ये तो सभी जानते है कि कीर्ति चक्र या कोई भी पदक किसी को मिला हो तो उसका महत्व और सम्मान न दूसरा पति करेगा और न दूसरे पति से जन्मे बच्चे करेंगे तो ऐसे स्थिति में उस पदक को मां बाप के हवाले किया जाना चाहिए।ये हम आम भारतीयों की सरकार से प्रार्थना है।
This is the true story of all soldiers, as long as a soldier is alive, he faithfully performs his duties towards his wife, parents, country, society and everyone. But as soon as he becomes a martyr, taking advantage of the military NOK rules, his wife runs away with all the money with someone else, unfortunately his elderly parents neither get any kind of military aid nor any financial support. After losing their son, parents of a martyr have to spend entire life in dreadful condition 😊
Who runs away with a widow in our society. Please enlighten. I in last 40 yrs have not seen a single case. Rather I have seen multiple cases where the inlaws have made widows life hell after demise of the son. NOK is not mandated by army but is nominated by by serving soldiers themselves. And it's totally incorrect that parents do not get any financial benefits. Please try to find out what is the legal provision on hindu marriage act and also religious significance of marriage in respective religions society. You will get your answer y a husband nominates his wife/ kids as NOK.
Here the case is similar to what's happening with widow of Late Major Ashish from haryana. Wife the legal NOK as nominated by the Soldier himself received the entitled compensation and the parents received there share of compensation. Now the parents compensation is less then that of the NOKs . Whole story revolves around money. In this particular case , uncle ji in many interview has said he would like the widow of Captain Anshuman to marry his younger brother 😮. Y?? The money remains within their reach.
Wife ran away.. she has saved herself from these leeches! these greedy parents (in fact shame in name of parenthood) are eating pension from government. Army didn't dump them after retirement as army cannot dump Anshumans widow. They got fat exgratia of 65 lacs bahu got 85 so they want to control her money (may be her work also). These cringe parents wanted to marry her with younger son it seems, you know why. Why parents should get any money when they are already receiving pension? They were not dependents on son. These people raise sons as fat paycheque and nothing else. They should be booked for defaming and harassing martyrs widow. She has taken her rights over her husband's earning, have they given her share of inheritance? Cannot believe for few lacs people can stoop so low that insult that great man's sacrifice.
Here is a post For context, my dad is a Lieutenant Colonel in the Indian army, currently posted in high altitude. There have been lots of opinions about the actions of the parents and wife of Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous), I will help clear the same. I have seen the video and discussed the same with my dad, and here is what I know: The will, or the NoK(next of kin) is filled out by the officer, and he may choose to name spouse or parents as NoK. My father has chosen my mother as NoK, and by extension me and my brother. Next, the Army Insurance Fund. The split is decided by, again, the officer, which in this case was 50|50. In my dad's case is 70/30. So, of a total of around 1.1~ Cr, my mom gets around 78 and my grandma the rest(grandfather has passed away, was in the Air Force). In this case, the state government released a fund of 50 Lac for the family, of which, the split was 35(wife), and 15(parents). As Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous) decided to keep his wife as NoK, 60% of the pension and the Kirti Chakra goes to the wife. So, because there is a sheer mockery of the deceased brave heart's heroism on the internet, here is the split up of what everyone is getting. Parents: 1/2 Army Insurance Fund + 15 Lac(state govt) Wife: 1/2 Army Insurance Fund + 35 Lac(state govt) + 60% pension + Kirti Chakra How the wife decides to use HER money is up to her, as HER husband signed the NoK. Stop with the moral policing. We do not know how her in laws treat her. Also, is it not strange that the parents have met and have talked about Rahul Gandhi so much? Is it not strange they keep talking about Agni veer? Their son was a Commissioned Officer, not an Agni veer, then why so shortly after his death, instead of mourning for their lost son, they are getting involved in politics? Why are they arguing with their son's choice? Why are they questioning their son's partner? It is a sheer mockery of Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous) and his supreme sacrifice. I rest my case. Jai Hind. Also they keep saying she was only married for 5 months, but in the interview she said that their relationship was 8 years old. She knew the parents only for 5 months. They would not have treated her nicely after their son’s death. Living with them would have felt like torture. So, her leaving them is correct decision. About the money, She deserves it as she had her whole life planned out with Anshuman, when he is not there she must have felt so lost in life. In such situations, people can get depressed and working is also very hard with everything going through your mind. So, it is fair to have money for necessities. And the parents got money as well so they are also not being treated unfairly. They are just angry that some outsider woman is benefitting from their son’s death(typical mentality of selfish people). I think its still too early to reach a conclusion but the way his parents are talking as if they are really normal and it doesn't look like their son has passed away, especially the body language of his father Why discuss all these personal matters in media when your son just died?
पत्नी तो खुद इतनी लायक है यदि वह माँ होती तो या वाकई जरूरत मंद होती तो ही उसे मिलना चाहिए । माता पिता का दर्जा पत्नी से कही ऊपर है वह भी ऐसी पत्नी जो सारी यादों को रिश्तेनातों को छोड़ कर चली जाए । ऐसे तो कोई माँ बाप अपने बच्चे को सेना में नहीं भेजना चाहेगे। वह तो भूलने की कोशिश करेगी लेकिन माँ तो जीने के लिए अपने बेटे को बारबार याद करना चाहेगी ।
Salute to his parents❤......Samriti ko is mushkil ghadi m in laws se at least pyar se pesh aana chahiye ....jb wo keh rhi hai ki past bhulna chahti h to fir wo patti bhi to past m tha ...us se related property or kirti chkkr bhi past hi huye na ... to fir ye sb kyu rkh rhi hai sath m.......5mhine ki biwi aaj 26 saal se paal rhe parents se jyada hqqdaar ho gyi...this is so heartbreaking😢
Salute to his parents. Father is so thoughtful and very logical and looked into all aspects for his son's education. Like father, like son . How can parents keep silent when thihave devoted so much for their son . Parents took so much efforts along with his son , they must all have equal rights. Father is not demanding for money, but he wants his sons memories,the medal as a momento of his son.
सरकार को ऐसी घटनाओं से सबक लेकर नये सिरे से सोचने समझने और स्वार्थी,अन्यायपूर्ण,अव्यवहारिक, अत्याचार, और भेदभावपूर्ण स्थिति से बचा जाए। पत्नी अर्द्धांगिनी बनीं रहे तो कोई समस्या नहीं है। समस्या एकाधिकार के स्वत्ताधिकार कारण नेक्स्ट आफ किन प्रतिशत और पदक आदि में अभाव प्रभाव स्पष्ट हो।
शहीद अंशुमन की पत्नी को सिर्फ इस बात को ठंडे दिमाग से सोचकर समझना चाहिए कि अंशुमन पहले एक मां, पिता का बेटा हैं। पति बाद में । उस मां की जगह तुम होती तो कैसा महसूस होता ये सोचे बस।
पेरेंट्स को मेडिकल मिलनी चाहिए और पैसे का बंटवारा 50 -50 में होना चाहिए ,शादी तो वो करेंगी ही उनके मा बाप करवाएंगे जरूर इसमें कोई दो राय नही है और करनी भी चाहिए ,इतनी लंबी जिंदगी ऐसे कटती भी नही😊
पता नहीं मुझे बार -बार ऐसा क्यों लग रहा है कि सब कुछ वैसा है नहीं जैसा दिख रहा है, माँ-बाप को दर्द तो बेहद होगा लेकिन मुझे लगा रहा है कि पिता जी बहुत चालाकी से बात कर रहे हैं, एक वीडियो में मैंने देखा कि माँ कुछ बोलने चली तो उनको हाथ लगा के मना कर दिया।
What must Anshuman be thinking from above where ever he is. .........Seeing all this going on ........One statement from him could silence them all................😢
माँ बाप के दिल को एसे तोड़ दिया जैसे शीशा टूट जाता है दूध गिर गया उसे कोई उठा नहीं सकता शहीद बेटे का दर्द मरते दम तक रहेगा आखिर अंशुमान के शहीद हो जाने पर ये महाभारत कब बन्द होगा ये समाचार सुनते देखते कान पक गये दिल में दर्द होता हैं मां बाप बीबी का ऐसा बर्ताव अंशुमान शहीद की आत्मा को बहुत दुःख मिलेगा अंशुमान अमर रहे ऊँ शान्ति
I have a great respect for Anshuman's Parent. In my view, major financial aid should go to parents as they have raise their child. Wife has no children and why she cannot earn for herself provided that she is an NITian and an independent girl. Wife do need emotional support and that's why she should not cut ties with her in-laws. It is easy to raise a child but it is difficult to raise a bright child who can sacrifice himself for a nation.
मम्मी का बेटे के लिए दर्द एक मम्मी ही समक्ष सकती है मां ने बहुत मेहनत की जिस तरह बेटे ने दूसरे की जान बचाई और अपनी जान दे दी वैसे ही पापा भी सही कह रहे कि 50.50 होना चाहिए दूसरों के लिए भी आवाज उठा रहे हैं
आर्मी को अपने नियमो में संशोधन करना चाहिए।अगर किसी की भी बहू ससुराल वाले घर छोड़कर खुद चली जाती है और किसी और से शादी कर लेती हैं तो ऐसे सिचुएशन में उसे पहले पति से मिलने वाले सरकारी अधिकार छीन लेनी चाहिए।
Public sector ONGC में यह नियम है की सर्विस के दौरान अगर कर्मी की मृत्यु हो जाती है तो कंपनी द्वारा दी जानेवाली राशि में से एक नियत प्रतिशत माता पिता को देने का प्रावधान है । अगर माता पिता लेने से इंकार करते है तो पूर्ण राशि मृतक की पत्नी को दे दिया जाता है । ऐसा नियम सेना या सेंट्रल गवर्नमेंट में अगर नही है तो आश्चर्य की बात है । इस पर संशोधन करना चाहिए ।
शहीद के माता पिता और पत्नी को सरकार से जो भी मान सम्मान, राशि मिलता है उस पर गहन चर्चा करके सुधार करना जरूरी है। यह भावनात्मक मामला है इस पर विवेकपूर्ण चर्चा करके निर्णय लिया जाए।
Vo ma baap paisa nahi mang rahe ... Vo kitri chakra ki baat kar rahe h.।। Vo ladaki ab 5 carore rupaye milenge.. Kirti chakra ki pension aur army pension mila k usko har maheene 1 lakh.. Uper milegi
@@tanmaynagar7447 kyu Rahul Gandhi ko sapna aaya bulane kaaa...Rahul ko rajneeti chalani hai usko to mudda chahiye...khuch to Kiya hoga inhone tabhi bulaya unko nahi to sabko to nahi bulate .isko jaana hi maana jayega...ek baat or aap personal mat ho ...apna views do shaalinta se
@@deepakbisht8145 Ary wife ka srif husband k honours par hi haq hota h kya...husband ki basic responsibility b hoti h unpa par b haq ni h kya wife ....
Anshumaan ke matapita ki bate sun kar etna dukh hota hai, rona aa jata hai, ku unki bahu aisa kar rahi hai, dono ki haalat kitni kharab hai, dono kitne dukhit hai, par us ladki ko koi fark nahi pad raha hai, Bhagwan unke parent ko shakti de aur bete ke yaado ke sahare wo jinda rahe, sab ladkiya aise nahi hoti hai, bad luck tha unke parent ka ki unko aise ladki milli, mujhe lagta hai ki kaise anshuman laut ke aajaye, aur us ladki ki kartut ko dekhe, par wah sab dekh raha hai, ak din us ladki ko uski kiye ki saza bhagwan jarur dega, ak maa ki aakho me etna aashu diya hai, jis maa ne usko janam de ksr paal posh kar, etne bade post me khada kiya tha, jiske badolat aj wah etna respect usko mil raha hai, aur maa baap ko khun ke aashu rona pad raha hai.
कोई दिक्कत नही तो बहू भाग गयी सब वही ले गयी ये बाते क्यू और शादी के बाद पत्नी ही हकदार होती है तभी पत्नी को बुलाया ना वर्ना मां बाप को ही बुलाते कानुनन बीबी का हक होता है और मां बाप को दिक्कत भी नहीं होनी चाहिये ऐसे हक लेके ही सास भी गृहस्थही करती है पती घर सब पर बीबी का हक होता है
They didn't not saying anything for 1 year... but now she changed the permanent address of Ayushman.... his parents are alive their home should be the permanent address in the documents of Ayushman but the girl changed that to her mayka address. She has literally changed his identity... this thing hurt his parents most that's why they want some changes in policies . Ayushman Gurdaspur k kaise ho gye ? Bacche ki Identity parents se hoti h aur wife ki husband se.
Ha wife hakdaar hoti hai..lakin agar ye ladki dusri shaadi kr leti h or apni us family me Shahid ka kirti chakra le jaati h ..or jahir si baat us parivaar k liye kirti chakra ki koi value nahi hogi ...na hone wale bacche us se koi proud mahshosh krenge...waha us ki koi value nahi hogi ...or agar yahi kirti chakra unke home town ya Ghar me bhi rahega to aane wali pidhiya us se inpire hongi ...Kai generation tak yaad rakha jaata h k hamare khaandaan me koi Shahid hua tha...ha agar wife sasuraal se Judi rahti h to wife rakhe other wise wife ko ye samman Shahid k mata pita ko de dena chahiye..kyuki us samman k sath maa baap ki kya feeling hongi ye wahi samjh sakte h ...sirf paisa hi sab kuchh nahi hota ..hamare yaha to dur k gaon me koi Shahid hota h to us gaon se gujrane pr fakr hota h ..wife ko bhi bada Dil rakh k ye sochana chahiye
@@vaideheesingh2550 aap kaise bol rehe hai koi value nahi hogi ...wo award kisi value ka mohtaaj nahi hai ...or wo apne pati se pyaar kerti hai to wo uski value bhi rakhagi ...
शहीद मेजर ने अपने फार्म में जिसे उत्तराधिकारी बनाया है सेना कानून उसे ही देगी। सैनिकों को चाहिए कि अपने फार्म में अपनी पत्नी की जगह माँ बाप का नाम लिखें जिससे सेना मुआवजा राशि उन्हें दे दे।
@@RahulKumar-mo6ngRAHUL q bhai unhone khud apne wife ko choose Kiya iska mtlb vo jante the ki inke parents selfish hae n vo ladki 8 Saal se relationship me the to Acha kahasa time spend Kiya yh loh kuch din ke bad mar jayege aur usne shadi hi nhe ki tab???
@@PrinceyV-pt1d anpadho pta nahi ho to har chij mai mat ghusso. Shahid ki jo vidhwa wife hain agar wo dusri shadi karengi to unko milne wali pension bhi band ho jayegi. Sadak pe la do vidwa ko katora le kar. Tab tumko chain pdega. Aur jo bujurg ye nanga naach kar rahe hai wo already govt retired person hai. Unko pension milti hai sarkari. Well developed hai. 1 beta aur 1 beti bhi hai. Fir tamasha bana rakha hai.
smriti mam she is very nice person and vah bahut ache hain ji kush aisa vaisa logon ko unke bare mein nahi kahana chahie unki image ke bare mein kisi ko koi hak nhin kuch kehne ka ji
At the time of joining army, the soldier is unmarried and he chooses to writes the name of NOK. After marriage when part 2 order is published then automatically the name of nok changes and spouce becomes nok in the army.
Etne Sajjan mata pita hain tabhi bahu ne ye sab kar diya kirti chakra mata pita ko milna chahiye bahu young hain saadi to karegi ek din ,to kayda kahta hain chakra enko mile , jo kuch milta hain bahu ko wah esliye ki saath rahte hain sab puri family par ,niyat badal jaye to niyam to bane
Mujhe to yahi dekhkar Rona a Gaya ki jis man ne janm Diya vah man piche chal rahi hai aur jisse kuchh hi sal pahle shaadi Hui vah aage chal rahi hai aur Samman bhi usko hi Diya
Look at his mother how fearful she was when receiving kirti chakra award and daughter in law had no manner to get her involved or have eve contact with brave lady who raised that brave man.
Itne saal nhi bro. Just 5 months 😅. They don't want compensation. They just want that they should have also got the privilege to touch and see the kirti chakra.
Kirti chakra aayushman bhai ke Mata pita ke pass rahana chahie kyunki unhen bahut Sundar baten rakh rahe hain bahut pratishthit log hai un Jaise logon Ko itna dhaar hai Jaise
Vo bujurg pita already govt retired person hai. Aur uski pension hai. Rule ye kehta hai jab aap ek pension le rahe hai to aap dusri pension nahi le sakte. Kitni chhi chha le than macha rakhi hai media walo ne. Hadd hai. Bujurg mata pita already sampann family hai. Fir bhi sara drama paiso ke liye hai. Wife agar sab kuch unlogo ke naam kar de to koi problem nahi. Agar apna hissa maang le to saare aa jate hai nanga naach karne. Sab paiso ka mamla hai babu bhaiya.. jabki ye sahi baat hai vidwa agar dusri sadi karegi to pension band ho jayegi to isme itna nanga naach karne ki kya jarurat. Ab ek vidwa apna itna haq bhi nahi le sakti. Kuch mat do usko. Sadak pe katora le kar beekh maangne pe majboor kar do. Aakhir samaaj ko patniyo se duamani hai. Samaaj patniyo ko kuch nahi dena chahta.
Patni ka hak tab hota hai jab vah Apne Pati ke sahid ho jaane ke bad mein Apne Pati ke ghar mein hi rahe nahin to pura pura hak uske man baap ka hi hota hai kyunki 9 mahine uski man ne apne pet mein rakha h or 20-22 sal Tak pala bhi hai padhaayaa likhaya bhi hai bahut aankhon mein sapne bhi sajae hain ummiden bhi thi Jo Bahu ke Ghar se chale jaane se unki sari ummiden khatm ho gai vah bhi itne acche man baap kahate Hain ham Bahu ki shaadi karenge are kuchh nahin to kam se kam is dukh ki ghadi mein unke sath kuchh din to rahti lekin nahin is padhi likhi Bahu ne unko tutate hue ko aur jyada tod Diya😢😢😢😢😢😢
Shaheed Anshuman ke pita ji ko aab sabre kar lena chahiye. Dono parivaro ki sonch our sanskar may bahut fark lagta hai. Unko apney bate ke yaad may foundation ya hospital ki taraf dhyan de our crowd funding site say sahyog le.
As it says betty bachaio betty paraio betty ko sansakar siakho . (Save the girls educate the girls raise the girls with moral value as important to have strong better society.
Love marriage thi aur ma ko to doctor bahu chahiye usme ye pita retired hai Plus inke ek aur beta hai upper se vakypatuta me shrestya hai.aur inhe aur kya chahiye sabhi log samajh sakte hai
Aer smrity shadhi kerty hai tohus ke jakahmbar toh jayege per nishan toh reh hi jayegi ha appke jakham bharee bhi nahi per gali gali main charcha o rahi hai ye u ki shadat ka apman hai
I will message to my cousin brother who is in army so that he can change the benefits and salary to his mother's account. So that he again can share this message to someone. This is very dark and easy business for women to loot men and run away.
क्या लड़के की शादी होने के बाद बेटा माँ बाप का नही रहता सारा अधिकार औरत का ही होता है क्या उनका जन्म देना पालना पढ़ाना सर्विस लगवाना शादी करना यहाँ तक ही माँ बाप का अधिकार है क्या इस बात को हम जानते भी हैं समझते भी हैं की शादी के बाद पत्नी का अधिकार होता है परन्तु इतना भी नही कि जब कोई परेशानी आ जाए या जैसे अंशु की शहादत पर देश रो रहा है उसके माता पिता का रो रो कर बुरा हाल है वे कहते हैं कि हमे पैसा नहीं अपने बेटे की का सरकार द्वारा दिया गया सम्मानित कीर्ति चक्र चाहिए हमारी भी अंशु की पत्नी से रिक्वेस्ट है कि अगर आपने दूसरी शादी करनी है तो शोक से करे पर उनके बेटे की आखरी nishainl उन्हे दे jawe v3n i
Pita ki aankhon m kitni chamak or samman h apne shaheed bete ke liye ,jo jeevan bhar rahega us saaman chakra ka bivi kya kregi btao kuchh samay baad uska dusra pati hoga ,bchhe honge unke parivar ka naya daamad hoga vo us chakra ka kya samman krenge kisi kone m pade rahega ,agar abhi unki yaado ko bhulna chahti hai aage bdna chahti hai to us chakra se to jeevan bhar yaad rahega to kya vo us samman mo dekhegi bhi bilkul nahi kregi
samazik sansthae aage aye, aur ek maa ki bhi iksha puri karwae...samazik sansthae ya sarkar k directions me, anshuman ka medal aur jo bhi ho, parents k yahan kuch din, unke didar k lea vayastha karen aur fir vspas vo medal madam ko samman sahit vapas kia jaa sakta hai....
ये तो सभी जानते है कि कीर्ति चक्र या कोई भी पदक किसी को मिला हो तो उसका महत्व और सम्मान न दूसरा पति करेगा और न दूसरे पति से जन्मे बच्चे करेंगे तो ऐसे स्थिति में उस पदक को मां बाप के हवाले किया जाना चाहिए।ये हम आम भारतीयों की सरकार से प्रार्थना है।
साथ ही सभी फौजियों को अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को बना देना चाहिए जिससे आगे यह समस्या पैदा न हो।
कीर्ति चक्र माता पिता के पास रहना चाहिए
बहुत भावुक पल है अंशुमन के माता-पिता जब बच्चे के बारे बताते हैं बहुत दुख होता है आप लोगों को भगवान दुख सहने की शक्ति दे
Father ki communication skill & clearity of thoughts👍👍👌👌
Parents rightful demand, salute!
इनकी मांग अदालत से ही तय हो सकती है मीडिया से नहीं। इन्हें अदालत जाना चाहिए।
Ñj ko khol le😊 mans 0@@anilsinghal2312
sab ladkiya or unke maa baap aise hi hain aajkal.. मतलबी, स्वार्थी और सिर्फ अधिकार कोई जिम्मेदारी नहीं
Brave father.... 🫡
This is the true story of all soldiers, as long as a soldier is alive, he faithfully performs his duties towards his wife, parents, country, society and everyone. But as soon as he becomes a martyr, taking advantage of the military NOK rules, his wife runs away with all the money with someone else, unfortunately his elderly parents neither get any kind of military aid nor any financial support. After losing their son, parents of a martyr have to spend entire life in dreadful condition 😊
Who runs away with a widow in our society. Please enlighten. I in last 40 yrs have not seen a single case.
Rather I have seen multiple cases where the inlaws have made widows life hell after demise of the son.
NOK is not mandated by army but is nominated by by serving soldiers themselves.
And it's totally incorrect that parents do not get any financial benefits.
Please try to find out what is the legal provision on hindu marriage act and also religious significance of marriage in respective religions society. You will get your answer y a husband nominates his wife/ kids as NOK.
Here the case is similar to what's happening with widow of Late Major Ashish from haryana.
Wife the legal NOK as nominated by the Soldier himself received the entitled compensation and the parents received there share of compensation.
Now the parents compensation is less then that of the NOKs . Whole story revolves around money.
In this particular case , uncle ji in many interview has said he would like the widow of Captain Anshuman to marry his younger brother 😮. Y?? The money remains within their reach.
Wife ran away.. she has saved herself from these leeches! these greedy parents (in fact shame in name of parenthood) are eating pension from government. Army didn't dump them after retirement as army cannot dump Anshumans widow. They got fat exgratia of 65 lacs bahu got 85 so they want to control her money (may be her work also). These cringe parents wanted to marry her with younger son it seems, you know why. Why parents should get any money when they are already receiving pension? They were not dependents on son. These people raise sons as fat paycheque and nothing else. They should be booked for defaming and harassing martyrs widow. She has taken her rights over her husband's earning, have they given her share of inheritance? Cannot believe for few lacs people can stoop so low that insult that great man's sacrifice.
Here is a post
For context, my dad is a Lieutenant Colonel in the Indian army, currently posted in high altitude.
There have been lots of opinions about the actions of the parents and wife of Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous), I will help clear the same.
I have seen the video and discussed the same with my dad, and here is what I know:
The will, or the NoK(next of kin) is filled out by the officer, and he may choose to name spouse or parents as NoK. My father has chosen my mother as NoK, and by extension me and my brother.
Next, the Army Insurance Fund. The split is decided by, again, the officer, which in this case was 50|50. In my dad's case is 70/30. So, of a total of around 1.1~ Cr, my mom gets around 78 and my grandma the rest(grandfather has passed away, was in the Air Force).
In this case, the state government released a fund of 50 Lac for the family, of which, the split was 35(wife), and 15(parents).
As Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous) decided to keep his wife as NoK, 60% of the pension and the Kirti Chakra goes to the wife.
So, because there is a sheer mockery of the deceased brave heart's heroism on the internet, here is the split up of what everyone is getting.
Parents: 1/2 Army Insurance Fund + 15 Lac(state govt)
Wife: 1/2 Army Insurance Fund + 35 Lac(state govt) + 60% pension + Kirti Chakra
How the wife decides to use HER money is up to her, as HER husband signed the NoK.
Stop with the moral policing. We do not know how her in laws treat her.
Also, is it not strange that the parents have met and have talked about Rahul Gandhi so much? Is it not strange they keep talking about Agni veer? Their son was a Commissioned Officer, not an Agni veer, then why so shortly after his death, instead of mourning for their lost son, they are getting involved in politics?
Why are they arguing with their son's choice? Why are they questioning their son's partner?
It is a sheer mockery of Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous) and his supreme sacrifice.
I rest my case.
Jai Hind.
Also they keep saying she was only married for 5 months, but in the interview she said that their relationship was 8 years old. She knew the parents only for 5 months. They would not have treated her nicely after their son’s death. Living with them would have felt like torture. So, her leaving them is correct decision.
About the money, She deserves it as she had her whole life planned out with Anshuman, when he is not there she must have felt so lost in life. In such situations, people can get depressed and working is also very hard with everything going through your mind. So, it is fair to have money for necessities. And the parents got money as well so they are also not being treated unfairly. They are just angry that some outsider woman is benefitting from their son’s death(typical mentality of selfish people).
I think its still too early to reach a conclusion but the way his parents are talking as if they are really normal and it doesn't look like their son has passed away, especially the body language of his father Why discuss all these personal matters in media when your son just died?
@@11MohitSharma that's how u kill a conversation. 👏👏👏
पत्नी तो खुद इतनी लायक है यदि वह माँ होती तो या वाकई जरूरत मंद होती तो ही उसे मिलना चाहिए ।
माता पिता का दर्जा पत्नी से कही ऊपर है वह भी ऐसी पत्नी जो सारी यादों को रिश्तेनातों को छोड़ कर चली जाए । ऐसे तो कोई माँ बाप अपने बच्चे को सेना में नहीं भेजना चाहेगे। वह तो भूलने की कोशिश करेगी लेकिन माँ तो जीने के लिए अपने बेटे को बारबार याद करना चाहेगी ।
तब तो इस घटना से सबक लेते हुए सभी फौजियों को एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को बना देना चाहिए जिससे आगे ऐसा मसला न आये।
Fokat ka paisa
Salute to his parents❤......Samriti ko is mushkil ghadi m in laws se at least pyar se pesh aana chahiye ....jb wo keh rhi hai ki past bhulna chahti h to fir wo patti bhi to past m tha ...us se related property or kirti chkkr bhi past hi huye na ... to fir ye sb kyu rkh rhi hai sath m.......5mhine ki biwi aaj 26 saal se paal rhe parents se jyada hqqdaar ho gyi...this is so heartbreaking😢
कृति चक्र माता पिता को वापस करो।
Salute to his parents. Father is so thoughtful and very logical and looked into all aspects for his son's education. Like father, like son .
How can parents keep silent when thihave devoted so much for their son .
Parents took so much efforts along with his son , they must all have equal rights.
Father is not demanding for money, but he wants his sons memories,the medal as a momento of his son.
Salute to maturity of parents 🫡
Respect Anshuman, his parents and his widow.
Let's think If he has been alive where would his awards been displayed, of course in his home.
Aise mabap milna muskil hai es duniya me itne ache father to bhagwan hai
सरकार को ऐसी घटनाओं से सबक लेकर नये सिरे से सोचने समझने और स्वार्थी,अन्यायपूर्ण,अव्यवहारिक, अत्याचार, और भेदभावपूर्ण स्थिति से बचा जाए।
पत्नी अर्द्धांगिनी बनीं रहे तो कोई समस्या नहीं है।
समस्या एकाधिकार के स्वत्ताधिकार कारण
नेक्स्ट आफ किन प्रतिशत और पदक आदि में अभाव प्रभाव स्पष्ट हो।
आगे से सभी फौजियों को अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को बना देना चाहिए जिससे यह समस्या आये ही नहीं।
Respect for him❤🙏🙏🙏
Captain Ansuman Singh 🙏🙏🙏🙏
काश ऐसे मां बाप भगवान के रुप में है।
Anshuman Father Sahib Is Just Simply Put Brilliant. He Has Guided His Three Kids To Become Doctors.
Simple parents, rich in-laws.
शहीद अंशुमन की पत्नी को सिर्फ
इस बात को ठंडे दिमाग से सोचकर समझना चाहिए कि अंशुमन पहले एक
मां, पिता का बेटा हैं। पति बाद में ।
उस मां की जगह तुम होती तो कैसा
महसूस होता ये सोचे बस।
बहुत अच्छी सोच है आपकी
पेरेंट्स को मेडिकल मिलनी चाहिए और पैसे का बंटवारा 50 -50 में होना चाहिए ,शादी तो वो करेंगी ही उनके मा बाप करवाएंगे जरूर इसमें कोई दो राय नही है और करनी भी चाहिए ,इतनी लंबी जिंदगी ऐसे कटती भी नही😊
Ye sub toh ovt ko socah a chahiye
Govt
Mother is truthful. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Jis pita ka beskaamti heera chala gaya uske liye dhan daulat mitti ke barabar hai. Bahut bura laga parents ko dekh kar 😔
Reporter vi bahut accha sa report kiya salute sir for your honesty to show the real story.
पता नहीं मुझे बार -बार ऐसा क्यों लग रहा है कि सब कुछ वैसा है नहीं जैसा दिख रहा है, माँ-बाप को दर्द तो बेहद होगा लेकिन मुझे लगा रहा है कि पिता जी बहुत चालाकी से बात कर रहे हैं, एक वीडियो में मैंने देखा कि माँ कुछ बोलने चली तो उनको हाथ लगा के मना कर दिया।
जरुरत से ज्यादा दिमाग चलता है कभी कभी
Dhnay hai maji aap❤
इंडियन आर्मी का बब्बर शेर शहीद कैप्टन भाई अंशूमान सिंह जी देवरिया
What must Anshuman be thinking from above where ever he is. .........Seeing all this going on ........One statement from him could silence them all................😢
Very touching interview
Maa pita ke sath nyay hona chahiye 😢
Kaas mere bhi saas ssur aise hote wo to bas touch me rahne ki baat kar rhi h spirit ji touch me rahti to unhe bhi do ma baap ka pyar aur saath milta
App ko and apke bate nu salute aa ji
E bate sun kar aashu aa gye😢
I AM WITH PARENTS
माँ बाप के दिल को एसे तोड़ दिया जैसे शीशा टूट जाता है दूध गिर गया उसे कोई उठा नहीं सकता शहीद बेटे का दर्द मरते दम तक रहेगा आखिर अंशुमान के शहीद हो जाने पर ये महाभारत कब बन्द होगा ये समाचार सुनते देखते कान पक गये दिल में दर्द होता हैं मां बाप बीबी का ऐसा बर्ताव अंशुमान शहीद की आत्मा को बहुत दुःख मिलेगा अंशुमान अमर रहे ऊँ शान्ति
I have a great respect for Anshuman's Parent. In my view, major financial aid should go to parents as they have raise their child. Wife has no children and why she cannot earn for herself provided that she is an NITian and an independent girl. Wife do need emotional support and that's why she should not cut ties with her in-laws. It is easy to raise a child but it is difficult to raise a bright child who can sacrifice himself for a nation.
His father his a good orator
मम्मी का बेटे के लिए दर्द एक मम्मी ही समक्ष सकती है मां ने बहुत मेहनत की जिस तरह बेटे ने दूसरे की जान बचाई और अपनी जान दे दी वैसे ही पापा भी सही कह रहे कि 50.50 होना चाहिए दूसरों के लिए भी आवाज उठा रहे हैं
He was exceptionally well talented
Leave her alone, you people can't even imagine what she is going through right now.
that's why she left all Anshuman's cloth in jhola instead of suitcase. Why she has no respect for Anshuman??
आर्मी को अपने नियमो में संशोधन करना चाहिए।अगर किसी की भी बहू ससुराल वाले घर छोड़कर खुद चली जाती है और किसी और से शादी कर लेती हैं तो ऐसे सिचुएशन में उसे पहले पति से मिलने वाले सरकारी अधिकार छीन लेनी चाहिए।
इससे अच्छा तो सभी फौजियों को अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को ही बना देना चाहिए जिससे आगे यह समस्या पैदा ही न हो।
काश आप उस दिन माना कर देती तो आज इस दोहरय में ना रहते आज ये लड़की आपकी बहू नहीं होती
Jo interview le usko yeh jankari bhi nhi.. Ki kya baat krni hai, Dr anshumaan bahut hi intelligent the ❤
Siyachin glacier are very dangerous post . He must be our brave captain. Jai Hind. Soldier die even due to weather without any combat situation
जो भी बात है, मिलकर सुलझाइए कृपया।
Public sector ONGC में यह नियम है की सर्विस के दौरान अगर कर्मी की मृत्यु हो जाती है तो कंपनी द्वारा दी जानेवाली राशि में से एक नियत प्रतिशत माता पिता को देने का प्रावधान है । अगर माता पिता लेने से इंकार करते है तो पूर्ण राशि मृतक की पत्नी को दे दिया जाता है ।
ऐसा नियम सेना या सेंट्रल गवर्नमेंट में अगर नही है तो आश्चर्य की बात है । इस पर संशोधन करना चाहिए ।
क्यों न सभी फौजी अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को ही बना दें जिससे समस्या पैदा ही न हो।
शहीद के माता पिता और पत्नी को सरकार से जो भी मान सम्मान, राशि मिलता है उस पर गहन चर्चा करके सुधार करना जरूरी है। यह भावनात्मक मामला है इस पर विवेकपूर्ण चर्चा करके निर्णय लिया जाए।
These selfish parents should leave that poor widow alone! Shameful!
Vo ma baap paisa nahi mang rahe ...
Vo kitri chakra ki baat kar rahe h.।।
Vo ladaki ab 5 carore rupaye milenge.. Kirti chakra ki pension aur army pension mila k usko har maheene 1 lakh.. Uper milegi
@@harshitsingh7035 Bhai Paisa nahi chahte to wo Rahul Gandhi ko approach nahi karte ...greedy ho gaye hai maa baap ...
@@deepakbisht8145Vo khud gye nhi unhe bulaya gya tha
Pta nhi ho to apna muh band kre
@@tanmaynagar7447 kyu Rahul Gandhi ko sapna aaya bulane kaaa...Rahul ko rajneeti chalani hai usko to mudda chahiye...khuch to Kiya hoga inhone tabhi bulaya unko nahi to sabko to nahi bulate
.isko jaana hi maana jayega...ek baat or aap personal mat ho ...apna views do shaalinta se
@@deepakbisht8145 Ary wife ka srif husband k honours par hi haq hota h kya...husband ki basic responsibility b hoti h unpa par b haq ni h kya wife ....
🙏🤲iam very to mum 😢 dad Allah give peace very sad 😭
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Anshumaan ke matapita ki bate sun kar etna dukh hota hai, rona aa jata hai, ku unki bahu aisa kar rahi hai, dono ki haalat kitni kharab hai, dono kitne dukhit hai, par us ladki ko koi fark nahi pad raha hai, Bhagwan unke parent ko shakti de aur bete ke yaado ke sahare wo jinda rahe, sab ladkiya aise nahi hoti hai, bad luck tha unke parent ka ki unko aise ladki milli, mujhe lagta hai ki kaise anshuman laut ke aajaye, aur us ladki ki kartut ko dekhe, par wah sab dekh raha hai, ak din us ladki ko uski kiye ki saza bhagwan jarur dega, ak maa ki aakho me etna aashu diya hai, jis maa ne usko janam de ksr paal posh kar, etne bade post me khada kiya tha, jiske badolat aj wah etna respect usko mil raha hai, aur maa baap ko khun ke aashu rona pad raha hai.
Mata pita or wife ko 50%50%melna chahiye
Ladki ne sahi decision liya...uske saamne poora future tha...
So no need of any respect or atleast some heart for the grieving parents. She's an Opportunist...
Bhai, khuda na khasta tumharay budhapay may koi tumhay pani denay wala na hua tab pata chalega future kya hota hai samaj kya hota hai.
कोई दिक्कत नही तो बहू भाग गयी सब वही ले गयी ये बाते क्यू और शादी के बाद पत्नी ही हकदार होती है तभी पत्नी को बुलाया ना वर्ना मां बाप को ही बुलाते कानुनन बीबी का हक होता है और मां बाप को दिक्कत भी नहीं होनी चाहिये ऐसे हक लेके ही सास भी गृहस्थही करती है पती घर सब पर बीबी का हक होता है
They didn't not saying anything for 1 year... but now she changed the permanent address of Ayushman.... his parents are alive their home should be the permanent address in the documents of Ayushman but the girl changed that to her mayka address. She has literally changed his identity... this thing hurt his parents most that's why they want some changes in policies . Ayushman Gurdaspur k kaise ho gye ?
Bacche ki Identity parents se hoti h aur wife ki husband se.
इस मसले को इन्हें अदालत ले जाना चाहिए। मीडिया में जग हसांयी से कुछ हासिल नहीं होना।@@komal_thakur5749
@@komal_thakur5749Paisa chahiye inko bas ...asal dukh hota bete kaa to yee nichta nahi karte...
Ha wife hakdaar hoti hai..lakin agar ye ladki dusri shaadi kr leti h or apni us family me Shahid ka kirti chakra le jaati h ..or jahir si baat us parivaar k liye kirti chakra ki koi value nahi hogi ...na hone wale bacche us se koi proud mahshosh krenge...waha us ki koi value nahi hogi ...or agar yahi kirti chakra unke home town ya Ghar me bhi rahega to aane wali pidhiya us se inpire hongi ...Kai generation tak yaad rakha jaata h k hamare khaandaan me koi Shahid hua tha...ha agar wife sasuraal se Judi rahti h to wife rakhe other wise wife ko ye samman Shahid k mata pita ko de dena chahiye..kyuki us samman k sath maa baap ki kya feeling hongi ye wahi samjh sakte h ...sirf paisa hi sab kuchh nahi hota ..hamare yaha to dur k gaon me koi Shahid hota h to us gaon se gujrane pr fakr hota h ..wife ko bhi bada Dil rakh k ye sochana chahiye
@@vaideheesingh2550 aap kaise bol rehe hai koi value nahi hogi ...wo award kisi value ka mohtaaj nahi hai ...or wo apne pati se pyaar kerti hai to wo uski value bhi rakhagi ...
Yyai sab khuch Anushman kay Maa Baap ko milna chahyai.
Maa baap ko 80% or wife ko 20 % milna chahiye
शहीद मेजर ने अपने फार्म में जिसे उत्तराधिकारी बनाया है सेना कानून उसे ही देगी। सैनिकों को चाहिए कि अपने फार्म में अपनी पत्नी की जगह माँ बाप का नाम लिखें जिससे सेना मुआवजा राशि उन्हें दे दे।
@@anilsinghal2312no anshuman ke bache hote tab wife is right ✅
@@RahulKumar-mo6ngRAHUL q bhai unhone khud apne wife ko choose Kiya iska mtlb vo jante the ki inke parents selfish hae n vo ladki 8 Saal se relationship me the to Acha kahasa time spend Kiya yh loh kuch din ke bad mar jayege aur usne shadi hi nhe ki tab???
@@ayushisrivastava8154Engineer hai woh ladki....beautiful bhi hai...dusre shadi karli phir...
@@PrinceyV-pt1d anpadho pta nahi ho to har chij mai mat ghusso. Shahid ki jo vidhwa wife hain agar wo dusri shadi karengi to unko milne wali pension bhi band ho jayegi. Sadak pe la do vidwa ko katora le kar. Tab tumko chain pdega. Aur jo bujurg ye nanga naach kar rahe hai wo already govt retired person hai. Unko pension milti hai sarkari. Well developed hai. 1 beta aur 1 beti bhi hai. Fir tamasha bana rakha hai.
Sir aap ache se ripash kariye
शानदार
smriti mam she is very nice person and vah bahut ache hain ji kush aisa vaisa logon ko unke bare mein nahi kahana chahie unki image ke bare mein kisi ko koi hak nhin kuch kehne ka ji
At the time of joining army, the soldier is unmarried and he chooses to writes the name of NOK. After marriage when part 2 order is published then automatically the name of nok changes and spouce becomes nok in the army.
Reform तो होनी ही चाहिए,सरकार को ध्यान देना चाहिए
this is the reason parents are against love marriage because they dont know anything about the girl, her family
Weldon sir aapko
Hm logo ke sath bhi ese hua ek bhai tha
Nahi aer appki apni bety hoty toh app bhi yei kertay
Etne Sajjan mata pita hain tabhi bahu ne ye sab kar diya kirti chakra mata pita ko milna chahiye bahu young hain saadi to karegi ek din ,to kayda kahta hain chakra enko mile , jo kuch milta hain bahu ko wah esliye ki saath rahte hain sab puri family par ,niyat badal jaye to niyam to bane
Maa baap sabse upar hai unka brabari koi kr nahi sakta
😢😢😢😢
Mujhe to yahi dekhkar Rona a Gaya ki jis man ne janm Diya vah man piche chal rahi hai aur jisse kuchh hi sal pahle shaadi Hui vah aage chal rahi hai aur Samman bhi usko hi Diya
Look at his mother how fearful she was when receiving kirti chakra award and daughter in law had no manner to get her involved or have eve contact with brave lady who raised that brave man.
Ma baap ko ma baap ki tarh rhna chahiye jiss ldki ne itne Saal diye kya usko dukh nhi ho raha sabka dukh brabr hai ma baap ko bhi smjhna chahiye
Itne saal nhi bro. Just 5 months 😅. They don't want compensation. They just want that they should have also got the privilege to touch and see the kirti chakra.
Kirti chakra aayushman bhai ke Mata pita ke pass rahana chahie kyunki unhen bahut Sundar baten rakh rahe hain bahut pratishthit log hai un Jaise logon Ko itna dhaar hai Jaise
Vo bujurg pita already govt retired person hai. Aur uski pension hai. Rule ye kehta hai jab aap ek pension le rahe hai to aap dusri pension nahi le sakte. Kitni chhi chha le than macha rakhi hai media walo ne. Hadd hai. Bujurg mata pita already sampann family hai. Fir bhi sara drama paiso ke liye hai. Wife agar sab kuch unlogo ke naam kar de to koi problem nahi. Agar apna hissa maang le to saare aa jate hai nanga naach karne. Sab paiso ka mamla hai babu bhaiya.. jabki ye sahi baat hai vidwa agar dusri sadi karegi to pension band ho jayegi to isme itna nanga naach karne ki kya jarurat. Ab ek vidwa apna itna haq bhi nahi le sakti. Kuch mat do usko. Sadak pe katora le kar beekh maangne pe majboor kar do. Aakhir samaaj ko patniyo se duamani hai. Samaaj patniyo ko kuch nahi dena chahta.
Aap saas ho saas hi rahogi 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@pratibhashukla6637 🤨aapne mera comment sahi se read nahi kiya.
Kirti chara Mabap ke pass rahna chahie
Change rule next of kin
Parents 😢
Bat kirty chaker tak nahi hai maje lata hai bat paiso ki hai
Maa baap da dukh deka nahi ja reha 🙏very sorry
Patni ka hak tab hota hai jab vah Apne Pati ke sahid ho jaane ke bad mein Apne Pati ke ghar mein hi rahe nahin to pura pura hak uske man baap ka hi hota hai kyunki 9 mahine uski man ne apne pet mein rakha h or 20-22 sal Tak pala bhi hai padhaayaa likhaya bhi hai bahut aankhon mein sapne bhi sajae hain ummiden bhi thi Jo Bahu ke Ghar se chale jaane se unki sari ummiden khatm ho gai vah bhi itne acche man baap kahate Hain ham Bahu ki shaadi karenge are kuchh nahin to kam se kam is dukh ki ghadi mein unke sath kuchh din to rahti lekin nahin is padhi likhi Bahu ne unko tutate hue ko aur jyada tod Diya😢😢😢😢😢😢
agar uske ma bap ladki ko tang krke use ghar se bhaga de tab kya krwaeyega tu ?
Maa k brabri koireesta nhi h
Shaheed Anshuman ke pita ji ko aab sabre kar lena chahiye. Dono parivaro ki sonch our sanskar may bahut fark lagta hai. Unko apney bate ke yaad may foundation ya hospital ki taraf dhyan de our crowd funding site say sahyog le.
असहमत
Dominance chahiye in parents ko apni bahu pr completely.
Shameless parents
Was anshuman only MBBS .... or degree
Ye buddha bahut selfish and cunning h.. bechari us ladki k piche hi pad gya h haath dhoo kr k
As it says betty bachaio betty paraio betty ko sansakar siakho . (Save the girls educate the girls raise the girls with moral value as important to have strong better society.
Bebe single ho to25%hona chahiye
Love marriage thi aur ma ko to doctor bahu chahiye usme ye pita retired hai Plus inke ek aur beta hai upper se vakypatuta me shrestya hai.aur inhe aur kya chahiye sabhi log samajh sakte hai
Inhe chahiye ki ladki aise na chali jaye or baat bhi na kare .. block na kare . Atleast bata de ki ab aage rishta rakhna hai ya nhi
@@Cradaverkuch toh kiya hoga Jo ladki ne block kar diya
@@mania8158 ye hi bata de kyu kiya.. his parents are begging and asking what mistake they did that girl is giving them such punishment...
Aer smrity shadhi kerty hai tohus ke jakahmbar toh jayege per nishan toh reh hi jayegi ha appke jakham bharee bhi nahi per gali gali main charcha o rahi hai ye u ki shadat ka apman hai
I will message to my cousin brother who is in army so that he can change the benefits and salary to his mother's account. So that he again can share this message to someone. This is very dark and easy business for women to loot men and run away.
I really feel she should return kirti chakra to her in laws
क्या लड़के की शादी होने के बाद बेटा माँ बाप का नही रहता सारा अधिकार औरत का ही होता है क्या उनका जन्म देना पालना पढ़ाना सर्विस लगवाना शादी करना यहाँ तक ही माँ बाप का अधिकार है क्या इस बात को हम जानते भी हैं समझते भी हैं की शादी के बाद पत्नी का अधिकार होता है परन्तु इतना भी नही कि जब कोई परेशानी आ जाए या जैसे अंशु की शहादत पर देश रो रहा है उसके माता पिता का रो रो कर बुरा हाल है वे कहते हैं कि हमे पैसा नहीं अपने बेटे की का सरकार द्वारा दिया गया सम्मानित कीर्ति चक्र चाहिए हमारी भी अंशु की पत्नी से रिक्वेस्ट है कि अगर आपने दूसरी शादी करनी है तो शोक से करे पर उनके बेटे की आखरी nishainl उन्हे दे jawe v3n i
Such Shameless parents, dahej lekar shadi nhi krpaye, beta bhi chala gya, isliye abb bahu buri bn gyi, baato se hi pta chal rha he
Pita ki aankhon m kitni chamak or samman h apne shaheed bete ke liye ,jo jeevan bhar rahega us saaman chakra ka bivi kya kregi btao kuchh samay baad uska dusra pati hoga ,bchhe honge unke parivar ka naya daamad hoga vo us chakra ka kya samman krenge kisi kone m pade rahega ,agar abhi unki yaado ko bhulna chahti hai aage bdna chahti hai to us chakra se to jeevan bhar yaad rahega to kya vo us samman mo dekhegi bhi bilkul nahi kregi
Mujhe kya mai to gay hun. Meri to shaadi bhi legal nhi hai😢😅
Ader kast m shadi nahi karni chahiye isliye rishta kayam nahi huya bad m
Anshuman ka Kirti chakra wahi hona chahiye jahan Anshuman rehta tha.....wahi uski asal jagah hai.....
News people are these days taking time with a particular family, not having the time to question the in-laws?
Honi ko koi taal nahi sakta.
samazik sansthae aage aye, aur ek maa ki bhi iksha puri karwae...samazik sansthae ya sarkar k directions me, anshuman ka medal aur jo bhi ho, parents k yahan kuch din, unke didar k lea vayastha karen aur fir vspas vo medal madam ko samman sahit vapas kia jaa sakta hai....