I am sorry for you ladies. I notice the main complaint about stress during pregnancy for most women is a husband who is either not caring/loving, unfaithful, etc. I am a guy myself and husband to a beautiful caring loving happy go lucky but fragile, worrisome wife carrying my 15 week old child. I am rarely at home because i am trying to take care of our finances so that i provide for my growing family. However, it seems i need to take a step back instead of a step forward so that she can enjoy this pregnancy stress free with my participation in terms of just being there for her. She has cried because i have complained about things not being done at home which seem so selfish i admit. I am coming to realize i need to change for the better i am better than this and i would not forgive myself if i mess this up, neither will she ever forgive me. Wish me luck as i do for you all!
Exactly...am pregnant its now 33weeks of baby girl but my husband is stressing me a lot ..flirting with other girls outside in the hotels...l pray l get better
My pregnancy was stressful for the entire 9 months. Believe me, there are strong correlations between stress and the wellbeing of the child. Just remember there is no reason to be stressed when something is out of your control.
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@@neelamyadav9944 Please I am advice out of my own experience, I had a very bad experience in marriage and pregnant 🤰, it affected my daughter up to now, she has very difficult behavioural issues, worse is that she can be moody and crying for even 2 days or more and rude to everyone out of reason. The pregnancy was very difficult and even giving birth was very bad and very worrying. Please try to look for ways to escape from the stress Please. From the day of finding out l was pregnant up to now over 13 years I am still struggling with the stress of my daughter 😫 😩 bad behaviour plus she never got to see her father as l left him while still heavily pregnant. Please don't stress don't stress yourself out please
i lost my son in a stillbirth at 24 weeks and 6 days due to stress and arguments!! now pregnant 1 year later 7 weeks 1 day today and doing everything i can to stay stress free !!!! Amen
I'm really scared I have had a very stressful pregnancy, being upset and very angry arguing with my partner when he is not being nice. I'm 21 weeks and really believe I have done some damage
My boyfriend is emotionally abusive as well. I lost my baby at 7 months, I blame me and not him because he can be replaced but my daughter cannot. I am mad at me not being mad at him, his lack of support financially and emotionally . Work stressed me too. Felicita ure mine and we belong together for all eternity
Feel the same way here. He really wanted to have baby now I am 6 wks pregnant now we went shooping whe we are at the cashier he is too far so I said it's ok I got this. Then when we get home I paid for his ticket for no seatbelt I don't recieve ty. After a while when he was looking for something that he cannot find he blame and saying the wors "F" now I am stress since yesterday. Make me feel weak, lazy not doing more, lost of appetite. Sometimes I wanna leave but don't have enough courage yet to leave. Hope I can make it to leave soon. Coz he was planning to have another baby but he cant pay for baby stuff geez!!! Oh God strengthen us who feel the same way as I do. Ty
@@glendagirlvlogs3019 Take it from me sweetheart. you know the term don't sweat the small stuff, it is true. Try as best as you can to think positive at all times and empty your self of all negativity. Your health and that of your unborn child is far too important to worry about things and him. With my first child I fought and although things were stressful i ignored them and she was born healthy and then after i suffered post natal depression. So get a support group online, eat healthy think healthy be healthy. All the best to you mother you are carrying life. You are stronger than you think God will see us through
@@nattyj8162 thanx for your words of wisdom it gives me courage that I can go on live with a smile every day. Somehow there is somebody like you willing to listen and not to judge. I deeply appreciate you, I felt that you care. God blessed!!
Listen to anything Laura Doyle! She’s on RUclips, podcast, and has a few great relationship books “Empowered wife, Surrendered wife, etc” I’d take a listen to her advice even if not married. Also Dr. Laura Schlesinger. On Dr Laura call of the day (podcast & some RUclips videos) she’s a wonderful marriage and family counselor with unmatched dating/family/baby advice!
I’m pregnant now and definitely deal with a bit of stress. It seems from the comments most women do. I watched and spoke to many women who stressed and their babies might have been fussy in the beginning but they are exceptional toddlers and children with no defects or abnormalities. With respect to the doctor it is best to try not to but this is extreme and being pregnant has made me realize how little the medical world actual knows about pregnancy and how much is simply guessing. Pray and do your best all of your babies will be fine. Women have been stressed and pregnant since the beginning of time.
I agree, studies in humans show some potential connections between stress during pregnancy and possible deficiencies later, but it is somewhat conflicting and although there are many theories it is not super coherent. Its also not very scientific to take examples of people somebody knows or to talk about your own experiences and conclude something general from that. Nobody can predict the consequences of stress during pregnancy for every individual. It is not helpful to stress people when there is no clear evidence.
Cool thanks for the advice it’s always nice to get this type of advice from a man. What I’m saying is do the best you can but don’t let this video freak you out because being pregnant can be stressful all by it’s self so do what you can. Also I can and will continue to use my life experience and the experience of others to form my opinions. You may go strictly off of science but I do not. Thank for your advice I guess. For anyone who cares my baby is healthy, clam and happy. I was under some stress I would do what I needed to do to stay calm every now and then I would meditate or whatever I needed at the time and some times that would work. I stand by my statement DO THE BEST YOU CAN AND YOU AND YOUR BABY WILL BE FINE.
Thank you for sharing this! It was very helpful and eye opening as I discover how to help my son and how to undo the damage. My son showed signs of fear and behavioral concerns from infancy. He came into this world afraid of everything. He rarely slept, always cried. I didn't understand why he was so afraid, why he couldn't relax. Always jumpy... but the more I am learning about stress the more I realize just how important your mental health is, especially while you are carrying your baby. He spent 8 months in a womb of a mother that was constantly stressed. My son is an example of what Dr. Mansoor says in this video. If you are stressed, please seek help from those around you and find ways to de-stress. Be kind to yourself so you can love your baby and give them the peace that they need to feel safe.
:( i too was born in a stressful environment with my mom while i was in the womb, i think she mentioned my dad would hit her and lemme tell you i was a pretty messed up kid, all my life i wondered why i was so "stupid", and why i wasnt like other children who i see now a days, it was very difficult for me to be normal and especially with a mother who didnt really know how to be a mother was even harder in itself..so now that im pregnant with my first im getting better to understand a part of me i was always ashamed of and embarrassed to talk about. I dont blame my mother or my father though he was the cause of her stress im just happy and thank God to have made it out alive...makes me understand my stress better and control it better and also to break the chain and allow my child a future i never had...I pray that your son may find his light, it will take a lot of patience and a lot of the times it seems like your going back wards then forwards but when he gets older he will understand it all just as i have. I will pray for you and your son, just dont give up on him, pray for a lot strenght and guidance as will i..may God continue to bless your family ..thank you for sharing, it must've been hard to speak of such matter.
Thank you Amy Sue for the nice response. It is unfortunate the things we do to our children as parents; some due to pathology and others due to ignorance, however both equally as damaging. That must be validating now to know that it wasn't you. But certainly does not remove the experience. And in some ways you would never want to remove the experience, because it has made you stronger. At least that is what I have come to from my experiences. It is great you are seeing and researching all of this now before your little one is here. They're lucky to have a good mom who is already showing a great love for her child. Good for you for ending the cycle. It can end. I will say from my own experience, the understanding I have gained of how my childhood has impacted me was not fully realized until I could see my son's behavior (not pretend everything is OK) I finally understood that his behavior was not something to hide but something to embrace; it is in my son that I was able see the true value of knowing the consequences of bad parenting. The importance of being supportive, not succumbing to social norms. Meaning if he is disregulated, social norms would insist you quite him quickly to not disturb others. This invalidates him which makes him feel exactly how you mentioned how you felt. Different from others wondering why and all the other invalidating feelings. By quickly quieting the child is great for others in not disturbing them, but does nothing for your child. The focus should be your child and helping them with their disregualtion and letting them know they are not alone. My son now looks at me and says "I can't calm down" and then he follows with three deep breaths and you can see he is trying to calm himself down. He wants to and he now knows he is not alone. Quieting them shames them, but sitting with them through it is invaluable. He is showing such mental strength at such a young age. I am so proud of him. It breaks my heart to see him struggle, but at the same time I know he will overcome it and these techniques will become second nature to him. Something I am learning now at my age. Reading your post has also reinforced the hope I have and I know he will be just fine. In just the two short months since I posted this, he has made astonishing improvements. I can't be more proud. Each day with them is a learning experience for both of you. If I can offer advice that has helped me, never stop growing. Your little one watches you for everything and is learning from how you handle everything. So it is important to set an example. I used to think that was such a silly thought. But, it is so true. They watch you and mirror you as they learn to navigate this world... so show them the way you want them to navigate it not just tell them. I tried telling my son how to navigate but continued my own behaviors. I didn't see him improve until I adopted my own parenting to myself and changed my behaviors so I could then demonstrated to my son. So again, never stop growing. Even when they get older they look to you for guidance. Such an important role and a blessing. Best of luck to you and thank you again for sharing. And congratulations on the new addition. :)
Stormy Cube same here. I've had nothing but severe stress this whole pregnancy. I am 33wks with a boy. The father and everybody and they mama seem to want to cause me severe undue stress. I try very hard to not dwell on it or allow it to stress me so badly but it's so hard sometimes. I've recently drawn nearer to god which is helping some. Everyone knows what you go through baby goes through so I don't know why ppl would want me to be so stressed
Faking happy works on the outside to fool ppl around u but when ur angry sad or stressed u can't hide that feeling from ur body so that doesn't make sense
No, but you can do things to give yourself a break. Do things you enjoy, be with positive friends/family, have positive thoughts, watch your favorite movies, etc. It does not change the overall situation, but it does give you spurts. So it does make sense.
Not to mention being a single parent, having stressful work environment- mentally and physically - and it's not like you could be picky with your job knowing that you badly need money. I get bad dreams around 3 times a week probably due to stress. I'm so exhausted and can't take a break.
@ Actually, there are SO many studies and brain scans that demonstrate faking a smile activates that part of the brain and prompts that part of the brain, so you start smiling for REAL!!! Every time you take time to breathe, surround yourself in something beautiful, etc...those neurotransmitters are firing properly and thus are helping your baby develop healthy, EVERY single time you engage in relaxation you are providing health to both of you!!!
I am 19 weeks and my husband cheats on me several times it’s so stressful I am crying as I type this!! I pray God protect my child because I am so stress and I can’t help how I feel!!
@@kikipalmer5040 I am happy for you. Also on my 13 weeks now and depressesd caused by my husbamd and his family. I am so sad and worried at the sams time my baby will be affected with my depression
@@niceonegirl3365 I know how u are feeling. I went through the exact same thing, only that it was with my husband and his side piece. Do u belief in God?? If yes I would suggest that u pray!! That’s what I did to get through my rough times. We can also exchange contact if u want someone to talk to
I am 17 weeks so fairly early and my entire pregnancy has been so hard I've been fighting off my depression and sometimes feel so alone during it all... theres been financial stressors. I had to quit my job, my relationship is rocky and I have almost no family. I LOVE being a mom with all of my heart so it makes me even more stressed that managing stress is so so hard for because all I want is to be supported and excited for the pregnancy.
I was an unwanted pregnancy, my parents and siblings did not want me. My mother had stress related medical problems during the pregnancy. From birth I had emotional problems which made me even more unwanted. Still paying the price today.
I'm 5 months and I've had depression throughout the whole entire thing so far. I'm just so lost in life I don't know what to do anymore. Theres days I can't even get out of bed, shower and eat. It seems like no one notices and no one cares.
I am 7-8 weeks very early but me and my partner are having really big arguments everyday to the point we are screaming at eachother I keep crying to the point I can hardly breath I'm happy I watched this video now instead of more further into my pregnancy
may I say ur husband is an idiot for not puting an effort to not argue with u especially now and instead console u in this situation now that ur pregnant. he must not care about the outcome of ur pregnancy or u. very selfish. I'm sorry wish u luck to u and ur baby.
Ace Herron ah same I argue with my boyfriend all the time every day and I'm about 10 or more weeks but I'm actually on an extreme level of stress where I'm unconsciously taking it out of myself I tear my life apart till it bleeds sause spilled on my hand and i let it sit there now I have a second degree burn yea my level of stress is pretty bad and he makes it worse sometimes by doing these here's and there my confidence is low and my confidence in him dropped 6 ft under to the point where I honestly don't care if he's cheating or anything I already expect him of that and he's not doing anything I know he's not but I can't help but have little trust because I pick up on the smallest shit and run with it before pregnancy I was already like this but waaayy less it just got worse
This is 2 yrs too late but I am going through exactly the same thing and I am 5 months pregnant. My bf is being vile every day and we end up screaming and shouting and I end up crying and having panic attacks. It happened just tonight as well. I am so scared I have damaged the babies hormones and development
For the first time i have agreed that stress and depression is a bad thing during pregnancy,I have just lost my six months pregnancy due to stress and depression.from the time i learned that i was pregnant I grew fond of hubby, always wanted to be where he was to the extent of wanting to follow him at his working place.I tried but nothing, even when he's saying the truth I felt like he was just lying.Am still in shock and scared of getting pregnant again because of what i went through.
I totally disagree on this.. babies are resilent. Pregnancy exarcabate stress hormones it does not effect baby.. Stress and anxiety is a part of pregnancy especially if you are pregnant for the first time.. Such kind of videos gives more anxiety to woman who are already facing anxiety. Stop making such videos !!!
For the past months my 1st and 2nd trimester werent that good. My live in partner and I argue a lot that it comes to an end of me being hurt physicaly. I have no body to count on he turned my parents away from me. What I only Pray to God everyday is the health of my unborn baby. Im in the beggining of my 3rd trimester and I wish no harm be unto my child. :(
I really appreciate this information and study. My mother witnessed the murder of my father while I was 6 months in utero. I always felt a little off and different when I would look in comparison with my self and other children as I was growing up. I felt a wide spectrum of emotions compared to emotions of the daughter and patient of Dr. Mansoor.
continued: for more clarity “feeling off” in definition to me was not negative...I just different. I was overall a happy child and my mother said o never cried as a baby, so my infancy compared the daughter of his patient
In my culture they always have said not to give a pregnant woman bad news or have her experience strings emotions. That it was bad for the baby. But this video just gave me the science/mechanics behind that. My husband is currently just always out with friends as I'm pregnant with triplets. I cried for a few days but decided to try and stay calm and just ignore him.
I am happy that im pregnant my baby is gift from God,i thought the father of my child is good person but i was wrong i just found it recently that the only reason he is nice to me bcoz he is plotting of taking my baby after i give birth,after i found out about his plan i was really scared I couldn’t sleep thinking what might going to happen to me and my baby it really stress me out..i know that stress is going to affect badly to your baby...i try to stay strong and stress free while im still carrying my baby in my womb..im going to live happily for the sake of my baby👶👶🙏
I have had severe stress and anxiety this entire pregnancy, from people breaking into my home and stealing and breaking items, to relationship issues, moving, my truck getting wrecked, crazy infestations inside the home I had to rent that brought hazards to our health, my toddler having a lot of hard days, and stress with the pregnancy alone. It has been none stop. I wish I could relax 😔
Ladies if you are prego and your man is putting you in stress you should try to ignore him stressing you out because he might not know stressing a pergo woman is bad because it can kill the baby so like if your at home with him maybe just leave home or something go out some place hangout with your friends and maybe talk to them about what he did to stress you out never let a man get to you like made you mad depressed sad or anything like that just dont worrie about it🙏☺
I lost a baby in 2019 with 17 weeks and I am sure it was because I had a high level of stress. Now I’m pregnant again and I’m with almost 9 weeks. Today I got in a fight with my husband and my level of stress was really really high. I am afraid to lose my baby again or this stress can affect my baby in some way. I don’t know what to do because I argue with my husband all the time and he doesn’t help either, because it’s him that cause me stress. I don’t know how can I have a fake happiness, it’s so hard even to think about.
I was 5 weeks pregnant when my father was very sick and I visiting him every day at the hospital and than he passed away. My daughter was born healthy and happy she's know five now. Also my gynaecologist said that my stress doesn't effect the baby . I was surprised at that but in my cause it was true.
i had a miscarriage at 26 weeks was going through a horrible relationship i would cry everyday and was under so much stress! they told me it was because of circulation it all makes sense now 😢
Am 5 weeks pregnant and have been stressed about work related issues.. I have tried to calm myself and I can’t seem to overcome. Lord please protect my unborn baby.
Lost my son recently to a stillbirth at 35 weeks and i couldn't understand why because i made sure i did everything every dr appt was good we were both healthy but i thought about this and during this pregnancy i was stressed alot dealing with my jobs, father of my child, and other issues who knew that so much stress can be harmful to your baby i wish i could have tried harder not to be stressed
iambackwithabang I hope and pray you have been able to pick your self up and remain strong through your pregnancy-my first of 3 was very stressful and I did better with the second and third kids-stay strong
May the Lord be with us. I'm in s situation where the guy is trying to marry me for custody. I'm treated like shit n plan to cut off contact for all his rude behavior during my 1st and 2nd tri. He knew the dangers and stressed me anyways. How will he care for the baby if he doesn't care while I'm pregnant now
thanks for sharing this video. i too am going through with a stressful pregnancy due to my husband's abusive words and very bad behaviour. i am 5 moths pregnant. i am not able to control my anger and my emotions and start screaming. now i am very much worried for my unborn child. i want my child to be a happy and healthy child. pls advise. thanks..
I am in the same boat now as what you were one year ago. I am 5 months pregnant and my partner is very nasty with his mouth and controlling. He winds me up to the point where I am screaming so hard my head feels it will explode from pressure. I get stars in my eyes and feel dizzy and my heart rate is off the scale along with a red face. He stresses me out more than I can even explain and now I'm terrified my baby is damaged. Did your baby turn out okay?
I am 14 weeks pregnant and I came upon this videos because I was searching for answers. If maybe I’m the one going crazy for feeling stressed like I was feeling guilty because my partner has a son who is a toddler still and he brings him around since he was small not often but the problem use to be that he would leave all the responsibilities on me when it was mostly his to watch him since he brings to spend time with hiM. Also I have a preteen and a little girl a year younger then his son. He doesn’t understand that having 2 small kids is hard mostly because my daughter is showing signs of adhd and it’s so hard to keep her calm she can’t control her temper or energy but I’m use to it she is mine baby. So we got in arguments before so he could be more involved and so ok he did now I’m pregnant and we planned it and I have been sooo sleepy I can’t help it😞 but my son is older and such a good boy he helps me with his sister a lot. And he understands what going on he is so mature. Anyways my partner brought his son again and I have nothing against it at all, but I told him if he will have time for him fine because now I can’t give him the attention he deserves and it’s stressful becUse he is not mine and he has different attitudes plus he is toddler and they fight he hurts my daughter and it’s just too much. 😞 I don’t want to be mean but he is barely here for the boy because he works other times he don’t work a lot and I told him to bring him at those days so it’s not so much for me, but he gets mad at me and tells me that if I don’t like it that he prefers to be alone or that IM in a bad mood every day because of the boy and i am not mad. I’m sad that he is not thinking about me and he says things that makes me feel guilty for asking him to bring his son when he has his days off to help me 😞. He don’t understand that he is hurting our relationship by not trying to make a good plan for us so that he can also be more time with him. 😞 I been so stressed and sad I even get headaches and I’m starting to even loose my appetite because I’m also feeling like now I’m a bad person. 😞 I just want to enjoy my pregnancy😞
I have suffered from depression, withdrawal, hostility since I was 8. When I was 50, discovered, I discovered that my birthmother (I am adopted) was raped.
I have CPTSD which has been so much better just before I got pregnant compared to the last couple of years as I started therapy in April until just before I got pregnant after trying for many years. Im 7 weeks and my mom who I am no contact with still does pop into my head from time to time and the things she did but when I start feeling emotional I try really try and block them or work through them now rationally and see what happened for what it truly was. My mother’s borderline personality disorder. So I am calm most of the time but it’s my thoughts that I’m mostly concerned about. Can they have an affect on the babies development?? It’s really hard not to be still triggered from time to time and I feel awful that it will have an effect on my baby when I don’t want my baby to experience anything I went through.
Can a woman on antidepressants medication plan pregnancy? And its effects on baby? Please do talk on this topic. There is no much information provided regarding this.
Thank you very much, from now on im going to do alot of fun things that brings me joy. Its going to be hard but as you say.. fake it till you make it. Thank you!
I went through a home invasion during my 6 th month of pregnancy. I felt my baby fighting back my tummy was hard like a rock. The baby didn’t want me hurt. After a few days the baby relaxed and everything was fine. But my child is different
28 week pregnant! I earn by myself and pay my medical bills. I run my parents family and my husband also take money from me every month. My In-laws says that my husband is an addict! Really don't know what to do!!
I think you are a very brave girl and someone who should really be admired. Unfortunately you are married to the wrong person. You would be better off on your own as your husband would probably not be a good father and a bad example for your child. I am sorry to be so blunt but I have been dealing with similar situations for over 45 years now.
@@DrJMansoor Sir Thank you for your support But I'm not sure because he never misbehaved with me nor he admitted that he take any kind of substance. I don't know what he does with his salary...and I'm not sure about my future. I just hope for the best.
I am 8 month pregnent My whole pregnancy journey was stressfull my husbend always gives me stress ...regarding financial stree He is not given priority to me and the baby He gives priority to his family He buyed house for his family paying EMI 40,000 PM so now he dont have money for his baby He is treating me very badly Now i am feeling so stressful I really dont like to live i want to end up my life .... Its my lovemarriage therefore i cant take help from my parents .... If some can do my counciling plz do help me😭
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This video brought back a lot of sad memories, had a stressful pregnancy with my entire 9months with my first Buh she didn’t make it, she was a stillbirth😭😭😭...
Yeah but the society doesn't understand that pregnant women need special care, specially pregnant wpmen who work.. People just don't care about others anymore, everyone is busy minding their own business
I m 6 months pregnant.i have a 6 year old daughter sometimes it s so difficult to handle her.she doesnt listen to me and do this and that which make me so angry.all the time i shout at her it makes me so uncomfortable. My husband work far away comes only two days per week when he s there i feel happy but after his going i struggle with my daughter.i cry at night sometimes without knowing the reason.i cry loudly looking at my first daughter thinking why you dont obey me.after that i feel like vomiting its like foods are gathering near my throat.i dont know wht to do.im alone and 6 months pregnant with my son.is this a kind of any symptom of depression??? What should i do now.
Thank you for this video. It would make sense that higher levels of cortisol and adrenaline would cause problems but the behaviors of a stressed out mother may have a lot to do with the outcome as well. Stessed-out mothers are more likely to miss prenatal appointments, eat poorly, drink alcohol or use other teratogens. What are your thoughts?
What if your a teacher and stress is just inevitable. Any tips? I cry almost everyday. I’m trying to start working out like I did before in hopes that this helps.
Every little thing freaks me out, I stress a lot for no good reason and I put it all on my husband, he gets upset and starts hitting some hurtful words to me,it makes me feel like am gonna die, am 15weeks preggo.😶😶😶
Magie Rosado the same happens with me... don't worry dear... everything gonna be okay..god will help us...we just have innocent emotions..there is nothing wrong to have such emotions.....god is with us....
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Hello doc , i crossed worse mental torture from my husband n his family. Now my son is 6 months old if im taking care of him well is it possible to make him healthy baby for upcoming years as he grows???
How early in pregnancy can stress start to effect the baby?? I am very stressed out and fighting and yelling with my husband everyday.. I think i am about 6 weeks i will find out for sure from ultrasound on saturday but i just wanted to know how early in the pregnancy can stress start to effect my baby? Please help me.
dr.. i had a few weeks of really awful sickness at the point it really got me down and upset. its calmed down now at 18 weeks... will my baby be ok?i am resting for a few weeks before going back to work which is a stressful job itself (mental health).
Hi, I have a question. I am 1 month and 14 days pregnant. Tonight I had a big fight and stress with my husband. It was like I couldn't breath. I am so sad because I do not know how bad it was for my baby, could you please let me know what can I do for it. I can not forgive myself
Relax a one of such experience will not do your baby any harm but take it as a lesson for the remainder of your pregnancy. These should be very happy and exciting times for you and your husband.
@@DrJMansoor Dr... I was stressed for 4 days and I was not able to sleep because of my tension and my heart rate was high i could even hear it.... But my bp was normal..... I am very afraid that whether my cortisol level affected my baby.... So much tensed Dr.... Please reply
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I am 23weeks n I had puppps rash already...suggest me some good medicine or kind of home remedies which can relief me...I couldn't sleep overnight!!..thankyou doctor
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I am sorry for you ladies. I notice the main complaint about stress during pregnancy for most women is a husband who is either not caring/loving, unfaithful, etc. I am a guy myself and husband to a beautiful caring loving happy go lucky but fragile, worrisome wife carrying my 15 week old child. I am rarely at home because i am trying to take care of our finances so that i provide for my growing family. However, it seems i need to take a step back instead of a step forward so that she can enjoy this pregnancy stress free with my participation in terms of just being there for her. She has cried because i have complained about things not being done at home which seem so selfish i admit. I am coming to realize i need to change for the better i am better than this and i would not forgive myself if i mess this up, neither will she ever forgive me. Wish me luck as i do for you all!
My pregnancy ma attamma chala torcher 8 th month nela rojulu food pettale em pettale kaduputo unte tinoddani n tablets dachi pettindi vamting ayyedi kadupulo timpi food leka ekkada padite akkade padipoyedanni ma Amma daggariki vellanivvska lopala vesi lock vesindi pn gunjukundi ee situation evvariki ravaddu ippudu babuku mental health bagaledu
If all men think like you do.
God bless you
Exactly...am pregnant its now 33weeks of baby girl but my husband is stressing me a lot ..flirting with other girls outside in the hotels...l pray l get better
My pregnancy was stressful for the entire 9 months. Believe me, there are strong correlations between stress and the wellbeing of the child. Just remember there is no reason to be stressed when something is out of your control.
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Infant Stimuli is a right brain-based education system for accelerated mental, physical, and emotional development in children from birth through to the first three years of life.
Did you baby come out healthy ?
Is ur baby healthy ?
Same here it's been 4 months and i am in severe depression and stress .i am so worried about my bby
@@neelamyadav9944
Please I am advice out of my own experience, I had a very bad experience in marriage and pregnant 🤰, it affected my daughter up to now, she has very difficult behavioural issues, worse is that she can be moody and crying for even 2 days or more and rude to everyone out of reason. The pregnancy was very difficult and even giving birth was very bad and very worrying. Please try to look for ways to escape from the stress Please. From the day of finding out l was pregnant up to now over 13 years I am still struggling with the stress of my daughter 😫 😩 bad behaviour plus she never got to see her father as l left him while still heavily pregnant.
Please don't stress don't stress yourself out please
i lost my son in a stillbirth at 24 weeks and 6 days due to stress and arguments!! now pregnant 1 year later 7 weeks 1 day today and doing everything i can to stay stress free !!!! Amen
M.A. Showcase don't worry sister...may ALLAH bless you and your child more peace... aameen
Sam Dee you will rot for your level of disrespect.. lack of knowledge and unnecessary hatred. come out of your cukoo blinded by the media.
Sam Dee b in ur limits & shut ur mouth
Mommy&Isaiah Vlogs hope you and your baby are doing okay x
I'm really scared I have had a very stressful pregnancy, being upset and very angry arguing with my partner when he is not being nice. I'm 21 weeks and really believe I have done some damage
When you suffer from severe depression/anxiety you can NEVER "fake it to make it"
“Here’s all the ways that being stressed out can mess up your baby…now don’t stress about it!” How incredibly unhelpful.
My boyfriend is emotionally abusive as well. I lost my baby at 7 months, I blame me and not him because he can be replaced but my daughter cannot. I am mad at me not being mad at him, his lack of support financially and emotionally . Work stressed me too. Felicita ure mine and we belong together for all eternity
Feel the same way here. He really wanted to have baby now I am 6 wks pregnant now we went shooping whe we are at the cashier he is too far so I said it's ok I got this. Then when we get home I paid for his ticket for no seatbelt I don't recieve ty. After a while when he was looking for something that he cannot find he blame and saying the wors "F" now I am stress since yesterday. Make me feel weak, lazy not doing more, lost of appetite. Sometimes I wanna leave but don't have enough courage yet to leave. Hope I can make it to leave soon. Coz he was planning to have another baby but he cant pay for baby stuff geez!!! Oh God strengthen us who feel the same way as I do. Ty
@@glendagirlvlogs3019 Take it from me sweetheart. you know the term don't sweat the small stuff, it is true. Try as best as you can to think positive at all times and empty your self of all negativity. Your health and that of your unborn child is far too important to worry about things and him. With my first child I fought and although things were stressful i ignored them and she was born healthy and then after i suffered post natal depression. So get a support group online, eat healthy think healthy be healthy. All the best to you mother you are carrying life. You are stronger than you think God will see us through
@@nattyj8162 thanx for your words of wisdom it gives me courage that I can go on live with a smile every day. Somehow there is somebody like you willing to listen and not to judge. I deeply appreciate you, I felt that you care. God blessed!!
Listen to anything Laura Doyle! She’s on RUclips, podcast, and has a few great relationship books “Empowered wife, Surrendered wife, etc” I’d take a listen to her advice even if not married. Also Dr. Laura Schlesinger. On Dr Laura call of the day (podcast & some RUclips videos) she’s a wonderful marriage and family counselor with unmatched dating/family/baby advice!
I’m pregnant now and definitely deal with a bit of stress. It seems from the comments most women do. I watched and spoke to many women who stressed and their babies might have been fussy in the beginning but they are exceptional toddlers and children with no defects or abnormalities. With respect to the doctor it is best to try not to but this is extreme and being pregnant has made me realize how little the medical world actual knows about pregnancy and how much is simply guessing. Pray and do your best all of your babies will be fine. Women have been stressed and pregnant since the beginning of time.
I agree, studies in humans show some potential connections between stress during pregnancy and possible deficiencies later, but it is somewhat conflicting and although there are many theories it is not super coherent. Its also not very scientific to take examples of people somebody knows or to talk about your own experiences and conclude something general from that. Nobody can predict the consequences of stress during pregnancy for every individual. It is not helpful to stress people when there is no clear evidence.
Cool thanks for the advice it’s always nice to get this type of advice from a man. What I’m saying is do the best you can but don’t let this video freak you out because being pregnant can be stressful all by it’s self so do what you can. Also I can and will continue to use my life experience and the experience of others to form my opinions. You may go strictly off of science but I do not. Thank for your advice I guess. For anyone who cares my baby is healthy, clam and happy. I was under some stress I would do what I needed to do to stay calm every now and then I would meditate or whatever I needed at the time and some times that would work. I stand by my statement DO THE BEST YOU CAN AND YOU AND YOUR BABY WILL BE FINE.
Thankyou dear.. I feel very stressed. And your comment give me positive energy
I think so too, I hope so.
Thank you
Thank you for sharing this! It was very helpful and eye opening as I discover how to help my son and how to undo the damage. My son showed signs of fear and behavioral concerns from infancy. He came into this world afraid of everything. He rarely slept, always cried. I didn't understand why he was so afraid, why he couldn't relax. Always jumpy... but the more I am learning about stress the more I realize just how important your mental health is, especially while you are carrying your baby. He spent 8 months in a womb of a mother that was constantly stressed. My son is an example of what Dr. Mansoor says in this video. If you are stressed, please seek help from those around you and find ways to de-stress. Be kind to yourself so you can love your baby and give them the peace that they need to feel safe.
:( i too was born in a stressful environment with my mom while i was in the womb, i think she mentioned my dad would hit her and lemme tell you i was a pretty messed up kid, all my life i wondered why i was so "stupid", and why i wasnt like other children who i see now a days, it was very difficult for me to be normal and especially with a mother who didnt really know how to be a mother was even harder in itself..so now that im pregnant with my first im getting better to understand a part of me i was always ashamed of and embarrassed to talk about. I dont blame my mother or my father though he was the cause of her stress im just happy and thank God to have made it out alive...makes me understand my stress better and control it better and also to break the chain and allow my child a future i never had...I pray that your son may find his light, it will take a lot of patience and a lot of the times it seems like your going back wards then forwards but when he gets older he will understand it all just as i have. I will pray for you and your son, just dont give up on him, pray for a lot strenght and guidance as will i..may God continue to bless your family ..thank you for sharing, it must've been hard to speak of such matter.
Thank you Amy Sue for the nice response. It is unfortunate the things we do to our children as parents; some due to pathology and others due to ignorance, however both equally as damaging. That must be validating now to know that it wasn't you. But certainly does not remove the experience. And in some ways you would never want to remove the experience, because it has made you stronger. At least that is what I have come to from my experiences. It is great you are seeing and researching all of this now before your little one is here. They're lucky to have a good mom who is already showing a great love for her child. Good for you for ending the cycle. It can end. I will say from my own experience, the understanding I have gained of how my childhood has impacted me was not fully realized until I could see my son's behavior (not pretend everything is OK) I finally understood that his behavior was not something to hide but something to embrace; it is in my son that I was able see the true value of knowing the consequences of bad parenting. The importance of being supportive, not succumbing to social norms. Meaning if he is disregulated, social norms would insist you quite him quickly to not disturb others. This invalidates him which makes him feel exactly how you mentioned how you felt. Different from others wondering why and all the other invalidating feelings. By quickly quieting the child is great for others in not disturbing them, but does nothing for your child. The focus should be your child and helping them with their disregualtion and letting them know they are not alone. My son now looks at me and says "I can't calm down" and then he follows with three deep breaths and you can see he is trying to calm himself down. He wants to and he now knows he is not alone. Quieting them shames them, but sitting with them through it is invaluable. He is showing such mental strength at such a young age. I am so proud of him. It breaks my heart to see him struggle, but at the same time I know he will overcome it and these techniques will become second nature to him. Something I am learning now at my age. Reading your post has also reinforced the hope I have and I know he will be just fine. In just the two short months since I posted this, he has made astonishing improvements. I can't be more proud. Each day with them is a learning experience for both of you. If I can offer advice that has helped me, never stop growing. Your little one watches you for everything and is learning from how you handle everything. So it is important to set an example. I used to think that was such a silly thought. But, it is so true. They watch you and mirror you as they learn to navigate this world... so show them the way you want them to navigate it not just tell them. I tried telling my son how to navigate but continued my own behaviors. I didn't see him improve until I adopted my own parenting to myself and changed my behaviors so I could then demonstrated to my son. So again, never stop growing. Even when they get older they look to you for guidance. Such an important role and a blessing. Best of luck to you and thank you again for sharing. And congratulations on the new addition. :)
Stormy Cube same here. I've had nothing but severe stress this whole pregnancy. I am 33wks with a boy. The father and everybody and they mama seem to want to cause me severe undue stress. I try very hard to not dwell on it or allow it to stress me so badly but it's so hard sometimes. I've recently drawn nearer to god which is helping some. Everyone knows what you go through baby goes through so I don't know why ppl would want me to be so stressed
Faking happy works on the outside to fool ppl around u but when ur angry sad or stressed u can't hide that feeling from ur body so that doesn't make sense
No, but you can do things to give yourself a break. Do things you enjoy, be with positive friends/family, have positive thoughts, watch your favorite movies, etc. It does not change the overall situation, but it does give you spurts. So it does make sense.
SR3272 bit so easy when your consumed with depression . Iv had it my entire pregnancy. God knows I've tryed to do better but I just can't .
Not to mention being a single parent, having stressful work environment- mentally and physically - and it's not like you could be picky with your job knowing that you badly need money. I get bad dreams around 3 times a week probably due to stress. I'm so exhausted and can't take a break.
@ Actually, there are SO many studies and brain scans that demonstrate faking a smile activates that part of the brain and prompts that part of the brain, so you start smiling for REAL!!! Every time you take time to breathe, surround yourself in something beautiful, etc...those neurotransmitters are firing properly and thus are helping your baby develop healthy, EVERY single time you engage in relaxation you are providing health to both of you!!!
Yes we can't lie to our bodies!!!:(
I am 19 weeks and my husband cheats on me several times it’s so stressful I am crying as I type this!! I pray God protect my child because I am so stress and I can’t help how I feel!!
All is well mamaa
How are you?
Had my son at 37 weeks 4days. Born 8pounds 6ounces. He is very healthy. I am not too bad now. So happy my son is healthy
@@kikipalmer5040 I am happy for you. Also on my 13 weeks now and depressesd caused by my husbamd and his family. I am so sad and worried at the sams time my baby will be affected with my depression
@@niceonegirl3365 I know how u are feeling. I went through the exact same thing, only that it was with my husband and his side piece. Do u belief in God?? If yes I would suggest that u pray!! That’s what I did to get through my rough times. We can also exchange contact if u want someone to talk to
I am 17 weeks so fairly early and my entire pregnancy has been so hard I've been fighting off my depression and sometimes feel so alone during it all... theres been financial stressors. I had to quit my job, my relationship is rocky and I have almost no family. I LOVE being a mom with all of my heart so it makes me even more stressed that managing stress is so so hard for because all I want is to be supported and excited for the pregnancy.
Same experience here. I hope things get better for you 🥰
I was an unwanted pregnancy, my parents and siblings did not want me. My mother had stress related medical problems during the pregnancy. From birth I had emotional problems which made me even more unwanted. Still paying the price today.
I'm 5 months and I've had depression throughout the whole entire thing so far. I'm just so lost in life I don't know what to do anymore. Theres days I can't even get out of bed, shower and eat. It seems like no one notices and no one cares.
How are you holding up now. Sending prayers and good energy 💕
Did ur baby come out healthy ? Nd how is ur baby now ?
I am 7-8 weeks very early but me and my partner are having really big arguments everyday to the point we are screaming at eachother I keep crying to the point I can hardly breath I'm happy I watched this video now instead of more further into my pregnancy
may I say ur husband is an idiot for not puting an effort to not argue with u especially now and instead console u in this situation now that ur pregnant. he must not care about the outcome of ur pregnancy or u. very selfish. I'm sorry wish u luck to u and ur baby.
Ace Herron ah same I argue with my boyfriend all the time every day and I'm about 10 or more weeks but I'm actually on an extreme level of stress where I'm unconsciously taking it out of myself I tear my life apart till it bleeds sause spilled on my hand and i let it sit there now I have a second degree burn yea my level of stress is pretty bad and he makes it worse sometimes by doing these here's and there my confidence is low and my confidence in him dropped 6 ft under to the point where I honestly don't care if he's cheating or anything I already expect him of that and he's not doing anything I know he's not but I can't help but have little trust because I pick up on the smallest shit and run with it before pregnancy I was already like this but waaayy less it just got worse
This is 2 yrs too late but I am going through exactly the same thing and I am 5 months pregnant. My bf is being vile every day and we end up screaming and shouting and I end up crying and having panic attacks. It happened just tonight as well. I am so scared I have damaged the babies hormones and development
Lucia - - how is your baby?
Me currently, sucks to have to leave for a good while, but my baby is more important.
For the first time i have agreed that stress and depression is a bad thing during pregnancy,I have just lost my six months pregnancy due to stress and depression.from the time i learned that i was pregnant I grew fond of hubby, always wanted to be where he was to the extent of wanting to follow him at his working place.I tried but nothing, even when he's saying the truth I felt like he was just lying.Am still in shock and scared of getting pregnant again because of what i went through.
I totally disagree on this.. babies are resilent. Pregnancy exarcabate stress hormones it does not effect baby.. Stress and anxiety is a part of pregnancy especially if you are pregnant for the first time.. Such kind of videos gives more anxiety to woman who are already facing anxiety. Stop making such videos !!!
R u sure ?
agree dear...allah saves
Exactly, how on earth
He is telling the truth. I see the effects in my grandson.
For the past months my 1st and 2nd trimester werent that good. My live in partner and I argue a lot that it comes to an end of me being hurt physicaly. I have no body to count on he turned my parents away from me. What I only Pray to God everyday is the health of my unborn baby. Im in the beggining of my 3rd trimester and I wish no harm be unto my child. :(
atilrec boliche how are you and baby doing?
Hope you are ok now....
atilrec boliche im going through the same thing right now. My it even worst.
I really appreciate this information and study. My mother witnessed the murder of my father while I was 6 months in utero. I always felt a little off and different when I would look in comparison with my self and other children as I was growing up. I felt a wide spectrum of emotions compared to emotions of the daughter and patient of Dr. Mansoor.
continued: for more clarity “feeling off” in definition to me was not negative...I just different. I was overall a happy child and my mother said o never cried as a baby, so my infancy compared the daughter of his patient
In my culture they always have said not to give a pregnant woman bad news or have her experience strings emotions. That it was bad for the baby. But this video just gave me the science/mechanics behind that. My husband is currently just always out with friends as I'm pregnant with triplets. I cried for a few days but decided to try and stay calm and just ignore him.
I am happy that im pregnant my baby is gift from God,i thought the father of my child is good person but i was wrong i just found it recently that the only reason he is nice to me bcoz he is plotting of taking my baby after i give birth,after i found out about his plan i was really scared I couldn’t sleep thinking what might going to happen to me and my baby it really stress me out..i know that stress is going to affect badly to your baby...i try to stay strong and stress free while im still carrying my baby in my womb..im going to live happily for the sake of my baby👶👶🙏
I have had severe stress and anxiety this entire pregnancy, from people breaking into my home and stealing and breaking items, to relationship issues, moving, my truck getting wrecked, crazy infestations inside the home I had to rent that brought hazards to our health, my toddler having a lot of hard days, and stress with the pregnancy alone. It has been none stop. I wish I could relax 😔
Thank you a lot, this was straight forward and super helpful. It actually made me cry but it was to help me get to a BETTER place. 🙏🏾
Ladies if you are prego and your man is putting you in stress you should try to ignore him stressing you out because he might not know stressing a pergo woman is bad because it can kill the baby so like if your at home with him maybe just leave home or something go out some place hangout with your friends and maybe talk to them about what he did to stress you out never let a man get to you like made you mad depressed sad or anything like that just dont worrie about it🙏☺
I lost a baby in 2019 with 17 weeks and I am sure it was because I had a high level of stress. Now I’m pregnant again and I’m with almost 9 weeks. Today I got in a fight with my husband and my level of stress was really really high. I am afraid to lose my baby again or this stress can affect my baby in some way. I don’t know what to do because I argue with my husband all the time and he doesn’t help either, because it’s him that cause me stress. I don’t know how can I have a fake happiness, it’s so hard even to think about.
Me too love its hard to forgive
I am in the same boat
Hw r u nd ur baby
Thank you for your wisdom.
Very insightful.
We need more Doctors like you in the world.
👏
I was 5 weeks pregnant when my father was very sick and I visiting him every day at the hospital and than he passed away. My daughter was born healthy and happy she's know five now. Also my gynaecologist said that my stress doesn't effect the baby . I was surprised at that but in my cause it was true.
Did u have panic attacks or depression/ anxiety?
i had a miscarriage at 26 weeks was going through a horrible relationship i would cry everyday and was under so much stress! they told me it was because of circulation it all makes sense now 😢
I am scared i might lose mines too.
I am so stress and cry everyday 😭💔
Am 5 weeks pregnant and have been stressed about work related issues.. I have tried to calm myself and I can’t seem to overcome. Lord please protect my unborn baby.
Lost my son recently to a stillbirth at 35 weeks and i couldn't understand why because i made sure i did everything every dr appt was good we were both healthy but i thought about this and during this pregnancy i was stressed alot dealing with my jobs, father of my child, and other issues who knew that so much stress can be harmful to your baby i wish i could have tried harder not to be stressed
my poor baby....my husband left me....i am 24 weeks into the pregnancy ....and i am always crying and always stressed thinking abt the future :(
Awww Im sorry to hear that, Im kind of in the same place as u. I wish you the best.
im absolutely in the same situation and cant seem to get out of it
iambackwithabang I hope and pray you have been able to pick your self up and remain strong through your pregnancy-my first of 3 was very stressful and I did better with the second and third kids-stay strong
Better to divert our minds in praying and avoid thinking about the problem.
May the Lord be with us. I'm in s situation where the guy is trying to marry me for custody. I'm treated like shit n plan to cut off contact for all his rude behavior during my 1st and 2nd tri. He knew the dangers and stressed me anyways. How will he care for the baby if he doesn't care while I'm pregnant now
I feel more stressed after watching this video 😔
thanks for sharing this video. i too am going through with a stressful pregnancy due to my husband's abusive words and very bad behaviour. i am 5 moths pregnant. i am not able to control my anger and my emotions and start screaming. now i am very much worried for my unborn child. i want my child to be a happy and healthy child. pls advise. thanks..
I am in the same boat now as what you were one year ago. I am 5 months pregnant and my partner is very nasty with his mouth and controlling. He winds me up to the point where I am screaming so hard my head feels it will explode from pressure. I get stars in my eyes and feel dizzy and my heart rate is off the scale along with a red face. He stresses me out more than I can even explain and now I'm terrified my baby is damaged. Did your baby turn out okay?
Katie Compton did your baby turn out okay?
I am 14 weeks pregnant and I came upon this videos because I was searching for answers. If maybe I’m the one going crazy for feeling stressed like I was feeling guilty because my partner has a son who is a toddler still and he brings him around since he was small not often but the problem use to be that he would leave all the responsibilities on me when it was mostly his to watch him since he brings to spend time with hiM. Also I have a preteen and a little girl a year younger then his son. He doesn’t understand that having 2 small kids is hard mostly because my daughter is showing signs of adhd and it’s so hard to keep her calm she can’t control her temper or energy but I’m use to it she is mine baby. So we got in arguments before so he could be more involved and so ok he did now I’m pregnant and we planned it and I have been sooo sleepy I can’t help it😞 but my son is older and such a good boy he helps me with his sister a lot. And he understands what going on he is so mature. Anyways my partner brought his son again and I have nothing against it at all, but I told him if he will have time for him fine because now I can’t give him the attention he deserves and it’s stressful becUse he is not mine and he has different attitudes plus he is toddler and they fight he hurts my daughter and it’s just too much. 😞 I don’t want to be mean but he is barely here for the boy because he works other times he don’t work a lot and I told him to bring him at those days so it’s not so much for me, but he gets mad at me and tells me that if I don’t like it that he prefers to be alone or that IM in a bad mood every day because of the boy and i am not mad. I’m sad that he is not thinking about me and he says things that makes me feel guilty for asking him to bring his son when he has his days off to help me 😞. He don’t understand that he is hurting our relationship by not trying to make a good plan for us so that he can also be more time with him. 😞 I been so stressed and sad I even get headaches and I’m starting to even loose my appetite because I’m also feeling like now I’m a bad person. 😞 I just want to enjoy my pregnancy😞
Am twenty weeks pregnant n my bf left me for another girl I cry so much n angry sometime I feel lik committing suicide because of anger
delicia manget sweety I am sorry you went through that. Forget him
Pls don't he wasn't worth for you, just concentrate on your baby.
Hope you and your baby are doing okay. X
We have the same situation..
you will meet a better more worthy mate, focus on you and your baby
So upsetting I've had such a stressful pregnancy although I am so excited & hoping it hasn't affected her!!
Amber Mae is your daughter okay? I hope you and her are happy
Pls reply me it is not affected ur baby ???becoz I m going through stressful pregnancy
@@safisaina5991 is your baby ok?
I have suffered from depression, withdrawal, hostility since I was 8. When I was 50, discovered, I discovered that my birthmother (I am adopted) was raped.
My current partner is this way stressful maybe his mom had a stressful pregnancy
Its sad hes putting me through a stressful pregnancy
I have CPTSD which has been so much better just before I got pregnant compared to the last couple of years as I started therapy in April until just before I got pregnant after trying for many years. Im 7 weeks and my mom who I am no contact with still does pop into my head from time to time and the things she did but when I start feeling emotional I try really try and block them or work through them now rationally and see what happened for what it truly was. My mother’s borderline personality disorder. So I am calm most of the time but it’s my thoughts that I’m mostly concerned about. Can they have an affect on the babies development??
It’s really hard not to be still triggered from time to time and I feel awful that it will have an effect on my baby when I don’t want my baby to experience anything I went through.
Can a woman on antidepressants medication plan pregnancy? And its effects on baby? Please do talk on this topic. There is no much information provided regarding this.
Thanks for sharing! Sheesh! I need to be #happier these days! Easier said the done, but like you said, "#Fake it til you make it"!
This was enlightening, thank you so so much. This also makes me very much worried and also angry.
Thank you very much, from now on im going to do alot of fun things that brings me joy. Its going to be hard but as you say.. fake it till you make it. Thank you!
I went through a home invasion during my 6 th month of pregnancy. I felt my baby fighting back my tummy was hard like a rock. The baby didn’t want me hurt. After a few days the baby relaxed and everything was fine. But my child is different
Different is mean mam
@@dhanashribobade2202 no
28 week pregnant! I earn by myself and pay my medical bills. I run my parents family and my husband also take money from me every month.
My In-laws says that my husband is an addict!
Really don't know what to do!!
I think you are a very brave girl and someone who should really be admired. Unfortunately you are married to the wrong person. You would be better off on your own as your husband would probably not be a good father and a bad example for your child. I am sorry to be so blunt but I have been dealing with similar situations for over 45 years now.
@@DrJMansoor Sir Thank you for your support
But I'm not sure because he never misbehaved with me nor he admitted that he take any kind of substance. I don't know what he does with his salary...and I'm not sure about my future.
I just hope for the best.
Lol that's the cure? "Fake it"? Nice job.
I am 8 month pregnent
My whole pregnancy journey was stressfull my husbend always gives me stress ...regarding financial stree
He is not given priority to me and the baby
He gives priority to his family
He buyed house for his family paying EMI 40,000 PM so now he dont have money for his baby
He is treating me very badly
Now i am feeling so stressful
I really dont like to live i want to end up my life .... Its my lovemarriage therefore i cant take help from my parents ....
If some can do my counciling plz do help me😭
How are you feeling? Im 7 months right now. I been dealing with stress also. I'm here to listen and offer my best advice 🤰💜
How is ur babay
I wish I had new about this before ..
Batul Chhatariya Me too..
Me too... Going through a very stressful time and more importantly can't even share it with anyone, neither my partner or my family.
Me too 😭😭
thank you doctor
Can shouting and yelling in early pregnancy harm my baby ?
Thank you for this valuable information
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This video brought back a lot of sad memories, had a stressful pregnancy with my entire 9months with my first Buh she didn’t make it, she was a stillbirth😭😭😭...
I’m so sorry
Thank you guys🙏🏽
Yeah but the society doesn't understand that pregnant women need special care, specially pregnant wpmen who work.. People just don't care about others anymore, everyone is busy minding their own business
I m 6 months pregnant.i have a 6 year old daughter sometimes it s so difficult to handle her.she doesnt listen to me and do this and that which make me so angry.all the time i shout at her it makes me so uncomfortable. My husband work far away comes only two days per week when he s there i feel happy but after his going i struggle with my daughter.i cry at night sometimes without knowing the reason.i cry loudly looking at my first daughter thinking why you dont obey me.after that i feel like vomiting its like foods are gathering near my throat.i dont know wht to do.im alone and 6 months pregnant with my son.is this a kind of any symptom of depression??? What should i do now.
Thank you for this video. It would make sense that higher levels of cortisol and adrenaline would cause problems but the behaviors of a stressed out mother may have a lot to do with the outcome as well. Stessed-out mothers are more likely to miss prenatal appointments, eat poorly, drink alcohol or use other teratogens. What are your thoughts?
I m stressed I m 17weeks pregnant and my baby father is in jail for the next 2 years.BT I l pick my self up.God Neva fails.
What if your a teacher and stress is just inevitable. Any tips? I cry almost everyday. I’m trying to start working out like I did before in hopes that this helps.
Did he really say fake it til you make it?
thank you doc!
Every little thing freaks me out, I stress a lot for no good reason and I put it all on my husband, he gets upset and starts hitting some hurtful words to me,it makes me feel like am gonna die, am 15weeks preggo.😶😶😶
Magie Rosado the same happens with me... don't worry dear... everything gonna be okay..god will help us...we just have innocent emotions..there is nothing wrong to have such emotions.....god is with us....
:'( my poor baby :'(
Same here :(
My poor child too:(
I know 😿😿
Mystic Gypsy did your baby come out healthy?
You are very good thank you for posting
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Why my baby has long bones lagging 2weeks of gestational age in 18 week what is reason behind it
Stressful pregnancy is there any effect to the baby..... Suggest...
Hello doc , i crossed worse mental torture from my husband n his family. Now my son is 6 months old if im taking care of him well is it possible to make him healthy baby for upcoming years as he grows???
This is very true
Thank you for this important information :)
How to treat acid reflux in pregnancy? Can we use medicine?
When does this start to accept the baby? 7 weeks?
How early in pregnancy can stress start to effect the baby?? I am very stressed out and fighting and yelling with my husband everyday.. I think i am about 6 weeks i will find out for sure from ultrasound on saturday but i just wanted to know how early in the pregnancy can stress start to effect my baby? Please help me.
What about your baby health now.is it ok?
Not having sex at all during pregnancy, will it have any effect on the baby or during the labour
dr.. i had a few weeks of really awful sickness at the point it really got me down and upset. its calmed down now at 18 weeks... will my baby be ok?i am resting for a few weeks before going back to work which is a stressful job itself (mental health).
Hey am also stressed smthng is bothering me an I don't know what to do
Hi dr fibroid can cause a miscarriage in a second trimestre plz if it is a 13 cm thx
Can loud music cause deafness to 17 weeks old unborn baby?
No
Fake it to make it ,that was inspiring
Nothing that can't be fixed by comedy all over social media, youtube, Netflix etc.
Hi, I have a question. I am 1 month and 14 days pregnant. Tonight I had a big fight and stress with my husband. It was like I couldn't breath. I am so sad because I do not know how bad it was for my baby, could you please let me know what can I do for it. I can not forgive myself
Relax a one of such experience will not do your baby any harm but take it as a lesson for the remainder of your pregnancy. These should be very happy and exciting times for you and your husband.
@@DrJMansoor sure, thank you so much.
@@DrJMansoor Dr... I was stressed for 4 days and I was not able to sleep because of my tension and my heart rate was high i could even hear it.... But my bp was normal..... I am very afraid that whether my cortisol level affected my baby.... So much tensed Dr.... Please reply
Helpfull video
so imformative - Thanks you doctor
Thank you Doc ⚘
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I gonna start new job on monday i hope i dont get stressed
I am 23weeks n I had puppps rash already...suggest me some good medicine or kind of home remedies which can relief me...I couldn't sleep overnight!!..thankyou doctor
You must speak to your gynecologist before taking any medication during pregnancy
The audio is poor
Thank you doc. Need to start watching comedy movies for my baby...
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Doctor please give some information about high bp during last trimester and some tips to reduce the high bp level
Thank you sir for this video
Fake it for the baby 🤔
Yes fake it n make it
Thank you
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