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- Опубликовано: 21 дек 2014
- Watch our new trailer shortfilm!: • "Who are you?" trailer
Watch the Making of!: • Making a Gift
The Gift is the story of an ordinary couple, when he gives her a small sphere pulled out his chest, she can't separate herself from her new gift… even after they break up.
Prizes:
-Best Animation and Best in Event, Sound & Image Challenge 2014. Macau, China.
-Adult Jury Prize and Kid's Jury Prize, YoungAbout international film festival 2014. Bologna, Italy.
-Audience award, Innersound international new arts festival. Bucarest, Rumania.
-Best script, Curtmiratges festival, Barcelona, Spain. Finalist “Jury prize” y “Best music”.
-Best animated shortfilm. FECLAC 2013. Santiago, Chile.
-Best animated shortfilm. Mecal Chile 2013. Santiago, Chile.
-Mention animated shortfilm. Unframe festival 2013, La rioja, Argentina.
-Special mention. Libélula Fest 2013. Barcelona, Spain.
-Honorable mention. Fam Fest 2014. South Carolina, EEUU.
-Special Mention, V Festival de Cine: Infancia y Adolescencia “Ciudad de Bogotá” 2014, Bogotá, Colombia. 
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I dont know what i must say, but this so masterpice, like the other ppl said. I LOVE SO MUCH, REALLY MAKE ME CRY, THANK FOR MAKE THIS :)
nou...thank you
@@OurAnimatedBox You have done very high quality work. But why have you produced so little in 9 years?
Are you lacking inspiration? :D
I have a box I can give you. Do you want it?
Moral of the story: Don't give everything to someone just because you love them. But rather, give enough so that both of you can be happy.
Cookehs wish I learnt that sooner
Ive given evrythng .. now ?
Yeah...but those who give and those who take both doesnt realize this until its too late
How about 30.6% I put on the bank then the 20.4% I give to her
And then 40% I keep to myself?
9% ill sell to black market
Thank you man I really needed this
Moral of the story: Don't giveaway your internal organs unless they're willing to share
c marmurl
Ah se mamó.
Otherwise there will be a graft rejection
MatrixWolf exactly.
😒pahle kyon no bataya.😭
😂😂😂😂
Love is not giving all. Love is giving enough.
And no one has any fucking clue, how much is enough!!!
@@hardikjain1047 it's kinda sad because human beings are never contented
So for every girl "enough" is more than my "all" ://
that was soo deep.
but thankyou because it gave me a new prospective of thinking about my current relationship.
so Thanks.😀😀
You mean just thankful for wht you hv from relationship.
I don't know who's really at fault that leads to their break up. Aside from giving his whole heart to the girl and the girl didn't give him anything in return, he also looks at other women and he only thinks of himself (when he plays loud music and didn't pay attention to his girlfriend while she was dressing up). I dunno, I think both sides are at fault or maybe they're really not designed to each other. Especially when the boy gave his whole heart only at first sight! I think that's also the mistake there, commiting to someone even though you still don't know that person very well. And maybe that was also the reason why they started to fall apart because their likes and dislikes do not connect. /sighs;
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Your comment made me cry 😭
Or maybe because love is just an illusion or if you want to put it so, banally a series of neurochemical reactions that deceive and always disappoint us.
@@OurAnimatedBox honestly?
It seems I can relate 😭
Anyone else realize she never gave him anything in return..
Yeah I thought that was going to be the foucs but I guess not
That was absolutely the focus, the idea was that he gave the relationship his all but she never gave anything back so he’s left feeling empty and betrayed when all that effort was in vain
He did not give the relationship his all. Both subjects did things that were not healthy
Gearsparks oh yeah lol, you’re right
@@gearsparks no she didn't give SH!T. the SECOND GIRL SHARED THE FIRST GAVE NOTHING ALL ABOUT ME ME ME YOU WILL LOSE!!
Moral of the story: The second girl did the right thing..self love is equally important as love for others..
There is a saying don't keep all eggs in one basket..
Abhinav Raizada . Isn’t the point that one in three or one of the three has no soul/ spirit?
The Monte Phone hmmmmmm I really don't think so.
she is a narcissistic
SUN SHINE loving yourself isnt narssistic
The problem with the first girl was she had his heart yet she never gave her heart to him in return
7 years ago..... But still a masterpiece 🙂🙂
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@@OurAnimatedBox I really love this work of yours.
@@ffless gph.is/2qx6Dej
It's great work!
6 years later.. RUclips recommended something unique to me.. Blue round shaped heart! Great animation btw! 👍👍
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“This relationship is over!”
“Ok, that’s sad but could you at least give me back my organ.”
...
“No.”
When a heart breaks it dont break even.
Humane Garbage “I’m gonna sell it on the black market for hundreds.”
@Rosalee Schenk well heart is not even blue as well.. soo..
@Rosalee Schenk A muscle is an organ
Karen took your organ
Your heart is a gift. Be carful who you give it to.
To*
@@savetheearth4564 ??
@@savetheearth4564 nope its *Be**
*carful*
SO TRUE
Moral of the story: become a never-ending source of love, so regardless of how many times they take it away, you still have more for yourself and whoever else might deserve it.
Thanks agree on this healing line
This ^^
5th time watching in less than 24 hours. The gift is a gift 🙏🏻
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@@OurAnimatedBox Why do you always react like this ?? XD
@@bvllseye4068 gph.is/1pyMX2C
@@OurAnimatedBox perfectly understandable have a nice day 👍
@@OurAnimatedBox funny guy lol
Everyone is talking about the story but can we just take a moment to appreciate how smooth the animation is. It must has been incredibly hard to animate in these thin and thick lines
YEAH! I LOOOOVE the animation here!
I love the animation 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
just wait until u see some Steven Cuts animations 😳 they mad impressive
@fouzi fouka bruh stfu
Yeah I was thinking about that too!
Did everyone notice his nose became a smile after he hugged the second girl?
Edit: I’m aware it’s his nose. I just find it cute that it gives an illusion of a smile, to show his joy of finding someone who would share their joy with him.
yup and it was really sweet!!!! ^^
He nose she'll make him happy
Thanks
Sakura Nguyen I did
It didn't become a smile, it's an illusion of your brain creating what you expect to see
I love how everyone’s talking about how amazing this is, rightly so, but all I can think about is how the creators sneakily rickrolled us all right in the middle.
exactly. I was about to comment this lmao
OMG U NOTICED IT
Where
Timestamp?
@@OmerAsh 2:56
I felt that. This animations somehow reminds me the movie 500 Days of Summer.
ooh what kind of movie is it??
@@laisalabidvlog9890 romantic comedy movies
@@survivorbali6744 ooh ok thanks 😄😄
Yes exactly
Don't spend all your love on someone, keep some for yourself also.
It will heal you, if that goes in vain.
Love kya peshab hai kya be jo beech mein hi rok lo BC? Kuchh bhi chod faila rahe hain sab.
@@ItachiUchiha-nx2sw in simple words keep time for urself
Buityful creation 👌👍
I was trying to find a real lesson in this... that's a pretty one...
I kept it for myself and now I cannot reciprocate my love for my fiancee. All because of fear. Do not listen to fools like this! Share your love. There will be a person who will give theirs to you 💓
[My interpretation of this message]
I was confused at the end of this video as to why he let the girl walk away with his sphere until I read some of the comments and realized something.
The gift of the sphere represents this boyfriend's acclaimed love for her, and the reason it hurt when the girl here squished his sphere is that the sphere represents his "heart" also; it hurts when someone plays with your emotions. The boyfriend solely depended on her to represent his affections but did not recognize the responsibilities that come along with the relationship. However, the girlfriend only focused on the relationship, hence why she was so agitated whenever the boyfriend did not pay attention for any reason, and her squishing the sphere represented her expression of annoyance with her boyfriend, probably metaphorically passive-aggressively venting against him.
At the end, when the girlfriend broke up and took the sphere with her, that represented how the boyfriend cannot keep whatever was made with his now ex-girlfriend, such as that he gave his sphere to her out of affection. The man couldn't close the door because he was already attached to the relationship he had with his ex, which is what we call heartbreak.
The new girl that followed washing the man's jagged lines that surrounded him with her sphere represents her wanting to get to this man. Once she got to him, splitting her sphere in half represents a healthy balance of boundaries and responsibility between the two; a healthy relationship on both of their parts. This might apply to friendships as well. As for why the man was so grateful, I think it represents how a healthy relationship as mentioned before is much more fulfilling than a one-sided relationship.
Hope I explained well, let me know if you have any thoughts.
Dang!write a book!!! 📃
Well said I agree.
Woww 👏
I think the second girl could've also been interpreted as reaching out to the man with her heart, so with a genuine desire to communicate
Nobody notice that ok, the first girl was "joking with his heart", but he was an asshole tho, not giving her attention and etc...
I lost it when he started using her head as a mousepad! 3:02
इस कहानी से हमे ये जानकारी मिलती है.कि कभी भी अपनी पुरी खुशिया किसी को दान मत कर दो बल्कि आधी हमेशा अपने पास रखो ।
If you pour all your love into someone who doesn’t give you love back, all you’ll end up with is an empty cup.
@Unsung Songs might be also translated like this but each of us have sligtly different story so...
Unsung Songs Unsung Songs that’s a really sad view to have. it’s funny how everyone always expects the guy to have to give everything as if the girl is entitled by default without having to give anything in return. They were both shitty to each other. You can see that happening when neither pay attention to each other when trying out clothes. Love is a two way street. The guy gave her his heart but you notice the first girl never gave back anything.
Timmy Turner
MGTOW
@Unsung Songs it all started in 1:59 . When the boy started to notice everything.
@Unsung Songs the first girl didnt give him anything in return.
I feel the sphere was symbols for a heart. Normally your first relationship you give away your heart entirely which leaves you empty after they break up with you. That's how I see it anyway
That's exactly what it means I relate to that completely.
Right because later on you carefully give part of your heart away just in case. But your first love always takes the love you had at first.
Sad thing, huh?
You are absolutely right. Wise words.
I didn't feel that
The same video I watched at the beginning of this year, memories flash back tonight..
💞
Moral of the story : love is about giving not receiving
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No matter how much you "love" the other person, always keep some love for yourself!
Totally true.
NEVER
yup
True🙌🙌
Guys with low self esteem: nah
A better story would be that after the breakup, he found himself, and loved himself, grew a new heart, and only then he meet the new girl. Gives half of his heart to her in exchange for half of her heart from her. Together they each have a full heart. Thats the kind of interdependence and balanced love story we want.
Yessss!!
Your so right!!!
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
We want!!! It's only you and few.
It's much more better like this in my opinion. This animation tells us not to give our heart to anyone and let them control us and whenever they get bored they just go and take it away. But we should wait for the right person to come and share love from both sides
@@os.a.m.a agree, otherwise its literally an endless cycle of heart break.
Moral of the story: You can't love someone if you don't love yourself.
B R U H
Finally, i learned that my heart is not a heart, but a ball.
I am now establishing the BALL-Heart Society
Excuse me, you guys still accepting members?
Ha ha ha ha
Mr ball legs
The soul is represented by a ball. He gave her his soul. The soul is a reservoir of energy for the whole human being. Love fills the soul. The heart is a pump that receives impulses , good or bad. I feel this is so important ! I wish I knew these when I fell in love. Be yourself, always.
Ball is life.
Love is both give and take. Both sides need to be equal.
that's so true the girl with short hair only fell in love with the man because he gave her a gift she's mad ungrateful
She didn't even treasure it
isnt that a business transaction?
"Adequate" is more suitable for both sides. Somewhere between "you can give" and "you want to give".
two way street
I love it how this was made 6 years ago and yet holds as the deepest memory in ones life.
I think it's not the first girl,or the boy fault, they just don't work out, and the second girl... Uhhh I LOVE HER, she's a healer but also know that if she wants to love someone, she has to love herself, as someone who learn how to make an animation lately, I really appreciate your work, it's so beautiful and understandable, I love the background music, and sorry for my bad English. Stay healthy everyone!!
Your English is so great
Depression: darkens guys world
Second girl: imma bout to end this man's depression
You mean “I’m about to end”
Id pay money for that kind of girl
@@jones7628 shut up Boomer
Should be renamed "A Soyboy's fantasy of a woman actually loving him"
goat in a toat that’s called human trafficking
If he had looked deeper inside himself, he would have discovered another sphere...and another...and another. No one ever runs out. They only think they do. :)
Agreed
@KW-1000 yes!
Love that
You missed the point entirely. It's not about what he could have done. It's about what happened.
@@davinderc well yes, we know. They're just branching off that idea
i have always respected animators
This is really strange. I was just dumped after a relationship that was a lot like this, so I could relate to this a fair bit. The ending made me happy, for my next relationship I'll make sure to care more for myself i think.
Same story here...dumped 3 days ago after a 2 years and a half relationship, she wasn't happy anymore and I made the mistake of giving her all of myself... This video gives me hope and at the same time teaches me a lesson
To all those who are saying he is to blame for the end of their relationship as well:
He gave her everything he had making himself vulnerable and with nothing to hold on and to take care of, that explains why he lost interest in doing things with her, he had nothing to take care of, she didn't put any effort into the relationship, what do you expect from him to do if the other part is not putting effort into what they share, she was selfish, she took what's his without giving anything back. This guy deserves better and he got it.
This comment needs more likes
I feel that in situations like this, no one is to blame. No one is perfect and picking the exact partner perfectly right for you the first time round, is next to unheard of. Neither one is necessarily a bad person nor did either commit some sort of crime but simply misunderstood their own needs, their own desires. Love has a learning curve.
The first girl literally PLAYED with his heart the entire time
That's the exact description of my Ex.
Women always like that think of herself happeniss
“Last Christmas, I gave you my soul,”
Cinnamon Roller underrated
But the very next day you took it away...
"Last Christmas, I gave you my ball,"
George Michael
A H ballunderated
As someone who's currently hoping to find the love of my life and cherish her for the rest of my days, this is a great visual message.
These partnerships come with responsibilities. Both members must give something to each other to maintain that healthy bond. When one side only takes from the other without giving anything in return, it's bound to end in disaster.
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Sooo Deeep ❤️❤️
Never love someone so much, that you forget to love yourself first ❤️❤️❤️
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I wish they used a slightly different visual metaphor at the end, one where the guy discovered he could grow a new blue ball thing of his own to give to the girl even as she gave him hers. That would convey a healthier dynamic, one where they're both self-sufficient in their love, instead of both of them sharing her heart, which kinda reads as dependency.
Morgan Rawlinson or he could subtly take his old blue ball back from the first girl
She can...have an idea? An opinion? It's allowed.
Well said
Where there is relationship there is dependence. Even in the society we are dependent upon each other. If the girl would have truely dependent upon the boy she would have accepted him as a whole with all the faults. We accept our parents in our childhood as they are until (fake) independence hit us. Hope you will understand. Peace.
@@gargapurv rude
Moral : First love yourself before loving anyone else.
It onr of the right moral, comments of all!🙏
Or how say in bible:
Возлюби ближнего как самого себя!
And also: there's always gonna be someone that's right for you.
But at this point I don't think that's any time soon for me
Yes
Beautiful comments
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This is so beautiful! All being said only through action and simple line forms. Shows how much it's about the narrative not only the technical parts. love it
This is exactly what i missed..the best explanation of relationship without saying a word ...great ❤️ 🥺🥺
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...is there nobody who's gonna mention the Never Gonna Give You Up soundtrack at 2:56 ?
Finally someone noticed :D
I didn't even notice until I read this!
*God damn it.*
I just got rickrolled by an animation Bruh
Finally a notice
At 1:47, notice how she figured out bouncing his sphere on the ground hurts him on the inside. She pretended to throw it, and then laughing at his expense as if it's funny. I think this represents how she's playing with his emotions for her own entertainment (while disregarding that it's damaging to him) and making it seem like it was no big deal. The guy thought it was a big deal (He showed a clear sign he was hurting, averted his eyes when he thought she was gonna throw it, and was giving a hesitant laugh afterwards). But he still stuck with her because he wanted to give the relationship his all and to keep her happy, even though he saw what kind of person she is. It's sad when you think about it because some relationships are like this in real life...
give her all but not keeping her happy. he failed at it
@@isakmustafa9704 ignorance , and turning towards other girls , it isn't justified .
@princess said - he wanted to give her all to keep relationship .. that's where i can't agree
@@isakmustafa9704 😂ha ha 17
@@isakmustafa9704 😂mAy be .
@@isakmustafa9704 ohh 😵 okay 😅.. i wasn't justifying girl , but boy was also not right , i agree to that experince thing 😁.whatever ,let's drop it 😅
Its has been 5 years since i watched this animation and now i remember it again the beauty of this animation without speaking a single word they told many stories i seriously in love with this animation one of the most beautiful animation i have ever seen in my life thank you and i will be visiting this masterpiece again.... and again
I just saw one of your videos with the title Who are you and it made me curious to watch another one and I got this and I was so touched.... because this is simply brilliant, managing to touch without words.... it means that this is the best way to understand humans in any language. Wow!!!!! Big Wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
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That’s the quickest rebound girlfriend in history.
to be fair the other relationship ended in like 4 minutes.
😆😆😆
@Taco048 👍
It’s about givers n takers if u understand. Which one are u ?
@@anjelab04 wot
“Let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.”
― Khalil Gibran
Nicely written
Oh...wow
How I love Gibran!
It was like seeing an old friend... thank you and a very wonderful New Year to you. May love be all you do since it's all you are! 💖💕🌞
The Prophet - my favorite book of all time. :-)
Prakhar Srivastava O
After loving your parents, your siblings, your spouse, your children, and your friends, the most important thing is that you should have now started loving yourself
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Love others and love yourself as well.
That 1st girl must've been like at the end: "I knew he was cheating on me with that girl at the park."
Puhlease he didn't cheat maybe if she wasn't a selfish me me me she wouldn't have been ALONE herself
Black MEGriffin r/woooosh
@@stayfrosty6290 you are the r/whoosh here
He didn't cheat, but the 1st girl seeing him with the girl in the park afterwards would assume it had been going on the whole time. So UR /woooooosh.
@Vixey Teh The fucking joke was that the girl thought he cheated on her, not that _WE_ fucking thought he cheated on her. We obviously know he didn't cheat on her because then thete would be a whole scene of her catching him in the act. Why don't you reconsider reading the original comment?
Maybe I’m reading too much into it but-
He gave her his heart.
She didn’t give him hers.
Some people love too easily, and tell themselves that they’re loved in return, even though they aren’t.
Other people don’t love who they’re with, they just love being loved.
If you aren’t receiving the love you need you’ll begin to disconnect, even if you don’t realise it.
If you love being loved, but don’t return it, when their love fades, you’ll be out the door without a thought for the pain you cause.
You read into it perfectly 👍
Change your apartment, change the world!
"Some people love too easily, and tell themselves that they’re loved in return, even though they aren’t.
Other people don’t love who they’re with, they just love being loved."
Seriously, out of all the comments in here, yours are what represents the video the most.
Plain and simple.
ok but near the end the guy loved her but he was no longer giving her attention like he thought he had gotten past the stage of gaining her affection and thought he didn't have to put in any more effort while she was still actively seeking out his attention
Life isn't about giving, life is about share. Perfect animation.
Moral of the story don't give anyone your ball cus you need that stuff
XDDD LOL
Yeah never go balls deep that would hurt!!
@@traftras1687 wisely spoken young man... Or old or... Moderately aged man or... Wo... Man anyway, nothing means anything and we're all going to die.
A Very Dangerous Potato 🥔
This comment, right here is the best comment on this video
This story seemed like what my professor discussed. When you get into a relationship without knowing yourself wholly you will most likely give yourself to others. When break-ups come, you cannot take back that piece that you have given because, before you even knew yourself, your relationship was what has given you a temporary identity. Thus if the relationship is gone, you fall into an identity-crisis. What the guy went through didn’t seem like a normal heart-break. He built barriers and was shaking all over, looking scared.
Enigma Sunder, no one knows themselves fully. Life is complex and so are relationships. People grow, change, get closer, move apart. Neither of them had enough maturity. The second woman was more mature, she allowed for the imperfections and unknowns, she even helped him out of his fear. She was able to lead in a healthy way and thereby make the relationship work well enough, even though this guy still fell asleep on her - she accepted his minor flaws and stayed with him.
謝謝！
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@@OurAnimatedBox ?
How much is 500 yen
@@samesaiwan9880 I believe it has the value of around 5 USD
Even in 2021, its still amazing. its endlessly heartwarming
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the first girl didn't want his heart...she never really accepted it. So then when he "settled", he got used to not feeling fulfilled. She started noticing this. she started losing her control over the situation...THAT'S when the "problem" started. She left him and wanted to get the last laugh...so she took his heart. It wasn't her that he missed. It was his temporary feeling of feeling "fulfilled". Then a woman who felt it was worth it came along and put in work to break down the walls. The love she gave was equally yoked and it was actually HER he loved, not "love" itself.....Equal understanding. Love this.
LiquidGoldSoul it was never like that at least in my perception.
Liquid you just complicated it
Liquid,
Kudos!
Nobody draw attention to the beginning of the video . They drawed a guy fast , but drawing a girl took a while... three attepts marking lines.
Why artist make girl line more attractive at third attept ?
To me first girl was his lesson , to not fellow lonelyness( thats why he gave his gift too fast ) and looking after attractive person.
In the beginning its always fun , but important things- little things and things you both like, make your relation fulfilled.
LiquidGoldSoul no
Plot twist: that girl returned with different hair style :D
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2:21 the guy talking on the tv is an argentinian football guy, finally my languaje works for something. :D
I really love the synchronization of the sound effect, beautiful, menacing, and perfect
Who else watched the very end? 😂😂
The snoring
😂😂😂👌
Lauren bruno I did ,after you said so
Haha I did
I was lost in comment section
wait what I can't hear it
The fact that even after she leaves him, she still doesn't give him back his heart - like, that's the definition of selfishness and cruelty. She ended the relationship because she grew to be unhappy, yet instead of leaving him to his own self-reflection and personal growth, and letting things be and focusing on healing and bettering herself, she wants him to suffer because _she_ suffers.
I disagree I don't think that she was trying to make him suffer. if the blue ball represents his love for her then she can't really give it back because, he still loves her. the moral of the story is that you shouldn't give too much of yourself to another person and you need to keep some love for yourself. and it isn't selfish to leave a relationship because you aren't happy.
@@jillianrobinette371 The blue ball (the heart) for me represents his personality and every good, genuine part of himself that he gave in the relationship so, including his love for her, yes. When she ends things with him though - even though he's sad about it - you can see that he asks for it back. She _chooses_ not to give it back to him because if you notice, when she turns around to leave and he stops her, she seems appalled that he'd ask for it back and her expression also changes to annoyance when he reaches for it.
She takes it because she realizes that it's the only thing that can keep him together (as we can see the way he falls apart when he doesn't have it anymore), because it contains all the good and genuine parts of him that he gave her which are what satisfied her through the relationship before it went downhill, and she's selfish enough to not want him to have it because she wants him to experience what she did meaning sad, lost, frustrated, _suffering_ so no, she doesn't take it with her because it's tied to her through some deep, long lasting feelings he has for her still, she takes it because she _wants_ to take it because of her own selfish reasons.
Yes, exactly that's the moral of the story. He gave her everything and in the end he was left with nothing because by being the who gave her everything, he taught her that it's okay to not give him anything in return - hence why she felt entitled to take the blue ball with her.
I never said it's selfish to leave a relationship if you're unhappy, I meant the way she acted when she decided to end the relationship was pretty selfish. She wasn't happy with him anymore fine, she broke up with him but why she gotta do that? When a relationship ends - even on bad terms - you just want to say your piece, collect your things, hold your head high and go. You try to pick up little pieces of yourself day by day and you focus on making peace with what happened, move on and keep growing to become the best version of yourself, you don't channel your energy into punishing the other person and wasting your time by actively getting involved in their post break up journey.
By refusing to give him his blue ball back she dictates how he's going to deal with the break up and by dictating how he's going to deal with the break up, she chooses not to focus on herself and torturing him like, that's so unhealthy.
Anyhow, I wasn't trying to offend you or be rude in any way, this is just my opinion and I had a lot to say - boy this is a long ass reply lol sorry for the essay, I always rant about things that have no real effect in my life whatsoever 😂
@@jisookomblackpinkkru256 hahahaha ha
@@jisookomblackpinkkru256 I like last four lines of your reply. Hahaha
@@jillianrobinette371 But she let this happen, she waited until she was at her breaking point to snap. Instead of sorting out the problems rationally sooner, she let it press on until she could not take it. Ultimately, she is also responsible for harm caused to her.
So I agree with you but uh... *she's a beach.*
I've been on both the giving and receiving side of that kind of love. Once, with my first love, I was the sole giver and got my heart broken. The other, someone gave me their whole heart without even knowing me at all.
Both situations are shit.
Obviously the first is the most shit, for sure, but it's not nice either to have someone who barely knows you throw themself at you without time to build up trust and reciprocating feelings. It feels like a bombardment and a pressure.
So, I dont really think either animated person is in the right or the wrong here.
It is funny how angry some commenters are getting at that first animated woman. There isnt one person in a relationship, it takes two to tango.
I think the best moral here would be, take your time to get to know someone before you give them your heart. Make sure they're worth it.
A beautiful job, even seeing it again after many years is the same great emotion. A great lesson
I love the imagery and how you can see even in the beginning, she never touches him or holds onto him. She’s constantly holding onto his heart and even using it against him or laughing at his pain.
She was playing with his heart! The ball represents the heart, it’s like a ball, something you can play with or keep with care.
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DM lol stfu
I think the ball represents love. He gave her all his love but kept none for himself, like the second girl did.
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@@Kid98. Einstein*
Wow, I think the interaction with the video has improved from when I saw the video like 2 years ago. Kudos guys
The timing is when two people are done looking and are equally yoked!
I love how it shows both sides of the relationship and how they both didn’t want the same things nor cared for each other in the ways they needed.
this is why you dont go into a relationship without fully getting to know the person first
2:56 Anybody else hear "Never Gonna Give You Up" in the background
Yup
Me to
Mee
yep
yes it really is it
What's worse is that when she decides to go, he wants to give his heart even more.
Glad that doesn't happen in the video.
It's so weird because for so long I have viewed love almost exactly like this. It got creepier and creepier to see how accurate this video was to what I view. Loved it :)
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Successful relationship needs loving, caring and sharing from both the sides just like holding half heart each...
Thutan Tenzin nope not how it works dickhead
ZwebackHD elaborate some more dickweed
@@zwebackhd2068 Try to see the world through the lens of love, kindness and compassion, not through the mindset of dickhead then you can understand my words..Hope u understand now...
@@zwebackhd2068 damn not replying, okay then
your right, the guy gave all he had to her while she didnt give anything in return
The point is simple, he gave his whole heart/love and trust, not keeping a healthy half for himself. No one respects that, and ultimately, the relationship will fail. Healthy boundaries.
I used to believe in the moral that this story is trying to depict. But as I move along life, I realized that the "blue ball" they showed in the animation has always been within us. I think that's a symbol for contentment and happiness that we always look from other people or things instead of focusing on our own. This sounds self-centered. However, being capable of nourishing this "blue ball" inside us ourselves through experience, relationships and other things that we value would make it grow huge enough for us not to ask for other people's "blue ball". And in return, allowing ours to radiate and be the source of growth and nourishment.
This really touched my heart. Love and relationship involves sharing and caring for each other. Selfish people do not deserve affection.
no, they really don't
I've been on both sides of the first relationship. Most of my relationships I was the female where I didn't open up to the other person while they did. I definitely was selfish, demanding and disapproving of things that they did, and I just never really got as attached to them as they did to me. When things started getting serious I would break things off. Recently I got out of a relationship where I was like the guy, I opened my heart to someone and shared my emotions. Sadly, they broke things off as they told me that they weren't fully over their ex. I felt used and worthless because another person had more influence over that relationship than I did.
I've learnt valuable lessons from all of my relationships that I think will make my future relationships more successful. I don't think that either the girl or the guy in the video are at fault, I just think that they were inexperienced and expected things to always be happy and positive, whereas in reality life is full of ups and downs. It is important to love yourself before you love others otherwise chances are you'll get used and hurt. This video really resonated with me, really amazing.
I know it's probably too much to ask but I wish I could consult you because I'm currently going through ups and down in a first real relationship too. I want to make it last and make it worthwhile, but... There's still a lot that I need to know. Is it alright to ask for some guidance on some specific situations?
Karma is a bitch only if u were so.
Great comment. Yes, that's life, we always learn and become better, even, or mostly, in painful ways... Take care!
OMG I FEEEEL ive been going thru exactly the same! After failing 2 relationships i finally realized and questioned myself why i kept looking for the right one instead of pause and try to be the better person. Like, be the one, instead of seeking for the right one! I do believe the universe will adjust and do it’s magic, someone will always come up
Emilee Watson Seems Like you figured it out. :)
I find it amazing how so many emotions are shown through some lines, sound effects and music. This animation is truly stunning
If two people love each other, their hearts will be one. Then,despite life's difficulties ,life will never break them.
No one can take or break your heart. Our expectations of what love 'should' be is the only thing that separates us from a connection to our ever present heart.
Thank you to the Creator of this film. That's how I feel going through this divorce & how I felt about my wife. Cried watching this but it was beautiful.
Some people seem to say the moral was “don’t give everything to your partner, save some love for yourself.” But guys, even though finding in yourself to love who you are is extremely important in life, this was about relationships. The point is up to the viewer, but I think the message was more like “if you give yourself in full, with all your love to someone who will use that and never give anything in return only seeking more and more to take from you, you will be left without anything in you when that person isn’t satisfied anymore. A relationship, and the gift of your heart, is for mutual benefit. Both take and receive. To beat with one heart in each other, not held and abused.” Or something like that. To think that relationships is about reserving some of our own love and never giving everything is just not true. A true relationship is built on mutual respect and open honesty, bound by love and faithfulness (trust). That’s what I got out of this beautifully designed short film. 💙
Coming back to this once in a while when I'm bored. This channel is The Gift for the viewers!
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What a depiction! Seriously! This is astonishing! ❤️
When your boyfriend sends you this you KNOW there's something up
I’m unoriginal And a wreck Unless he’s saying you’re the 2nd woman that came along, or just wanted to show you something beautiful
Was something up?
failed
Or you're purposely trying to see the negative view
@@hawke7471 both for me
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Oh stop it you!
@@OurAnimatedBox 😂 yah but what's wrong she said..?🤔😂
this short film speaks to me. It's because it's more or less what happened to me with my first relationship. Fortunately, it ends quite the same, as I am now in a happy relationship with my new girlfriend. And she is a lot more thoughtful and caring.
For those who struggle to find love, especially after a break up, don't lose hope. Because as this short has shown, there are people who will cherish your gift, and share it with you.
Gives one hope! :')
You're lucky to find you love but for me it never happened my mother made sure that nothing good comes out of my life
She was literally toying with his heart..
I agree :)
@Amira Datumanong how so? I understand he was being careless but he DID care.
@Amira Datumanong hm. Thats... true.
Especially at 1:47.
She was a bitch in short i would say.🤣
The wisdom of sharing love vs sacrifice of the self, very well done animation, thank you very much, a delight for my soul
Great video! Can't wait for anothe one! 😊
I revisit this short every year, just to remind myself of what it means to love someone so selflessly, and what it could lead to.
Exactly!!
same, over the yrs since 2019 I understand things more deeper than the first time i ever watched this video
Indeed
I feel like the girl should of just talked to him instead of just yelling
Like
"Hey babe, I need to talk to you about something"
"Oh sure what is it"
" I feel. Kinda mad about some of the things you do"
"Oh really how?"
" In the store. I payed attention to you but when I wanted to show you my dress u were looking a bug and I once saw you looking at another woman. And at the icecream shop you were paying attention to your friends instead of me. Why did you even take me on a date if you were going to talk to others for the whole time. And at night instead of sleeping you watch videos on RUclips at a volume that keeps me up at night. I don't like that"
" Oh I'm so sorry babe. I never knew I was hurting you. Thanks for telling me I love you"
" I love you too baby"
Communication in a relationship is extremely important but instead of telling him she just bottled it up inside making it turn into a grudge which then made her have an outburst of anger and breaking up with him.
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I agree. I think she was selfish, and he was clueless. She did not see how she was hurting him, but he treated her actions like a duck with water.
I agree, but I think that's the gist of the video. That didn't happen, because it wasn't going to. Thus leading him to better results..
"I saw you looking at another woman"
Oh yes... Am I some kind of robot without instincts? Don't you know what these testicles are for?
Alr damn we get it. Really had to make a whole damn conversation
@@Ashley-fd7cj Not rape. Any man look at other women.
i must say this is really a masterpiece, great job dude
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This is a true treasure in disguise. Don’t ever be with someone who doesn’t appreciate you. This appears to be from her perspective. Initially she loved him but once she started comparing what he did to other relationships she started wanting more from him. She didn’t appreciate what he did if it wasn’t good enough for her. It seems they weren’t meant to be. Idk who needed to hear that but there it is.
Love is not a one-time gift at first sight. It’s to give consistently, every day.
You are right but it's just an animation so it's okay
Yeah😭 that’s i would say!👏🏼👏🏼