My Dance Moms Experience: Replacing Abby Lee Miller

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  • Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2020
  • Hey guys! You've been asking for this one, so here it is! In this video, I talk all about my experience with the TV show Dance Moms, how it all started, what happened behind the scenes, and how I got on with the girls and moms! Let me know in the comments if you'd like more videos like this. Enjoy!
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  • @briefthings
    @briefthings 3 года назад +12528

    “Holly was the most normal one” 😭😭😭 everyone knows that and I love how she didn’t hold back on the moms

    • @zimora4422
      @zimora4422 3 года назад +42

      Ikr

    • @cattleya3959
      @cattleya3959 3 года назад +167

      I get happy hearing good things about Holly 🥺

    • @aliblue3605
      @aliblue3605 3 года назад +141

      Holly was the most normal and Nia’s talent was not recognized like it should have been.

    • @briefthings
      @briefthings 3 года назад +44

      @@aliblue3605 Nia was a good dancer but I won’t say she was amazing but she was good

    • @alexaa8435
      @alexaa8435 3 года назад +102

      @@briefthings I think that’s because Abby mostly worked with the really good dancers (Maddie or kalani) instead of the dancers that needed a bit of improving like nia and kind of Kendall

  • @bonniekim5729
    @bonniekim5729 3 года назад +10109

    Abby lee Miller- everyone’s replaceable, (Cheryl rEplAcEs abBy)

  • @mandilu4914
    @mandilu4914 3 года назад +8636

    Cheryl is so ridiculously underrated. She not only taught the girls very well, but also guided them through such a tough time in their life.

  • @shelleforbes5867
    @shelleforbes5867 3 года назад +3335

    Her calling camryn the most talented made my heart smile because that show really made it seem like she was not a great dancer

    • @daria5846
      @daria5846 3 года назад +264

      She is also the one with the least amount of training. She hadn't been dancing for as long as the other girls. That also shows how amazing she is.

    • @overgrownkudzu
      @overgrownkudzu 2 года назад +99

      she really was one of the best though, she was able to pull off every style, her technique was great, she was flexible, she could do everything.

    • @Thepokedek
      @Thepokedek Год назад +36

      She's also the only one to still dances

  • @brielleimana1408
    @brielleimana1408 3 года назад +5472

    She did not hold back and I’m loving it

    • @nigedaforbes
      @nigedaforbes 3 года назад +17

      yh frl i was like she giving us everything

    • @ananyamoses6952
      @ananyamoses6952 3 года назад +6

      1000th like!

    • @brielleimana1408
      @brielleimana1408 3 года назад +2

      @@ananyamoses6952 haha thanks for that comment! 😊I didn’t know I got 1K likes in 2 days 🤣

    • @maddied7007
      @maddied7007 3 года назад +2

      I’m loving ittt

  • @kaylapetrey5333
    @kaylapetrey5333 3 года назад +4231

    I wish she had taught them and not Abby. She actually let them give emotions. Abby didn’t let them speak or cry.

  • @elisaronchi672
    @elisaronchi672 3 года назад +4164

    "They didn't need to tell me that so and so deserved a solo"
    My brain: Jill. She's talking about Jill FOR SURE

    • @oliviakinlaw1365
      @oliviakinlaw1365 3 года назад +65

      well and christi lmao

    • @oliviakinlaw1365
      @oliviakinlaw1365 3 года назад +51

      i only saw that bc she said christi snd jill where both drama queens and i love christi but i could kinda see how she could be bossy

    • @MsVitaD
      @MsVitaD 3 года назад +39

      My little kendal✨😁

    • @elisaronchi672
      @elisaronchi672 3 года назад +4

      @@MsVitaD exactly😂😂

    • @hibanizami
      @hibanizami 3 года назад +3

      One hundred percent 😂

  • @ashleycarlton8910
    @ashleycarlton8910 3 года назад +2032

    Abby: everyone’s replaceable
    Cheryl: *replaces her*

    • @irhrjjrjrkekwoowoe
      @irhrjjrjrkekwoowoe 3 года назад +27

      Cheryl rly said: Uno reverse card

    • @somebody8264
      @somebody8264 3 года назад +5

      Stolen

    • @ashleycarlton8910
      @ashleycarlton8910 3 года назад +5

      I didn’t even look through the comments yet girl sorry if someone else said that

    • @somebody8264
      @somebody8264 3 года назад +1

      @@ashleycarlton8910 of course it’s legit word from word

    • @ashleycarlton8910
      @ashleycarlton8910 3 года назад +1

      @@irhrjjrjrkekwoowoe 😂

  • @jennysanders7068
    @jennysanders7068 3 года назад +2377

    Kendall truly lost her passion for dance ... you can tell it’s super obvious

    • @ingridolvera8063
      @ingridolvera8063 3 года назад +148

      Well most of them did soooo

    • @dei5630
      @dei5630 3 года назад +69

      So did Chole kinda

    • @mathilde4994
      @mathilde4994 3 года назад +158

      I feel like she never really cared much about dance. It was more Jill that wanted her to be a dancer than Kendall herself

    • @ingridolvera8063
      @ingridolvera8063 3 года назад +11

      @@mathilde4994 Isn't it obvious?

    • @mathilde4994
      @mathilde4994 3 года назад +105

      @@ingridolvera8063 Only Maddie chose to dance and this is why she was always above the other girls. Cause the other girls’s moms put them to dance at 2 cause they wanted to have ✨girly dancer daughter✨ when Maddie started at 4 by choice. This is the difference between a kid that has passion and a kid that has to live through their mom’s passion

  • @QueenJessi818
    @QueenJessi818 3 года назад +2760

    I’m surprised to hear about Kendall being the funny one. Dance moms portrayed her so differently.

    • @Kaylee_2008
      @Kaylee_2008 3 года назад +332

      I feel like I Kendall was cool and funny but they only showed her crying and being sort of rude

    • @kiera6326
      @kiera6326 3 года назад +172

      I think she lost a lot of passion over the years. Maybe being with Cheryl made her happier when she was in the studio

    • @mathilde4994
      @mathilde4994 3 года назад +186

      The producers chose a personality for each girl and each mom and would only show them when they were portraying that personality. Sneaky

    • @Honkess
      @Honkess 3 года назад +51

      Yea, the show will protray the girls however they want, even if its harmful :/

    • @flirtinggracefullplatypus8496
      @flirtinggracefullplatypus8496 3 года назад +17

      i think it's because she was meant to be the pretty one and producers only cared about dramas.

  • @larawisintainer
    @larawisintainer 3 года назад +1366

    abby: “eVeRyOnE iS rEpLaCeAbLe”
    cheryl: oh honey

  • @keridasantos9125
    @keridasantos9125 3 года назад +3436

    People need to start understanding that this is literally her opinion and pov. This is her experience. People can enter the same situations and come out with different experiences and opinions.
    Edit: y'all this was completely general and speculation, it's not towards anyone

    • @isabellamia1745
      @isabellamia1745 3 года назад +36

      Uhhh nobody is saying otherwise...👨🏻‍🌾

    • @kierra3825
      @kierra3825 3 года назад +17

      @@isabellamia1745 right... like what. 😭

    • @brittbc4215
      @brittbc4215 3 года назад +5

      @hurricane tortilla what did Camryn comment👀

    • @brittbc4215
      @brittbc4215 3 года назад +4

      Nevermind!

    • @tiarafaith3819
      @tiarafaith3819 3 года назад +1

      yes!!!

  • @lauryners
    @lauryners 3 года назад +1564

    I’m really upset that Abby basically tortured these girls and made them hate their passion and I’m also upset that the moms never took them out to save them.

    • @taradonnelly2974
      @taradonnelly2974 3 года назад +71

      Thy had contracts

    • @bexxa4837
      @bexxa4837 3 года назад +6

      @@taradonnelly2974 each contract was only a year

    • @mathilde4994
      @mathilde4994 3 года назад +38

      The moms were under really strict contracts

    • @jaiwilliams3784
      @jaiwilliams3784 3 года назад +3

      BeccaSlays yeah but then they wouldn’t be able to do dance competitions anymore

    • @mathilde4994
      @mathilde4994 3 года назад +51

      @@bexxa4837 nope the first contract were for 6 years. After six years they could decide if they wanted another 2 years contract (like nia and Kendall did) or leave (like the Ziegler did)

  • @chloe_3787
    @chloe_3787 3 года назад +1707

    Hearing someone talk about these girls (and even their mothers!) in a positive light was so refreshing. The fact that you say you bonded the most with Chloe validated everything I knew that you were so good for that girl. It sure took a special person to break some of those walls down. I remember at the very beginning of the show, baby Chloe wore her heart on her sleeve, and as she grew up that disappeared. All they wanted was for someone to give them the time of day, but you did so much more than that.

  • @bluesmiles5
    @bluesmiles5 3 года назад +1497

    I think the moms were so overbearing was because of how horribly Abby treated them, but I’m really glad that you were able to make the end a better experience for them and allow them to be themselves without a teacher constantly bringing them down.

    • @elenapatout1698
      @elenapatout1698 3 года назад +30

      I think we always blame Abby for everything but the moms were just as bad : always complaining about not having solo and then complaining about how having a solo is a lot of pressure, insulting, yelling, getting physical with one another, talking down about other children ... We also forget about how much power the producers hold like who has solos and dance themes/style or the time schedule so they could make them do one scene over and over again so one child could not have enough rehearsal time. Abby is the one taking all the heat but I think a lot of the drama is the producers doing and it just put everyone on edge so they would fight with each other.

    • @bluesmiles5
      @bluesmiles5 3 года назад +18

      @@elenapatout1698 well there’s a reason why most of the OGs don’t speak to and hate Abby

    • @elenapatout1698
      @elenapatout1698 3 года назад +5

      Sarah I do understand why Kendall, Chloe and Nia wouldn’t talk to Abby but why Kalani wouldn’t talk to her doesn’t make sense to me as she has never been on Abby’s radar. She has never been yelled at, never been threatened of being kicked off the team or not having a solo ever again.

    • @elenapatout1698
      @elenapatout1698 3 года назад +4

      Sarah but I also think that the moms behaviors affected their children as much as Abby’s. Kids were getting upset because their mothers were.

    • @hi-ls6lt
      @hi-ls6lt 3 года назад +4

      @@elenapatout1698 didn’t Abby call her fat?

  • @Sophia-yt4ne
    @Sophia-yt4ne 3 года назад +1102

    the reason the most "talented" are the two newest ones is because Abby wore out Chloe, Kendal, and Nia when they were little, she turned their passion into this exasperating obligation.

    • @lillimurray1059
      @lillimurray1059 3 года назад +3

      Sophia who did she say were the most talented?

    • @mallowmarsh4334
      @mallowmarsh4334 3 года назад +8

      @@lillimurray1059 did you even watch the video

    • @lillimurray1059
      @lillimurray1059 3 года назад +3

      @@mallowmarsh4334 not rlly lmfao

    • @jessicahernandez3090
      @jessicahernandez3090 3 года назад +62

      Also Abby never taught them good technique and idk why they never got flexible enough (most of them), just pretty low flexibility for a dancer at that level, I believe it was part of the bad training

    • @mathilde4994
      @mathilde4994 3 года назад +77

      Also Abby loved the new ones so much because they got real training. I mean I love the OG but their technic is lame next to Camry kalani and brynn’s technic cause Abby is not a good trainer. She loved the new girls so much cause they were perfectly trained by other teachers and Abby was the one getting the glory by making them dance under her name

  • @emdavtyan5489
    @emdavtyan5489 3 года назад +1332

    aww stan Chloe she honestly has such a pure heart and soul i think on the show she was always portrayed as the one that got made fun of, when she did not deserve any of it, look where she is now a beautiful successful woman and she's thrving luv u chlo

    • @stressmuffin
      @stressmuffin 3 года назад +39

      Chloe is my fave Dance Mom girl, because she’s the underdog, who I rooted for, & she deserves to be the star, just like Maddie Ziegler, but in her own unique way. It’s so awesome that Cheryl is so supportive & gave Chloe the help that she needs to be a successful dancing star. I resent Abby, because no wonder Chloe psych’s herself out! Abby’s so hard on her! 😡. Anyways! Speaking of Chloe, my fave DM moment was when Chloe was hired to be the little girl version of a pop star in her music video. Christy was so proud & happy for Chloe for being picked by the video director or producer as the mini me version of that pop star. Christy said that, Chloe worked so hard she deserved that starring role in the video. Go Team Chloe! 🤩

    • @emdavtyan5489
      @emdavtyan5489 3 года назад +1

      @@stressmuffin aww yea totally agree

    • @briefthings
      @briefthings 3 года назад +10

      @@stressmuffin Chloe was NEVER an underdog. Chloe had a lot of solos just like Maddie. Yes Abby made it hard for Chloe to actually express her feelings; but if we were going to talk about underdogs Chloe was never one of them, in fact she was one of Abby’s favourite.

    • @oldiesdm81
      @oldiesdm81 3 года назад +19

      bruh, chloe was in no way, shape, or form a favorite

    • @briefthings
      @briefthings 3 года назад +6

      @@oldiesdm81 and Chloe was in no way shape or form an underdog

  • @MW53516
    @MW53516 3 года назад +138

    I loved Camryn. Nobody ever gave her any credit but she’s a beautiful dancer and jumped right in and fit in with the other girls right away. They tried out dozens of girls over the years and very few fit in.

  • @thefrug4755
    @thefrug4755 3 года назад +546

    “Holly was the most normal one of the moms”
    We been knew that and also finally camryn gets some respect thank you Cheryl for saying she’s was the most talented cause agreed

  • @CucFan
    @CucFan 3 года назад +531

    I'm so glad you bonded with Chloe. I don't know who could help it. Don't know if you've ever watched the old DM episodes, but if you do, you'll see her love of dance, even in season 3-4 when she was being treated so badly. The first solo I saw from her was the reunion version of "Seeing Red" -- my GOD. How could she be only 12 years old and capable of that? Then I saw earlier solos.... if you watch them be sure to watch the choreographer's cut or put "full dance" in your search. I still marvel at how beautifully she danced Wreck It, Another Girl, I Know It's Too Late, Into Me, Lucky Star... and all her musical theatre solos from when she was little -- I Want to be a Rockette, Ma He's Makin' Eyes at Me, I Like to Fuss.... and the other times when she took my breath away and looked like a professional --- The Raven, Black Heart, Angry Bird, Fired Up, Unchained, the group dance Light As A Feather, Stiff As A Board... even the Upside Down from season 7 (when she was briefly with MDP) Classic ALDC group dances like Glam, Bollywood and Vine, On the Verge, Just Be, This Is My Beauty, Rosa Parks, Free at Last, Gone Too Soon, The Last Text, I Want It Now, Sassy Dolls, Silver Spoons, Girls Night Out, Broken Dolls (even though she fell), even the problematic Tribal Council.... she always gave her all and drew the eye. If nothing else, you should see Silence from season 2 nationals - at age 11! - and Dream on a Star - age 10. I still get chills watching those from the pure emotion. Her group dances in Studio 19 are amazing too, especially Break the Silence and the senior first place winning duet (at age 13) Hangin' By A Thread. Of course the Love Is Blindness and Alice dance videos while so different are special to us fans also. So many other Dance Moms solos (and duets, trios and group dances). But it's not just the dancing, it's her sweet little heart that grew into this wonderful, genuine warmth that you can see in everything she does even now. Thank you for everything you did for her. I only wish you had been able to train her longer.

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb 3 года назад +25

      Wow you are a super fan lol but I agree Chole had the same potential as Maddie, but Abby purposely broke her to hurt Chrissy. It so sad because she had a suck a natural talent and that's rare.

    • @user-mq7dn8sr5z
      @user-mq7dn8sr5z 3 года назад

      I cba to read that whats the shortened vr

    • @raulmora156
      @raulmora156 3 года назад +8

      The way you know all of her dances lmaaoo

    • @sofiaabate8262
      @sofiaabate8262 Год назад +2

      i totally agree! Abby said that she never wanted to her to win, and she won anyways sometimes!!! It was totally Chloe’s talent, as she was never given choreography as great as her competitors were getting, but she shined through anyways because she had that spark and natural skill. That’s why she was also chosen for the Joffrey ballet school scholarship. I’ve always loved how she danced and i’m so sorry that the traumatic experience ruined it for her. you could specially see it in s4, how burned out she really was and that’s why she didn’t progress as a dancer. im really sad about that, but im glad to hear Cheryl has bonded with her! Chloe seems so sweet, I wouldn’t want anything but all things good for her 💗

  • @zoecassidy3269
    @zoecassidy3269 3 года назад +1022

    Us all at Camryn's comment: 😮😮😮

    • @hannabobo4187
      @hannabobo4187 3 года назад +8

      So true....

    • @marissaritz1032
      @marissaritz1032 3 года назад +13

      what did she say? i can’t find it 🥺

    • @hannabobo4187
      @hannabobo4187 3 года назад +2

      @@marissaritz1032 Did you go to the top of the comment section? It’s there.

    • @hannabobo4187
      @hannabobo4187 3 года назад +7

      @@marissaritz1032 For me, it’s a few comments down from this one.

    • @amberalexander5167
      @amberalexander5167 3 года назад +1

      What did she say?

  • @gracerodhouse2695
    @gracerodhouse2695 3 года назад +131

    the way you replaced the queen of “everybody’s replaceable”, iconic

  • @Aurea8787
    @Aurea8787 3 года назад +209

    Nia’s dance to your choreo in the red dress was her best dance ever IMO. You seemed to give her confidence, too.

  • @Kaice88
    @Kaice88 3 года назад +432

    Okay so I’m happy to hear that Holly is who she seems to be, the most sane Dance Mom! She definitely had her moments but she definitely seemed the most under control. Also yes Cameron isn’t an OG but she fit with them so well (including Gia I think her name is. Whoever came in with cam and Abby kicked her off), I honestly wish they kept her for the tour because she was apart of that final season and she was there longer than most guests, and she basically joined the team towards the end. It also makes sense that she was the most talented because the other girls didn’t have the classes they needed to progress over the past few seasons, but Cameron did. It sucks to hear that so many of the girls lost their passion for dance. Really shows how poorly Abby treated them, sometimes I thought it was for show but even on her social media now she still seems like a very angry person. I’m glad they all found passions in other things like acting and singing. It makes sense that Maddie would be one of the few to still be dancing because she got so much special attention (wether it was real or not) and she got so much real world experience away from Abby. That being said it sounds like there’s still some fakery to the comps, especially with your whole “listen they have 3 judges..” lol I mean I get it. You don’t want to shit where you work or once worked and that’s fine. Luckily the girls have already spilled the tea so you don’t have to lol. Sorry for the long comment. Just a huge fan of you and dance moms!

    • @sarahwilliams911
      @sarahwilliams911 3 года назад +9

      It’s daviana hahahah gia is a dance teacher

    • @Kaice88
      @Kaice88 3 года назад +1

      @@sarahwilliams911 oh yes! thank you! I knew it was wrong but I could not remember for the life of me lol

    • @sarahwilliams911
      @sarahwilliams911 3 года назад +3

      @@Kaice88 hahahah I feel that I can’t remember names to save my life Idk how I knew that

  • @WannabeChunLi_
    @WannabeChunLi_ 3 года назад +328

    THANK YOU FOR GIVING CAMRYN HER PROPS ON DANCING. Camryn was always overlooked and when you came in, she finally got some of the attention and spotlight that she deserved. Definitely my favorite dancer from dance moms

  • @haleyyelah8045
    @haleyyelah8045 3 года назад +168

    Abby wanting the girls to win all the time and Cheryl just wanting them to have fun is the difference between punishment and passion.

    • @monkeyrun
      @monkeyrun Месяц назад

      The dance moms signed their girls up to be on Abby's competition team.
      They are not there to dance as a hobby. It's unfortunate that the girls did not understand the assignment.

  • @jessicaoakes4836
    @jessicaoakes4836 3 года назад +136

    i love how transparent this was. this is what the fans needed

  • @camrynbridges11
    @camrynbridges11 3 года назад +6359

    Thanks for the compliment and I understand this was years ago, but since we’re bringing it back up I never had an attitude with you present... that was stress which I thought I explained, and that it was clear that I just wanted to do my best and was hard on myself... so please don’t say I sat there and rolled my eyes when I wasn’t getting attention. For one I was never the favorite anywhere, so if anything I was very used to not getting attention... and if I did roll my eyes it was at myself & my mistakes if anything...I don’t want any more bad press coming from this show after already healing from it, so just wanted to get that straight... Never have been and never will be that type of person, thank you.

  • @cassiecampbell2017
    @cassiecampbell2017 3 года назад +292

    I grew up with a mom like Abby Lee Miller. As a young girl being constantly yelled at, shamed, and put down with nobody standing up for me(bc that is what a mother is supposed to do...) I felt scared and alone. Dance Moms was in many ways, a comfort to me, knowing other girls my age could relate to what I was going through, and watch them grow out of their shells and overcome their fear of Abby gave me the strength to do that for myself. #thankyoudancemoms

    • @EraDanceMusic
      @EraDanceMusic 3 года назад +5

      I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I did not have such a big opportunity to dance however my mum was very similar regard my school and grades.

  • @hibanizami
    @hibanizami 3 года назад +195

    It’s nice to hear the holly on screen and off screen was the most normal cuz her, nia, Chloe and at times Jill were always my faves, so glad to hear the chloe was sweet too ☺️💕

    • @trinitybolton8214
      @trinitybolton8214 3 года назад +7

      Same!! I had mixed emotions about jill sometimes she made me mad sometimes i rly liked her! 🤪

    • @miav1399
      @miav1399 3 года назад +3

      Yeah same like she’s fine and sure she might of gone too far but overall she’s really funny and caring especially for her little Kendall

  • @fashionlover5195
    @fashionlover5195 3 года назад +281

    Enjoyed this video... Have to say I feel like Camryn is misunderstood. Some of that "attitude" might come from the other girls shutting her out/saying some insensitive things to a black girl... listening to some of her own version of events, that's what it sounded like. (She also said Nia, was always lovely to her). Often black girls are told they need to work on their attitudes, as an end result of all the b.s. they've had to endure on top of the everyday struggles. Attitude is often hurt in these situations. Hopefully she's learnt to express herself better, as she can't act the same way some of the other girls (shown on the show giving attitude) are privileged to do, without being judged harshly.

    • @princess_tamia_25
      @princess_tamia_25 3 года назад +27

      TALK ABOUT IT! This was worded perfectly.

    • @cjj3229
      @cjj3229 3 года назад +24

      Thank you, This was beautifully said. Some people will never understand this struggle, but the first to speak about how others should act or react. When you have never walked a mile in another person's shoes you will never understand their walk or experience in this life.

    • @tylerthomas1015
      @tylerthomas1015 3 года назад +8

      YOU BETTER SAY THAT. AND I HOPE CHERLY READS THIS!!!

    • @Itstysheahhh
      @Itstysheahhh Год назад +3

      And when cam came here and corrected this shes being bashed🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @aviparmy-lthatblinkedoncew774
      @aviparmy-lthatblinkedoncew774 Год назад +12

      This entire show villainized black women and made them look like incompetent dancers especially Jill who constantly made slick remarks about all of the black dancers on the team when they all out danced her child

  • @tomarnold7284
    @tomarnold7284 2 года назад +81

    "Nia, she's a woman." Already showing her respect to the students by seeing them as grown-ups. 👍

    • @mari.xcxwsq
      @mari.xcxwsq Год назад

      she’s not a woman, a women is 25+

    • @tomarnold7284
      @tomarnold7284 Год назад +7

      @@mari.xcxwsq There are no specific age to define a "woman". I've met females who age beyond 25 but still acting like a child.

    • @mari.xcxwsq
      @mari.xcxwsq Год назад

      @@tomarnold7284 the human brain is fully developed at 25, anyone under 18 is a girl and over 25 is a women and in between is neither, but more so a girl

    • @mari.xcxwsq
      @mari.xcxwsq Год назад

      @@tomarnold7284 same with men, anyone under 18 is a boy, and over 25 is a man

    • @kelsey2333
      @kelsey2333 Год назад +2

      @@mari.xcxwsq a legal woman is 18+. A physical and emotional woman, can vary in age. Yes our frontal lobes arnt fully formed until age 25, that doesn't mean your not a woman until then. The only thing that you need to be at least 25 years old to do is rent a vehicle. (This is in the states)

  • @rainewright5824
    @rainewright5824 3 года назад +175

    This was such a refreshing take on Dance moms: commentary on the experience, girls and their moms. Thank you for sharing and being a positive mentor. Love ya

  • @samuelesocchi5060
    @samuelesocchi5060 3 года назад +51

    I have to admit that the “ugh, go back on vacation” quote, has become one of my catchphrases. LOL

  • @Elong.
    @Elong. 3 года назад +44

    I felt so bad for those girls and I was so happy they had you as a coach. Thank you for supporting the girls and showing them what positive coaching looks like. 👏

  • @abbieprice3430
    @abbieprice3430 3 года назад +38

    I’m glad we heard Cheryl’s side of the story of what working on Dance Moms was like in her eyes! I wonder how she would feel about any of the girls competing on DWTS in the same season as her!

  • @allyburnett3315
    @allyburnett3315 3 года назад +143

    I'm glad you were honest and all the girls are adults now so no shame in the truth. You said good things about all of them. If someone has an attitude, then they have one and sometimes calling it out can help them realize it. I would hate to be known as the one who always rolled my eyes..but if I'm told every one sees it I'd for sure stop.

    • @butterpopcorn7552
      @butterpopcorn7552 3 года назад +15

      Read Camryn's reply

    • @Jffy1902
      @Jffy1902 3 года назад +2

      She was a kid. Im sure everyone has kid moments when they are a literal child....

    • @allyburnett3315
      @allyburnett3315 3 года назад

      @@Jffy1902 ya but honestly look at all the drama from Charlie and Dixie from looking rude and rolling their eyes and they were held to a higher standard. Those girls had followers then too that would be looking up to them and think its kool to be a brat. I didn't see kameryns comment before posting mine though to be fair

    • @JinjiSayson
      @JinjiSayson 3 года назад +12

      There's a lot of negative stereotypes about Black people though, many folks often mischaracterize their benign actions as being rude or unkind, and it kind of seems like that's why Camryn replied to Cheryl; she didn't want her actions to be misinterpreted and reinforcing a negative stereotype.

    • @allyburnett3315
      @allyburnett3315 3 года назад

      @@JinjiSayson i totally agree.

  • @Bangtanlicious-ev3sn
    @Bangtanlicious-ev3sn Год назад +43

    I'm honestly surprised that Abby didn't get arrested for child abuse. Bc the verbal abuse she gave those kids was appalling.

    • @bernicesmith1173
      @bernicesmith1173 Год назад

      She was 👹💯

    • @kelsey2333
      @kelsey2333 Год назад

      Verbal abuse isnt illegal I dont think

    • @amazinggraciegurl
      @amazinggraciegurl 5 месяцев назад +2

      Unfortunately you can't get arrested for verbal abuse. 😞

  • @jamaylarenea
    @jamaylarenea 3 года назад +227

    i feel like abby is the reason some girls lost the passion for dance

    • @laraemeyer
      @laraemeyer 3 года назад +10

      Definitely. You can tell in season 4 that Abby destroyed Chloe’s passion for dance.

    • @calebsmommy812
      @calebsmommy812 3 года назад +4

      Absolutely she did. Abby made it a job rather than a passion. A job that they couldn't quit bc of the contracts

    • @queensheem3337
      @queensheem3337 3 года назад

      exactly especially how she yelled at them

  • @xanaxalbarranx1225
    @xanaxalbarranx1225 3 года назад +51

    Original only two (Chloe and Nia) the other girls arrived after...

  • @cjinpa5713
    @cjinpa5713 3 года назад +73

    As a fan of anything dance on television, I was like YES!! Cheryl is exactly who these girls need right now!! And then immediately though god I hope hope the moms don’t ruin it!! 🤷‍♀️ Even though it was rough at first, I’m so glad you did it. Especially for them. I had a small town dance studio and I can’t believe how Abby acted towards those girls. If there’s a dance god, they definitely called in Cheryl to the rescue!! I liked the bit of ballroom in their routine. I funded my own pro am ballroom dance career in my 20’s and would put it in my students routines for their recital. They loved it!! 🩰💃🕺👯‍♀️🎶

  • @keepmeinurorbit
    @keepmeinurorbit 3 года назад +213

    Of course queen Dr. Holly is the smartest 👑

  • @IdolEyes84
    @IdolEyes84 3 года назад +124

    Love Kalani and Chloe. Doesn't surprise me Holly just reads lol. :)

    • @v4756
      @v4756 3 года назад +6

      Samee❤

    • @smhsav
      @smhsav 3 года назад +30

      too bad, Kalani is a Trump support and nia went off on her story bc of it.

  • @azraasaldin7971
    @azraasaldin7971 3 года назад +78

    THANK YOU RUclips FOR RECOMMENDING THIS TO ME.

  • @cheeriozombie
    @cheeriozombie 3 года назад +26

    *Nia* is absolutely beautiful, funny, bubbly and she definitely did not get enough recognition! Her mom was also the easiest-going mother, and super intelligent to boot. I’m so glad Cheryl had time for Nia and realized that she really was a stunning dancer with loads of potential.
    *Chloe* is the sweetest soul ever. She was so supportive towards her team no matter what- she even lost her 1st place trophy to Maddie after an “accident” with scoring, and STILL, with tears in her eyes, said she was happy for Maddie. This all occurred when the poor girl was 7!! And she handled everything with such grace.
    *Kendal* came a long way since she first came on the show. If there was a trophy for it, Kendal would have gotten the “biggest improvement” trophy. She shed many tears over the course of the show and it’s really unfair. Kendal held just as much potential as the other girls, and it’s a big shame she lost her love for dance. Kendal was a performer and super entertaining to watch.
    *cheryl* thank your for seeing something in these girls that Abby turned a blind eye to. Thank you for looking at all of them, and being able to see a strength in each of these girls. You gave them more emotional support, strength, courage, and FUN in their last season of dance moms then they potentially had on any other season.
    *Abby* you lost out on these girls. Here’s a favorite quote of yours...
    Big mistake, Abby, big mistake.

  • @NoThankUBeQuiet
    @NoThankUBeQuiet 3 года назад +266

    I feel like Christy comes out one way but you see her as a pretty great mom over all and extremely intelligent

    • @marilyn1984
      @marilyn1984 3 года назад +33

      All christy wants is for kids to great the same equal opportunity and great training and great classes and wants a good teacher

    • @briannawilliams9819
      @briannawilliams9819 3 года назад +6

      @@marilyn1984 literally ! And she definitely fought for her daughter and the other girls

    • @danielle3111
      @danielle3111 3 года назад

      @@marilyn1984 well now she doesn't even talk to her daughter 🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @marilyn1984
      @marilyn1984 3 года назад +1

      @@danielle3111 don’t believe what you see on social media and DONT THINK you know their relationship off social media

    • @danielle3111
      @danielle3111 3 года назад

      @@marilyn1984 that's what Christy literally said

  • @lyniahlaviolette9758
    @lyniahlaviolette9758 3 года назад +55

    Yes I absolutely love the show because of Cheryl.been waiting for forever

  • @samanthaflynn6140
    @samanthaflynn6140 3 года назад +23

    Can you Imagine if Chloe was trained by someone that gave her quality time and didn't beat her down. She would have been winning left and right!!!

  • @ambermercado790
    @ambermercado790 3 года назад +102

    I feel you cheryl . Those mom were crazy and they just made me laugh with the stuff they got mad for but I understand there purpose of being mad cuz they want the better for there child. Also I didn’t notice you was on dance mom until I watched it again and saw it I was like “oh snap my fav dwts member is on that show let’s go “ !!!. Your a great teacher and those girl were lucky to have you as ther teacher and to finish the season. Instead of Abby crazy self lol

  • @reginahay4998
    @reginahay4998 3 года назад +65

    Cheryl is so underrated, I would love to take a class of hers or train with her one day.

    • @Constantin9va
      @Constantin9va 3 года назад +3

      Oh my GOSH that would be the DREAM! I need someone to critique me like that. Truthfully, but respectfully. Unlike the old dance teacher, she seems to be an actual human that you can reason with!

    • @reginahay4998
      @reginahay4998 3 года назад +4

      @@Constantin9va Exactly, I knew Cheryl won’t sugar coat anything with me but she’ll still be kind and push me to be a better dancer. N I love that she actually takes time to try and form relationships, not just get the dance over with.

    • @Constantin9va
      @Constantin9va 3 года назад +2

      @@reginahay4998 YASS! 🥰✨🩰 it’s the dream! Now I see Cheryl’s stuff all up in my adds but I don’t mind! It used to be all that ClassICKly Abbie cringe fest! So thankful I don’t have to see that clASSickly smug face anymore!

  • @isabelan.2756
    @isabelan.2756 3 года назад +58

    So has Cheryl taken any psych courses ?? Because this Queen is perfectly describing grounding and using terms to describe things the same way I would as a BSW student

    • @levieve7779
      @levieve7779 Год назад +5

      A lot of those grounding techniques come from embodied practices like dance. Speaking as a Dance/Movement Therapist and Counselor.

  • @stephmacedo139
    @stephmacedo139 3 года назад +12

    Yay thank you for posting these videos!! Love it.

  • @jennmorrison9886
    @jennmorrison9886 3 года назад +4

    this was so refreshing to watch and the honesty is amazing

  • @themistress92
    @themistress92 3 года назад +63

    Queen Holly & Nia strike again! 👑

  • @inesvdiaries
    @inesvdiaries 3 года назад +29

    I love this and the transparency!!! so glad you brought a good impact to the end of the girls’ journey on the show

  • @gracebedell7606
    @gracebedell7606 3 года назад +10

    I’ve been waiting for thisssss

  • @victorialingtrinh
    @victorialingtrinh 3 года назад +40

    I loved this video. Finally someone who’s so honest about it!!! Also I’m so sorry you and Aj got eliminated IM GONNA MISS WATCHING YOU GUYS!!! ❤️❤️❤️😔

  • @brycecurtis5285
    @brycecurtis5285 3 года назад +8

    Awh you can really see her love for all the girls when she speaks abt them. I loved the honesty!

  • @karis5892
    @karis5892 3 года назад +31

    just wanna say a huge, massive thank you to Cheryl, u did so much for the girls and moms, and have been a ridiculously amazing teacher to them. and tbh, that last ballroom'ish number, I can say was the best, my favorite dance among the whole show (little dwts fan here

  • @AloLovex
    @AloLovex 3 года назад +23

    she brought the BEST out of them as dancers. the choreography she did with these girls really highlights the strength of these young dancers. Nia and Kendall looked AMAZING! they were always seen as the worst or laziest dancers, which is simply not true. They really got to shine with Cheryl as their teacher, all of the girls did. Love to see it

  • @gendelcid4823
    @gendelcid4823 3 года назад +9

    I’m in their age group and I always wanted to dance and seeing them dance made me so happy like I care for these girls so much as if we were friends and I’m so glad you came in and tried to leave things on a good note after all the trauma they have lived through that I wish someone would address because mental health is a serious matter!! love you!!

  • @lindabishop-surbeck2575
    @lindabishop-surbeck2575 3 года назад +2

    I just finished bing watch these videos. It was nice to get to know you as a person. The biggest thing I learned was how you work on you. Don’t stop! I’ll be trying some more meditation.

  • @jaklinn_
    @jaklinn_ 3 года назад +5

    I love your channel!!! Thank you for making videos💕

  • @brittbc4215
    @brittbc4215 3 года назад +3

    I love that you were so real and honest! Also bless you for the Nia love!! She never gets enough credit “just for being curvier” when she’s still amazing

  • @lydiaspriesterbach597
    @lydiaspriesterbach597 3 года назад +115

    Keira watching this like
    👁👄👁

  • @thecomorbiditycurator8018
    @thecomorbiditycurator8018 Год назад +6

    you were exactly what those girls needed at that time in their life. you should be very proud of the impact you had on them and their relationship with dance. Season 7 is my favorite because you can really see the girls becoming confident and comfortable in themselves rather than seeking validation from others.

  • @samantha70
    @samantha70 3 года назад +6

    I loved this vlog! forgot how that you taught the girls lol. Im proud of you Cheryl. You genuinely saw the girls for who they were and i know you left your little mark in their hearts. I love watching your channel, you always have surprises.

  • @bridgiemon
    @bridgiemon 3 года назад +128

    Cast Chloe or Nia on DWTS!

    • @spidermiss2426
      @spidermiss2426 3 года назад +31

      I would actually love to see Holly on DWTS

    • @chevon1920
      @chevon1920 3 года назад +5

      @@spidermiss2426 oh yesss, I think she’s probably the best dancing mom.

    • @godislove9273
      @godislove9273 3 года назад +2

      Both

    • @miav1399
      @miav1399 3 года назад

      Yeah!! If Mackenzie can do it they can both

  • @solinelgonzalez8312
    @solinelgonzalez8312 3 года назад +21

    This video came on my suggestions so out of nowhere but this is cool. I stopped watching the show long ago because Abby was awful to those girls. I bet that having you as a teacher was much needed and a breath of fresh air.

  • @annas7350
    @annas7350 3 года назад +82

    Honestly, I had to stop watching dance moms because it was just so clear to me that the show was much more about exploiting the emotions of the cast to gain recognition. I felt so bad for the girls and they should not describe the experience they had as CHILDREN as traumatic. Hearing you describe it like that made sense but also made me really sad.

  • @KLB1218
    @KLB1218 3 года назад +3

    Cheryl is so honest, I love it!! And her discernment on the moms and kids, I agreed with!!

  • @MindfulMya
    @MindfulMya 3 года назад +45

    I would totally love to see you on the DWTS panel instead of Carrie Ann...I think you would be a breath of fresh air!

  • @ashleighbazemore7383
    @ashleighbazemore7383 3 года назад +5

    Christi is such a good person! No one can convince me other wise the love she would show each girl on the show was amazing.

  • @judymanzanares7640
    @judymanzanares7640 3 года назад +1

    Your awesome to have positively contributed your time to these young ladies . Thanks for sharing this story.

  • @michelleimler1024
    @michelleimler1024 3 года назад +12

    love this video and you and aj did amazing this season and i hope they ask you to judge in a future season of dwts if you do decide to retire because your a great pro and amazing dancer to on dwts

  • @aprilpettit8393
    @aprilpettit8393 3 года назад +11

    I never watched the show but did dance as a little girl. My mom was a dance mom for sure. I still remember dance and have some of my outfits still.

  • @christinastephens7804
    @christinastephens7804 3 года назад +16

    You’re such a great instructor ❤️

  • @Choleloverofdancemomsandmaddie
    @Choleloverofdancemomsandmaddie 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your story for the art as a dancer who loss the love for dance you brought new hope in me

  • @madisontaylor17
    @madisontaylor17 3 года назад

    I’ve been waiting for this one!!!!

  • @moonundernostalgia
    @moonundernostalgia 3 года назад +19

    Every Dance Teacher should be like Cheryl ❤ she is an angel 😇

  • @debbielyons7040
    @debbielyons7040 3 года назад +13

    Fantastic job with these girls Cheryl!!!

  • @laceysilver5714
    @laceysilver5714 3 года назад +12

    YOU AREthe teacher these girls needed

  • @corlissiacollazo6534
    @corlissiacollazo6534 3 года назад +1

    Thank U For Taking Over The Last Couple Weeks For The OG 👏💞

  • @trymainealfred5000
    @trymainealfred5000 3 года назад +5

    Most accurate video. I was there for it all! 🤣 We had tons of fun and jokes during your run!

    • @Rha_C
      @Rha_C 3 года назад +1

      Wow. Were you apart of the crew? I think I recognize your name from one of Nia's vlogs.

    • @trymainealfred5000
      @trymainealfred5000 3 года назад +1

      @@Rha_C hahaha I know the vlog ep you're talking about.

  • @joshsoto1797
    @joshsoto1797 3 года назад +4

    Cheryl is critical, yet so proper! I loved this video! Huge Dance Moms Fan. 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @abbywiatrowski3649
    @abbywiatrowski3649 3 года назад +2

    I love you Cheryl! I was so sad when you got eliminated on DWTS!

  • @beautybybian
    @beautybybian 3 года назад +2

    The Survivor dance was fire 🔥 I wish it was performed in heels 🙌🏼 good job Cheryl! 💖💖

  • @lacienewcombe5121
    @lacienewcombe5121 2 года назад +6

    I respect how you treated the girls, you could tell they started to enjoy dance again once you took over or even if they lost the passion at least they enjoyed the last part❤️

  • @jessicarector6507
    @jessicarector6507 3 года назад +5

    Love Dance Moms, Love this, LOVE you!! What's so funny is that Ballroom is now ALL OVER dance competitions! At least here in AZ, it's very popular now, and taught (by some amazing instructors) at all of the competitive studios in this area. I can't believe any judge would a, say that so disrespectfully to you and b, be so ignorant to think that it's not important for ALL dancers to be well rounded!!

  • @haddiecoll5473
    @haddiecoll5473 4 месяца назад

    I loved when you took over on Dance Moms! The last number was awesome! Thank you for showing those girls they had talent!

  • @Kylieahann
    @Kylieahann 3 года назад +1

    Love this. Thanks for sharing and would love to see more.

  • @MrGabbo009
    @MrGabbo009 3 года назад +16

    I think the reality is no the same as another, you had a short experience, they had thousands of different experiences, it's good that everything has been a learning process for everyone and also for the audience.

  • @bethlanglois9361
    @bethlanglois9361 3 года назад +10

    You helped these girls get over abbys narcissistic abuse 💕🙏

  • @danceaudioswapsaldc8116
    @danceaudioswapsaldc8116 2 года назад +1

    This was great!!!! Thank you for making this 🙏🏼
    You truly told us what we all were thinking, they lost their passion through Abby/the show. It was sad to watch.
    Chloe was always my favorite ☺️

  • @booksandbeauty4381
    @booksandbeauty4381 Год назад

    I have been struggling with anxiety for awhile and I have always for just pressing my hand against the wall helps. Just to feel something solid and strong. Helps so much

  • @evelin259
    @evelin259 3 года назад +40

    The only ogs are holly and christie and nia and chloe

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb 3 года назад +1

      Yeah I cringe when she said I worked with the OGs. I mean Kendall technically is too because she came season two, but Jill just makes us not want to count her because she honest brought the stereotype "dance mom" character to life.

  • @aaronryn
    @aaronryn 3 года назад +11

    Favorite Part of DM: Cheryl says to Jill “Are you done bitching?”

  • @dinogurl97
    @dinogurl97 3 года назад

    Oml I’ve been watching dwts since I was 3 and now she is talking about being on one of my favorite shows :)

  • @KtotheB1218
    @KtotheB1218 3 года назад +2

    I love how Cheryl speaks and says it all!! Without hesitation. Speaking her truth

  • @1blueyedgirl1
    @1blueyedgirl1 3 года назад +174

    This is Cheryl?? She looks so different 😯

    • @jacob-ni6jr
      @jacob-ni6jr 3 года назад +3

      Ikr-

    • @Minuet888
      @Minuet888 3 года назад +6

      I was going to say the same thing. Her eyes and brow look different. Possibly a row lift?

    • @kelsey2333
      @kelsey2333 3 года назад +8

      She looks like jaclyn hill in this

    • @velvet4299
      @velvet4299 3 года назад +2

      She has brown eyebrows now which can really change your face/look