3 Proven Ways To Flirt Effortlessly

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  • Опубликовано: 28 дек 2024

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  • @_.your-fave-ducky._
    @_.your-fave-ducky._ Год назад +544

    love the videos! keep up the great work

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +48

      Thank you! You're so kind!

    • @puppple
      @puppple Год назад +9

      Yayyeyeyeyyayayayeyyr

    • @Nobody-Cool
      @Nobody-Cool Год назад +12

      Can't wait to get a rizztraining order

    • @kitten_lover1703
      @kitten_lover1703 Год назад +3

      38 likes and three replies lets make that 39 likes and 4 replies

    • @Urlocall0s3rr
      @Urlocall0s3rr Год назад +1

      @@kitten_lover1703 how about 40 likes and 5 replies?

  • @deusexaethera
    @deusexaethera Год назад +1472

    "If someone rejects you for a frivolous reason, that tells you something important about their character that you need to know." - Me, yesterday

    • @chimmichurri6940
      @chimmichurri6940 Год назад +15

      You got this. keep trying if thats what you want

    • @tobiaslollesgaard7389
      @tobiaslollesgaard7389 Год назад +6

      it could be not to disapoint you later. if you dont think what they tell you would change how you fell in the future, then reasure them about it. would be my advise.

    • @AurumChrys
      @AurumChrys Год назад +13

      Or maybe they just don't like you

    • @deusexaethera
      @deusexaethera Год назад +17

      @@AurumChrys : If a new person decides they don't like me for a frivolous reason, that tells me something important about their character that I need to know.

    • @pixelzebra8440
      @pixelzebra8440 Год назад +1

      Nice

  • @NSolares25
    @NSolares25 Год назад +1113

    Something that has always helped me is a little thing called self amusement. If you’re having fun, chances are that the other person is having fun too. Obviously it goes without saying that it should be wholesome fun, & not laughing at someone else’s expense. Also, authenticity goes a long way.

    • @TyLearns
      @TyLearns Год назад +9

      they said no jokes though. how does that work?

    • @NSolares25
      @NSolares25 Год назад +15

      The idea is to have fun & banter with other person. You can joke & have fun, just don’t be corny & predictable. The more you interact with people, the more social acuity you gain. It’s like anything else, the more you practice, the better you get.

    • @banditpiratestudios3259
      @banditpiratestudios3259 Год назад +11

      Honestly, I don't understand why authenticity isn't just obvious straight away, I mean how often does it work just trying to impress someone or anything like that rather than just being yourself?

  • @raeesrafeeq713
    @raeesrafeeq713 Год назад +625

    0:20 3 Proven Ways To Flirt Effortlessly
    0:26 Proceed with caution
    1:29 Tie-Signs
    2:32 Call a Friend

    • @Frenzy-Films
      @Frenzy-Films Год назад +6

      Thanks bro 🙏

    • @brianl8481
      @brianl8481 Год назад +1

      But I never wear a tie.

    • @That_1940s_Delinquent
      @That_1940s_Delinquent 4 месяца назад

      I am a high schooler and the girls we have here are kind of d*cks. There is a rule with women that all of my friends and I follow is “if they approach you with a large group of Friends than it is not real” this is because 9 times out of 10 they are just messing with you and they are not actually serious. I know quite a few people that have had this happen to them and it is really rough.

  • @asadickens9353
    @asadickens9353 Год назад +557

    I'm a HUGE fan of growing together organically as I like to explain it. Not forcing anything, just start up a conversation and plan to hang out more often.

    • @MiriadCalibrumAstar
      @MiriadCalibrumAstar Год назад +18

      thats friendship not flirting.

    • @ElMitrex
      @ElMitrex Год назад +13

      It unfortunately doesn't work :/
      She got tired, dumped me and got a new guy next week HAJSHSJSH

    • @MiriadCalibrumAstar
      @MiriadCalibrumAstar Год назад +44

      @@ElMitrex I dont know if you are seeing it or not but "dumped me and got a new guy next week" says a lot of the other person my guy, dont waste time with those that dont want to play the long waiting game.

    • @ElMitrex
      @ElMitrex Год назад +5

      @@MiriadCalibrumAstar Yeah. Lesson learned.

    • @maem7462
      @maem7462 Год назад +16

      @@MiriadCalibrumAstar It can possibly become something more but if not then you at least made a new friend. It’s good to have a knew friend especially if you’re no longer in school and it’s harder to make friends

  • @eduardocarvalho2517
    @eduardocarvalho2517 Год назад +38

    Flirting is the war of a glance ❤
    In an instant, we see ourselves fixing our eyes on each other’s eyes.
    Your beauty has spoiled you.
    Few resist the third second without looking away, without blushing.
    One second, two seconds.
    And I keep my posture.
    I know what I came for.
    The paused breathing thaws and leaves the mouth slightly open, releasing a sigh.
    The heart rises.
    I stand.
    Three seconds.
    I feel cold in my arms and heat in my face.
    All sound stopped.
    Four seconds that have already dilated into many.
    If you lose, we both lose.
    But neither of us surrenders.
    A sketch of a smile begins to form.
    The eyes tighten and a different glow alerts us.
    The smiles open.
    The last second is complete.
    Two victors emerge from the war 🎉

  • @chimmichurri6940
    @chimmichurri6940 Год назад +177

    For me, after i graduated highschool i got alot more confidence in myself. Im not a great looking guy, but i do consider myself a flirt. I have a lady so nothing more would happen. Something ive noticed, is: if you want to flirt or to get a lady, be confident in yourself and how you "carry" yourself. Dudes out there Please listen, POSTURE can really help. Ive always walked shoulders back chest forward, it didn't do nothing when i was an overwieght child. When i got older, still had same posture, grew up and slimmed down/ bulked up, we got results. Dont give up, both men and women, yall can get someone

    • @1cheatkode
      @1cheatkode 11 месяцев назад +2

      Ay bro, need some more tips, where can I talk to you on?

    • @chimmichurri6940
      @chimmichurri6940 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@1cheatkode I dont really use anything else to talk with people except e-mail but thats rare because i dont check it very often .

    • @chimmichurri6940
      @chimmichurri6940 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@1cheatkode IDK if youre serious or not, but, if serious. Guess the best way to gain confidence is yourself first, and also learn how to talk whithout being fake. To talk with confidence, you dont have to be pushy, talk down to others, or belittle people. That also comes with time to learn. For a slight example: what i started doing at work when i was younger which i still do today, is joke with the public, and be able to read people if they are able to accept one or not. A joke ill usually do is: "hello howre yall doing today?" "Im ok, you?" STILL ALIVE!" but have a happy way i say it to the customer and dont linger on the joke. Immediately after i say still alive, most everybody will smile and make another quip back, then you play off that. If you can learn to do that kind of thing, itll help you be confident in speaking with random people.

    • @Fatalplayzz
      @Fatalplayzz 4 месяца назад

      ​@chimmichurri6940 you I like to use jokes that just show uve got a sense of humour rather than making them die of laughter cuz whilst it doesn't have to be good it eases up the situation

  • @Ya_Boi_Jack
    @Ya_Boi_Jack Год назад +135

    I think this is all pretty true. I'm a conversationalist weirdo who just loves talking to people and actually listening to what they have to say, and I'll have women and sometimes men ask me out all the time without that being my intention.
    I can also confirm its certainly not because of my stunning good looks. Last time I looked in the mirror it broke itself.

    • @Babacaker
      @Babacaker Год назад +5

      Yeah just be careful I had some people take my words in a weird way and thought we were doing more than just hanging out…

    • @JeffBorgesPlays
      @JeffBorgesPlays 7 месяцев назад

      You're certainly a chad bro

    • @KeiraH-j1j
      @KeiraH-j1j 5 месяцев назад

      @@JeffBorgesPlays lol that’s what I was gonna say

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n Год назад +87

    Timestamps
    1). Proceed with caution 0:26
    2). Tie-signs 1:28
    3). Call a friend 2:31
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @ShawnHartmann-ul2qk
    @ShawnHartmann-ul2qk Год назад +6

    I’ve never used a pickup line that resulted in a real relationship, but sometimes, if you do it right, it’s a fun way to indicate you’re not looking for anything but company, there’s no pressure, and you’re interested in the person, but won’t freak out if they reject you.
    The secret is to get the line wrong. “If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and me together!” kind of thing.
    P.S. at all costs avoid lines like “You smell like my mother.” as they seem to send entirely the wrong message.
    P.P.S. This is mostly an outsider’s opinion, I’m not good at “peopling”, but some women find me tolerable/interesting/pitiable and allow me to think I get it right every once in awhile.

  • @DillyDallyLove
    @DillyDallyLove Год назад +18

    Yeah, I am definitely not doing anything wrong. I hate how people try to spread being very "bad" towards your desired mate is needed. Gentleness and those light clue things are the way to go.

  • @neofulcrum5013
    @neofulcrum5013 Год назад +27

    It’s more of a matter of what to say without coming off as desperate or creepy. Do you compliment the outfit? Do you ask her if she comes here often?
    I know they tell you to live in the moment, something I’m trying to do these days, but those overthinking thoughts creep in about the worst possible things that could go wrong.

    • @patsonical
      @patsonical Год назад +16

      Exactly, and the balance seems impossible to get right as an autistic person. I'm always seen as either creepy or just friend-like, never as a potential partner.

    • @Hahshdhbcbcyoutube
      @Hahshdhbcbcyoutube Год назад +3

      If you know her quite well she probably wouldn't really mind idk lol

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +1

      @@patsonical same. We never get the romantic attention

  • @kaylenortiz0427
    @kaylenortiz0427 Год назад +25

    Considering i’m a little shy around new people especially men my age i really appreciated the proceed with caution! If only more men were like this, and not straightforward, I tend to shut down when I don’t know people, and they try to come up and talk to me like I’ve known them for forever!

    • @TyLearns
      @TyLearns Год назад +6

      how are you supposed to know we're interested if we have to subtle all the time, should i just leave you a note that says I think you're cute? The video honestly doesn't give much to go on. Sorry for asking so directly, but I don't know how else I'm supposed to find things out.

    • @Katastr0phic_Katicorn
      @Katastr0phic_Katicorn Год назад +4

      ​@TytheAutisticGuy literally states that they don't like being bluntly spoken to by strangers. As a woman with ASD, you don't get told much more bluntly and obviously what NOT TO DO than that.
      And yet here you are. Doing exactly that. Perhaps consider individual needs and that THIS PERSON is not the one to ask.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +3

      If you ever encounter situations where you feel overwhelmed, don't hesitate to communicate your boundaries. Genuine connections often develop at a pace that suits everyone involved.

  • @ajscout594
    @ajscout594 Год назад +18

    Thanks for this video! From the previous flirting videos, it was very difficult to understand what they were trying to describe. But in this video, it was much more clear to understand. Thanks!👍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +6

      I'm really happy to know that this video was clearer for you! If you're comfortable sharing, could you let me know which specific parts of the previous flirting videos were challenging to understand? Your insights are incredibly helpful for us to fine-tune our content. Thanks a bunch!

  • @keefemanoos6553
    @keefemanoos6553 Год назад +59

    0:28 proceed with caution
    1:29 tie-signs
    2:33 call a friend
    Just want to do it haha, hope it helps

  • @SynthAir
    @SynthAir Год назад +3

    3:20 Has left me deeply confused. How on earth is is opening with a compliment or a joke inappropriate (unless the subject of compliment or joke is inappropriate, of course)? Giving a compliment is one of the best ways to start a conversation with strangers in general.

  • @NightspeakerR
    @NightspeakerR Год назад +77

    Hey I wanted to share my experience with one of these tactics, my girlfriend had used a friend to get me introduced to her and funny thing about it is that when I played this video near her I was shocked to hear that using a thrid party memeber to get others introduced was mentioned. Afterwards I had started to constantly expose her which we had laughed about while at the same time got her embarrassed xD
    Im glad to have her though, and I am glad she found me interesting cause she is amazing 😍

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +7

      Good for you! Keep at it king!
      I do have a question, though. How should I go about getting a woman? I gave up months ago because of traumas and past failures, but I can't stand not trying anymore. If only I knew how. Are there any tips you can share with me? I know I'm a random scrub but I'd like to get some help.

    • @NightspeakerR
      @NightspeakerR Год назад +6

      @@DeRez19 Well I can give you this, try to find one is well enough but not good enough, I suggest you try to focus on your personality, let it follow and become more yourself then you'll find out that they can come to you sometimes :)
      Second piece of advice, when in a relationship you'll be tested and your patience for having a GF is something many take for granted so I hope you learn to work for it rather than wish for one.

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +2

      @@NightspeakerR Good advice! I don't think I let my real personality shine. I act really secluded and alone...
      Thank you! I'll do my best

    • @NightspeakerR
      @NightspeakerR Год назад +5

      @@DeRez19 Fate is in your hands, your decisions shall lead to fortune and I am one to root for those who dare to make a better living, good luck my fellow 🤙

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +5

      That's such a delightful and fun story! It seems like your girlfriend used a creative tactic, and it's even more amusing that it was mentioned in the video. 😄💖

  • @javiermaldonado7120
    @javiermaldonado7120 Год назад +43

    So that’s why people always assume I’m flirting when I’m not, I’m just a kind, respectful guy.

    • @May-v4z
      @May-v4z 8 месяцев назад +1

      lol

    • @chriscohen9559
      @chriscohen9559 2 месяца назад

      I'm pretty socially awkward hence why I've been looking at these type of videos. The whole flirting thing is confusing to me. All the definitions and videos on it is basically "Flirting is acting nice to the person you are romantically interested in" So like...if you do the exact same things that are considered flirting to someone your not interested in it's not flirting? Like how would you know if someone is flirting with you or just being nice? I don't get it.

  • @vaibhavparihar6590
    @vaibhavparihar6590 Год назад +13

    Love your content and videos for self improvement. I don't know about flirting really as I still couldn't figure it out completely but the direct and gentle approach is best way to start a conversation from my experience. It can go right or wrong but the confidence to speak up to someone you like or want to interact with is a boost to your self improvement, especially for introverts and ambiverts. Psych2Go is really doing a good job by helping people figure some of these difficult topics in life.

  • @cedricwade2792
    @cedricwade2792 Год назад +4

    As someone with no crushes this is very useful

  • @richardgunson2116
    @richardgunson2116 Год назад +4

    Thank you, I was just planning on getting back into the game, this will come in handy.

  • @ParmishanGD
    @ParmishanGD Год назад +2

    I really don't have the courage to talk to who I like, and with this new schedule, I practically can't.

  • @ShiyannaIkosi-rv1ck
    @ShiyannaIkosi-rv1ck Год назад +3

    The tie-signs are a definite yes for me. Whenever I see my crush is being a little too bombarded by people, girls especially😕🙄😤 (he is a very social person, extrovert kind a guy), after he done having conversation I try to go and start talking to him and he flirts a lot with me. Some of my classmates actually think we are dating and keep their distance but still giggle and watch us🥰😚🤭. Though I have a very toxic ex best friend🤬 who I think tries to take him from me so kinda complicated life really.
    Sorry if this is too long but this is too much for a girl who just started high-school and is finally putting myself out there after suffering heartbreak from my first crush. 😓😞

  • @WilmarySOS
    @WilmarySOS Год назад +188

    Why is this unlisted?

  • @thatonething.73
    @thatonething.73 Год назад +2

    Yess, but I love that black cat in the video! its awesome :D

  • @Canadian_Yoshi
    @Canadian_Yoshi Год назад +7

    We making it out of the party with this one 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥

  • @Keem_..
    @Keem_.. Год назад +2

    I like how calming your voice is❤

  • @LifeInsightsChannel89
    @LifeInsightsChannel89 3 месяца назад

    Fantastic video! The content is incredibly well-crafted and engaging

  • @kiLo217_
    @kiLo217_ Год назад +3

    Btw at 2:13 when they say “act like you’re already with them” they mean by demeanour not literally. Literally can be very awkward

  • @Moshi_cha
    @Moshi_cha Год назад +148

    guys it took me 1 YEAR AND A HALF TO FINALLY REALIZE THAT MY CRUSH WAS FLIRTING WITH ME 😭
    edit:friends to having a crush on each other hehe
    Update: he was playing tag with his friend and he accidentally bumped into me so he immediately apologized and now my friends are making those 😏 faces while his friend was laughing so hard
    Update 2: my friends asked him if he likes me while I was thinking about something and after that they notified me that he said "yes" and asked "OMG FOR REAL???" he said "yes" again
    I was literally covering my face when they notified me that (´༎ຶ ͜ʖ ༎ຶ `)♡

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +28

      Whoa, a year and a half to catch on? 😄 Did the realization moment lead to anything more? Curious to know how things unfolded for you! ❤

    • @Moshi_cha
      @Moshi_cha Год назад +18

      @@Psych2go just imagine u have a crush and it took you that long to FINALLY realize his obvious flirt 😭
      I feel sorry for my crush because he tried so hard to make it seem obvious 😭

    • @Flesh_Wizard
      @Flesh_Wizard Год назад +19

      Damn that's fast. I realised after 9 years

    • @TheMCzorro
      @TheMCzorro Год назад +3

      Like, once or continuously throughout this entire period?

    • @Moshi_cha
      @Moshi_cha Год назад +5

      @@TheMCzorro continuously and I even caught him smirking at me when I wasn't looking 💀

  • @fally3100
    @fally3100 5 месяцев назад +1

    Me: doesn’t have a crush.
    Still Me: *Watching Video Intently*

  • @Nobody02160
    @Nobody02160 Год назад +1

    My favorite pick up line is “you know god wanted to show off when making you”

  • @Procraftbrother
    @Procraftbrother Год назад +1

    As a guy who’s always wanted to be in a long lasting relationship with a woman (sadly still single at 22) I’ve always been too nervous to directly ask a girl out. Personally, it’s easier online and or in a online game, than irl… for the one reason, I have no irl friends or anyone to even converse with… but I’m the guy who will always be respectful, kind, loving, caring, extremely empathetic (I will cry if a close friend is crying, and all I want to do is give them a comforting hug) and loyal. Another difficulty is finding a girl that is appealing to me, and my morals. The most important thing to me is that she’s a kind, Christian girl, who shares my views on emotions and interactions.

    • @Procraftbrother
      @Procraftbrother Год назад

      I don’t have my license yet (I will in February of 2024) and I don’t want to find someone at a bar or anything like that. I want to find someone who shares my interests as well. This includes mostly gaming and 3D modeling in a game called Rec Room

  • @JoshuaTheGamerYT
    @JoshuaTheGamerYT Год назад +15

    As somebody who lives in Tennessee, I can confirm I am a 10

  • @ivanflores944
    @ivanflores944 Год назад +2

    I love this channel I just came across it and I'm already into it

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад

      Welcome to the community! Happy watching! 😊

  • @SenihaPjetrovic
    @SenihaPjetrovic Год назад +1

    I’m able to wiggle my ears so whenever I see my crush, I make my ears go back

  • @motorcycleman115
    @motorcycleman115 Год назад

    Its relieving to me to know that pick up lines and jokes are ineffective when flirting with someone.

  • @Frida_Jamsson
    @Frida_Jamsson Год назад +5

    Could you do one with just friends, like how you get people to like you fast or have you get real friends?

  • @koduflower2000
    @koduflower2000 Год назад +2

    Awesome video! 😍

  • @PancakeRights
    @PancakeRights Год назад +28

    Thank you for this video Psych2go! Can you make a video on inappropriate types of flirting? I'd also love for you to create a story for psi on this topic! This really hits hard home because I was raised in a strict eastern household where crushes and wanting to have teen relationships or even express yourself was considered disrespect. My relatives thought the freedom children should have should only be the freedom to help with household tasks- not to go out freely. My helicopter mum didn't want me going to the shops (only 2-3 mins away from our home) at 12, didn't want me to date at all, didn't want me to go out with any males alone, didn't want me to go on any sleepovers, didn't want me to wear any short or ripped clothes and didn't want me to express my opinions or change my identity related to religion and sexuality freely. At 15, I wasn't allowed on sleepovers, wasn't allowed out with males, wasn't allowed relationships and wasn't allowed out frequently, to parties, to male's houses or to invite them even for studying or to go anywhere alone. At 16 my mum wants me back home before 9, even in the holidays. Doesn't want me to have sex or engage in any romantic relationships, which is my right- at 16 I'm free from parental control and can do what I want. Even if I live with her, she can't control what goes on outside her roof. If she had been less of a control freak and set boundaries with people who abused me rather than constantly punishing and holding ME to unrealistically high standards, we'd have a positive relationship. But no. It was always " You're so oversensitive! Look at the positives. Only weak and crazy people go to the counselor!" My mum got a bit better over the past few years in terms of her attitudes towards therapy, but her overprotective and overbearing nature is still there, it's not excusable just because she's my mother and I've been abused by my dad and family. No matter what, I've always been the incapable, disobedient child who has no boundaries, is spoiled and needa harsh punishment just for trying to express myself through frickin clothing when I was already so restricted and suffocated by relatives. Western people and authorities understand this but whenever I have spoken to family or any Eastern adult figure, they have not understood this. Its just a toxic culture of victim blaming that I grew up in and I get angry knowing my mother is wrong and I'm right but I end up considering her fiction to be fact and playing all those justifications and double standards in my head. I experience a state of dissociation. Based on your knowledge, Psych2go, would you classify my family as toxic? I know I certainly would and all trusted adults I have spoken to, including my friends, feel the same way except for Eastern counterparts. Most importantly, I validate myself. Thank you so much for your channel- as a young person, I even tried to commit suicide and your channel completely changed my mindset.
    This is my new, positive mindset.
    My family was wrong and they are accountable- it's my life and I'm not obligated to fulfill them or make them happy.
    This is the west, not the east. As long as the law is on my side and authorities support me, nothing else matters and the law will always be on my side now that I'm an adult. This is the UK, not Pakistan.
    I can step foot on the moon if I want to- there is nothing I'm not capable of.
    The days of restrictions are behind me- the past is in the past. I'm an adult now, free from parental control and the law is the end all be all- my family's delusional fiction does NOT change fact.
    I CANNOT change other people's shitty mindsets, but I can change myself. I can get up, shower every day, do my work, exercise and do what makes me laugh, makes me feel safe, makes me feel comfortable, makes me feel happy and I KNOW MY RIGHTS. I DO NOT FRICKIN OWE ANYONE MY BODY OR MY LIFE. READ TEN TIMES OVER. I TRANSFORMED FROM A COWARDLY YOUNG CHILD TO A BOLD, HEADSTRONG YOUNG PERSON WITH CLEAR VISION. ALL THANKS TO PSYCH2GO ❤

    • @jenniferbond2323
      @jenniferbond2323 Год назад +3

      Good for you, honey. Everything you said is absolute truth. You are the ONLY one who decides what's best for you, and you are free to explore and ascertain what is your unique approach to your life and existence. I'm proud of you and I'm sorry that your family does not appreciate or respect your individuality. I'm glad you recognize that their worldview is a farce and until (unless) they realize that, you'll always be criminalized for it. No matter. Be free! 🎉🎉🎉

    • @PancakeRights
      @PancakeRights Год назад +1

      @@jenniferbond2323 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @KieranDrage
      @KieranDrage 6 месяцев назад +2

      This is the longest comment i have ever seen on a youtube video 😅

  • @williamsanborn9195
    @williamsanborn9195 Год назад +5

    As someone who’s going to a singles mixer soon, I could really use this advice! (Though I did already know to save the corny pickup lines for another time)

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 Год назад +3

    HEY GOOD EVENING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS EVENING, I WOULD LIKE TO ASK EVERYONE TO PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS , I'M GOING THROUGH SOMETHING WITH MY TOXIC FAMILY, I CAN RELATE TO THIS TOPIC 💯 PERCENT. SLEEP WELL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪

  • @icecreamchats
    @icecreamchats Год назад +2

    Me as an aromantic taking fervent notes knowing I will never use them: *mm yes interesting*

  • @pagarff8467
    @pagarff8467 10 месяцев назад +1

    all steps done
    it sure was helpful

  • @sscssc908
    @sscssc908 Год назад +1

    I love the videos, everything,
    I can travel just listening to you everything become so calm. thankyou

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад

      You're so sweet. enjoy!

  • @nura.divergent
    @nura.divergent 11 месяцев назад

    Man this is the most adorable video I've ever seen, but I'm afraid of following each step to closely if I ONLY use this video lol

  • @TheBite0f87
    @TheBite0f87 Год назад

    kind of off topic from the video but you're voice is really soothing :)

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Год назад +9

    We made a video about 'sexual narcissism" a few days ago, did you get a chance to watch it:
    ruclips.net/video/XIfG0VfVwBQ/видео.htmlsi=HZ5MSqpJVB8_vzKN

    • @PancakeRights
      @PancakeRights Год назад +1

      I have watched your video and I'd like to say that you should check out the comments section- there's definitely some criticism. There's a toxic feminism element in your video. As a woman, I think true feminism is to hold both men and women equally accountable for their actions. The woman who was being story teller seemed to be using her boyfriend and her boyfriend didn't exactly force her for sex to cause such an overreaction.

  • @szyslay
    @szyslay Год назад

    Actually -> best flirting advice to meet someone! 😀 no game no other...be you and you'll find "similar you"

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 Год назад +1

    GOOD AFTERNOON MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING. HAVE A BLESSED DAY, TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪

  • @Hahshdhbcbcyoutube
    @Hahshdhbcbcyoutube Год назад +1

    1:03 omg! That background looks like a scene from kiki's delivery service!!

  • @Gladium4215
    @Gladium4215 Год назад

    I'm pretty sure I overheard my crush saying to her friend that she has a crush on this one guy in our band class. She and him are hanging out a lot now, but whenever I send her smth, she has this lively response. Idk if she is just being nice or what. I think I might be winning her over.

  • @DeRez19
    @DeRez19 Год назад +5

    Thank God you called out how lame pick up lines are lol. I also tried the compliment approach and it is waaay too straightforward, even if you say something about their personality or clothing style.
    Women seem to like the mysterious more than the straightforward, which sucks for most guys because naturally we are straightforward lol. That's why we have to "learn" how to flirt and whatnot.
    I'm still really bad at it, and that's mainly because I stopped approaching women. I'm not sure if I'll start again any time soon, but good luck to those who do.

  • @te9591
    @te9591 Год назад +4

    The tennesee joke was hilarious.

  • @ayounimationstudio
    @ayounimationstudio Год назад

    I never had a crush tho I'm flirting with my friends on a daily basis but damn, getting rid of all the "hey, do you have a name, or can I just call you 'mine'?" type of pick up lines are going to lighten the atmosphere !

  • @matheusdiazz
    @matheusdiazz 6 месяцев назад

    I naturally did all of this when growing up, gotta get back to good habits

  • @faithfulcloud6879
    @faithfulcloud6879 Год назад

    Watching the view goes up makes me so happy I'm not alone😂

  • @Keiron-pw6sl
    @Keiron-pw6sl Год назад +2

    Amanda is back everyone that voice is flirt
    In its self

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +1

      She's always been here! :)

    • @Keiron-pw6sl
      @Keiron-pw6sl Год назад +1

      ​@@Psych2goshe's got the cutest voice

    • @varun.shenoy10
      @varun.shenoy10 Год назад +1

      @@Keiron-pw6sl she's my favorite 🥰❤️

    • @Keiron-pw6sl
      @Keiron-pw6sl Год назад

      @@varun.shenoy10 mine to💜

  • @flamegamer3424
    @flamegamer3424 Год назад +1

    This video is helpful. I wish I knew about these tips sooner. Thank you.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад

      It's never too late to incorporate these tips into your interactions. I'm glad to hear you found the video helpful!

  • @nyroony
    @nyroony Год назад

    I'm a little dubious on the idea that telling a joke or compliment is an 'ineffective' strategy. Considering those are the two biggest ice breakers and even videos on this channel have held them up as such. Maybe I misunderstood that part of the video? The only thing I could think is the idea of going right into a joke before even giving your name. I guess I could see that. Beyond that, another good video!

  • @GabRiel-ex5ep
    @GabRiel-ex5ep Год назад +1

    I find flirting is very much based on the cultural context. I can flirt in a much more natural, friendly and easy going way in english (I find that language engages you in a fluent and impactful shared narration) then while chatting with ladies in my french province, and my mastery of french is much less poor then my understanding of english, so it's not the same challenge either. In my country and especially my province, seducing someone never worked out for me (or hardly at all, frankly). Maybe speaking french in english communities feels exotic to others and is a friendly flag for new relationships. The needs, desires and expectations of women might drastically differ as well, from one culture to another. In english provinces, I found ladies much more romantic then back home in french Canada. While travelling in Asia (when I had a reason to be introduced to ladies), when discovering english communities or while meeting other travellers from all around the world, it was much easier, more fluent and fulfilling to enjoy seduction. I could create friendliness with women, which is dear to me. If there is a bit of fun, kind humour and playfulness while flirting, it feels more satisfying, natural and I find it helps creating bonds. Meeting people that are friends of friends is also useful to create an engaging link. A different way of breaking the ice. Seducing while travelling expands and intensifies any experience, I'd say (well, anything while on a journey is more intense to me). Sitting at a counter in a pub or approaching someone already drinking at the counter makes things easier as well for me. Once, I really wanted to share a beer with someone when at a pub in the States. I offered a drink to a friendly looking and charming lady, she thanked me but told me she'd be too busy to chat with me, but I frankly just needed to share something with a beautiful someone. She accepted a drink and ended up chatting with me for a while, which felt unexpected. I love that aspect of meeting someone new. Sometimes, I find that women from other cultures have a little noble vibe to them. Lately, I really wonder how it feels to others when they flirt, meet new people, create relationships. I ask myself what would be a pleasent and fulfilling romance to ladies. I love being romantic, but only certain people (and certain cultures) seem to appreciate it as well. I'm highly grateful when women are romantic towards me. It's moving! Maybe people in my province are just slightly more materialistic/superficial in essence and feel threatened by deeper discussions and relationships. I can't be certain. Nevertheless, I'll always prefer creating bonds with people from other cultures, at the very least. It expands the intensity of meeting someone new, from a different gender, psychoemotionally and intellectually different as well. Thanks for your creative, kind and warm videos by the way! I appreciate them.

  • @DamianoftheRyans
    @DamianoftheRyans Год назад

    This video told me EVERYTHING and NOTHING, all at once. 🤣Just be myself and no jokes? For me that's antithetical, because part of being me is joking and being funny (or, at least trying to be funny)! 😂

  • @PhilippGabelweis
    @PhilippGabelweis 7 месяцев назад +1

    "How to build a fusion reactor in 5 easy steps"

  • @Scorzon_329
    @Scorzon_329 Год назад +1

    1:15 bruh all the first qualities is literally my crushes personality if you know him and he trusts you😅😭😂❤

  • @joshuafusselman3323
    @joshuafusselman3323 10 месяцев назад

    #1 Best pickup line: "Hi."

  • @nodwolf
    @nodwolf Год назад +19

    But... speaking for myself- Corny pick-up lines and jokes are a 100% guarantee to get a guy in my pants if used on me. I like someone who can show that they have humor that can overcome anything else. Because life (again, in my opinion) is something that should be enjoyed fully, and laughter is a great place to start.

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +5

      You are one of the rare few women who actually like pick up lines? You are a gem.

    • @itszbebabaybee
      @itszbebabaybee Год назад +5

      Im the same way! I like a corny pick up line if the guy knows its corny too, he’s just trying to make me laugh. If you can be slick and make me laugh, that’s a winner in my book. It shows a level of confidence somehow

    • @TyLearns
      @TyLearns Год назад +3

      then this contradicts what your experience is. So then this video isn't as objective as it implies. Which is frustrating because there's no sure answer either way.

    • @neofulcrum5013
      @neofulcrum5013 Год назад

      Guess coming from a line of comedians can pay off for me.

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +4

      @@TyLearns everyone is different

  • @HoOh-p8o
    @HoOh-p8o Год назад

    Your voice is so calming♥

  • @twilightaesthetic
    @twilightaesthetic Год назад

    pov: you're the awkward competition watching this video

  • @KurO_playz_J-fan
    @KurO_playz_J-fan Год назад +1

    It’s hands down embarrassing if you play this infront of the family 😂

  • @juanpablocastano3081
    @juanpablocastano3081 Год назад

    The fact that i already did all of this and didn't work, is the scientific proof that the problem is me, not what i do

  • @aellalee4767
    @aellalee4767 Год назад +1

    What is going wrong if you find someone, chat regularly with them and seem to be friends or good acquaintances, but get a no.
    What I mean is, you get introduced, they maintain extra eye contact, touch more often, go out of their way to mention how you have certain things in common that refer to having a relationship, and tsll you that you're attractive.
    I have this happen over and over. Those are signs of attraction are they not?

    • @human_4real
      @human_4real Год назад

      some people like to play games, I don't respect that type

  • @mr.ghost-thefirst
    @mr.ghost-thefirst Год назад

    The music loves both of my ears

  • @Knuckles_la_Enchilada
    @Knuckles_la_Enchilada Год назад +1

    There's this cute girl I met at an art gallery and I've been wanting to know more about her ever since, we only had two short interactions the first time I saw her. In two days I'll be going to a sculpture class I know she goes to so I can have a chance to talk with her, but I don't really know what to do since this would be the first time I approach a girl I like; is not that I can't talk to girls, I have many female friends (and I I've never seen any of them as anything more than friends), is just that I don't know how to make it clear that I like her without making her uncomfortable.

  • @MrHams623
    @MrHams623 Год назад +1

    Im pretty sure my crush doesn’t even know I exist💀

  • @Fureccha
    @Fureccha Год назад

    Instructions unclear, we are now exchanging slow blinks like cats

  • @Wolven6
    @Wolven6 Год назад +4

    So what you're telling me is my past 5 years of compiling dad jokes into my personal repertoire... was a waste?

    • @itszbebabaybee
      @itszbebabaybee Год назад

      Not at all! Some women like dad jokes 🥺

  • @daxrieducational
    @daxrieducational Год назад

    Ok... I am an Asperger's. I'm gay, non-binary and I like two guys who are "allegedly" straight. One of them had an intercourse with me after I mentored him for one year and a half. The other one is one of my work colleague. I can't tell if he's into me or whatever. We bonded really fast and we started mimic eachother. We do good conversations and something doesn't click. I can't tell if I'm into him (and have a distorted vision) or he's into me but don't want to expose.
    He's giving me gifts, love to talk to me (even about personal issues), and we go to lunch together.
    I'm so con-fused.

    • @czasasehreana3256
      @czasasehreana3256 Год назад +1

      I think he is just a good friend (I wish i had any friends) lol

    • @daxrieducational
      @daxrieducational Год назад

      @@czasasehreana3256 well, that would be enough. Even if i'm having mixed signals and it's quite hard to set boundaries...

  • @marlonduncan5304
    @marlonduncan5304 Год назад

    This video was very informative ❤❤!

  • @sugarcookie_II
    @sugarcookie_II Год назад +3

    Not me being Cupioromantic. I want a romantic relationship but I can’t feel much romance. This is not a use for me, but I’m watching it just in case

  • @keithrogers6876
    @keithrogers6876 Год назад

    Friends: "what's your favourite pick up line?".
    Me: "hi".

  • @meganstallion-e1u
    @meganstallion-e1u Год назад

    watching this in rehab (literally)

  • @Avendin1
    @Avendin1 Год назад +3

    The hardest part of making friends is walking outside and socializing.

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold Год назад

    I haven't tried most of these... but I will now! 👨🏿‍❤️‍👨🏻🤩💙
    -Mason

  • @FASSi_346
    @FASSi_346 Год назад

    Wish i had known this tips before, but regardless, loved the video

  • @kgirl110
    @kgirl110 Год назад +1

    Does anyone have any good love or body language psychology book recommendations? I’ve been meaning to look around, but I haven’t been able to yet.

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 Год назад +1

    HEY JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS EVENING, LOVE THE TOPIC, SLEEP WELL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY. TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪

  • @timwashburn8553
    @timwashburn8553 Год назад

    I want to be as good as Craig Ferguson. That man could flirt so effortlessly.

  • @BenjiKiyo141
    @BenjiKiyo141 Год назад

    I love this advice because it's my personality. I just wish I wasn't shy so I could pull it off.

  • @ItsAA_Plays
    @ItsAA_Plays Год назад +1

    Why was this uploaded 4 hours ago and comments 1 month ago

  • @aybuns
    @aybuns Год назад +2

    I saw someone called PhilPeter250 reuploading Psych2Go's videos with the same titles and thumbnails and gaining a bunch of views from them. Is this allowed or what? 😭

  • @Sy21124
    @Sy21124 5 месяцев назад

    my name is literally sy, that caught me off guard 💀

  • @anuruksuriyaarachchi3988
    @anuruksuriyaarachchi3988 Год назад

    Could you also do a video about liminal spaces and why do we find such often in day to day life to feel normal places really uncomfortable and what to do?

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 Год назад +1

    GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND KNOW FAMILY I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING I REALLY NEED EVERYONE TO PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS, I'M GOING THROUGH SOME BS WITH MY TOXIC FAMILY/MOTHER I JUST WANT TO 🎲 I NEVER WOULD THINK MY TOXIC MOTHER WOULD TREAT ME THIS WAY, INTELL LATER ON MY FRIENDS, HAVE A BLESSED DAY AND PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS ,TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪

  • @GrzegorzekProPlayer
    @GrzegorzekProPlayer Год назад

    I needed this

  • @andrewcheong6085
    @andrewcheong6085 Год назад

    When I heard of third party introductions, all i could think of was "Haaaaaaaaaaave you met Ted?" from HIMYM

  • @azuki.mv4
    @azuki.mv4 Год назад +1

    finally a rizz tutorial that wont make one a sex offender

  • @mingfanzhang4600
    @mingfanzhang4600 Год назад

    Happy birthday 🎉🎈🎂🎁🎊

  • @rania414
    @rania414 Год назад

    2:14 a person who has a crush on me did that to me several times ( I didn't realize he had a crush on me till people who approaches me started getting away by this act) and I don't like it at all. How can I prevent this from happening again please?

  • @dogie8c
    @dogie8c Год назад +1

    I noticed that a cute girl from my job always stares at me directly at my eyes and smiles. She also likes to hold my hand when we’re alone and yet, she tells us at work that she has a crush on a guy who lives near her apartment. WTF?!! 😢 I’m completely confused about our relationship (if anything) as coworkers. I just don’t understand women.

    • @buggus0034
      @buggus0034 Год назад

      You have fun options here.
      1. This is a stupid test, don’t play that game.
      2. It’s just friends. I had a friend in high school, she would kiss me all the time. 0 anything outside of that.
      3. Cut it off, wait for her reaction. If she asks what’s wrong, say you started dating someone and wait for the reaction.
      Some of this is lying and manipulative, but sometimes that’s the game.

  • @mikecoffee100
    @mikecoffee100 Год назад

    Awesome videos Thank Youuu