My girlfriend of ten years passed away unexpectedly on November 12th. Papa Roach was her favorite band and this was her favorite song. I go out to her grave sometimes and play this for her. Love u Felecia now and forever baby.
Goes to show you how careless and free we are as teenagers. Belting this song out in the car with smiles on our faces. Now we listen to it as we ugly cry in the mirror thinking about our life. To be a kid again..
I used to think this song was cool when I was a freshman in high school but now that I'm in my 30s and I have enough life experience under my belt... This song hits you like a punch in the gut. Much respect Papa Roach!
When I was younger (14years) I used to feel so powerful with this song and calm but now I am 21 years and actually I am fighting with alcoholism for past 4 years. I am so proud of you and cannot wait to be in your place cause something what was once helping is destroying my life
@@sylwia6856was 21 when I realized I was a hardcore alcoholic. Was going through a handle of vodka or gin a day and couldn’t function at all. Still drink beer but at least I can do normal day to day tasks
@@jamesdevilliers7053 To all who have questions why my channel description is the way it is: Then KNOW this: We are allowed to judge, even called to judge, ourselves and others. No one personal level, yes, that right we have not, but in general and giving out RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT is allowed to do. And not just allowed, expected to do so. John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Bible says: Ephesians 5:11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. Short answer, THEY ARE WICKED / workers of darkness. Royals are not humans, but angel + animal + human hybrid creatures. GOD NEVER CREATED THEM. Satan did. Masons are human puppets. The cowards, the fearful, the sell outs, the greedy amongst us, mankind. My question: into each of your radar, have my playlists reached?
I’ve loved this song since it came out !! I just realized I’ve remembered all the words and it’s exactly how I’m feeling right now. Love you guys!! 94 baby here ❤
It's hard to watch someone we love destroy themselves and we can never do something to help them. Damn, it's hard to try and save someone who doesn't want to be saved.
Dont bother if you understood those kind of people which I am one of suffer from past trauma and pain maybe once you get that through you're head you'll understand
This song reminds me so much of my best friend in her addiction, and me trying to fix her. The good news is, she is approaching 7 years of sobriety. There is hope!
I've been there. I tried to help someone that I cared about and loved deeply in high school but in the end I couldn't save him. He ended his life a year and a 1/2 later after I told him that I loved him. Although, he never said a word to me after I confessed to him, I hope that someday in the afterlife I could find him and reconnect with him again.
Makeupbykayla I didn't mean literally. I meant I used to be total drunk, and I lost a great boyfriend and lots of other friendships because of it. But now I'm sober married and have a son. So everything happens for a reason I guess. But it definitely wasn't something I'm proud of. Being sober, being a mom and wife, now I'm proud :)
I once saw an interview with Country Joe McDonald. He said that music has always been a part of his life. As a child, he would go visit his parents while his parents were working. They would be singing together. He came to realize that sometimes people think what they are feeling is a totally unique experience. That no one else feels the way they do. But then they come across a song that shows otherwise. That music can unite people by giving voice to the feelings we bury inside us, and in doing so make us feel a little less alone.
Kalitas Bloodchief of Ghet okay at least in my opinion, I think it’s probably about both. Relationships get very toxic when one is an alcoholic. And honestly, however the song hits you is the truth for you and so it’s still okay to believe it’s about relationship. Just my opinion though
@@UnicornSpoonie yeah i agree i think its about them both being rly bad alcoholics then him wakeing up then trying to calm her down cus she isnt slowing down soo he realizes he gots to let her go i def ben their
Never listened to much Papa Roach and the first time I heard this song was when I saw them perform at Louder Than Life in 2022. It was my first big concert experience, and when they played this song I remember looking all around at a sea of thousands of people in all directions just singing while either holding back tears or letting them flow, and I'll never forget seeing this huge 6'5 grown man bawling while head-bannging and singing the lyrics. Papa Roach ended up being my favorite set and I've been a huge fan ever since. This song is incredible and has moved me from the very start
damn she really had the nerve to show up after burning his house down, I'd have called the cops, my lawyer, and the damn grinch for no other reason then to just see if the grinch would show up!
Loved the song since it came out. Never personally associated with the lyrics and the video till now. Im 32 and im now living it. The words " i can't help you fixe your self, but at least i can say i tried. Im sorey but i got to move on with my own life" have never ben so true for me in my own life. Thank you much Papa Roach. Over 15 years of music and it's still helping me, love and apreciated you guyz till i die 🤘🤘
This is a long shot. I'm not sure if you actually read these messages, but I wanted to let you know how much your song, Scars, has meant to me. It describes the toxic relationship between me and my son perfectly. He had mental health issues his whole life. I was a shitty mom while he was growing up and didn't know how to deal with it. He was hateful and verbally abusive to me no matter what I tried to do to help him. I finally had to throw him out. When he died in a car accident at age 33, we had been estranged for a year. He had just started getting his life together and his friends tell me he would have been coming to reconcile and apologize any day. I heard the song playing on the radio shortly after he died and had to pull the car over and cry. And scream. And pound the steering wheel. I still play it when I need to get those feelings out. Thank you. You touched my heart with that song and I would love to see you perform it some day.
Damn.... everyone goes through things in life that no one has any clue about.... what they deal with, how they feel mentally after being through such things, and the impact it has on who they are and how these things change them forever. Its hard helping someone no matter who they are or how close they were to you if they cant truthfully help themselves. The older an individual gets, the more they have to "really" want to change for THEM. Just being his mom was really all he needed. Its easiest to take things out on who we hold dearest. and to him... that was you. My wife lost her mom last summer to an overdose and blames herself for not being there, not always caring, being hard on her when she relapsed etc.. She goes through the same feelings and its tough. Hang in there.. do it for you and your inner peace. much love!!!
@Michelle Marley You know what? You are not and we're not a crappy mom. It takes a lot to realize your shortcomings. A crappy mom wouldn't care at all. No one knows exactly how to deal with things in life. We were not born with a manual on how to deal or how to feel. I'm sorry for the loss, I lost my mom at 19, I'm 35 now and it still hurts. I'm telling you this because I know you blame yourself but no one could prepare you for what you faced in life. Being a mom is hard enough and you did the best you could especially dealing with mental health on top of everything else in life. Please don't be hard on yourself because if your son was here today he would not want you to feel bad for what you didn't do, rather he would want you to forgive yourself and treasure the good moments you shared. When someone is gone, we tend to focus on the things we regret, instead of focusing on the beautiful moments we shared. ❤️ I pray for healing for your tender heart.
It was a little shocking to read this message right now... I am going through a messy moment in my life :( But getting to know your story has really touched my soul. I hope you read tis Michelle, and I hope you can heal those wounds in your heart.
Jessica Sizemore self esteem by The Offspring had the same effect on me once I started dating. As a kid the song was just bad ass but the meaning of the song changed a lot as I got older
@@NightimeLofi no offense taken. I guess the simple way of putting it is, they gave a severely depressed and suicidal 14 year old me a reason to continue waking up every morning just by making songs, like Scars. I had loved bands before but before PR, I truly felt alone. None of the music I listened to at that point was anything I related to. Then I heard Scars, and for the first time someone else was singing the feelings I felt. It changed everything for me.
My weakness is that I care too much. I have many scars and trauma from trying to help someone 😢where I ended up being heartbroken 💔 torn down by their feelings because they wouldn’t fix themselves.
Letting go of a toxic person in my life. It was hard I kept tearing my heart open for her and she filled it with negativity and manipulation I'm finally free. This is my life and how this song relates to it.
I tear my heart open I sew myself shut My weakness is That I care too much And my scars remind me That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel Drunk and I'm feeling down And I just want to be alone I'm pissed 'cause you came around Why don't you just go home 'Cause you channel all your pain And I can't help you fix yourself You're making me insane All I can say is I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel I tried to help you once Against my own advice I saw you going down But you never realized That you're drowning in the water So I offered you my hand Compassion's in my nature Tonight is our last stand I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel I'm drunk and I'm feeling down And I just want to be alone You shouldn't ever come around Why don't you just go home? 'Cause you're drowning in the water And I tried to grab your hand I left my heart open But you didn't understand But you didn't understand You fix yourself I can't help you fix yourself But at least I can say I tried I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life I can't help you fix yourself But at least I can say I tried I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel
you ever listen to a song when you're younger and you don't really relate to it but then when you're older going through old cds you realize you've been in situations just like this
@Go With A Smile damn I'm 18 if you're still having emo kid problems and teenage drama bullcrap still into your 30s, man, i guess life never gets any easier, but the music never gets any better which proof of that is both a 30 year old and an 18 year old who should be listening to nee music are both listening to a song the came out when i was a baby, my sister was emo and used to sing evanescence to me to go to sleep and play all American rejects and papa roach and mcr lol
Bruh! Trust me theres tons of girls in this world lol, your young as shit you got many to go they nothing last forever! There will always be a better one then the one u had.
So much of the music I grew up listening to, that I thought I understood, has been such a gut punch and a comfort at the same time. 60% of my teenage music brings me to tears while speaking volumes more then it did when I was younger.
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My girlfriend of ten years passed away unexpectedly on November 12th. Papa Roach was her favorite band and this was her favorite song. I go out to her grave sometimes and play this for her. Love u Felecia now and forever baby.
this is so sad :(
If no one told you today, I love you
My deepest condolences to you and your families friend. Sending you much love, prayers, and wishes for healing from El Paso, Texas.
Sorry to hear that bud
Who's still jamming to this masterpiece In 2021
Yeah
MEMEMEMEMEMEREREE
Me
Bitch I *discovered* this masterpiece in 2021
@@shuffle2220 hahaha 2 bad I don't care
💜2024 And this gem continues to shine 💖💎🔥
2024 ativo e escutando papa roach
Just discovered this song yesterday
yes chicken
yes mr chicken
Я
Who is still listening in 2024?
Heree
never stopped listenning@@nros88
✊🏽
I will always be here no mater what
Here right now@@Gamer_Roblox67
Mad respect to anyone who is still listening to this masterpiece
Literally one of the best songs
This song is the best ❤️
Listineng from phillippines
I love this song
Ikr
“Scars remind us the past is real.” Still listening 2020
I tear my heat open just to feel
Samantha Jones same
👁🗨♾🔛➿
Yup.... During quarantine 😪🖤
Yes ma'am you are 100% right!! How we make it thru those scars is what matters!!
2023 and this song still hits me like it did when it first came out. I miss this era of music :(
We are old now and this song still hits my emotions.
@@drunkeroc 19 here i remember his songs from mx vs atv unleashed thats how i discovered this artist
Be thankful we had this music in our timeline, I feel bad for the kids today
@@JustYourAveragePostGuy well you are an old soul
@@drunkeroc i am indeed
2024? ❤
Would go to see these guys live in a heartbeat
Me June 4 2024 Winnipeg Canada🇨🇦🍁
I'm telling you when you get older these songs aren't just "fun" to listen to anymore.
They will creep up and hit right in the heart.
They always will especially when we need to hear it
Truth!!
Not true
@@AA-wu2fk you might be too young then .
@@Saibishii nope,just depends on your musical preference
Any old papa roach fans out there?
Been one since 05. This was actually the first song I heard by them and it was on total accident
cosmicskyaj meee
cosmicskyaj hell yeah
yep
Meeeeeeee
2024 still listening. The scars do remind us
Goes to show you how careless and free we are as teenagers. Belting this song out in the car with smiles on our faces. Now we listen to it as we ugly cry in the mirror thinking about our life. To be a kid again..
I 100% agree with this and now I'm 21 and wish I was a kid again
I used to think this song was cool when I was a freshman in high school but now that I'm in my 30s and I have enough life experience under my belt... This song hits you like a punch in the gut. Much respect Papa Roach!
so true!
Hey, same. In my 30s, and this hits differently when uve gone through a lot
In my 20s now and this still hits hard.
This song
Hits hard when you gave everything for a relationship but found out she never cared
2022 and still listening. Goosebumps. So many memories.
Feeling the same way.
100% same here
Same
same
Absolutely 💪🏻
Why America doesn't make songs like this anymore. Early 2000s full with this kind of band
Best era of music
Дааааа полностью согласна (хотя Я только родилась в этот период, но я фанат alt-rock и emo-rock) в России таких групп очень мало
Check out The Warning. They're feom Mexico but hey, that's still North America! Lol
@@alissaalbritton_POWER IS ROCK666👹🤘🔥
because teens dont spend time playing instruments in their garage anymore
As someone who struggles with alcoholism (coming up on 3 years sober) this song hits so deeply and keeps me on the right path
When I was younger (14years) I used to feel so powerful with this song and calm but now I am 21 years and actually I am fighting with alcoholism for past 4 years. I am so proud of you and cannot wait to be in your place cause something what was once helping is destroying my life
@@sylwia6856 Keep fighting, I hope it will get better soon!
keep being strong ❤
Come to Islam
@@sylwia6856was 21 when I realized I was a hardcore alcoholic. Was going through a handle of vodka or gin a day and couldn’t function at all. Still drink beer but at least I can do normal day to day tasks
anyone else going on a nostalgia binge.
+jingerstorm meee
right here man
+jingerstorm as I am high?? Hell yea!
hell ya...miss those times
+jingerstorm YESSSS!
Who is still listening in 2019?
Forever
Me
Me🖤
A constant reminder that leaving was the right choice ❤❤❤
I am
The older you get, the more the lyrics hit hard on you
This song is like 20 yrs old or something. I'm 40 by now. But im pretty sure I understood it then.. I dont get u types
@@jamesdevilliers7053 To all who have questions why my channel description is the way it is:
Then KNOW this:
We are allowed to judge, even called to judge, ourselves and others.
No one personal level, yes, that right we have not, but in general and giving out RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT is allowed to do. And not just allowed, expected to do so.
John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
Bible says:
Ephesians 5:11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.
Short answer, THEY ARE WICKED / workers of darkness.
Royals are not humans, but angel + animal + human hybrid creatures. GOD NEVER CREATED THEM.
Satan did.
Masons are human puppets. The cowards, the fearful, the sell outs, the greedy amongst us, mankind.
My question:
into each of your radar, have my playlists reached?
@@ahhwe-any7434
Yes, the message is clear, no matter how young you are.
What is this song trying to transmit?
@@ahhwe-any7434 You were 20. Many of us were 10-15 and we didn't have any life experience yet so we just thought it was a cool song.
Wish I can turnback 15 yrs ago 😢😢😢
"My Weakness Is That I Care Too Much" The person that always looks out for everyone else is always alone when they need somebody. 🖤
I do that. I care too much till I am angry and sad and cant bear it anymore
I hate how much I relate to that...
The life of an empath 🖤🖤🖤
I can definitely relate
I Stand Alone, GodSmack
2020 AND STILL LISTENING. AWESOME 2000 MEMORIES
On god I stil be listen to this
For real tho
Yes
Fuck I miss this days 😭😭😭
Omg I thot I was the only one
It’s amazing how certain songs such as this gem hit so much differently the older you get…
Jeff Hardy + Table = This Song 😢😂
"My weakness is that I care too much" story of my life
Sameka Adams same here brother!
Damn, same here.
Your picture for your comments is weird plz don't make fun of me that I have no picture :3
Meee too
Fucking same. Almost always leads to me being walked over and it sucks! :(
Still my favorite Papa Roach song
same
Molly C Mine too
me too
AND THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITES 😁
me 2
I’ve loved this song since it came out !! I just realized I’ve remembered all the words and it’s exactly how I’m feeling right now. Love you guys!! 94 baby here ❤
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
Never gets old or boring. What a master piece. It is a pity that we don't get music like this these days.
It's hard to watch someone we love destroy themselves and we can never do something to help them. Damn, it's hard to try and save someone who doesn't want to be saved.
💯💯
I’m that someone. It’s difficult on our side as well
Dont bother if you understood those kind of people which I am one of suffer from past trauma and pain maybe once you get that through you're head you'll understand
This song reminds me so much of my best friend in her addiction, and me trying to fix her. The good news is, she is approaching 7 years of sobriety. There is hope!
I've been there. I tried to help someone that I cared about and loved deeply in high school but in the end I couldn't save him. He ended his life a year and a 1/2 later after I told him that I loved him. Although, he never said a word to me after I confessed to him, I hope that someday in the afterlife I could find him and reconnect with him again.
To whoever is listening to this song now, wherever you are.... Sending you love, peace, healing and all good wishes. May your life be good
Right back at cha...😊
@acousticmusic4777 thank you. I wish the same to you.
Thank you. God bless you
Same to you ♥️
💯 💯💯
It's been 15 years and this song is still stuck in my head.
holy shit, I'm old!😅😅
He produces the song in 2005. Back when he was 28 🤯
@@hugoadancampuzano❤
I thought I got this song in high school… I kept putting to on my MySpace page. So many memories…
It was on my MySpace too
'and my weakness is that I care too much' - my life story.
music.saves. us. same
music.saves. us. same :/
That's why I keep to myself. As emo as that sounds, it's true in my case.
Me too
music.saves. us. ITS MY LIFE STORY AS WELL!!! :-(
Ashamed to admit I was that girl. Been sober since July 17th 2011. And life is much better
Why are you ashamed to be the girl in the video
Makeupbykayla I didn't mean literally. I meant I used to be total drunk, and I lost a great boyfriend and lots of other friendships because of it. But now I'm sober married and have a son. So everything happens for a reason I guess. But it definitely wasn't something I'm proud of. Being sober, being a mom and wife, now I'm proud :)
Oh I was gonna say well nice job with your recovery and getting better
Makeupbykayla thanks!
i respect you a lot. just know that
And my scars reminds me that the past is real!!
insane that this song is 20 years old... i remember singing this as a kid feeling like no one understood my pain
I once saw an interview with Country Joe McDonald. He said that music has always been a part of his life. As a child, he would go visit his parents while his parents were working. They would be singing together.
He came to realize that sometimes people think what they are feeling is a totally unique experience. That no one else feels the way they do.
But then they come across a song that shows otherwise. That music can unite people by giving voice to the feelings we bury inside us, and in doing so make us feel a little less alone.
My weakness is that I care too much.. Favorite line in the song💕
should have been Our weakness :(
thats my weakness as well.
came* too much
i thought it was 'my weakness is that i cant do much'
+Ducati 959 Panigale (Ducati959PGL) 100% better than Tøp
"My weakness is, I care too much." Yep.
What a powerfull phrase!
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha this is a real interaction
This line really got my attention, it resonates a lot with me
Same for me! Hit me like a brick actually! Any room for one more here ??
@@nicolassanabria4386 yep. Always.
This song reminds me of mental scars. The problem for me is: My weakness I care too much. That is the damn truth.
Me too
2023 and I’m still listening to this awesome rock band. Rock on 🤘 Papa Roach.
real
2020, still listening, its not a phase mom. Its a way of life
Yes.
Basically
J im heheh I saw the original “badicallyy”
no matter time, good music is like good whisky is better while time pass by.
Hacker
After years these songs start to make sense hehe
Exactly. As a kid, I just listened to songs like this because they sounded good but now I actually connect to them as an adult.
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I'm a teenager and it hits home for me
yes yes yes lol
yes
2024.....43 YO still come back to this vid. 🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟
Listening to this in 2024!!! ❤
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
Took me 11 years to realize that jacoby wrote this song to himself. In the perspective of his loved ones. When he was struggling with alcohol
Wow really?
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When I was younger I used to think this song was about relationship. Now I realize is about alcoholism
Kalitas Bloodchief of Ghet okay at least in my opinion, I think it’s probably about both. Relationships get very toxic when one is an alcoholic. And honestly, however the song hits you is the truth for you and so it’s still okay to believe it’s about relationship. Just my opinion though
@@UnicornSpoonie yeah i agree i think its about them both being rly bad alcoholics then him wakeing up then trying to calm her down cus she isnt slowing down soo he realizes he gots to let her go i def ben their
@@brandanbennett8790 now its time to learn english
My friend if you see this. Music is to be interpreted by the listeners. It has many meanings. I bleed for my own interpretation.
@@papagnerd1943 not really
The early to mid 2000s was one hell of a time for us 90s kids. Great music,great TV shows, great weed..
We don’t search for old songs…
We search for old memories. 💞👌😊👍
Still figuring out where mama roach is.
We’ll find the answer to that when they reveal where mrs krabs is
On the floor, lying flat.
Not at the river that is for sure
What about Popa Chubby?
Bruh don’t be that guy 😂
This song is still a masterpiece after all these years.
ya
👍
This is so good but you must hear "Whispering Wolf" or "The Wave" by SLT 🤘
@@jamesdevilliers7053Your missing daddy.
Never listened to much Papa Roach and the first time I heard this song was when I saw them perform at Louder Than Life in 2022. It was my first big concert experience, and when they played this song I remember looking all around at a sea of thousands of people in all directions just singing while either holding back tears or letting them flow, and I'll never forget seeing this huge 6'5 grown man bawling while head-bannging and singing the lyrics. Papa Roach ended up being my favorite set and I've been a huge fan ever since. This song is incredible and has moved me from the very start
This song has a special place in my heart; hits in a way I can’t even explain ❤ 🙏 ♾️
2009 me: “mom it’s not a phase”
2020 me: “husband it’s not a phase”
2,001: Mom and dad it´s not a phase
2,010 Husband it´s not a phase
2,021 Son and daughter it´s not a phase, you must got this eternal phase
@I Am Who I Am asking for likes? disliked and unsubscribed
lol YAAAAS!
break out the eyeliner , hair gel , black t-shirt and skinny jeans
emo time
damn she really had the nerve to show up after burning his house down, I'd have called the cops, my lawyer, and the damn grinch for no other reason then to just see if the grinch would show up!
I believe that somewhere in the world, there are people who feel the same emotions that I feel when I listen to masterpieces like this song.
This song tells such a story that I can relate to on such a deep level
Lunadarkheart's Vlog same
Logan Johnson I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE. BILLIE JOE ARMMMSSSTRRRROONNGG
Green! at the Day OMG ANOTHER FELLOW AMERICAN IDIOT YASSSS
Logan Johnson YAAAAAAAAAASS
Lunadarkheart's Vlog it's a good reminder that other's feel the same. I'm not alone
This was an Anthem for all us emo kids back in the day.
True 😀
Still is 😅
Funk Master i was no emo but I respect I was 14 when I fell in love 🥰 with papa roach I’m 32 and I love the fact he still loved
Just because he had black hair makes him emo 🤔
ACID No... he was referring to the emo kids back in the day that listened to this song.... -_-
We Don’t Search For Old Songs, But The Memories They Hold Near and Dear To Our Hearts ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Totally true
Loved the song since it came out. Never personally associated with the lyrics and the video till now. Im 32 and im now living it. The words " i can't help you fixe your self, but at least i can say i tried. Im sorey but i got to move on with my own life" have never ben so true for me in my own life. Thank you much Papa Roach. Over 15 years of music and it's still helping me, love and apreciated you guyz till i die 🤘🤘
This is a long shot. I'm not sure if you actually read these messages, but I wanted to let you know how much your song, Scars, has meant to me. It describes the toxic relationship between me and my son perfectly. He had mental health issues his whole life. I was a shitty mom while he was growing up and didn't know how to deal with it. He was hateful and verbally abusive to me no matter what I tried to do to help him. I finally had to throw him out. When he died in a car accident at age 33, we had been estranged for a year. He had just started getting his life together and his friends tell me he would have been coming to reconcile and apologize any day. I heard the song playing on the radio shortly after he died and had to pull the car over and cry. And scream. And pound the steering wheel. I still play it when I need to get those feelings out. Thank you. You touched my heart with that song and I would love to see you perform it some day.
Damn.... everyone goes through things in life that no one has any clue about.... what they deal with, how they feel mentally after being through such things, and the impact it has on who they are and how these things change them forever. Its hard helping someone no matter who they are or how close they were to you if they cant truthfully help themselves. The older an individual gets, the more they have to "really" want to change for THEM. Just being his mom was really all he needed. Its easiest to take things out on who we hold dearest. and to him... that was you. My wife lost her mom last summer to an overdose and blames herself for not being there, not always caring, being hard on her when she relapsed etc.. She goes through the same feelings and its tough. Hang in there.. do it for you and your inner peace. much love!!!
@Michelle Marley You know what? You are not and we're not a crappy mom. It takes a lot to realize your shortcomings. A crappy mom wouldn't care at all. No one knows exactly how to deal with things in life. We were not born with a manual on how to deal or how to feel. I'm sorry for the loss, I lost my mom at 19, I'm 35 now and it still hurts. I'm telling you this because I know you blame yourself but no one could prepare you for what you faced in life. Being a mom is hard enough and you did the best you could especially dealing with mental health on top of everything else in life. Please don't be hard on yourself because if your son was here today he would not want you to feel bad for what you didn't do, rather he would want you to forgive yourself and treasure the good moments you shared. When someone is gone, we tend to focus on the things we regret, instead of focusing on the beautiful moments we shared. ❤️ I pray for healing for your tender heart.
Sorry for your loss
It was a little shocking to read this message right now... I am going through a messy moment in my life :( But getting to know your story has really touched my soul. I hope you read tis Michelle, and I hope you can heal those wounds in your heart.
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story.
The older you get the more sense these songs make
Jessica Sizemore self esteem by The Offspring had the same effect on me once I started dating. As a kid the song was just bad ass but the meaning of the song changed a lot as I got older
Jessica Sizemore agree
Exactly like Basket Case by GreenDay
Absolutely.
yup
This song popped up on RUclips mixed songs... omfg I knew all the lyrics. I haven't heard it for soooo long.. fucking perfect timing in my life..👊👊😆
I heard this song at a Chinese prison camp
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
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anyone else going on a nostalgia spree to reminisce about their emo days?
yes
Guilty as charged
yup
I was never emo
i dont care about u so......xD
Whenever I hear this song, it reminds me of my crazy ex-wife.
Haha, what a beast! :D
Zachary Grigley
you know last resort some guy comented cut my wife into peaces this is my last devouse
Zachary Grigley it reminds me of my ex boyfriend
This reminds of far to many of ex girlfriends.
Just sitting here in tears. 3/9/24. Life is very rough rn..
2023 ❤❤❤
This song literally saved my life 15 years ago. This band means the world to me.
Glad you're still here with us,Zen. Peace be with you.
Zen Dolorr how did they save you.
How did they save you just asking not trying to be mean or anything
@@NightimeLofi no offense taken. I guess the simple way of putting it is, they gave a severely depressed and suicidal 14 year old me a reason to continue waking up every morning just by making songs, like Scars. I had loved bands before but before PR, I truly felt alone. None of the music I listened to at that point was anything I related to. Then I heard Scars, and for the first time someone else was singing the feelings I felt. It changed everything for me.
For the record they didn't save your life you did
“Scars remind us the past is real.” Still listening december 2021
yuh
Still hits as the first day I heard it. Thank you for writing this ballad . This will always be the song to my generation
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
My weakness is that I care too much. I have many scars and trauma from trying to help someone 😢where I ended up being heartbroken 💔 torn down by their feelings because they wouldn’t fix themselves.
Letting go of a toxic person in my life. It was hard I kept tearing my heart open for her and she filled it with negativity and manipulation I'm finally free. This is my life and how this song relates to it.
Im not free yet. Soon I hope. Hard stuff man rn..
I'm going through the same thing. She put a family tragedy on me so I could talk to her. She broke up with me. My heart is closed off from her now.
I feel you man.
@@streetoak6580 Your the captain of your ship steer clear of danger as soon as you can. PEACE ✌
Good man, I know what its like
Yeahh we are legend 2021 for listening this songs.
indeed, all year long :p
Yep I’m lesson to it right now 🖤💙 black and Blue is emo colors
#journeydontstopbeliving
Yeah 🤟
the older you get, the harder it hits…
Ya
My Brother my weakness is now my strength 💪
Oh man Big up to the Emo era, You are a legend if you are coming back for this awesome masterpiece
is anybody else playing this in 2016
Yee
You know it
good music never dies!
me BC I'm emo asf
me ♥
This song is still good in 2023
2024 April 26th. This song never ever hit me as bad as it is now. I always loved this song. Now it's hitting too close with home
The scars remind us that the past is real
And my scars remind me, that the past Israel
Governor Jack Stanton very interesting
The dislikes are from the people who don't wanna except that, "Our scars remind us that the past is real".
accept
I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life 🎶🎵
This will always hit my heart.
Dont try and fix something that is broken and twisted, walk away, life is too short :)
Lefloid Army!!!
wie einfach mal bei jedem lied, das er gepostet hat "Lefloid army" oder "Leflooooooid" steht :'D
Eilin Hellmann
Wie wahr :D Kann mir schon vorstellen dass es nervt aber.... LEFLOID-ARMY!!!
It hurts when they play this on the classic rock station
have u heard of this new song called TIME by The Impures
Wait they play this on the classic rock station?
Truth right there :c
One of the only songs I can sing properly! I have always fucking loved this one. I heard this song almost before anyone. DAYM the MEMORIESSSSSSSSSSSSS
I fucking love this song. Best era of music hands down 🖤
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
My weakness is
That I care too much
And my scars remind me
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
Drunk and I'm feeling down
And I just want to be alone
I'm pissed 'cause you came around
Why don't you just go home
'Cause you channel all your pain
And I can't help you fix yourself
You're making me insane
All I can say is
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
I tried to help you once
Against my own advice
I saw you going down
But you never realized
That you're drowning in the water
So I offered you my hand
Compassion's in my nature
Tonight is our last stand
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
I'm drunk and I'm feeling down
And I just want to be alone
You shouldn't ever come around
Why don't you just go home?
'Cause you're drowning in the water
And I tried to grab your hand
I left my heart open
But you didn't understand
But you didn't understand
You fix yourself
I can't help you fix yourself
But at least I can say I tried
I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life
I can't help you fix yourself
But at least I can say I tried
I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
Thank you so much ❤️
Yeah man, we appreciate it.
takes me back to 2012 when uploads had the lyrics in the description
his voice , his band, all I love♥
+Pomerantz we get you're Jewish
+Pomerantz latkas?
I like both...
And 10 years later we are still rocking.
Try 18 years later! This song came out when I was 16 years old. Still love it still stirs emotion.
still one of the best today 🎉
you ever listen to a song when you're younger and you don't really relate to it but then when you're older going through old cds you realize you've been in situations just like this
Yup
I'm young and when I see my parents, with this song I understand them.
Yep. .. Lots of them. Lol
@Go With A Smile damn I'm 18 if you're still having emo kid problems and teenage drama bullcrap still into your 30s, man, i guess life never gets any easier, but the music never gets any better which proof of that is both a 30 year old and an 18 year old who should be listening to nee music are both listening to a song the came out when i was a baby, my sister was emo and used to sing evanescence to me to go to sleep and play all American rejects and papa roach and mcr lol
So fucking me
This song really helps, when your hating yourself and life. I blast it and scream it as loud as i can.
Ik cus when my uncle had just passed i would just lay in bed listening to tdg (Three Days Grace)
Yeah Madelaine, this is definitely one of those songs..
Wasn’t expecting to come here and cry
Here in 2024 ❤
this song makes me wanna cry cuz im goin through all this shit
tanner sims It gets better, dude. You just gotta keep pushing on and it'll work out.
Bruh! Trust me theres tons of girls in this world lol, your young as shit you got many to go they nothing last forever! There will always be a better one then the one u had.
do you like bvb
So much of the music I grew up listening to, that I thought I understood, has been such a gut punch and a comfort at the same time. 60% of my teenage music brings me to tears while speaking volumes more then it did when I was younger.
Omg u r kool
Damn every single line cuts deep
still loves this song today 2023
Man, Papa Roach is a kick-ass band