S 2 Episode 4: Lisa Harper - Hope and Redemption
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- Опубликовано: 5 мар 2019
- On this episode I chat with Lisa Harper. I've learned so much from her and her book, The Sacrament of Happy. You can grab a copy here: amzn.to/2JAqwzZ
On this episode we chat about:
Redemptive Motherhood
Menopause Tips
Singleness and Adoption
The Hope of Marriage
Rape and Molestation
Racism and Prejudices
Balance and Priorities
Find out more about Lisa at lisaharper.net/
“The Sister Circle Show” is an opportunity for women who love God to have real conversations about real stuff so we can be equipped, empowered, encouraged to live our lives well. We are simply better together.
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I may be about 2.5 years late to this episode, but it's one of the best things I've seen on RUclips. God is SO good ALL the time!
"I'd rather be hurt than be hard for as long as I did it with an open heart" speak ma'am
Wow, when you said “when did God tell you to lay down the hope of marriage“ it hit me directly in the heart! And “of course it would be God’s good will to bring me a husband” (one who’s a godly man). Why wouldn’t God want to bless me with marriage?! I’ve associated love with sex. I do want to be married & want to first learn to allow God to be my husband & that He’s enough!
“We start dismissing our wants, desires, & dreams because of an issue of worthiness”, so true! Thank you! 🙏🏻♥️
Lisa you're such a true blessing to the body of Christ! Your love for Missy has taught me a lot about true Godly love.
God bless you greatly for being a blessing to many of us.
LOL I clicked so fast when I saw two of my favorite people in the same video 😄😂😭
I did too!!!! That was a beautiful, real interview...I literally leaned in to not miss a word coming out of my computer screen.
So much same.....
Me too! Although I'm a year late. 😁
Right! And they did not disappoint. I love women who love the Lord.
Lol.. me too!!
Thank you so much for this message. I have been suffering with menopausal symptoms and a lot more health problems and I am truly trying to embrace my suffering. God bless you ladies
The part about being content vs. laying down hope. Wow.
God bless you Lisa Harper, you are the embodiment of God's grace and love as you walk in humility xxx
Very open, profound discussion between two faithful disciples.
Thank you Chrystal and Lisa. I was sexually abused as a child and young adult. It took me years to address it. I prayed for healing and direction for years. I had a difficult time trusting men which caused me to have some hurtful relationships. As I grew spiritually, I learned to trust GOD and trust the process. My faith and hope in the LORD caused me to not give up on love. I've taken risks with love and marriage and my heart has been broken. I don't regret getting married because my intentions were good and I refuse to allow the enemy to prevent me from receiving GOD'S best. It's so worth it when we put GOD first and allow HIM to be the center of our lives. I wish all of the LORD'S blessings on you for a loving husband and father for you and your daughter Lisa Harper. May GOD'S will be done.
Ive been celibate for over 4 years and not even a kiss.even with opurtunitys.bec i met a beautiful young like 21 or 22 supposed Christian man who could sing and wanted to marry me a single mother and he tried to groom my son for molesting Jesus told me not to marry him and I thought it was my fault I thought I wasn't good enough and if I would have recognized it was God's voice I wouldn't have suffered so greatly my son did not get molested by him thank God Jesus warned me several times and every time people would tell me I was wrong even my pastor told me I can marry him he will cry real tears and lie to my face and you would tell me that I was listening to the devil but what Jesus showed me is when Jesus says no it's for a reason and he didn't want me depending on my pastor Jesus wanted me to know that I could hear his voice to just like everyone else and he wanted me to trust him and when Jesus says no it's a no even if everyone says yes so so now what I pray and God says no I'm waiting for the man God has for me he will help you to what he says no trust him and forgive everyone I forgave the man that did all these things to me and I stay completely away from him all together I'm thankful that Jesus kept helping me when everyone kept lying to me or saying what they thought what's the truth I hope this blesses you
Hi, Nita thanks for sharing sweety! I thank you so much for encouraging others to open up and share! Turned 30 February 1st this year thank God I'm still here! I was also molested as a young teen..it all started around 12-13 & I kept it a secret through school, counseling and from anyone it caused alot of problems since I wouldn't tell the truth at like 15-16 years old. It took me awhile to get honest with my mother about 17-19 years old I decided it wasn't my fault and started sharing my past first with my ex-girlfriend then family and my best friend who always stuck by my side to this day he remains my only true friend who would do anything for my folks and I! God Bless you sweetheart praying for you and everybody who's been in a similar situation stay strong!
Thank you for speaking g out. I wasse ual abused starting at age 5. Our Heavenly Father has totally healed me and used me to help others, I was married to a wonderful man who is with Jesus. But Jesus broanother woman into my life. I am getting married and I am 71 years young
Love, love, love Lisa Harper!
Emotional healing and an amazing interview, our hurts are different, one picks up how God knows all our hearts desires.
Lisa I wish you a Good God Fearing husband.
Mych love.
I have never heard Lisa before and she is now one of my favorite people on the planet. GREAT EPISODE! Thank you Jesus for both of these women!
Lisa, everytime I listen to your story, I feel like brand new one ...
Amen she's such a wonderful woman of God encouraging so many I love all her teachings and sermons still catching up on her awesome work God uses her to deliver VERY POWERFUL MESSAGES SHE'S ALWAYS COVERED WITH AMAZING FAVOR SUCH A HEAVY ANNOINTING KINDA LIKE I FEEL WITH JOHN GRAY
Thank you for sharing this because God knows I needed this. I've struggled in my cycle of emotionally unavailable men and singleness. I needed to hear this for comfort and renewal in my faith in God for this season in my life.
Out of all the conversations I've heard on singleness and the desires to be married and have children, this has helped me the most (and didn't turn me off).
When I saw Crystal Evans Hurst and Lisa Harper in this video, I knew I would love this. And yes I did. Love you both 💓
Such a honest conversation......so much of her story is mine minus the sexual abuse. My father was an abusive man to my mother. Unfaithful pretty much all my life.....lisa you are blessed to have not committed yourself to marriage like i did. A man who would show genuine interest, emotionally available, sweet, very attractive, around my age and romantic would terrify me. I wanted to be married in the since you said, but out of fear of being hurt and for other reasons I made a choice that has cost me in more ways than I care to tell. The reality of all that it has cost me is so very sad and hard many days. To have hope is everything. Being single allows hope for romantic love. I'm believing for you that God will send him. You've lost nothing.
Lisa Harper is ALWAYS a blessing! Cant wait until she gets married:)
And I LOVE how Chrystal is true to her tennis shoes. In other words, just comfortable with herself!
This was amazing and Lisa you are amazing. Sorry that you have experienced so much negativity because you decided to save Missy. Your whole story is amazing. God bless you 🙏 ❤️.
I ❤❤❤Lisa's blouse reminds me of Spring mornings. She seems so happy, relaxed and easy.
AMEN FIRST THING I NOTICED LOL SHE ROCKS THEM VERY COLORFUL OUTFITS EVERYWHERE I SEE HER NOW HALLELUJAH WHAT AN AMAZING WOMAN! SHE HELPS ME UNDERSTAND THINGS EASILY COMPARED TO MEN IDK WHY I RELATE TO WOMEN MORE OFTEN
Wow!!! Love these young ladies of God so much wisdom of God's word coming from them especially to be real.
God's Blessings
This was really a great sister circle conversation. thank you for posting.
Aaahhh I just love you Lisa Harper and Lizzy. You are y favorite people. And your host is such an amazing 👏🏻 😍 God fearing woman.
I so love the hearts of these two faithfully transparent, godly women-my two favorite Christian speakers. Still crying from this episode.
Loved this conversation, the authenticity, the stories! So good ♥️
What an open, honest and sweet person. I never heard her before. God bless her and her daughter.
Thanks Lisa Harper for ur advice on prioritising ur life Nd time,I'm a full-time home 🏠 excecutor,unpayed looking after our family,I was a nurse aide in my workingyears,
" and i didn't have any treats in my purse" 😩😂😂😂😭💀
That was hilarious in a Christian way Lord forgive us Lol!
Hi 👋 Lisa Harper,this is the 16th/10/2022 I just stinking loves u 😊 like u always say,I'm Chrystal Wessels from bonteheuwel Western Cape,thanks 4all ur teachings 👏👏👏
Your best is enough! Hallelujah! This was so good! Crying big ol tears! I wish the whole world could hear Lisa's message. Beautiful, Beautiful, Beautiful!
Such a open honest and encouraging conversation. Thank you!
From a person who has been married and now single, it's refreshing to see the God of love in this new day using single and married women alike. Being single and a mother is not a disease. "God is not a man (human)..." HE is all God!!!
'I would rather be hurt than hard..' that has stuck with me
Good morning I just started listening to her amazing and I also listen to and your family ❤️ God Bless y’all
I don't know why I clicked on this video but I needed to hear this. I have been struggling with Lisa's former perspective about relationships and she just spoke truth. I want to know more about her and her ministry ❤
Lisa you are great woman of God and I am always very blessed to hear you sharing your story, you really ministry to me, let God bless you abondently for your open heart.
Great conversation. Crystal did such a good job interviewing -- it didn't feel like an interview at all. Lisa is so authentic.
God bless you beloved,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children suffering from
(Leukemian).
God minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing but spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy you.
But as I speak to you now her time is up, lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia) (saviour motherless foundation) located in Edo state Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you..,,,..,,,..
Wonderful conversation.. Very emotional... Thanks
Wow, thank you for sharing this interview. Certainly what I did to hear in this season
Wow...lisa, I've heard your story a few times and this brought tears to my eyes💛
I always love hearing Lisa's story. You are both fantastic ladies and truth teachers!
I love you both!! You and Lisa D. Harper are so awesome!
I didn’t know I need to hear this today but thank you, once again!
I thank God for videos posted like these!! Such freedom, truth and encouragement!! Sisters in Christ, I have been uplifted while listening to you both speak! This is what the body of Christ is for. To help each other! I love the part about bringing hope to the front burner again. My hope was on the back burner for years and honestly the fire was off. It sat cold in a pot and I feel God has moved it to the front and it is lit again! Soon to be at a boil, I'm sure!
this here is ministry. thank you, ladies.
WOW!! This spoke VOLUMES to me and touched me deeply! So blessed to have heard this! God thank You for allowing me to hear/see this! ❤️💖
God bless you beloved,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children suffering from
(Leukemian).
God minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing but spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy you.
But as I speak to you now her time is up, lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia) (saviour motherless foundation) located in Edo state Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you..,,,..,,,..
Loved this! Had to share it... Such incredible, Godly wisdom she has...
Thanks for this word. My friend Lee directed me here. Blessed by this.
Very deep conversation, thank you..my soul was touched.
This was wonderful! I cried!
I had the greatest time ever watching this video. Thank you soooooo much for sharing your "happy" with me!!! #ThisVideoRocked
My God... I DESERVE a husband!!! Thank you for that! God Bless you all!
Love this and love this transparent and open conversation
This video popped up on my channel. I was disenchanted at first because they were talking over each other. But, I know Lisa always has a word to share with us.
This interview brought me to tears🥺
The Bestest, yes I know, it is not a word, the bestest conversation in this series. Loved Lisa's honesty and transparency talking about racism she encountered because of adopting a child out side of her ethnicity. In addition, I want to thank you for talking about sexual abuse and the emotional scars it leaves on your self-worth.
Love this topic
I love both of these ladies.
I heard one of your sermons today for the first time. Jesus, through you, helped me understand His loves for me. You are awesome.
I am a single mom of two, never been married. Dated jerks all my life and I just started my journey with God and Lisa has been such an inspiration.
"Racism exists in every ethnicity" if this ain't the truth!!!
Thank you ladies for doing this. I needed AAAALLLL of it!
I'm going to start following Lisa D Harper!
Racial prejudice does exist in every ethnicity. However, *Racism* (this term has a specific definition beyond just hating others for their ethnicity)) does not apply to all racial hate. that needed clarifying. It's all horrible and not God's will. I have also found that in America certain groups are more prone to showcase their hate "outwardly", and that the racial prejudice of one set of people is actually in RESPONSE to injustices they perceive or that they have legitimately witnessed and experienced. (again it is not ok to do this, but it is a defense mechanism that many have adapted because they felt violated)
@@musikatre You have a good point that almost never gets brought up. We must pray for people's hearts.
You left out the way many of us do menopause...
Seriously...
We don't all do hot flashes.
We don't all do mood swings.
We are redeemed, and many of us believe we don't have to do it the hard way.
I went through menopause and lost all the extra weight.. More than 50 pounds, closer to 100 pounds but don't want to admit I was that fat.
I went for lots of walks and prayed a lot... Ate serious amounts of veggies and spinach.
Lost the extra weight by jumping on the trampoline everyday..
Didn't to hormone therapy replacement.
I don't think we all have to go thru menopause the hard way...
I'm grateful I'm blessed to have an easy time.. My relatives had it rough.
Years later I went back to eating lots of deserts... and grew golf ball sized tumors in my uterus.. Etc..
so recently I had a hysterectomy..
So I'm back to trying harder to respect my body by not over eating. It's a process.
I'm worth taking care of. I'm learning new things about my worth as a human being and how much God dearly loves us.
Also we were not alowed to laugh or show happiness as children, so I'm learning God wants us happy.
I look forward to getting your book when I go back to work and can afford to buy it.
I'm still recovering from the hysterectomy.
I'm fasting and praying for answers to this part of my life and financial provisions.
Two of my favourite folks
I think that it is absolutely beautiful for Lisa to have found Missy! 💞💕
God bless you beloved,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children suffering from
(Leukemian).
God minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing but spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy you.
But as I speak to you now her time is up, lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia) (saviour motherless foundation) located in Edo state Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you..,,,..,,,..
Love love love this!!!♥️♥️
Oh I love Lisa so much!!!!!!!☺️☺️☺️
Yes!!!! My two fave ladies......God knew what he was doing when he gave us the blessing of these two ......you two bless us all with your help and your smiles💕💕💕"did not have any treats in my purse"🤣
I love you Lisa!
Wonderful interview. Wonderful stories. My heart breaks for Missy, because her mom is so loving, but others will continue NOT to be. It's the world we live in and if you put yourself in Missy's shoes it is easy to see that she will endure much and to date, there's no therapy for racial persecution/abuse and these things DO
have an effect on a building self esteem and personalities. I hope that she is among others like her for a role model. Her mom can be a good role model, but there are some experiences that she will not be able to address.
God Bless them
Lisa you are my hero
So beautiful!! I live laughing at Lisa’s jokes!!!!
I Love Love Love Lisa D Harper…her Humor, her Love of Christ snd His Word!!!
What a joy it is to see two women, who both love God dearly, sit together and share answers and opinions regarding really hard questions! I as actually looking for a set of CD’s by Lisa on the study of Job. As always, God led me to what He wanted me to hear. It was so beautiful. I found myself laughing at some parts then going immediately into shedding tears - of sadness, of joy, of gratitude. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! PS - Does anyone know where I can find Lisa’s Study on the Book of Job?
I love this. Lisa, I love love you
God bless you beloved,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children suffering from
(Leukemian).
God minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing but spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy you.
But as I speak to you now her time is up, lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia) (saviour motherless foundation) located in Edo state Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you..,,,..,,,..
Lisa I love your big heart and you openess when you talk
This is why I love how God uses Lisa!
Love this interview thank you for sharing.
Her testimony is awesome and like mine
love you Lisa D
Great listening to Godly women.
Thank u prayers my healing to
God bless you beloved,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children suffering from
(Leukemian).
God minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing but spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy you.
But as I speak to you now her time is up, lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia) (saviour motherless foundation) located in Edo state Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you..,,,..,,,..
I am now 71 but I was sexual abused starting at age 5. But My Heavenly Father or Daddy has totally healed me. I was married to a wonderful who lived me even though I couldn't have children. Now he is with Jesus in heaven. He always wanted me to get married again because He was 20 years older than me. Well my Heavenly Father brought Jeff into my life. I am now getting married again. He was sitting right behind me in church. He even knows how I radically praise the Lord. But he has a daughter who totally loves me. Her Mother is with Jesus also in heaven. But what awesome I am now going to have not 1 but 4 grandchildren. Isn't our Heavenly Father awesome
OH LORD HAVE MERCY ... HOT FLASHES A COUPLE YEARS BEFORE I FOUND OUT THAT I HAD A HUGE FIBROID TUMOR. HAD TO GET A HYSTERECTOMY, NOW THE HOT FLASHES ATE 200 % WORSE. DOCTOR SCARED ME ONTO NOT TAKING HORMONES. MY MOM PASSED FROM CANCER FROM A FIBROID TUMOR SO I'M JUST SUFFERING THROUGH BEING BOILING HOT ALL THE TIME !!!🥵
Lord I pray and ask you bring Lisa Harper a godly fearing husband for her and her beautiful daughter in Jesus name so this sooner than even accepted Amen…let him Go above and beyond then even what expected as a godly husband is Jesus name I’m praying in Jesus name Amen.
It’s so hard to be a women 🙏 dear lord
I seriously don’t understand how she’s single
God bless you beloved,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children suffering from
(Leukemian).
God minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing but spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy you.
But as I speak to you now her time is up, lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia) (saviour motherless foundation) located in Edo state Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you..,,,..,,,..
I want Lisa to be married oh God
i never knew u could go through menopause twice
God bless you beloved,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children suffering from
(Leukemian).
God minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing but spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy you.
But as I speak to you now her time is up, lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia) (saviour motherless foundation) located in Edo state Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you..,,,..,,,..
Hate will treat children like this. Terrible.
Put the phone down :( Please
Karen Pelletier the phone has the questions.
I wish she wouldn’t be talking about menopause and adoption on EVERY video! She’s so much better than that for God’s sakes!!
So she isn’t suppose to be happy about being a Mother?
Too carnal for me.
???
Then keep it moving 🙄🙄