it could be not to disapoint you later. if you dont think what they tell you would change how you fell in the future, then reasure them about it. would be my advise.
@@AurumChrys : If a new person decides they don't like me for a frivolous reason, that tells me something important about their character that I need to know.
Something that has always helped me is a little thing called self amusement. If you’re having fun, chances are that the other person is having fun too. Obviously it goes without saying that it should be wholesome fun, & not laughing at someone else’s expense. Also, authenticity goes a long way.
The idea is to have fun & banter with other person. You can joke & have fun, just don’t be corny & predictable. The more you interact with people, the more social acuity you gain. It’s like anything else, the more you practice, the better you get.
Honestly, I don't understand why authenticity isn't just obvious straight away, I mean how often does it work just trying to impress someone or anything like that rather than just being yourself?
I am a high schooler and the girls we have here are kind of d*cks. There is a rule with women that all of my friends and I follow is “if they approach you with a large group of Friends than it is not real” this is because 9 times out of 10 they are just messing with you and they are not actually serious. I know quite a few people that have had this happen to them and it is really rough.
I'm a HUGE fan of growing together organically as I like to explain it. Not forcing anything, just start up a conversation and plan to hang out more often.
@@ElMitrex I dont know if you are seeing it or not but "dumped me and got a new guy next week" says a lot of the other person my guy, dont waste time with those that dont want to play the long waiting game.
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar It can possibly become something more but if not then you at least made a new friend. It’s good to have a knew friend especially if you’re no longer in school and it’s harder to make friends
For me, after i graduated highschool i got alot more confidence in myself. Im not a great looking guy, but i do consider myself a flirt. I have a lady so nothing more would happen. Something ive noticed, is: if you want to flirt or to get a lady, be confident in yourself and how you "carry" yourself. Dudes out there Please listen, POSTURE can really help. Ive always walked shoulders back chest forward, it didn't do nothing when i was an overwieght child. When i got older, still had same posture, grew up and slimmed down/ bulked up, we got results. Dont give up, both men and women, yall can get someone
@@1cheatkode IDK if youre serious or not, but, if serious. Guess the best way to gain confidence is yourself first, and also learn how to talk whithout being fake. To talk with confidence, you dont have to be pushy, talk down to others, or belittle people. That also comes with time to learn. For a slight example: what i started doing at work when i was younger which i still do today, is joke with the public, and be able to read people if they are able to accept one or not. A joke ill usually do is: "hello howre yall doing today?" "Im ok, you?" STILL ALIVE!" but have a happy way i say it to the customer and dont linger on the joke. Immediately after i say still alive, most everybody will smile and make another quip back, then you play off that. If you can learn to do that kind of thing, itll help you be confident in speaking with random people.
@chimmichurri6940 you I like to use jokes that just show uve got a sense of humour rather than making them die of laughter cuz whilst it doesn't have to be good it eases up the situation
Flirting is the war of a glance ❤ In an instant, we see ourselves fixing our eyes on each other’s eyes. Your beauty has spoiled you. Few resist the third second without looking away, without blushing. One second, two seconds. And I keep my posture. I know what I came for. The paused breathing thaws and leaves the mouth slightly open, releasing a sigh. The heart rises. I stand. Three seconds. I feel cold in my arms and heat in my face. All sound stopped. Four seconds that have already dilated into many. If you lose, we both lose. But neither of us surrenders. A sketch of a smile begins to form. The eyes tighten and a different glow alerts us. The smiles open. The last second is complete. Two victors emerge from the war 🎉
Timestamps 1). Proceed with caution 0:26 2). Tie-signs 1:28 3). Call a friend 2:31 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I think this is all pretty true. I'm a conversationalist weirdo who just loves talking to people and actually listening to what they have to say, and I'll have women and sometimes men ask me out all the time without that being my intention. I can also confirm its certainly not because of my stunning good looks. Last time I looked in the mirror it broke itself.
Hey I wanted to share my experience with one of these tactics, my girlfriend had used a friend to get me introduced to her and funny thing about it is that when I played this video near her I was shocked to hear that using a thrid party memeber to get others introduced was mentioned. Afterwards I had started to constantly expose her which we had laughed about while at the same time got her embarrassed xD Im glad to have her though, and I am glad she found me interesting cause she is amazing 😍
Good for you! Keep at it king! I do have a question, though. How should I go about getting a woman? I gave up months ago because of traumas and past failures, but I can't stand not trying anymore. If only I knew how. Are there any tips you can share with me? I know I'm a random scrub but I'd like to get some help.
@@DeRez19 Well I can give you this, try to find one is well enough but not good enough, I suggest you try to focus on your personality, let it follow and become more yourself then you'll find out that they can come to you sometimes :) Second piece of advice, when in a relationship you'll be tested and your patience for having a GF is something many take for granted so I hope you learn to work for it rather than wish for one.
@@DeRez19 Fate is in your hands, your decisions shall lead to fortune and I am one to root for those who dare to make a better living, good luck my fellow 🤙
That's such a delightful and fun story! It seems like your girlfriend used a creative tactic, and it's even more amusing that it was mentioned in the video. 😄💖
guys it took me 1 YEAR AND A HALF TO FINALLY REALIZE THAT MY CRUSH WAS FLIRTING WITH ME 😭 edit:friends to having a crush on each other hehe Update: he was playing tag with his friend and he accidentally bumped into me so he immediately apologized and now my friends are making those 😏 faces while his friend was laughing so hard Update 2: my friends asked him if he likes me while I was thinking about something and after that they notified me that he said "yes" and asked "OMG FOR REAL???" he said "yes" again I was literally covering my face when they notified me that (´༎ຶ ͜ʖ ༎ຶ `)♡
@@Psych2go just imagine u have a crush and it took you that long to FINALLY realize his obvious flirt 😭 I feel sorry for my crush because he tried so hard to make it seem obvious 😭
Considering i’m a little shy around new people especially men my age i really appreciated the proceed with caution! If only more men were like this, and not straightforward, I tend to shut down when I don’t know people, and they try to come up and talk to me like I’ve known them for forever!
how are you supposed to know we're interested if we have to subtle all the time, should i just leave you a note that says I think you're cute? The video honestly doesn't give much to go on. Sorry for asking so directly, but I don't know how else I'm supposed to find things out.
@TytheAutisticGuy literally states that they don't like being bluntly spoken to by strangers. As a woman with ASD, you don't get told much more bluntly and obviously what NOT TO DO than that. And yet here you are. Doing exactly that. Perhaps consider individual needs and that THIS PERSON is not the one to ask.
If you ever encounter situations where you feel overwhelmed, don't hesitate to communicate your boundaries. Genuine connections often develop at a pace that suits everyone involved.
It’s more of a matter of what to say without coming off as desperate or creepy. Do you compliment the outfit? Do you ask her if she comes here often? I know they tell you to live in the moment, something I’m trying to do these days, but those overthinking thoughts creep in about the worst possible things that could go wrong.
Exactly, and the balance seems impossible to get right as an autistic person. I'm always seen as either creepy or just friend-like, never as a potential partner.
Yeah, I am definitely not doing anything wrong. I hate how people try to spread being very "bad" towards your desired mate is needed. Gentleness and those light clue things are the way to go.
Thanks for this video! From the previous flirting videos, it was very difficult to understand what they were trying to describe. But in this video, it was much more clear to understand. Thanks!👍
I'm really happy to know that this video was clearer for you! If you're comfortable sharing, could you let me know which specific parts of the previous flirting videos were challenging to understand? Your insights are incredibly helpful for us to fine-tune our content. Thanks a bunch!
Love your content and videos for self improvement. I don't know about flirting really as I still couldn't figure it out completely but the direct and gentle approach is best way to start a conversation from my experience. It can go right or wrong but the confidence to speak up to someone you like or want to interact with is a boost to your self improvement, especially for introverts and ambiverts. Psych2Go is really doing a good job by helping people figure some of these difficult topics in life.
We made a video about 'sexual narcissism" a few days ago, did you get a chance to watch it: ruclips.net/video/XIfG0VfVwBQ/видео.htmlsi=HZ5MSqpJVB8_vzKN
I have watched your video and I'd like to say that you should check out the comments section- there's definitely some criticism. There's a toxic feminism element in your video. As a woman, I think true feminism is to hold both men and women equally accountable for their actions. The woman who was being story teller seemed to be using her boyfriend and her boyfriend didn't exactly force her for sex to cause such an overreaction.
The tie-signs are a definite yes for me. Whenever I see my crush is being a little too bombarded by people, girls especially😕🙄😤 (he is a very social person, extrovert kind a guy), after he done having conversation I try to go and start talking to him and he flirts a lot with me. Some of my classmates actually think we are dating and keep their distance but still giggle and watch us🥰😚🤭. Though I have a very toxic ex best friend🤬 who I think tries to take him from me so kinda complicated life really. Sorry if this is too long but this is too much for a girl who just started high-school and is finally putting myself out there after suffering heartbreak from my first crush. 😓😞
Thank you for this video Psych2go! Can you make a video on inappropriate types of flirting? I'd also love for you to create a story for psi on this topic! This really hits hard home because I was raised in a strict eastern household where crushes and wanting to have teen relationships or even express yourself was considered disrespect. My relatives thought the freedom children should have should only be the freedom to help with household tasks- not to go out freely. My helicopter mum didn't want me going to the shops (only 2-3 mins away from our home) at 12, didn't want me to date at all, didn't want me to go out with any males alone, didn't want me to go on any sleepovers, didn't want me to wear any short or ripped clothes and didn't want me to express my opinions or change my identity related to religion and sexuality freely. At 15, I wasn't allowed on sleepovers, wasn't allowed out with males, wasn't allowed relationships and wasn't allowed out frequently, to parties, to male's houses or to invite them even for studying or to go anywhere alone. At 16 my mum wants me back home before 9, even in the holidays. Doesn't want me to have sex or engage in any romantic relationships, which is my right- at 16 I'm free from parental control and can do what I want. Even if I live with her, she can't control what goes on outside her roof. If she had been less of a control freak and set boundaries with people who abused me rather than constantly punishing and holding ME to unrealistically high standards, we'd have a positive relationship. But no. It was always " You're so oversensitive! Look at the positives. Only weak and crazy people go to the counselor!" My mum got a bit better over the past few years in terms of her attitudes towards therapy, but her overprotective and overbearing nature is still there, it's not excusable just because she's my mother and I've been abused by my dad and family. No matter what, I've always been the incapable, disobedient child who has no boundaries, is spoiled and needa harsh punishment just for trying to express myself through frickin clothing when I was already so restricted and suffocated by relatives. Western people and authorities understand this but whenever I have spoken to family or any Eastern adult figure, they have not understood this. Its just a toxic culture of victim blaming that I grew up in and I get angry knowing my mother is wrong and I'm right but I end up considering her fiction to be fact and playing all those justifications and double standards in my head. I experience a state of dissociation. Based on your knowledge, Psych2go, would you classify my family as toxic? I know I certainly would and all trusted adults I have spoken to, including my friends, feel the same way except for Eastern counterparts. Most importantly, I validate myself. Thank you so much for your channel- as a young person, I even tried to commit suicide and your channel completely changed my mindset. This is my new, positive mindset. My family was wrong and they are accountable- it's my life and I'm not obligated to fulfill them or make them happy. This is the west, not the east. As long as the law is on my side and authorities support me, nothing else matters and the law will always be on my side now that I'm an adult. This is the UK, not Pakistan. I can step foot on the moon if I want to- there is nothing I'm not capable of. The days of restrictions are behind me- the past is in the past. I'm an adult now, free from parental control and the law is the end all be all- my family's delusional fiction does NOT change fact. I CANNOT change other people's shitty mindsets, but I can change myself. I can get up, shower every day, do my work, exercise and do what makes me laugh, makes me feel safe, makes me feel comfortable, makes me feel happy and I KNOW MY RIGHTS. I DO NOT FRICKIN OWE ANYONE MY BODY OR MY LIFE. READ TEN TIMES OVER. I TRANSFORMED FROM A COWARDLY YOUNG CHILD TO A BOLD, HEADSTRONG YOUNG PERSON WITH CLEAR VISION. ALL THANKS TO PSYCH2GO ❤
Good for you, honey. Everything you said is absolute truth. You are the ONLY one who decides what's best for you, and you are free to explore and ascertain what is your unique approach to your life and existence. I'm proud of you and I'm sorry that your family does not appreciate or respect your individuality. I'm glad you recognize that their worldview is a farce and until (unless) they realize that, you'll always be criminalized for it. No matter. Be free! 🎉🎉🎉
As someone who’s going to a singles mixer soon, I could really use this advice! (Though I did already know to save the corny pickup lines for another time)
HEY GOOD EVENING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS EVENING, I WOULD LIKE TO ASK EVERYONE TO PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS , I'M GOING THROUGH SOMETHING WITH MY TOXIC FAMILY, I CAN RELATE TO THIS TOPIC 💯 PERCENT. SLEEP WELL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪
But... speaking for myself- Corny pick-up lines and jokes are a 100% guarantee to get a guy in my pants if used on me. I like someone who can show that they have humor that can overcome anything else. Because life (again, in my opinion) is something that should be enjoyed fully, and laughter is a great place to start.
Im the same way! I like a corny pick up line if the guy knows its corny too, he’s just trying to make me laugh. If you can be slick and make me laugh, that’s a winner in my book. It shows a level of confidence somehow
then this contradicts what your experience is. So then this video isn't as objective as it implies. Which is frustrating because there's no sure answer either way.
I saw someone called PhilPeter250 reuploading Psych2Go's videos with the same titles and thumbnails and gaining a bunch of views from them. Is this allowed or what? 😭
As a guy who’s always wanted to be in a long lasting relationship with a woman (sadly still single at 22) I’ve always been too nervous to directly ask a girl out. Personally, it’s easier online and or in a online game, than irl… for the one reason, I have no irl friends or anyone to even converse with… but I’m the guy who will always be respectful, kind, loving, caring, extremely empathetic (I will cry if a close friend is crying, and all I want to do is give them a comforting hug) and loyal. Another difficulty is finding a girl that is appealing to me, and my morals. The most important thing to me is that she’s a kind, Christian girl, who shares my views on emotions and interactions.
I don’t have my license yet (I will in February of 2024) and I don’t want to find someone at a bar or anything like that. I want to find someone who shares my interests as well. This includes mostly gaming and 3D modeling in a game called Rec Room
I never had a crush tho I'm flirting with my friends on a daily basis but damn, getting rid of all the "hey, do you have a name, or can I just call you 'mine'?" type of pick up lines are going to lighten the atmosphere !
I noticed that a cute girl from my job always stares at me directly at my eyes and smiles. She also likes to hold my hand when we’re alone and yet, she tells us at work that she has a crush on a guy who lives near her apartment. WTF?!! 😢 I’m completely confused about our relationship (if anything) as coworkers. I just don’t understand women.
You have fun options here. 1. This is a stupid test, don’t play that game. 2. It’s just friends. I had a friend in high school, she would kiss me all the time. 0 anything outside of that. 3. Cut it off, wait for her reaction. If she asks what’s wrong, say you started dating someone and wait for the reaction. Some of this is lying and manipulative, but sometimes that’s the game.
I'm a little dubious on the idea that telling a joke or compliment is an 'ineffective' strategy. Considering those are the two biggest ice breakers and even videos on this channel have held them up as such. Maybe I misunderstood that part of the video? The only thing I could think is the idea of going right into a joke before even giving your name. I guess I could see that. Beyond that, another good video!
I'm pretty sure I overheard my crush saying to her friend that she has a crush on this one guy in our band class. She and him are hanging out a lot now, but whenever I send her smth, she has this lively response. Idk if she is just being nice or what. I think I might be winning her over.
You dont. Believe you me ive had this same thing when i was in younger days. If it happens itll happen. You shouldnt want to change their view on you at all. that would end up toxic. IDK how yall work but just my opinion. Hope youre good
@@chimmichurri6940 the thing is, both me and people that know both of us, have noticed signs from him that could possibly count as flirting or trying to get closer, that's why, if that was the case idk how to let him know that I'm down for something more than just friends
That's actually a really good question. If you're already at a friendship level with your crush and want to shift things romantically, open communication is key. Express your feelings honestly, letting them know you value the friendship but have developed deeper feelings. Respect their response and boundaries, ensuring you maintain the foundation of trust you've built as friends. Best of luck on this journey!
Proceed with caution - Nah be bold, be confident just remember to also be respectful and friendly. Many of the girls I've been with, I used cheesy pick up lines on, but kept it fun and light-hearted. Tie-signs - Wut? This one is weird. Women use physical touch Tie-signs so you should pay attention if you notice she is making a solo effort to touch you, however if you are a male I'd suggest keeping your hands to yourself especially in this time. I don't think that study factored in low contact and high contact cultures. Making eye contact is fine though. Call a friend - Wut??? Is this flirting or taking on a date? This is the worst one imo. Mainly because it's not effortless, isn't a flirt as it's full on telling, and is prone to problems or just not happening. It is a good idea if you still have large friend groups and you want a less forward way to ask someone on a date, just know it could also completely ruin your chances vs if you just did it yourself. Strange video imo.
in one of my classes, every pair of kids makes a slideshow on a chapter of a book were readin in that class. the slideshow is supposed to last 80 mins. this time, my crush and her friend went up to present their slideshow and somewhere in the middle of the presentation, there was a small quiz we had to take. after takin the quiz, we went over the quiz questions. im probably the biggest introvert at out school and many people know that including my crush i think. 2 other boys know who my crush is and when my crush called on ME to answer a question, my insides were stunned and the 2 other boys who were also sitting next to me were going “oooooooh ______ she called on you.” this isnt the firs time it happened, my crush has called on me multiple times throughout different times of the year whenever were havin a group discussion she always looks at me and says “______ do you want to add anything to our topic?”
This video told me EVERYTHING and NOTHING, all at once. 🤣Just be myself and no jokes? For me that's antithetical, because part of being me is joking and being funny (or, at least trying to be funny)! 😂
I know maybe it's not that related to the subject but I'm having a little problem with a girl who is a very close friend of mine and... I think I'm kind of in love with her. The problem is that there is a guy who is trying to get her away from me (he is also in love with her, he hasn't said it but I'm 100% sure) when I approach her and talk to her the guy comes quickly and hugs her, I naturally leave the place. The guy is cool, but even the girl is a little uncomfortable with his attitude. I've been close friends with her for a year, but I haven't dared to do anything else (I'm very introverted in those things). I don't know if it would be wise to do anything about it.
There was a guy did this with my crush so when he did it this one time i got up & hugged him (armlocked him & nearly choked him), my crush was impressed with me just kidding i rarely interacted with my crush in the 5 years i had one on her & someone else got her
Ok... I am an Asperger's. I'm gay, non-binary and I like two guys who are "allegedly" straight. One of them had an intercourse with me after I mentored him for one year and a half. The other one is one of my work colleague. I can't tell if he's into me or whatever. We bonded really fast and we started mimic eachother. We do good conversations and something doesn't click. I can't tell if I'm into him (and have a distorted vision) or he's into me but don't want to expose. He's giving me gifts, love to talk to me (even about personal issues), and we go to lunch together. I'm so con-fused.
Seriously cannot relate to that. In my entire life there was never a thought in my head "I want to flirt with him/her". I just never flirt, it's completely alien concept to me and I also get seriously weirded out when someone tries to flirt with me.
Could you also do a video about liminal spaces and why do we find such often in day to day life to feel normal places really uncomfortable and what to do?
love the videos! keep up the great work
Thank you! You're so kind!
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Can't wait to get a rizztraining order
38 likes and three replies lets make that 39 likes and 4 replies
@@kitten_lover1703 how about 40 likes and 5 replies?
"If someone rejects you for a frivolous reason, that tells you something important about their character that you need to know." - Me, yesterday
You got this. keep trying if thats what you want
it could be not to disapoint you later. if you dont think what they tell you would change how you fell in the future, then reasure them about it. would be my advise.
Or maybe they just don't like you
@@AurumChrys : If a new person decides they don't like me for a frivolous reason, that tells me something important about their character that I need to know.
Nice
Something that has always helped me is a little thing called self amusement. If you’re having fun, chances are that the other person is having fun too. Obviously it goes without saying that it should be wholesome fun, & not laughing at someone else’s expense. Also, authenticity goes a long way.
they said no jokes though. how does that work?
The idea is to have fun & banter with other person. You can joke & have fun, just don’t be corny & predictable. The more you interact with people, the more social acuity you gain. It’s like anything else, the more you practice, the better you get.
Honestly, I don't understand why authenticity isn't just obvious straight away, I mean how often does it work just trying to impress someone or anything like that rather than just being yourself?
0:20 3 Proven Ways To Flirt Effortlessly
0:26 Proceed with caution
1:29 Tie-Signs
2:32 Call a Friend
Thanks bro 🙏
But I never wear a tie.
I am a high schooler and the girls we have here are kind of d*cks. There is a rule with women that all of my friends and I follow is “if they approach you with a large group of Friends than it is not real” this is because 9 times out of 10 they are just messing with you and they are not actually serious. I know quite a few people that have had this happen to them and it is really rough.
I'm a HUGE fan of growing together organically as I like to explain it. Not forcing anything, just start up a conversation and plan to hang out more often.
thats friendship not flirting.
It unfortunately doesn't work :/
She got tired, dumped me and got a new guy next week HAJSHSJSH
@@ElMitrex I dont know if you are seeing it or not but "dumped me and got a new guy next week" says a lot of the other person my guy, dont waste time with those that dont want to play the long waiting game.
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar Yeah. Lesson learned.
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar It can possibly become something more but if not then you at least made a new friend. It’s good to have a knew friend especially if you’re no longer in school and it’s harder to make friends
For me, after i graduated highschool i got alot more confidence in myself. Im not a great looking guy, but i do consider myself a flirt. I have a lady so nothing more would happen. Something ive noticed, is: if you want to flirt or to get a lady, be confident in yourself and how you "carry" yourself. Dudes out there Please listen, POSTURE can really help. Ive always walked shoulders back chest forward, it didn't do nothing when i was an overwieght child. When i got older, still had same posture, grew up and slimmed down/ bulked up, we got results. Dont give up, both men and women, yall can get someone
Ay bro, need some more tips, where can I talk to you on?
@@1cheatkode I dont really use anything else to talk with people except e-mail but thats rare because i dont check it very often .
@@1cheatkode IDK if youre serious or not, but, if serious. Guess the best way to gain confidence is yourself first, and also learn how to talk whithout being fake. To talk with confidence, you dont have to be pushy, talk down to others, or belittle people. That also comes with time to learn. For a slight example: what i started doing at work when i was younger which i still do today, is joke with the public, and be able to read people if they are able to accept one or not. A joke ill usually do is: "hello howre yall doing today?" "Im ok, you?" STILL ALIVE!" but have a happy way i say it to the customer and dont linger on the joke. Immediately after i say still alive, most everybody will smile and make another quip back, then you play off that. If you can learn to do that kind of thing, itll help you be confident in speaking with random people.
@chimmichurri6940 you I like to use jokes that just show uve got a sense of humour rather than making them die of laughter cuz whilst it doesn't have to be good it eases up the situation
Flirting is the war of a glance ❤
In an instant, we see ourselves fixing our eyes on each other’s eyes.
Your beauty has spoiled you.
Few resist the third second without looking away, without blushing.
One second, two seconds.
And I keep my posture.
I know what I came for.
The paused breathing thaws and leaves the mouth slightly open, releasing a sigh.
The heart rises.
I stand.
Three seconds.
I feel cold in my arms and heat in my face.
All sound stopped.
Four seconds that have already dilated into many.
If you lose, we both lose.
But neither of us surrenders.
A sketch of a smile begins to form.
The eyes tighten and a different glow alerts us.
The smiles open.
The last second is complete.
Two victors emerge from the war 🎉
Timestamps
1). Proceed with caution 0:26
2). Tie-signs 1:28
3). Call a friend 2:31
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
#3 is undoable 😥
I think this is all pretty true. I'm a conversationalist weirdo who just loves talking to people and actually listening to what they have to say, and I'll have women and sometimes men ask me out all the time without that being my intention.
I can also confirm its certainly not because of my stunning good looks. Last time I looked in the mirror it broke itself.
Yeah just be careful I had some people take my words in a weird way and thought we were doing more than just hanging out…
You're certainly a chad bro
@@JeffBorgesPlays lol that’s what I was gonna say
Hey I wanted to share my experience with one of these tactics, my girlfriend had used a friend to get me introduced to her and funny thing about it is that when I played this video near her I was shocked to hear that using a thrid party memeber to get others introduced was mentioned. Afterwards I had started to constantly expose her which we had laughed about while at the same time got her embarrassed xD
Im glad to have her though, and I am glad she found me interesting cause she is amazing 😍
Good for you! Keep at it king!
I do have a question, though. How should I go about getting a woman? I gave up months ago because of traumas and past failures, but I can't stand not trying anymore. If only I knew how. Are there any tips you can share with me? I know I'm a random scrub but I'd like to get some help.
@@DeRez19 Well I can give you this, try to find one is well enough but not good enough, I suggest you try to focus on your personality, let it follow and become more yourself then you'll find out that they can come to you sometimes :)
Second piece of advice, when in a relationship you'll be tested and your patience for having a GF is something many take for granted so I hope you learn to work for it rather than wish for one.
@@NightspeakerR Good advice! I don't think I let my real personality shine. I act really secluded and alone...
Thank you! I'll do my best
@@DeRez19 Fate is in your hands, your decisions shall lead to fortune and I am one to root for those who dare to make a better living, good luck my fellow 🤙
That's such a delightful and fun story! It seems like your girlfriend used a creative tactic, and it's even more amusing that it was mentioned in the video. 😄💖
guys it took me 1 YEAR AND A HALF TO FINALLY REALIZE THAT MY CRUSH WAS FLIRTING WITH ME 😭
edit:friends to having a crush on each other hehe
Update: he was playing tag with his friend and he accidentally bumped into me so he immediately apologized and now my friends are making those 😏 faces while his friend was laughing so hard
Update 2: my friends asked him if he likes me while I was thinking about something and after that they notified me that he said "yes" and asked "OMG FOR REAL???" he said "yes" again
I was literally covering my face when they notified me that (´༎ຶ ͜ʖ ༎ຶ `)♡
Whoa, a year and a half to catch on? 😄 Did the realization moment lead to anything more? Curious to know how things unfolded for you! ❤
@@Psych2go just imagine u have a crush and it took you that long to FINALLY realize his obvious flirt 😭
I feel sorry for my crush because he tried so hard to make it seem obvious 😭
Damn that's fast. I realised after 9 years
Like, once or continuously throughout this entire period?
@@TheMCzorro continuously and I even caught him smirking at me when I wasn't looking 💀
Considering i’m a little shy around new people especially men my age i really appreciated the proceed with caution! If only more men were like this, and not straightforward, I tend to shut down when I don’t know people, and they try to come up and talk to me like I’ve known them for forever!
how are you supposed to know we're interested if we have to subtle all the time, should i just leave you a note that says I think you're cute? The video honestly doesn't give much to go on. Sorry for asking so directly, but I don't know how else I'm supposed to find things out.
@TytheAutisticGuy literally states that they don't like being bluntly spoken to by strangers. As a woman with ASD, you don't get told much more bluntly and obviously what NOT TO DO than that.
And yet here you are. Doing exactly that. Perhaps consider individual needs and that THIS PERSON is not the one to ask.
If you ever encounter situations where you feel overwhelmed, don't hesitate to communicate your boundaries. Genuine connections often develop at a pace that suits everyone involved.
It’s more of a matter of what to say without coming off as desperate or creepy. Do you compliment the outfit? Do you ask her if she comes here often?
I know they tell you to live in the moment, something I’m trying to do these days, but those overthinking thoughts creep in about the worst possible things that could go wrong.
Exactly, and the balance seems impossible to get right as an autistic person. I'm always seen as either creepy or just friend-like, never as a potential partner.
If you know her quite well she probably wouldn't really mind idk lol
@@patsonical same. We never get the romantic attention
Yeah, I am definitely not doing anything wrong. I hate how people try to spread being very "bad" towards your desired mate is needed. Gentleness and those light clue things are the way to go.
Thanks for this video! From the previous flirting videos, it was very difficult to understand what they were trying to describe. But in this video, it was much more clear to understand. Thanks!👍
I'm really happy to know that this video was clearer for you! If you're comfortable sharing, could you let me know which specific parts of the previous flirting videos were challenging to understand? Your insights are incredibly helpful for us to fine-tune our content. Thanks a bunch!
Love your content and videos for self improvement. I don't know about flirting really as I still couldn't figure it out completely but the direct and gentle approach is best way to start a conversation from my experience. It can go right or wrong but the confidence to speak up to someone you like or want to interact with is a boost to your self improvement, especially for introverts and ambiverts. Psych2Go is really doing a good job by helping people figure some of these difficult topics in life.
We made a video about 'sexual narcissism" a few days ago, did you get a chance to watch it:
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I have watched your video and I'd like to say that you should check out the comments section- there's definitely some criticism. There's a toxic feminism element in your video. As a woman, I think true feminism is to hold both men and women equally accountable for their actions. The woman who was being story teller seemed to be using her boyfriend and her boyfriend didn't exactly force her for sex to cause such an overreaction.
0:28 proceed with caution
1:29 tie-signs
2:33 call a friend
Just want to do it haha, hope it helps
So that’s why people always assume I’m flirting when I’m not, I’m just a kind, respectful guy.
lol
The tie-signs are a definite yes for me. Whenever I see my crush is being a little too bombarded by people, girls especially😕🙄😤 (he is a very social person, extrovert kind a guy), after he done having conversation I try to go and start talking to him and he flirts a lot with me. Some of my classmates actually think we are dating and keep their distance but still giggle and watch us🥰😚🤭. Though I have a very toxic ex best friend🤬 who I think tries to take him from me so kinda complicated life really.
Sorry if this is too long but this is too much for a girl who just started high-school and is finally putting myself out there after suffering heartbreak from my first crush. 😓😞
Thank you for this video Psych2go! Can you make a video on inappropriate types of flirting? I'd also love for you to create a story for psi on this topic! This really hits hard home because I was raised in a strict eastern household where crushes and wanting to have teen relationships or even express yourself was considered disrespect. My relatives thought the freedom children should have should only be the freedom to help with household tasks- not to go out freely. My helicopter mum didn't want me going to the shops (only 2-3 mins away from our home) at 12, didn't want me to date at all, didn't want me to go out with any males alone, didn't want me to go on any sleepovers, didn't want me to wear any short or ripped clothes and didn't want me to express my opinions or change my identity related to religion and sexuality freely. At 15, I wasn't allowed on sleepovers, wasn't allowed out with males, wasn't allowed relationships and wasn't allowed out frequently, to parties, to male's houses or to invite them even for studying or to go anywhere alone. At 16 my mum wants me back home before 9, even in the holidays. Doesn't want me to have sex or engage in any romantic relationships, which is my right- at 16 I'm free from parental control and can do what I want. Even if I live with her, she can't control what goes on outside her roof. If she had been less of a control freak and set boundaries with people who abused me rather than constantly punishing and holding ME to unrealistically high standards, we'd have a positive relationship. But no. It was always " You're so oversensitive! Look at the positives. Only weak and crazy people go to the counselor!" My mum got a bit better over the past few years in terms of her attitudes towards therapy, but her overprotective and overbearing nature is still there, it's not excusable just because she's my mother and I've been abused by my dad and family. No matter what, I've always been the incapable, disobedient child who has no boundaries, is spoiled and needa harsh punishment just for trying to express myself through frickin clothing when I was already so restricted and suffocated by relatives. Western people and authorities understand this but whenever I have spoken to family or any Eastern adult figure, they have not understood this. Its just a toxic culture of victim blaming that I grew up in and I get angry knowing my mother is wrong and I'm right but I end up considering her fiction to be fact and playing all those justifications and double standards in my head. I experience a state of dissociation. Based on your knowledge, Psych2go, would you classify my family as toxic? I know I certainly would and all trusted adults I have spoken to, including my friends, feel the same way except for Eastern counterparts. Most importantly, I validate myself. Thank you so much for your channel- as a young person, I even tried to commit suicide and your channel completely changed my mindset.
This is my new, positive mindset.
My family was wrong and they are accountable- it's my life and I'm not obligated to fulfill them or make them happy.
This is the west, not the east. As long as the law is on my side and authorities support me, nothing else matters and the law will always be on my side now that I'm an adult. This is the UK, not Pakistan.
I can step foot on the moon if I want to- there is nothing I'm not capable of.
The days of restrictions are behind me- the past is in the past. I'm an adult now, free from parental control and the law is the end all be all- my family's delusional fiction does NOT change fact.
I CANNOT change other people's shitty mindsets, but I can change myself. I can get up, shower every day, do my work, exercise and do what makes me laugh, makes me feel safe, makes me feel comfortable, makes me feel happy and I KNOW MY RIGHTS. I DO NOT FRICKIN OWE ANYONE MY BODY OR MY LIFE. READ TEN TIMES OVER. I TRANSFORMED FROM A COWARDLY YOUNG CHILD TO A BOLD, HEADSTRONG YOUNG PERSON WITH CLEAR VISION. ALL THANKS TO PSYCH2GO ❤
Good for you, honey. Everything you said is absolute truth. You are the ONLY one who decides what's best for you, and you are free to explore and ascertain what is your unique approach to your life and existence. I'm proud of you and I'm sorry that your family does not appreciate or respect your individuality. I'm glad you recognize that their worldview is a farce and until (unless) they realize that, you'll always be criminalized for it. No matter. Be free! 🎉🎉🎉
@@jenniferbond2323 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
This is the longest comment i have ever seen on a youtube video 😅
As somebody who lives in Tennessee, I can confirm I am a 10
Why is this unlisted?
🤷♂️
They haven't posted it yet
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Wait what
I just got the notification, I thought it was a new video
As someone who’s going to a singles mixer soon, I could really use this advice! (Though I did already know to save the corny pickup lines for another time)
Good luck!
Me: doesn’t have a crush.
Still Me: *Watching Video Intently*
We making it out of the party with this one 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥
Btw at 2:13 when they say “act like you’re already with them” they mean by demeanour not literally. Literally can be very awkward
Fantastic video! The content is incredibly well-crafted and engaging
As someone with no crushes this is very useful
I really don't have the courage to talk to who I like, and with this new schedule, I practically can't.
Could you do one with just friends, like how you get people to like you fast or have you get real friends?
HEY GOOD EVENING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS EVENING, I WOULD LIKE TO ASK EVERYONE TO PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS , I'M GOING THROUGH SOMETHING WITH MY TOXIC FAMILY, I CAN RELATE TO THIS TOPIC 💯 PERCENT. SLEEP WELL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪
But... speaking for myself- Corny pick-up lines and jokes are a 100% guarantee to get a guy in my pants if used on me. I like someone who can show that they have humor that can overcome anything else. Because life (again, in my opinion) is something that should be enjoyed fully, and laughter is a great place to start.
You are one of the rare few women who actually like pick up lines? You are a gem.
Im the same way! I like a corny pick up line if the guy knows its corny too, he’s just trying to make me laugh. If you can be slick and make me laugh, that’s a winner in my book. It shows a level of confidence somehow
then this contradicts what your experience is. So then this video isn't as objective as it implies. Which is frustrating because there's no sure answer either way.
Guess coming from a line of comedians can pay off for me.
@@TyLearns everyone is different
I saw someone called PhilPeter250 reuploading Psych2Go's videos with the same titles and thumbnails and gaining a bunch of views from them. Is this allowed or what? 😭
I like how calming your voice is❤
Yess, but I love that black cat in the video! its awesome :D
How to flirt correctly:
Be Attractive
i do not meet the requirements
GOOD AFTERNOON MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING. HAVE A BLESSED DAY, TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪
Me as an aromantic taking fervent notes knowing I will never use them: *mm yes interesting*
The tennesee joke was hilarious.
😂😂😂
I naturally did all of this when growing up, gotta get back to good habits
1:03 omg! That background looks like a scene from kiki's delivery service!!
I love this channel I just came across it and I'm already into it
Welcome to the community! Happy watching! 😊
Its relieving to me to know that pick up lines and jokes are ineffective when flirting with someone.
Not me being Cupioromantic. I want a romantic relationship but I can’t feel much romance. This is not a use for me, but I’m watching it just in case
Awesome video! 😍
I’m able to wiggle my ears so whenever I see my crush, I make my ears go back
As a guy who’s always wanted to be in a long lasting relationship with a woman (sadly still single at 22) I’ve always been too nervous to directly ask a girl out. Personally, it’s easier online and or in a online game, than irl… for the one reason, I have no irl friends or anyone to even converse with… but I’m the guy who will always be respectful, kind, loving, caring, extremely empathetic (I will cry if a close friend is crying, and all I want to do is give them a comforting hug) and loyal. Another difficulty is finding a girl that is appealing to me, and my morals. The most important thing to me is that she’s a kind, Christian girl, who shares my views on emotions and interactions.
I don’t have my license yet (I will in February of 2024) and I don’t want to find someone at a bar or anything like that. I want to find someone who shares my interests as well. This includes mostly gaming and 3D modeling in a game called Rec Room
So what you're telling me is my past 5 years of compiling dad jokes into my personal repertoire... was a waste?
Not at all! Some women like dad jokes 🥺
My favorite pick up line is “you know god wanted to show off when making you”
“Just be you”? That’s horrible advice for me. I’m quiet and avoid people when possible.
I love the videos, everything,
I can travel just listening to you everything become so calm. thankyou
You're so sweet. enjoy!
I never had a crush tho I'm flirting with my friends on a daily basis but damn, getting rid of all the "hey, do you have a name, or can I just call you 'mine'?" type of pick up lines are going to lighten the atmosphere !
Actually -> best flirting advice to meet someone! 😀 no game no other...be you and you'll find "similar you"
I noticed that a cute girl from my job always stares at me directly at my eyes and smiles. She also likes to hold my hand when we’re alone and yet, she tells us at work that she has a crush on a guy who lives near her apartment. WTF?!! 😢 I’m completely confused about our relationship (if anything) as coworkers. I just don’t understand women.
You have fun options here.
1. This is a stupid test, don’t play that game.
2. It’s just friends. I had a friend in high school, she would kiss me all the time. 0 anything outside of that.
3. Cut it off, wait for her reaction. If she asks what’s wrong, say you started dating someone and wait for the reaction.
Some of this is lying and manipulative, but sometimes that’s the game.
#4 Knowing about Sonic the hedgehog
#5 If they like Jazz
I'm a little dubious on the idea that telling a joke or compliment is an 'ineffective' strategy. Considering those are the two biggest ice breakers and even videos on this channel have held them up as such. Maybe I misunderstood that part of the video? The only thing I could think is the idea of going right into a joke before even giving your name. I guess I could see that. Beyond that, another good video!
all steps done
it sure was helpful
I'm pretty sure I overheard my crush saying to her friend that she has a crush on this one guy in our band class. She and him are hanging out a lot now, but whenever I send her smth, she has this lively response. Idk if she is just being nice or what. I think I might be winning her over.
The hardest part of making friends is walking outside and socializing.
"How to build a fusion reactor in 5 easy steps"
You guys can do it , just tell your feelings . Who knows it's going to be your lucky day 😁👍🔥
...and other hilarious jokes to tell yourself! 😢
Amanda is back everyone that voice is flirt
In its self
She's always been here! :)
@@Psych2goshe's got the cutest voice
@@Keiron-pw6sl she's my favorite 🥰❤️
@@varun.shenoy10 mine to💜
I would also love to be a narrator for Psych2go one day ❤️
Send in an application!
Me too!
What if you already have a friendship level connection with your crush? What do you do to change their view on how you see them?
You dont. Believe you me ive had this same thing when i was in younger days. If it happens itll happen. You shouldnt want to change their view on you at all. that would end up toxic. IDK how yall work but just my opinion. Hope youre good
@@chimmichurri6940 the thing is, both me and people that know both of us, have noticed signs from him that could possibly count as flirting or trying to get closer, that's why, if that was the case idk how to let him know that I'm down for something more than just friends
That's actually a really good question. If you're already at a friendship level with your crush and want to shift things romantically, open communication is key. Express your feelings honestly, letting them know you value the friendship but have developed deeper feelings. Respect their response and boundaries, ensuring you maintain the foundation of trust you've built as friends. Best of luck on this journey!
finally a rizz tutorial that wont make one a sex offender
1. Be handsome
2. Be beautiful
When I heard of third party introductions, all i could think of was "Haaaaaaaaaaave you met Ted?" from HIMYM
Proceed with caution - Nah be bold, be confident just remember to also be respectful and friendly. Many of the girls I've been with, I used cheesy pick up lines on, but kept it fun and light-hearted.
Tie-signs - Wut? This one is weird. Women use physical touch Tie-signs so you should pay attention if you notice she is making a solo effort to touch you, however if you are a male I'd suggest keeping your hands to yourself especially in this time. I don't think that study factored in low contact and high contact cultures. Making eye contact is fine though.
Call a friend - Wut??? Is this flirting or taking on a date? This is the worst one imo. Mainly because it's not effortless, isn't a flirt as it's full on telling, and is prone to problems or just not happening. It is a good idea if you still have large friend groups and you want a less forward way to ask someone on a date, just know it could also completely ruin your chances vs if you just did it yourself.
Strange video imo.
yea... the lass I like is engaged, probably would get a bit awkward
It’s hands down embarrassing if you play this infront of the family 😂
in one of my classes, every pair of kids makes a slideshow on a chapter of a book were readin in that class. the slideshow is supposed to last 80 mins. this time, my crush and her friend went up to present their slideshow and somewhere in the middle of the presentation, there was a small quiz we had to take. after takin the quiz, we went over the quiz questions. im probably the biggest introvert at out school and many people know that including my crush i think. 2 other boys know who my crush is and when my crush called on ME to answer a question, my insides were stunned and the 2 other boys who were also sitting next to me were going “oooooooh ______ she called on you.” this isnt the firs time it happened, my crush has called on me multiple times throughout different times of the year whenever were havin a group discussion she always looks at me and says “______ do you want to add anything to our topic?”
This video is helpful. I wish I knew about these tips sooner. Thank you.
It's never too late to incorporate these tips into your interactions. I'm glad to hear you found the video helpful!
This video told me EVERYTHING and NOTHING, all at once. 🤣Just be myself and no jokes? For me that's antithetical, because part of being me is joking and being funny (or, at least trying to be funny)! 😂
I know maybe it's not that related to the subject but I'm having a little problem with a girl who is a very close friend of mine and... I think I'm kind of in love with her. The problem is that there is a guy who is trying to get her away from me (he is also in love with her, he hasn't said it but I'm 100% sure) when I approach her and talk to her the guy comes quickly and hugs her, I naturally leave the place. The guy is cool, but even the girl is a little uncomfortable with his attitude. I've been close friends with her for a year, but I haven't dared to do anything else (I'm very introverted in those things). I don't know if it would be wise to do anything about it.
Pray on it! You should however make your intentions clear to her. Then you’ll get your answer and move on if she’s not interested 🤍
There was a guy did this with my crush so when he did it this one time i got up & hugged him (armlocked him & nearly choked him), my crush was impressed with me
just kidding i rarely interacted with my crush in the 5 years i had one on her & someone else got her
Man this is the most adorable video I've ever seen, but I'm afraid of following each step to closely if I ONLY use this video lol
Does anyone have any good love or body language psychology book recommendations? I’ve been meaning to look around, but I haven’t been able to yet.
#1 Best pickup line: "Hi."
After watching the videos The amount of signs i miss by someone turn out having crush on me is 😮.. im blind as bat ☠️😭
Well they know !!!
The music loves both of my ears
my name is literally sy, that caught me off guard 💀
HEY JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS EVENING, LOVE THE TOPIC, SLEEP WELL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY. TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪
Watching the view goes up makes me so happy I'm not alone😂
kind of off topic from the video but you're voice is really soothing :)
I want to be as good as Craig Ferguson. That man could flirt so effortlessly.
Your voice is so calming♥
1:15 bruh all the first qualities is literally my crushes personality if you know him and he trusts you😅😭😂❤
Ok... I am an Asperger's. I'm gay, non-binary and I like two guys who are "allegedly" straight. One of them had an intercourse with me after I mentored him for one year and a half. The other one is one of my work colleague. I can't tell if he's into me or whatever. We bonded really fast and we started mimic eachother. We do good conversations and something doesn't click. I can't tell if I'm into him (and have a distorted vision) or he's into me but don't want to expose.
He's giving me gifts, love to talk to me (even about personal issues), and we go to lunch together.
I'm so con-fused.
I think he is just a good friend (I wish i had any friends) lol
@@czasasehreana3256 well, that would be enough. Even if i'm having mixed signals and it's quite hard to set boundaries...
New video ? Lets goo
Are we posting too much?
@@Psych2go I'm happy to see a new video😅
The fact that i already did all of this and didn't work, is the scientific proof that the problem is me, not what i do
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Flirting is pretty pointless.... I agree with the first one.
My favourite takeaway is Fish & Chips
pov: you're the awkward competition watching this video
Seriously cannot relate to that. In my entire life there was never a thought in my head "I want to flirt with him/her". I just never flirt, it's completely alien concept to me and I also get seriously weirded out when someone tries to flirt with me.
Im pretty sure my crush doesn’t even know I exist💀
Could you also do a video about liminal spaces and why do we find such often in day to day life to feel normal places really uncomfortable and what to do?
I love this advice because it's my personality. I just wish I wasn't shy so I could pull it off.
watching this in rehab (literally)
I say hi and wait weirdly because I don't know what thing to say next