Thank you spencer!!! It’s was the first day of school today and I was so uncomfortable with the clothes I was wearing. Because I’m overweight and my mom always annoys me about it. I’m really insecure. If u wanna make fun of it go for it. It’s fine
Just btw, your weight determines NOTHING about your looks. I’m almost positive your still really good looking despite this. I have friends that are underweight and are super insecure about it lol, so obviously everybody’s got their own problems. Just love yourself! Easier said than done and super cringy ik, but I wish I’d been following this advice through middle school bc I would’ve been a lot less insecure lol. But anyways, your ❤️beutiful❤️
weight does not affect your looks (most of the time) coming from a guy i think a bunch of "over the average weight" girls can be waaaayyy hotter than just the "normal" weight girls just my take tho can't speak for all
I can understand but after a while I found videos on RUclips of girls size plus and they looked great! Cutes and beautifuls, confidentes and so lively and very positive. Skinny should not be the definition of beauty, with the right clothes and color who corresponding to your body shape and your personality can change everything, you felt pretty if you wear stuff that you like and felt confortable. And be confident and sure of yourself loving you actually is attractive to other people.
@@trips347 uhm, no. this comment is basically saying, "lose the weight if you're insecure, it isn't THAT hard." first of all, it's hard, 2nd of all metabolism is a huge factor in weight, 3rd of all you aren't helping. you have good intentions, and i'm not trying to be rude.
@@armanielise5514 what are they? For guys I mean. Like aside from looks, what does a guy want in a woman? There are answers, but I doubt you know them. But let's see...
@@robertpaul50n I mean im sure personally lol, probably (if the guy is looking for a long term thing) good with kids, and alike him? Not sure if that’s with all guys but that’s what would assume lol
@@armanielise5514 actually, you did a lot better than I thought you'd do. Likes kids, wants kids, is good with kids, that quality is worth more than all others. A woman that is alike him (I assume you mean she has similar interests), no that doesnt matter. Men dont expect their women to share their interest since so few do. Aside from that, humility, femininity, loyalty. A woman with these characteristics can get a good man even if she looks below average.
Spencer, Tysm. I am so insecure about my body and I found out that we have to start using the changing rooms again this year and bc I’m so insecure, I just don’t wanna do pe at this point- but ty for making me feel better
I love you so much I am 11 years old little girl and there’s so much you’ve done to change my life to help me do better to help me feel more confident I love you so much you’re one of my favorites
Bro middle school is a lot and I have a ton of like really pretty friends...my first year of middle school I was literally so insecure I wore only sweatshirts and jeans lol, but after watching ur videos I’ve gained a ton more confidence before school. Thanks!
ty for the advice! i recently just found out that a guy at my school thinks i’m “hot” but also “b!tchy.” and, apparently lots of other people at school think im b!tchy too, so i really need to gain my confidence back before school
I hav stained so much confidence this year it’s crazy, I have more confidence in my own body and in my attitude, now when my classmates point out my attitude I’m like bro you’ve been going to school with me for 10 years you should know that I am sassy by now🙄 Btw I’m in 8th grade
Spencer could you please do some more tips!! pls i love your videos and i really need your advice to help me gain confidence for going back to school, i would really appreciate it! ❤❤
i’m australia and we are on our summer break right now, we start back at school on the 30th of jan and i am starting year 7, we have 2 schools not a heap of different ones like americans, we have primary school which is prep (kinda like kinder) - year 6 and then highschool is year 7-12, so i am going to a new school with a heap of friends already made so this will really help me on the first day! But we dont wear free dress lol, we have uniform
I need Spencer by my side 24/7 as my freaking wing man! Like this is a NEED. Her advice is all over my fyp and it’s giving me good vibes. Also like, I know being hot isn’t about appearance. Have you seen Thomas Brodie sangster, he’s hot amd not just cause his appearance bro has the personality of my dreams. Same with Spencer like girl is living the dream and because of her I can live the dream too!!
Who else really want Spencer as their best friend? Like, girl, i don’t need to feel insecure if this girly is by my side.👏🏻
Sameeeee
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No bc that’s actually true
I'm officially adopting Spencer as my new older sister. This girl is everything you need in a girl best friend or older sister!
Same!
SAME
Me too
Me too
Agreed ❤️
she’s right. i mean looking back, half of my crushes weren’t that good looking, it’s just that there confidence made them so insanely attractive
Well said. The people I like the most weren't drop-dead gorgeous, but their personality was.
this is powerful like confidence is soooo attractive and yet ppl still act like physical appearance is more important ?
All body and mind, the “secret”, positive reinforcement feedback loop, etc, etc.
Bullshit in short
Thank you spencer!!! It’s was the first day of school today and I was so uncomfortable with the clothes I was wearing. Because I’m overweight and my mom always annoys me about it. I’m really insecure. If u wanna make fun of it go for it. It’s fine
Just btw, your weight determines NOTHING about your looks. I’m almost positive your still really good looking despite this. I have friends that are underweight and are super insecure about it lol, so obviously everybody’s got their own problems. Just love yourself! Easier said than done and super cringy ik, but I wish I’d been following this advice through middle school bc I would’ve been a lot less insecure lol. But anyways, your ❤️beutiful❤️
weight does not affect your looks (most of the time) coming from a guy i think a bunch of "over the average weight" girls can be waaaayyy hotter than just the "normal" weight girls just my take tho can't speak for all
Then lose the weight?
I can understand but after a while I found videos on RUclips of girls size plus and they looked great! Cutes and beautifuls, confidentes and so lively and very positive. Skinny should not be the definition of beauty, with the right clothes and color who corresponding to your body shape and your personality can change everything, you felt pretty if you wear stuff that you like and felt confortable. And be confident and sure of yourself loving you actually is attractive to other people.
@@trips347 uhm, no. this comment is basically saying, "lose the weight if you're insecure, it isn't THAT hard." first of all, it's hard, 2nd of all metabolism is a huge factor in weight, 3rd of all you aren't helping. you have good intentions, and i'm not trying to be rude.
girl ur skin is so glowinggg i could never
yes girl you could i bet ! no skin is perfect but glowy skin is so achievable
yes i totally believe this, also confidents. like i feel like as long as your confident your hot 😎
Nah, it's about looks.
@@robertpaul50n lol- i mean looks have a part for sure but like there r other things 😂
@@armanielise5514 what are they? For guys I mean.
Like aside from looks, what does a guy want in a woman?
There are answers, but I doubt you know them. But let's see...
@@robertpaul50n I mean im sure personally lol, probably (if the guy is looking for a long term thing) good with kids, and alike him? Not sure if that’s with all guys but that’s what would assume lol
@@armanielise5514 actually, you did a lot better than I thought you'd do.
Likes kids, wants kids, is good with kids, that quality is worth more than all others.
A woman that is alike him (I assume you mean she has similar interests), no that doesnt matter. Men dont expect their women to share their interest since so few do.
Aside from that, humility, femininity, loyalty. A woman with these characteristics can get a good man even if she looks below average.
As a dude, I can confirm that it has a lot less to do with looks and a lot more to do with how you carry yourself.
The "rizz" as to how gen z call it
i literally start year 10 tomorrow ahhhhh
I start year 8 2morrow and I really don't want to I'm so nervous😭😭😭
10 including kinder meaning Freshman or grade 10 meaning Sophomore?
@@nutella_odella5367 Same I'm sooo scared 😭
@@loki-oq6gm I have finished my first day, I'm so relieved!!! If you have had your's I hope it went well!!!!!🤗💗
@@its_melodystar not trying to be rude, but not everyone lives in the same country, with the same school system 😁
Your eyes are literally so gorgeous!!!
I am the oldest in my family, and you are my older sister! ♥️♥️ I love you so much
Spencer, Tysm. I am so insecure about my body and I found out that we have to start using the changing rooms again this year and bc I’m so insecure, I just don’t wanna do pe at this point- but ty for making me feel better
i love her omg she’s so funny 🤍
I love her vids so much. They give me so much confidence. Thank you Spencer 🥰
Dude, she'd honestly be such a good friend 😭💗
I love you so much I am 11 years old little girl and there’s so much you’ve done to change my life to help me do better to help me feel more confident I love you so much you’re one of my favorites
Thank u darling u always give off big sis vibes xx
I’m a dude and this helps me so much more
Thank you so much, I needed this confidence booster❤
Thank you you really help me with self-confidence
I’m excited because I met my teacher and my BFFs are in my class and this is really good confidence. Tomorrow’s the first day of school.
Bro‼️ I LOVE her soo much ❤️♾️
Can we just talk about how Spencer looks 24/7 beautiful, even after wiping her makeup off ( I don't think she even does wear makeup)
You NEED to do more back to school tips PLEASE ❤❤❤❤❤
First one actually hit different ❤😂
OMG THIS VIDEO IS LITERALLY MEANT FOR ME
Bro middle school is a lot and I have a ton of like really pretty friends...my first year of middle school I was literally so insecure I wore only sweatshirts and jeans lol, but after watching ur videos I’ve gained a ton more confidence before school. Thanks!
We 👏 Need 👏 More 👏 People 👏 Like 👏 This 👏
I find it funny that I go back to school in two days and this pops up love you Spencer!❤️❤️
more of these NEEDD
Girl I needed this I’m so insecure so I needed this video
YOUR GORGEOUS OMG
Thank you I really needed this 😂😂😂
Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you! Love you
Omg! Thankyou so much!!!
SPENCER UR SKIN IS STUNNING
This make me so happy and make me so much more confident 🤍😭
U hv just earned a new subscriber 🎉
Congrats Spencer 👏❤
your like the big sister everyone needs
Tysm❤
I wish I had a friend like Spencer growing up 😢it would've helped me mentally all my life.
Ok but why is Spencer so pretty and an amazing influencer!?
You are so positive
I started school before I saw this, but that was me anyway since I began watching Spencer’s videos
You give me a self confidence boost 😊 thank you spencer
Beautiful msg from a beautiful soul
I love this girl she doesn't really help me bit I love how she tries
Honestly Spencer u make my day better!!!!
Yass gurlll thanks I done school but its actually tips not only bout school its life too
The thing about being hot is kinda true because once i started becoming more confident people started noticing me more
I got my braces on today and was feeling a little insecure about going to school
Thanks for boosting my confidence!
Good luck at school! I'm sure you look great with ur new braces 👍
@@JL2502-QT thanks! :)
Truly spoken as somebody who is conventionally attractive.
Omggg you're a life saver 🥺🥺
I’m going into my freshman year of high school and thank you so much for posting this
I strive to have this kind of confidence
You made my day
This made me so much better 😭
i found this video two years ago and spencer taught me that being hot is in your mind, every day i tell myself how hot i am and that i am enough! ❤
Thank you so much for this video! You don't know how much it helped me
Thanks for the tips,queen!luv u girl!!!
I took a risk and got a new haircut. Turns out it was the best decision of my life.
ty for the advice! i recently just found out that a guy at my school thinks i’m “hot” but also “b!tchy.” and, apparently lots of other people at school think im b!tchy too, so i really need to gain my confidence back before school
once a boy said l was a 5 and l lost so so much of my confidence but know that l have watched this it makes me feel so much better about myself
I start school tomorrow and I am already feeling confident!
i want spence as my mom 😭💞
Easy to say when your in shape
Thx for tips just going into year 5
Can we all just take a moment to realize how kind Beautiful and helpful she is ❤️
Me watching this 10 minutes before school starts
Me when i see this after the first day of school: 👁️👄👁️
I hav stained so much confidence this year it’s crazy, I have more confidence in my own body and in my attitude, now when my classmates point out my attitude I’m like bro you’ve been going to school with me for 10 years you should know that I am sassy by now🙄
Btw I’m in 8th grade
What is it getting stained with? Jizz?
@@robertpaul50n gained
@@averiewahl3452 lol. You should have left it, it was funny the way it was. Now it's just a regular comment 🙁
I start school in just 2 days! Finally starting my summer glowup and I really needed this! THANK YOUU!!!!!! ❤❤❤
So adorable and smart
Thank youuu^^
No offense but your fourhead is so smooth🖤it
I want her to be my sister because she made me feel less insecure ❤❤😊😊
Spencer could you please do some more tips!! pls i love your videos and i really need your advice to help me gain confidence for going back to school, i would really appreciate it! ❤❤
Gurl your so smart an so freaking pretty like wow ur gorgeous thx for all the help❤❤
my new fall scent is white pumpkin and chai from bath and body works and its super fally and light
Ok but try telling this to high school boys 😭😭
just started highschool and everyone is so PRETTY
Girl your the best
luv the tips thx
Smell part is pretty important yes
I LOVE YOU!!!! REALLY DEADLY NEEDED THIS!!!!!!
Your friends are so lucky to have you ❤️❤️ I wish I had a friend like you
slaying!!
omg thanks i really needed that 🙂
u NEED to do the hair theory trend
I’m on online school for now but they might open the school up in a month so thxs!
This girl make feels me happy about my Body and she like my friend on RUclips 😊😊
i’m australia and we are on our summer break right now, we start back at school on the 30th of jan and i am starting year 7, we have 2 schools not a heap of different ones like americans, we have primary school which is prep (kinda like kinder) - year 6 and then highschool is year 7-12, so i am going to a new school with a heap of friends already made so this will really help me on the first day! But we dont wear free dress lol, we have uniform
I need Spencer by my side 24/7 as my freaking wing man! Like this is a NEED. Her advice is all over my fyp and it’s giving me good vibes. Also like, I know being hot isn’t about appearance. Have you seen Thomas Brodie sangster, he’s hot amd not just cause his appearance bro has the personality of my dreams. Same with Spencer like girl is living the dream and because of her I can live the dream too!!
Also everyone is 20% more attractive and pretty then they think x
Thank u i needed this shit
Aye sir captain barbosa!!
Tysm, I really really needed this😭……. Luv yea
See ur videos have gave me so much confidence i apricietted a lot!! Tysm for inspiring everyone!!
She’s my daily therapist
She is the older sister everyone dreams of having❤