Let Me Explain From The Heart That I'll Be Perfect When Pigs Fly

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  • Опубликовано: 11 июн 2024
  • In this video I'll be having a serious discussion about an email I received, my intentions of speech during the Rolodex Card Challenge Titled Fashion Ladies and my burn out with the Margarete Millers Weekly Collage Challenge.
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Комментарии • 78

  • @amyb82941
    @amyb82941 29 дней назад +5

    💜💜💜 You WEREN’T rude or anything even close!!! Sounds like “someone” got their panties in a wad and took it out on you to demean you and your channel. It is YOUR channel and this person needs to move on and live by her “thumper rule” herself! Dang, this makes me angry and you shouldn’t let this person bring you down. You are stronger and better than you know.
    I’ve done that challenge now for 4 years and I decided a while ago that this was the last year. I totally get the burn-out and the prompts seem to repeat. So you see, you’re not the only one! I love your channel for the variety and freshness you bring to all types of artwork. You go, girl!!!
    I’ve mentioned your name to “Raphael” and he said he was “working” on it - have faith 😉

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thanks so much, gf. Yup, bloodwork regarding eye, coming back wonky, so now I have to see a hematologist. Yesterday was not a good day for me at all and then on top of it, this email. Sorry for the rant, but ............ need I say more. I hope Raphael has my back like you do. ❤🙏 xo

  • @shayriddle1498
    @shayriddle1498 28 дней назад +4

    My friend, first off I'm so sorry to hear you received not the best news from your dr. I pray all turns out ok once you go to the clinic.
    About your video.....some people have nothing better to do than gripe. It is your channel and you have the right to say and do what you like. If people don't like it they need to move on and take their opinions with them.
    I will continue to watch what ever content you provide and be thrilled that you are doing so. Prayers,Love and hugs. Xoxo

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Thanks so much, gf. Yup, bloodwork regarding eye, coming back wonky, so now I have to see a hematologist. I agree with everything you said and I'm sorry for the 'rant' but my mother isn't here any longer as my sounding board. I'm blessed I have you gals. People have no idea what one is going through and I agree, keep your opinion to yourself. Thanks for the prayers, love and hugs. Right back at you, Shay! 🙏❤🤗

  • @JulieBirdL
    @JulieBirdL 28 дней назад +4

    Well the only thing I heard you say about MM was about the impact you doing the challenge had on the number of views those videos rec’d and you were trying to discern what was driving your viewership. NOTHING about MM personally was said, her name was only mentioned because it’s the name of her challenge. That’s really too bad you had to even address this Barbie.
    Puts things into perspective , most importantly having good health! So glad you addressed it and aren’t upset, because now you can fully focus on this upcoming doctor appts.
    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 all goes well! ❤

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Thanks so much Julie and boy, you're a good listener and obviously know me. Something that had to be addressed for sure. Still dealing with the eye issue and now I need to see a hematologist, which didn't set well with me at all and is upsetting enough without someone coming down on me b/c they didn't understand my words. Blessings and hugs 🥰🥰🙏

  • @michcrafty8664
    @michcrafty8664 25 дней назад

    Sorry to hear all the stress you’ve had over the last little while. I do agree that the Sunday collage can be time consuming in trying to find images and layouts. And you have lots going on too. At then end of the day - you do you- as you do that so well ❤❤

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  24 дня назад

      It's all good and my mind is in a much better place. Thanks, Mich. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @craftyoldlady
    @craftyoldlady 28 дней назад +4

    Jeepers! I think you are allowed to share or not share whatever content you want on your own channel. I didn't think you said anything disrespectful either. I'm sorry you got some bad health reports and hope they can be resolved.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Thank you so much, Sylvia. I appreciate you comment and I apologize for the rant. Yesterday too many things were piling up on me and this email sent me over the edge. The heath issues are still with trying to figure out what is causing the Iritis in my left eye and one blood work up didn't come back with good results. Now another appointment, this time with a hematologist .... I was at a breaking point yesterday. Hugs and a big thank you, again to you. 🥰💙

  • @MerryScraps
    @MerryScraps 28 дней назад

    First I have to say your collage is just amazing! I watched your video the night before on tv & commented the next day. I completely forgot about the MM Challenge you talked about. I didn't think a thing about what you said. We all need to create what speaks to our heart. I did not think that you were saying anything bad about MM, I just thought that you were ready for a change & that is okay. I've been doing this challenge for 3 years, also. I do love it but this year I have questioned if I would continue next year. I am sure I will but after so long, we are sometimes ready for a change, that doesn't mean we think bad things of a hostess of a challenge.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  27 дней назад

      You are a very good listener, Jeana and you totally understand where I was coming from. You are always so sweet, caring and just a wonderful subscriber and friend. TFW and I can't wait to create something new for you. I have to make my bird collage and cannot wait to go watch what you created. Take care, my friend ........ and big hugs to you today. xoxo

  • @vickiejensen1265
    @vickiejensen1265 28 дней назад

    Sending hugs and hope everything is ok with your health! Just keep doing what you love! ❤️

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Thank you, Vickie. More doc visits regarding the darn eye. It's exhausting and yesterday I hit my tipping point. This email was what sent me over the edge. A good cry helped after talking to the doc and then it was business as usual for me. Thanks for your comment and support. 🥰

  • @J0yb3ells
    @J0yb3ells 28 дней назад +2

    Barbie, ❤❤ I had a boss many, many years ago, who said, "You can't please all of the people all of the time, so you might as well please yourself." I think this is the case for you now. 😊 Take care, my friend.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      I agree, Joy. My father had a saying from WWII that when I'd get down he'd pull me aside and say, "honey, don't let the bast*rds get you down" .... a bit harsher than your boss but a different time. After what my dad went through as a tail gunner, he was the most positive person I had in my life, always seeing the bright side and thinking as positively as one could. He never let ANYONE get him down. He thanked God everyday for bringing him home safe after all his missions. I wish he was still here, as well as my mother. They were such wonderful listeners and my sounding board. Now I have all of you girls !! Thanks again and sending hugs your way. 🤗🤗🌼🌷💛🧡💛

    • @J0yb3ells
      @J0yb3ells 27 дней назад

      ❤​@@NellieandRuthDesigns

  • @lvan4407
    @lvan4407 28 дней назад

    I love your idea of the flying toasters.
    And I do enjoy your videos I’m going to miss you doing MM collages but I understand how one can get tired of them after a while so just have fun and do what you like to do.
    Take care❤

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Burn out does happy, gf and I think I've hit that brick wall. Thanks for commenting and yes, their really are flying toasters! 🤣🤣 I've yet to see one but I've heard ...........

  • @pennyrader3954
    @pennyrader3954 28 дней назад

    1. I think you have tons to offer.
    2. I learn something new every time I watch your videos.
    3. I appreciate that you are a straight shooter and can tell it like it is while still being kind -- I struggle this, I am such a people pleaser and have a hard time saying what I mean and standing up for myself. I've never thought you were mean. Want some uplifting news? I'm going to be great grandma tomorrow. :) We start really young in our family.
    4. This should've been #1 :) - you have to do what's best for you. I know you're going through a lot. Burnout is a real thing - maybe the other gal hasn't experienced it yet - we can't compare ourselves to others and what they do or don't do. Oh! I just saw Bambi for the first time a few days ago. Love the Thumper rule, had no idea that's what the saying is called, though my mom taught that to us when were growing up - sharing how you're feeling/doing does NOT make you a dictator. I don't like that word either. I haven't had a chance yet to watch the video you're referring to. I hope you get some rest and have positive outcomes with your upcoming dr visits.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  27 дней назад

      Penny, you do start young and OMGosh, congratulations on being a GG!! I am so excited for you. Thank you for all you served up for me in your comment. I so appreciated you and all you share with me. Sharing is caring ........ how's that! You are the best and I'm so happy you are a part of my world. Thanks for the good vibes regarding the doctors ...... I need it. Have a great evening and I'll see you real soon. Go enjoy your family and have the best weekend ever. xoxoxo

  • @lanakristoff5188
    @lanakristoff5188 28 дней назад +4

    I don't think you said anything wrong about the challenge or about Marguerite Miller. If anyone has been faithful to your videos for a while they would've heard the struggles that you've been having with these prompts. No one is forced to do these prompts so I don't understand why anyone would really care if someone chooses not to. Unless you are uncreative or have a TEMPORARY block, true artists can find inspiration without being told how to create art. The challenge is there if you want to accept it. It's obvious the person who sent the email shouldn't even be watching your channel if she doesn't appreciate your personality or the art you create. There are many boring channels out there she can go watch for prompts where they ink evey piece and put a butterfly and Tim Holtz item on everything they create. Don't feel bad or apologize. Some people just need to p*ss in people's Cheerios. ❤

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Lana, you are the best, my dear friend. When I read your last sentence I lost it ...... I needed a good uncontrollable giggle. It really made me laugh b/c my hubby has Cheerios every morning and he usually get a phone call from the quarry that will upset him. You've given me a new tag line to use on him, so thank you!! Yesterday was not a good day and when someone pushes me, I have to push back. People don't consider what others may have going on in their lives because it's all about them and their feelings. She needs to take a good doze of her own advise about that thumper rule!! Have a very nice day and thank you again. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @lanakristoff5188
      @lanakristoff5188 28 дней назад

      I am sorry that you didn't have good news but I am happy I made you laugh. Good thoughts and well wishes for you. Hang in there. 🤗

  • @susanstemmet607
    @susanstemmet607 28 дней назад

    So sorry to hear about your health and will keep you in my prayers for a good result with your visit next week. I unfortunately missed the video you are talking about and as I have been watching your videos for a while, I feel like you are a friend who is kind and thoughtful and I just cannot see you saying or doing anything that would hurt someone else. I love your surreal collages and however you do them, I will be watching. God bless you and stay strong.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thank you, Susan. Bloodwork still coming in regarding my eye and immune system and now I have to see a hematologist, which was totally unexpected. Others have no idea what is going on in other peoples lives and really should keep their opinions to themselves when it comes to 'their issues'. Sorry for the rant but yesterday it all piled up on me and that email really upset my apple cart. Sending love and hugs your way, gf ❤❤

  • @fvernal
    @fvernal 28 дней назад +1

    No tienes que disculparte por nada de esto.
    Me encantan tus videos, me entretienen mucho.
    Yo hago collage y hago algunos challenges, pero a mi propio ritmo, porque no soy muy fanática de los prompts. Inicialmente pensé que me servirían, pero al final prefiero hacer mis collages de acuerdo a lo que siento en el momento.
    Por eso me gustan tus videos, cuando echas a volar tu imaginación.
    Espero de corazón que tu situación de salud se resuelva muy favorablemente, mis oraciones por ti.
    Un abrazo 🤗💜

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thank you for your prayers and wonderful, very kind comment. I prefer not to use prompts as well, as you can see from my videos and I'm so happy you enjoy my work. I apologize for the rant but felt I had to address this situation. Have a wonderful day and thank you again for all your support. 🥰💖

  • @dianecholette4590
    @dianecholette4590 28 дней назад

    I admire your creativity and will continue watching whether you do MM or not. I find you exceptional and entertaining so please don't worry about others' interpretation of your message. I look forward to your videos, the highlight of my day.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  27 дней назад

      Thank you Diane, you are so sweet. I'll be back at it tomorrow and all weekend so stay tuned. I'm back on track, everyone has send me so much love, good vibes and even more inspiration to make my videos the best ever for you. Thank you again for your kind words and I am so happy to have you as a subscriber. I love sitting with you at my craft table, believe me!! xoxo

  • @myvagabondstyle
    @myvagabondstyle 28 дней назад +1

    Well said. Professional and to the point. You have such a kind heart, I know you weren't personally attacking MM. Even if I didn't know you so well, I wouldn't have thought that.
    This is a wonderful collage and I'm sad it didn't get its own video that it's so worthy of. ❤❤❤
    Love ya gf.

  • @amyspaid9031
    @amyspaid9031 28 дней назад

    Everyone’s pretty much said what needed saying. You do you Barbie. Some people just need to be negative Nancy’s and aren’t worth your time. Your collage is great fun! Positive thoughts for your health journey. Take care of you. ❤️

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  27 дней назад

      I agree Amy, I so very much agree. Time to move on and get back to what makes my viewers happy. Thanks for the positive thoughts, mind have been pretty dark lately so any light coming my way is helpful. Hugs, gf and post some fun stories over on IG to make me laugh. 🥰🤣🤣

  • @ChelleBeeby
    @ChelleBeeby 28 дней назад +1

    💜💜💜tfs💜💜💜 I never thought you were rude at all.. please don't let one bad email upset you - with all your health news this is the last thing you should worry about. I joined the MM thing and had to stop because with exchange rates the way they are it just wasn't value for money for me. I guess the MM challenge is what made me find you, but it's definitely not what keeps me here. I'm sending healing vibes, and don't let people let you down. I know it's easier said than done. At the end of the day, this is YOUR channel and you can do what you like... keyboard warriors are the worse, let them... you know, just let them. They obviously needed to express their feelings but maybe they should of taken their own advice, if they can't say something nice? *wink*

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      A keyboard warrior ....... you are so right, my dear. I agree with all you said, especially taking their own advice. Yesterday was my breaking point with all that is going on behind the scenes. Thank you for your healing words, I truly appreciate them and truly appreciate you in my world. An issue I felt needed to be addressed. I'm a strong person and always optimistic, however, I am human and can only take so much. Keyboard warriors forget and leave and set the human part out of their opinions. If I wanted her opinion I would have given it to her 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sending hug and love your way for all your support, caring and concern. 🥰🤗💜☮🤟

  • @mandycoleman3206
    @mandycoleman3206 28 дней назад

    First and foremost i love all your work and I'll keep hitting the 👍.Although i don't know you personally i wish i did,keep strong and hope all goes well at your appointments ❤

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Thank you, Mandy. I think you know me pretty well. What you see and what you hear is what you get on a daily basis. I have to keep my 👍as well. I just want all this medical stuff to be over with. It exhausts me and preoccupies my mind. Thanks, sweetie for being here for me, for all your support, love and caring. Have a blessed day, gf 🥰💜💞💜

  • @BigGrannydb
    @BigGrannydb 28 дней назад +1

    Barbie - all of your angst about an innocent comment - that was frowned upon by ONE person, takes valuable time from your creativity!
    You have - very eloquently - apologized & defended your comments. Now don’t waste another minute of your time suffering over this.
    The rest of us, who love you dearly, and admire you, admire & enjoy your videos, your talent and your willingness to bring us along for the ride - feel your pain, and are hurt because you are!
    Somehow, I doubt that Margarete was offended at all! She is a super talent and many of us have learned so much from her also.
    Let it go, Chick!!! And take good care of your health! That is what I am most concerned about! Much love from NC … ❤ debbe

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Debbe ....... thank you so much for your very kind comment and I agree. Yesterday was a tipping point for me in my personal life, still trying to figure out what is going on with this Iritis in my left eye and some bloodwork came back not looking so good. I've let it go, I'm moving on and the next time I receive an email such as this, it will be ignored. This person should have taken her own advice. My mother use to tell me, "Go ahead and write that letter but do not send it. Get your words down on paper and rip that letter up, then move on and forget about it." So true, but nowadays people feel they have the freedom to spew because they have hurt feelings. Thanks again, Debbe ............ 🥰💜💟💕🌼🌺🌼

  • @dorothyradley9391
    @dorothyradley9391 28 дней назад +1

    Well Barbie, I am so sorry you felt the need to make this video. You did nothing wrong, nothing whatsoever. It is your prerogative to say what you did about the MM challenge. Surely MM can’t take offence at what you said, it was innocuous. Really, some people need to stop taking themselves so seriously. Please completely ignore that person who send you the email. She speaks for herself and no one else and she had no right to speak for anyone else. Your channel is your channel only and you decide the content. People can get fed up of doing the same thing all the time, especially when the prompts can be ambiguous sometimes. You do You, Barbie. I consider you talented enough to hold your own alongside any other creator and you give lots of variety. The crossword challenge , collaging is for the birds, Rolodex challenge and you have some great ideas going forward too. I will stick by you regardless. Forget nasty emails that only bring you down. Some people are never happy unless they are forcing their ideas onto other people. I support you 110% in giving up your Sunday collage. You are a superb RUclipsr and maybe that’s the real issue! I
    I am really sorry you have had worrying results to some of your tests. Good luck on your visit to Cleveland . I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers . Sending lots of love & support from England xx

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Oh, Dorothy ... I wish we could sit down each day and have a cup of tea together. Your words remind me of words my mom would say and I truly love hearing from you. My father had an Aunt Dorothy, who he cherished and admired so much. She lived in the state of Washington, I never met her but she would send the most beautiful handmade cards to him. I think of her every time I hear from you, so thank you. I agree with everything you said and I am so blessed to have you in my life. I wanted to ask you the other day if you could please send me your address through my email ...... Nellieandruthdesigns@gmail.com
      Thank you for the good luck wishes in my trip to Cleveland. I will need all the prayers and good luck wishes I can get. An unexpected trip for sure. Thank you for all your love and support ..... you mean the world to me. Hugs 🥰💜💛💜🌼🌼🌷

  • @csk5654
    @csk5654 28 дней назад +1

    Barbie, you did nothing wrong. You did not say anything wrong either. It's your channel, post whatever you want gf. I love your collages any & all. You are absolutely adorable & I love watching your videos. TYFS Cindy
    P.S. so sorry to hear that some of your tests came back with troubling results. I'll be praying for you sweets.
    P.S.S. love your surreal collage!

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thanks, Cindy. Yesterday was my tipping point. After driving into NYC to JFK, doctors calls regarding bloodwork, having another appointment set to see a hematologist, then this email came my way ....... well, it all sent me over the edge. I had to address the issue. People have no idea what is happening, personally, to others unless they are in the circle of trust. This person is definitely NOT in my circle of trust and has no idea the hornets next she just poked at. She needs to take her own advice. 😡 Thanks, sweetie for your comfort and support. Prayers will help and I will always accept them. I was so upset yesterday, because I lost my moms beautiful gold bracelet my dad gave her one year for Christmas. I was heartbroken and new it had to have fallen off my write at JFK. Debbie from My Vagabond Style said she'd say a special prayer and I would definitely find it. I told her NO, it's impossible but thank you for your prayers. Cindy .......... yesterday I went to take out my pups backseat hammock, the the large bag my hubby put it in so we could ride in the backseat to JFK and my mom's bracelet was staring me in the face. I COULDN'T BELEIVE IT. 💜💕It had to. It was closed with the clasp tightly secured on it ... God works in mysterious ways, this is a miracle I will never, ever be able to explain. 💓💟💓

  • @AtSusiesCottage
    @AtSusiesCottage 6 дней назад

    You didn’t say anything wrong Barbie, your channel your choice of content! I watch every video no matter what, I think of your channel as a friendly place to be somewhere to go for a coffee and entertainment xxx💕

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  5 дней назад +1

      Susie my sweet friend where have you been girl? I have been so worried about you, it seems like forever since I've seen you sweet face in front of your comments. I do hope all is well ........ you are healthy, the family is terrific and your days have been full of fun and LOVE !! I am so glad to see you and hearing from you. Thank you for your wonderful comment and I've missed you like crazy. Hugs and kisses .......... xoxoxo 🥰🤗🥰

    • @AtSusiesCottage
      @AtSusiesCottage 5 дней назад

      @@NellieandRuthDesigns oh it’s so good to be back commenting! I’ve been watching as often as possible but with a house move, some health issues and a new granddaughter due today my time has been stretched! I’m slowly getting back to normal, not that that is a word that describes me lol, sending you positive vibes, love and hugs xxx💕

  • @mrsA805
    @mrsA805 28 дней назад

    Oh boy, crazies everywhere. I’m sorry you are so upset over this. You have nothing to apologize for. Your viewers are all here for you, not because you do a particular thing. You have so much more to offer and I can’t wait to see what’s coming in the future! I’m also very sorry you’re having health issues. Sending healing thoughts and prayers to you. I hope you can enjoy this day and let all that negative stuff go. Love ya gf, see you on the next video where you will do something spectacular with toasters!😂❤

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Thanks so much, gf. Yup, bloodwork regarding eye, coming back wonky, so now I have to see a hematologist ........ I just can't catch a break. I don't need anymore upsets in my apple cart and this minor situation didn't set well with me at all.

  • @pennymeyer3416
    @pennymeyer3416 21 день назад

    The lovely people who commented below have stated everything that needs to be said. I especially liked what Amy wrote. All I can add is there's one in every crowd! Moving on, I love what you create, so fresh & fun! I look forward to many more videos. And, not to beat a drum, as they used to say in England, Cheers! (I was lucky enough to live there for a rotation while my husband was in the AF.)

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  16 дней назад +1

      ........and as Sunny and Cher use to sing "The Beat Goes On" and that's just what I'm doing. I am so happy you have you at my table and in my craft world. England, you say. I've been there twice and loved every minute of it. It's been awhile but a piece of my heart was left there. Thanks for your words and I'm sending big hugs your way. xo

    • @pennymeyer3416
      @pennymeyer3416 15 дней назад

      @@NellieandRuthDesigns Back 'atcha! 🥰

  • @lanakristoff5188
    @lanakristoff5188 28 дней назад +1

    P.s. Love the toasters

  • @cherylstevens9665
    @cherylstevens9665 18 дней назад

    I have only recently started watching your channel and frankly I tried doing challenges and they are not for me. I didn’t watch the video of which you are referring but I like your personality just fine. I have been accused of speaking my mind, too, but I am too old to give a crap. Do what you want. If I anyone doesn’t like it, screw ‘em. I prefer a non challenge, that’s enough challenge for me. Hope all turns out well.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  16 дней назад +1

      Cheryl, you are definitely my kind of gal. I agree, I'm to old to give a crap as well and screw 'em. I just can't say that in my video, but it's still quite disturbing that some would call another out. My oh my how the world has changed. Thank you for your words, they are appreciated and have a wonderful week.

  • @irmamorris3675
    @irmamorris3675 8 дней назад

    I just found your channel and love it and didn't know anything about your Sunday challenge. We all get burned out on anything we do. I did hear your statement but have no clue why anybody was upset. She should look in the mirror and apply the "thumper rule" to herself. Because she was not kind to you.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  7 дней назад

      Thank you very much, Irma for your kind and considerate comment. I happy to have you sitting at my craft desk with me. I agree with everything you said and yes, kindness is the only way to be these days, for you never know what someone may be going through, etc. Have a wonderful July 4th and the most pleasant weekend ever!!

  • @SightWordMovies
    @SightWordMovies 28 дней назад

    People are inspired by different things! I too was initially introduced to collage by MM’s videos and I enjoy her channel-but I got burnt out half way through her challenges. I agree it’s not a reflection on her in any way. I thought I’d like them but I didn’t. Do not apologize for being honest. When I was teaching (now retired) my colleagues and I had to endure all kinds of crazy verbal abuse from parents and it can really get to you if you let it. I’m wondering if this hit you particularly hard on the heels of some bad medical news. Shake it off girl and put your energy into your health! ❤

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Tracy, it certainly did. I hit a tipping point yesterday and had a total breakdown. I'm usually a very strong person but it seems life's problems are piling on me faster than I can shake them off. I'm sorry you had to go through difficult times when teaching. I have a friend who is a teacher and she's counting the days until she leaves. The verbal abuse she gets from parents is unbelievable. There is no more respect towards others feelings. I have shaken it off and can only concentrate on my health now. I so appreciate your words, concern and love. Thank you again and I love hearing from you. You can definitely help me put things in perspective. Hugs and blessings 🥰🤗💜💞💜🙏

  • @juliaarmato3984
    @juliaarmato3984 28 дней назад

    Hi Barb. I don't think you said anything offensive. Your making a change in your direction in your channel. That is fine by me. I'm sending you a great BIG HUG. Life is messy and sometimes people take things the wrong way. If someone wants to do those collages they can find them in other places, I'm sure. Sorry to hear you had some upsetting news about your eyes. God give you the peace that is beyond our understanding. Again, much love and a big smushy hug. God bless 💝💝💝

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thank you, Julia ....... you have always been so kind in your comments and I have always appreciated and enjoyed your words. 🧡💛🧡 You are one of my special gals here in my craft world. I can feel that big hug and appreciate it so much. I have to had my fears and troubles over to God, regarding my health and try to stay as positive as I can. Sometimes that's easier said than done. God will take care of it, he knows me and my body better than anyone. I'll keep you posted, gf and again, thanks for that big smushy hug. If you had done that yesterday, in person, you're shoulder would have been soaking wet! 🤣🤣🌼💖💖💖

  • @susangazawaypapercrafting3749
    @susangazawaypapercrafting3749 28 дней назад

    You definitely did not say anything negative about MM. I mean, my goodness! Even she doesn’t participate in her own challenge. People really look for things to get upset about! I’m sorry it upset you. ❤❤❤As for your health, I am still praying for you.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thanks so much, my sweet friend. I knew you'd understand, just like all my other gals who really know me. I hit a tipping point yesterday, Susan and it was all too much. I'll keep you posted on the doc's .......... on to a hematologist next. I'm so tired of being poked and prodded. Prayers are always welcomed. Prayers are my go to know, especially when I go to bed, I put on the rosary (on my tablet) and pray, pray, pray. Hugs and love to you today and many blessings. 🥰🤗❤🙏

    • @susangazawaypapercrafting3749
      @susangazawaypapercrafting3749 28 дней назад

      @@NellieandRuthDesigns ❤️❤️❤️

  • @maryannschuetz5155
    @maryannschuetz5155 28 дней назад

    Hearts, Hugs, Thoughts & Prayers for your health (both physical & mental). Next, the hypocritical rabbit that emailed you should just STFU! The thing that makes me most sad about all of us folks is...1000 people can give a compliment & ONE can destroy it all! 😓 YOU did NOTHING WRONG!!! P.S. As a youngster, my Aunt got so mad at my Uncle that a toaster DID FLY! Your collage made me laugh!!! ♥🔥

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  27 дней назад +1

      Oh Mary Ann ........ let's go have a drink 🍸OMG, I'm sure we could tell some great stories and laugh our butts off. I can't stop smiling after you mentioned your Uncle 😂😂 I agree with everything you said and I am over it now ...... like someone said, keyboard warriors can be pretty bold and that's just what they are. I wanted to send a rely like you suggested but thought I'd take the higher road .......... next time I'll go low 🤣🤣🤣 that would make me feel better for sure. Have a great night, gf and thanks for the laughs tonight. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @pamelaandrew8051
    @pamelaandrew8051 28 дней назад

    Love your channel and work,, If its time for you to move onto different things that’s your perigative, no bad feelings or words about the other person just informing us your viewers of other things to come. Shame you feel you had to explain due to someone’s misconception of what you said. I will watch all your tutorials each week regardless of who challenges you decide to share with us. Keep up the inspirational work and here’s hoping your ailments don’t become too serious.

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  27 дней назад

      You are so sweet, Pam ... thank you very much. Yup, time to move on and make my viewers inspired, happy, joyful and smile, smile, smile. Yesterday's new and such piled up on me and then to receive an email like I did ..... well, that sent me right over the edge. It takes a lot but I just couldn't take another negative anything in my life. Today is much better and tomorrow I cannot wait to get crafting again for you. Thank you so much and big hugs !! xo

  • @christine0nowell757
    @christine0nowell757 28 дней назад

    The reason this person emailed you and didn't reply here was because she knew she'd be shot down with the remarks she made on here.
    It never occurred to me that you were anything 10:41 other than respectful, and I'd be the same with everything going on in your life atm
    There are other people on you tube that do the weekly challenge, you can watch them if you like to follow it. Honestly my lovely, stuff them that don't like what you want to do on your own channel.
    I watch all your videos, and really you must not take to heart what one negative person says in an email. We all love what you do, ❤️ and you certainly did not come across as rude or anything else for that matter, and if this lady thought so she's not had a life with many problems for sure.
    Lots of love to you xxx

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thanks, Christine! Your comment is so appreciated and you definitely are spot on. I didn't think I was rude at all but I guess with everything happening in my personal life, and reading this email on the heels of getting more disturbing news from the doc, it sent me right over the edge. Thank you again for going here for me, your kind words, support and all the love you send. You're so special.................🥰💞💟💞

  • @joymeadows3646
    @joymeadows3646 28 дней назад

    Hi, Barbie! No apologies are necessary. You didn't say anything about Margarete Miller that was offensive at all. I have watched her videos for many years and have been in a couple of her swaps, too. She is very good at what she does. But I don't like prompts so I don't participate in her challenge. It is your choice to opt out of the challenge. And I love your surreal "If Pigs can Fly" collage, BTW! Praying for you as you go to Cleveland once again. xoxo

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Joy, I knew, of all people, you would understand and understand my intentions when I spoke. Thank you so much for your comment and know you are one of the dearest gals, the kindness and one that I feel, knows me. Sending hugs and much love your way today. xoxo 🥰💓

  • @annevancingel8250
    @annevancingel8250 28 дней назад

    My dear friend, you have 64.5k followers and one of them didn't want to listen properly to what you said. What does that tell you.Unfortunately it happened right at the moment you got bad news from your doctor, as well.
    We all love you, looking forward to every video we see from you. Stop apologising. Take a deep breath and make another beautiful collage. Big, big hugs
    Stop apologising,

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад

      Anne, I read you loud and clear and will take every bit of your advice and guidance. I love your words. Yup, I hit a tipping point yesterday and it sent me right over the edge. Thank you for all your love and support and when I need a boost, I'll come back and read your comment. Hugs and love 🥰❤💛❤

  • @linmims3049
    @linmims3049 28 дней назад +1

    Barbie, please don't let some wannabe upturn your apple cart. You have a good thing going here on RUclips and when the rubber meets the road, all that truly matters is; are you enjoying what you do? Do you get pleasure and enjoyment from what you do? I'm sure you do or you wouldn't be doing it. So, this person needs to take the negativity elsewhere. I would much rather have the real Barbie over some fake Barbie, and I think most, if not all of your subbies/viewers will agree. Don't let this person steal your soul-shine! Shine on girlfriend, shine on! xx

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  28 дней назад +1

      Thank you, Lin. I agree, I can't let others steal my joy ....... why did I let her? Great point. Life is hard enough without others chiming in and bringing you down b/c they are too worried about their feelings. I'll NEVER be fake, believe me. What you see, and what you hear is what you get.....and that's a whole lotta love, kindness and understanding from me. Thank you for your uplifting comment and I'm so happy you are in my special little craft world. Hugs and blessing, gf. Time to move on ........ one day at a time; even if it's one medical day at a time. 🥰💗💟💗

    • @linmims3049
      @linmims3049 28 дней назад

      @@NellieandRuthDesigns Yes, one day at a time. I'm going through some medical issues too and it is very difficult to go from total independence to barely being able to walk from one room to the next, or have to call someone to come help you to the bathroom in the middle of the night. But, God is still good and his grace is enough. Thoughts and prayers going up for you sweet friend. xx

    • @NellieandRuthDesigns
      @NellieandRuthDesigns  27 дней назад +1

      @@linmims3049 Oh, Lin ....... you are on my prayer list. YOU take care and please, please, please be careful when you are getting up and around at night. God is great and we need to thank him each and every day. His plans for us are always not what we have planned, but the Lord knows best. You be careful, gf and you'll be in my thoughts and prayers tonight for sure. xo