Helping an ISFP through decay and depression | CS Joseph

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @user-ox3gq8jo6g
    @user-ox3gq8jo6g Год назад +20

    When Mike Tyson was younger, a bully killed one of his pigeons with his bare hands. "The guy ripped the head off my pigeon. This was the first thing I ever loved in my life, the pigeon," Tyson explained. "That was the first time I threw a punch

    • @Coneman3
      @Coneman3 3 месяца назад

      Tyson is an ISFP

  • @shsummers
    @shsummers Год назад +11

    It's great that you could show these ladies the first phone they've ever seen.

  • @Christie1127
    @Christie1127 2 месяца назад +2

    My ISFP ex-husband went through a long major depression. There was no getting him out of his mood. He would rage if he felt anxiety. I was very generous to him during the 10 years of marriage. I would get advice from my ESFP step mom. But when she would say anything he didn't feel good about he left her alone. Me i got the full spectrum of his emotions and who he wanted to break down and build up.

  • @SpeedUpThatComputer
    @SpeedUpThatComputer Год назад +18

    One thing for certain never take anything away from the ISFP whether it be innocence or something we value. Don't be like my mother who literally stole my PSP when i was a kid for drugs. If you want to trigger an ISFP's superego for some reason take something important to them.

  • @Whimsydaisy
    @Whimsydaisy Год назад +16

    Yeah. Learned in my early twenties that taking my innocence away from me really brings out my demon side. Was surrounded by people who liked to mock and belittle everything I did. Really messed me up

    • @qasimimtiaz9668
      @qasimimtiaz9668 Год назад +4

      stay away from optimistic Te/Ti users

    • @jhinthevirtuoso4886
      @jhinthevirtuoso4886 Год назад

      ​@@qasimimtiaz9668why?

    • @LaBrujaSigma
      @LaBrujaSigma 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah same. But it happened in my high school years. Never understood why other girls were so mean to me, like, I knew I wasn't exactly a "cool" kid, but I was acceptable, normal, and a very good friend. They mocked and belittled me anyways. Breaks my heart to think about that still...

    • @LaBrujaSigma
      @LaBrujaSigma 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@qasimimtiaz9668oh if I only knew back then... I'd say that isfps should keep Te heroes and ISTPs at a distance...INTPs are usually nice.

    • @missymae8333
      @missymae8333 5 месяцев назад

      Happened to me all growing up. Makes me wonder what I would've become if I'd had encouragement and support

  • @LaBrujaSigma
    @LaBrujaSigma 8 месяцев назад +1

    To keep my subconscious focused I always make sure I show my ENTP dad how much I love him. He's my angel.

    • @idiotslife8508
      @idiotslife8508 7 месяцев назад

      How does that make you turn to sub focus actually?

    • @LaBrujaSigma
      @LaBrujaSigma 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@idiotslife8508 watch the video...

  • @beezd6828
    @beezd6828 Месяц назад

    CSJ handling these 21 yo, esp the dude is the sweetest thing

  • @commando0110
    @commando0110 Год назад +5

    yeah my mom sold my nintendo 64 while i was away in the military. the only thing i said not to do anything with. im still angry about that.

  • @akaboo69
    @akaboo69 Год назад +7

    I want to play music be the next great guitarist. Teach music. Im a custodian right now it bores yet i want to be promoted to supervisor to grow in leadership. Ive thought about being an entrepreneur. Could be in flooring lawn care or even a music school

  • @lilzonek7711
    @lilzonek7711 Год назад +2

    I like that when you said blowing up a cloud of smoke was directed on the middle of the screen in 26min

  • @DreamxCreature
    @DreamxCreature Год назад +4

    That's a very interesting thing you said toward the end of the video about February being difficult. I have coworker who every year makes it a point to point out how there are all these bad memories associated with the specific month of November. Also know people who make it a point to tell me things like 'today was the day someone died.' It's a particular pattern that I've noticed in some people to track and hold onto dates and times. I totally lack that reverence for When something happened. It's interesting. I know it's not type related because you and all of those mentioned are very differing types, but may be function related. I wonder what function. I would merely guess at Si as the culprit

  • @zephdo2971
    @zephdo2971 Год назад +5

    wait is the woman an enfj? gosh i love how annoyed and defensive she got. it's kinda cute 😂 i hope they stay together for a long time. cute couple ngl

  • @Chris-fn4df
    @Chris-fn4df Год назад +2

    If you tried to do me my response would be: "You already know I won't, so why bother asking?"

  • @hannah_marie97
    @hannah_marie97 Год назад +10

    I'm over here trying to save up £600 for a typing, while these randomers get it for free 😅

  • @jaredvaughan1665
    @jaredvaughan1665 Год назад +6

    One way to help ISFPs is to inform them that, unlike INFPs, they ARE perceivers. Meaning they lead with a perceiving function.
    As Socionics and observable logic shows they lead with correctly defined SiFe = Si Aesthetic Fe mood. (SEI)

    • @LaBrujaSigma
      @LaBrujaSigma 8 месяцев назад

      INFPs are also perceivers. Socionics has a different system.
      I believe the "program function" in socionics is "the critic" in Jungian analytical psychology, "the creative" is "the nemesis" and so on...
      If u search for each type, u will find that INFj is "the empath", INFp is "the lyricist", ISTp "the craftsman", ISTj "the inspector", etc. Same types, same code of letters... different systems to explain them.

  • @JungianStar25
    @JungianStar25 Год назад +5

    All true in this video
    Also, I really don't like you but I still listen to you for several years now, cause it could be very informative and useful
    Thank you

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Год назад +8

      You don’t like me but you listen to me anyway…. *facepalm

    • @JungianStar25
      @JungianStar25 Год назад

      @@CSJoseph exactly right 😂

    • @SpeedUpThatComputer
      @SpeedUpThatComputer Год назад +10

      "I don't like the man giving the content but i like the content"

    • @DaisyDonahue
      @DaisyDonahue Год назад

      @@SpeedUpThatComputer Just curious about what you meant by your comment? ?

    • @DaisyDonahue
      @DaisyDonahue Год назад

      @@CSJoseph Also, I personally feel like it's tragic that Avicii (an ISFP you typed) and other people like Chester Bennington took their own life. I feel like we really need to advocate for people (especially people going through struggles like they were) so no one else is lost. There is more love and light shining in the world with many people giving their inspiration to one another. Avicii and Chester Bennington both did that for so many, myself included.

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 Год назад +7

    Guy looked too cool to be ISTJ imo

    • @Jack-vn8jy
      @Jack-vn8jy 6 месяцев назад +2

      The whole online typology community gives people negative bias towards SJ's. In reality they are just as capable of being cool as everyone else.

    • @Coneman3
      @Coneman3 6 месяцев назад

      Maintaining the matrix and resisting positive change ain’t cool

    • @Jack-vn8jy
      @Jack-vn8jy 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Coneman3 redirecting prejudice and reinforcing negative stereotypes about a group of people isn't cool either

    • @Coneman3
      @Coneman3 6 месяцев назад

      You are what you are. Rejecting a personality typing makes no difference. Are you like an SJ?? The thing is you think you make your own choices, so if you don’t like SJ characteristics, change! But you can’t change your personality type. If you are an SJ, you choose what SJ choose. Whether that’s cool or not is subjective I guess.

    • @Coneman3
      @Coneman3 6 месяцев назад

      You don’t want to be negatively judged, yet I’m sure you judge others in your life. Wanting to have cake and eat it comes to mind. SJ will think SJ things are cool. NFs will think NF things are cool etc.

  • @portraitofafreewomanofcolo5404
    @portraitofafreewomanofcolo5404 Год назад +3

    When he said you what you should never take away from an ISFP first thing that popped to my head was virginity but i was like joking in my head then when he continued i was like 😮
    PS; as an ISFP i ❤ U CS!

    • @optimist-ri1439
      @optimist-ri1439 Год назад +1

      You know, I didn't think of virginity until he said it, but that for me makes sense.
      I grew up around fatherlessness. A close friend lost her father to a robbery gone wrong. So her mom worked a lot. My friend got pregnant and had her 1st child at 13 and another at 15. I use to help her with her 1st baby, going with her to the daycare to pick her up...the thing I remember thinking is this is too hard and now she is not free to be a child or enjoy her youth. So I didn't want anything taking away my freedom, so I didn't want to take any chance..NONE!
      I waited until I was married...
      Waiting became part of my values

  • @LaBrujaSigma
    @LaBrujaSigma 6 месяцев назад +1

    The old lady dancing at 24:10 😂

  • @saavyz
    @saavyz Год назад +5

    Algorithmic comment.

  • @sandradibiaso7316
    @sandradibiaso7316 Год назад +1

    Do you think that I am an ESFP or an ISFP? I honestly shouldn't give a sh--.

  • @louisejoel
    @louisejoel Год назад +3

    Alcohol shrinks the brain

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 Год назад +2

    ESFJ and ISTP?

  • @Greg-lw4zb
    @Greg-lw4zb Год назад +2

    ISTGangsta

  • @ScaryMango6755
    @ScaryMango6755 Год назад +8

    Enfj and Istj couple

  • @qasimimtiaz9668
    @qasimimtiaz9668 Год назад +1

    why you don’t think i’m intj?

  • @Uteria_888
    @Uteria_888 Месяц назад

    Holy shite...
    I'm an ISFP.

  • @NotCJ95
    @NotCJ95 11 месяцев назад +2

    I despise how that girl acts… maybe I’m not an xNFP 😂😂😂😂

  • @jt_rooster3228
    @jt_rooster3228 Год назад

    Psychiatric help? At least there’s trials with medicine being done to treat brain damage.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Год назад +3

      That’s good news