Is Self-Help Stopping Your Growth?! - Kyle Cease
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- I’ve read this author, then I watched this speaker, then I did the work with this other speaker and I’m still having the same issue!
Self Help is very important when it comes to learning more about our own awakenings. But at one point self-help can be a distraction from you listening to the more important voice… you.
You have energies inside of your body that need to be heard, and it can be possible to use the excitement from self-help content as a way to distract your mind from the true transformation that’s trying to happen for you.
This video is designed as a reminder to make yourself first. Making your inner child, your soul, god first over any external content. This call is designed to move you from observing the gym for years to finally working out.
This is your next level. Enjoy.
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You totally nailed it Kyle! In 1971 I was 15 years old and came across a book called "Teachings of the Masters of the Far East". Something told me , This is Truth. Started going to yoga classes at 16, when I could drive. Went on through the years sitting with so many masters and teachers, meditation retreats, Tony Robbins firewalk. I could go on and on with all the stuff I have done, read and studied. Just turned 67 and have to say, its really all so simple. I have no regrets about everything I've done, it was actually quite fun and entertaining. Please watch the clip from wizard of Oz where Glinda says "Youve had the power all along my dear". Total enlightenment!
yes can relate it has been fun. like kung fu panda the answer is in the mirror
I definitely learned my lesson in 2021. I paid a woman to be my spiritual mentor and she stole my money and gave me nothing for it. I was so lost after my miscarriage and a whirlwind of misfortunes. But the universe slapped me awake and told me I don’t need ANYONE to tell me how to live my life. Nobody is going to enlighten you.
You are the one that has to take the reins and “become the star in the movie of your life”
What she did was wrong, but obviously it woke you up, well done !
I'm so sorry that happened to you. My miscarriage actually led to a powerful conversation with my body about trust and power. Wishing you peace and joy in your healing.
Horrifying to hear, who could do that to someone recently bereaved, but so well done for learning from it, all the very best to you.
Ironically, the spiritual mentor worked! Worth every penny!
Blessings to you and your awakening 🙏. I hear and see this nearly every day in the spiritual field. The answers are always within us, or accessible to us. ❤️
I just came back from a very emotional walk (left my phone at home). I am totally desperate because I don’t know what’s right or wrong anymore. I asked god for a sign. I came home checked my phone, got a notification and there you are, my sign. Thank you! ✨I needed to hear this.
Hey, I was touched by your vulnerability and wanted to say to you: you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be - THAT is the evolution in you! Hang in. That energy moves and there’s more of you as a result.❤
@@madisonchristine2848 and @Alena , you are your sign btw….. you create it all
bless you bless you hang in there, everybody's feeling nuts at the moment, you're a member of the human race and you are not alone!
Yes I feel exactly the same - feeling so lost & confused - I followed my heart and recently when towards what made me feel terror out of what felt like lack of a better option - I feel broken & like I lost my guidance system
@@madisonchristine2848 thank you so much❤ but I start thinking there is seriously something wrong with me and my head. No joke. Like I start thinking I’m seriously ill. This can’t be normal. Maybe I am loosing my mind? I don’t fckin know anymore..:(
"You are not an extra in someone else's film. You are the star in your own life." Faye Dunaway So true about the self help, Kyle!! We can read and watch forever, but nothing will happen until we do the work for ourselves!
I quit drinking 12 years ago. I joined an online support group out of the UK. I remember a girl saying that she heard we are to move “inwards”. That really struck a cord with me. My journey “inwards” began that day. It took me to hell and back. It was Extremely difficult.
And how does one go “inwards”?
@@skiphopflipflopdripdrop learn about the chakras. Imagine yourself inside your body by using the chakras. Learn about “soul retrieval “. These were some of the methods.
I hear you Kyle. I was addicted to self-help growth up until I felt confused and overwhelmed with the knowledge. Without processing my emotions and feel to truly heal. Release the old story, reframe my mindset, reconnect with inner child and connect with God.
Ahhh!! It took forever to finally be present, safe, and healthy in my mind, body, and spirit.
Being triggered these days is a welcome gift for me because I’m an adult who can protect my inner child when she’s scared or when the old patterns kicks in.
Just BEing present and reconnect with my feminine Self.
My willingness to transcend all the trauma in my body is a blessing. Doing the work by looking within.
Infinite Blessings ❤
I heard a great saying yesterday. "It ran in my family until it ran into ME"
thank you!
Wdym
Ken Wapnick wrote a beautiful piece re: ACIM. Basically he said reading it is great but it means nothing if you don't put the book down and LIVE it...!
And there is goodness and joy in the body when we will receive it. 🤩🙏❤️😊
Came to this realization about a month ago. I had reached a point when no matter who or what I was reading or listening to said the same things. I am done with my studies. It is time to practice. That is the key for me.
100000% My pattern was….get triggered, find a ‘self-help’ video for validation of why I feel that way, and then nothing. I have only just recently realised I’ve been in that loop and that’s why I’ve felt stuck ❤
Wow Kyle - you are so tapped in lately. This has been made aware in my life. I am hearing you giving my ego permission to let go and let God. This is so liberating.
I walk in neighborhood around me and get nostalgia for my younger years & childhood. It makes me long for it and it hurts.
It’s crazy.
I AM the operant power! There is no power outside of me working against me. I love how life will bring up triggers to reveal the stuckness in my soul. Recently I am confronted with a new opportunity to do my skill (interventional pain anesthesiologist) after taking 6 months off to evaluate that trumped up identity , lol, I said I quit and walked away. That was empowering considering I never had the guts to say I quit. Now I manifest this new opportunity and fear and doubt come up, (maybe I should just stay retired and not take any risks and live off retirement) as usual, but now I see that it’s MY fear and doubt of not being enough. It’s not the other doctor hiring me, it’s ME!!!! The last time I worked for someone, I blamed her for everything that went wrong. But I learned and now I can go forward in life, unafraid, free to experience new opportunities apart from outcome, and actually co create the experience I want to have. OMG, I’m so excited to finally realize I AM creating all of this!!!!! By the way, long walks with the dog have been the most relevant parts of my sabbatical, not the trip around the world, or any of the other bucket list items I checked off, although those were instrumental in me allowing myself permission to enjoy my life on my terms. Thanks Kyle for pointing me inward
Excellent! I tell my friends that when they feel triggered by something or someone, “that is your cue to go within and see what is inside that relates to that pain.”
I Come forth in surrender to allow the Holy Spirit to guide and Direct me on my journey. Thank You Kyle for your uplifting words. AMEN LOVE AND LIGHT GUIDE ME TO YOUR DEVINE PRESENCE FULFILL YOUR WILL IN MY LIFE.
beautiful reply
Its crazy what this man has done. He went to the wilderness and manufactured the camera, lights, mic, couch, etc. with his bare hands. No one has ever given him money in exchange for services. He has never used money ever. He didn’t even have parents.
He just showed up how of thin air and as a baby just created everything without anyone ever do anything else.
You are a gift Kyle 🙏 Thank you for this. Looking for help is probably my biggest distraction. I've spent a better part of today ( and a lot of other days) 'looking', adding to playlists that I never go back and actually watch. And when I do watch, I take some notes and then just move on to the next one, never actually using what I've learned. Always looking outside because I've been afraid to look inside. Hoping my subconscious will magically fix everything. This video is a game changer for me. Here's to actually doing the work. Much love & gratitude 💙
I really resonate with message. It is time to trust in self and allow the self to guide and lead. Speaking as someone, who has trusted in self-help industry more than in myself. It is finally turning for me. ❤️
love the gym analogy! Absolutely I don't want to be an extra in the movie of my life. I won't.
This hits so perfectly right now.
'Even if you don't feel anything, can you trust that it's doing its work' that is so comforting for when it stays quiet during meditation 🙏 Thank you Kyle! Btw love your urgh' s 😅
“Listen to source more than self help.”-Kyle Cease thank you for this video and topic
Kyle I NEEDED to hear this thank you! I've been absorbed in content so much that it has definitely become a distraction to what I need to hear within myself. THANK YOU!
A while back I started noticing a pattern in me that was just this. I was consuming consuming consuming content. A lot of it incredibly wise, incredibly powerful gems of insight. And then I would just keep consuming and barely give myself time to process or digest the insights. I wasn’t taking what I was receiving and alchemizing it into action in my life, or into my own gems… I was just taking it in and letting it rot away. I found myself getting annoyed with the very people who resonated so much, because I was robotically putting on a video or a talk and moving to the next. It was tricky to notice, because on surface level it looked and felt like I was “bettering myself.” So…I took a break, started tuning into my own resonance much more often, and remembered what my own energy felt like, aside from outside voices. now I take content in very intentionally. I check in with myself to see if I truly WANT to listen or engage, and then if I do-I take more time to process it, and apply it to my own life in action when needed. Feels so much better.
I used to just listen to so many speakers thinking I was helping myself. AEP has helped me to start actually doing the work 🤠🦋💫
So true - starting the journey every day - sometimes failing - but trying again to know this truth.
That’s what I have been doing this past year, staying in my apartment, listening to my body, releasing the pain, immense anger, shame, guilt, crying it all out. My body aches. I can’t listen to anyone anymore. I know my power.
Thanks Kyle, was on the same page today with the heart listening, didn't realize how long and how much was pushed down, got notice to quit from my house, fear of not knowing where, how I can afford to live, dependent on socal housing, had a melt down, completly surrendered. It's good to realize who's in charge. Nothings changed but being still is getting me out of the way and letting the way unfold not so much about all the above but a peace above everything.
Thanks for this Kyle.🕯🙏
What a timing! When I was waking up, I looked up at different content to understand what’s going on. But now! My intuition is telling me over and over again! It is time to trust what’s coming from me, feel it and feel all of it.. See and hear can go sudden extant but feeling in your body is multidimensional aspect of us!
Yes to all of this! I don’t allow people to vent to me anymore. I show them quantum physics and I leave their power in their hands. Of course it’s scary to know you are in full control but It’s up to you to change.
I just joined Kyles absolutely everything pass in the last day of December and it has changed my life. I have been doing spiritual work since the mid 80s after I lost 10 men I knew to AIDS. I knew there was something else out there to learn and be aware of. This work is very grounded, helpful, and loving. I recommend it highly to anyone with anxiety or depression or any other pattern that’s trying to awaken you. It’s hard, really hard. But it’s so worth it.
I also wanted to add that it is very practical and does point you back to yourself for the answers not at any external source. Well worth the investment.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. I am so excited for the new me. God and me together. Surrendering Thank you. xxx
Happy FEB to all with new realization, healing,inner work and inner power 🕉️
Go within, or go without ❤️
Thank you Kyle… your audience is much larger than mine and YES YES YES… inside is the answer… discernment with others … but I have been aware of the need to go in and watching the world go everywhere but❤
This is SUCH an important reminder and should be propagated by every spiritual teacher or coach at least once a month 🤣 To remind us to still be our own authority and not worship someone outside of ourselves. Thank you, my Master Kyle 😅 Just kidding. Love your impulses, always!! Greetings from Germany.
I'm currently trying to figure out how to function in a human world after transcending. I have no concept of time, just now. I feel emotions but not in the human sense. Time, words,enotions. Most anything that is a human construct I no longer understand. I hope I make sense.
Wow, great message and the perfect moment for me. Thank you so much, you have been a light during a very dark time for me.
All the books are gone. Can't read them anymore. Self help is an industry...l. no longer can relate. One with my inner God has been more home than externals ever gave me. Ireland
For a couple of weeks now, I've been present within my body, thoughts silenced (even the ones explaining "this is anger" "I feel sadness now" "this is me experiencing my body" etc 😁 those are still thoughts) as much as I can... and indeed, most of those sensations are unexplainable. I'm just there.
And everything happens by itself.
I don't give a sh*t anymore what "technique" is that or is this "shadowwork" or not.
It's all needed.
But being within yourself.... Nothing can come close to that.
Thank you Kyley brotha
We're all incredible so so so incredible!
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OMG, the book-covers on the thumbnail of this....!!
Stew Beef tells us that the Now is You, and Debra Smalls talks about giants.
Kyle Cease & team - as always you are hitting sooo many nails on the head...
Was on AEP when this talk happened btw, and it was so awesome!
There is the novel of Hermann Hesse “Siddharta” in which the Buddha to be meets an enlightened teacher but decides not to follow him as he wants to find his own truth. That’s how I see self help. There are amazing teachers out there and until a certain point it does help to “follow”. But there always comes the moment where you need to find your truth and confront your feelings by yourself as no one can do it for you. It’s been a long journey for me of personal healing and I never follow any teacher for all too long, because it’s not about the person, but about the message!
Shelf Help is a good start. As you state, we must choose to listen to our own higher self (self help) in the moment. THANK YOU for your message today... my SHIFT to the NOW is my highest connection :)
This was a good one Kyle. Thank you. I always listen for what my soul is whispering to me but a lot of the time it goes against what I have been taught. My advice to myself seems devoid of empathy. But it could be that it’s my people pleasing. It seems harsh especially to other people.
The other part is that I am not living my life. I watch self help and read tons of books but I don’t live my life. Kyles allegory of the gym applies to me. I listen to podcasts and watch videos but I never do the work. I go to the gym but just sit around not going on the treadmill. What exactly am I doing?
I feel like I’m living life for other people and not myself.
Kyle also talks about being okay with being alone. For the first time in about 7 years I had become alone and lonely. My partner left me and my whole friend group crumbled. I felt into a short depression until I found a discord and joined the activity.
I need to listen to myself more. It is a good message. Yesterday I drew The High Priestess. She says to trust your gut. I have the power in me.
I can relate to your story as mine is similar.. I find A Course In Miracles helpful too
Boom 💥 yes friend!!!!
I can relate omg so much to this … I know I’ve gone from one book to another from trauma books anxiety books podcasts whatever I could do to help me or to learn to heal .. but I’ve realized that I’m gaining info which is a good thing but learning to love trust and know I’m ok I need to get quiet 🤫 and realize I am ok and can heal but it’s from within it’s trusting me knowing I’m ok thank you Kyle it’s been a long road but I feel like I am gonna be ok cuz as Mel Robbins says NOONE IS COMING TO SAVE US we can do this we can heal it’s a matter of looking within and listening and not grabbing our phone etc cuz that’s avoidance
A lot of people seem to be praying today, maybe to gods, vision boards or self help content, asking them what they want to have and be, like ordering from a menu. Less people seem to really meditate - and ask and listen to the world, as experienced through their own body, what the world wants from them to express and experience in this world and life.
Wow thank you for making this video I spent so many years searching for “information” which was great but it wasn’t until I embodied all the information that my life began to significantly shift
Thank you, I find you are 2023 teaching! Very fresh and now
This is one of the best messages I came across on youtube 🙆 Just listen, listen to the emotions stored in your body 🧘 I keep it now in my "meditation list".
Thank you 💛
Whoa at 3.02 just changed my life...wow! Such a perspective
I needed this-so on point I cover my listening with constant content. No more. I am the one I’ve been searching for the world needs me 💗
I like the Eckhart Tolle and Abraham Hicks parody books
Yes yes yes. Thank you for sharing this. ❤
YES and YES. Thanks Kyle!🙂🙃😉😊
This message really hit home for me today. Thank you! ❤
Amen!
10:00-11:00 oh wow.... Some of us needed to hear this. Powerful. Thank you.
Just had this realization last night; you're confirming in the morning :). Thank you!
You’re soooo spot on with this message.
Enabling: I’ll carry you.
Empowering: I’m here and I’m coming with you. You got this!
There is an elevated type of self help, like learning about humanity through Dostoyevsky or the depth of Man's Search for meaning. That is very different from The Game or 7 habits. Or the Tao te Ching that you can feel and let sizzle and let it connect to yourself. Or mystic poetry. These are not about convincing others to validate you but to feel your own value and care .
YES KYLE!!! I've used personal development to try and become "perfect". This is such a powerful message. Thank you for sharing this.
Wow....Kyle. What you said about triggers is so true and exactly what I have been thinking about.
Thank You so Much..Kyle! You are so Right Here. Listening to self help people has confused me terribly! But..sometimes..it seems..you have to try all the Wrong things to figure out the Right. I am Now Listening to God Within me! ❤😊
Yes ! I’m Addictive to spiritual Guides / teachers. And i don’t take enough actions and not enough meditation 🧘♀️ Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤❤
I absolutely love your videos and as someone who has become addicted to self help videos, books, podcasts, etc.. this is so helpful!
Love you so much Kyle. You're so in sync and I do want that for myself. Blessings. 🙏🏾💕
SUCH an important message!!!!!🔥
Wow. I love your help with perspective. Sending you love back.
Celebrate and surrender....👍💃👍💃👍💃. THIS IS TRUTH!! I was literally hearing God explain to me this amazing revelation minutes before I started listening to this content. 😱 TYTYTY KYLE ♥ this is leading edge info!!
I'd like to get my copy signed by Mr Stew Beef
This is everything 🙌🏻🙏🏻🦋
Feels like my inner self reflecting to me that I’m my own best dance through life partner 💃🏼
Wow there’s so much here to take in and apply, kyle is doing the work
You’re amazing. Profound message xx Thank you ❤
Omg thank you. You’re magic
🙏❣️🙏❣️🙏❣️🙏❣️🌹thank you . Such a potent reminder 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
i don't need to transform or become or enlighten or raise my vibration because I'm
ALREADY OKAY. I WAS BORN ALREADY OKAY....and so were YOU. Done.
Thank you, Kyle❤🙂!
Thank you Kyle ❤️
Thank you. You're talking to me 🤗
You can do this🌼🤍
Man, you be trippin!! 🤣🤣 Vortexing Your Giant, Stew Beef. The thumbnail is next level dude!!
Thank you for this reminder, Kyle ❤️. I really needed to hear this. The answers lie within ourselves. It is easy to get caught up in reading and listening to content and it takes intention and discipline ("doing the work") to grow.
I absolutely agree with your premise that the power is within us and we look for external control because we fear our own power or shun the self-responsibility . However, we have allowed government to take such complete control over our lives that we are now at a juncture where it actually is going to make some difference who our world leaders are. We have allowed, by our own submission and our own lack of individual agency, for a criminal syndicate to encroach to the point where it is most definitely affecting our individual lives significantly.
Yes The real change will come from the bottom up, from each of us as individuals; however, changes will have to be made at the top , as well.
Bravo, Kyle!
❤yes, this is big
Spot on brother.
Thank you so much ♥️🙏😊
Absolutely, one can read and be told about flying but until one does it for oneself it’s not real.
That's right Man....
It takes a certain amount of presence to manage and be greatful for the trigger...
I had quite a week... A two steps forward one step back week....
Went outside myself.. the gift was feeling rejection, anger and jedgement.. the link between them ..
Yes this month year will be very trigger I ... Solution.. go within..
Feel receive gods love, and go for a walk.
Best video you’ve ever done and wow I needed to hear this so hard ❤
BRILLIANT!!
This is absolutely true. I have found myself in this situation and am currently prioritizing stepping out into life and putting these things into practice. Thanks Kyle!
This is REALLY helpful. Thank you !
Started listening to my body more. 💖
Thank you for this❤
thank you
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Excellent! 😊