@@atilasegundo3157 Simon Sinek has some good insight but he doesn't consider that some people really aren't good at connecting with others for one reason or another. He has nothing to say to them, nothing but to label them as "toxic" or "assholes".
@@pumaconcolor2855 First part, agreed. Second and beyond... come on, he clearly isn't narrow minded to THIS extent. Label as toxic or asshole? Does he truly doesn't consider the "sigma males" ( lone wolves ) and/or those simply courageous and sincere to the point every coward and liar can't relate, therefore stays way (which are the majority of people in the world by the way...)? Those two types have a extremely challenging time in finding potential true friends.
@@pumaconcolor2855 I presented two types though. Those two are the ones I can think off from the non-toxic types that struggle in finding true friendship. The toxic types are well known (most of them, at least) and they weren't part my point, so I didn't list them.
@@amyrenee1361 You'll get to where you want one day. Imagine you give up? All your past efforts will go to waste. Who knows....you might just be a step towards your breakthrough
@@amyrenee1361 You can't call the rewards cheap yet because that's not the end of your journey. Believe that more rewards are still to come if you don't give up!
Happens.. don’t be hard on yourself. Stay open and allow others to connect with you. You connect with them. Invest yourself in others. Love. Live. Stay happy! 💕
You are not alone ... I guess I am in the same situation. But I think it has to do with me, maybe I am not putting enough effort to make a friend. I feel like a jar with holes in the bottom, just failing to keep anything inside it. I guess I am the one to be blamed :(
and here I thought I was the only one that felt this way! thanks for your honesty and I agree with one of the commenters below.. WE have to put ourselves out there a bit more.. be more open to those type of relationships.
So your why is the value you make in other people’s lives. That’s the best value you can chase since it’s innate in your personality so working hard for it should be effortless, natural. That’s Priceless. Thanks.
Dear Simon Sinek, I now know you from many years now. Somehow you always manage to talk with lots of energy and always convey good vibes. I guess you trained yourself but I believe there is an inner part of you, that I feel, truly wants to change our world for the better, and even if I don't know you in person, it feels kind of heartwarming listening to you, as if you were an old good friend. Wish you to be fine during these weird times ! And thank you to always share your thoughts and talks
I only have 2 real friends, and all I know about them is that they have a heart, they will cheer me up when I'm feeling shit and the most important thing is even when we don't talk for a year they will still be there. No I don't have friends I have family.
Me: "Why are we friends?" My best friend: "In our junior year of high school, I wanted to go out with Kathleen. But she liked you. You knew I wanted to go out with her so you told her you were gay. A week later we started dating." Me: "I ... I never told her that." My best friend: "I know. I did, actually." I have no idea what to make of any of this.
@@ashlorusso IKR?! Sometimes we think someone is our close friend but whenever we remove the time spent together, sometimes there isn't enough friendship anymore. And it hurts, and it hurts more to let go.
Dear Simon, Tonight i asked my closest friend in a same way like you described in your video.....he immiedetly answered like you described.....i dont even need to ask that specific questions, he just answer the emotional way like you say....i just start with WHY? and he gets it right to the core...... Both of us enjoyed that moment, really emocionally, thank you so much for your advice!!! Jan Vlček, Czech Republic
I'm almost done with the book "Start with Why." It took a long time to get one delivered here all the way to South Korea. It was worth the wait!!! I can't wait to finish this book to organize my thoughts and inspiration and share it on my blog. 👍📖📚
I'm rarely calling, because I don't like calling, but I asked these type of question when I was young about 20 maybe via chat, because that was my preffered way to communicate back in the days and I got this type of answers and it felt good, but now, I hardly get an answer on anything.. I don't think that I changed that much, but maybe this is the whole point, I don't changed that much, but my friends are and they needs changed too.. so they still like me, because of the history we have, but not for the present me..
Looks like other people have yet to realize your value...Uh-oh. That might mean you have a particularly self serving why dude. Or not. I doubt Simon's still doing this for people at the $100 price point but there are plenty of folks well studied in his frameworks that who's why may involve helping you find your why. Just google "find my why"
You gotta love this guy! I have done the Find My WHY workshop, read the book and finally asked my friends. Guess what? I found my WHY, still articulating it, and I found it.
Do not do this with family, do not do this with siblings, do not do this with your spouse ... hmmmmm, looks like I've got no one to ask. What's the LONG way of finding My Why?
@@judyd.8338 I wouldn't count on that... There are no easy answers in life. Only anecdotal ideas based upon personal experience. And most of the time I suspect that the answer you will get will be half-baked at best. Like, you were there for me through my 'name your personal life tragedy/challenge/change/transition/whatever'. Life is rarely deeper than that.
@@wisamrohilina3006 There's a saying for this "what other people think about you is none of your business". I wouldn't even think about asking my friends "why are we friends"? I'm sure the first thought that would come to them would be "all these years and you need to ask this"?, "is there something wrong with our friendship"? This comes down to a self-confidence/self-esteem issue. If a person needs to squeeze out of their friends the 'why' of why they are your friends, a person needs to seek a higher level of guidance in their life.
This kind of exercise is huge in the coaching world. I learned it as the "essence exercise." Call up TEN people (same rules Simon gave, but I also did this with my wife and her siblings, which worked pretty well). The questions you ask are: "What shows up when I do? What qualities do I bring into the room?" Give NO HELP. Embrace uncomfortable silence. After they give some answer, simply ask "Anything else?" Ask that at least two times. Then thank them, and hang up. This one doesn't give you a "why," but rather helps you articulate what you EFFORTLESSLY create, what you bring into interactions without any work or thought. For me, it is curiosity, thoughtfulness, calm, and clarity. You'll have to "analyze" the responses a bit to look for the key words and do a little thinking, but it's really worth it. Learn a lot about yourself in one afternoon.
It's such a simplistic but at the same time profound question. "Why are we friends?" Describing you and themselves will trigger inspiration in understanding your why...
I believe this is also a great thing to think about yourself as a reminder for the other person. (My mom asked for common reminder for a birthday, but I found this, and now I know how to remind her!)
I would argue, that it *can* work with family, but not necessarily with every family member. That they are family means you love them, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you like them as people, that you genuinely enjoy spending time with them, or that you trust them. If you talk to those members of your family where those things *are* present, then it will work just as it does with your closest friends, you just have to slightly rephrase the question.
When you meet someone and become friends the moment you met is like you find a satisfaction you've never experienced before, cause all your life there has been a question and suddenly you've found the answer. I hope it makes sense💞💞✌
I always looked at motivational speakers speaking to people with low self esteem. Maybe I am at a point, that it makes sense. Or, this guy says the right things to make me think.
I know what to feel when having that conversation by asking Why we're friends, I went through it with one of my friends asking each other that question I couldn't give an answer but, my friend could and he wouldn't tell saying figure it out by yourself😅 This message from Simon was on the spot I'll try for sure next time and I'll get my answer.👍🏻 No surprise from the author of start with WHY🤗
The few friends I thought about would, most likely, either not pick up the phone or be angry that I called them at 3 o'clock in the morning. There were only two that I think that might pickup the phone, either because they wouldn't be sleeping or because they'd be worried. My question is, can this be done at another time, or does it HAVE to be specifically done in the middle of the night? Thanks for the amazing video as always.
Sometimes we should definitely listen to good friends. We all need a good reason to do what others are not willing to do. Find your WHY (purpose) and never be afraid of life again. Find Your reason to RISE 🖖
*“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”* ―Dale Carnegie Have a Nice Day! 🖤
Very smart, If You want find Why start with What, very logic.
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the reaction was that they pity me, without them i wouldn't have any friends at all and that's true. i don't like people, people hurt and complain and drag you down...while you're already down. i'm just here trying to fight my way up, stop dragging me down please life already sucks without you.
Truthfully, I don’t have any friends. All of my acquaintances are work or school related. Between work, life/kids, school I dont have time or energy for leisure activities, so I don’t feel like I can meet people.
You definitely are meeting great people who care about you and your happiness! Where are they? We are right here for you! You don't have to go out and meet people. You can just watch good inspirational videos and talk with us. We care about your well-being and all of our prayers and best wishes are always going to be with you and your family! Continue to push through the obstacles that come in your way in life. Keep your head up and stay strong! Everything will be okay! If you ever need someone to talk to, please reach out to us and we will do what we can to help you out and give you support! Take care Buddy and stay safe! We hope your kids are happy as well!
In some countries, you simply don't phone someone at 3 in the morning if you're not bleeding... You might give someone a heart attack! 🙏 But the idea is swell. 🌸👍
"We are who we choose to be" - Green Goblin the reason we do the things we do is because that is our identity, the avatar of our creation. Every choice we make is filtered through the core belief systems we put in place that we call "my identity/personality". Changing that changes the people in our lives, the people we are attracted to, the decisions we make, etc. basically this is what law of attraction is all about... it's not magically spawning things.. it's looking deep down into ourselves, finding who we are, and changing what shouldn't be there, thus affecting future outcome
As I've said in a reply to a comment in a post in this video... There are no easy answers in life. Only anecdotal ideas based upon personal experience. And most of the time I suspect that the answer you will get will be half-baked at best. Like, you were there for me through my 'name your personal life tragedy/challenge/divorce/transition/loss/whatever'. Life is rarely deeper than that. But I could just be a shallow puddle who just doesn't see past the surface layer of people, so who knows?
Just be you! Thank you for sharing this shift in perspective with us--really interesting and helpful. Love and appreciation to all! Please continue to stay safe and healthy!
I once asked a friend what he thought of me, he said, that I'm honest, that I tend to be unaware of the true motives of people, and that I mean no one any harm. We're not friends anymore.
I have no friends, I believe (not sure) I hate humans, I've had a hell of a past, I am 16. I believe only I can and must know what to do next. I go alone. What would you guys say? The trouble is very great finding meaning in this universe and knowing what you want and knowing yourself is the hardest task there is. It's all loneliness, misery and suffering and it all ends pretty quickly too.
There's a saying for this "what other people think about you is none of your business". I wouldn't even think about asking my friends "why are we friends"? I'm sure the first thought that would come to them would be "all these years and you need to ask this"?, "is there something wrong with our friendship"? This comes down to a self-confidence/self-esteem issue. If you need to squeeze out of your friends the 'why' of why they are your friends, you need to seek a higher level of guidance in your life.
It's also a fun way to remember yourself you don't have such a close friend.
Fun way? The only path I conclude is a very frustrating and saddening one.
@@atilasegundo3157 Simon Sinek has some good insight but he doesn't consider that some people really aren't good at connecting with others for one reason or another. He has nothing to say to them, nothing but to label them as "toxic" or "assholes".
@@pumaconcolor2855 First part, agreed. Second and beyond... come on, he clearly isn't narrow minded to THIS extent. Label as toxic or asshole? Does he truly doesn't consider the "sigma males" ( lone wolves ) and/or those simply courageous and sincere to the point every coward and liar can't relate, therefore stays way (which are the majority of people in the world by the way...)? Those two types have a extremely challenging time in finding potential true friends.
@@atilasegundo3157 I haven't seen him talking about "sigma males". That is not the only way one might struggle with making friends though.
@@pumaconcolor2855 I presented two types though. Those two are the ones I can think off from the non-toxic types that struggle in finding true friendship. The toxic types are well known (most of them, at least) and they weren't part my point, so I didn't list them.
Step 1: Find friends.
On God
hmmm
"Why are we friends?"
"WHO IS THIS AND WHERE DID YOU GET THAT NUMBER?!"
Follow up Question, What made you accepting that call from a number you don't know at 3 am? :D
@@FaethorFerenzcy i usually assume every call is important because why would they want to call in the first place when they could email or text.
I'm sure you had quite an emotional response xD
Gas station cashier: That'll be $8.44.
Me: Why are we friends?
🤣
*Greatness is built when nobody else is watching.*
I don't know which stage of life you are in but I hope you never give up... 💥
@@amyrenee1361 You'll get to where you want one day. Imagine you give up? All your past efforts will go to waste. Who knows....you might just be a step towards your breakthrough
@@amyrenee1361 You can't call the rewards cheap yet because that's not the end of your journey. Believe that more rewards are still to come if you don't give up!
I got caught up in life and dont have real friends anymore. Hard to call anybody, when you feel like you always annoy people.
wow, this hit me where it hurts! Things feel more transactional nowadays.
Happens.. don’t be hard on yourself. Stay open and allow others to connect with you. You connect with them. Invest yourself in others. Love. Live. Stay happy! 💕
You are not alone ... I guess I am in the same situation. But I think it has to do with me, maybe I am not putting enough effort to make a friend. I feel like a jar with holes in the bottom, just failing to keep anything inside it. I guess I am the one to be blamed :(
and here I thought I was the only one that felt this way! thanks for your honesty and I agree with one of the commenters below.. WE have to put ourselves out there a bit more.. be more open to those type of relationships.
@Vik Divine ..what a BS..
So your why is the value you make in other people’s lives.
That’s the best value you can chase since it’s innate in your personality so working hard for it should be effortless, natural.
That’s Priceless. Thanks.
Dear Simon Sinek, I now know you from many years now. Somehow you always manage to talk with lots of energy and always convey good vibes.
I guess you trained yourself but I believe there is an inner part of you, that I feel, truly wants to change our world for the better, and even if I don't know you in person, it feels kind of heartwarming listening to you, as if you were an old good friend.
Wish you to be fine during these weird times !
And thank you to always share your thoughts and talks
"The part of the brain that controls feeling and behavior, doesn't control language." That is absolutely massive.
This is awesome stuff. Thanks Simon for taking time out of your day to leave the world a better place. I appreciate you.
I only have 2 real friends, and all I know about them is that they have a heart, they will cheer me up when I'm feeling shit and the most important thing is even when we don't talk for a year they will still be there. No I don't have friends I have family.
I hear you. Also in the same situation (although I only have 1 person who I would call a friend.)
Me: "Why are we friends?"
My best friend: "In our junior year of high school, I wanted to go out with Kathleen. But she liked you. You knew I wanted to go out with her so you told her you were gay. A week later we started dating."
Me: "I ... I never told her that."
My best friend: "I know. I did, actually."
I have no idea what to make of any of this.
lol that person doesn't sound like they'd answer the phone for you at 3am. Talk to another friend that you love.
Lol
@@ashlorusso IKR?! Sometimes we think someone is our close friend but whenever we remove the time spent together, sometimes there isn't enough friendship anymore. And it hurts, and it hurts more to let go.
😂😂😂
😎Smart idea
Dear Simon, Tonight i asked my closest friend in a same way like you described in your video.....he immiedetly answered like you described.....i dont even need to ask that specific questions, he just answer the emotional way like you say....i just start with WHY? and he gets it right to the core...... Both of us enjoyed that moment, really emocionally, thank you so much for your advice!!! Jan Vlček, Czech Republic
Simon stay safe. Stay smiling always.
Your explanation of the question "Why" makes so much sense in my life
I'm almost done with the book "Start with Why." It took a long time to get one delivered here all the way to South Korea. It was worth the wait!!! I can't wait to finish this book to organize my thoughts and inspiration and share it on my blog. 👍📖📚
When will he write "Start with Friends"?
“Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go for the great.”💙
So what then is the enemy of great?
thanks. i'm leaving my wife and kids for better ones.
I'm rarely calling, because I don't like calling, but I asked these type of question when I was young about 20 maybe via chat, because that was my preffered way to communicate back in the days and I got this type of answers and it felt good, but now, I hardly get an answer on anything.. I don't think that I changed that much, but maybe this is the whole point, I don't changed that much, but my friends are and they needs changed too.. so they still like me, because of the history we have, but not for the present me..
Who here had no idea who they would call in this situation due to lack of friends?
That's me.
Looks like other people have yet to realize your value...Uh-oh. That might mean you have a particularly self serving why dude. Or not. I doubt Simon's still doing this for people at the $100 price point but there are plenty of folks well studied in his frameworks that who's why may involve helping you find your why.
Just google "find my why"
Don't need to. Simon generalises a lot and gets plenty wrong.
Yep :(
@@stuwhite2337 Could You elaborate what do You mean?
You gotta love this guy!
I have done the Find My WHY workshop, read the book and finally asked my friends. Guess what? I found my WHY, still articulating it, and I found it.
Ignore the negativity and the doubts people have on you. *Keep moving forward.*
*I am cheering for your success.* ✋
Gosh Simon!!! You had me in tears at your first "why are we friends" felt like a bullet...made me think how much I value friendship.
Do not do this with family, do not do this with siblings, do not do this with your spouse ... hmmmmm, looks like I've got no one to ask. What's the LONG way of finding My Why?
he has a book called "Finding Your Why"--one would assume the long way is in it
@@judyd.8338 I wouldn't count on that... There are no easy answers in life. Only anecdotal ideas based upon personal experience. And most of the time I suspect that the answer you will get will be half-baked at best. Like, you were there for me through my 'name your personal life tragedy/challenge/change/transition/whatever'. Life is rarely deeper than that.
Hmm
@@judyd.8338 actually the book urges you to ask people and even ask people to go make a list with you.. so it is much worse hehehe
@@wisamrohilina3006 There's a saying for this "what other people think about you is none of your business". I wouldn't even think about asking my friends "why are we friends"? I'm sure the first thought that would come to them would be "all these years and you need to ask this"?, "is there something wrong with our friendship"?
This comes down to a self-confidence/self-esteem issue. If a person needs to squeeze out of their friends the 'why' of why they are your friends, a person needs to seek a higher level of guidance in their life.
This kind of exercise is huge in the coaching world. I learned it as the "essence exercise." Call up TEN people (same rules Simon gave, but I also did this with my wife and her siblings, which worked pretty well). The questions you ask are: "What shows up when I do? What qualities do I bring into the room?"
Give NO HELP. Embrace uncomfortable silence. After they give some answer, simply ask "Anything else?" Ask that at least two times. Then thank them, and hang up.
This one doesn't give you a "why," but rather helps you articulate what you EFFORTLESSLY create, what you bring into interactions without any work or thought.
For me, it is curiosity, thoughtfulness, calm, and clarity. You'll have to "analyze" the responses a bit to look for the key words and do a little thinking, but it's really worth it. Learn a lot about yourself in one afternoon.
Simon I had long time difficulty is disgusting your theory of WHY. You finally made it so simple. Thank you!! Stay blessed and be a blessing :)
For your worth is in His identity in you. That's absolutely true.
Great! Now to find a friend that would answer at 3am lol
Now to find a friend. Period. lol
Thanks, I needed that today. You have a great day.
Short and to the point, much appreciated by me. Great video
Am struck how I never thought of this! Even just thinking about it now gives me overwhelming emotions, my🤦🏾♂️
This is so true! If I asked my family "why are we best friends" first thing they'd say is "because we're family" 🙄
Thank you Simon sinek🙏🏽. You are a blessing. I'll one day look into my son's eyes and say the same things you teach in your videos
It's such a simplistic but at the same time profound question. "Why are we friends?"
Describing you and themselves will trigger inspiration in understanding your why...
Fantastic!
You are a blessing to mankind, Simon!
I believe this is also a great thing to think about yourself as a reminder for the other person.
(My mom asked for common reminder for a birthday, but I found this, and now I know how to remind her!)
Your value, in their lives, being reflected back to you, through them. ❤️ this
I would argue, that it *can* work with family, but not necessarily with every family member.
That they are family means you love them, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you like them as people, that you genuinely enjoy spending time with them, or that you trust them.
If you talk to those members of your family where those things *are* present, then it will work just as it does with your closest friends, you just have to slightly rephrase the question.
When you meet someone and become friends the moment you met is like you find a satisfaction you've never experienced before, cause all your life there has been a question and suddenly you've found the answer.
I hope it makes sense💞💞✌
You are a gift
I am so thankful for this content.. Going through this phase in my life right now. Thank you Simon for your insights, God bless ♥♥
I agree and believe what you say. Thank you Simon. God bless.
I always looked at motivational speakers speaking to people with low self esteem. Maybe I am at a point, that it makes sense. Or, this guy says the right things to make me think.
I know what to feel when having that conversation by asking Why we're friends, I went through it with one of my friends asking each other that question I couldn't give an answer but, my friend could and he wouldn't tell saying figure it out by yourself😅
This message from Simon was on the spot I'll try for sure next time and I'll get my answer.👍🏻
No surprise from the author of start with WHY🤗
The questions :-
Why are we friends?
What is it about me that I know you will be there for me no matter what?
What is it specifically about me?
Thank you!
The few friends I thought about would, most likely, either not pick up the phone or be angry that I called them at 3 o'clock in the morning. There were only two that I think that might pickup the phone, either because they wouldn't be sleeping or because they'd be worried.
My question is, can this be done at another time, or does it HAVE to be specifically done in the middle of the night?
Thanks for the amazing video as always.
Sometimes we should definitely listen to good friends. We all need a good reason to do what others are not willing to do. Find your WHY (purpose) and never be afraid of life again. Find Your reason to RISE 🖖
Amazing!!!! With capital letters and capital emotions along with it 💗
Love this. Thank you! I will use this.
*“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”*
―Dale Carnegie
Have a Nice Day! 🖤
Woowww 🥺🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️
You’re indeed inspirational! Thank you Mr.Sinek!
Very smart, If You want find Why start with What, very logic.
the reaction was that they pity me, without them i wouldn't have any friends at all and that's true. i don't like people, people hurt and complain and drag you down...while you're already down. i'm just here trying to fight my way up, stop dragging me down please life already sucks without you.
✍🏽 find friends first to ask them why we are friends
dude, you inspire me and so many others.
keep being you, Simon ; )
Thank you Simon
One of the best video's, Thank You...
A good friend will help you move.... a great friend will help you move a body.
Pure gold!
give credit to the one who said it
Thank you Simon😊
Definitely trying this!
Oh man. thank you so much...Simplicity at its core.
This is awesome. I got goosebumps too
Brilliance personified, well done
Some deep stuff but direct to the point for our understanding
Truthfully, I don’t have any friends. All of my acquaintances are work or school related.
Between work, life/kids, school I dont have time or energy for leisure activities, so I don’t feel like I can meet people.
You definitely are meeting great people who care about you and your happiness! Where are they? We are right here for you! You don't have to go out and meet people. You can just watch good inspirational videos and talk with us. We care about your well-being and all of our prayers and best wishes are always going to be with you and your family! Continue to push through the obstacles that come in your way in life. Keep your head up and stay strong! Everything will be okay! If you ever need someone to talk to, please reach out to us and we will do what we can to help you out and give you support! Take care Buddy and stay safe! We hope your kids are happy as well!
Make this viral!!!
Short yet so bold and meaningful! Thank you Simon!
Love to Simon
In some countries, you simply don't phone someone at 3 in the morning if you're not bleeding... You might give someone a heart attack! 🙏 But the idea is swell. 🌸👍
Yes yes im emotional now
"We are who we choose to be" - Green Goblin
the reason we do the things we do is because that is our identity, the avatar of our creation. Every choice we make is filtered through the core belief systems we put in place that we call "my identity/personality". Changing that changes the people in our lives, the people we are attracted to, the decisions we make, etc. basically this is what law of attraction is all about... it's not magically spawning things.. it's looking deep down into ourselves, finding who we are, and changing what shouldn't be there, thus affecting future outcome
this is emotional mating
It's not about providing the correct answers, it's about pulling the out the proper response💯♥️🔥
Great questions to ask! Would love to see you interview Matthew Kelly
So cool, creative, and radical. I’m going to try this!
Thank you 🙏 Simon.
really brilliant ideas
Thanks Simon xx
Thanks.simon
My one of the dream is to have debate with Legend Simon .
Big fan ...
so deep thanks for sharing simon
As I've said in a reply to a comment in a post in this video... There are no easy answers in life. Only anecdotal ideas based upon personal experience. And most of the time I suspect that the answer you will get will be half-baked at best. Like, you were there for me through my 'name your personal life tragedy/challenge/divorce/transition/loss/whatever'. Life is rarely deeper than that. But I could just be a shallow puddle who just doesn't see past the surface layer of people, so who knows?
Simon, Why are we friends? .................................. You are very inspiring.... and have lots of friends...
I'm here by the channel Eterno Progreso.
Thank You for your service 😊
thank you Simon for all the 3 am calls i've gotten since my circle saw this video :)))
amazing tip Simon🙏
following you from Morocco🇲🇦
Just be you! Thank you for sharing this shift in perspective with us--really interesting and helpful. Love and appreciation to all! Please continue to stay safe and healthy!
It makes sense...ask rhe what to get the why answer 👍💖
I once asked a friend what he thought of me, he said, that I'm honest, that I tend to be unaware of the true motives of people, and that I mean no one any harm.
We're not friends anymore.
I have no friends, I believe (not sure) I hate humans, I've had a hell of a past, I am 16. I believe only I can and must know what to do next.
I go alone. What would you guys say? The trouble is very great finding meaning in this universe and knowing what you want and knowing yourself is the hardest task there is. It's all loneliness, misery and suffering and it all ends pretty quickly too.
Now I just need the video that explains how to create those close relationships in the first place.
I feel the same way. I thought I had a close friend but turns out I don’t. I want to do this but don’t have any 3am friends.
This is perfect Simon
Ahh...soo good !!!
There's a saying for this "what other people think about you is none of your business". I wouldn't even think about asking my friends "why are we friends"? I'm sure the first thought that would come to them would be "all these years and you need to ask this"?, "is there something wrong with our friendship"?
This comes down to a self-confidence/self-esteem issue. If you need to squeeze out of your friends the 'why' of why they are your friends, you need to seek a higher level of guidance in your life.
You're setting us up to call our friends at 3 am. You magnificent prankster ;)
😂😂😂
Sure I will try it now,it's 4 am😎
may Allah bless us both with his blessings here and after. you r ture inspiration
good way to lose friends as well :D because you find out, you are not actually friends :D
not close friends. I have 3 people coming to my mind rn whom I could call like Simon said and few hundred "friends" whom I wouldn't call
how do you lose a friend that is not your friend?
Wow. What a thrilling way to discover the WHY in us. Thank you Simon
Inspiring keep pushing on
Pretty Sneaky! Wonderful video. Ima try with my bestie asap. Thank you Simon!
Perfect. Now I just need some friends..