I did the 25/5 and admittedly found it difficult the first three days but then something switched in my perception and I found it much easier to do. In fact, I found myself still coming up with attributes after the 5 days and was excited to add them to my add-ons. I keep that paper folded up and stashed in my most current journal to refer to often. It truly is a game changer…no, a marriage changer! We still have much to work on but NOW we feel it’s worth the time and effort. Thank you so much, Dr. Paul, for your You Tube Channel! Btw… this August will be 37 years ❤️😉
Dr. Paul is awesome. I have listened to his podcasts, and been to seminars for several years. He is always positive, encouraging, humorous - very easy to listen to, and offers great counsel. Thanks Paul!
There are several ideas for making improvements in your marriage Try to communicate more Help each other out more Start to give and take more (I read these and the reasons they work on Pavs Partner Pundit site )
@Tim Croteau here's a few things for saving your marriage Try to talk more Help each other out more Try to give and take more (I discovered these and the reasons they work on Pavs partner pundit website )
There are a few ideas for making improvements in your partnership Try to talk more Help each other out more Try to give and take more (I learned these and why they work on Pavs partner pundit website )
I want to see all the blessings of my marriage. I don't want to be distracted anymore. I'm not going to hear anything negative about it anymore, nor look for negative things about it anymore. I'm blessed to have someone who loves me.
I was elevating my hubby without even knowing it! Every time my children do something funny & he's at work, I'll text him what happened. He always enjoys hearing the cute things they do. 😆
He probably pretends to...but it may be an annoying distraction some days. However, he probably does enjoy knowing you are happy and that he will be coming home to a happy and pleasant wife.
It might be inappropriate but I love you Dr. Paul for this video and your work and your passion. Thank you so much. God bless you and your family. Valentina.
Thank you so much Dr! when I found out about your channel, I immediately thought this is the guy I need to watch and listen to. I've binged on your videos series since. My husband and I have terrible communication issues, and I think it's also a common prob among a lot of other couples as well. Please do more couple communication videos .feeling grateful!
Whatever he has said is absolutely true, i did this a few days ago from myself and only came across this video now.. i can’t believe how true these words actually are when applied to a scenario.
Thank you Dr Paul for this awesome video!! Gifts: Appreciation, connection, elevation even just a smile, and enlightenment, and see how this pumps positive energy!!! Thank you again ☺
Thank you Dr. Do you have videos on damage repair/control, well especially on giving an unintended disappointing reaction after a discussion when your partner comes to you for comfort on an issue, then you realize that they were expecting a more comforting reaction compared to what you gave !!! Thank you again
Easy to understand and to carry out Tools and Exercises for couples. No beating around the bush but straight forward sharing of what works and what doesn’t. Beats going to Marriage Counsellor. Thank you Dr Paul
There are a few suggestions for saving your partnership Try to communicate more Help each other out more Start to give and take more (I learned these and why they work on Mirykal marriage plan site )
here's a few things for saving your marriage Try to discuss more Help each other out more Try to give and take more (I learned these and the reasons they work from Pavs Partner Pundit site )
here's several tips for saving your partnership Try to communicate more Help each other out more Try to give and take more (I discovered these and why they work from Pavs Partner Pundit site )
Some of us are in relationships where our spouses are only do the bare minimum or would rather spend four hours on her laptop at the end of the day and find something fun to do with their spouse. We have tried, I have tried, so much: reading books, watching these videos, trying to implement advice from Dr. Phil, sending videos to my husband and asking him to do activities with me to work on our marriage. If we disagree fundamentally as parents, he doesn’t see that there is a problem and I am so unhappy that I am slowly killing myself with bad behavior and other unhealthy Band-Aids. There are countless examples where I feel like my husband just does not get it. He does not seem to understand or want to really do the work. We watched the other video and he got excited about the 95, five example but when I mentioned the 25 gratitude list he said, “well I don’t know about that.“
Ok I have to say, I was was Me and my Daughter. She would have gone through all the steps, and Taken the loan and the got the car. But on the trip home from the bank I would have heard Hell Breaking Open and Pouring over me, because how could I do that to her, humiliating and embarrassing her in front of a loan officer, if i had the money. (I swear I can hear her saying this) She would not hear the facts about how it a plan to build Credit Scores, not only for her but for me as well just as you said.. Your Son sounds exceptional. Good JOb!
Thank you for watching, Maria Callas, and I am sorry to hear that you are in an abusive relationship. Please remember that safety is a priority. If your spouse isn't willing to get some counseling to help him stop, consider a women's shelter or other safe place to live.
I have tried this practice for 30 days. Last weekend my wife finished cleaning out her things in our bedroom and completely moved into the guest room. She regularly leaves early for work and regularly comes home late. Most days she is gone for 12-14 hours a day. Many days pass and we don't even see each other. I can text her and may get a response back. Often times hours later. On the weekends she secludes her self to the guest room or leaves for hours without a word. Now what do you suggest???
Find the playlist and watch some of the videos on marriage we have there. There are getting to be quite a few. Can you leave her notes that you are thinking of her or put her favorite food in the fridge? Order takeout and ask if she would like some? Do small acts of service everyday.
I wish i could ask you a question to get advice related to marriage, possible new topic for a new video...thank you foe your videos i have applied many of them with my kids and im doing better and so are they, thank you !
Katherine Quiros, you can submit ideas anytime and we will consider the topics for videos. If you want to connect you can schedule a Discovery Session or connect through Live On Purpose Central where I have Office Hours or Ask Dr. Paul A Question.
Well my question is how to fix a marriage during seperation? No longer living under the same household, how to rebuild the relationship? And seperated not for infidelity more like too many disagreements...
I found a good Christian woman who shares my faith in the Lord. We raised three wonderful children, one in a happy same sex long term relationship. God bless.
Frankie Baker fb.therock, so frustrating. Get clear on what you control and what you don't. Start with yourself and model what kind of behavior you want to see from him. You will be able to influence him over time. Set up time to talk when there aren't any distractions and don't be on the attack, listen to what he says and don't react. You may need some professional help to do this. Get in touch with one of our client experience guides.
I Truly am blessed with my husband. But ... You see... I cannot leave of that stupid : but. Need to improve on shutting up sometimes about little stuff.
My husband keeps telling me that he has custody of his older son from previous Marriage... Every time i said one wrong thing to him we have been married now for 8 years and now he is telling me this all the time and im getting sick of hearing it i love my husband but he has changed since i told him everything is (will) is my step son and i have told him that i was sorry for blaming him on everything... Before all of This happened he used to let me help him and now he wont im stuck can you please tell me how i can be nicer about this situation
10 fish fisher, I am not sure I understand everything, it has been going on for a while. I can say that being nicer is a choice. Commit to that choice and as you are more humble, I bet there will be a change. It may take a while, they won't know what is happening, but keep it up.
Helloo Dr Have u heard of Nikita Maggie Q determined strong will looks like 20s MASH ALLAH wish her the best in both worlds would sge do a valuabke movie about a muslim girl's struggle? Now that's bold nit anyone can go for it, nit any actress but maggie Q 👍can👍
Good point, Ran Jam. Many of the principles I have found for relationships are included in many religions that are principle based. Principles are eternal and never change.
My husband is a momma's boy.. and I can't stand my mother inlaw. my Husband is 43 years old and I'm 35 years old and I don't even call my mom and tell her what goes on in our marriage.. I think it's none of her what goes on in our marriage... I have told my husband that I feel like it is none of his mother's business.. he gets mad at a drop of the hat when I tell him that she had no right in the world to know what goes on in the house...
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I did the 25/5 and admittedly found it difficult the first three days but then something switched in my perception and I found it much easier to do. In fact, I found myself still coming up with attributes after the 5 days and was excited to add them to my add-ons. I keep that paper folded up and stashed in my most current journal to refer to often. It truly is a game changer…no, a marriage changer! We still have much to work on but NOW we feel it’s worth the time and effort. Thank you so much, Dr. Paul, for your You Tube Channel! Btw… this August will be 37 years ❤️😉
Wonderful! It is a life changer, so many good things coming your way.
Dr. Paul is awesome. I have listened to his podcasts, and been to seminars for several years. He is always positive, encouraging, humorous - very easy to listen to, and offers great counsel. Thanks Paul!
Thanks Tim! Honored to be on your team.
There are several ideas for making improvements in your marriage
Try to communicate more
Help each other out more
Start to give and take more
(I read these and the reasons they work on Pavs Partner Pundit site )
@Tim Croteau here's a few things for saving your marriage
Try to talk more
Help each other out more
Try to give and take more
(I discovered these and the reasons they work on Pavs partner pundit website )
There are a few ideas for making improvements in your partnership
Try to talk more
Help each other out more
Try to give and take more
(I learned these and why they work on Pavs partner pundit website )
I need help but I can’t pay u
I want to see all the blessings of my marriage. I don't want to be distracted anymore. I'm not going to hear anything negative about it anymore, nor look for negative things about it anymore. I'm blessed to have someone who loves me.
Better days ahead for you and your marriage. You got this.
I was elevating my hubby without even knowing it! Every time my children do something funny & he's at work, I'll text him what happened. He always enjoys hearing the cute things they do. 😆
I am sure he enjoys the texts, Tecumseh A. Thank you for sharing.
He probably pretends to...but it may be an annoying distraction some days. However, he probably does enjoy knowing you are happy and that he will be coming home to a happy and pleasant wife.
It might be inappropriate but I love you Dr. Paul for this video and your work and your passion. Thank you so much. God bless you and your family. Valentina.
You are very welcome, thank you for being here at the channel.
Your the man doc! So glad I found this channel. I love hearing all the advice. Can’t get enough.
I appreciate that! Glad our paths crossed.
Thank you so much Dr! when I found out about your channel, I immediately thought this is the guy I need to watch and listen to. I've binged on your videos series since. My husband and I have terrible communication issues, and I think it's also a common prob among a lot of other couples as well. Please do more couple communication videos .feeling grateful!
Welcome! little val, thank you for the input.
Whatever he has said is absolutely true, i did this a few days ago from myself and only came across this video now.. i can’t believe how true these words actually are when applied to a scenario.
shameera mammu, honored to be on your team.
Thankyou. Changing my attitude and dropping my armor
Reign Of Aragon, you are welcome.
Thank you Dr Paul for this awesome video!!
Gifts:
Appreciation, connection, elevation even just a smile, and enlightenment, and see how this pumps positive energy!!!
Thank you again ☺
You are very welcome, Lumi.
Thank you Dr. Do you have videos on damage repair/control, well especially on giving an unintended disappointing reaction after a discussion when your partner comes to you for comfort on an issue, then you realize that they were expecting a more comforting reaction compared to what you gave !!! Thank you again
Wow 😯 I will start doing it now . Thanks 🙏
This should have way more likes. Great advice in here
Thank you, Ty.
I enjoyed every bit of this video. What great advice given so genuinely 💜 thanks Doc
Our pleasure, Lee Lee Ohana.
Creating something romatic is a good way.
Yes, it is. You need to be in tune to your partner to know what they consider romantic, it isn't the same for everyone.
Watching these at 1.5x speed and loving it!
How efficient of you Ussama! So honored to be on your team. DrPaul
So do I....
Easy to understand and to carry out Tools and Exercises for couples. No beating around the bush but straight forward sharing of what works and what doesn’t. Beats going to Marriage Counsellor. Thank you Dr Paul
Kim Khoo, thank you. I do offer one on one help if people need it.
This was a great video
Thank you, James.
That really helped 😊
Thanks for letting me know.
Thanks for your short clips
You are very welcome, Truth.
I love this channel ❤️❤️❤️ thank you Dr Paul
Glad you enjoy it!
You are brilliant 🤩 Thank you
And blushing... Thanks for watching Ulrike - DrPaul
This video is great ! Thank you I would love to read your book ❤️
Razak Malekan is there any need to have the book I can introduce you to someone who can help you out
Thank you so much! You can get it on my website, www.drpauljenkins.com. The audio download is only $1.00US.
Thank You!🙏🏼
You are welcome.
You're freaking AWESOME!!!!!!
Thank you, 1631ss. RUclips viewers are great also.
Thank you very much for this information.
You are very welcome, Philip Pages. I am honored to be on your team - thanks for watching.
There are a few suggestions for saving your partnership
Try to communicate more
Help each other out more
Start to give and take more
(I learned these and why they work on Mirykal marriage plan site )
Awesome ...thank you
Hi Marwa Gad.
I love this video, thank you!!
Empress Jewelz, Glad you enjoyed the video.
I could listen to you all day 😀💕
What a nice compliment, Sarah Brennan. Thank you for being at Live On Purpose TV.
Live On Purpose TV 🙏🏻🌺🙏🏻
here's a few things for saving your marriage
Try to discuss more
Help each other out more
Try to give and take more
(I learned these and the reasons they work from Pavs Partner Pundit site )
here's several tips for saving your partnership
Try to communicate more
Help each other out more
Try to give and take more
(I discovered these and why they work from Pavs Partner Pundit site )
Marbe Lz.P hi .thankfully we don’t need it... my hubby is one in a million 🙏🏻💛... thanks anyway..
You are awesome!
Thank you and I love my subscribers.
This is fantastic advice
Thank you, honored to be on your team, Is a bell.
Amazing and that’s true 👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you for the thumbs up, Arixx Nexx. Thank you.
Some of us are in relationships where our spouses are only do the bare minimum or would rather spend four hours on her laptop at the end of the day and find something fun to do with their spouse. We have tried, I have tried, so much: reading books, watching these videos, trying to implement advice from Dr. Phil, sending videos to my husband and asking him to do activities with me to work on our marriage. If we disagree fundamentally as parents, he doesn’t see that there is a problem and I am so unhappy that I am slowly killing myself with bad behavior and other unhealthy Band-Aids. There are countless examples where I feel like my husband just does not get it. He does not seem to understand or want to really do the work. We watched the other video and he got excited about the 95, five example but when I mentioned the 25 gratitude list he said, “well I don’t know about that.“
Tiny steps. If he is willing to do something, go with that.
I am miserable in the meantime
Ok I have to say, I was was Me and my Daughter. She would have gone through all the steps, and Taken the loan and the got the car. But on the trip home from the bank I would have heard Hell Breaking Open and Pouring over me, because how could I do that to her, humiliating and embarrassing her in front of a loan officer, if i had the money. (I swear I can hear her saying this) She would not hear the facts about how it a plan to build Credit Scores, not only for her but for me as well just as you said.. Your Son sounds exceptional. Good JOb!
Thank you.
I love your optimism, Doctor coming from me who has been suffering from toxic positivism.
Kaye Nikkolle Uson, Toxic positivism, I like that.
I want to do this, but I'm thinking how daunting it is to think of 25/13 new things every day without repeating 😵💫.
Beth H, start small and brainstorm with someone if you can.
wow it's so great
Thank you.
Although I love these principles I don’t believe these would help with abusive relationships
Thank you for watching, Maria Callas, and I am sorry to hear that you are in an abusive relationship. Please remember that safety is a priority. If your spouse isn't willing to get some counseling to help him stop, consider a women's shelter or other safe place to live.
Can you do videos on positve co parenting?
Wendi Watson, do you mean in different households?
Love this
Excited for the days ahead of you, Jena Yeager.
You are one of a million
Thanks, Johaina BEN. My viewers mean a lot to me.
I have tried this practice for 30 days. Last weekend my wife finished cleaning out her things in our bedroom and completely moved into the guest room. She regularly leaves early for work and regularly comes home late. Most days she is gone for 12-14 hours a day. Many days pass and we don't even see each other. I can text her and may get a response back. Often times hours later. On the weekends she secludes her self to the guest room or leaves for hours without a word. Now what do you suggest???
Find the playlist and watch some of the videos on marriage we have there. There are getting to be quite a few. Can you leave her notes that you are thinking of her or put her favorite food in the fridge? Order takeout and ask if she would like some? Do small acts of service everyday.
I’m so happy that my ex husband is back to me👨👩👦👦
Lang Mary, I am happy for the both of you. Keep that communication open.
I wish i could ask you a question to get advice related to marriage, possible new topic for a new video...thank you foe your videos i have applied many of them with my kids and im doing better and so are they, thank you !
Katherine Quiros, you can submit ideas anytime and we will consider the topics for videos. If you want to connect you can schedule a Discovery Session or connect through Live On Purpose Central where I have Office Hours or Ask Dr. Paul A Question.
Well my question is how to fix a marriage during seperation? No longer living under the same household, how to rebuild the relationship? And seperated not for infidelity more like too many disagreements...
25 a day .. That's a lot! I'll try 😉
You can do it!
You're cool
Thanks, val.
I found a good Christian woman who shares my faith in the Lord.
We raised three wonderful children, one in a happy same sex long term relationship.
God bless.
I am happy for you, canadiankewldude. Thank you for being here at the channel.
What improves marriage is an understanding of male and female differences.
Stephanie P, thanks for sharing.
How do I fix the marriage when he thinks he never does anything wrong
Frankie Baker fb.therock, so frustrating. Get clear on what you control and what you don't. Start with yourself and model what kind of behavior you want to see from him. You will be able to influence him over time. Set up time to talk when there aren't any distractions and don't be on the attack, listen to what he says and don't react. You may need some professional help to do this. Get in touch with one of our client experience guides.
How can I reach out to you?
george nyenyezi, through info@drpauljenkins.com. My assistant will get it and forward or answer as needed.
I Truly am blessed with my husband. But ... You see... I cannot leave of that stupid : but.
Need to improve on shutting up sometimes about little stuff.
Hi Inge, we can all improve in some areas. As you speak more positively, you will notice a change.
Same
My husband keeps telling me that he has custody of his older son from previous Marriage... Every time i said one wrong thing to him we have been married now for 8 years and now he is telling me this all the time and im getting sick of hearing it i love my husband but he has changed since i told him everything is (will) is my step son and i have told him that i was sorry for blaming him on everything... Before all of This happened he used to let me help him and now he wont im stuck can you please tell me how i can be nicer about this situation
10 fish fisher, I am not sure I understand everything, it has been going on for a while. I can say that being nicer is a choice. Commit to that choice and as you are more humble, I bet there will be a change. It may take a while, they won't know what is happening, but keep it up.
Helloo Dr
Have u heard of Nikita Maggie Q determined strong will looks like 20s MASH ALLAH wish her the best in both worlds would sge do a valuabke movie about a muslim girl's struggle? Now that's bold nit anyone can go for it, nit any actress but maggie Q 👍can👍
I have not. Thanks.
That's exactly what Islam teaches. Amazing!
Good point, Ran Jam. Many of the principles I have found for relationships are included in many religions that are principle based. Principles are eternal and never change.
Ran Jam
Wow, that’s cool
Yeah it’s inbtwn the chapters on stoning gays and beheading Christians
@@JimmyCee123 which book are you reading bud?
My husband is a momma's boy.. and I can't stand my mother inlaw. my Husband is 43 years old and I'm 35 years old and I don't even call my mom and tell her what goes on in our marriage.. I think it's none of her what goes on in our marriage... I have told my husband that I feel like it is none of his mother's business.. he gets mad at a drop of the hat when I tell him that she had no right in the world to know what goes on in the house...
10 fish fisher, I hope you two can figure this out before it becomes a huge problem in your marriage.
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Thank you for watching.
How to deal with husabnd who is mama's boy and asks his mom for everything, even if he should sleep with the wife or not?
Cooking like a star, wow! Sounds like you have some decisions to make.
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Thank you for watching.
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But why you didn't give your son the money your own?
He wanted to establish his credit history.