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Zach I have been following you for 8 years and your relationship with Alastair is so beautiful. I hope you are doing ok during this difficult time, I’m always here to support you both no matter what. I constantly thinking of you both, I hope Alastair is doing ok you both deserve the very best . I know you hate compliments but Zach you are looking absolutely amazing looks like your workouts are going well. Sending you so much love from Sydney xxxx
Zach, you're an awesome storyteller. I felt like this was a movie that I was watching. Absolutely riviting. We need more storytimes. Love your channel.
The dumb shit we did when we were young. LOL. Your story takes me back. I think about some of the dumb shit i did when i was young. A couple still gives me chills. Glad you're okay. 🙏🏼
Yea I'm almost60 and I can remember quite a few times in the eighties when I could've become a statistic. Guess we had a few angels on our side. Great story. 👍
Really impressed with how gentle you were in your description of this encounter. I'm lived vicariously through you for that story. Except I'm a lot smaller and would've been PETRIFIED when he locked the door.
Hi guys! Great to see you, and I wish you both a wonderful day full of love and sunshine! I so love to watch you both and I can still see so much love in your eyes for each other. And t's fun to watch your dog as he tries to take you over from Alastair!
Thanks for being so real and honest. I've followed you for several years and I never heard you be so down to earth and straightforward about your gay experiences and feelings. And also, I like this style of frankness and keeping the glitches or errors and not trying to present a perfect image on youtube. It makes you more relatable. All the best to both of you sweet guys.
Glad you're okay, Zach. I did similar stuff at the same age; when you're young, you don't think out all the ways it could go badly, especially when you're horny. I once drove 30 mins into downtown Rochester, NY at 2 AM for some guy who ended up ghosting me while I was *outside his apartment* because supposedly his roommate woke up. In hindsight, it was super sketchy.
I've had a similar experiences. It sucks because being a smaller guy I think sometimes some guys feel more comfortable putting their hands on me than someone bigger than them. Like I'm talking a slap on the butt to really aggressive. I don't pretend to be a tough guy at all, but i will absolutely fight you haha. If you wanna act funny we can get hilarious 😂
Thanks for sharing your story. You're always a great storyteller. So glad you got out of that situation unscathed and it's a good lesson for us all. 😊😊
Thanks for the video Zach. I've always enjoyed your videos and appreciate the effort you put into them. Stay safe and healthy. Also sending best wishes to Alastair.
Thank the good Lord you survived that incident. It got scarier the longer the story went on. Hopefully, the youngsters who listen understand just how vulnerable they make themselves if they duplicate such poor judgment. Looking forward to Alastair's return to your Helix mattress!
He could have left at ANY time up to when the guy locked the door. And even THEN unless he needed a key to lock the door from the inside. He CHOSE to stay. The guy never told him he couldn't leave or try to physically restrain him. Besides, look at his build. And he was in college at the time and the other dude was in his 40's. It's not like he couldn't have overpowered the dude and walk out!
@@retroguy9494 true, it also has me wondering how old Zach is now, his build could've been slightly different during the story setting. Either way though, that instance would definitely be scary for anyone, no matter what their build is.
This is the first video I’ve ever seen of you guys You two are so adorable. In that first part I could tell how much love is in you two for each other I almost cried.
Great video Zach. Love Alastair's and your contect. Been following you since your were in college. You both are an inspirations. Sending good vibes and positive energies to you both
Help me out here because I'm older. Up to the point where he locked the door, I really didn't find any of it all that weird. For instance, he found it 'weird' to meet at night. Granted, I haven't met anyone in 18 years, but back in the day people ALWAYS met at night. Because during the day we all had work or class (if in college), etc.
He definitely was sketchy AF not to mention pushy. You never meet a stranger for the first time at night in the middle of nowhere especially when they won’t reveal what they look like or give any information. Hell he could have shared a time photo that lasts 10 second. But locking the door um that arms gonna be broken.if any of you are doing this please be safe especially in today’s day and age.
taking forever to send a pic despite requesting for one multiple times was weird, sending a grainy group pic and lying about their age is weird, constantly peaking at someone through the shower is weird, etc@@retroguy9494
I've missed you guys, loved your story Zach, I remember situations like that, we were all silly in our youth, take care ,always love listening to you talk, take care, until next time Caio
Great story Zach. I think we all have at least one of those stories where we look back now and think "What the *bleep* was I tinking?" lol. Thanks for sharing.
I don't know, back in my day the 80s and 90s, it wasn't a weird thing. In my 64 years I was robbed once. Very dramatic, but I was so fucked up on booze. 1 time in 64 years. Plus I live in san Francisco.
Thanks for sharing your story ❤, it’s definitely a lesson for young people. If something is strange, if it doesn’t feel right, if alarm bells are going off….. avoid the situation. It’s simply not worth the risk for a hookup.
Thank you for sharing Zach. You’re such an engaging storyteller. Very glad you made it out of that dangerous situation alright! I did similar risky things when I was younger too. The beginning with Alistair and the dog was so cute 🥰
i've been watching you for 7 years now, dont know if i ever commented but i feel like my life mirrors yours in so many aspects, including alastair (being literally just like my bf) and i also thought i was invincible until i was basically assaulted yesterday. a few hours before you posted this video. life is so interesting
Really enjoyed seeing you reach back to your roots, regaling us with your youthful adventures. I had plenty of those myself. 🤦♂️😂 The unstructured, unedited storyline videos are so authentic and interesting. Looking forward to more. I’ll be happy for you when Alastair is home and you have him to cuddle with and make Brando jealous. 😺✌️
You reeled me into that story! And maybe you are not alone some of us others had a similar situation like that lol. The shower invite, oh hell no, not so you (he) can win an Oscar remaking the Bates Hotel scene! You should have gotten the bravery award. Oh my, in 2015 there was so much more to be doing for attention young man. So glad you got out of there safely. Lesson learned, right (of course it was, you're married now)? Makes me remember stories my bestie in San Diego used to tell me about his experiences getting sauced at a club and bringing a stranger home. Oh my!
Ahhh I have missed story time...used to love watching them years ago. Glad you survived to tell the tale...your story telling narrative does make me laugh :)
i love this couple! i have watched them evolve over the years and they've become my happy place (my therapy of sorts) when i get sick of watching gay couples get butchered in media or entertainment. it seems like almost every gay relationship has to be portrayed as flawed or tragic and often times one of them dies or there's a cheating or criminal scandal or something that ultimately separates the 2 in the end. i get that when gay relationships are portrayed they have to have an edge to'em to keep things fresh but it gets old and i will drop by Zach's page every now and again because him and his Husband remind me that we're not flawed, there isn't something wrong with who we are and love and happy endings do exist and Zach and his Husband are proof of that. i wish you both all the happiness in the world and hopefully each time i get disillusioned i can keep coming back here and you both will still be here, together and with 'B' of course! to remind me that love and happy endings isn't just in a story or script!
Oh, I don't know about the word 'thrill' or it happening just when you are younger. I can relate to him just wanting companionship. I did the same thing until I was 41! Then I just gave up altogether because I got tired of the head games, cruelty and insults of your typical gay guy. Plus trying to actually meet people in person was turning into a full time job. The last time I met someone or was out on a date was 18 years ago. Now with my family all dead I just sit here all alone, even on holidays. The only difference between him and I was back then, I always met people in a public place first. Like a mall or supermarket, etc. for safety sake.
I'm happy you're staying strong, happy, committed, and in love. It's been a while since I've seen your videos, so I'm wishing you more good times and peace.
I no longer do it, but about 15 years ago I had a similar situation happen to me during a random online hookup. Went over to a guy's place and we started making out. Strangely he pulled away every time I got too close. So I figured he wasn't feeling me. Eventually I'd had enough and simply got up and got dressed and tried to leave. Suddenly he didn't want me to leave. He jumped up and blocked the door. Now, fortunately for me, I'm 6'2", 200lbs and he was 5'9" 140lbs, so I easily overpowered him and left. I never understood why this top guy specifically invited me for sex but then seemed shy about doing it. By the time I got home he'd sent me an email telling me how wrong I was for just leaving him. So...I blocked him.
That is a REALLY scary story!! Yikes! ANYTHING could have happened to you. When I look back I did some really dumb and potentially dangerous things too. Meeting up with guys I did not know in locations where NO ONE knew where or who I was with. The older WISER version of me would never have done some of the things I did. I hope people hear you’re story and think twice before they might put themselves in a bad situation. Just for a late night hookup. I’m sure there are A LOT of things that happen to guys that we just never hear about because of the stigma of being gay. Also, when you put yourself in a dangerous situation, after the fact, you feel stupid telling people what you did, so I’m sure there are MANY stories we just never hear about. Glad you got out of there and thank you for sharing your cautionary tale. Everyone be safe out there!! 💗
Great story. I had something similar happen when I was like 30. Mortgage guy invites me to his place to "finish up the paperwork" on the condo I am buying. He locks the door behind me, keeps stalling with the paperwork and keeps trying to serve me drinks. When I finally say "I've got to leave now", he just starts grabbing and hugging/holding/feeling me up. I freaked and fled. In retrospect I blamed myself for "not being more careful". But seriously. Men are dawgs...
my scary guy story was actually a friend, but I was attracted to him and he wanted to come over to see my house and I was like uh uh oh okay! I was still closeted so we sat on separate couches but at some point we started talking about dating/who we were interested in etc and I felt like there was a tension there, and i think he very well may be gay or bi but that's not the point. We watched a scary movie together, and when it was over it was like 2am and i had class in the morning, so as much as i enjoyed having him over, i was ready to go to bed. But he didn't act like he was ready to leave and he wanted to keep talking. He then proceeded to tell me about his love for gore videos like people's heads being chopped off by isis (this was years ago) or a person being run over by a train and he said something like "all that's left is meat" and then he laughed about it, and I found this incredibly disturbing because it felt like he had no sense of humanity. and he had a whole folder full of these videos on his computer and he wanted to show them to me and I'm like, "no, that's not my kind of thing." He kept trying to persuade me and I kept repeating the same answer and then i started fake yawning and was like hey I'm really tired, it's late, and i have class tomorrow, but thanks for coming over, and he finally gets up and starts to walk to the door, still talking to me with a big smile on his face like he wasn't just telling me about his gore collection, and he gets out the door and i wave bye, I close the door, lock it and i fall down to the ground just shaking and crying because I was so scared and relieved he was out of my house. But I knew that he knew where I lived now, so I was afraid for a long time afterward that he would stalk me/come to my house which thankfully he didn't. We had all the same classes together because of our program, but I completely broke off communication with him. I would be somewhat friendly if he tried to talk to me, but apart from that I completely avoided him the best that I could
In our search for the love of a partner we do put ourselves in danger. Not good your story may save someone. When i stopped the desperate search for love i found it. All you younger guys stay safe you will find what you are looking for. Me and my partner have been together 44 years. Peace and love to you all. We're from mobile🙂
That's kind of amazing when you have a dog that knows how to turn off the computer but not really when you want to see the love of your life and he's far away
I remember doing similar things, it’s funny in hindsight it seemed risky but at the time I did go to guys apartments etc. your right as a young male I felt invincible. That was a very enjoyable story time Zach, I think I have seen all of your vlogs, videos and lives you always are really interesting, insightful which makes being part of azb, patron, nudie Judy really really enjoyable. I hope it’s True Alastair will come home soon, for both of your sakes. I can imagine how tough it is for him not being able to touch you, and for you not being touched by him. Love u guys, be well stay well.
The good old fashioned meet up with a DL guy double your age in the woods. I had a similar experience but I didn’t drive. He’d picked me up from college and we went to the woods in his car in an area I was not familiar with 🙃 luckily he wasn’t a creep but it’s crazy how many red flags we’ll ignore to get off ☠️
Just what is wrong with meeting a dude double your age? I met some of the hottest dudes that way! And let me assure you, there is nothing weird or creepy about ME. I'm a nice guy who just prefers younger dudes.
@@thatamericanbritishbloke5672 Really? Well, after my great grandmother died, my great grandfather married a 19 year old woman. He was 65 at the time! I never met the man, but from everything I've heard, there was nothing 'creepy' about him either!
I have a protocol for first dates/hook ups. 1. Meet in a public place. Drive out of town if you have to but, always meet in a public space. 2. Tell a friend you are going to meet somebody. Mention the time and place where you are going to meet up. As well, send a photo and the name of the person. 3. Always use protection. You never know if someone is being honest or not. It has been my experience that 98% of the time a blank profile is not the man of my dreams. Trust your instincts and pay attention to those red flags. Stay safe boys. 🏳️🌈❤
"Now, this is the weird part." Baby...it's all the weird part! But, we've all been there in some form or another & thanks for these stories times so we can feel less alone in the weirdness of things like this.
The stupid shit you do when you're young & dumb lol. Your story brought back some memories where I got myself into some scary sketchy shenanigans. I look back on that stuff, and I think WTF was I thinking, but I also had a lot of fun 😜😜 Weeeeeee
As an LSU alumnus and lifelong fan I didn't think I'd get past 30 seconds of this video with you wearing that f***ing hat. But I did because you're adorable af and it was an enthralling story. I"m glad you're OK. Geaux Tigers !
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If Zach and Alistair or any close friends... what's going on with your show, and everything else? I joined today (3/24/24), looked at some of the old videos, and hope for more. Please let a fan know. THANKS!!! -Lloyd TN
You really poured your heart out Zach😢 That’s what we all love about you! And I know that’s what Alastair fell in love with when you first met.
Zach I have been following you for 8 years and your relationship with Alastair is so beautiful. I hope you are doing ok during this difficult time, I’m always here to support you both no matter what. I constantly thinking of you both, I hope Alastair is doing ok you both deserve the very best . I know you hate compliments but Zach you are looking absolutely amazing looks like your workouts are going well. Sending you so much love from Sydney xxxx
Zach, you're an awesome storyteller. I felt like this was a movie that I was watching. Absolutely riviting. We need more storytimes. Love your channel.
I'm glad you made it through that period of your life. And that you found the love of your life.. 🙏❤️
I did the same type of things at that age. I'm glad you made it through and found happiness.
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Thank you for sharing. Definitely glad that it worked out and that you are safe.
Zach I have been following u since day one, u have helped me a lot.
The dumb shit we did when we were young. LOL. Your story takes me back. I think about some of the dumb shit i did when i was young. A couple still gives me chills. Glad you're okay. 🙏🏼
🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 To the person reading this, even though I don't know you. I wish you the best of what life has to offer 🙏 😊❤
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Yea I'm almost60 and I can remember quite a few times in the eighties when I could've become a statistic. Guess we had a few angels on our side. Great story. 👍
Now we are statistics for making it to AARP membership. 😅
Im so glad im in a relationship and not dating anymore. Too many weirdos out here, ive had some weird stories to. This was a really good story
Just hope you STAY in that relationship. Doing the seems to be a struggle for most gay men.
@@retroguy9494why are you hating on gay men just because you don't have any
Love how you’re embracing yourself loving yourself. You’re a handsome guy too.
Love you guys! Im so excited for Alastair to come back. Also thank you for sharing the story. It will help so many people. You both are amazing❤️
Thank you for the cautionary tale. Continued best wishes.
Glad you and Alastair are going good. Love the videos Zach, thanks for letting us into your life. Best wishes to all of you
Really impressed with how gentle you were in your description of this encounter. I'm lived vicariously through you for that story. Except I'm a lot smaller and would've been PETRIFIED when he locked the door.
Hi guys! Great to see you, and I wish you both a wonderful day full of love and sunshine! I so love to watch you both and I can still see so much love in your eyes for each other. And t's fun to watch your dog as he tries to take you over from Alastair!
Thanks for being so real and honest. I've followed you for several years and I never heard you be so down to earth and straightforward about your gay experiences and feelings. And also, I like this style of frankness and keeping the glitches or errors and not trying to present a perfect image on youtube. It makes you more relatable. All the best to both of you sweet guys.
Glad you're okay, Zach. I did similar stuff at the same age; when you're young, you don't think out all the ways it could go badly, especially when you're horny. I once drove 30 mins into downtown Rochester, NY at 2 AM for some guy who ended up ghosting me while I was *outside his apartment* because supposedly his roommate woke up. In hindsight, it was super sketchy.
Hello Guy Paddock you still in Rochester, NY area I live in Rochester area as well
@@johnphillips3054 now I'm in Boston
Dude you are the BEST story teller!!! You should narrate books, southern accent and all!! Love you two!
I've had a similar experiences. It sucks because being a smaller guy I think sometimes some guys feel more comfortable putting their hands on me than someone bigger than them. Like I'm talking a slap on the butt to really aggressive. I don't pretend to be a tough guy at all, but i will absolutely fight you haha. If you wanna act funny we can get hilarious 😂
Thanks for sharing your story. You're always a great storyteller. So glad you got out of that situation unscathed and it's a good lesson for us all. 😊😊
Good evening guy's glad to see y'all both and also updated video this is bruce the vet just glad to see y'all
Thanks for the video Zach. I've always enjoyed your videos and appreciate the effort you put into them. Stay safe and healthy. Also sending best wishes to Alastair.
Thank the good Lord you survived that incident. It got scarier the longer the story went on. Hopefully, the youngsters who listen understand just how vulnerable they make themselves if they duplicate such poor judgment. Looking forward to Alastair's return to your Helix mattress!
He could have left at ANY time up to when the guy locked the door. And even THEN unless he needed a key to lock the door from the inside. He CHOSE to stay. The guy never told him he couldn't leave or try to physically restrain him. Besides, look at his build. And he was in college at the time and the other dude was in his 40's. It's not like he couldn't have overpowered the dude and walk out!
@@retroguy9494 true, it also has me wondering how old Zach is now, his build could've been slightly different during the story setting. Either way though, that instance would definitely be scary for anyone, no matter what their build is.
@@kuransays I think he's in his late 20's now. But from listening to his stories, I think he was pretty built in college. Maybe more so than now.
Always so genuine you two. There is something so special about your relationship that so many find it challenging to gain.
This is the first video I’ve ever seen of you guys You two are so adorable. In that first part I could tell how much love is in you two for each other I almost cried.
Take care of yourself young man. Regards from England.
I'll never get over Zach's accent!!! Ugh, so handsome!
LMAO Senator John Kennedy from 'Lao eez yana' has nothing on THIS dude! 😂
It's not an accent and he's not country
Great video Zach. Love Alastair's and your contect. Been following you since your were in college. You both are an inspirations. Sending good vibes and positive energies to you both
I died when he started talking about the closed building and one of those lights so we’re safe😂
OMG! That story is very scarry. You were VERY lucky to have been able to get out of that house.
Love love love your story time videos. You give so much of yourself. Thank you for sharing and for being so authentic. It's beautiful!!! 😊😊❤❤
LOL You're like "here's the weird part," and I'm thinking, "you mean, this entire story isn't weird to you? Just this part?"
Help me out here because I'm older. Up to the point where he locked the door, I really didn't find any of it all that weird. For instance, he found it 'weird' to meet at night. Granted, I haven't met anyone in 18 years, but back in the day people ALWAYS met at night. Because during the day we all had work or class (if in college), etc.
He definitely was sketchy AF not to mention pushy. You never meet a stranger for the first time at night in the middle of nowhere especially when they won’t reveal what they look like or give any information. Hell he could have shared a time photo that lasts 10 second. But locking the door um that arms gonna be broken.if any of you are doing this please be safe especially in today’s day and age.
I thought the same exact thing.
taking forever to send a pic despite requesting for one multiple times was weird, sending a grainy group pic and lying about their age is weird, constantly peaking at someone through the shower is weird, etc@@retroguy9494
I've missed you guys, loved your story Zach, I remember situations like that, we were all silly in our youth, take care ,always love listening to you talk, take care, until next time Caio
I remember those days and its a wonder more of us didn't die in those risky, wreckless situations.
Wild story!! Good lesson to remember to always trust your gut
Zach, audio is much better. Thanks.
I always enjoy hearing you talk Zach!
Great story Zach. I think we all have at least one of those stories where we look back now and think "What the *bleep* was I tinking?" lol. Thanks for sharing.
Omg, you took a shower at this dudes house??? I can hear the psycho theme now 😂
I don't know, back in my day the 80s and 90s, it wasn't a weird thing. In my 64 years I was robbed once. Very dramatic, but I was so fucked up on booze. 1 time in 64 years. Plus I live in san Francisco.
Thanks for sharing your story ❤, it’s definitely a lesson for young people. If something is strange, if it doesn’t feel right, if alarm bells are going off….. avoid the situation. It’s simply not worth the risk for a hookup.
I'm so glad you figured a way out. Fascinating story.
Awww you guys are so cute. Wish we had that ability growing up. But it’s so nice to see how things have evolved ❤️❤️ Sending you guys so much love!
You two are goals
I could listen and/or watch you speak for hours 😊
Great story! Looking good too! Something nice for Alistair to look forward to! 👌
Awesome to see your vlog.. miss seeing you and Allister..
Love these types of videos! Unedited / one take lol. More of them! 😁
Thank you for sharing Zach. You’re such an engaging storyteller. Very glad you made it out of that dangerous situation alright! I did similar risky things when I was younger too.
The beginning with Alistair and the dog was so cute 🥰
i've been watching you for 7 years now, dont know if i ever commented but i feel like my life mirrors yours in so many aspects, including alastair (being literally just like my bf) and i also thought i was invincible until i was basically assaulted yesterday. a few hours before you posted this video. life is so interesting
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Really enjoyed seeing you reach back to your roots, regaling us with your youthful adventures.
I had plenty of those myself. 🤦♂️😂
The unstructured, unedited storyline videos are so authentic and interesting. Looking forward to more.
I’ll be happy for you when Alastair is home and you have him to cuddle with and make Brando jealous.
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Your sharing such a story of vulnerability, it's good for the younger crowd to hear. We've all done stupid things when the heat was on us.
I’m so glad you weren’t hurt! Thank you for telling your story!
You reeled me into that story! And maybe you are not alone some of us others had a similar situation like that lol. The shower invite, oh hell no, not so you (he) can win an Oscar remaking the Bates Hotel scene! You should have gotten the bravery award. Oh my, in 2015 there was so much more to be doing for attention young man. So glad you got out of there safely. Lesson learned, right (of course it was, you're married now)? Makes me remember stories my bestie in San Diego used to tell me about his experiences getting sauced at a club and bringing a stranger home. Oh my!
Ahhh I have missed story time...used to love watching them years ago. Glad you survived to tell the tale...your story telling narrative does make me laugh :)
Thanks for sharing something so personal because you never know, it may save someone from something really bad. ❤
We have all been there at one time or another. Thanks for sharing your story.
i love this couple! i have watched them evolve over the years and they've become my happy place (my therapy of sorts) when i get sick of watching gay couples get butchered in media or entertainment. it seems like almost every gay relationship has to be portrayed as flawed or tragic and often times one of them dies or there's a cheating or criminal scandal or something that ultimately separates the 2 in the end. i get that when gay relationships are portrayed they have to have an edge to'em to keep things fresh but it gets old and i will drop by Zach's page every now and again because him and his Husband remind me that we're not flawed, there isn't something wrong with who we are and love and happy endings do exist and Zach and his Husband are proof of that. i wish you both all the happiness in the world and hopefully each time i get disillusioned i can keep coming back here and you both will still be here, together and with 'B' of course! to remind me that love and happy endings isn't just in a story or script!
Such a great story thanks for sharing.
Why is the risk so thrilling when your younger? It’s mind boggling to think back on when your older lmao
That's the question. I look back at myself 10-12 years ago with the blank stare emoji.
Well now the back pain and indigestion will keep you at home
Oh, I don't know about the word 'thrill' or it happening just when you are younger. I can relate to him just wanting companionship. I did the same thing until I was 41! Then I just gave up altogether because I got tired of the head games, cruelty and insults of your typical gay guy. Plus trying to actually meet people in person was turning into a full time job. The last time I met someone or was out on a date was 18 years ago. Now with my family all dead I just sit here all alone, even on holidays.
The only difference between him and I was back then, I always met people in a public place first. Like a mall or supermarket, etc. for safety sake.
Such a great tale.
OMG!!! I was nervous and scared at every turn. I kept saying, “Get out of there Zach!” I’m sure you could have barreled past. Very good story time!!
I'm happy you're staying strong, happy, committed, and in love. It's been a while since I've seen your videos, so I'm wishing you more good times and peace.
Zach, I love your video at your house in Texas, I'm proud of you and thanks to your own husband, Alastair!! ❤ #helixsleep
I no longer do it, but about 15 years ago I had a similar situation happen to me during a random online hookup. Went over to a guy's place and we started making out. Strangely he pulled away every time I got too close. So I figured he wasn't feeling me. Eventually I'd had enough and simply got up and got dressed and tried to leave. Suddenly he didn't want me to leave. He jumped up and blocked the door. Now, fortunately for me, I'm 6'2", 200lbs and he was 5'9" 140lbs, so I easily overpowered him and left. I never understood why this top guy specifically invited me for sex but then seemed shy about doing it. By the time I got home he'd sent me an email telling me how wrong I was for just leaving him. So...I blocked him.
That is a REALLY scary story!! Yikes! ANYTHING could have happened to you. When I look back I did some really dumb and potentially dangerous things too. Meeting up with guys I did not know in locations where NO ONE knew where or who I was with. The older WISER version of me would never have done some of the things I did. I hope people hear you’re story and think twice before they might put themselves in a bad situation. Just for a late night hookup. I’m sure there are A LOT of things that happen to guys that we just never hear about because of the stigma of being gay. Also, when you put yourself in a dangerous situation, after the fact, you feel stupid telling people what you did, so I’m sure there are MANY stories we just never hear about. Glad you got out of there and thank you for sharing your cautionary tale. Everyone be safe out there!! 💗
Great story. I had something similar happen when I was like 30. Mortgage guy invites me to his place to "finish up the paperwork" on the condo I am buying. He locks the door behind me, keeps stalling with the paperwork and keeps trying to serve me drinks. When I finally say "I've got to leave now", he just starts grabbing and hugging/holding/feeling me up. I freaked and fled. In retrospect I blamed myself for "not being more careful". But seriously. Men are dawgs...
Stop lying for attention and sympathy
Well said Zach!!
Great to see your husband and love your story times on your main channel..I’m glad you got away from him..good advice
Wow, I was like that too Zach. I too, got myself into a similar situation. VERY scary! Glad your good
You are a great story teller.
Hope Your OK
Thanks. I’m well. Hope you are too!
*you're. Sorry I've been drinking . I'll regret correcting you tomorrow.
@@WonderWhatHappeneddrink some water and then go back home
I loved listening to your story ❤ thank you for inviting us ❤❤
Zack glad you made it out of that strange situation. I think you should use this story as the beginning of a script for your next horror movie .
Alistair seems to look younger - and always looks cheerful. I hope he is soon home with you
my scary guy story was actually a friend, but I was attracted to him and he wanted to come over to see my house and I was like uh uh oh okay! I was still closeted so we sat on separate couches but at some point we started talking about dating/who we were interested in etc and I felt like there was a tension there, and i think he very well may be gay or bi but that's not the point. We watched a scary movie together, and when it was over it was like 2am and i had class in the morning, so as much as i enjoyed having him over, i was ready to go to bed. But he didn't act like he was ready to leave and he wanted to keep talking. He then proceeded to tell me about his love for gore videos like people's heads being chopped off by isis (this was years ago) or a person being run over by a train and he said something like "all that's left is meat" and then he laughed about it, and I found this incredibly disturbing because it felt like he had no sense of humanity. and he had a whole folder full of these videos on his computer and he wanted to show them to me and I'm like, "no, that's not my kind of thing." He kept trying to persuade me and I kept repeating the same answer and then i started fake yawning and was like hey I'm really tired, it's late, and i have class tomorrow, but thanks for coming over, and he finally gets up and starts to walk to the door, still talking to me with a big smile on his face like he wasn't just telling me about his gore collection, and he gets out the door and i wave bye, I close the door, lock it and i fall down to the ground just shaking and crying because I was so scared and relieved he was out of my house. But I knew that he knew where I lived now, so I was afraid for a long time afterward that he would stalk me/come to my house which thankfully he didn't. We had all the same classes together because of our program, but I completely broke off communication with him. I would be somewhat friendly if he tried to talk to me, but apart from that I completely avoided him the best that I could
Interesting story. Pleased that things turned out alright.
Loved this story time. So relatable
That was absolutely scary to listen to. I’m so glad you shared your story for other especially young Gay men to hear and take note
In our search for the love of a partner we do put ourselves in danger. Not good your story may save someone. When i stopped the desperate search for love i found it. All you younger guys stay safe you will find what you are looking for. Me and my partner have been together 44 years. Peace and love to you all. We're from mobile🙂
my anxiety was pinging like mad as you were telling that story! 😆
That's kind of amazing when you have a dog that knows how to turn off the computer but not really when you want to see the love of your life and he's far away
Yes i feel the same way on how the captain may think about Zach their are a very good couple and deeply in love with each other you can tell
Always follow your gut 😅 Glad you made it thru that situation ✌🏽
Always great to see you guys
Mr Zach you are still 21 & invincible 🤩 Great storytime !
I remember doing similar things, it’s funny in hindsight it seemed risky but at the time I did go to guys apartments etc. your right as a young male I felt invincible. That was a very enjoyable story time Zach, I think I have seen all of your vlogs, videos and lives you always are really interesting, insightful which makes being part of azb, patron, nudie Judy really really enjoyable. I hope it’s True Alastair will come home soon, for both of your sakes. I can imagine how tough it is for him not being able to touch you, and for you not being touched by him. Love u guys, be well stay well.
The good old fashioned meet up with a DL guy double your age in the woods. I had a similar experience but I didn’t drive. He’d picked me up from college and we went to the woods in his car in an area I was not familiar with 🙃 luckily he wasn’t a creep but it’s crazy how many red flags we’ll ignore to get off ☠️
Just what is wrong with meeting a dude double your age? I met some of the hottest dudes that way! And let me assure you, there is nothing weird or creepy about ME. I'm a nice guy who just prefers younger dudes.
@@retroguy9494 Just this comment makes you sound creepy to me, lol
@@thatamericanbritishbloke5672 Really? Well, after my great grandmother died, my great grandfather married a 19 year old woman. He was 65 at the time!
I never met the man, but from everything I've heard, there was nothing 'creepy' about him either!
I really like the chemistry between the two of you. I think it's great and a good couple example to other young gay generations.
Great story, yet scary. Takes me back to the days/nights of cruising for guys at the levee, on the Mississippi. Now, that was sketchy AF.
I have a protocol for first dates/hook ups.
1. Meet in a public place. Drive out of town if you have to but, always meet in a public space.
2. Tell a friend you are going to meet somebody. Mention the time and place where you are going to meet up. As well, send a photo and the name of the person.
3. Always use protection. You never know if someone is being honest or not.
It has been my experience that 98% of the time a blank profile is not the man of my dreams. Trust your instincts and pay attention to those red flags.
Stay safe boys.
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Happy Easter guy's
Wow, you were brave to walk into this craziness! That’s wild story!
Love you guys !!! Don’t ever stop uploading even if it is only like once a month lol plz ❤❤
"Now, this is the weird part." Baby...it's all the weird part! But, we've all been there in some form or another & thanks for these stories times so we can feel less alone in the weirdness of things like this.
Zach he dragging u along it hard for people like us to find ❤
The stupid shit you do when you're young & dumb lol.
Your story brought back some memories where I got myself into some scary sketchy shenanigans.
I look back on that stuff, and I think WTF was I thinking, but I also had a lot of fun 😜😜
Weeeeeee
As an LSU alumnus and lifelong fan I didn't think I'd get past 30 seconds of this video with you wearing that f***ing hat. But I did because you're adorable af and it was an enthralling story. I"m glad you're OK. Geaux Tigers !