This topic of conversation amongst men in the space gets old because they fail to understand that not every guy will experience having multiple women, whether it's due to their own choices or because it's not meant for them. Some guys are lonely because they don't understand how women select the men they are attracted to and what things make those guys attractive to all women, but also because these are probably guys who aren't the player type and the player lifestyle isn't for them and that's why they keep struggling. I've had multiple women before and it's not all hyped as it sounds, and nowadays I'd much rather be alone to live my life of peace and serenity until the right one comes along, if she ever does.
You can experience multiple women and still be alone dude; have you even been with girls before it’s never about you it’s always about them, this is why the only girls I truly love are my mom and my daughters & my motorbike bro
My brother and I are complete opposites. He experiences the "player life" while I experience the "lonely life". Hard to accept, but every man walks different paths.
I would hate to be a hobo sexual lol the idea of going through life never achieving anything or having a place of my own to rent or buy…is ALIEN to me. If a number of women want to sleep with men like that, I say good luck to those women and stay away from me haha The majority of quality women prefer sovereign men.
Players play the game. Some guys want to the game to come to them. Pokie and ra ra ain't scared to lose. Play the game are just stop complaining about it.
9:54 - My heart always goes out to guys who struggle with women. Proficiency with women is something that is painful and difficult to learn. I actually hate it when some of my buddies who struggle with women introduce me to their lady friends to liven up the interaction. There were time in college when was very lonely, and it was brutally depressing... I feel fortunate to have survived it.
Multiple women seems like a dream to younger guys, that's if they struggle with getting women. It's a bother to guys who know what it's really like. I used to be the guy who struggled, then lucked out every now and then, now i could have multiple women if i had more experience regarding the bedroom and better social skills. The only things limiting me are my social skills since i'm more of an introverted guy who's neurodivergent and slowly getting familiar with wording things better at the moment. Also my sense of justice and not wanting to be the type who manipulates people into doing what i want. It basically feels wrong to do, therefore i've never really given it much thought when it comes to managing a rotation or even more than 1 woman at a time. I'm slowly learning from asking those guys who have the experience when it comes to doing this, but it's gonna take alot in me to overcome those limiting things. I know damn well i can though😭 Height and being quiet definitely helps pull them in, but those social skills are something you have to overcome and learn to develop.
In reference to your point at 22:14: A while back, ARC discussed a coaching client who happened to be a prime example of your point. The client was initially living in the San Francisco Bay Area and was struggling with women. Eventually, the client was promoted within his company, and was transferred from the Bay Area to New York City. He experienced a 180° shift in his success with women. He went from hardly attracting any women in the Bay Area...to attracting ALL KINDS of women in NYC. ARC said he had other clients who experienced more success with women after relocating somewhere else. I think he said he had another client who experienced a bit more success with women after moving to Dallas, TX (I don't remember where he moved from.)
I remember you talking about the innocent looking man who's a wolf in sheep's clothing. Definitely worth a shoutout because they are the types that are smashing the women you crushing on or are currently dating. So yes all players don't look alike and do not stand out from the crowd of men.
You can even see the differences between the groups in the manosphere and adjacent spaces. Its like you can almost smell when some of these content creators haven't had enough experience with real life women to be having these conversations. The overgeneralizations and one-sided viewpoints are a dead giveaway. I heard one of these commentator dudes say, in all seriousness, that ANY man who has EVER truly enjoyed himself or had fun with a woman is a simp... In what world does that even make sense?
Feeling lonely.. is different than being alone. That’s something I’ve grown to realize. Like you mentioned, theres always options even if I wasn’t directly involved. I just didn’t know it.
The best thing guys that the lonely can do is to learn from some guys that are good with women, we all had to learn something from someone in our lives as men whether is was fighting, sports, driving, fixing things ect so that’s the best thing for to do 💯💯💯.
Learn, then apply your own style to it. Ex. I'll never be able to shoot like Curry, and that's okay. I'm comfortable with being the lockdown defender. Different skillsets, same results. 💪🏾
@@TrillBill Well you shouldn’t try to shoot like Steph Curry brother, if he was to teach you how to that doesn’t mean you have to be him or play like him. Learning something from someone and trying to be someone are two very different things.
Iam a lonely man with multiple women options it works itself out .I starting to believe women can sense and lonely man and try to make him non lonely. That's so ture I a hate the idea having to manage women when getting paid is #1
I'm close friends with a few guys that I consider to be chads in terms of their looks. All of different races. They are all extroverted, but can still think deeply about things. They're all intelligent. They can talk to women. They don't sit around on RUclips and the internet trying to figure out how to get women. Sure, a lonely guy could ask these guys what to do. And they may give an explanation. And sometimes even the explanation is legitimately good advice. However it is up to the lonely man to stop being hard headed and to be teachable. The next best thing that the lonely man can do, once he becomes close friends with chads, good bars, whatever you wanna call em...... is to simply OBSERVE how these guys interact with women. Then the lonely man will say "ohhhhh ok..... he does this, this, and that." Then he can emulate what his chad buddies do. Perhaps let their behavior inspire his own. He can't always exactly act just like them because sometimes only they can pull off what they pull off. Lonely man has to come up with his own unique thing that works for him. He can take a little bit of this and a little bit of that from his chad buddies. I myself have picked up on this acouple of times even observing my own father and uncle. Sometimes the lonely man is too hard headed to apply advice that he receives. The lonely man then has to actually go and interact with more women to gone his skill. This might be painful for him as fucked up as that sounds but this is what he has to do. Changing his attitude is another thing. Being patient. Having a better outlook on himself. Because being unchosen while it seems that everyone else around you gets chosen can fuck you up. Also he has to believe that women can interact with him positively, see him as normal rather than a creep. I can probably go on and on. It is bad indeed once the lonely man becomes aware of how easily women can and do hook up with men, while they've walked around for most of their lives being friends zoned, crushing on girls who don't like them the same way, not randomly receiving interest from women, etc. My personal experience has not be so so bad. Things could've been worse. I'll put myself somewhere in the middle though working to make things better so I can start having it my way.
I would rather know myself well enough. Being able to obtain 1-2 women as far as a relationship goes. Than be lonely & attract multiple women, but have no sense of self. Difference is how you feel about yourself and having confidence with interacting with women
@@31SecondCarShow The probability of you having over 5 women and all of them being 8s and 9s on a physical attraction stand point, mental attraction and connect on a emotional and personality level is difficult but is possible...Most of those cases it would require you to vet women over a period of time to get that type of quality of women on your roster. Not every women that's attractive is worth bragging about I have dated psycho women that were beautiful and I don't consider them quality based on my metric of what i consider a quality woman. Also having sex with ugly women isn't also a flex as well that's you lowering your standards of, of lust. Some guys do use the quality over quantity as an excuse but if we were to be objective about it there are far less quality women then there are women.
not asking for sympathy because i get that life and the world is unfair take it from me it is the worst been that way all my life . Body game for someone like me is my main flaw but every man has different things they need to work on. But my conversation and social skills are ok .As someone from the lonely mans side at first this was so bizarre hearing men getting sex easily until i saw things in real life that showed me some men dont even have to worry so much about their body based on how they carry themselves and they are thorough otherwise . i admit i have had animosity against women for the last 12 years and got caught up in who rejected me . Only at 37 i have realized you got to get over all that shit and do something to improve on where you fall short .
Everybody can work towards his fortune! I think often we are ofen just to comfortable to move out of our way, im guilty of that sometimes, then you remember urself its all on you, then you try and eventually things will work!
As an aside, Many women who are constantly hanging around other women and are very rarely around Men. Will for the most part welcome that Male energy. It's refreshing to some of them, like a cold glass of water on a hot day.
We co-sign you Unc because you’re THE OG and yes I’ve learned from you. One of the very few I learned from in the last 2 years. Keep dropping the knowledge
I believe the lonely men story been happening sense the beginning of time, but it’s a problem now because the women are suffering as a result cause they don’t find a lot of men that’s sexual attractive and hate the idea of sharing a man with other women. It’s too many single women out here that’s why the lonely men era is going viral in my opinion. This is why back in the day the fathers picked the woman husbands because women gravitate towards looks and lust.
Uncle Rom you alway keeping it 100 with us I respect you for that. Some man just got it. I can say I never really had it. I get lucky sometimes. I can't understand your world of being select. I can understand you wanting to help men trying to be better versions of themself though. Listen to your video these last months have help me gain more confidence in myself and with woman. It still hard with my aspergers though. I get more lady giving me some glances and maybe a conversation. Thanks unc.
That Tshirt is Dope.. Is that Rom Wills Merch? If so I will support! You should start your own line called "Body Game" by Rom Wills can even be a sportswear line @ROM WILLS 🤔
There aren't many on autism spectrum I've only met 4 others guy and 1 girl most lonely guys would be neurotypical. Until 18 in college i couldnt hold a convo with a girl longer than 5 minutes and a lot of girls would step off saying I weirded them off talking. So i went brick by brick from there. I had a marriage and a daughter and some 1 night stands every 3 months through my 20s and I've approached women b4 and they do step to me and compliment sometimes. Most don't have wives or gf though and most are men. In these black spaces there's been 2 others that I've seen. But body game is effective may not be the only issue. But you also have to figure out how to negotiate around girls shutting you out upfront because you'll stay novice level. On KS show when he was talking to guys and on pineapple show you'll see not a lot of collective experience interacting with women past pleasantries. And I would say go talk to more women cold approaching but that's hundreds of girls in painful 1 word response convos 2 or 3 that may be receptive, which makes you more tentative and throwing ish to the wall hoping it sticks which is antithesis of confidence.
If you can't be happy on your own your in bad company its a must to do that shadow work im happy alone n peaceful woman throw choosing signals at me around there husband's act single around there boyfriend i ain't no player i just mind my own i cant take them serious anymore
A lot of these lonely guys are awkward when they approach woman. They just have an awkward persona and look about them. And they don't know how to talk to women. I look at some of these guys doing cold approach videos on RUclips and it makes me cringe. And I say to myself I see why these guys are getting continuously rejected by females . Also They don't approach enough women. If you want to be successful with women and have a lot of sex. you have to approach hundreds of women and your game have to be tight. All those guys have to do is study the guys that women go after. Study the guys that get a lot of women. learn how those guys talk to women. learn they swag. learn how they treat women.
What’s the difference between the guy who lives in his moms basement (presuming he is broke) versus the guy who is an hobo sexual. Seems to me financially they both are on the same playing field. Could it be one lacks confidence and the other doesn’t?🤔🤔🤔
This topic of conversation amongst men in the space gets old because they fail to understand that not every guy will experience having multiple women, whether it's due to their own choices or because it's not meant for them. Some guys are lonely because they don't understand how women select the men they are attracted to and what things make those guys attractive to all women, but also because these are probably guys who aren't the player type and the player lifestyle isn't for them and that's why they keep struggling. I've had multiple women before and it's not all hyped as it sounds, and nowadays I'd much rather be alone to live my life of peace and serenity until the right one comes along, if she ever does.
You can experience multiple women and still be alone dude; have you even been with girls before it’s never about you it’s always about them, this is why the only girls I truly love are my mom and my daughters & my motorbike bro
My brother and I are complete opposites. He experiences the "player life" while I experience the "lonely life". Hard to accept, but every man walks different paths.
I would hate to be a hobo sexual lol the idea of going through life never achieving anything or having a place of my own to rent or buy…is ALIEN to me. If a number of women want to sleep with men like that, I say good luck to those women and stay away from me haha
The majority of quality women prefer sovereign men.
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@@lawrencer908 😂😂😂 not Mike Larry lmao
Players play the game. Some guys want to the game to come to them. Pokie and ra ra ain't scared to lose. Play the game are just stop complaining about it.
9:54 - My heart always goes out to guys who struggle with women. Proficiency with women is something that is painful and difficult to learn. I actually hate it when some of my buddies who struggle with women introduce me to their lady friends to liven up the interaction. There were time in college when was very lonely, and it was brutally depressing... I feel fortunate to have survived it.
You can be man with options ..but decide to chose women with similar core values
Another huge difference between lonely men & men with multiple women is social skills. In this day & age it's pretty hard to be lonely as a man
The OG. Speaks, and we litsen, learn,and execute
Multiple women seems like a dream to younger guys, that's if they struggle with getting women. It's a bother to guys who know what it's really like.
I used to be the guy who struggled, then lucked out every now and then, now i could have multiple women if i had more experience regarding the bedroom and better social skills. The only things limiting me are my social skills since i'm more of an introverted guy who's neurodivergent and slowly getting familiar with wording things better at the moment. Also my sense of justice and not wanting to be the type who manipulates people into doing what i want. It basically feels wrong to do, therefore i've never really given it much thought when it comes to managing a rotation or even more than 1 woman at a time. I'm slowly learning from asking those guys who have the experience when it comes to doing this, but it's gonna take alot in me to overcome those limiting things.
I know damn well i can though😭
Height and being quiet definitely helps pull them in, but those social skills are something you have to overcome and learn to develop.
In reference to your point at 22:14:
A while back, ARC discussed a coaching client who happened to be a prime example of your point. The client was initially living in the San Francisco Bay Area and was struggling with women.
Eventually, the client was promoted within his company, and was transferred from the Bay Area to New York City. He experienced a 180° shift in his success with women. He went from hardly attracting any women in the Bay Area...to attracting ALL KINDS of women in NYC.
ARC said he had other clients who experienced more success with women after relocating somewhere else. I think he said he had another client who experienced a bit more success with women after moving to Dallas, TX (I don't remember where he moved from.)
I remember you talking about the innocent looking man who's a wolf in sheep's clothing. Definitely worth a shoutout because they are the types that are smashing the women you crushing on or are currently dating. So yes all players don't look alike and do not stand out from the crowd of men.
Real shit because I'm that wolf.
😂😂 these type of niggas are the smoothest
You can even see the differences between the groups in the manosphere and adjacent spaces.
Its like you can almost smell when some of these content creators haven't had enough experience with real life women to be having these conversations. The overgeneralizations and one-sided viewpoints are a dead giveaway.
I heard one of these commentator dudes say, in all seriousness, that ANY man who has EVER truly enjoyed himself or had fun with a woman is a simp...
In what world does that even make sense?
The bad part is that there are men think this way.
Yep facts
Feeling lonely.. is different than being alone. That’s something I’ve grown to realize. Like you mentioned, theres always options even if I wasn’t directly involved. I just didn’t know it.
Rom you should develop some software that men can have to manage these women.
The best thing guys that the lonely can do is to learn from some guys that are good with women, we all had to learn something from someone in our lives as men whether is was fighting, sports, driving, fixing things ect so that’s the best thing for to do 💯💯💯.
Learn, then apply your own style to it. Ex. I'll never be able to shoot like Curry, and that's okay. I'm comfortable with being the lockdown defender. Different skillsets, same results. 💪🏾
@@TrillBill Well you shouldn’t try to shoot like Steph Curry brother, if he was to teach you how to that doesn’t mean you have to be him or play like him. Learning something from someone and trying to be someone are two very different things.
@@bossplayermfs5972 i agree, but I didn't say I wanted to "be like him", but rather take notes from his style of play. Sorry for the confusion.
@@TrillBill 💯
Iam a lonely man with multiple women options it works itself out .I starting to believe women can sense and lonely man and try to make him non lonely. That's so ture I a hate the idea having to manage women when getting paid is #1
I'm close friends with a few guys that I consider to be chads in terms of their looks. All of different races. They are all extroverted, but can still think deeply about things. They're all intelligent. They can talk to women. They don't sit around on RUclips and the internet trying to figure out how to get women. Sure, a lonely guy could ask these guys what to do. And they may give an explanation. And sometimes even the explanation is legitimately good advice. However it is up to the lonely man to stop being hard headed and to be teachable. The next best thing that the lonely man can do, once he becomes close friends with chads, good bars, whatever you wanna call em...... is to simply OBSERVE how these guys interact with women. Then the lonely man will say "ohhhhh ok..... he does this, this, and that." Then he can emulate what his chad buddies do. Perhaps let their behavior inspire his own. He can't always exactly act just like them because sometimes only they can pull off what they pull off. Lonely man has to come up with his own unique thing that works for him. He can take a little bit of this and a little bit of that from his chad buddies. I myself have picked up on this acouple of times even observing my own father and uncle. Sometimes the lonely man is too hard headed to apply advice that he receives. The lonely man then has to actually go and interact with more women to gone his skill. This might be painful for him as fucked up as that sounds but this is what he has to do. Changing his attitude is another thing. Being patient. Having a better outlook on himself. Because being unchosen while it seems that everyone else around you gets chosen can fuck you up. Also he has to believe that women can interact with him positively, see him as normal rather than a creep. I can probably go on and on. It is bad indeed once the lonely man becomes aware of how easily women can and do hook up with men, while they've walked around for most of their lives being friends zoned, crushing on girls who don't like them the same way, not randomly receiving interest from women, etc. My personal experience has not be so so bad. Things could've been worse. I'll put myself somewhere in the middle though working to make things better so I can start having it my way.
As a Black man who lives in Maine. You definitely gave me an extra push to change my environment. There’s a lot of different women in another areas.
I would rather know myself well enough. Being able to obtain 1-2 women as far as a relationship goes.
Than be lonely & attract multiple women, but have no sense of self.
Difference is how you feel about yourself and having confidence with interacting with women
People say this stuff to make themselves feel better about your situation. Notice you just attacked this other hypothetical person.
@@31SecondCarShow The probability of you having over 5 women and all of them being 8s and 9s on a physical attraction stand point, mental attraction and connect on a emotional and personality level is difficult but is possible...Most of those cases it would require you to vet women over a period of time to get that type of quality of women on your roster. Not every women that's attractive is worth bragging about I have dated psycho women that were beautiful and I don't consider them quality based on my metric of what i consider a quality woman. Also having sex with ugly women isn't also a flex as well that's you lowering your standards of, of lust. Some guys do use the quality over quantity as an excuse but if we were to be objective about it there are far less quality women then there are women.
Every man has a drought season very well put .. women come .. going like the city bus… it just ur turn 💰💃🏿
Uncle rom thanks for the confirmation it’s all about your attitude interacting with women stay cool calm and smooth very well put
not asking for sympathy because i get that life and the world is unfair take it from me it is the worst been that way all my life . Body game for someone like me is my main flaw but every man has different things they need to work on. But my conversation and social skills are ok .As someone from the lonely mans side at first this was so bizarre hearing men getting sex easily until i saw things in real life that showed me some men dont even have to worry so much about their body based on how they carry themselves and they are
thorough otherwise . i admit i have had animosity against women for the last 12 years and got caught up in who rejected me . Only at 37 i have realized you got to get over all that shit and do something to improve on where you fall short .
Everybody can work towards his fortune! I think often we are ofen just to comfortable to move out of our way, im guilty of that sometimes, then you remember urself its all on you, then you try and eventually things will work!
As an aside, Many women who are constantly hanging around other women and are very rarely around Men. Will for the most part welcome that Male energy. It's refreshing to some of them, like a cold glass of water on a hot day.
The passenger seat 🤣 hobo sexual lifestyles they find a bed to work in like life depends on it
😂💀
We co-sign you Unc because you’re THE OG and yes I’ve learned from you. One of the very few I learned from in the last 2 years. Keep dropping the knowledge
I believe the lonely men story been happening sense the beginning of time, but it’s a problem now because the women are suffering as a result cause they don’t find a lot of men that’s sexual attractive and hate the idea of sharing a man with other women. It’s too many single women out here that’s why the lonely men era is going viral in my opinion. This is why back in the day the fathers picked the woman husbands because women gravitate towards looks and lust.
Uncle Rom you alway keeping it 100 with us I respect you for that. Some man just got it. I can say I never really had it. I get lucky sometimes. I can't understand your world of being select. I can understand you wanting to help men trying to be better versions of themself though. Listen to your video these last months have help me gain more confidence in myself and with woman. It still hard with my aspergers though. I get more lady giving me some glances and maybe a conversation. Thanks unc.
You got this young man. Keep Rising!
Too many of us, want to win without competing. That's not a Masculine trait...
It comes down to mindset.
That Tshirt is Dope.. Is that Rom Wills Merch? If so I will support! You should start your own line called "Body Game" by Rom Wills can even be a sportswear line @ROM WILLS 🤔
The shirt is a gift from a supporter.
There aren't many on autism spectrum I've only met 4 others guy and 1 girl most lonely guys would be neurotypical. Until 18 in college i couldnt hold a convo with a girl longer than 5 minutes and a lot of girls would step off saying I weirded them off talking. So i went brick by brick from there. I had a marriage and a daughter and some 1 night stands every 3 months through my 20s and I've approached women b4 and they do step to me and compliment sometimes. Most don't have wives or gf though and most are men. In these black spaces there's been 2 others that I've seen.
But body game is effective may not be the only issue. But you also have to figure out how to negotiate around girls shutting you out upfront because you'll stay novice level. On KS show when he was talking to guys and on pineapple show you'll see not a lot of collective experience interacting with women past pleasantries. And I would say go talk to more women cold approaching but that's hundreds of girls in painful 1 word response convos 2 or 3 that may be receptive, which makes you more tentative and throwing ish to the wall hoping it sticks which is antithesis of confidence.
If you can't be happy on your own your in bad company its a must to do that shadow work im happy alone n peaceful woman throw choosing signals at me around there husband's act single around there boyfriend i ain't no player i just mind my own i cant take them serious anymore
Balance is key 🔑💯💯
A lot of these lonely guys are awkward when they approach woman. They just have an awkward persona and look about them. And they don't know how to talk to women. I look at some of these guys doing cold approach videos on RUclips and it makes me cringe. And I say to myself I see why these guys are getting continuously rejected by females . Also They don't approach enough women. If you want to be successful with women and have a lot of sex. you have to approach hundreds of women and your game have to be tight. All those guys have to do is study the guys that women go after. Study the guys that get a lot of women. learn how those guys talk to women. learn they swag. learn how they treat women.
What’s the difference between the guy who lives in his moms basement (presuming he is broke) versus the guy who is an hobo sexual. Seems to me financially they both are on the same playing field. Could it be one lacks confidence and the other doesn’t?🤔🤔🤔
The Hobosexual is at least taking action.
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