( it wasn’t until he became somewhat famous that he was truly treated with any real level of respect, and from experience I’d be willing to bet some of that kindness came out somewhat patronizing as well.

  • @abigailrose1806
    @abigailrose1806 Год назад +496

    I remember watching the movie, and honestly, Merrick was perfectly portrayed as this unknown, even chilling "creature" from how he wore a sack over his head and was completely silent when first introduced. But like the doctor, we become educated that he was a normal person dealt a nasty health condition. His story is extraordinary and timeless as much as it is sad.

    • @rationalmuscle
      @rationalmuscle Год назад +22

      The movie is a work of art. A brilliant portrayal of the cruelness and beauty of mankind simultaneously.

    • @rosspatterson131
      @rosspatterson131 Год назад

      should of seen his mother.

    • @petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279
      @petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 Год назад

      What's the movie called?

    • @nathandublin3039
      @nathandublin3039 Год назад +17

      @@petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 the movie is called " The Elephant Man" came out in 1980 in black and white. The actor who played the doctor Treves is Anthony Hopkins.

    • @johnbrereton5229
      @johnbrereton5229 Год назад +10

      @@nathandublin3039
      Yes and the actor who played Merrick so well was John Hurt, I believe he won a bafta for his incredible performance.
      Highly recommended as its well worth watching.

  • @chalinmari
    @chalinmari Год назад +131

    Clicked quickly because I knew YOU would treat his story respectfully.

  • @tsurugizaki
    @tsurugizaki Год назад +215

    It's horrible how much he was judged and mistreated. I'm glad that he was still able to experience good things later in his life, and some people managed to look past his appearance and see that he was just a normal guy. His mother sounded very sweet as well.

  • @LorienInksong
    @LorienInksong Год назад +431

    I've always danced around stories or documentaries about Joseph Merrick as so many treat him with such intense disrespect and sensationalism. Thank you for covering his story; I knew you would treat this man's memory with respect and a level head. His story is intensely heart-breaking, but I am deeply appreciative to hear about who he was and what he went through. It sounds like Mr. Merrick was a man with a beautiful soul, and I hope if there is an afterlife he is existing in peace and joy.

    • @GeorgiaGeorgette
      @GeorgiaGeorgette Год назад +8

      Lovely words. Bless you.

    • @josepha3805
      @josepha3805 Год назад

      What documentary was disrespectful? I gotta see that!

    • @anne-marieriamitchell1140
      @anne-marieriamitchell1140 Год назад +1

      You shoul watch the film it’s done very from poor merricks view point he was such a genital person I think if people treated me like this I would be bitter heartbreaking

    • @anne-marieriamitchell1140
      @anne-marieriamitchell1140 Год назад +2

      I ask myself would we as people treat him better now? I wish I could have helped him

    • @scottswan7830
      @scottswan7830 Год назад

      @@anne-marieriamitchell1140 yes I think we are all scared once we learn about the abuse he took. I know I cried.

  • @romac9516
    @romac9516 Год назад +23

    He was mocked, abandoned, abused, but, ironically, still lived better than many Victorians thanks to the help of a few. It was a brutal era when life was desperately cheap.

  • @anyathepanther7977
    @anyathepanther7977 Год назад +138

    He was such a sweet soul.
    I am happy for him that his last years in the Hospital were filled with kindness and sympathy.

  • @glorygloryholeallelujah
    @glorygloryholeallelujah Год назад +473

    Joseph’s story always makes me cry. Particularly his childhood after his mother passed away. I wish I could reach back in time, bring him here and take care of the little chap.😢

    • @thebirdee55
      @thebirdee55 Год назад +18

      I feel the same way.

    • @msdanascully11
      @msdanascully11 Год назад +17

      Same here, you just want to go and hug him, poor little thing....

    • @usamaaqeel7992
      @usamaaqeel7992 Год назад +26

      Unfortunately this world would still be cruel to him like old times...

    • @glorygloryholeallelujah
      @glorygloryholeallelujah Год назад +37

      @@usamaaqeel7992 I 100% agree that the world is still cruel (and always will be).
      But at least today we have great medical advancements, better education opportunities, more ways for him to easily communicate with others, online communities to engage socially with, connecting with support groups, therapy and overall, most people nowadays are more understanding/knowledgeable that people with severe physical deformities are not “cursed” or “contagious”- they are just like everyone else, but simply have rare health complications that they struggle with.
      And most importantly of all-he would have access to a loving family who genuinely wanted him around, didn’t view him as a “useless burden” and would do everything in their power to help him, support him, protect him, encourage his talents and help him achieve his dreams/goals in life.🥺❤️

    • @Spacekriek
      @Spacekriek Год назад +12

      You have a beautiful soul, GGH.

  • @annemorgan2064
    @annemorgan2064 Год назад +68

    My uncle had nuerofibromatosis. He lived with so many tumors and eventually became isolated except for his many cyber friends. I don’t remember his appearance so much as I remember his dry sense of humor and him teaching me how to play poker.

  • @RedCyanPhotos
    @RedCyanPhotos Год назад +83

    I actually have a similar but more mild condition and trust me it’s really horrible. I’ve got enchondroma- multiple enchondromas which are brittle bone tumours. They can grow anywhere at any time at any rate, but are also in risk of being broken off at any time which kind of course, cause further complications. It’s also extremely painful. Much of my body is held together by mesh, biomesh plates, titanium bars and screws and bone cement, by the time I was 34, I’d had about 14 surgeries including 7 on my chest all connected with my condition They said if my chest brakes one more time (titanium, can’t be that strong if I keep snapping it all the time!) there’s nothing they can do to help me, I basically would only have flesh covering my heart and lungs, which of course is very dangerous! My heart every time I hear the story, but I just wanted to say thank you for covering it so nicely if that’s the right word, as you think of this guy and the way he had it so severely, back in the day, you don’t think that there are actually people out there, suffering similar things right now and being one of them, seeing hurtful comments from people makes me think that they would be the same towards me, so it’s nice when it’s been done sympathetically and people are being kind! I’m pretty lucky that most of the areas I suffer for my condition isn’t noticeable, so a lot of people I meet just feel like I have an oversized twisted nose, it’s about all you can physically notice, but actually it’s full of tumours twisting making my top jaw smaller, I can’t push my jaw to one side and it clicks every single time I eat or chew, but like I said most of it isn’t noticeable- it must’ve been a nightmare for this guy to never be able to hide it.

    • @FadingVitals
      @FadingVitals Год назад +7

      All the best to you! ❤️

    • @karenmarkasky7893
      @karenmarkasky7893 Год назад +6

      I hope and pray that you are doing well!!!!!❤

    • @scottswan7830
      @scottswan7830 Год назад +6

      I cried when I watched the movie, still do.
      I hope your doing well and have a wonderful long life.
      You have a beautiful heart and soul that should carry you through!!!

    • @M-20-100
      @M-20-100 Год назад +7

      Hello RCP,
      Even though I don’t know you personally, I was deeply touched when I read about your physical health - and I am in awe of your obviously great courage and perseverance.
      I am also greatly humbled by the grace with which you speak of your story.
      Kind regards,
      Vincent

    • @letsdothis9063
      @letsdothis9063 5 месяцев назад +2

      I wish you the best. My cardiologist suggested a plastic chest cover (kind of like form-fitting armor), if I wanted to continue jui jitsu after an operation. My heart is so enlarged, that it is partially unprotected by my ribs and sternum.
      Unfortunately, that wouldn't be practical, but my heart also became to weak to participate.
      I'm sure if something like that was an option, your doctor would have brought it up.
      Wishing you the best. I can't imagine the stress of dealing with such an affliction.
      I sincerely hope that all works out.

  • @deniseleplatt1616
    @deniseleplatt1616 Год назад +73

    This story has always made me sad. I'm so glad he had friends at the end. It reminds us that all of us are different in some way, so be kind.

  • @funkyzero
    @funkyzero Год назад +84

    I've always thought that the story of Merrick lives on due to it's built-in messages about the human condition in all respects... the good, the bad, and the ugly. It's [the story] as if it were a parable, but in this case, it's a story about a human who lived among the rest of us, suffering the injustices of societal misconduct, and then finally being recognized for the suffering human that he was. Every time I hear it being retold, it forces me to re-evaluate myself and how I conduct my life and interact with others.
    Thanks for putting this out.

  • @lightinthedark1594
    @lightinthedark1594 Год назад +104

    I watched The Elephant Man so many times as a child and it broke my heart. I cried my eyes out for the treatment he received. The world is a cruel place but you should at least find love and safely in your family. So sad

    • @audie-cashstack-uk4881
      @audie-cashstack-uk4881 Год назад +6

      You can visit his cell in Leicester iv been

    • @MikadoYuma
      @MikadoYuma Год назад

      Family is an illusion, no amount of blood can force you to care about someone. His father and his wife were selfish, and weren't willing to help or take care of him.. unfortunately this is not new and it still happens every day.

  • @greekbirb
    @greekbirb Год назад +76

    He was such a loving and gentle soul. I hope he found happiness wherever he is.

  • @msdanascully11
    @msdanascully11 Год назад +57

    You really have to ask yourself how such an amount of totally undeserved illness and cruelty can be endured by just one innocent and - despite everything - lovable being. This story is truly heartbreaking....

  • @roscoewhite3793
    @roscoewhite3793 Год назад +40

    If there a better place to go to when we die, Joseph Merrick deserved to find it.
    Thank you, Mr Brodie, for relating the story of his life with compassion and understanding.

  • @cydkriletich6538
    @cydkriletich6538 Год назад +97

    Joseph’s story was made into a stage play as well as the movie. I worked in a community theater that had some exceptionally talented performers. When this play was staged, the actor who portrayed Joseph did so without any special makeup or prosthetics. He simply hunched one shoulder one way and moved and talked in the manner Joseph had to. The performance was so realistic that the audience soon forgot the actor had no makeup, and came to see the performer as Joseph was. By doing it this way, the audience was able to better see Joseph’s spirit and intellect, and not be stuck on just his physicalities. Poor Joseph. Even though his remains are not buried together, I hope the dear man in resting in peace. ❤

  • @jwv6985
    @jwv6985 Год назад +141

    What a tragic story. Makes me feel silly for complaining about things in my life that haven't gone well. 🥺

    • @Dragon1Grrl
      @Dragon1Grrl Год назад +16

      is ok to have difficulties in life, we aren't competing in a 'suffering olympics'. I get the impression that Merrick was not bitter about his lot (from what i have seen in this video) but i can't find the words i want to say to convey all my thoughts on this.

  • @trj1442
    @trj1442 Год назад +54

    Such a sad story. I remember when I was a boy at boarding school in the 1980's and we had movies in the assembly hall on Saturday nights. Some master decided it would be a good idea to put on the 1980 movie The Elephant Man. The hall was completely silent which was very unusual, and after which we all walked back to our boarding houses and barely said a word before we all went to bed. A lot different effect on 400 boys from when say they put on Bruce Lee's Enter the Dragon, after which we were all Kung Fu Fighting on our way back to our boarding houses.
    I'm not sure I've got the stomach to watch The Elephant Man again.

    • @vampyre4me
      @vampyre4me Год назад +1

      Bless you, darling. Really, truly, sending you virtual hugs. ❤❤❤

    • @wendyhoag9637
      @wendyhoag9637 5 месяцев назад +1

      I experienced the same thing after seeing the movie. My date and I didn't say a word after the credits, nor the whole drive home. It was the saddest thing I had ever seen in my life.

  • @chrisbrowne239
    @chrisbrowne239 Год назад +61

    I love that you spent so much time on his time at the hospital and on his happiness. I'd heard about the standard parts of the story before, the parts every other documentary or youtuber uses, but it's the little things we would take for granted like him getting to go and see a panto and being absolutely thrilled about it that I'd never heard before and that just break the heart a little more. That's what makes your channel so good

  • @ceering99
    @ceering99 Год назад +35

    This is probably the most personal and human retelling of Joseph's story that I've seen.

  • @elvenkind6072
    @elvenkind6072 Год назад +37

    Really a sad story. The ignorance of people can get to the point of extreme cruelty. It was really touching with the picture of the woman that smiled at him at 13:45. Thanks a lot for the story.

  • @kristinbreaux1918
    @kristinbreaux1918 Год назад +37

    As sad as it is that he was treated so horribly, I'm heartened by the amount of people that came out to support him

    • @HavianEla
      @HavianEla Год назад

      Later in life, after it became “acceptable” to do so. Joseph deeply deserved better, and from experience as a disabled person, I can assure you that at least SOME of the kindness he received later in life was given with patronization.

  • @kayevans2964
    @kayevans2964 Год назад +104

    A reminder to always be kind. John suffered terribly, not just from his own afflictions but at the hands of the opinion/reaction of others. His life could, and should, have been so different. A sad story beautifully and respectfully told. Thanks Paul.

    • @fay-amieaspen6046
      @fay-amieaspen6046 Год назад +9

      His name is Joseph Carey Merrick.

    • @kayevans2964
      @kayevans2964 Год назад +5

      @@fay-amieaspen6046 thank you, my error.

    • @bunnymad5049
      @bunnymad5049 Год назад +5

      @@kayevans2964 Yes, I watched initial things that called him John and I keep forgetting he's Joseph. I'm terrible with names.

    • @kayevans2964
      @kayevans2964 Год назад +4

      @@bunnymad5049 I had to rewatch the film last night. I thought I'd lost my marbles. Thankfully they did call him John in the film. I watched it with a whole new perception though. Such a sad story and a remarkable portrayal by John Hurt.

    • @bunnymad5049
      @bunnymad5049 Год назад +3

      @@kayevans2964 Yeah! They did. It can get confusing! But yeah, I've read a lot about him and watched a few different docs and he was such a remarkable and wonderful man. And John did an excellent job, I agree. xxxx Merry Christmas!

  • @pimpozza
    @pimpozza Год назад +25

    Thank you for the fascinating live stream, Paul. Really enjoyed it.. 👍👏 Greetings to all from Italy 🇮🇹🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @WellINever
      @WellINever  Год назад +1

      Thank you, Pimpozza! And thank you for your questions. We'll have to do a longer one next time. 😁

  • @rheverend
    @rheverend Год назад +38

    Hearing how gracious he was at experiencing the bare minimum of kindness and how he took so much delight in the smallest things, it puts the rest of us in an unfavorable light. Shame on us for our selfishness and entitlement

  • @DawnOldham
    @DawnOldham Год назад +10

    I've known of "the elephant man" for many years, but you shared new information. I had no idea that he finally found kindness toward the end of his life. God bless people who reach out to those in pain.

  • @tracyanne64
    @tracyanne64 Год назад +27

    So sad 😞 I'm glad his final years were a bit better for him.

    • @TheLegacy87
      @TheLegacy87 11 месяцев назад

      Extremely sad that was the first movie that made me cry

  • @susanrobinson910
    @susanrobinson910 Год назад +35

    I have heard the story of Joseph Merrick many, many times. I am so thankful to the people who were with him at the end of his life, and that he was able to know kindness and friendship before his death. He didn’t deserve to be treated the way he was by society at large. I hope wherever he is now (depending on what you believe, I guess) that he is happy!
    Thank you so much for this video, and for doing it in such a gentle and compassionate way. ❤

  • @GeorgiaGeorgette
    @GeorgiaGeorgette Год назад +19

    It doesn't matter what he looked like, Joseph was truly beautiful. Bless his sweet soul.

  • @VeaRobinson
    @VeaRobinson Год назад +40

    The doctor's kindness was life changing ✨️

    • @purplegothicqueen
      @purplegothicqueen 5 месяцев назад

      He wasn't that kind. Little respect was given to Merrick after death.

  • @momv2pa
    @momv2pa Год назад +18

    A lesson to all of us. The most attractive people can have the most corrupt souls. Mr. Merrick shows us that “not judging a book by its cover” was never more true in his case. God bless and RIP.

  • @gabriellagalli8564
    @gabriellagalli8564 Год назад +22

    Joseph had a horrible and painful childhood, but he still remained a strong individual, something that I greatly admire. His story is proof that no matter what, always try to be kind and compassionate towards others.

  • @joeysplats3209
    @joeysplats3209 Год назад +23

    It seems Mr. Merrick was not a bitter man, despite nearly the whole world recoiling in horror at his appearance. Commendable.

  • @iahorvath
    @iahorvath Год назад +4

    I wonder if the mother was exposed to harmful and toxic chemicals while she worked as a domestic, which would have caused the birth defects in her children.

    • @Marty2011uk
      @Marty2011uk Год назад

      Climate Change. There would have been a Herd of Elephant Men if that were the case ! About 7,000 have it Today - statistics.

  • @charleendavis8171
    @charleendavis8171 Год назад +29

    Thank you for such a touching telling of Joseph's life. My grandparents loved the movie of his life starring John Hurt and after seeing it I have long been fascinated by his acceptance of his condition and his kindness. I'm so happy he found comfort and friendship in his final years. His art was so incredibly beautiful. He was an extraordinary man and someone I would very much have enjoyed knowing. ❤

  • @Thundralight
    @Thundralight Год назад +13

    Many viewed him as a monster because of his appearance but the real monsters were those that mistreated this unfortunate man.

  • @chroniclesoflaura
    @chroniclesoflaura Год назад +16

    I’m glad the hospital and others tried to give him a decent last few years of life.

  • @weldonreed1950
    @weldonreed1950 Год назад +18

    No one does this format better!
    Don't change a thing!

  • @mariealexander9545
    @mariealexander9545 Год назад +7

    the poem he wrote brought tears to my eyes lm so glad he spent his last years safe and happy l can only imagine how awful his life must have been until the doctor helped him RIP Joseph

  • @davidbeaumont4455
    @davidbeaumont4455 Год назад +25

    As always, a touching and compassion filled retelling that brought both a lump to my throat and a smile to my face. Again, I salute you, sir.

  • @zizoabdelaziz7434
    @zizoabdelaziz7434 Год назад +4

    فيه مسرحية عنه حلوة اوي اسمها الرجل الفيل
    اتعملت من فريق مسرح كلية تجارة جامعة القاهرة
    والعرض موجود على اليوتيوب

  • @JJW77
    @JJW77 Год назад +11

    Well, I never can get over how cruel people can be to a good human being that is deformed.

  • @georgewashington938
    @georgewashington938 Год назад +15

    Merrick was such a beautiful spirit, being able to suffer incredible pain and indignities while not harboring bitterness or resentments. He is an inspiration and positive example to us all.

  • @garyedwardgray7549
    @garyedwardgray7549 Год назад +11

    Very interesting… and pleased to hear that his final four years were RELATIVELY happy. I’m also glad that so many stepped up to help him. For example, though she’s mentioned but not really “credited”, I’m sure the Lady whose box Merrick was in for the Christmas theater show was aware that her box would be used for this… and she approved it. Many caring people seemed to reach out to help him. Overall, his story is a tragic one. But the fact that his final years were his best years does make it somewhat less horrific. I’m glad he was able to find some comfort and happiness in the end.

  • @YesterdaysLillies
    @YesterdaysLillies Год назад +4

    18:39 neurofibromatosis, actually really sucks :( my 3 siblings and i have it, as well as my dad and uncle. One of my other uncles, actually died from it. He had a tumor on his head and it broke his skull and i believe crushed his brain. Very sad. You can get tumors removed,depending on location, and how thick, or if they have tendrils but they have the chances of growing back, even worse than what they were before. There is 3 different types of Neurofibromatosis 1, 2 and 3. They get worse and harder to treat as the types go on. If anyone here, has any questions on neurofibromatosis, id be happy to try and answer them for you.

    • @beck86
      @beck86 Год назад +2

      Thank you for being open and honest. Your attitude of wanting to educate people and raise awareness instead of garnering sympathy is simply wonderful and inspiring. I wish you and your family all the best for the future.

    • @YesterdaysLillies
      @YesterdaysLillies Год назад +2

      @@beck86 thank you for the wishes. I hope you have an amazing day/morning

  • @Alaryicjude
    @Alaryicjude Год назад +17

    I think I saw a plaster cast or skeleton replica or both at the Mutter Museum in Philadelphia. It was two decades ago now so I don't fully remember all of what we saw there but I'm so glad to hear he had some happiness in his life. He sounds like a real trooper and it seemed he always kept his kind heart. The part where he said Layla was the first woman to ever smile at him and shake his hand, I lost it. It seemed that things mostly got better from there and that warms my heart. He had such a rough start and did nothing to deserve it.
    Thank you for all of this history on one of the world's most famous men!

  • @nabila1379
    @nabila1379 Год назад +18

    This is another heartbreaking story, but I'm glad Merrick found happiness in his later years. Thank you for the awesome video, as always. I love how you always tell the stories objectively and with full of respect. Keep up the good work!

  • @JootjeJ
    @JootjeJ Год назад +15

    Thank you for focusing on his life and mental health and for the level of respect you show.

  • @VeraBean
    @VeraBean Год назад +18

    I'm familiar with his story. So glad you covered it with the dignity you always present. Always warms my heart to know his last few years he was treated well and lived a relatively "normal" life.

  • @benmcreynolds8581
    @benmcreynolds8581 Год назад +11

    I admire him so much.
    Seriously certain people show us what TRUE STRENGTH IS and genuine good hearted character. Despite having every right to be mad at the world/ He fully lived his life instead. I admire the heck out of him and anyone else who struggles yet powers on and finds ways to enjoy the little things in life. Finding that perspective and internal feeling is something not everyone finds but if they do, it's blessing that let's you cherish the moment, where others might overlook, take for granted, or maybe not of even have engaged in it in the first place. So I appreciate anyone who finds this unique way of Life ❤️

  • @aquariusrose5621
    @aquariusrose5621 Год назад +17

    I remember hearing and watching the documentary on Joesph Merrick, and crying at certain points, from the horrible things he had to go though. I'm glad that you explained everything clearly of his gentle man...thank you for doing this video on him.

  • @pegallen6983
    @pegallen6983 Год назад +6

    Excellent telling of a terrible story! Poor guy went through hell his entire life and he made hte most of what he was giiven. He was quite an inspriration

  • @patbowman6723
    @patbowman6723 Год назад +26

    Poor Joseph, what a miserable life he lived. In pain with no home and being laughed at by so many. NO one should live that life. RIP Joseph Merrick.

  • @Originella
    @Originella Год назад +11

    My father showed me the film version of this when I was between four and six. I wasn't frightened, just devastated. He loves telling the story of me asking, "Why were they so mean to him?" I just want to sit with him and talk to him, to this day. I think I would've been a wonderful friend to him.

    • @ziriceII
      @ziriceII Год назад +3

      i was about the same age and i still remember the scene of sir anthony hopkins crying at the sight of him

    • @gabriellagalli8564
      @gabriellagalli8564 Год назад

      I remember the scenes where Joseph yells “I am NOT an animal! I am a MAN.”, the princess and the widow shook his hand and him receiving his very first gift in years

  • @jmgfx4161
    @jmgfx4161 Год назад +13

    He gained the respect he deserved in life after his death. Undoubtedly Joseph Merrick has left a lasting impression on the world.

  • @goodday126
    @goodday126 Год назад +12

    Joseph really is one of the most heartbreaking medical cases in history.

  • @rabbitsonjupiter6824
    @rabbitsonjupiter6824 Год назад +13

    Thanks for this wonderful episode. You told Joseph's story with such compassion and respect. I thought it was a lovely tribute to him ♥️

  • @MoonFlowers0107
    @MoonFlowers0107 Год назад +15

    Wonderfully narrated, as always! I remember when I first (and last..) watched The Elephant Man, sobbed uncontrollably! He was such a beautiful soul born in such an unforgiving and cruel time in the world.. Showing such grace and humanity even after being thrown around and betrayed by those he put his trust in. Without holding resentment or ill will towards anyone.. His story is absolutely one which should be known to all for science sake, but more importantly to learn something deeper within ourselves.

  • @Ms.HarmonyJ
    @Ms.HarmonyJ Год назад +13

    Paul I'm sorry I missed the q&a but I'm so glad to see another amazing video I enjoy your videos you and your team do amazing job I have heard about this story you guys may have alot more information sensational job as always keep up the sensational job you guys

    • @WellINever
      @WellINever  Год назад +4

      Thank you, Jasmine! We'll have to set one up that works better for our viewers in the states. 😀🙏

    • @pimpozza
      @pimpozza Год назад +6

      I agree, Jasmine.. this story is so famous, yet Paul always manages to tell us a little extra. I first found this channel listening about Travis the chimp. Another well-known tragedy, yet Paul's take on it was _way more detailed_ than any other version I had heard.. 👍

    • @Ms.HarmonyJ
      @Ms.HarmonyJ Год назад +4

      @@pimpozza your so right

    • @Ms.HarmonyJ
      @Ms.HarmonyJ Год назад +4

      @@WellINever Paul that will be perfect you guys always brighten my day I love these videos

  • @thebirdee55
    @thebirdee55 Год назад +14

    As usual, you tell his story in such a classy way. Such a sad story of such a sweet, intelligent man.

  • @kathyn8780
    @kathyn8780 Год назад +10

    he could write such a beautiful poem after he had experienced such trauma and negativity off people, so pleased he did have the love of his mum to show him the way in life, such dignity and pure soul God Bless that man

  • @margaretestangco4911
    @margaretestangco4911 Год назад +10

    Glad to have seen your Q&A before this new episode came out! Always glad to see your uploads 😊Looking forward to more episodes and more Q&A's from you, Paul!

    • @WellINever
      @WellINever  Год назад +6

      Thank you, Margaret! I feel it went really well for a first try. I'd certainly like to do another so I can answer more peoples questions.

  • @donnariahi2975
    @donnariahi2975 Год назад +12

    You handled the life of Joseph Merrick in your normal truly respectful manner. You are a wonder. It does make you ponder the fact that while ‘society’ would have little or nothing to do with him, he was a well spoken & educated man.

  • @bettyfeliciano7322
    @bettyfeliciano7322 Год назад +9

    I have always heard of Mr Marrick & his deformities, but never heard his whole story until now. Thank you Paul for giving us an insight to this man and to once more prove that you can’t judge people by their outward appearances. Blessings to you! ❤️✝️

  • @lydiavliese8246
    @lydiavliese8246 Год назад +9

    Thank you, sir. You have honoured Joseph Merrick.

  • @Mr666999666999
    @Mr666999666999 Год назад +5

    Simultaneously "The Elephant Man" film is a favourite & also very difficult for me to watch!. From what I've read he seemed very intelligent, friendly, & polite. It's strange, he seems like a national treasure in the U.K & a lot of people feel for him.

  • @agolftwittler1223
    @agolftwittler1223 Год назад +9

    Poor man.
    Such a tragic story.

  • @FucU4ever
    @FucU4ever Год назад +7

    WOW, Thank you. I grew up reading through many Guinness books in the 80s. This video put some soul and personal touches to a real person vs statistic oddity , thank you for that. My heart truly goes out to him. I wonder what doctors today would have done for him? Surgery wise I am thinking he would have a lot more mobility, dexterity and a longer life, full and active. As far as his remains go, atleast a part of him was interred with some dignity

  • @flavia8504
    @flavia8504 Год назад +6

    I've heard his story before of course. But never in such details. Keep up your up your good work.
    Edit: I just saw I wrote "up your" twice....🥴

  • @MJARTBYDAY
    @MJARTBYDAY Год назад +2

    I hate it when people call Joseph the elephant man. It is one of the saddest stories ever to happen for real. It was said that if he was to try sleeping like everyone else it would kill him ... In those days they were uneducated to know about certain diseases. It is why they would call him names and bully and belittle him. He went through hell with people calling him names and mistreating him and lived a horrible painful life. They studied him like a guinea pig Joseph was very intelligent and they thought just because he had this horrible disease that he was an imbecile when he really wasn't. Thanks to the doctor he made his life that bit more comfortable for Joseph, he helped him quite a lot and others got to know Joseph and found out he was a very polite intelligent young man. He did long to sleep like everyone else but sadly passed trying to do so and thus breaking his neck and spine as his head was too heavy to do so properly. John Hurt, my best friends relative, had acted as Joseph very well in the movie. I was wondering why they made it in black and white but later understood that it would have been scary to some viewers in colour. In the end I understood.
    Thank you for being respectful towards Josephs story ....

  • @rochelleb973
    @rochelleb973 Год назад +7

    How horrible. They need to release his skeleton for burial

    • @crazyadam9281
      @crazyadam9281 Год назад +8

      I agree they've had like what 132 years to study him, just let him rest and use his replica.

    • @fay-amieaspen6046
      @fay-amieaspen6046 Год назад +1

      Mr Merrick donated his remains to medical science.

    • @denniswilliams3934
      @denniswilliams3934 Год назад +1

      @@fay-amieaspen6046 I agree with you. For scientific research, not to be in a Museum, on display for PROFIT. (A continuation of him being part of a FREAK SHOW)

  • @thebanjoman1963
    @thebanjoman1963 Год назад +3

    As a child born with a left hand deformity, I can somewhat understand his plight. The stares, the callous bullying children and even the mean adults. I have empathy for him and what he had endured. I am glad that he experienced some happiness and peace in the remainder of his life.

  • @starrynight1329
    @starrynight1329 Год назад +10

    John Merrick's story has always made me cry, it is so heartbreaking. God bless the individuals who helped him.
    Shame on the hospital for treating his corpse with basic human dignity. They could easily make a replica.

  • @aprilkalcsa9336
    @aprilkalcsa9336 Год назад +7

    "I am not an animal!"

  • @gunnyd8135
    @gunnyd8135 Год назад +2

    My heart welled up at the end when it was stated he was a devout Christian. His life is an object lesson to everyone. All of Europe would soon forget the Resurrection of Jesus Christ, and plunge itself into obscenity of WW1.

  • @elainemoreland3908
    @elainemoreland3908 Год назад +9

    He had so much sadness in his life yet he always strived to better himself. Never unkind, brave and full of love. He should be a role model. I thank the people who worked and took care of him. RIP kind soul.