6 Charming Habits That Make Everyone Around You Feel Great

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    Hugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets. After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you.
    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
    0:00 - Intro.
    0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous.
    2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive.
    4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness.
    5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them.
    6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories.
    7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special.
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  • @XIANC
    @XIANC 3 года назад +12012

    Whenever I watch their videos, I feel like I'm studying how to act like a human being lmao

    • @mrEbraheem
      @mrEbraheem 3 года назад +474

      We robots try so hard honestly. 🤭

    • @LordU777
      @LordU777 3 года назад +77

      Ibrahim Bahakim I’m reading your comment in a robotic voice😂

    • @danmoreta
      @danmoreta 3 года назад +26

      A great human being💯

    • @matthewse6601
      @matthewse6601 3 года назад +18

      I know right 😂😂😂

    • @usefloss
      @usefloss 3 года назад +61

      yes same *makes unrealistically long eye contact *

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 года назад +5805

    “Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.”
    ― Dale Carnegie

    • @dynestis2875
      @dynestis2875 3 года назад +193

      Would you shut the hell up?
      - Random stranger

    • @m4rvelousboy
      @m4rvelousboy 3 года назад +79

      I don't like when someone talk about me, cuz I hate myself, it irritates me...

    • @greyalien4944
      @greyalien4944 3 года назад +232

      @@m4rvelousboy The problem is that you hate yourself, not that someone is talking about you...

    • @SNinjaQK
      @SNinjaQK 3 года назад +15

      how to win friends?

    • @robertcronin6603
      @robertcronin6603 3 года назад

      True

  • @josueh5831
    @josueh5831 3 года назад +2385

    As a reptilian working for the US government, this video really helped me out! Thank you!

  • @HoodieProduction
    @HoodieProduction 3 года назад +760

    To summarize every charismatic person ever, they use their social proficiency to elevate everyone around them instead of themselves. The key to charming others is to let them charm you.

    • @OHYS
      @OHYS 3 года назад +37

      I think this comment is actually extremely helpful

    • @mrose4132
      @mrose4132 3 года назад +26

      Yeah, having charisma and charm are about others, not you.

    • @zacharylakenan9362
      @zacharylakenan9362 3 года назад +7

      @@mrose4132 I dont necessarily agree because most people follow your cues rather than set ones for you to follow. You cant just say that you cant be charimastic if the right people arent around to give you the vibes you need.

    • @radleyknutson1347
      @radleyknutson1347 3 года назад +1

      underrated comment

    • @ajalipio1
      @ajalipio1 2 года назад +1

      VERY TRUE

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol 3 года назад +2742

    No one is born confident. We all learn how to get more confident. If you have social anxiety, don't let that stop you. Focus one step at a time and eventually you'll become confident. ❤️

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 3 года назад +11

      And btw thank you for inspiring me to create similar self development videos! You're one of the most genuine person on RUclips and what I love about your videos is that you apply what you teach us 🙌🏼

    • @aminahshahid8878
      @aminahshahid8878 3 года назад +93

      It's actually the opposite, all the humans are born confident but they learn whether to stay confident or not depending upon their environment

    • @ashleyh.6342
      @ashleyh.6342 3 года назад

      Co chi c c hg.

    • @sudhirchandra9790
      @sudhirchandra9790 3 года назад

      I love you Paul 😘😘

    • @luisterrust
      @luisterrust 3 года назад +9

      We are born with high self esteem but on the way most of us lose that. Confidence is something you develop over yime

  • @JoeySutch
    @JoeySutch 3 года назад +1349

    Being contagiously positive...I think we all know these people and it’s dope. Encourage others!

    • @lighto2240
      @lighto2240 3 года назад +8

      Seeing your comment has 99 likes it was too tempting to like it and be the 100th without even reading it

    • @JoeySutch
      @JoeySutch 3 года назад

      Lighto 😂😂😂 lets go

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 3 года назад +5

      Enthusiasm is indeed contagious!

    • @borismcgillicutty3042
      @borismcgillicutty3042 3 года назад +13

      Dope, yes.....most are doing cocaine or amphetamines. Especially sales people......that talking powder will make you ooze confidence.

    • @lexiemaep7930
      @lexiemaep7930 3 года назад +8

      Unless you're me and you work around depressed engineers lol

  • @amritas2400
    @amritas2400 3 года назад +1168

    Hugh was a teacher before he became an actor. His old students can tell their kids that they were trained by Wolverine.

    • @amritas2400
      @amritas2400 3 года назад +6

      @LagiNaLangAko23 Yeah! I've watched it. He's great.

    • @amritas2400
      @amritas2400 3 года назад +4

      @LagiNaLangAko23 Apparently that video is where I copied this comment from XD

    • @sweney7103
      @sweney7103 3 года назад +26

      there is a video of Hugh recognising one of his students during an interview

    • @FARID1870
      @FARID1870 3 года назад +8

      And he could remember some of their names too

    • @WandaMaximoff1998
      @WandaMaximoff1998 3 года назад +2

      @@sweney7103 really? Do you have the link, I’d really like to see that! :D

  • @marshwiggle8364
    @marshwiggle8364 3 года назад +638

    2 rules to charm anyone:
    1. Be Hugh Jackman
    2. Follow rule 1

    • @davidlucey1311
      @davidlucey1311 3 года назад +1

      Marshwiggle do the best you can with what you have.

    • @yusri2088
      @yusri2088 3 года назад +1

      I cant😂

    • @JimmyBoosterCrate
      @JimmyBoosterCrate 3 года назад +12

      Well, he wasn't always the famous Hugh Jackman. His coolness is what made him get where he is, not the opposite.

    • @achinthyasmediaprojects3209
      @achinthyasmediaprojects3209 3 года назад +1

      In a way, aReN't We AlL hUgH jAckMaN??

    • @andrewmoncada2905
      @andrewmoncada2905 3 года назад +1

      Be interested in others, then you will be the most interesting person.

  • @darkmadhavsharma
    @darkmadhavsharma 3 года назад +2305

    1) Reframe the situation: Instead of you wanting the thing/opportunity/person, consider thinking how that thing is suitable for you, ask questions which'll make you calm and confident.
    2) Be positive: Big smile, open gestures, give compliments and laugh a lot
    3) Admit Emotions: Being positive and happy is all important but life includes many other emotions like nervousness, anxiety, sadness. And you must be open to share emotions which is attractive because other people can relate to you and consider you as their own.
    4) Own your flaws: Related to the 3rd point. Owning your flaws shows others that you are also not perfect and have the courage to own your flaws/mistakes, which is a really attractive quality.
    5) Tell sticky stories: Consider the hook and grab strategy. Start your story with something that draws the attention of others and then continue the story.
    6) Make others feel special: Give genuine and honest compliments. Hold strong eyes contact. Smile. Open gestures.
    Have a great day!

    • @lauravincent6935
      @lauravincent6935 3 года назад +22

      thank u so much bruh...

    • @D0wNhiLL
      @D0wNhiLL 3 года назад +12

      Thanks you deserve medal!

    • @YoYo73
      @YoYo73 3 года назад +3

      Thank you so much.

    • @tomm12307
      @tomm12307 3 года назад +4

      Great stuff! You wrote 5 twice btw

    • @marcusluong4586
      @marcusluong4586 3 года назад +19

      7) Summarize the points so that lazy folks don't have to watch the whole damn video. Like you! :)))

  • @NarangaravZorigt
    @NarangaravZorigt 3 года назад +545

    *Be interested in others, **_then_** you will be the most interesting person.*

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 года назад +678

    “You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.”
    ― Bob Marley

    • @dynestis2875
      @dynestis2875 3 года назад +13

      Would you shut the hell up?
      - Random stranger

    • @uqizbuqi3069
      @uqizbuqi3069 3 года назад +1

      @@dynestis2875 Bob Marley

    • @uqizbuqi3069
      @uqizbuqi3069 3 года назад +5

      @@dynestis2875 Bob Marley
      -me

    • @LazyRare
      @LazyRare 3 года назад +1

      B3ka z typa
      Me
      -bob marley

  • @zzanatos2001
    @zzanatos2001 3 года назад +410

    As a teacher, I've been doing many of these automatically just by speaking from the heart, being open and honest, actually taking an interest in other people, and not being too afraid to look silly. These things help you connect with others. If you try too hard to be formal and look perfect, you come across as cold and robotic - then people will think you are weird or evasive.
    During my last job interview I was sharing a very emotional story about how I connected with a disabled student and helped her to create a wonderful project. While I was telling the story, my voice cracked a couple times and I had to fight back tears. They hired me on the spot. In fact, they almost begged me to please take the job.

    • @v6953
      @v6953 3 года назад +4

      Nice! In what department ?

    • @zzanatos2001
      @zzanatos2001 3 года назад +22

      @@v6953 I've been teaching business and technology/multimedia courses for 9 years (video production, 3D animation, technical drafting, web design, game design, etc.). This year I'm teaching a new course called Social Entrepreneurship where students identify problems and come up with creative solutions. Once they finish my course, they move into a level 2 class where they build prototypes, create TEDx presentations, etc.

    • @theirishfairy6281
      @theirishfairy6281 3 года назад +11

      Zachary Zarko how do you know if someone is a teacher??!! They tell you, so so quickly 😂

    • @DarkDragonSlayerAQW
      @DarkDragonSlayerAQW 3 года назад +5

      thats called emotional manipulation... but obviously it wasnt on purpose, congrats on getting the job

    • @-AxisA-
      @-AxisA- 2 года назад

      @@DarkDragonSlayerAQW No it is not emotional manipulation, as it was sincere. Manipulation implies you conciously intent do it.

  • @ahdafnaik1333
    @ahdafnaik1333 3 года назад +709

    Confidence in a nutshell: Be open with your emotions and improve your people skill.

    • @MosesPlays
      @MosesPlays 3 года назад +15

      It is fun watching these videos and be swept away by the wonderful personallities of the people they choose to depict.
      But basically what all of those videos are saying is: BE LIKE THAT GUY.
      Kinda hard being like that guy when you're not. Human nature,fast thinking,and charisma are natural born,cannot be taught.
      You can't be funny if you're not. Some people got it and some people don't. Just like your hair and eye color,and your hight or intelligence.
      I can confidently say that after watching about 50-60 of the most recent videos in this channel,my people skills have not improved one bit.
      Lovely channel nonetheless. And hey,if this helps you,than that's just great.
      If anything,pointing out how people act and breaking down their behaviour is a very interesting subject on its own that helps you recognize certain features of people in your own life that have said charisma,humor and commanding presence,and helps you observe with more insight some that may be dishonest or downright fraudulent. So,I'm not saying this channel is without value.
      There's that,outside of the obvious entertaining nature of the videos in this channel.

    • @DanielAAvila-mq5tp
      @DanielAAvila-mq5tp 3 года назад +33

      @@MosesPlays What did you expect? You say all you did was WATCH the videos...this stuff takes LOTS of PRACTICE and contant mistake fixing and adjusting. "Human nature, fast thinking, and charisma are natural born, cannot be taught" Is just a victim's way of saying "I do not have the drive to actually learn these things." With that mindset you will be stuck where you are forever. These videos helped me a ton, not because I simply watched them but because I took them to heart and still to this day make conscious efforts to keep them in mind. What I'm currently working on is making longer eye contact with people in my vulnerable moments.

    • @greyalien4944
      @greyalien4944 3 года назад +8

      ahdaf naik Although being open with your emotions doesn’t actually make you confident. It’s mostly just a byproduct of confidence

    • @ahdafnaik1333
      @ahdafnaik1333 3 года назад +2

      @@greyalien4944 agreed

    • @snapeinvader6208
      @snapeinvader6208 3 года назад

      Case in point Patrice O'Neal

  • @irmo1413
    @irmo1413 3 года назад +407

    my friend is introducing me to her friend group tomorrow, watching this to not be awkward :|
    Update: It went pretty well, we had fun and talked a lot! This video really helped, thanks!!!

    • @LaurenInesRuiz
      @LaurenInesRuiz 3 года назад +16

      It'll be fun!

    • @shashwatpandey8766
      @shashwatpandey8766 3 года назад +5

      Good luck

    • @adityajassal6630
      @adityajassal6630 3 года назад +5

      Good luck

    • @LaurenInesRuiz
      @LaurenInesRuiz 3 года назад +16

      @@Valkyrie12124 I fully agree. I find people take on the attitude of just seeing how it will go, but we have so much power to direct how things will go. And if that seems to hard, we can just aim to have fun and be relaxed, and know that we'll be OK no matter how some date or event goes.

    • @gingermofo
      @gingermofo 3 года назад +12

      You got this mate

  • @mickbethful
    @mickbethful 3 года назад +195

    I love Huge Ackman.

  • @laurenconrad1799
    @laurenconrad1799 3 года назад +170

    Many stage actors have noted that it’s easier to nail an audition if they’re already in the middle of a current job. Having one job already makes seeking the next job feel lower stakes and therefore gives them a confidence which is critical to nailing an acting audition. This definetly applies to other types of situations. Feeling like you can get through it even if you don’t get this job because you have other potential offers or money saved can be huge.

    • @johnnykage3903
      @johnnykage3903 3 года назад +3

      So true. I’ve even found for regular jobs that if you go on one interview you don’t get the job. You go on three interviews, you get offered all three and now you get to pick the one you want.

    • @ilovemyevo556
      @ilovemyevo556 2 года назад +1

      Like Dating.. Hey what are you doing later?

  • @coacht1248
    @coacht1248 3 года назад +36

    Before YOU can be charming and impressing to people, first YOU must be charming and impressive to YOURSELF
    Become the person that YOUR yesterday-self is proud of - Coach T

  • @gratituderanch9406
    @gratituderanch9406 2 года назад +2

    Dude Van Helsing is one of my few favorite movies ever. We own it and have watched it repeatedly.

  • @mayankmalviya2991
    @mayankmalviya2991 3 года назад +38

    Imagine the same insanely genuine person, extremely humble, played Logan. This shows how good of an actor he is.

  • @arindam1249
    @arindam1249 3 года назад +102

    Lessons I learnt from this video -
    *1. Reframe those situations that make you nervous*
    _If you feel pressured to perform and impress in a situation, make sure to ask some questions to know if you like them too. Like, you'd have notice how confident the interviewer is while interviewing. But when with your friends, you feel confident. Because you know your friends like you and you like them. This will reframe your mindset in that situation._
    *2. Don't make plans solely to impress others. Make plan that'll be also interesting to you, giving you the opportunity to give your best(85%) in that situation.*
    *3. Be contagiously positive*
    _Just think about that, how you feel with a person who is highly positive and composed in __-roughest-__ toughest of situations_
    *4. Give yourself permission to admit to emotion beyond happiness. People would find it easier to connect with you at deeper level.*
    *5. Own your flaw. Don't hesitate to talk about that.*
    _Just laugh when you mess up or make a mistake_
    *6. Be a good Storyteller.*
    *7. Make the people around you special.*
    _Do not give compliment to act as a nice person. Just give what you genuinely mean._
    _The best compliment can be what the other person really love, or what he/she's not so much complimented to but is good at_
    *∞. Maintain Eye Contact while listening. But don't break it while talking.*
    _Having the full focus of the people you like feels more than amazing_

    • @millerquinta6064
      @millerquinta6064 3 года назад +4

      This is an amazing statement

    • @alicial4857
      @alicial4857 Год назад

      Thanks so much for that summary. You've saved me about an hour of note-taking.

  • @luisterrust
    @luisterrust 3 года назад +167

    Confidence starts by talking positively to yourself. To love yourself and to appreciate yourself. Then your body affects your new thoughts! ❤️💪🏼🌟

    • @wolfm8097
      @wolfm8097 3 года назад +8

      This is true. A healthy diet helps with such thoughts and ideas. Plus good sleep. Disciplining you’re body and mind gives tools to resolve and pave better opportunities for yourself

    • @luisterrust
      @luisterrust 3 года назад +1

      WolfM80 yes true man!

    • @woodsprite5
      @woodsprite5 2 года назад

      @@wolfm8097 You say "discipline"; I say "honor" your body. Give it what will truly support you to feel your best! (In the LONG run--not junk food right now!!)

  • @Coolidentidy
    @Coolidentidy 3 года назад +14

    I’ve worked directly for Hugh Jackman and his family, and I can personally attest he is a great guy. He always has an encouraging word to say and makes everyone feel included.

  • @MatthewRumble
    @MatthewRumble 3 года назад +40

    This guy has literally changed my life. I love this channel and ones of self improvement

  • @anm-animemovies2484
    @anm-animemovies2484 3 года назад +56

    I learnt today and will forget tomorrow 😅

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 3 года назад +33

    The biggest point I heard throughout this whole video: "Don't be fake. Be genuine."

    • @keithgraham9547
      @keithgraham9547 3 года назад

      Yeaaassh, no. If you're a jerk, or pathetic little weenie, don't be genuine. Fake being at least polite and interested. If you work real hard at faking it, you might even make it genuine.

  • @Merfolk_
    @Merfolk_ 3 года назад +65

    The most contagiously positive actor is widely recognized for his angriest role: Wolverine

  • @IntoBlackHouse
    @IntoBlackHouse 3 года назад +150

    Big caveat: When you make plans to do something you enjoy so you feel more comfortable, like for a date, please use discernment. Think about what they want too. For example I went on a date and the guy wanted to show me all of these videos from this comedian he liked. It was him showing me a part of himself, but it went on and on and on. A big turn off and it felt more like him indulging himself than him thinking about me.

  • @SuzyTopAgent
    @SuzyTopAgent 3 года назад +70

    I couldn't help but to smile during most of this video 😄

  • @arunkamath
    @arunkamath 3 года назад +9

    You should do such character analysis of people who are not attractive. Being good looking gives you a good boost since you're young making you a confident person.

  • @lilrask9464
    @lilrask9464 3 года назад +12

    It's because we're Aussie, we're honest, we like to have fun and we don't take ourselves too seriously, we don't care if we're acting like a bit of a dag.
    Sending power and blessings from Melbourne Australia ✌

  • @davidlucey1311
    @davidlucey1311 3 года назад +29

    Regarding being contagiously positive. That one really resonates with me. I have had so many people in my life who are incredibly negative and won’t be content until they share it with everyone. I don’t know if projecting an attitude of being positive will help you all the time, but it beats the hell out of being negative.

  • @the-mathwizard
    @the-mathwizard 3 года назад +124

    Hugh in x-men : wouldn't hesitate to kill people
    Hugh in real life : wouldn't hesitate to compliment people

  • @ethancostello5132
    @ethancostello5132 3 года назад +33

    Dude, you are killing it this channel has got to be one of the best on youtube for self-improvement. I've now got a girl I've never dreamed of being able to have a relationship with. I want to say thank you for helping me become the person I've always wanted to be. I know you probably won't see this but I just needed to put it out there.

  • @rafterscott
    @rafterscott 3 года назад +5

    I was fortunate enough to meet Hugh Jackman when I was doing background work on The Greatest Showman. Absolutely one of the kindest, most laid back folks you'll ever meet.

  • @katelynb3444
    @katelynb3444 3 года назад +12

    I have thoughts about conversations but when I actually have a conversation I’m very quiet and distant. No matter how many of these videos I watch, when someone makes a conversation with me, these tips just fly right over my head.

    • @mardukl
      @mardukl 2 года назад

      same...the thought destroy whats left of my little confidence

    • @allaboutjesus2343
      @allaboutjesus2343 2 года назад +1

      Force yourself,its take time

  • @tadeogil5787
    @tadeogil5787 2 года назад +6

    I love that these videos are basically telling you in a million different ways to always be yourself, because YOU are amazing.

  • @sahajthind7234
    @sahajthind7234 3 года назад +99

    Me: *Sees video title*
    Is it possible to learn this power?

  • @MeredithForReal
    @MeredithForReal 3 года назад +4

    The more of these I watch, the more I'm convinced charisma is really about connection.

  • @marcello7781
    @marcello7781 3 года назад +10

    Great video but my favorite part is the one about emotions. Showing emotions doesn't make you weaker, it makes you more real.

  • @MyOwn2Wheels
    @MyOwn2Wheels 3 года назад +7

    I don’t remember which video but man, the advice of not letting people cut you off during a sentence and finishing it most of the time has helped me tremendously! People legitimately respect what I have to say so much more in a group conversation. Crazy how we teach people how to treat us in ways we don’t even comprehend, sometimes.

    • @woodsprite5
      @woodsprite5 2 года назад

      Excellent advice/good point

  • @evelyn1798
    @evelyn1798 3 года назад +3

    I’m currently studying acting at University and I think the first minute of this video just changed my life.

  • @JumboMustardFries
    @JumboMustardFries 2 года назад +2

    After watching this, my charisma is at its peak

  • @ahmadsarr4277
    @ahmadsarr4277 3 года назад +55

    Charisma on command, you just keep doing what you do because you changing lives over here 👏

  • @wayfaringshaman
    @wayfaringshaman 3 года назад +5

    God, I just love Hugh Jackman, and before he was even The Wolverine, my dad & mine's favorite character of all time. There was a time in my life, when I would watch Kate & Leopold three times a year just to feel good and find the strength to keep going. To this day, that is still my number one guilty pleasure film - every time I feel down or sense that I'm going to be depressed, I just don't think about it anymore, I immediately watch that film. And ever since, he (both Hugh & Leopold) has been my template of how to be a man, and especially, one rightful of a lady's. I haven't convinced my Kate to follow me back to my time & live happily ever after, granted, but I will get there eventually. Hugh Jackman makes me believe that it is possible.
    Wow, that was so hopeless romantic of me, but whatever. Thanks for being such a great inspiration, man!

  • @daltonmekis
    @daltonmekis 3 года назад +32

    Whoever does all the research for this channel, you are incredible. I don’t know how you find all these clips and decide who you will use as an example, but you make these videos the way teachers want presentations to be. They are well put together with a clear outline and everything in the video has a purpose with an unambiguous explanation. Honestly thank you for high quality videos 👍🏼

  • @suzip1234
    @suzip1234 3 года назад +85

    I love how he says “kid from Wahroonga” as if it’s somewhere quaint and poor, as opposed to the reality of it being one of the wealthiest and most upper-class suburbs of Sydney 😂

    • @harrywerner7329
      @harrywerner7329 3 года назад +12

      nobody actually knows that except wallabys though

    • @TG-ob5fn
      @TG-ob5fn 3 года назад +7

      His mother abandoned him as a child. I'm sure that hurt like hell. No money or prestige can replace the feeling of a mothers love.

  • @srbaruchi
    @srbaruchi Год назад +2

    Great pointers to assess in yourself and in the people you like and admire. I'm thinking about a friend who is not smart, average-looking, and pretty shallow. But he's positive and appreciative of what he has -- and when he laughs, "the whole world laughs with him."

  • @obradrakocevic716
    @obradrakocevic716 3 года назад +9

    Can we all appreciate the fact that he put a lot of work in these videos I've never before seen anyone use checkpoints in a video, keep up the good work my guy!

  • @t2969
    @t2969 3 года назад +16

    I think a few of Jack's attributes can be traced back to australian culture and society (or at least elements of it). In Australia we tend to be very open about our flaws and make fun of ourselves constantly for them (especially with mates). Its common place such that if you don't do it YOU'RE the odd one out.

    • @bradIeyyy
      @bradIeyyy Год назад

      Australians are definitely not like Hugh Jackman lol trust me I’ve lived here for 20 years

  • @kugelschreiber5678
    @kugelschreiber5678 3 года назад +3

    Another charming person is Justin Timberlake. If you ever watch him in his interviews, you can't help but like the guy. His smile and positivity is freaking infectious!

  • @wendyitw5003
    @wendyitw5003 3 года назад +1

    With Hugh Jackman... I just think he is just being genuine... I just love him 🥰

  • @CourtneyCoulson
    @CourtneyCoulson 3 года назад +15

    Making consistent eye contact while talking is so hard, I forget what I'm saying!

  • @grovestreet1520
    @grovestreet1520 3 года назад +5

    Hugh is my favorite. I love how you intercut clips of the actor smiling with scenes of his characters full of powerful emotions across the spectrum. He's really good at tapping into and expressing feelings both positive and negative. Great video!

  • @ResoluteRonin
    @ResoluteRonin 2 года назад +1

    Making a habit of looking for opportunities to compliment others is great training for creating a habit and mindset of Looking for the Good in Others.

  • @gustafrindestal
    @gustafrindestal 3 года назад +56

    Hugh Jackman "I have anxiety before every show, even today"
    from Tim Ferris Show

  • @amritas2400
    @amritas2400 3 года назад +17

    Charisma on Command, guys, you're doing a great job. Before I discovered this channel 3 years ago, I was too meek even to say my name out loud when asked. But now I have a much more confidence and can articulate my thoughts to whomever I want---mostly because of your people-skill advices. Thank you ❤

  • @SusanQ83642
    @SusanQ83642 2 года назад +5

    OMG!! I LOVE this man SO MUCH!! He is acts the way that the entire world should act towards one another. ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @SanaSunia
    @SanaSunia 3 года назад +1

    This might be my favorite video of this channel. I never realized just how charismatic Hugh was. Thank you so much for the great insight!

  • @Tina-dg3tq
    @Tina-dg3tq 3 года назад +5

    Finally a video on Hugh's charisma! I was always curious how you'd break it down on this channel!

  • @sarahlouise1983
    @sarahlouise1983 3 года назад +12

    Hugh is honestly one of the special guys
    it’s very rare to see a person in the entertainment industry conduct himself with such grace and kindness
    The way he is with colleagues and especially fans , making them feel included and valued warms my heart
    A lot of people in the “biz” should look to him and take inspiration on how they conduct themselves ,
    A true one off xxx

  • @stephenbridges9915
    @stephenbridges9915 2 года назад +3

    1. Be worth listening to - be your best you, it will lead to greater experiences. Do your best, etc, otherwise you're a joke.. 2. Forget yourself and listen to the other. If they need help moving the conversation, you've hopefully done #1 well enough to relate in some capacity through experience. 3. Who cares - be prepared to step at least slightly out of bounds of the conversation - why should you care what people think of you if you've done 1 and 2? Just remember, being a complete weirdo is different than not caring. People who don't care but are winning are very different than people who don't care who no one respects or understands.

  • @blackchez
    @blackchez 3 года назад +4

    Your videos shows the things that I've been unconsciously doing since I can remember... Which I didn't knew other people are having problems with. You helping them to resolve such challenges is quite amazing and I hope that your channel grew in success even more.

  • @haesong_tv
    @haesong_tv 3 года назад +3

    Congratulations 4M subscribers! I've been following your channel for 2 months. Your contents hugely changed my life. Thank you!

  • @02ph91
    @02ph91 2 года назад +7

    This is amazing, to see people help each other like this ...I'm a natural introvert with anxiety disorder. It took me years to learn how to connect with others. I wish I would have had videos like this. Half, but only half, of what is covered I already know to be true, and what's amazing, this opens the window into so many things am so happy to learn

  • @swanofnutella4734
    @swanofnutella4734 3 года назад +5

    Hugh really does have infectious, effortless and sincere charm. Great analysis. Thank you.

  • @MrJoon360
    @MrJoon360 3 года назад +2

    Smile big, laugh loudly, and encourage others--seems like a way of life!

  • @Vulioll
    @Vulioll 2 года назад +1

    I love this channel, it helps me be better and doesn't teach me to be a toxic male or something, but to be a "human" human

  • @sajwitahdub5520
    @sajwitahdub5520 3 года назад +4

    It's hard keeping up with all these social ques and charismatic expressions just to make someone like you.

    • @EclipseXIV
      @EclipseXIV 3 года назад +5

      Doing it to make someone like you is usually the wrong approach, because you‘ll fully depend on the other person’s reaction and get demotivated very quickly. If you do it to improve how YOU feel in social interactions, you‘ll enjoy the process and be able to focus on one thing at a time with more ease. Building YOUR confidence and authenticity is key!

  • @Dude-oh8vq
    @Dude-oh8vq 3 года назад +39

    5 Easy Ways To Charm people:
    1. Be good looking and have great hair.
    2. Be positive in a phony way
    3. Be taller than 5'9".
    4. Know how to form sentences.
    5. Be good looking and have great hair.

    • @jesuschrist7816
      @jesuschrist7816 3 года назад +8

      i think you forgot one.
      6. be good looking and have great hair

    • @orielle6014
      @orielle6014 3 года назад +1

      What about women lmao

    • @adiadagale123
      @adiadagale123 3 года назад +5

      @@orielle6014 be good looking and have great hair.

    • @berrykurniawanma4758
      @berrykurniawanma4758 3 года назад

      No. 0 - Be Rich!

    • @davidlucey1311
      @davidlucey1311 3 года назад +1

      I’m 5’8”. Act all the more confident, just make sure you know what you’re talking about and you know what you’re doing.

  • @barathmirella467
    @barathmirella467 3 года назад +1

    I learned this lenguage just because of this channel. Thank you Charlie! You changed my life!

  • @beverlypasco262
    @beverlypasco262 3 года назад +2

    Hugh Jacknan definitely knows how to connect. Whenever someone is genuinely interested in connecting the rest beautifully unfolds. Usually when I am interested the rest is interesting. Most of us if we’re being filmed or interviewed we will bring up a more charming self. I wonder Is that who we really are? I agree that eye contact is super important and
    supports connection with another human. We all can be a lot more charming if we hang out with people we enjoy being with. Blessings to all on this fun journey, Truth and Love to you 💝🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @Amins88
    @Amins88 3 года назад +9

    My biggest problem watching these videos is realizing I already do all of this naturally anyways. Yet it never seems to be enough.

    • @woodsprite5
      @woodsprite5 2 года назад +1

      not sure what you mean. what is your goal that you are missing? connecting with people?

    • @Amins88
      @Amins88 2 года назад

      @@woodsprite5 Pretty much.
      I can start conversations from nothing and keep them going. I can make people laugh until they cry. People tell me that they love my sense of humor and act excited when I'm around. Coworkers will say they'll miss me when one of us moves on and to "stay in touch."
      So why do I always feel so alone? My texts are ignored, people I thought were my friends won't speak to me anymore. Relationship after relationship seem to fall apart out of nowhere for me. I'd understand just drifting apart sometimes, but it's always so spontaneous.

  • @YahLovesYou86
    @YahLovesYou86 3 года назад +9

    Compliments work best if there is initially mutual respect.

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 3 года назад

      Do not have say say she pretty, just look at her or notice her, talk something about her instead

  • @royaldanagal8375
    @royaldanagal8375 3 года назад +6

    Thank you for all the effort you put into this channel!
    It would be very cool if there will be more examples from women to all the ladies watching your channel like me ☺️

  • @wilbeugre
    @wilbeugre 3 года назад +3

    Thank you Ben!
    I've been waiting for a breakdown on Hugh Jackman for forever!
    What an incredible guy (easy everyone's crush)!
    That lovely habit of making the people around him feel special has another effect imho: making himself "not so special at all", which makes easier for us to consider hmi as "a buddy of mine".

  • @bluepearl_22
    @bluepearl_22 3 года назад +140

    He forgot step 7: Hit the jackpot in the genetics department.

    • @michaelj.mccall6530
      @michaelj.mccall6530 3 года назад +20

      Tell that to Danny Devito and Larry winters

    • @Antman261
      @Antman261 3 года назад +26

      So you've identified a limiting belief there buddy -- time to go find some exceptions, break it down, and realise charm isn't about traditional attractiveness. In fact, not looking physically attractive and being charming can be quite a potent mix.

    • @561jio2
      @561jio2 3 года назад +8

      I used to think that same thing an had a lot of confidence problems growing up, now my charisma is over 9000 lol. What's really happening is you're comparing yourself to other people which is a trap into a downward spiral.

  • @lucassevero8813
    @lucassevero8813 3 года назад +5

    Love this channel, brings me confidence

  • @JuaniValmaggia
    @JuaniValmaggia 3 года назад +1

    I loved the extra tips on how to make our compliments more effective. Another reason those work so well is because of Hugh's body language. Ben mentioned how good his eye contact is, which is true and their video on Bill Clinton goes more in-depth still, but I wanted to add two things: focus and intent. Hugh's full attention is focused on whoever he is speaking to. It's not just his eyes, but his whole body turns to face the person. You can see him leaning forward sometimes when listening, letting the other person know they are being heard. Then leaning back once he has made a point. However, always, when speaking to one person, Hugh is facing them with all his body, all his focus, and attention. Unlike we might see from "The Cool Type" as Robert Downey Jr. does.

  • @yanayuiko4281
    @yanayuiko4281 3 года назад +1

    I'm from Belarus and our skills are lower than 0. thank you very much, super helpful video! need to rewatch again and again

  • @quranforu--_
    @quranforu--_ 3 года назад +7

    Man I love this channel, keep it up bro!

  • @DrJonTam
    @DrJonTam 3 года назад +3

    Confidence is a mindset. There’ll always be something you’re not gonna be good at but you’ll need to try to tackle regardless.

  • @warrengday
    @warrengday 3 года назад

    The most engaging narration to this video of any I've listened to on this channel.

  • @eb6195
    @eb6195 3 года назад

    Observe those you admire. I learned from someone to lightly discuss & be able to joke about things you might otherwise hide. It takes away your insecurities & lets you control the timing.

  • @andyt3938
    @andyt3938 3 года назад +5

    Its always easy to be relaxed and enjoy a situation when you have enough money to not need the job.

  • @hallohallo72
    @hallohallo72 3 года назад +4

    We all have this in us... we just belived the lies the devil told us over the years.... we are all awesome!!! I love you all!! Stay awesome people 👏👏👏👏

  • @maciejszymanek8442
    @maciejszymanek8442 3 года назад +1

    Watched one episeode, cant stop watching..

  • @e_10_vaidehiwaghmare10
    @e_10_vaidehiwaghmare10 3 года назад

    i have watch so many videos of this chennel and i finally realise that we just need to be ourself with some confidance. yanhh nothing else!!

  • @crashpanda4250
    @crashpanda4250 3 года назад +4

    I'm a panda. I'm naturally charming.
    (awesome video btw, I love Hugh)

  • @magicman205
    @magicman205 3 года назад +15

    There still has yet to be an Oscars opening number that has come even remotely close to Hugh Jackman's.

    • @PtolemyXVII
      @PtolemyXVII 3 года назад +2

      Magicman205 I prefer Ricky Gervais

  • @InflamedGut
    @InflamedGut 3 года назад +1

    What is better then confidence? It's the COURAGE to do stuff outside your comfort zone.. do this and I guarantee you, you will become confident in doing new things

  • @randomconsumer198
    @randomconsumer198 3 года назад +1

    Just discovered your channel. Well done on simplifying communication and charisma concepts into tangible methods that others can apply. 👏👏👏

  • @raddguy1
    @raddguy1 3 года назад +5

    A truly classy guy. Someone who hasn't let fame and money ruin him. Bravo, Hugh!

  • @thatguynelson
    @thatguynelson 3 года назад +4

    Hugh is such an awesome person and this was a great video! Some of the things mentioned here, especially the part on compliments, are discussed in the book - How to Talk to Anyone. It's simple and to the point with 92 specific ways on how talk to anyone haha and it's helped me a bunch :)

  • @fixer8173
    @fixer8173 3 года назад

    I can't believe how good and instructional this video is

  • @rhuandemoraes
    @rhuandemoraes 3 года назад

    That was the video that I was expecting a looooooong time man! I ever asked to you! Thank you! I'm very fan o f Hugh Jackman!

  • @GadgetsGearCoffee
    @GadgetsGearCoffee 3 года назад +3

    Imagine being Hughes Jackman and stumbling upon this video of someone analyzing you 0_0

  • @KiiroSagi
    @KiiroSagi 3 года назад +52

    Hugh Jackman used to be a teacher and a good teacher would need to be positive and motivational.

  • @justinjoy8192
    @justinjoy8192 3 года назад

    I'm so happy I found this channel.

  • @laurenconrad1799
    @laurenconrad1799 3 года назад +1

    Love the second tip about doing what you love. But this can be a double edged sword. It can be hard to be enthusiastic in an interview about a job you don’t want, but sometimes you do need the money. Also, the most appealing jobs to you are often very competitive because many people might also want them. It’s tricky.

  • @Wave33221
    @Wave33221 3 года назад +8

    I feel exhausted just thinking myself doing this kind of stuff.