Leaving my daughter moved to the U.S from China, my story on my 16 year anniversary 我的故事从中国到美国
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- A day in my life from me getting up in the morning, cooking breakfast and taking my kids to school, then cooking lunch and dinner. in the evening going out with my husband for anniversary dinner.
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How wonderful that your children understand chinese. As a japanese american, I don’t remember ever understanding my
Mothers native language aside from the most common words, even though we heard the language every day. She said she gave up speaking only japanese to us as we entered school because we started understanding her less and less. Don’t ever stop speaking chinese to your kids, even when it embarrasses them. They will thank you when they are older.
Wouldn’t say they fully understand it but yeah?
I know alot of Hispanics in my area only speak Spanish in their home. So my coworkers daughter is having a hard time entering school because she's not that good at English but eventually she will learn and be great at both languages
I can't tell you how much I wish I could speak fluent Japanese. :( To be multi-lingual is the most enviable superpower. Kids need to learn young and be exposed to it all consistently, you're so right. And they will all thank their parents when they're older, or at least you'd hope they'd be aware enough of their great good fortune in life.
My mom quit speaking Spanish to us because my sister was having trouble learning English in school but now we had to relearn it and man it would have been so much easier
My mom was Chinese but I quit speaking Chinese when I was in 2nd grade after I overheard my teacher making comments about my accent 🤬 I understand some but can't speak it😤
Thank you so much for sharing a part of your story with us. We really appreciate how vulnerable you were and I know it must have been so hard to come and live in a new culture and speak a new language. You are so talented and hilarious we love you. 😊
So appreciate you are here watching my life:) LOVE YOU TOO!!!
@@CookingBomb I always watch your vids then get hungry lol
Awwww I just love you and your family! I try to recreate some of your recipes as I am half Chinese - love it - lol I too use my Chinese eyeballs to measure 😂
@@CookingBomb same exactly like my love story including leaving my little daughter after divorce and my current husband at Xmas party
@@CookingBomb sister i love your every activity 😍if you don't mind How old are you? i am just 28 but my body lots of pain that's why i am saying dear😍 you have already 4 kid'S & full day active 😍i love your kid' S Discipline😍sorry for my broken lounge #cookwithpabitra
11 years without your baby must have been so difficult! I am happy things are way better now🙏🏻
Wow, the fact that you taught yourself how to speak English and put so much effort in your relationship and life is so inspiring. No wonder your circus is so happy. I love your videos. I just wanna say, hello, hello, hello from South Africa ❤
Oh and happy anniversary
That is the most awe inspiring aspect of this woman in my opinion. I married into a Russian family 6 years ago and STILL have not grasped the language. I have been trying to learn that darned language for 5 years now, so the fact she can speak so fluently is amazing to me. I have kind of made up for my poor Russian language abilities by learning how to make my husband's favorite Russian dishes (his parents taught me ❤️). Marrying interculturally can be a huge challenge, but once you get over at least SOME of the language barrier, any culture shock, the family members who hate the fact you're tarnishing the bloodline, and immerse yourself into each others' lifestyle/culture/family traditions, it is honestly so much fun. Congrats to her for 16 years! That's a darn goal right there! We've already passed my father-in-law's prediction of 2 years, so here's to 2^6 (hopefully lol) more for me!
Your story with your husband was really touching. Long distance relationship is hard, language barrier is hard, cultural differences is also hard. Plus you guys both had families prior, there were a lot of adjustments to be made.
It’s amazing your husband flew every 3 months to China to see you. My husband is also a doctor and he barely steps out of the house on his days off because there aren’t many and he’s always tired from work
She said he flew back and forth every other month - so only 1 month apart 7:39
I love the fact that the lady brings her ethnic culture everywhere, it’s just running on her blood and I feel so happy to see Vivi being proud with her own culture
Can we just: As an adult, learned English, arguably one of the most difficult languages to learn. Learned not just English but learned it (and speaks) it well, better than most native speakers. Raised kids to appreciate both cultures, and maintained/discovered her own identity. Amazing, Vivian!
We all have our own “story”, but yours is truly inspirational. Having married a Chinese lady (FuShun) several years ago, I enjoyed learning more about you and your mixed circus. Thank you for sharing it.
Oscar is just hilarious. His personality is so fun. The girls are definitely daddy's girls. And what a cool restaurant for a happy occasion. Happy 16th Anniversary, you both are marriage goals!
"I'm your gift 🎁" was the cutest with the little bow on his head
I love how real this entire video is! No pretense. Chinese hate wastage and often will just eat up our children's leftovers. It's real! We also keep bits of wrappers and use non festive matching wrappers. Often times we don't wrap presents at all. So practical and fancy is not our cup of tea (yes yes, these days we do coffee too). Lol
Best wishes on your anniversary. I wish you many more years of happiness, health, love and prosperity. Greetings from Chile!
THANK YOU K R~~~
@@CookingBomb Wendy is your oldest daughter right?
@@phantomzz23 Ya she's the one who went to college
@@CookingBomb I am late to asking but are the little one twins? Idk they feel similar like twins. Love your circus and cooking ❤️
It broke my heart hearing you talk about having to leave Wendy. Its apparent how painful the decision was for you, and I'm glad she's in your life now. You are an incredibly strong mother. It doesn't seem fair that your ex could keep her from you that way, but I also know the laws in China are different. I love your channel, thank you for sharing.
Wow he travelled so long to see you! He really loves you! 💯🥰
I got goosebumps seeing those photos of you when you two travelled throughout Asia before you went to the US. You’re inspiring. I can’t imagine how hard it was to leave without Wendy. I’m glad she was FINALLY able to come to the US to live with you. Happy Anniversary, may you and your husband have long happy lives together 😇❤️ thanks for sharing your life and now your story with us!!
I'm so glad you were able to get through that dark time with your 1st husband. I can't imagine how hard it is to have to fight to see your own child
What resonates with me is that despite my life being a 180 from yours I still see that you're real, honest, and you share what you love out of kindred and not views. Thanks for sharing your normally private day with us.
I admired what a strong person she has become after what she endured with her ex-boyfriend. It’s awful she couldn’t see her daughter but now she has a blessful life and happier
Omgosh!! I am pregnant with my first baby boy so I haven’t been online much. But your video popped up and made me so happy. I’ve always been so interested in your story. I can see how hurtful it was talking about the Wendy situation. But you are an amazing mom and do what was best for you. Please do more videos like this! I love connecting to you
I totally understand “Cooking with your eyeballs” after many years of cooking you just know the precise amount like how many salt shakes will make your rice perfect.
Wishing u and family forever close n happy .u are outstanding shown by your running the household . Dhne.
It’s 330am here in California and I couldn’t sleep so I’m catching up on Cooking Bomb Mom. I loved hearing your background and sharing stories about your husband (ie) didn’t know he is a Doc and today is first time I’ve heard all 5 kids’ names. You are proof that working as a stay at home mom is the toughest but most rewarding job there is. The pics of you & husband are beautiful. I love how you’ve raised the 3 kids instilling your Chinese culture & heritage. They seem to understand the Chinese language which is awesome. Wishing you and your family all the best always!
Happy Anniversary! Yes he remembers the first time you met. And he remembers the 3 most important words to say. What would be cool, is for you to do a Cooking Bomb video from the Grandparents kitchen.
Happy day to you both and the Circus!
Thank you Robert~~~
I eat the leftovers. I enjoy careful with what I am provided. I'm 63 years young and have never filled or even considered bankruptcy or defaulted on anything. I no longer own a car but u am not in debt either. No collections or loans and no credit cards. I feel rich in blessings . So I consider eating leftovers as a blessing working towards other blessings that equal a good living ethic. 2 👍🏻👍🏻for you my friend. Happy Anniversary you 2 youngsters. ♥️
My eyes watered when she explained the start of their relationship, that’s dedication and so rare. Thank you for sharing. I loved this entire video.
Omg, Minnesota?! Wait why is this my first time hearing you’re from Minnesota? Minnesota gang!! Also, loved this longer vlog and loved hearing about you and your husband’s love story. So heartwarming to hear both of your efforts to make the relationship work, despite the long distance. That’s more of a commitment than the relationship itself! Hope you guys have many more years together.
I was excited to hear her mention Minnesota too! I have deep gratitude to the MN for hosting me during my undergrad years.
Did not skip 1 second of her video , she is great ! Love listening to her talk 😊
I just adore you and your circus! You are so inspiring, you definitely motivate me to be a better mom and better person all around.
My wife and I married in 1999 in her country. It took nearly two years for the spousal visa to go through and she could join me here in the US. I flew to be with her several times from west coast to Inchon then Cebu. The total travel time around 24 hours so jet lagged!!!
I love her personality she's kind, funny and loves her family....the best line: I measure with my Chinese eyeballs!!!
You are the sweetest, most energetic young mom! Congrats to you and your hubbie, wishing you many years of prosperity and love💋♥️
Your circus always makes me smile! Your son so hilarious “because we are Chinese.” 😂I also stir my coffee with a chopstick!
I love your story. I can imagine leaving your country and not knowing anyone but your husband. Not having your daughter too right away. My mom from Panama, she left her country at 19. Married my father because they met when he was station Army . They been together since than 40 years
Thank you for sharing your story ♥️. It is so hard to be open up to people you do not know, especially talking about culture and the struggle with Wendy. I think the Asian culture is beautiful and to see you merge it with American culture is amazing. You are so beautiful and your energy is amazing. ✨💕
I’d watch a video on how to make lard if you made one! I’m interested in traditional cooking styles that call for lard, but the only brand I’ve found at my grocery store has no information on the labels. I prefer to support local farm, so I’d rather make my own lard using local pork than buy mystery lard
Thanks for sharing your story!!! That must have been incredibly hard moving away without your first daughter. So glad you were able to reunite ❤️
I love that the children are bilingual so good. I really admire that you taught yourself to speak English that’s no easy feat! English is deceivingly difficult
Watching this video made me feel like we've been close friends because it's so comforting when you're talking to the viewers.
It's such a genuine video log, just you simply telling us what happens in a day in your life except that that day when you filmed it was special 💗 just saw this pretty late but I'm still leaving a comment ofc 🥺
What a wonderful love story... that he would travel half way across the globe to be with you 💌
When the married couple is talking at the anniversary dinner table, i‘m so surprised to see they both are so blunt and not having eye contact! Is this really an anniversary dinner?? Where‘s the love?
I very much appreciated this video. It was wonderful to hear all your stories. We love you and your circus so much. Happy Anniversary!
THANK YOUxoxoxo
Happy 16th Anniversary to you and your hubby Vivian! Those lavender Roses are absolutely BEAUTIFUL! They are the ONLY roses I LOVE! I do have a question, were you overwhelmed with that BIG BEAUTIFUL house? Also, I too had to leave not one but 3 beautiful children behind due to my ex husband being VERY bitter that I wanted a divorce. He hired 3 lawyer's and basically took them from me, so I can understand the absolute heartbreak you felt with your daughter. They're all adults with children now and I do communicate with 2 of my children. Unfortunately my oldest chooses not to communicate with me. I pray one day she will realize that she needs me in her life. Thank you for this video Vivian, I watch ALL of your video's! You have a BEAUTIFUL family! ❤
Thank you so much for being open and telling us about you. We all have our pasts. So happy you and your family are healthy and together! Please post that noodle recipe!
Happy (belated) anniversary! I'm still in the middle of watching but was so amazed by your husband's dedication I had to say this: when a man wants and loves a woman, he will do whatever he has to do to be with her - even if it means taking multiple flights every other month to the other side of the world to spend time with her. I love your story 💞
It is definitely true love. My fiancé and I met online. He visited me for the first time and it was amazing.
you are doing great taking care of your family. i cant imagine how tiring it is but i believe it is very rewarding ❤️ happy anniversary, wishing your lovely family loads of happiness and joy!!
I swear you're one of the best RUclipsrs . you really are!! I enjoy watching your videos. I enjoyed the conversation .I'm so glad you came here and everything worked out for you and your beautiful family❤️
This was absolutely beautiful, such raw emotions and I loved learning more about you apart from the delicious cooking!
Happy 16th Anniversary. I have been married for 31 years. I love watching your videos and your circus. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
This was so sweet to watch we always watch you and your children but I'm glad you let us see this side of your story thank you ❤️ and I couldn't imagine not having my baby I'm so sorry sweetie
She has done so much editing to blur her children's school logo🙆🤦❤️🖤
Happy Anniversary! It was great to see you debunk some myths us silly Americans come up with regarding China and Chinese food!! I am sorry you had to endure such trials in life as well! It has made you such a stronger woman from it! I moved to another state alone with me children and it was so hard! I can only imagine how hard it was from you to leave your home to another country and different culture let alone a new language! You are an inspiration to all!!
Patiently waiting from Belgium 🇧🇪 to watch your from vlog 😊
Thank you I will be here talking with you
I LOVE it when she says measure with her Chinese eyeballs 😂
I really enjoy your videos and appreciate the fact that you answer all our questions that we asked :)
I loved it when u asked your hubby "whats ur first impression of me" and he replied with "hot" 😂
Ahh what a beautiful family, he looks just like his dad! Glasses and all. When I have children I will only speak Spanish to them. Thank you for sharing your story to us.
你们的故事好感人，好励志❤️，我的男朋友是德国人，我也是在中国遇见的他，我们在一起四年多了，现在我和他一起居住在德国，你的勇敢、乐观，以及你超级有爱的家庭给了我很多勇气！谢谢！Thank you so much for sharing something so personal and yet so inspiring! I can connect so much with your story and I can see that what’s supporting all this, is the pure and strong love between you and your husband, enjoy what you have now, you certainly deserve it all!
i am glad to watch this video. you are so brave coming out without make up and fancy outfit. you see, being a mother isn't that easy. we can't look fancy all the time while juggling the house chores and the kids. you are representing us really well. Aging and panda eyes are real.
Gosh I loved your circus before I even more back story your blended family is so beautiful and wholesome you guys definitely needed to be on 90 day fiance I would of loved to watch your journey here
Thank you so much for sharing your life story. You are such a strong and brave woman, leaving all you knew and loved to come to a strange country. Glory to God your daughter could reunite with you and her siblings. I really enjoy all your videos and recipes, I like even more your serenity in the midst of caring for your circus, your home, husband and work. Happy anniversary!
You have a beautiful family! Hope you had a nice evening out for your anniversary. :)
Hello Hello! I love this episode so much! I really enjoy every details that you shared! Thank you Wendy for the lovely story! I’m also from Sichuan Cheng Du but I came to Singapore when I was 13 and live here alone all by myself and I’m 24 this years! Hope to see your next videos soon! 🥺😍
U are amasing n great the way u speak so actively all day n nite. Marvellous. May all members be well n happy. Dhne
Woww hope you liked staying in Singapore!! 😊
You made me cry smile and laugh I am African American and I assure you I went through the same thing only my mother and step father raised me and I am so close with my stepfather I love him so much he knows me better than ANYBODY well thank you for sharing and I truly respect you a lot Love you and your circus😉😉😉
Sorry I missed the premiere, but enjoyed your day so much! Thanks for sharing such a special day!
you actually gave your daughter Wendy the biggest blessing in the world by coming to America she can now legally come here to visit
I love this women. She's so sweet funny and caring. So impressed with how good you are with speaking English considering all you knew was your native tongue. I wish u all the best.
P.s I have been on a binge watch of all your videos lol
Wow this is a true love story …it needs to be a movie. I’m so glad that you finally got your daughter ❤️🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for sharing your story I was really interested in hearing how you and your husband met, because my mom and dad were all so long distance and flew across the world see each other and it’s so interesting to hear stories of people doing that in the early 2000s on the Internet was barely a thing. nowadays I feel like long-distance relationships are easier in a sense that we have technology they can constantly connect us like texting FaceTime etc. etc.
also loved seeing the clothes you designed!! they were beautiful!!
you have such a beautiful family!!! thank you for your amazing cooking videos 💖 make your recipes all the time. i spend more money at the asian market then i do a normal grocery store 😭
One of the best things anybody can do for their children is expose them to and keep them speaking in multiple languages. It really is a superpower. And if you are an immigrant, to keep children connected profoundly to their 'ancestral culture' is something to be treasured. Kids tend to fight this sometimes, it's just not 'cool' or it's too different to their peer group and at a certain age they can get easily embarrassed by being 'different or weird' but it's worth gently, proudly persevering. One day they'll realise how 'cool' it is. In later life they will realise how incredibly fortunate they were/are to have these 'superpowers' and these fascinating, rich layers to their Being and they won't be able to find the words adequate enough to express the weight of the gratitude to you. It's wonderful.
Happy Anniversary, Vivian! Wishing you and your circus health and happiness! What a lovely family you truly have - your son cracks me up every time he makes it into a video - "I'm a present!" 😁
Happy Anniversary. Looking forward to this video. Also, I appreciate you sharing the video on halloween - it looked like a saucer in the sky. 🤔😁
And, your circus looked so cute!!
Thank you for your videos. ❤
Thank you !! We will chat soon
That was awesome Vivian! Happy anniversary! It was cool to hear your story as well as see your husbands perspective on it. Hope you guys enjoy the occasion and a long and prosperous life. 🙌❤️
this is too adorable. My husband is from fuijan and he speaks only a little english but we have pure love. We are both working on learning each other’s main language. Mandarin is difficult to learn and write but i bet chinese feel the same about english. completely different origins of these languages. we understand each other better than anyone else could. love has no language and i am open minded to learn more about the Chinese culture and language for the sake of our relationship. a little every day to learn helps.
Hello, hello!
Happy Anniversary 🎉🥳
Thanks for being so inspiring, a wonderful Mom and great cook. You overcame such a culture shock with grace and ease by the look of it. All the best from Canada 🇨🇦 My best friend and co-worker in the 80's said I must be 1/4 Chinese because there wasn't a dish I didn't like. (Took me a while to get used to chicken feet 😂)
I love your pickle jar: I've seen Li Ziqi use similar ones so I've been saving for one I saw online.
I love that you talk to them in both languages. Both cultures are viable when having mixed kids
Congratulations! What a great love story. Amazing you fit into that dress after 4 kids!
You have so much energy despite not being a morning person
You are such a great woman and an inspiration!! You're not afraid to tell your story! you're lucky to have a beautiful big family and do have your hobby and passion as a job. Also thanks for sharing all of those amazing and delicious chinese resipes. I've learnt so much from you and I cook all the time! love!! Maria from greece
You're a strong woman enduring all those hard times. Now you have a wonderful family
Happy Anniversary wishing you many more happy years together. Togetherness of good health, success and happiness always. Stay blessed.You are a really lucky person to have such an amazing person who took so much pain to visit you. God keep you happy always.
I feel so close to you after hearing about your life's journey. You are a strong woman to endure yhe pain of leaving you daughter. In the end, life is good. Congratulations on your anniversary.
Happy anniversary! I'm proud of you for coming this far along in your life. Best wishes from me! ❤
I am happy you came to America and are doing youtube my wife and i love oriental food and i am trying to learn to cook it at home as i do not want to go out to eat it i fiund your channel on a serch and as fir you circus i love it when children are involved in cooking and helping with what their parents do and your children are children they love having fun i have had my kids in the kitchen sense they were big enough to set on the counter and not fall off and as for measuring things in your head that is the way i learnd to cook i never use measuring cups or spoons and i make everything from breads to soups or anything i want if i watch you make something a time or two i can make it i cant explain how but i tought my kids to cook the same way my wife use's cook books and i want yours i amd cooking Vietnamese Cambodian Thai and Chinese at least 3 times a week now sometimes more than that i thank you for showing me how to make Chinese food and dont worry about your children they arw doing fine and always remember children are the future and need to be encouraged and taught everything they can learn i hope your cook book is a best seller i wish you good fortune in all your endeavors
Eating the kiddos leftovers- coffee is life- one of the top two mottos of the panda mom club 🤣🤣🤣 looove your content Viv!!!!
You remind me of my mum & her humour ~ you are so positive & have me smiling anytime I hear “hello hello” ☺️
What a great story you two have! Happy Anniversary! I've not really been a fan of Chinese food, but your channel makes me excited to try cooking your recipes. 😋
Watching you guys interact puts a huge smile on my face. I love that you released this video, it’s cool seeing your life
Happy 16th anniversary!!! I wish the both of you to create more happy memories together. 😊💜
So many children in China seem to grow up with their grandparents, those photos with ur grandparents are so cute and this story is entertaining.
Awww! Thank you so much for sharing your story. Sorry you had to go through that. I am happy everything worked out in the end. Love your videos. Still need to try and make a delicious Chinese broth. Take care beautiful vivienne. 😘
I respect that when you said 'hate wasting food'
And Happy anniversary🌹
Happy Anniversary♥️🎉🥂🎉♥️Beautiful story of your meeting, you’ve got a beautiful family and life. Prayers for continued success in love, happiness, health and career♥️🙏💫✨👼🏻✨💫🙏♥️
My god love is blind, congratulations ...wish you and your family all the best and a happy future
Wendy's father was so cruel when he tried separate you and Wendy when you where still in China 😔 Im also shocked that you have to wait to 2016 get Wendy in the USA. Her father doesn't seem nice person...
“He wanted to call me….I was like…..don’t call me.”
So relatable😗
Happy Anniversary Madam,ur such a good mother, i enjoyed watching ur video, God Bless u and ur family circle or circus.
You are so inspiring! I am Asian myself. I love your authenticity!
I'm so happy that things have turned out beautiful for you all. I enjoy your videos.Please post the noodle and all recipes thank you. God bless you all.
Your kids are the best gifts that you can give each other. I love you and your family. Always stay happy and protect from evil Eyes
Thank you soooo much for sharing your story about your first time eating “American-Chinese,” haha. Actually I came to the US one year after you! And what you said, about the food and fortune cookies, OMG, my family also thought it was a Chinese thing, haha. Love how similar our stories are!
God she has amazing skin can we just take a second to say she’s really pretty like seriously 😳 seeing the older photos and now I was like man other than her face taking more shape she hasn’t changed at all! She has the natural glass skin everyone wants right now !
I just love you. You are truly amazing and such an inspiration as a mother. I love your vibe and can't Wait to get your book! You have really helped me and my cooking lol so thank you! So happy I came across your channel. So excited to see more of you and your success! You deserve it❤️ #pandaclub the struggle is real
Ps lard recipe please
Lady your life is really aspiring to me. I am from rural India and we don't eat meat but I just love your cooking so much, haha. I sound stupid. Please keep making these. Love your video lots. I hope I can cook similar one day. I am bad at cooking