Dad Doesn't Lift a Finger To Help Around The House | Jo Frost: Family Matters | Real Families
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- This week is talking too two families, one where the mum feels more like a doormat than the mother of the house, but is this because of a family affair? And another where violent behaviour has led a mum scared of her own son.
Family conflicts are usually kept behind closed doors - until now. Fresh from her role in Supernanny, Jo Frost brings her experience to a new talk show format.
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Dad starts a relationship with a facebook stranger, tells daughters he wish they we're dead, then begs to come back.
Almost in the end ....mum confessed that she was a cheater. What a mess couple.
@@zenithorton5433 I disagree.. you dont see/hear the differences between the two situations?
I wouldnt want him back
What awanker Get anew real Man 👨
They are better off without him
So the dad in that first family thinks it's okay to tell one of his daughters that he wishes she were dead and his other daughter to get away from him? Probably best he doesn't live with them tbh
the mum is just as bad, i wouldn't have spent as much time getting back with him as opposed to making a huge fus
Mum and dad were very naughty. Who needs discipline are the parents.
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I wouldn't allow him around my kids after that.
It amazes me that the first “dad” being as vile and selfish as he is was able to raise such a well-spoken, mature and independent 16 year old girl
The mom raised her
That’s because he DIDNT raise her.
That's the mother who has done that. He didn't bother to bring her up
The mom did that! Not he
Because she's had to step up and take his place from a very young age.
That man is real quick to point out other people’s mistakes. That poor teenage daughter, she needs to wipe her hands of him. They all do.
He says i do all this but he does nothing.
Agreed!! My bio dad is a scumbag & cutting ties when I was little was the best thing I ever did, so many less headaches.
Yes, when his wife was talking about changes she need to make, he had the gall to suggest things to her! He can't do any better than "grow up" and "be a father" for himself -- no specifics at all.
crappy father. mum is codependent. she said she lost "her best friend" but immediately says he never helped her with the children or around the house.....maybe she needs new better quality friends
I can't even watch this, that first "dad" makes me so angry.
He's just UGGGGAAAA!! 20 YRS!
I know right. If I was her I wouldn't go back to him for any amount of money.
I hope Lisa knows how smart, intuitive, able to keep her head up and has clear goals. She is beautiful too. Love their hair. I love how they can get their points across clearly without yelling.
He has caused so much chaos in that house and he wonders why he gets no respect from his family. He has no respect for himself. You reap what you have sown. Live with the consequences now.
He's either REALLY dumb or a complete narcissist, it's like he genuinely cannot see himself for what he really is and doesn't care enough bout his kids and wife to put any real effort in, complete loser 😔
I grew up with a very bad parenting system. my mother went above and beyond to love and support me and disciplined me as best as possible. my dad was lazy, abusive and made excuses for everything he did. as soon as he left, I stopped misbehaving, being disrespectful, tantruming. I started laughing more and trusting my step-dad, who I now call dad. The father in the first family needs to be cut off from this family. its obvious he'll never change and will continually make excuses. That's unfortunately the real truth of it all.
Amelia: "When my sister's nice, she's really nice. But when she's bad, she's evil!"
Jo: "What makes her evil?"
Amelia: "She makes us tidy up"
I'm sorry that was hilarious 😂
Her sister is like the second parent....
She give love and disapline
Yep.
Can we just talk about what a phenomenal person Lisa is? What a lovely girl! She deserves the world!
Why you'd dismiss the 16 year old? "Now that the kids are gone." Shes the most adult person in that family.
She is; Lisa is a very mature 16 year old.
@@gillianbrookwell1678 she has no choice.
Because the girl has already gone through a lot, and Jo doesn't want to cause more damage with the whole situation. I have been in that position before, and I really wished I had not been placed in the middle.
I remember the days when your mother only had to look at you and you behave, knowing you're in trouble when you get home. I grew up just fine with respect for my mother. A little correction when a child misbehave really goes a long way.
I'm still a child and I know to behave when my dad gives me the look.
Bunny Whisperer and be consistent. Also follow through so don’t pick ridiculous punishment or discipline that you know you will fail for you and/or the child. Like no playing outside for a week. Ok torture yourself as well as making sure you child won’t have exercise and more than likely act up again. Be smart, be consistent and love your kids enough to model the behavior you want them to follow.
Story of when I was little bunny whisperer, when your mother or father gives you that look you know the consequences if you don’t get your act together.
Once my mother had dark sunglasses on when she gave me the look and I got it!!!
@@trishayamada807 yeah, the punishment could be no playing outside tomorrow, not for the whole week.
I work in a public family place, and every single day I see the same thing over and over and over. Parents pecking away at their cell phones, children screeching for their attention, finally acting out just to get the negative attention. Even I, the person who is helping them have to beg for their attention. Those cell phones are more important than life to some people, like maybe this guy...
these are children themselves
People really shoudl have to pass a baby and parenting class before being able to have kids
It just happens to them. "Hey, there's a sudden baby! What to do with it then? Raise it??? Noooooo, you're kidding me!".
Folks should also not jump into a sexual relationship .... when they don't need kids! .... or have a good partner!
Totally agree! You should have to do a class to ensure you can actually look after a child before you have one
Yet you need a license to drive a car..... 🙄 At least here in the US there are places to drop the little bastards off without being prosecuted.
The first dad was so red in the face.
"I'm a doormat"
What a mood
The mother needs to stop being a victim and start being a mother and the head of her household
Yes
I agree - she needs help to be taught how to be that
@@angelamcclelland7498 its a mess. She seems completely broken down. Probably by the relationship
The dad needs to put that phone up and pay attention to his family. I hate how cell phones have took over everyones lives. Children are raising themselves cause parents are on the phones and could care less whats going on except what they will see on fb or youtube. Its so sad.
Says the one on RUclips 🤣
But I agree with you!!!!! When I was growing up I had so much fun with my imagination :)
Dad number 1 just wants his easy life back. He's a loser.
Having a studio audience adds nothing, and in fact detracts.
And it’s quite disgraceful really.
What a disgraceful dad.
Kids will definitely act out as a coping mechanism and most of all a definite cry for help
That first couple, I don't believe a word than looser dad said!... He was probably dump by his mistress because she realised he was a looser and now he is coming back because he needs somebody to take care of him!... Second mom, your son throws his toys at you, he loses his toys!... And send him to a boarding school for problem children...
To send the kid to a boarding school will make his behavior worse. It will make him think that the mum wants to abandon him. Never a good idea unless he wants it.
I've never seen someone dodge responsibility by blaming themselves before, how's he doing that, saying its his fault, but still dodging blame?
Narcissistic behavior.
@@ilovehorses5714 Absolutely. Terrifying and pathetic.
Despite what Andrew says he still seems really detatched, like he is reading from a script. Mum needs therapy, and possibly antidepressants.
Yeah he showed zero emotion even in his voice 😬
They better watch it or they’re going to lose Lisa in the not too distant future. She’ll get a boyfriend and move in with him just to get out of that house. Ironically, parentified girls often become teen moms.
I'm 71 years old and never wanted anything more than that my parents could stay together and we have a happy and peaceful life. My childhood wasn't bad and they certainly didn't fight all the time, but when they did it was awful, then my dad would leave for a period of time. They divorced and remarried 3 times. I had decent step-parents, but as I said, I wanted nothing more than to have my own parents together for the rest of our lives. P.S. In the end, they had a long time affair with each other till my dad's death in 1994.
I so wish life, relationships, were easier! .... Dysfunctional families are more the norm today than ever?
that 16 y/o should not b responsible for her mother's emotional wellbeing or be raising her sister. that's neglect.
Growing up in the 70’s my Mama would have removed my teeth from my head if had EVER SPIT at her. For ANY REASON!
I really feel for the first lady she deserves better
Dawn Finch yep an affair and a brat
I feel sorry for the second one more as she’s a single parent her dad has neglected his son
She knew what she was marrying into. She knows exactly what is going on and has no problem with it. Just keep that check coming.
Why? Why does she deserve better? She deserves nothing just like she gave nothing to the United States of America.
@@patriciaceja6112 Um...this is a British show! And she does deserve better-her husband doesn't have a clue!
Jo is so amazing
The First Lady needs a medal feel so sorry for her
It drives me insane that he says Lisa never talks to him yet he cuts her off almost every time she tries to… no wonder you don’t hear her cause you don’t let her speak! Also he says he doesn’t understand why people think he’s inadequate parent yet it’s very obvious, does he not see the video of himself “trying to parent” with his phone in his face while he’s not even paying attention to his kids?!
Bet the dad went back because girlfriend got sick of him.
Yeah. Back on the apps no doubt!
17:43 love how when Andrew blames Lisa, Trisha stands up for her ❤ I really feel bad for her and Lisa.
He wants to get back to the family because his side chick dropped him. Now he realized he made a mistake, REALLY?
Makes me cringe so bad to hear a 40somethin man say 'i need to grow up'
He's pathetic
It's amazing that both Moms are so attached to their children and all the mayhem follows. To hear the 1st Mom blame the Dad for never helping and then finding she does not want to share her children to begin with! 😮 Such an eye-opener for me with both these cases because I come from a long line of women who accept and maintain situations where they are victimized, and then turn around to blame the other person because it is so so horrible for them. As I type this, I realize where I am doing it right now. And I am done. Wow. Thank God for Jo Frost!
So so proud to see generational traumas end with you. ❤
I hve NEVER understood how a child gets to the point of hitting n spitting on the mum🤔
This family would be better off if he went back to mommies basement with his phone and computer! 🤮
Loved this. I had no idea Jo had a talk show. She is so good at it. 🥰😍🤩😘
Joe frost is the best nanny ever
These parents need to a grip of them selfs and their kids
Agreed! I 💗Jo.
When my parent strength is low, I watch anything Jo😊
Jo is a psychologist, don't you think Agnetha?
The husband in the first one is AWFUL....
the man in the first one got me so annoyed swearing in front of kids and tbh i don't think i would want him in my family again
If I ever bit or spit at my mom, I would get a quick, firm smack on the mouth. It taught me fast not to do that.
"it makes me feel as if I'm not adequate as a parent"
*Because you're not!!!!!*
This is literally the British version of Dr. Phil!
Girl of Many Vloggities that would be Jeremy Kyle
As Dr. Phil would say of these children, you got the tail wagging the dog.
Children can sence when their are problems and no stability. Kids will sence this
Awww...the second mom and her sister are sweet! Best of luck to them...Arthur will be a happier boy. 🙏💜
Discipline needs to start right from the beginning: when they are very little!! Discipline shows your children, how to be a decent human. Lack of it branches off: into every area of their lives.
Men who grow up beating women ,and being aggressive starts with the mother. Let him know that being aggressive is not okay even if u are his mother.
The empowerment that Jo gives these moms is phenomenal. She's their voice when they are insecure, and she brings back their security. The dad in the first story has got to go.
And the 16 year old daughter that helps mom and helped her on stage....hats off to u young lady. You're destined for greatness.
I hope 1st lady gave him the freedom he so desired previously. Explain how hinges on a door work, they allow the door to swing both ways. Then she needs intensive therapy. Her ideal man/soul mate? A person who was/is dismissive of her and the children. A man who couldn't really care less about raising his kids? But yet he still feels they should respect and love him? You picked him, you helped not raise Milli appropriately. Thinking and acting like a doormat got you in this situation. Ever heard the saying that if you let people wipe their feet on the way in, they'll wipe their azz on the way out? 🙄
How is he a soulmate if he does nothing?
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I have 3 traumatised,children from abuse from their father and one with exceptional special needs as a result of a very rare genetic gene mutation and have never had these problems. Be there for your children, regardless of your needs. It pays off in the end.
Your an amazing mum your kids are blessed to have you
That dad wasn't trying at all. He wasn't worth the time, energy or words. He kept saying he knows he's wrong but it's all just show. He just doesn't want to go back to his "mum's house." lol
As great as having a father is, you can live a great and fulfilling life without one. If he continues to fail, understand you don't need him.
It gets my back up when parents say it's "for an easy life" but he's 5 and been doing it for 5 years. What part of that battling for that long and beyond until she gets herself sorted is easy?!?!
He is not adequate as a parent. Let's just accept he's got that right. He doesn't even acknowledge that he was a cheating pack of potato.
That poor 16 year old lass has way to much on her shoulders
So Andrew goes off and has an affair that CLEARLY failed and now needs a roof over his head. Man's a fecking waste of space and its hurting the children.
How can the "dad" Andrew thing that it is okay to have an affair behind his wife's back and also to swear at his 7-year-old girl like that is absolutely disgusting !!!
Arthur's mother is lazy. For an "easy"life. He will be in jail by 14. She has only had 5 or 6 nights off in his life. What did she think having a kid would mean?
Exactly she’s pathetic
oh this guy is piece of lie...he is saying he wants a chance just to make them look bad....he knows he is lying
What beautiful girls - GET RID OF HIM !!! 😂😂😂💖
Kid: You can’t make me.
Adult: I can make you wish had.
he is never of his phone in vid and turned screen away from cam that says he up to no good
I love Jo. Period.
A Trainwreck of a relationship,a soulmate,wouldn't leave their partner to do everything.The fact that Millie has said they swear at each other,they should have parted years ago.
As a species, I am shocked that we have been around for millions of years.
Right?! Haha! I laughed when I read your comment but then I got real serious when I realized how right you are!
But parents do not parent. Immaterial of how many years , lazy is lazy!
Take the TV out of the children's room. Kids will obviously watch something that's totally not the kind of program they should be looking at. Be aware of what your child is watching and listening to.
is there a conclusion to theses families problems did they actually do anything to help and if so did it actually do anything like on supernanny she goes back and sees how things are weeks later after helping them
Yes, a follow up would be nice
I hope so much that poor woman gets her son, Arthur, back onto the right track....I feel really sorry for her.
Me, too.
I am my sons only parent. I don't feel guilty for that because I'm not the one that made that decision. And I'll be damned if that means I will let my kid spit on me, hit me, mock me, or cuss me out!! That would NEVER HAPPEN!! As a single mom I raised a firefighter and a, soon to be, police officer. A man walking out on you amd your kid is no excuse for the way these children are being raised.
The poor first lady! Ugh! I've heard her story from other ladies, too! Terrible! 😢🙏❤️ Husband is immature & selfish.
Start the discipline as soon as they can move around..U teach them the stove is hot ,plug ins r bad ,exc exc.., and this doesn't become an issue! I tell u what , my kids wouldn't dream of treating me this way jus like I didnt my mom! WE ALL KNEW BETTER!! I have grandbabies now that also will not be acting a fool either! No exceptions!
Forgive ,unite and be strong, stand up and be ( that) mom and dad.
I jxt get angry hearing a grown up woman says my 2-10 old is the boss . seriously pls if u are not ready to step up to be a parent I jxt think u should not give birth. If u feel sorry for him then step up to make him or her a better child or person
$100 dad 1 continues to do FA and blame everyone else
I don't blame his daughter for not wanting to have anything to do with him
The first dad, is a liar, dishonest, and do not deserves to have a family.
I’m amazed that the first dad, Andrew, ever even got laid. What a dough ball.
Haha my thoughts exactly ! 🤢
Ok the 2nd mother need to ✋ because he is going to be in jail before he turn 13 she letting him do this and this child knows it are kids are smarter then we think
Hi Jo,
Your an ANGEL for families.
THANKS A LOT
GOD BLESS YOU,
Theresa
Why does the first woman keep closing her eyes when she’s talking, that’s so frustrating lol
Families need to definitely work together
Wow, the daughfers, especially that eight-year-old Amelia, I just beautiful children. Keep them safe.
I love Amelia's mustache onsie! I hope all these families are doing better now
This man is so vague in the way he talks about what he needs to do: "Grow up," "be a father." What does that look like? He clearly has no interest in making any real change.
i hate when people say you've grown up too fast, they have just grown up
I am glad these mums contacted super nanny Jo I am sure things will be right for this mums.
Ridiculous..i have been parenting my eldest daughter 14 yrs single handedly, I also have an 11 yr old and a 4 yr old. ..I have no family to help. I would never allow any of my kids to be violent towards me. My kids get discpline if they talk back.
The pathology of these ones is strong, Master...
That's why kids will try to have all the control in the house
Jo jo with the no no bad parenting
That totally rhymed
These girls are sooooo pretty. I think the parents love them too.
Amelia swings off of the bed
I wonder what Jo would tell an adult man who finally has a son of his own how to handle his temper that he developed because of how his own father abused him. How far back do you go or do you just say once an adult just get over it and focus on the child? He has such a bad temper and I feel bad for his son.
He IS NOT worth fighting for.
Gawd who would want to be with a guy like that. He is not only selfish and dumb he most certainly isn't eye candy. People do NOT have the right to bring children into the world and then go on about what you want when you want it. Your children come FIRST.
The first family is exactly my life but i have no siblings my dad is a naracissist and gives love with money and i dont want money i want love and time no fighting 😔