How to Avoid Raising Fearful Kids | Episode 6

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

Комментарии • 49

  • @edinagentz8241
    @edinagentz8241 Год назад +3

    I love how they look at each other and they consider each one's opinion, but they gotta stop interrupt each other/talk over each other.

  • @ahzusehnah
    @ahzusehnah 2 года назад +13

    From the Bible references (which I appreciate because if there wasn't any Bible references, I couldn't keep watching) to the refined advices, point of views and the willingness to share past experiences has been literally my therapy 😌 and as a visual learner, I love the style of everyone sharing God's Word here, I never end an episode confused.
    Of course I want to keep coming back for more lol

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад +7

    Love that. Fear of the Lord sucks up all other fears.

  • @nancylohe986
    @nancylohe986 Год назад +4

    Iam in Awe of the wisdom Addison has been gifted with My My My it really ministers to my heart whatever he share about family 👪

  • @taislima7505
    @taislima7505 2 года назад +13

    I'm from Brazil and I've been very blessed with the at home videos, listening to your stories and experiences are like a balm in my mission to raise my 2 children in the fear and love of the Lord. I would love to have these subtitled videos to forward to those who don't understand English. God bless you guys!

  • @bzymomof12
    @bzymomof12 Год назад +3

    Thank you for these videos. I struggle with focusing on the problem instead of the solution. I want to be an encouraging mom but find so often I’m saying no. My husband and I have nine boys and three girls. The boys push the boundaries more than the girls. I find myself saying no to the boys than yes. This series has helped me so much.

  • @rowenarobinson1528
    @rowenarobinson1528 Год назад +2

    Love the point Juli made- they have taken nothing from me, but that I have gained so much- the refinement. I needed that ❤️

  • @susannapoghosyan1056
    @susannapoghosyan1056 2 года назад +1

    Խնդրում եմ շատ շատ թարգմանել հայերեն Աստված օրհնի Ձեզ և Ձեր ծառայությունը։

  • @nicolestanford4955
    @nicolestanford4955 Год назад

    Such a blessing hearing these discussions. Honestly in tears. How is this successful if the husband is not at this spiritual maturity to lead the children, and provokes in continual anger? One parent is loving and patient and the father is angry and mean. It’s difficult

  • @suzettemariano7872
    @suzettemariano7872 Год назад

    The Bevere family is truly the light and salt of the world. Thanks for making this podcast that is practical yet biblical in core!
    I love the around the table conversation. Very homie, factful, tactful and very truthful.
    Thank God for using your voice in the time of confusion, info overload, relative opinions.

  • @lholden45
    @lholden45 Год назад +1

    These videos are so life giving and offer much needed encouragement for parents! I am so grateful for the Beveres and their willingness to share from their mistakes and their victories!

  • @911awakening
    @911awakening Год назад

    Im a 36 year old and although my parents did the best they could, these videos are therapeutic even for us at adulthood, thank you for the great content, 20:58 “Correction done in love is nurturing.”

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    Enthusiasm. WOW!!! We want our children to have confidence, courage and enthusiasm. WOW!!!

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    Yes. Becoming a parent gave me so much and moved me towards health and strength

  • @fortnitegod2236
    @fortnitegod2236 Год назад +2

    I'm a widow raising a 14 yr old son and he's been really giving me a hard time this year, getting in trouble at school and talking back with such disrespectful behavior toward me. Please pray for us.

  • @fortnitegod2236
    @fortnitegod2236 Год назад

    I need more teaching on this kind of stuff. Thank you guys for sharing your thoughts and experiences with me.

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад +1

    I love this. I don’t want to create nervous parents. What an insightful heart and moment. WOW!!!!

  • @rachaelireland9467
    @rachaelireland9467 2 года назад +1

    Love these conversations

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    Yes. Lean into the refinement process.

  • @rosabonnette5993
    @rosabonnette5993 Год назад

    Thank you so much for putting this conversations/ counseling for all of us who want to raise our kids according to God's will. To God be the glory!!🙏🙏❤❤

  • @MelissaBeaconGinnard
    @MelissaBeaconGinnard 2 года назад

    Loved it! The comparisons are awesome: boundaries vs barriers, correction vs punishment, simply excellent! Intrigued about the cardinal virtues. It makes sense how the Apostle Paul would have used those to step out in the humility of Christ (being all things to all men). Just love it!

  • @aliciamarner2272
    @aliciamarner2272 2 года назад +3

    I love these videos, having a Godly perspective into parenting is so very needed in this world, thank you for taking the time to share with us! One question I have is, when establishing boundaries or giving the hard 'no's' and your children ask "why," how much do you share with them about your decisions; is "because I said so" ever an appropriate answer? Is "because Jesus said so" a better answer (haha) 🤪 Do you ever go into details about the scary consequences of certain actions, would that be dependent on the age of the child? How would you warn of consequences or possible negative outcomes of bad decisions without causing fear? Or would you call that "healthy fear" - is there such a thing or is that actually something else?

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    This is so good. This is so awesome that you guys are doing this!!!!

  • @cinnujohn5146
    @cinnujohn5146 Год назад

    Thank you. Really helpful.

  • @aaronvennard9038
    @aaronvennard9038 Год назад

    Please help. What are some practical steps to starting a "new day" with our kids and marriage? What do you recommend?

  • @sarasrnec-knospe5300
    @sarasrnec-knospe5300 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this Podcast:)

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    The flourishing life!!! Nice!!

  • @tayshavargas4547
    @tayshavargas4547 2 года назад

    I have struggled with postpartum anxiety with baby #2 and I still recovering from it (2 years later). When I had baby #1 I always wanted to homeschool however after my life circumstances didn’t go as plan i had decided to send them to private Christian school. To be honest they are in the best Christian school in my City. We love it. However I feel guilty because we are living in a word were a good Christian mom “should” homeschooled their kids to protect them from the craziness of the world. Then I fe guilty because I think I am allowing anxiety to dictate my parenting choices…
    I love Manna and Canaan beyond words
    They are both planned and wanted
    I never thought I will have to navégate anxiety as a parent in Christ but as John said in his book God send us all to the wilderness.

    • @merlinmathews6772
      @merlinmathews6772 2 года назад

      @taysha Vargas : hoping God strengthens you through your struggles..my point of view would be bring them up in God’s values & pray that they will live according to God’s purpose for their lives..I believe children are God’s gift to us to nuture them & submit them to God. We have no control over them, so I think you should be ok with the choices you make for them as long as it’s coming from a loving heart! U got this mama! Anyway we can’t protect our children much from this world, they eventually have to step out & make it on their own. I believe my parents & grandparents prayers have always been a protection over me.

  • @SONTlibrarian
    @SONTlibrarian 2 года назад

    Incredible content & advice as always, Beveres! As parents of four young kids my husband & I have been loving this series. We listen to it separately during the day & reflect on it later together. Parenting little kingdom warriors is tough work, but the best work! We’ll take all the help & wisdom we can get. Also, was the awkward outro the tweak of the week? 😂

  • @sam-kylethompson8918
    @sam-kylethompson8918 2 года назад

    This was so good! Thank you.

  • @angelfaulkner3993
    @angelfaulkner3993 Год назад

    #coursecorrecting 🤩 that’s gold!

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    WOW!!! Takes away their confidence and their courage

  • @briggsfamily90
    @briggsfamily90 2 года назад +1

    Loved it ❤

  • @1obedience
    @1obedience 2 года назад

    Please break that record!

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    That’s really good. Is this someone you are going to want to be in business with or in friendship with? That’s so good

  • @carissalynnpople5118
    @carissalynnpople5118 Год назад

    Yes!!!! ❤ I don't always get it right 😅 but I tell people all the time my main responsibility is to teach my children to know God and hear the voice of the Holy Spirit bc I won't always be there but He will.

  • @heidymejia263
    @heidymejia263 Год назад

    Amen ☺️☺️🙏🏽

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    That’s also really good. Parents made mistakes and still had Godly children ❤️

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    All children rebel and it’s part of their development

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    Oh my gosh. They are so cute ❤

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад +2

    Sarcasm is unclear. To be kind is to be clear.

  • @claristaardiel2085
    @claristaardiel2085 2 года назад

    Happy thanksgiving in USA I am not for USA I am for cannda had are thanksgiving in October for us

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 года назад

    Is your motive love or fear?