The Masculine's Perspective 🔥💙🔥 How The DM Recognizes the Twin Flame Connection & Their Feelings
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- Rob is answering your twin flame questions regarding the masculine's perspective of the twin flame journey. In this video he addresses the questions:
💙How does a DM deepen his spiritual side, develop spiritual practices, and embody their higher self? What happened for you and others? What would you recommend?
💙What signs and symptoms (beyond the reverse sunset) showed you that your connection with Angie was a Divine connection? And, that Angie was the one you wanted to be with, over and above all other people?
💙There are rumors that the DM seems to recognize a connection with their ‘DF’ long before the ‘DF’ does, even though the DF often ‘wakes up’ and finds out about TFs first. What was your experience, and those of any other masculines you have been in contact with?
💙Do DMs feel joyful, giddy and somewhat child-like when in the presence of their twin?
💙What gives the DM the courage to reach out to the DF after periods of separation?
💙Some men have mentioned the denial and compartmentalization of their feelings so they don’t need to feel, as often the only way to get through life. You mention something similar when breaking up from Karmic 2. How do you (or others) break away from this pattern, both initially and then throughout your union?
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That's what my DM did ..he run and put on such walls when I saw his face I couldn't even recognize the man I knew I mean his face was literally scary the seriousness ,he could not even smile at me .I felt he physically did all he could just to protect himself from me ...And the fact that I can still see through him that is only a mask , that makes him run even more.He can't take it ..or his ego ..I set the boundaries ,I cut him off for myself ..not having expectations of him ever coming back because I know all I can do is work on myself.
I am in a similar situation. Wondering what the update is with your TF?
Good to see you Rob !! I am so excited to watch this and I know it’s gonna be hit ! The twin community needs more of awakened DMs to come out and guide others by their experience and wisdom. DFs cannot do this alone. We feel lost and clueless.
Thanks Lib Lib, good to hear from you! It's been awhile :)
TwinFinity Oh you guys remember me !! How sweet !! 💖💖
@@liblib1815 Oh course we remember you! :)
TwinFinity 🥰 🥰
On a day where my DF energies are feeling heavy and tough and doubt overcame me, I found this video. My DM is also called Rob and I'm Anji. Thank you for sharing. I'm listening and regaining hope.
Your "cat" you 'let out of the bag' is a PERFECT example of something that serves the HIGHEST good!
*good intention!
* mind-set of service and obedience to Divine purpose
*no interference from ego
*being able to recognize what's best for both of you without regard to the human reaction
and most of all LOVE is reverberating all through it!
IMPECIBLE, ROB!
THANK YOU!
You NAILED it Rob. Thank you so much for this. I especially resonated with question #5. My DM would be very playful (dancing and singing almost child like lol) so cute...he seemed to be so happy in those moments. I’m glad you touched on the opposite of that because I’ve witnessed that too ( very stoic and emotionless 😐). Thank you for sharing your prospective...very helpful.
@Divine Empress - Yes, #5 resonated with me also! :-) I remember this one time in particular when we'd run straight into each other by the beach, where she had planned to have some 'quiet time', but after only a couple of minutes of that, she was suddenly jumping around imitating the seagulls and stuff like that, LOL! :-)) I love when that playful, childlike energy shines through. And of course I too have witnessed the opposite.
@Montecristo - I'm sorry to hear that's what's happened. And I can relate, as I had experienced something similar with a very close Soulmate three years ago (whom at the time I also was 100% sure to be my Twin). Our connection had started out as a wonderful friendship, great companions; Helping each other along the way on this spiritual journey and simply enjoying each other's company - until we suddenly found ourselves in that TF-typical 'bubble phase', which of course was quite amazing but then fizzled out just as quickly as it had started. And sadly, we never were able to get back to being great friends again, even though we'd both had the intention. It's a completely different story now with my actual Twin, though.
@Montecristo - Hello! :-) I must commend you on obviously having set healthy boundaries and neither crossing them nor having him cross them either. I wish for you both that you can make your friendship work again! It's a great foundation for whatever else may want to grow on it in the future. Good luck!
@Montecristo - You're welcome! :-) Yes I was actually going to type "standards", before settling on "boundaries"; I guess those two plus values really go together, as one's values aren't worth much without connecting them to boundaries. Me, I've been staying away this year from anything predicting the future, like Tarot readings; It had happened too many times in the past that they'd (mis)led me to specific expectations and to disappointment when the latter weren't met. It definitely was the right decision. "It is what it is", "What will be will be" and "We can't miss or even screw up what's truly meant for us" :-)
@Montecristo - Thank you for your advice! I had met several people of my close Soul Family about a year ago, and we've been helping each other out using our individual gifts, and one of them actually was born with Sight, too! Another one is able to tell me how my Twin truly feels (as opposed to what I'm being presented with when I meet her in person). Have a lovely weekend! :-)
I thought for a long time that I was the first one recognising our special connection. However when my DM talked openly at some stage (when he told me he was seeing someone else), he mentioned that he ‘knew’ I had strong feelings for him. When I asked him since when, and he replied, it turned out it was over six months before he started contacting me (we weren’t in contact then except the odd non-personal email and were even living in different states) and me starting to realise my feelings only then.
So it seems that my DM woke me up but kind of fell asleep again himself afterwards. And we’ve come a long way since then! 💕
Great Vibe and openess.
I wonder: in the process of aligning with each other:
How does DM experience merging of energy ?
I have experienced a very physical change in my body and cellular feeling. My body moulds itself into a feeling of a mix of me and my DM. I feel it in waves and much like magnetic exchange of knowledge and energy.
This is a great question Louise. We'll add it to the list for Rob's future videos :)
@@TwinFinity1111 Have your personalities lined up becuase they are incredibly very similar to one another. Was it not like that in the past, meaning where one of your personalities completely different then your authentic present ones?
DM always recognizes the DF when they first briefly meet, the universe usually orchestrates it so that they get a glimpse only, usually one is visiting, brief business trip or holiday, they usually only get to be with each other a few hours/days, no sex, often a period of 10 to 20 years will pass before they reconnect .
10-20 years 😳
@@islacaney9479 ya sucks and even then there will be bouts of painful separation and getting together for a year or two, fine tuning, , ironically, ...depends on how much our ego has taken over choices and also the level of toxic build up of emotions we have been shoving under the carpet over the years, all has to come up and be cleared. also If we remember this connection is more about truth and healing then romance we start to get it, though that bubble phase damn just like you always imagined love to be and that IS love a total spiritual union. This is not for the faint of heart and trust that, you two came together under unusual circumstances , trust when the time is right the universe will get the two of you back together also in union. In the meantime take a chill pill and get on with your life .. no waiting and no pushing forward...just be and everything will unfold as it should. .. runner/chaser, but each time you should be parting with more wisdom and understanding of what is happening and how you are healing and that will start to give you peace and acceptance. It is what it is and there is nothing you can do about it, it is way bigger then your little self and your little ego and your little brain wanting it when you want it the way you want it. By the way, the Devine Masculine meets his catalyst before glimpsing his twin, so he is already a little shell shocked and when they part the Divine Femine will meet her false or catalyst twin and he enters to help her process her obsessive anxious attachment trauma and heal before re connection and now recognizing who he really, the person she almost forgot about is and it blows her mind, but she now is too shell shocked from her experience with the Narc false twin that she wasted way too much time on and is now mistrusting combine that with past lives karma between the two, twins will only reincarnated 3 times together and meet, the 3rd time they do is there final life on earth together. So a big mountain to climb thus the time given to allow us to be mature enough to handle it otherwise I do not the think going into union would work, I think both would end up like Romeo & Juliette at a younger age, just too intense.
Yes, he recognized me at first and approached me. It was a brief trip, I visited Houston for a few days and met him. We spent one day together as if we knew each other forever and then went our separate ways. 17 years passed and I'm 3 years into my spiritual awakening after reconnecting in 2020.
Exact same scenario but we met again 14 months ( yes months) after the first meet...but it was like a "do over" of the first time. Like Groundhog Day! 😂 Almost everything that we did "wrong" we were able to reconcile but this time I was also aware of the connection whereas the first time I was in apparently what they call "soul shock" and he was fully aware. I couldn't process anything it was like a dream. Now that we both are on the same page, time will tell. 😂
"How does a DM deepen his spiritual side, develop spiritual practices..?"
I guess that will be different for each person. On the positive side, one must just follow one interests, life itself will then help to bring you all you need and what fits you. On the negative side - often even more effective though uncalled and unwanted for - there might be burning needs and pressures from within that want you to change something or to find something without you feel you can not carry on any longer. Mentioning my own example, at the age of 16 suddenly i felt a great need to find a sense in life that goes beyond just eating, working, procreating and than being forever dead and non-existent. I found it finally and out of it came the spiritual side with practices.
I have to admit, in my case even though I’m more aware of our connection now, I’m pretty sure he was the one who had typical a soul recognition then denied it. However every now and again, our soul peeps out and I hear his knowing.
Thank You, Divine Masculine Rob :D
You make this humanity a wonderful world ^_^
Thank you Rob for your videos! It’s so nice to see it from the DM perspective. Hopefully my DM and I will reach Union one day and meet you and Angie for a hike 😄 He and I had a very similar magical experience where we met for the 3rd time doing a hike at Cathedral rock in Sedona, AZ. We saw a perfect heart-shaped cactus and Jupiter at sunset. It was a surreal perfect day, like the Universe called us together. I am not a hiker and he’s definitely more outdoorsy so it makes me laugh and smile when you and Angie talk about your early hiking experiences.
Thanks to you both 💖
Sedona...Angie and i need to go there sometime. we were planned to go there in April 2020 but the pandemic got in the way. We have herd so much about Sedona. I was there as a kid but that was just for travel purposes. My grandfather used to go the Arizona for the winter. He loved it there....i wonder what he was feeling........ Yes, us intense hiker people have troubles remembering that the average hiker person does not enjoy getting thrashed for a long day on steep trails. Either long or steep can ruin the day...lol... Still, magical events often happen when you are not doing your normal activities....... the same goes for growth.....Rob:)
@@TwinFinity1111 Oh yes! I was “dying” and parched by the time we got back to the car. If you and Angie make it out to Sedona highly recommend OneTribe Tours OneTribetours. A nice couple runs it and the hikes are customizable. His wife prepares an organic picnic for your group as part of the all day hike. We did an all day sunset hike ending with a picnic. What a beautiful magical experience and very spiritual as well. Safe travels for your next adventure!
Thank you for sharing Rob!💙😁
I love your series!! Wow!! Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us. My masculine has been in his shell a lot. I hope he’s okay. He is so sweet but he has been putting up so many walls. Praying for us to come together in Gods timing. 💖❤️💜💙💜💙
This really helped a lot!! Thank you so much Rob!!
Q4!
Omg !
Yes! Thank you Divine and thank you Rob for saying it!
That makes
SO MUCH SENSE!
We mistake the DM's exploration for awareness!
Yes! And I think I sensed that with my DM because I held space for him to explore and I began to recognize what was happening and that's when my patience for him becoming aware really kicked in!
HS indicated to me what was going on as well
“It’s got my train set, in it..”
Lol, cute.
(To which, I dam not intending “cute,” to be a condescension, in any manner - nor am even directing it, towards your hobby. It was simply an unexpected statement, which had an air of innocence, in the way you said it, was all).
I haven’t watched it yet and I gave a thumbs up because I know it’s gonna be good lol👍🏽
I've only started watching but quickly needed to mention: I need to see that train set!! :-))
I smash that like button as soon as every video starts, too, for that very reason!
@@Moshka627 - Yes, I always do that, too! :-))
@@mightyV444 You're so funny. Might have to do a video from the garage lol.
@@TwinFinity1111 - ... while the trains are doing their rounds too, yes! ;-))
Ohhh, it appears I had stopped this video at exactly 11:11 last night, when I'd decided it was quite late and I'd watch again today! :-))
Ha, love it!!! Great sync!
@@TwinFinity1111 - Synchronicity has been off the rails(!) during this Mercury Retrograde and also around the most random things! Something 'big' coming?! :-) Much Love to you both!
~ Wonderful insight was shared here, Thank you Rob, I will be tuning in for more of your practical wisdom, nice work, you are helping many by sharing this perspective, much Gratitude for your efforts. ~ ~ ~ ~ Peace, Joy, Light & Love to You & to All. ~ ~ ~
Added to my playlist for other twins to find. ❤️🦋🦋🦋
I sometimes felt the DM was uncomfortable WHEN it was comfortable, like a switch would flip, and he's start fights or pick at things, like starting political debates, to get us in some serious discussion when we were just relaxed or not having any major thing going on, because I think (or wondered) that it made him feel more in control. Not all the time, but it was something I noticed and always thought was super weird (because normally I'd be like..."phew! We are having a nice chill time and I feel content" haha)... I'm wondering if this is kind of the same thing as creating walls or finding an absolute to deal with being uncomfortable, much like being super serious or unplayful. Great video, thanks!
To better answer #4… that is true. Just in things my TF said in our conversation. She saw me long before I knew. I could feel something but I had ZERO clue what I was experiencing. Only in the last 2 years I found out we were TF’s through a long process.
Each TF process is suppose to be different. So there is “no cut and dry” process except for the whole general 7-step process for real lol
Great video. I love hearing your perspective. Missing my twin. ❤️
Divine positive and divine negative is the polarity between soul energies there is no gender as such, it's just a label. The first along the journey is always the divine positive (DF) and can often be the male in the physical, such as myself.
You two look like a gemini-pisces couple.😁🤗🥰 Love you both.
Thank you Rob 🙏💚🌹💐God Bless you both !
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I just recorded my TF testimonial as well
Ohhh, nice catch!! :)
this was so helpful, thank you!
Thank you for your generous sharing❤️
Interesting, thank you 🙏
Thank you....really great insight! Did you ever create that video on trust (DF as compared to the DM)? Thank you...
I think i gotta open a spreadsheet to keep track of all the keywords that should have a masculine definition applied.... Many videos to make, I think....Thanks for the question, Rob:)
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There is so much mess behind our connection and I go through periods of feeling extremely sure everything will be OK and just feeling hopeless like there's too much to look past scared I'm being optimistic to get hurt.he says he still loves me and I him but will it be enough especially if trust and other emotional boundaries were broken
Rob, you are roc'k'ing...
I dreamt about you two and felt her, Angie's higher self or oversoul part being channeled trough me in daytime channeling for Smita and myselves. It was quite amazing...yeey. In the dream, Rob was doing some train tracks or we played with some track racing cars..like kids...yeey
Curious if Angie had any trepidation about being just friends, in that time you discussed? I'm having trouble with that now, as the idea of being friends with him or having mild communication sounds lovely BUT also terrible because he is dating someone .. :/ But if he had his way, it seems as though it would be no big deal, we'd hang out and talk whenever he wanted. It's too hard for me at the moment and I don't feel that he appreciates that ultimately, which adds to the lack of wanting to "give him what he wants". Other times I feel like "oh who cares? I miss him"... but in cases when I've followed the latter, if I hang out with him and see him or even just have some contact with him, (even simple things like sharing funny videos on Instagram) I feel terrible and sad ultimately because I just imagine him with someone else, knowing there is only so far I know it can go and I feel like a chump. I know that's ego, and I'm wanting to find that sweet spot where it feels valuable to have that communication but also not feel used for his ego or expect something that he doesn't want to give me...
Yes, I (Angie) certainly felt similar. I was also concerned about the potential of crossing boundaries b/c Rob and I certainly had a history of that in our past. The whole friends thing can be tough to navigate, but it can also work well too. I'm sure you'll find the sweet spot that works for your connection. Big hugs to you both :) :)
How do I know it's the right time to tell my dm about the connection (not necessarily use the term twin flame, but that you feel something for them or a connection)? I know everyone says, let myself be guided, but how does that even feel? I always have an urge to reach out to him but never know if it's the right time, and I doubt myself. Not sure if this would be considered a compulsive act or a conscious one. Any help on how to tell the difference? Thank you!
Excellent question JB!! We'll add it to our list for a future Q&A video :)
I thought that Angie was the Masculine given that she was the primary runner and the one that was mostly living in her mind, not her heart...
As per the reply just given in our Runner video, I (Angie) am more the feminine energy between the two of us, I just had a huge wall when it came to being vulnerable and emotionally intimate with people for fear of getting hurt. That's part of the reason we had such a long separation--it took me a long time to heal those deep seated wounds and fears. :)
@@TwinFinity1111 thanks again for clarifying Angie! Love the videos!
Men couldn't hunt safely without their ability to compartmentalize and be single minded in spite of what they might know was going on back home. We need to be grateful for this part of our evolution and release it with love rather than judgment. I really appreciate your openness about your experience.
Great point Sarah!!!
Why would you tell Ur twin about the twin flame concept if het is niet spiritual awakened?
I could type for hours on this question.... Most of my thoughts boil down to some level of honesty on behalf of the awake one. There is also a factor of respect for the individual who is not supposedly awake.
One of the hardest mistakes to recover from is one where someone misleads another. Sometimes this misleading can be accomplished quite by accident. An awake twin often is burdened with the responsibility of helping their twin catch up in levels of "awakeness". Often the less awake twin does not really understand what all the fuss is about and why they need to grow in directions that do not make sense, or grow in directions that seem purposeless. Sometimes they follow along for months (or years) thinking that they are being helped as an unassuming gesture of kindness. If that coaching role all of a sudden turns into a relationship trap because the pupil has now learned enough to be "enlightened" to a new relationship purpose, that can be a huge trust and respect crusher.
Imagine learning and doing what you are told only to find out that you, apparently, are being groomed to be your teachers "pet relationship". How would you ever feel that you could advance far enough to be that person's equal? How could you ever trust that you were never going to be taught something under the disguise of a hidden agenda?
You avoid many of the pitfalls of accidently mis-leading someone by expressing some level of honesty at the point that the trust bond is created.
I feel that we often do not give others enough credit when judging their ability to absorb new information. Of course, do not pummel them with all the details in the first minute. Let them know that you are a spiritual person and that you feel that there is a bond of commonality between the two of you. let them know that they are free to express when they are "full' of information and that they will be respected at what ever point they become full. Give them bite sized pieces of information, knowing that their journey may take a long time to develop. Remember, most importantly, that they are the ones who will need to be asking for more information when they are ready. Build trust first though gentle honesty. This will protect the bonds of trust if they become stressed later. Thanks for the question, I hope I shed some light on this topic.
Hey rob! You are so cute. You are letting your guards down.
How to get the masculine’s trust back?
I didn't consciously hurt him but it happened. He hasn't forgiven me in 7 years despite apologizing. He says, it is me who crosses the line
What do you do if the Dm is protecting in warrior mode and won't open up to the DF?
Its very disarming when a warrior (think military soldier) is storming around all protected by their ego and then someone says: Hey! I like how you polished your boots!!!! It takes all the uniform and the medals and the grenade belt and the rifle and the helmet and gives all that stuff no energy or POWER whatsoever. They are left with little option but to thank you for your comment and then they slink away wondering what all the rest of the pompous fighting gear is for.
Warrior mode is either for protection or attention. Remove the threat or give the battle that is being fought little energy and the warrior stuff will become less valuable to the warrior. Even a soldier will go for a walk in the park if there is no damage to their image by doing so.......Rob:)
Are u an estj? Are all DMs estjs? And DF infjs?
Im a DF. Im an intj. Lol.
I am DF and INTJ, my DM is ESFJ.
Some day i'll ask Angie if she knows these acronyms.... I most certainly do not (yet).... like most of us on a journey, one tends to find more things they do not know than things they recognize...lol... Rob:)
Heeeeyyyyy! Angie and I have taken numerous personality tests for career purposes over the years. A couple of weeks back, we stumbled into the Myers and Brigg's website and "these letters appeared" that caused me to remember this question.
I am an INFJ-T (Advocate). Angie is not here right at the moment and i can't remember her "letters" but the word after them was DEFENDER. What i do remember is that our tendencies are more similar than different. I hope i have all of this right enough to answer the question now. I really dislike having no clue about what's going on (say's the advocate...lol)
Thanks for sharing, Rob 🙏💙