Disgusting how her parents had OP basically raise the daughter THEY brought into the world. Like maybe instead of having OP be the “good big sister,” THEY should be the “good mom and dad” and do their freaking jobs
Or maybe they should considered not having a second child if they gonna let the older one be the parent. They practically made op his sister second mom.
from experience, a lot of people who have toxic homelives work extra hard to get through school to at least not be lambasted for being inferior and dumb or to just escape as fast as possible by getting into a prestigious school far far away from their family. sometimes its ur only escape.
True lol. They know their parents aren't gonna fund their college (which is usually the way to get a good job and be enough in life) so they work extra hard to get scholarships@@julios5262
@@iamjustagirlintheworlddyea i mean but some of the points she made trying to lift some of the blame off her and on the husband was really stupid in my opinion that's why the video has alot of hate against the OP
And being held to a higher standard just for being born first. How dare I also figure out life and make mistakes! How dare I not STOP my siblings from making their own mistakes! Yes, because I was born first I deserve to also accept responsibility for my siblings mistakes, misbehavior etc 🙄🙄🙄
Those are friends for life, the fact that they all got together and did this without her asking, doing what they were all feeling and making it clear They did OP some justice
This is yet another story where the golden child's future is ruined by their parents favouritism. The golden child may truly believe they are doing nothing wrong despite being a horrible person. Had there been boundaries she would have learned.
Favorite? They never bothered with her unless using her as a weapon against op. The only reason she's their favorite is because they were able to pawn her off on op. So she can parent her and not them.
Awful parents not even parenting one kid and making another kid the parent to the other and blaming that kid for the first kids mistakes not even teaching the child manners or social queues actual pathetic
I absolutely love it when parents who decided to have children choose to shove the responsibilities of taking care of said children onto their other children.
I'm glad OP went NC. I can tell that if she let's them have a relationship with her son, the moment her sister has a kid, they're just going to do the same to him.
This is a "no win" situation...parent will always side with the golden child even with the truth on op's side....op better cut these animals off....op instead concentrate on her real family....that is her husband, her child and the people who love her....
Unpopular opinion, but i feel a little sorry for Gigi. She was failed by her parents. She might have been a different person if they actually took care and raised her.
Thank you, I share your opinion. I think Gigi might have autism but combined with her parents way of "raising" her instead of learning some social norma and working it out or even just masking she actually ignored everything and became her lack of social awareness was overshadowed by her absolute rudeness and selfishness which are both bcs of her parents. She deserved better, but so did OP.
@@c0nfused_cookie As someone with bad autism, I agree and thought the same thing when the story started. The parents have just failed her by not teaching her right from wrong and how to behave in social places and such.
I was the oldest of 4 growing up. Sis; 2 yrs younger, sis; 10 yrs younger, bro; 15 yrs younger. My parents never expected me to babysit my siblings or to take them out with me. If they needed a sitter, I would always offer because I was happy to do it, never out of some obligation. OP’s parents need to understand that THEY caused this dysfunction in their family, not OP.
I am like this. My oldest son is 19 and I have never given him the responsibility to raise his younger siblings. I have given him the freedom to live his best life. I was literally in charge of taking care of my little brother because my mother was an alcoholic and my father was avoidant. Mind you, we have older siblings but they had their own families so I was in charge of my little brother. I was only 2 1/2 years older than him.
That's a genuinely sad story because in the end, the antipathy between OP and her sister is entirely constructed by her supid parents who couldn't be bother with raising their own child and used their eldest as a live-in nanny (which is clearly abuse). It also feels really sad for ginny because in the end, here parents enabled her crappy beahavior and never had any friend, and is now set in her ways as a grown adult. I've been in a similar situation after moving to a new school, trying to fit in where everyone was already friends and didn't need me but basically tolerated me because i was a classmate, and it really really sucks. So if their is really some bitch slapping to be had, it's in the parents face a hundred times.
Lmao, the parents and the sister don't see OP's friends are real, individual human beings, simply objects, and "toys" the older sister should share with the golden child. They're so disgusting, I don't feel bad for them at all. The friends have been treated like playthings for the sister to use, so who could blame them for wanting to send the message? The sister and the parents have no respect for boundaries at all, and it's very apparent that the sister being "mean" is the least of the worries when it comes to her behavior. She is a genuine psycho, who thinks everyone else are NPCs in her life, meant to serve her.
bruh OP needs a backbone she should have been NC with her parents for yearsss they basically parentified her. No wonder GG married someone 15 yrs older than, no sane person wants to deal with any of that
Thank you! Absolutely insane to me how she kept trying to explain herself. They had never in her life listened to what she had to say, I don’t know what would make her think they would care to listen now.
I was gonna say, why was OP trying to explain herself to her family like she was trying to mend the relationship? There was no hope of them ever listening from the very beginning.
For god's sake, why didnt OP call out her parents on their bullshit and say it to their face what terrible parents they were? They forced OP to raise her sister when the responsibly was theirs!
I feel slightly bad for the sister. If the parents were more involved or had her do extracurriculars, I'm sure she wouldn't feel as desperately lonely as she obviously is.
@@butmermaids7443 Yes, the way a child develops is not just their nature (genetics), speaking of genetics, based on her behavior since childhood, she might have some type of social disorder. But, if not, she can develop social issues and I blame the parents. The way an individual is most commonly affected by how they were raised. Like you said, her parents encouraged that behavior and they are at fault. They sheltered her, forced her to hang out with OP's friends, and didn't teach her how to socialize. And although she is an adult now, with the way her parents destroyed her, it has life-long lasting effects. The parents are the true AH in this story: they deprived their child of social development and forced responsibilities on another. The sister's behavior is not excusable even if she has a disorder; but there are reasons why she behaves like that and it's not entirely her fault.
at some point, an adult has to reflect on their actions and realize when they are the issue. she's an adult at this point. should her parents have enabled her? no. that's fucked. i feel bad for the child she was. at some point, you have to stop and wonder why everyone kept ditching you. and maybe she is neurotypical. but i'm pretty sure op would've stated that if they were aware of or suspected such.
Gigi will never accept she and her parents are the orchestrators of her own misery because that means she'll have to grow up and take responsibility and OP needs to get that she'll never win and go no contact
My thoughts exactly. Clearly that family isn't going to change. OP is just putting herself through unnecessary stress going back and forth with them after she left for college and they still continued to act the same way...SO to the friends for doing what OP didn't have the strength to do lol
@@FroggyGirlDreamsI mean sure but by now, OP made it clear that she already made that fact known but since it’s coming from someone ‘who’s always been against Gigi,’ they have little reason to believe her even if they supposedly care for OP. While I know the friends have no obligation to insert themselves into OP’s situation (ironic), I wish one of them called Gigi directly to tell her straight to her face what they specifically dislike about her, leaving OP out of it and even referencing the few moments that they spent with Gigi without OP and connect the dots for her about how the friends don’t like her regardless of whether or not OP is involved
@starlightshinebright1603 that's true I wish her friends just called her out to say nobody likes u gigi go home lmao. That would have solved years of drama.
Out of all the stories had heard on Reddit videos, this is one of the most depressing ones. I couldn't imagine being the one person no one liked to hang out with and for good reason too yet be completely oblivious to it Also 11:10 really? Why would she not blame you? How tf are you that clueless? Then to try and convince them? Why? You know how they are why waste your time?
This stories an example of a near (not complete, but near) hopeless case of someone who wants to believe she can still recoup something from her narcissist family, that she can somehow still mend bridges, and hasn't done the smart thing of cutting them out from her life completely.
Why do all these sound the same 1. Two sisters, one of them is the golden child and is spoiled by parents 2. Scholarships, and parents begging the child to stay close or just refuse to pay for college 3. Karma at the end for the golden child? Lmao
I could never have a golden cold. I know how much it hurts so i don't want to treat my kids that way. I understand how op feels about her golden sister.
Sometimes, you just got to say it like it is. In this case, they should've just told Gigi that they never saw her as a friend and that they always hated her.
Holy GOLDEN CHILD Batman. So… Op NEEDS to invite golden child to her wedding…oh but of course Golden Child doesn’t need to invite Op because its her choice who to invite. What an awful family Op has.
I actually feel bad for gigi, its like she never grew out of teenage phase, she grew up never having experienced self awareness. That thought process where she thought just being in a virtual group also translates irl being as "friends"? My girl, that's not how that works... And its frustrating how op doesn't get that there's also screw loose from her parents' head and that she might as well talking to wall- i mean thats prior to therapy. Im glad she took one even if its late. They're the classic parent and golden child team. Keep being in no contact until they die.
What gets me is OP was forced to invite her sister because of her parents, but when OP didn’t get an invite to her sister’s wedding, the parents didn’t do anything. Not that she wanted one, but it’s pretty clear who the parents think the golden child is.
I blame the parents for the sisters bad relationship. If they had allowed them to develop a normal relationship instead of parentifying Op, they may have been more civil.
Honestly, I wouldn't have gone to the direct family, but to the extended family after Update 2. Let them know the truth about your upbringing and the dresses. Not to rally an army, but because I am pretty sure your parents would have tried to save face by blaming you for not showing up. If your parents won't listen, then maybe an aunt will.
It's the parents fault since day 1. They let Gigi's upcoming into a child's hands and didn't care about caring for their own children. The only reason they blame you for everything is because they don't want to educate Gigi because they don't want to be parents. They obviously always knew Gigi was wrong, but by admitting it then they would have to parent Gigi, and they don't want that. That's also the reason why when you went to college they started to try to manipulate you into staying , because their free nanny was leaving. So it's not that they agree with Gigi, but that they don't want to spend their time dealing with a tantrum so they put the blame and the responsability on you.
I would have convinced everyone to go in white dresses either wedding dresses or similar ones! 😈 You can’t reason with a brick wall, better to leave with your sanity intact than to be used and discarded.
I was in the same situation as OP despite being only 2 years different than my younger sis. My sister followed me to every events, sleep overs and hang outs I made with my friends. The trick to make sure to humble them is to smack them every once in a while when they're being dumb. Be willing to get smacked by your own parents tho. Now, she barely listens to my mom and at least listens to me when I ask
Unpopular opinion. OP was an idiot. She kept on telling those pitiful excuses of parents how much their always favoring their golden brat but always gets told shes wrong. She really shouldn’t have kept on talking or even try to reason with them, even after the wedding fashion fiasco. Which was a petty, yet funny revenge. Should’ve went NC. She annoyed the hell out of me when she was “forced” to invite the golden brat to her wedding. She needed some therapy, and glad she’s finally getting it, but she still annoyed me so much. Hope she’s doing okay tho.
It really makes me feel disgusting in the inside to realize that these parents ruined her childhood. and the fact that the parents had a say on her wedding forcing her to invite Gigi and didn't care a lick when Gigi didn't invite her. I think it's really gosh darn funny that her friends showed up in the ridiculous outfits. And I deeply appreciate how she said her side of the story. Now all she has to do is show her parents the comment section. And those parents need to do their freakin job.
These Gigi and Naomi characters appear in many stories I have already watched four stories in which they appear in two negative roles in two videos and a positive role in one story
As a person who has an older sister, I don’t barge into my sister’s life, She will have me around IF SHE WANTS TO. I have my own friends that I made myself and my sister has her own, I visit them once in a while since they work near and my sister and her friends invite me when they want to, I don’t do anything embarrassing and if I did, my sister will lecture me and I will learn, I won’t be a brat about it.
OP needs to grow the hell up. Why even maintain a relationship with this family? Should've broke off with the family YEARS ago. OP doesnt have a sister problem; they have a parent problem
Maybe Gigi should learn how to handle the truth. You know... like the friend with the dollhouse that OP wasn't supposed to hang out with for that reason. By their logic OP shouldn't hang out with Gigi anymore. 🤷♀️
Gigi's own fault for not inviting OP! Just because they're not obliged to invite you to their wedding, doesn't mean that you have to be OK with it or be understanding!
Back home, older kids always have to help taking care of younger ones but they were never fully responsible, it's always parents' fault. The taking part is marely for child practice, so we grew up either becoming a responsible parent or traumatized for life we don't even gonna attempt teen s*x
Why has the older sister still not gone no contact with the sister and parents? Walk no run the other direction and stay away from them !! Toxic is toxic , walk away !!
no actually what is this I'm confused this is the 3 story regarding gigi i think there is something else going on the background her daughter's name is Naomi I only know 1 other story name but i don't know the other one the one which i know is I inherited everything from my ex-husbands mother after caring for her Now he and his mistress is threatening to sue me see it if you don't believe me
Disgusting how her parents had OP basically raise the daughter THEY brought into the world. Like maybe instead of having OP be the “good big sister,” THEY should be the “good mom and dad” and do their freaking jobs
Would've love to hear op reply to “be a good bit sister” with “be good parents”
Op was more of a mother to her sis then her parents were probably why her sister wanted to be around her so much
3 narcistic creatures, parents and sister. No hope, just avoid.
Or maybe they should considered not having a second child if they gonna let the older one be the parent. They practically made op his sister second mom.
I find it interesting that most of these stories involve OP being smart enough to get a full ride scholarship despite having a toxic home life
from experience, a lot of people who have toxic homelives work extra hard to get through school to at least not be lambasted for being inferior and dumb or to just escape as fast as possible by getting into a prestigious school far far away from their family. sometimes its ur only escape.
True lol. They know their parents aren't gonna fund their college (which is usually the way to get a good job and be enough in life) so they work extra hard to get scholarships@@julios5262
There was one where the op thought all the blame wasn't on her because she slept with her sister husband and said it wasn't completely her fault
@@Aurorossmc I mean...it's both the husband's and OP's fault. Takes two to tango
@@iamjustagirlintheworlddyea i mean but some of the points she made trying to lift some of the blame off her and on the husband was really stupid in my opinion that's why the video has alot of hate against the OP
Love how they became OP’s friends once they pissed off Gigi 🤣🤣
Right! But maybe it took that stunt for Gigi and her parents to finally realize what they've been trying to say for years 😅
First thing I thought, would have immediately said "you mean Gigi's friends?
Dear parents the oldest is not the fuckin parent you are so deal with it
fr, even if they’re a few years older then their siblings they’re still decades younger than the parents
I happen to be the oldest out of 6 and I can say this being the oldest does come with a lot of responsibility but you should never feel like a parent
And being held to a higher standard just for being born first. How dare I also figure out life and make mistakes! How dare I not STOP my siblings from making their own mistakes! Yes, because I was born first I deserve to also accept responsibility for my siblings mistakes, misbehavior etc
🙄🙄🙄
Exactly
My husband is only 15 months older than his brother. There mother always had him looking out for and babysitting him.
Those are friends for life, the fact that they all got together and did this without her asking, doing what they were all feeling and making it clear
They did OP some justice
its always the mom picking sides and spoiling the kid then the dad being a doormat in these stories lmao
The dad also picked her side? I've heard multiple stories where the dad was also the enabler.
Fake stories. Idk how ppl have time to write these bullshit stories
This is the result of a lacking strong/wise male presence, shit like this flies for years.
Your oldest child didn’t decide to have a younger sibling, YOU did, YOU take responsibility.
This is yet another story where the golden child's future is ruined by their parents favouritism. The golden child may truly believe they are doing nothing wrong despite being a horrible person. Had there been boundaries she would have learned.
Favorite? They never bothered with her unless using her as a weapon against op. The only reason she's their favorite is because they were able to pawn her off on op. So she can parent her and not them.
These parents freaking suck. Gigi the golden child and OP the scapegoat. Tale as old as time.
I was hoping OP would go no contact with all three of them the entire video. _THANK GOD_ she finally did at the end, theyre all extremely toxic.
Gigi could have easily been saved. Bad parents made sure that didnt happen
Awful parents not even parenting one kid and making another kid the parent to the other and blaming that kid for the first kids mistakes not even teaching the child manners or social queues actual pathetic
Exactly. It's easier to do that then do their own fucking job.
OP's sister is the golden child. OP should have gone NC with the family a long time before this happened.
This is FRIENDSHIP goals, okay? Friendship goals!
I absolutely love it when parents who decided to have children choose to shove the responsibilities of taking care of said children onto their other children.
I'm glad OP went NC. I can tell that if she let's them have a relationship with her son, the moment her sister has a kid, they're just going to do the same to him.
With Gigi only. She is still playing doormat to her parents.
This is a "no win" situation...parent will always side with the golden child even with the truth on op's side....op better cut these animals off....op instead concentrate on her real family....that is her husband, her child and the people who love her....
Unpopular opinion, but i feel a little sorry for Gigi. She was failed by her parents. She might have been a different person if they actually took care and raised her.
Honestly I don't think it's that unpopular, kids don't grow up into who they are usually falls on the parent
Thank you, I share your opinion. I think Gigi might have autism but combined with her parents way of "raising" her instead of learning some social norma and working it out or even just masking she actually ignored everything and became her lack of social awareness was overshadowed by her absolute rudeness and selfishness which are both bcs of her parents. She deserved better, but so did OP.
I think Gigi might have Asperger’s hearing how she can’t pick up on social cues and i feel that the parents are mostly to blame
@@c0nfused_cookie As someone with bad autism, I agree and thought the same thing when the story started. The parents have just failed her by not teaching her right from wrong and how to behave in social places and such.
Maybe at first but what's her excuse now that she's a grown up woman? You can't blame the parents forever even if they still suck.
brutually honest but cant accept honesty
"No one uses Facebook anymore", the video said right as I opened up Facebook on my phone
I feel personally attacked
I was the oldest of 4 growing up. Sis; 2 yrs younger, sis; 10 yrs younger, bro; 15 yrs younger. My parents never expected me to babysit my siblings or to take them out with me. If they needed a sitter, I would always offer because I was happy to do it, never out of some obligation. OP’s parents need to understand that THEY caused this dysfunction in their family, not OP.
I am like this. My oldest son is 19 and I have never given him the responsibility to raise his younger siblings. I have given him the freedom to live his best life. I was literally in charge of taking care of my little brother because my mother was an alcoholic and my father was avoidant. Mind you, we have older siblings but they had their own families so I was in charge of my little brother. I was only 2 1/2 years older than him.
@@SiriusBMermaid 🫶🏼
That's a genuinely sad story because in the end, the antipathy between OP and her sister is entirely constructed by her supid parents who couldn't be bother with raising their own child and used their eldest as a live-in nanny (which is clearly abuse). It also feels really sad for ginny because in the end, here parents enabled her crappy beahavior and never had any friend, and is now set in her ways as a grown adult. I've been in a similar situation after moving to a new school, trying to fit in where everyone was already friends and didn't need me but basically tolerated me because i was a classmate, and it really really sucks.
So if their is really some bitch slapping to be had, it's in the parents face a hundred times.
Lmao, the parents and the sister don't see OP's friends are real, individual human beings, simply objects, and "toys" the older sister should share with the golden child.
They're so disgusting, I don't feel bad for them at all. The friends have been treated like playthings for the sister to use, so who could blame them for wanting to send the message?
The sister and the parents have no respect for boundaries at all, and it's very apparent that the sister being "mean" is the least of the worries when it comes to her behavior. She is a genuine psycho, who thinks everyone else are NPCs in her life, meant to serve her.
bruh OP needs a backbone she should have been NC with her parents for yearsss they basically parentified her. No wonder GG married someone 15 yrs older than, no sane person wants to deal with any of that
Thank you! Absolutely insane to me how she kept trying to explain herself. They had never in her life listened to what she had to say, I don’t know what would make her think they would care to listen now.
I was gonna say, why was OP trying to explain herself to her family like she was trying to mend the relationship? There was no hope of them ever listening from the very beginning.
For god's sake, why didnt OP call out her parents on their bullshit and say it to their face what terrible parents they were? They forced OP to raise her sister when the responsibly was theirs!
I feel slightly bad for the sister. If the parents were more involved or had her do extracurriculars, I'm sure she wouldn't feel as desperately lonely as she obviously is.
no, she was openly rude and disrespectful to everyone. and her parents encouraged it. that's why no one stuck around her unless they were forced to.
@@butmermaids7443 Yes, the way a child develops is not just their nature (genetics), speaking of genetics, based on her behavior since childhood, she might have some type of social disorder. But, if not, she can develop social issues and I blame the parents. The way an individual is most commonly affected by how they were raised. Like you said, her parents encouraged that behavior and they are at fault. They sheltered her, forced her to hang out with OP's friends, and didn't teach her how to socialize. And although she is an adult now, with the way her parents destroyed her, it has life-long lasting effects. The parents are the true AH in this story: they deprived their child of social development and forced responsibilities on another. The sister's behavior is not excusable even if she has a disorder; but there are reasons why she behaves like that and it's not entirely her fault.
@@butmermaids7443 exactly as you said, her parents encouraged it. now she's suffering from intense loneliness.
@@butmermaids7443 Maybe she was autistic and just needed guidance. The parents clearly dropped the ball.
at some point, an adult has to reflect on their actions and realize when they are the issue. she's an adult at this point. should her parents have enabled her? no. that's fucked. i feel bad for the child she was. at some point, you have to stop and wonder why everyone kept ditching you. and maybe she is neurotypical. but i'm pretty sure op would've stated that if they were aware of or suspected such.
Gigi will never accept she and her parents are the orchestrators of her own misery because that means she'll have to grow up and take responsibility
and OP needs to get that she'll never win and go no contact
She should go no contact with her parents. There’s no value associating with those narcissists and their golden child daughter.
Op's friend are gold i love them 😂
My thoughts exactly. Clearly that family isn't going to change. OP is just putting herself through unnecessary stress going back and forth with them after she left for college and they still continued to act the same way...SO to the friends for doing what OP didn't have the strength to do lol
Those friends are the best. They're OP's true family, not those sad excuses for parents.
Ew. OP's parents are vile. Why have another child (and raise a shitty one, at that) if you are just going to expect your oldest to be their parent.
The writer last words were hert touching. Thanks for making my day
Someone really need to be blunt with Gigi and tell her she's not liked, she is tolerated and only just barely.
OP did after the reunion. Their parents just suck
@@FroggyGirlDreamsI mean sure but by now, OP made it clear that she already made that fact known but since it’s coming from someone ‘who’s always been against Gigi,’ they have little reason to believe her even if they supposedly care for OP.
While I know the friends have no obligation to insert themselves into OP’s situation (ironic), I wish one of them called Gigi directly to tell her straight to her face what they specifically dislike about her, leaving OP out of it and even referencing the few moments that they spent with Gigi without OP and connect the dots for her about how the friends don’t like her regardless of whether or not OP is involved
@starlightshinebright1603 that's true I wish her friends just called her out to say nobody likes u gigi go home lmao. That would have solved years of drama.
Out of all the stories had heard on Reddit videos, this is one of the most depressing ones. I couldn't imagine being the one person no one liked to hang out with and for good reason too yet be completely oblivious to it
Also 11:10 really? Why would she not blame you? How tf are you that clueless? Then to try and convince them? Why? You know how they are why waste your time?
This stories an example of a near (not complete, but near) hopeless case of someone who wants to believe she can still recoup something from her narcissist family, that she can somehow still mend bridges, and hasn't done the smart thing of cutting them out from her life completely.
Bro those are the bestest friends OP will ever find 😂
Bro, they wore funny dresses. Why should they even apologize 😂
Why do all these sound the same
1. Two sisters, one of them is the golden child and is spoiled by parents
2. Scholarships, and parents begging the child to stay close or just refuse to pay for college
3. Karma at the end for the golden child?
Lmao
Love what her friends did, top people
I could never have a golden cold. I know how much it hurts so i don't want to treat my kids that way. I understand how op feels about her golden sister.
Sometimes, you just got to say it like it is. In this case, they should've just told Gigi that they never saw her as a friend and that they always hated her.
Holy GOLDEN CHILD Batman.
So… Op NEEDS to invite golden child to her wedding…oh but of course Golden Child doesn’t need to invite Op because its her choice who to invite.
What an awful family Op has.
The mental gymnastics on this crap is so infuriating.
Don't have multiple kids if your expecting the older ones to raise them for you.
I would've just worn a damn dinosaur suit or those yellow hasmath suits they wear XD
These are true friends. Don’t lose them
Lmao her friends are my kind of petty 💅
I actually feel bad for gigi, its like she never grew out of teenage phase, she grew up never having experienced self awareness.
That thought process where she thought just being in a virtual group also translates irl being as "friends"? My girl, that's not how that works...
And its frustrating how op doesn't get that there's also screw loose from her parents' head and that she might as well talking to wall- i mean thats prior to therapy. Im glad she took one even if its late.
They're the classic parent and golden child team. Keep being in no contact until they die.
Ahh yes,it is truly wonderful when one has godlike friends
I don’t understand why there are so many golden child stories, do parents seriously don’t know how to love multiple children at the same time?
I hope op never loses those friends
What gets me is OP was forced to invite her sister because of her parents, but when OP didn’t get an invite to her sister’s wedding, the parents didn’t do anything. Not that she wanted one, but it’s pretty clear who the parents think the golden child is.
The friends are the real ones for that😂❤
I blame the parents for the sisters bad relationship. If they had allowed them to develop a normal relationship instead of parentifying Op, they may have been more civil.
Honestly, I wouldn't have gone to the direct family, but to the extended family after Update 2. Let them know the truth about your upbringing and the dresses. Not to rally an army, but because I am pretty sure your parents would have tried to save face by blaming you for not showing up. If your parents won't listen, then maybe an aunt will.
14:45 but mom, Dad these are "Gigi friends too" maybe she shouldn't have friends if she cant handle a joke
It's the parents fault since day 1. They let Gigi's upcoming into a child's hands and didn't care about caring for their own children. The only reason they blame you for everything is because they don't want to educate Gigi because they don't want to be parents. They obviously always knew Gigi was wrong, but by admitting it then they would have to parent Gigi, and they don't want that.
That's also the reason why when you went to college they started to try to manipulate you into staying , because their free nanny was leaving.
So it's not that they agree with Gigi, but that they don't want to spend their time dealing with a tantrum so they put the blame and the responsability on you.
man i jumped out of my chair cuz of the lava rising in the background 9:08
I was put into the situation with my three younger siblings. But I rebelled and used what I now know to be weaponized incompetence. 😈
This is I think the 3rd story with a character named Gigi on this channel that I've listened to. Gigi is a more common name than I thought.
Nō sister is this relaxed dealing with a nightmare of a sibling
The message at the end is so Hurtful
Can we please applaud Op's friends?
Imagine your friends telling your sister "Since when you and I were friends?"
"I found myself immersed in a wave of nostalgia and laughter". Real people don't write like that lol. This is ai.
Honesty and cruelty are different things.
I would have convinced everyone to go in white dresses either wedding dresses or similar ones! 😈 You can’t reason with a brick wall, better to leave with your sanity intact than to be used and discarded.
Man, Op is a doormat...
Why does everyone just immediately go to calling someone a doormat, so fucking stupid 🤦♂️
OP’s friends are badass
Poor Gigi, all she wanted was a friend.
so casually cruel in the name of being honest-ts
“No body uses Facebook anymore” lol 😂 I don’t get why people say that, I know TONS of people who use FB & who are active on it.
I was in the same situation as OP despite being only 2 years different than my younger sis. My sister followed me to every events, sleep overs and hang outs I made with my friends. The trick to make sure to humble them is to smack them every once in a while when they're being dumb. Be willing to get smacked by your own parents tho. Now, she barely listens to my mom and at least listens to me when I ask
Unpopular opinion. OP was an idiot. She kept on telling those pitiful excuses of parents how much their always favoring their golden brat but always gets told shes wrong. She really shouldn’t have kept on talking or even try to reason with them, even after the wedding fashion fiasco. Which was a petty, yet funny revenge. Should’ve went NC. She annoyed the hell out of me when she was “forced” to invite the golden brat to her wedding. She needed some therapy, and glad she’s finally getting it, but she still annoyed me so much. Hope she’s doing okay tho.
tbh kids raised in that environment literally dont realize there are options, so it feels unfair to blame her for it
Gigi is definitely the golden child.
It really makes me feel disgusting in the inside to realize that these parents ruined her childhood. and the fact that the parents had a say on her wedding forcing her to invite Gigi and didn't care a lick when Gigi didn't invite her. I think it's really gosh darn funny that her friends showed up in the ridiculous outfits. And I deeply appreciate how she said her side of the story. Now all she has to do is show her parents the comment section. And those parents need to do their freakin job.
These Gigi and Naomi characters appear in many stories I have already watched four stories in which they appear in two negative roles in two videos and a positive role in one story
Tl;dr
Disfunctional family being disfunctional
As a person who has an older sister, I don’t barge into my sister’s life, She will have me around IF SHE WANTS TO. I have my own friends that I made myself and my sister has her own, I visit them once in a while since they work near and my sister and her friends invite me when they want to, I don’t do anything embarrassing and if I did, my sister will lecture me and I will learn, I won’t be a brat about it.
O I see, another story about golden child good job parents 🤦♀️
Not sure why you would add her to the group
Is gigi acoustic??
I laughed so hard at this😭
@@iamjustagirlintheworldd 🫶🫶
Nah, she seems more like a metal fan
She's missing two of her six strings!
15 year difference is wild. That girl made a bad choice
Gigi and her parents desperately need a serious reality check
At least the guest have decency to not where white wedding dress
OP needs to grow the hell up. Why even maintain a relationship with this family? Should've broke off with the family YEARS ago. OP doesnt have a sister problem; they have a parent problem
Maybe Gigi should learn how to handle the truth. You know... like the friend with the dollhouse that OP wasn't supposed to hang out with for that reason. By their logic OP shouldn't hang out with Gigi anymore. 🤷♀️
One could accurately say, that her family took her back when she was treated poorly by old strangers who abused her as a child.
Sister is the definition of narcissist. Parents are the definition of enablers
Gigi's own fault for not inviting OP!
Just because they're not obliged to invite you to their wedding, doesn't mean that you have to be OK with it or be understanding!
Gigi is socially clueless. Possibly on the spectrum? Op is somewhat awful too.
me, who is 23, who would still want a barbie dream house for a present
you have great friends
Back home, older kids always have to help taking care of younger ones but they were never fully responsible, it's always parents' fault. The taking part is marely for child practice, so we grew up either becoming a responsible parent or traumatized for life we don't even gonna attempt teen s*x
Wow, those parents suck.
Why would the group do such a thing if they’re Gigi’s friends? *extremely sarcastic*
Why has the older sister still not gone no contact with the sister and parents? Walk no run the other direction and stay away from them !! Toxic is toxic , walk away !!
I think i know why Gigi has no friends.
And will still have no friends
no actually what is this I'm confused this is the 3 story regarding gigi i think there is something else going on the background her daughter's name is Naomi I only know 1 other story name but i don't know the other one the one which i know is
I inherited everything from my ex-husbands mother after caring for her Now he and his mistress is threatening to sue me
see it if you don't believe me
OP's parents are clowns parading a circus called GG.