Is It Necessary to Tell Your Partner EVERYTHING?
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- From side pieces to how many sexual partners you have had, do you have to divulge everything from your past to your current partner?
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Some things are for the grave whether you're married or not.
I agree but also be honest and transparent as well. You don't secrets, lies or hidden agendas
I'm beginning to think the same
Exactly
You never ever tell everything. But like Jeannie says if and when you get asked I think that that requires the truth.
Most guys cant handle the truth tho. Like dont ask many partners Ive had. Mind your business! Im not asking that so why should you?
Tell me about STD's that's what I wanna know. Tell me if you're in debt. Tell me if you've been to prison. I may even ask why your last relationship didnt work out but not to be nosey, I wana know what type of person you are.
Just because a partner doesn’t speak badly about their last partner, that doesn’t mean they won’t talk bad about you.
It’s a really good indicator of character though, that with other things of course.
@@IHYC678 people change
Facts 🍵 you never know..
Exactly. He didn’t talk to her about it. Who knows what he told others.
@@modeljaisimone Why assume the worst?
"I'M CUTTING IT IN HALF" looool Garcelle is my Queen
If my past does not affect my present relationship, there is no need to disclose my deepest darkest secret.
Some people have integrity and some have none and unfortunately that lesson is often learned in a crisis.
The best kept secret is the one you keep to yourself. Never handover information that can damage you.
100% agree with your comment Shane Rob.
"Never handover information that can damage you" - This!
Eh. I don’t think a particular number or a specific reason for all past relationships are needed but I think it is kind of important to talk about it in some regard so you can know what the differences between how possible behavior will be or patterns of character…
i agree with loni and garcelle. you don’t have to divulge everything from your past relationship to your current.
Need to know bases. That doesn’t mean you are a bad person not being honest. Sometimes honesty is not always the best policy. There are things one should not reveal. We all have thoughts and if everyone knew about it, it may not be a good thing…. When you learn and know better, do better and move on!!
My only problem is when they use that information against you.
I disagree with Adrienne . Not everything needs to be talked about or shared if it’s in the past . Why Bring baggage into the new relationship ? As long as there’s no disrespect , shady buisness going on , neither ppl needs to know EVERYTHING. Having some type of privacy is a peace of mind too .
Agreed.
You better preach!
I'm team Loni and Garcelle in this topic 🙋🏾♀️
Yes, 😄💯 Loni and Garcelle are older and more seasoned in life....that's why they have a different perspective on it...and they were both trying hard to school the youngin's (Adrienne and Jennie) but they weren't getting through...and I was just smh and laughing when Loni called Garcelle G-Money for saying she would answer but cut the actual number of people she been with in half...and then Loni was so right when she said, they think they're men telling them the whole truth about their past but they're not...👍😄
Yes! Disclosure is best on a need to know basis. If your partner has children or a STD is a need to know question; how many partners you have had is a want to know question and no good can come from it (no matter if the number is high or low).
@@fancynancy2888 👍😉💯totally agree!
It's crazy for the 1st time I disagree with Adrienne. I'm bummed out. Specially re: questions like how many sex partners uve had... thats just a nosey as heck question. He can use that against u. If it's a lot, it will be oh u were a hoe, if it's too little, oh u don't know nothing, not enough experience... I will teach u. and now they think they are better than you. No way. Never allowing that to happen. There's like a handful of questions that I would never divulge. It's in the past how is it beneficial to me... not to the relationship, to me. That's why it's in the past and I moved away from the past because it was not good. I don't like baggage and so like why???? 🤷. I love ❤️ u Adrienne. But everything else and I do mean everything else I agree with u 💯 Besitos
*100% on their side. why would you want to bring whatever happened in your past relationships into your current one? no matter what caused the fall out or who did the cheating, if you’re healed & are committed to bettering yourself, what’s the purpose of talking about the past?*
I agree with all the ladies. They all make good points. I hope I find a man one day who I can share everything with. But certain guys devalue women upon hearing certain things about them.
This is a real statement!
@Glory Roads honestly i feel like she could of just kept that to herself. Like good for her but what man would want to hear that?! Just keep it on the low honey 🍯 let it make you more of an empowered woman
I think you shouldn’t keep anything secret that is about them or could affect them or hurt them. Something totally irrelevant between you and someone else isn’t necessary
It is very vital that you are completely honest with your partner. Holding things back will only make things worse in the long run.
Facts keep it real with me. I don't want secrets or hidden agendas
Agreed!
*there’s a difference between honesty and oversharing*
the truth will come out in somehow, it better be from you
@@ItsNicckster
So you are willing to enter a legal contract that binds you personally and economically but there are limits? Marriage is the promise to go through life’s journey with your present and future selves. The past plays a key.
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I don’t think always need to know the past for the relationship to go through the present and the future.
@@RUclipsReady Your past influences your future. If you did stuff that is so important to you, that you want to lie about it / hide it... those are very much so the things your partner SHOULD know about. They deserve to make the most well informed decision about who they're with. You cant be bringing half of yourself to the table, because then they're only marrying half of you...and that is already a problem
Yup, limits for me. I don't want to know and I don't want to share. Worked for me and my hubby so far.
@@unbothered5240 you don't have to lie or hide it. You can just not bring it up.
Garcelle a real one for that at the end😂😂
I feel Loni. Young Jeezy an Atlanta rapper and Israel a whole pastor. Some of the dirtiest people. And they met them when the men were older. You know they got a past and you know they ain’t telling them everything. They telling them enough to get by. Adrienne can believe that lie that she knows everything. She told everything bc she ain’t got much to tell. Listen the past is the past. You gotta accept that the person isn’t going to tell everything and they shouldn’t have to and it shouldn’t matter. Not bc they are hiding but bc not everything is important enough to tell. Focus on the present, what happened in the past doesn’t matter. I also laughed when Garcelle made that face when Jeanie wouldn’t let her talk.
I love G-money. She keeps it real. Jeannie and Ade are FOS. Only a fool is sharing everything. Only insecure people need to know every tiny thing because it makes them feel like they’re in control. Guess what? Things can still go south. The person you divorce is not the person you marry.
Lol is "gmoney" and some of y'all our here ashamed of how many men y'all slept with? I don't see how a guy or a girl asking that question is a taboo topic.
No! Not a boyfriend, but maybe my husband. My grandmother said not to tell your man everything, because they won’t do that.
A man doesn't start out as a husband and if he's going to get to that point, I must have honesty across the board.
If either of you pretend and/or lie, well nothing you can do about it.
@@ayotal1 yeah, honesty is important. I just don’t feel comfortable telling them everything so soon, lol.
People will ultimately use what you tell them against you … even the best of people. Choose and filter what to tell
I did say everything and after 8 years of marriage and 4 kids he used something from my past to insult me in an argument. That was so hurtful
When your dating in your early to mid 20's these men will play you over and over again if you let them. They think being a player and hurting women emotionally makes them cool. They rather keep up a player image for everyone else than actually be decent boyfriends and commit to a relationship with a good woman. Anytime you tell a man what another man has done to hurt you in the past. He will go and do the same thing. I will NOT talk about a past relationship with a current boyfriend. When you tell your new bf that you ex did so and so. Your Bf is gonna do the same thing. That's just how these men are in their early - mid 20's. Don't share to much or they could use it against you. Don't ever give anyone the power to take advantage of your heart and your feelings for them. Don't give anyone the power to hurt you. Thats my motto.
Probably that's why some younger girls date older men because men in their twenties and thirties even forties want everything in sight. Truth be told if a man loves you he's not going to cheat on you because he could not bear it if you did it to him but these guys are hard to find
@@2sense110
Hard to find?
More like non-existent.
Actual good, non-abusive, non-cheating, non-lying, non-game-playing men have NEVER existed and NEVER will!
Cutting it in half. Love that one. I totally agree. No need to know just love on one another.
Sometimes sharing also helps the partner to understand where you are coming from with certain thinking. Then they may be less likely to do certain things to make you feel uncomfortable etc...(if your with someone who genuinely cares for you). And men will never divulge everything about their past because Ade said it will not be easy to hear 💯💯
They can ask what they want. I am not obligated to answer. I will not compromise my boundaries 🤷🏿♀️
I’m with Garcelle on this one.
Sorry but nope ....I made that mistake and he always brings it up and compares me to how I do things with him and how I did things with my ex....ladies and gents don't make this mistake
Every person does not need to know every thing. Tell everything if you want but don’t be surprised when it comes out later.
People get involved thinking their relationship or marriage will last forever and when it doesn’t all their private business comes out from the one who was supposed to love and honor them. Ladies/fellas and in-betweens or whomever- keep some things for yourself and your higher power. Take them to the grave.
Additionally, people who are married should not take advice from people who have never been married. Do so at the risk of your relationship and personal happiness.
This was so REAL and so funny! Loni and Garcelle were so funny that it felt like I was with a some wise, experienced 🤣 tell it like it is, girl friends!! Loved them! Jennie and Adrienne were giving their views with honesty, sweet, and maybe naively. Loved them too! The mixed views on this topic as with the others this season were interesting, funny, honest, and needed. I hope this show continues as long as it can. It's a 💎.
It is only important as it pertains to what you want to build… like if someone has cheated before ? Would I want to know ? Yes ! If you had sex with multiple people before me ? Not necessarily something I need to know ! Like there’s boundaries on what is considered something vital to share
I agree. I think there’s certain things I’d want to know about past partners. Like if it was a friend or a family member before we met? I need to know that. Having hoeventures in college? Idc. As long as you were safe.
How many partners you have can be vitals depending on the individual for example if you go to a job interview and you told the interviewer you had 10 jobs in the past 12 months they're not going to want you they're going to say you cannot hold a job. So the person who wants a serious relationship might consider that this person might not be long-term
@@2sense110 I think telling someone you never been a serious relationship before is important but I don’t think you need to tell them a number of how many sexual partners you’ve been with.
Exactly, Pastor Myronn!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@Glory Roads how would you know if she lies? She can lie and you’d never know the truth, how would that affect you? I think the way someone moves is more important than how many. I know women who have been in serious relationships and are girlfriend material and are faithful in those relationships but once they are single, they are out here and have had more than 10 sexual partners. But you’d never know bc they move smartly. If someone has been with 3 ppl but one of them is your close friend, that affects you more than someone that’s been with 13 men before you and you don’t know any of those ppl. If you can’t name any of her sexual partners (not ex bfs), then how does it really matter? As long as a man isn’t out here being thirsty trying to sleep with everybody and has slept with everybody, idc.
“I’m cutting it in half.”🤣
My partner does NOT know everything. But, he don’t know that he doesn’t know everything. The trick is to choose your words wisely and be aware of your vulnerability and what you say. There are just certain things that should only be between you, God and the entire heavenly body. That’s it. Either respect that or you don’t. If you don’t, then that’s grounds for termination. Terminate the entire relationship. I don’t like the idea of sharing everything with my partner. There’s things that he doesn’t need to know. As long as he understands what I present to him, and he’s aware of my character, then that’s all he needs to know. If he choses to share everything with me, then that’s his prerogative. That does not mean I have to. It’s all about self-awareness, perception and meticulously choosing what you say. Everything does not need to be said.
I like this. We as people are allowed to have some stuff just between us, God and the wind. You can have private memories in your marriage and still have a loving, safe, trustworthy relationship.
The problem is whe you say ‘the trick’ . Why is there always so much calculation when we talk about relationships? 😭 makes me so wary of being in one again knowing my partner could be making such calculated decisions to withhold certain info from me that I may need to know
@@randomcommenter1237 😂 I stay calculating. Like I always say, “Know your moves before the Devil knows and fuq up everything”. Do you truly know everything about your partner? How would you truly know if your partner or s.o. revealed everything from the past? You don’t know, and you’ll never really know. They may lie and say everything was reveal, but you will never truly know so why worry about the unknown? Therefore, my partner does not need to know my past for us to have a great future.
Every single aspect of my past does not reflect or affect my future. There’s simply no need to disclose all of my past information or private matters. Think about it. Suppose you had a bad past. Why bring trauma or baggage into a relationship? Would you really wanna know that? Why convolute the relationship with events of the past? Why do you feel like you’re owed to know your partner’s past? You choose to disclose all of your information. Your partner may only choose to disclose what he or she wants you to know. Some things are meant to be between you, God and the entire heavenly body. Just enjoy the present with your partner and look forward to the future. After all, y’all share that and you should know aspects of that…but the past? Nah, only what he or she wants you to know? If you can see a good-natured person and a morally sound character in your partner, then you’re good. Enjoy it 😀
@@RUclipsReady you sound like my abusive ex who would tell me to just ‘enjoy the present’ when I had questions about things that never quite added up. Also, you’re asking me why I feel entitled to knowing my partners past. Ask yourself why you feel entitled to your partners future when you won’t even be honest.
@@randomcommenter1237 who says I’m not being honest with him? I’m honest with him. I just don’t tell him everything. Disclosure and honesty are two different things. Yes, the correlate, but they are not the same. My past is simply my past. It’s MY PAST, so it gives me all the right to chose whether I want to disclose certain information to him or not. It doesn’t mean I’m not honest. When my partner asks a question, I tell him the honest truth bc I respect him…but he doesn’t always need to know every single thing. There’s just some things that will be disclosed and certain things that are not. Remember, partiality can still be honest. My partner may not know the full story, but he still has the honest, authenticity of my answer because I respect him and our relationship to give him that.
Edit: if things don’t add up, that simply indicates someone is not good at lying and negative forms of manipulation, which do NOT condone by any means . You can state the honest without revealing everything. Everybody, partners included, should not know everything and they won’t know everything.
I love Garcelle 😂😂😂 she's the only super honest one!
Lmao Loni is so funny
Its called past for a reason, what purpose does it serve? Two of the ladies are always extra with their honesty, how do you know that the other person is telling the truth?
I'm here for Loni's, "OH HELLLLLLLL NO!"
Garcelle says I don't think you should lie then Genie ask her how many boyfriends did you have she says I'm cutting it in half meaning she's going to lie
I completely agree with Garcelle❤
I am loving Garcelle!
Gosh … I’m hearing the real is possibly going to be cancelled 💔. With Tamera leaving & the current set up … I could see it falling off. If the rumours are true though, thank you for playing a big part in my life, I’m 25 & have stuck with these women from the beginning, regardless. Wishing our girls opportunities in abundance 💕💕
Jeannie and Adrianne live these perfect lives in this perfect world I can't stand. Sometimes it feels like they are selling us their ideal selves.
Who hurt you? You need to heal dear. It's okay to not share the same sentiment as them but don't speak on what you don't know pls. Not everyone is as miserable as you honey🥴
@@nodadasinesipho7157 I'm not hating. It's just that I watch clips from their show a lot and I see the two are consistent with always giving a perfect answer. I have never cheated in my life. I don't feel jealous. I am so supportive of everyone. They never seem to give opinions that normal flawed people can relate to. There is a reason I only singled the two out. Garcelle and Loni are so real. You feel the human in them
@@ken4722 So youre hating their opinions for what? If thats how they feel, there shouldnt be a problem to let it anger you
@@tiffanybarnes8286 why do you think I am angry? I just commented and kept it moving. You seriously think I am in my house getting hot over Jeannie and Adrieanne? Hahahaha... you are the one who should ignore my comment and make yours
@@ken4722 If you feel I should ignore your public comments, then ignore their public opinions. When people say that they can't stand something its in reference to being mad or irritated. so thats why I felt it's something that angers.
I've missed Jeannie soooooo much!! I totally agree with speaking on your past honestly when your partner asks. Because I only ask when I want to know and he should be ready answer honestly. I also don't think you should bring up your past just to talk, without your partner actually asking. I've noticed people tend to do that when they feel insecure or when they feel they have to prove something -- not really the best thing if it keeps occurring. If someone hasn't asked you about your past, it's probably because they don't want to know, so don't be divulging things that can be TMI for literally no reason.
I feel like you can only tell so much over time. I've been married on 8 years and there are still things that I'm shocked about when he tells me things. It's not necessary to have a contest of who tell the most information. Things will come out over time
And Jeannie… if you think the snowman is telling you EVERYTHING you are lying to yourself not us… please 🤣
I’m with Garcelle I’m cutting that sht in half! Lol 😝
Lies, I don't really enjoy being that vulnerable with anyone, because after they know, I can't help but question if it was even important to tell them all these details. I don't care to discuss everything, and I don't want to know their everything either.
Not every question my partner ask , he's going to get the truth. Some things are personal and will be kept that way. The truth is for things that will affect our relationship. If it wouldn't have a negative impact, hell no. That's my business.
Character & chemistry are both important. Marriage is an Covenant between you, your wife/husband & GOD!
Agreed!👍👏😇
Garcelle got me weak LMAO
I agree with the 2 married ladies.😅
The issue is that one type of partner is held to a DIFFERENT standard than the other. And if something is not RELEVANT then it doesn't have to be shared if YOU don't want or need to share.
I'm with Garcelle and Loni on this one for sure.
Loni and Garcelle on point...
Adrienne let the others talk lol
Adrienne that is what you think now, but one never know how others are going to turn against us later
I’m sorry but the person you’re with RIGHT NOW Doesn’t need to know your entire past. Let me explain, to you they might’ve been mistakes that you learned and grew from, but to them in the back of their mind there’s always gonna be a possibility of you making those same mistakes with them. It takes a real secure person and a solid relationship to be able to handle that.
Exactly, y’all think he’s telling you the truth. No real way to know. 🤣
Would you even want to be with someone would thinks negatively of you because of the actual number of sexual partners you have had?
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No one on earth has the right to know your past. You learn from it, improve, level up, and move on.. you talk about future.
The way Loni said, "As BOYFRIEND and GIRLFRIEND?! Ah hellllll no!" Has me laughing out loud in my kitchen.
3:05 LMAO Loni "G Money"
No, that's not necessary. Your past is your past
I LOVE LONI AND GARCELLE. They might need a show just the two of these GROWN women! Adrienne is too grown to be sounding super naive sometimes.
If she keeps it REAL she's naive, what do you people want from Adrienne? They're all there to share their opinions, you don't have to agree with it... She did it, it worked for her and Jeannie... How naive is that? Goodness gracious, just rest!
@@kikidesign968 people will tell a therapist who cannot emotionally bond with them everything but their partner that can bond with them emotionally they hide it from. I'm with Team A and j on this one
What’s the point in everyone having the same opinion?? they explained their reasoning and both answers are fine depending on the person.
@@kikidesign968 that part! Thank u! They are the only girls happily married
Nah she’s just a more evolved human being then you. You have something negative to say about her all the time 🙄 it’s getting old
Unless it's a crime, child, or disease, I don't need to know or want to know. And I'm not sharing either. Not hiding it just no reason to bring it up.
Not everyone is mature enough to handle certain things that you tell them, Garcelle and Loni are absolutely right. Some people will find out the hard way, you have to be careful what you tell certain people.
You guys should bring Steve Harvey to the show 😍🥰
My husband and I were 100% honest. I heard things I wouldn't have wanted to know, but I know them. I only found out years later, that scholars of my faith recommend NOT to do that and to keep it to yourself. Your life before your partner is BEFORE them.
I think that when two people do the work to *heal* and be the best they can be then all that matters is who that person is today and what they're striving for in the future. I don't believe in bringing my past into my today to continue carrying it on into tomorrow. The past stays in the past, I'm living for today as I look forward to my future.
If you and your partner keep significant secrets from each other, you end up with issues down the line.
Adrianne is such in a cloud all the time. Her marriage is perfect. Her husband is everything. Her style is out of this world. Take several seats!!
No. What happened BEFORE ME & BEFORE THEM is none of my business of concern. If they want to tell me then great but I’ll never ask. What’s the point of bringing up the past if I wasn’t apart of it & vice versa. Part of dating and being in love is taking risk. If it don’t work out cause you find out they a cheater then leave. It’s really that simple but people tend to stick around and tolerate way more than they should. Life is much simpler than we allow it to be.
No I would take certain things to the grave. What they don’t know won’t hurt if I could help it. If it didn’t happen while we were dating then NO. Anything before isn’t their business unless of course it could impact their life negatively.
Somethings should be kept to yourseld
No one needs to know everything about me.
I agree with all of them though. If you are married or really committed to a relationship you need to share and be honest in all things. If you're just dating or just want to have something more you don't have to tell them everything.
*why would you want to bring whatever happened in your past relationships into your current one? no matter what caused the fall out or who did the cheating, if you’re healed & are committed to bettering yourself, there’s no purpose of talking about the past.*
I'm taking advice from the married ladies
Man, I wish there had been more time to talk about this!
Garcelle!! You are the best!! Cut it down by 50% lol 😂 or May be by 70%
Garcelle is a queen 😄❤️
No, some things are just private.
The past is the past u shouldn't share everything from Ur past
What's the point of NOT being honest and transparent anyways? What do you lose when you establish your relationship culture to be one of vulnerability & transparency? Why would you be opposed to that? It's giving shame and that's a whole other conversation hunny.
How is it giving shameful? It’s not about being honest to me. A person can be honest and still private about his or her past. Being honest has nothing to do with what a s.o. wants you to know (or not know). For example, partners or s.o. who need to know about the number of ppl you slept with and details like that? What’s the purpose of knowing that? I can always lie to you and you’d never know. It’s not going to change number of ppl someone has slept with, so why is that important? So you can judge and make a decision about the person? If decision are being made based on body count, that’s an indication that of a childish person or an insecure person. If the relationship is going well, none of that ish matters. Needing to know numbers and past insignificant details in someone’s are t only convolutes the relationship and make things uneasy when it doesn’t have to be. Sometimes, the past just needs to be in the past 😊
@@RUclipsReady girl just say you a hoe and move on. Knowing someone’s body count is important because it can determine how faithful the person will be in the relationship. You surely wouldn’t date someone who’s sexed over 100 people because that’s an indication that they are promiscuous and likely to cheat!
@@RUclipsReady the less the body count is the more of an indication that the person is more loyal and faithful compared to someone with a high body count.
@@MALXCX people with high body counts aren’t the only ones that cheat. And not everyone with a high body count is a cheater. It’s just assumptions and judgment. People are ever-changing. talking to someone, paying attention to human behavior and understanding it well will tell you way more about who a person is than a number ever will.
Lol how is sharing how many sexual partners you had add or take away from the current one you have now? It's silly and unnecessary in my opinion.
No! No! Noooo! Do not share EVERYTHING with your boyfriend if you want to get a RING on it! Yes 99% with your husband. No one has the right to know EVERYTHING about you!
It’s a no for me
I can't believe Loni and Garcelle! 😲
First of all IMO how many sex partners your boyfriend (or you) have had, speaks to how serious or non serious your attitude is toward sex. If you're 40 years old and have been with 200 women...you can't say sex is sacred. I want to know if the man I am dating spent his life chasing "a nut" or did he value real intimacy and connections from his partners.
I do think if you are in a long term, truly committed relationship you should feel comfortable discussing your past. There are things from my past I won't tell anyone, under any circumstances because they bring me shame. But issues that my partner asks me about....as Jeannie said, it brings you closer to be candid.
200 women? That’s not normal.
Because Loni is just sketchy and hypocritical like that. Take a look at the earlier seasons. Always diving HEAD FIRST at mach speed into everyone else's business and as soon as she has to share, it's another lie or a cut to commercial break. She hasn't even ever had the girls over to her apartment before despite her waltzing over to Tamera's house uninvited and Adrienne hosting parties with Loni invited... I couldn't be friends with someone like that.
Agree with Loni and Graciele
It's interesting because they talked and wondered why marriage is held on a pedestal compared to a comitted relationship without that paperwork... but here, they make quite an important distinction right ?
Single vs married🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree with garcelle 😂
Am definitely cutting it in half😂😂😂
Geezz how many sex partners be having that they cant share the number? ... its not cool to have that many sexual partners. Take it easy people
It isn’t. It disgusts me when I see people with huge body counts. It’s not cute idk why people think it’s cool. It’s really disgusting. Everyone has a genital part so what’s the purpose of sleeping with everyone else? It’s so disgusting like STDS and germs people are passing around like ugh 🤮🤮🤮🤮
That what i was wondering, you were sure of doingit at the time but can't dish bc you are ashamed, yeah logical
People have the right to know certain things about you if you want to hitch your life to theirs. for example, If you were a serial cheater in your past relationships, ur partner has a the right to know so they can make an informed decision. Hiding that in order to trick the person you want to be physically and emotionally intimate with is really manipulative and shows an entitlement to that persons time, consent, etc.
I feel like if you have to lie about your body count you must be embarrassed of it. I dont think you should every be embarrassed of how many people you slept with. Its your life so who cares
This is me watching daytime...pretty good lol
I don't play that's game with boyfriends and girlfriends 🤣
In marriage you need to open and honest. Intimacy and vulnerability is a basis of marriage.
Lol loni got Adrienne and Jennie at the end.
NO!
People are saying you don't need to know how many partners your partner had prior to you. I think if you're looking for a serious relationship it does matter. Who wants to hire someone who cannot keep a job the same goes for someone who cannot keep a partner (5 Partners in 12 months) I'm exaggerating with the numbers but you get the jest
Not every boyfriend is going to end up being your husband though. There's no way I'm telling a boyfriend everything. Not even my husband because unfortunately all marriages don't last forever and I don't want the things I've told my husband to be used against me later on. Like they say, the person you divorce is not the same person you marry
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The deeper conversations should happen before more commitment; living together, engagement, children.
The two married vs. not married 😂😂 but I agree with garcelle and loni..