GET married, QUIT everything & SERVE my farmer husband? Farm Life Vlog
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2020
- Is that what is happening? What about my career and my dreams? It's time we had an important chat. Also it is SLOE season and I show you how we harvest wild berries to make a delicious traditional English drink!
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Intro song: Growing Up by Scott Buckley / scottbuckley
Outro song: It meant everything to me by Le Gang - / thisislegang
A woman must explain why she loves caring for her loved one.
What a mad world we live in.
I thought about it, too.
„Loved one“? Are you referring to the dog or cat?😉😅😅
Lucy, you should do what makes you happy ! Dont worry about anyone's opinion. Do not push to hard on yourself because your choices dont fit what people expect ! Life is short so live to its fullest. ! Regards from brazil !
Yup. Thanks, feminism and other modern insanities.
@@tommay6590 I thought we, her subscribers, are her loved ones... now I'm so sad...
Well. I am glad I got that off my chest :)
Yesss this is perfect i wanna know u sometime
Lucy, please add subtitle..
@@5566letslearnEnglish they are being written right now!
«What a Way to Go!» (1964) by Gwen Davis
Thanks Lucy !! You are my inspiration! ☺️
Seems like a quiet, peaceful life in there. You have a good partner, a pretty house of your own, internet connection somewhere remote, and a job you love. Can't see anything missing. Happiness is a relative concept, but in your case it fits.
Thank you Gabriel. Things are definitely good and I feel very lucky. I hope you are doing ok xx
Hello, do you love Lucy? Like me!!❤️
@@lucy Sister Lucy I really like Ur teaching . Actually I can't speak English well .I want to say many things about your teaching
Totally Agree ! Gabirel ...
Lucy out of your dog and cat which one do you love more
True freedom means, woman has freedom to choose the life they want, if a woman want to pursue family over career that is great, if woman want to pursue career over family that is great too. I can be a lawyer, an entrepreneur, but I value family above all that is what I will do if I met someone compatible with me. The idea i work and study is to be prepared for life to financially contribute fully or partly, my father passed away when I was very young and my mother instil the art of survival. It is privilege to have stable family, an institution to share love.
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That is true.
What should be our goal is not what our choice is, but the right to choose without having to justify that choice.
Take a man who decided to take care of his children and do the housekeeping full-time, for instance, he would be praised. But if a woman makes that decission she has to apologize. Is that equality?
However what is most annoying is that it is ourselves, women, who are denying that freedom to other women. Men do not care, they usually look at us in awe while we are at loggerheads with one another.
Besides, I have always believed, that demeaning the traditional housewife lifestyle is like looking down on our women forebears and their labours. We have to be careful not to become our worst enemies.
Love u from Kurdistan 🌸❤
Anjay mabar
Just like Muslim women choose to wear the masks 🎭? Serve your husband as long as he has the money to take care of you. Looks like this lady isn’t actually doing anything if she spends her time YouTubing. Funny 😄
I can't believe that some people might be so outraged to think that just because a women supports their male partner that suddenly they're totally subservient to them. If one or other of the partners wanted to give up their career/job to support the other then that's okay too. A loving relationship is not about demands, it's about working things out together. So long as partners don't try to suppress each others interests and passions then the relationship has every chance of succeeding. If your unhappy as an individual we can't be happy as a couple.
Hello, do you love Lucy? Like me!!❤️
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You've already commented what I was gonna say haha, but I completely agree. What we've seen in Lucy's videos doesn't mean that it's what her whole life is about. And what is shameful about taking care of the people she loves? It's just kind of sad that people are still assuming things about someone on the internet. 🥺
@@lalalcat251 So true Kate. It's so easy for anonymous people to make assumptions and/or nasty comments on the internet these days. We must ignore that when we know in our heart that those comments are simply not true. Hope your coping okay in this time of madness. It's not so great in Melbourne Australia where I live because of the many over the top restrictions we have right now. They make no sense at all. Unless you have a justifiable reason we're not permitted to travel more than 5 Km's from our home or leave it between the hours of 9 PM and 5 PM. That aside, It's great that Lucy would seem to be in a lovely space and the real life nature of her vlogs are great viewing. Love is a beautiful thing. Cheers.
Well said.
Of course you should look after your husband. Be proud of it. He looks after you too❤️❤️❤️!
You are absolutely correct. Many times people tend to forget about men and what they do
I wish I was same ☹️
Exactly, and that is totally different than 'serving'
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Exactly. They both gave something up to get married but they both gained something else.
Best wishes for your married life...I'm a regular listener of "English With Lucy "...Best English teacher I have ever seen.
Strongly Support
Full support she's the best English teacher I've ever met
She is definitely. I miss her videos. The best ever
Ikr
Agree
Hi! Love to see you back vlogging 🙂 such a strange people in the world who are making assumptions that you are giving up your life as you are getting married 🙈 it’s so nice to see someone who is not only self concentrated all the time and showing only “my make up, my outfit, my this, my that”. You are showing beautiful values which all of us should have - caring for others, caring for home, pets, trees and plants and just being happy person 🥰 I always find positivity and countryside tranquility in your vlogs which I like 🥰
Aaaah thank you so much Evija ❤️
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Lot of truth said in this comment.
People love to judge women’s life choices despite the fact that it has nothing to do with them. Personally, I would ignore such comments and keep doing the things that bring joy and meaning to my life. However, I realise that can be hard to do, particularly when people have got the wrong idea.
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Thumbs up for you Beanie!
I really admire the fact that Lucy makes an extra effort to read the comments and know what her viewers are thinking. Normally , people with such a big following won't do that and they don't have to either but she makes so much effort and comes clean everytime about everything ❤️ you're the best Lucy 😭❤️
I really enjoy reading the comments and seeing the same names appearing again and again 🥰
@@lucy AHH ! 😍 GOT A REPLY from her for the second time ❤️ couldn't be more happy 💚💚
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@@lucy Aahh...you make my heart melt!❤️
Mam,you're such an adorable woman.
your partner is perfectly match to have you and so he does!
Lucy, your vlogs make me think about leaving London behind and move to countryside 🥰 i love nature, gardening and long walks 😍😍😍 also ginger coloured animals are my fav 😂😍
Hello, do you love Lucy? Like me!!❤️
Yeah. Opposite to developing countries where big cities have good living standard and the countrysides don’t, in England the rural area people have a beautiful life. I am from Vietnam staying in Huddersfield, feel awesome when visiting Yorkshire countrysides such as Conisbrough, Elsecar or Selby..
OMG Один любимый блогер в комментариях другого любимого блогера.Так неожиданно и приятно видеть вас здесь, Оксана!
Well, there isn't much time left, we are on the brink of the 7year Tribulation, that's GOD's judgement upon the unbelievers. Please get rapture ready: give your life to JESUS CHRIST while there is still time. Listen to Dr. Ron Rhodes on end times chronology christinprophecy.org/sermons/ron-rhodes-on-end-times-chronology/
@@juliakasimova435 Обожаю Люси :)
She is such a positive person....its so refreshing to watch her videos
Can I just say: you are living in my dream life.
Hi Lucy :) I really enjoy your vlogs as they capture the beauty and authenticity of your life on the farm. Wishing you all the best from Poland.
Thank you Aga
@@lucy Aga is perfectly alright :)
Lucy, Never Ever Let anyone make you feel as though you need to explain your relationship give and takes regarding Will. I see a healthy vibrant woman who is far more on top of the world she has chosen than we get to see. You are not serving Will when you make him lunch while he is hard at work on your farm. This is what we do for each other and something all of us need to do more. I have no doubt that Will feeds every need of yours as well. Looking after others does not mean we have given up a single thing. You are a strong, beautiful and independent woman and Will is very blessed to have you. I have a life quote book coming out in the Spring and I will send you a signed copy. I have worked in the Music Business for 36 years and semi-Retired and now during this COVID-19 Pandemic have picked up old hobbies combining my hobby with my old work skills. I have always been a writer and I have touched on this subject many times. I will send you a life quote from time to time to read. You are an Extraordinary woman and Will knows who you are and will never ever stifle you...I promise you that. Quote of the day:
Smile every chance you get; not because life has been easy, perfect, or exactly as you had anticipated, but because you choose to be happy and grateful for all the good things you do have, and all the problems you don’t have. You must accept the that life is not perfect, that people are not perfect, and that you are not perfect. that’s okay, because the real world doesn't reward perfection. It rewards people who have intent and are determined to get things done. Each of us has the power to make a difference regardless of how trivial it may appear to us at the time, It is the intention that carries the true meaning of the act! Kindness and love are the most rewarding gifts we can give, and they don't have a price tag attached to them. Make today your chance to give something back...your reward will be in how it makes you feel. God is the ultimate authority! ~ George Wheeler
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Wow, that was beautiful. If only more people could think like that.
You're not serving him. You guys are Splitting work and you enjoy cooking a lot-regardless wo it is. The Life You're living seems so amazing. I can't get over Diego's and Alfonso's cuteness. They are ADORABLE ❤️
I'm so happy for you, dear)) May your marriage be blessed💗😊
Shooting a video alone is no easy job, not mentioning all other things that you deal with in your work. Why should people think you've given up your occupation? You're doing so great aligning it with what your family needs! Wish you and Will the best!
Will is not an eye candy; his helpful and a sweetheart. He cares about Lucy just as much as she does with him. More important, he's taken. Let's cry, boys and girls. Lol.
I know, right? They are so beautiful, each one and both together. God. I can barely _stand_ it. But, somehow, I will. I'm strong like that. I'll make it through to a better tomorrow. Yes, I will. In the meantime, I'll fantasize about picking blueberries in the lovely countryside on a warm, sunny day filled with green shrubbery and covered by blue skies while looking absolutely smashing in work trousers and wellies. Sigh.
I truly admire you, Lucy.
You are an amazing human being :) Huge Respect
I’m a London boy, born and bred! The City is where my heart is... but goodness this country life actually looks like goals for me one day!
....Can’t believe I said that! 😱🙊
I'm a native speaker from Canada and I always turn on one of your videos in the background to listen to your lovely RP-accented voice. I always learn a few more words and expressions too!
She does have an amazing accent
Your husband is so lucky to find such kind of incredible soulmate
You're such a gorgeous person Lucy ! Your husband was lucky to have you, hope all the best for you both !
"Looking after people makes me happy!" - I love it, and your attitude toward yourself and life in general.
Love that cozy atmosphere and calmness Lucy’s videos can bring ✨
Hey Lucy, try your local honey for your hayfever. The bees would have made that honey from the local pollen in your area, this honey will allow your body to adapt to the pollen in your area. So after a week or so, your hayfever should start to calm down without any medication needed. 😉✌
Love to watch your vlogs! You give me a sense of "happiness in the small things" vibe. Which, to be honest, are the important things in life. You and your family are amazing, don't let anybody tell you otherwise! Much love from Brazil ♥️
Lucy aprendo mucho de tus vídeos. No tienes que explicar tu felicidad a ninguna persona. Simplemente muchos nos alegramos por tii y agradecemos que compartas tus experiencias que inspiran mucho! Saludos desde Argentina!
Lucy, I wish I could get married, quit everything and serve my farmer husband. I truly do. It would make me so happy and content. I don’t have that chance right now, but should my life come such fortunate point, I would choose to live the farm life without a second thought. And to see that we live in a world where a woman is criticized and pitied for enjoying domestic activities and looking after her loved ones makes me truly sad. It suggests that no true freedom of choice was ever achieved since the first women’s movement, all we did was exchange the general expectations so we can still shun whoever strays from them. Good luck to you with your domestic endeavors as well as all your career goals and dreams (because the two aren’t mutually exclusive) and thank you for sharing them with us. Can’t wait for the secret sloe gin recipe! ❤️
i liked your comments. if u join me we may buy a farmland
@notestoself I so love your comment and above all I totally agree that we have only managed to change what is expected of a woman instead of giving women the freedom of choice. Unfortunately in many cases it is the men who have such expectations and some of them even pretend to be feminists because of that.
Lucy, desde que te descubrí estoy enganchada a tus vídeos. Eres Bella por fuera y por dentro. Eres una mujer inteligente y que sabe lo que quiere. Tienes una vida plena y maravillosa, irradias paz y serenidad. No dejes que ningún comentario de gente que critica por ignorancia o por envidia te desdibuje la sonrisa ni un solo segundo. Un beso enorme desde Madrid bonita🤗
Ma'am please don't delete your English lessons videos..I still rewatch them for my vocabulary 😁
Congratulations for your new phase in life🙂
You need to make these videos 30-40 minutes long. I love them. They bring peace to my soul. Keep up the good work.
First of all congratulations 🎊🎈you are truly genuine. Thanks for the forfaix boots company. I absolutely love it 😊.
Your vlogs on this channel leave such a happy feeling! Thank you so much for sharing all those positive vibes!🤗 I can't stop watching the farm videos because they are so beautiful and nice😊 and I also enjoy seeing you so happy while making them! It's obvious you love what you do for RUclips and also what you do on the farm, and that almost pours out of the screen from your videos💚 I hope you'll stay in this good mood and will continue sharing not only your advice on English learning, but also your positive emotions 💐
Beautiful animals,doog and cat.Amazing gardens,berries and green glass.And Beautiful teacher.🌷🌷🌷
Your Garden is Amazing and I really enjoyed this video. Love those boots. You have such good taste and style. Nothing wrong with being fulfilled serving others the world needs more of that instead of everyone out for number one. Your Dog and Kitten are simply adorable. Blessings from East Tennessee stay safe. xx
“Orange skin sometimes” 😂 made me laugh a lot. You’re so much fun! I guess I’m watching your vlogs to see what nice and funny this young lady has to say besides enjoying cozy, simple and natural atmosphere of your life. You’re a beautiful human being! But your sense of humor is my fav ❤️
Am I the only one?
Seeing your farm life is so relaxing. I can not explain how much i enjoy, feel calm and stress free. There is a very relaxing, soothing vibe your videos give. I don't know if everyone feels the same or not. But I do. And i absolutely live them.
Lucy, I am so happy to see you and your husband can enjoy the wonderful farm life, and I should say thanks to you because you are teaching me and lot of English learners all over the world! Please don't stop producing your english teaching channel for us, It is so hard to find a channel like yours, which is so interesting and convincing! Cheers!
Greetings Lucy,
Heartfelt congratulations on your marriage. I dearly hope you have the greatest life full of mirth and celebrations together. I must say what you have done is hard to be reciprocated for teaching is an important thing and it takes quality to teach that too over the Internet. As a student I thank you so dearly. Wish you all the very best for your future endeavours.
Thank you.
Beautiful bride, best teacher, perfect life, god bless you all💕💕…good health & good luck👏👏👏
Lucy , O, Lucy! Just wanted to let you know that watching your vlogs is a HUGE relief from the stress that I'm going through in my life right now! THANK YOU
THANK YOU LUCY!
I´ve been always watching you videos now and then when I wanted to work on my English you were my absolutely fav teacher. But now when I´ve found your personal channel and found out so many personal stuff about you I love you even more! :) You are officaly my role model.. such a clever and ambitious woman working on her own buissnes and also a lovely wife of a farmer... you are not only really pretty but also handy and yoou can cook and do gardening! I don´t think that you gave up your life/ dreams- it´s obvious you´re living your dreams! and who can´t see it just because she/ he has a different view of life- open your eyes :).. keep on doing great job.. you´re inspiring me!
I didn't know you had this channel, Ijust watch your English lessons since January (I love them) and in the last video I saw your beautiful willow tree and discovered this magical channel LOVE IT TOO you are INCREDIBLE Hi from Spain.
Bless you both, n Diego n Alfonso are the cutest 💞
I'm not sure if you knew how much I love this channel, especially your farm life ones. They're the kind of videos I love to watch in a comfy place, while drinking coffee. Love lots Lucy! Just in case you need a reminder, you're amazing! 💖
I am so glad you are back to us!
just a bit of advice as a young brother(sounds weird😂).
learn to ignore negativity.
i saw your video about that controversial issue of pronouncing words professionally.
nobody knows about that thing untill you told us.
so just relax, do yoga or meditation and take a chill pill.
(ignore grammatical mistakes)
I absolutely do need to take a chill pill sometimes :'D
@@lucy the best day of my life that i got reply on both of my comments😎.
Thank you so much.
@Tp PT 🤣
@Tp PT Me too 😀
Are u from india
I just love your vlogs so much❤️ thank u
Watching your vlogs is so calming and lovely. Also, you film them so well they go so quick. You're a very beautiful soul, inside and out!!!!
OMG Lucy your vlogs make me sooo relaxed, they're literally the most peacefull thing ever!😊
Such a Insparational video !!! One of my dreams is having a farm and a lovely house so this video motives me even more. Thanx for sharing 🧡🧡🧡
Bloody gorgeous those orange poppies! They look smaller than the red ones? Would love to see Will cooking!
In a book called "Five love languages" written by Gary Chapman, the five ways to express and experience love are:
1. words of affirmation,
2. quality time,
3. receiving gifts,
4. acts of service,
5. physical touch.
So ...
I have read that book! Bet you can guess how I like to show love 😂 I learnt a lot from it, and I listened to it on audible and adored Gary’s voice and accent. So warm.
My guess is acts of service.
I hope you see this comment, and I just want to say that your videos make me feel really in peace, they switch my mind off for a little bit and make me feel so good. Life could be awesome by having dreams and work hard on them.
Looking after the ones you love is amazing and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. Will seems lovely, and you guys seem very happy. Sounds ideal. 👍
❤️❤️❤️.... U r awesome!! No matter what u do... I will always have u as my rolemodel🤩🤩🤩
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I adore your videos! You are such an interesting person🥰 make more videos please
thank you for the encouragement Inna!
Lucy, seeing the clips of you looking after your fiancé and your pets is so cosy. And, apart from this, it's lovely the way you expressed yourself when it comes to your favourite colour.
Lucy is not so boring as I thought at first while watching her ENGLISH-learning videos. As it turns out she can be caring, attractive, comforting and familyish. Good luck with your private life! Something tells me that you're on the right track, having all this in your life. You know how to make people happy and you're doing it best. You're HAPPY, no dout, and all around you are happy as well. A little lucky Lucy girl makes the world a better place - isn't that wonderful? I'm speechless.
Best wishes!
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Hyyyyy Lucy...I really like your vlogs... best of luck for your merriage ❤️
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Hi Lucy. For personal reasons I have been very sad recently but your channel has been helping me a lot to forget about my sadness as I really love the English language, your accent and vlogs etc etc..Just want to say Thank you
I’ve been going back to these videos recently, I adore your videos. You provide me so much happiness & hope during this time❤️missing you, Lucy
Wish you happy MARRIED cute couple.
I just want to tell you something that is
"Don't you worry your pretty little mind. People throw rocks at things that shine"
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Lucy once said in one of her videos, she got angry when somebody asked her to take a chill pill 😁 However, I am sure she understands the intention 😊😊
Funny enough Lucy's decisions remind me of my mother. She also gave up on her dreams and took care of me while my father worked all day long. She is the reason I could grow up happily without any problems. So thank you Lucy, for reminding me of her, and I respect you just as much
I love your vlogs Lucy! I definitely know that you are still doing your English lessons (which is WORK!) and I'm sure you have lots going on! A lot of us realise that you have many things going and you do a lot!
I'm afraid Alfonso will start to bite even more as he grows. He looks so similar to my ginger cat, a big orange donut.😊
This is my dream! I look forward to being able to quit my job, so I would take care of the house, food and my husband 100x better
Hi Lucy, I really love your farm life VLOGs. They make me feel so like home.
Many happy years! Enjoy every day of your life!
Best wishes
Not quiting maybe having a rest for a while
If I had someone as lovely as Will I’d make him sandwiches every day too 🤣
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this kind of vlogs are so calming to watch relax!
I absolutely love " English with Lucy "and have been following you for a couple of years.
My husband is English and happens to be an English teacher as well..I often share what I learn from your channel and he totally agrees with your teaching. I'm so happy for your marriage. Big congratulations. Have a blessed and happy married life.xx
I can imagine your future children playing around your garden. That would be beautiful. Best of luck for your marriage!!
Happy to see ur new vlog even though it’s 2am here 😂😂
That is dedication Vincent! Thank you!!
Lucy Bella Also congratulations ~~
I am really looking forward to seeing you, Lucy 🌱
Watching your terrific RUclips channel makes me happy.
Learning English with Lucy is what makes me happy.
Wish you a Happy life love from India ❤️🙏
Those dislikes are from people who are jealous of Lucy
I think you should do whatever you want to do. I think it's so sweet that you put your loved ones so important and that you love doing it. I love to look after people too. I'm my happiest when I'm taking care of family and friends. Yes, Will has a beautiful face and I can tell he's very kind.
Great video, bringing lots of sunny happy emotions! Thanks, Lucy!
I love u lucy ❤️
I literally just watched your last video and then you uploaded this video now! made my day, i love your vlogs :) hugs from Denmark
aaaah thank you Kristina!! Massive hug all the way back to Denmark xxx
I was recommended one of your English videos and I love your energy and then I realise you’ve got like all my other hobbies as well!🌻🌻
I love watching the videos of your wonderful life with Will! They make me happy. 🙂
True feminism is allowing women to do whatever they wanna do. Just throwing that out there.
I'm not a feminist but I agree with you!! Lucy is doing great and that's what matters
Everybody must be free to do their own thing. Whether you are girl or a boy you must have freedom to do your own thing rather than accepting the slavery from others.
Carlos Rausch Yes!!
BNL you’re right, but women, before the decision, should be aware of all the risks involved in being financially dependent for their whole lives. An old housewife (a wife of world respected professor) told me that it’s better to have your own 1000 Euro that 10,000 from your husband. I think that this is something that many women still experience all over the world. And it’s called harassment-economic harassment. Nobody knows what can happen. No woman want to work two full time jobs. Still they choose to work. Why? Because they want to feel safe. That’s it. So cherishing for the new life as a housewife is a kind of at least lack of responsibility.
@@vio3366 you probably are, if you believe in true equality, not the SJW femizanism we have today
lucy's really needs to be in Harry Potter 😂 Her voice gives off that Hogwart vibes and her visuals is for hollywood 🤔
so true 😂
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I actually had that in mind. Hahaha
Please make more videos like that Lucy!! It's just so relaxing 😍😍
what you have done for us,as a public was wonderful
such messages from you very prescious . and going after someone you love is something that everyone needs to do .
thank you so much Lucy
Oh I can't convince Sherlock to cut his claws, he's panicking if I try... Besides, his claws are black, so you can't see where to cut... Horrible! Diego is such a darling, being so patient :)
guten Abend!
Just file his nails or let him outside look for a block of cement for him to scratch on. My aunts dogs are badly kept so they adapted to this problem by filing their own nails when it's overgrown.
You are an mordern example to many people who thinks marring farmer is a shame in society.. especially in India. Kudos to your married life.
What a lovely cat and dog you have got, Lucy! Love them,and you too.
Don't worry. Will, Diego, Alfonso and the earth you look after will help you grow into something even better. Keep up the good things that whatever you're doing and please smile more.
Best of luck for your marriage. 🙂
I'm so deeply in love with Diego
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Good on you Lucy. I teach English in Australia (online since covid) and have always found you to be an inspirational teacher with her heart in the right place. Nothing wrong with looking after people. Take care!
It is really good that you spend your time to family and enjoy life