The Truth About Body Positivity

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  • Опубликовано: 18 май 2024
  • What words do you use to talk about your body? Are you more negative than positive when it comes to acknowledging what you see in the mirror?
    All of us have at least one thing about our bodies that we want to change. Try to focus less on what you want to change about yourself and instead highlight the good that you see.
    It is my hope that you can learn to be kind to your body, because it has been kind to you.
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Комментарии • 131

  • @mikat7365
    @mikat7365 Месяц назад +19

    Chrystal!!! Just this past week, I've been telling God how I need Him to help me 1. Have self-control over my body, 2. Be comfortable in my own skin, while also 3. Seeing the results of my efforts. I told Him that I was giving it all to Him.
    Then, I woke up to the email titled "Your Body is Good," which led me to this video. I am so grateful for how God chooses to respond to my concerns! Thank you for sharing this message with us ❤️

  • @nagashclarke486
    @nagashclarke486 Месяц назад +7

    I'm a man listening to this and it has blessed me. I have body consciousness from being really skinny for most of my life. I also have a teen daughter now, who I recognize I have to affirm daily about how beautiful she is.

  • @SFOM1019
    @SFOM1019 Месяц назад +19

    "Keep feeding the truth until it crowds the lie out"🙌🏽🙌🏽❤

  • @betzaidafigueroa9046
    @betzaidafigueroa9046 Месяц назад +22

    40s has hit me hard on many changes but is all a mindset learning to be content and what I can eat that makes me feel healthy and young. We only have one body we have to take care of it 😊

    • @mrsheatherteske
      @mrsheatherteske Месяц назад

      Amen, I feel ya at 44

    • @deborahscott3795
      @deborahscott3795 Месяц назад

      Chrystal this message gets a 100%. Excellent delivery. I love your authenticity. Keep up the good words.

    • @kimberlywhite7065
      @kimberlywhite7065 Месяц назад

      Amen to that!! 🎉🙏🏾🙌🏾💯

  • @user-kd4mz3wb6i
    @user-kd4mz3wb6i Месяц назад +8

    Oh, how I needed this today!
    I wanted to buy a strapless dress but I will be 71 in a few months and I was wondering if I was too old. I just happened to be listening to you as I was looking at the dress. You just made my day. I am ordering that dress. I do know how to be modest. I am not over weight but I am a pastor's wife. I will never do anything that will be disgraceful to myself and certainly not to him. So again I am ordering that dress! Thank You

  • @twilamorrell5870
    @twilamorrell5870 Месяц назад +2

    “Girls/Women and our bodies is a WHOLE thing!” Bars !!!! Especially over 40

  • @ranaebarker1443
    @ranaebarker1443 Месяц назад +2

    Im here for it!!!! I will tyrn 52 in July. I fought weight all my life ("All my life I had to fight")!
    When I was in my late 20's I lost weight (size 18/14) them was diagnosed with cancer, weight came back.
    Lost it again. Got pregnant with twins.
    Very late 40's I made up my mind for good. I did the work. I hiked Cedar Ridge Preserves, I went vegan, I was 7miles daily, and was started to run (something I didnt think i would ever do). I went from size 24 to size 16 and some 14's ( which was my goal weight.) . For two years I felt free.
    Then covid invaded my space for almost a month. When it left I not only lost my smell and tasted, but I couldn't walk ten steps withou losing my breath and heart pumping hard.
    Needless to say I gain ALL back.
    At this point I'm like, "Child embrace you...get comfortable in your skin...work on good health, not fine body."
    So, now as a size 24 black woman, Im learning how to love all of me while creating a temple that the Holy Spirit wont be quenched to a confined space with me

  • @crystalclearvision_
    @crystalclearvision_ Месяц назад +6

    Oh how I needed every word you spoke. I've been trying to lose weight for almost 10 years. I've literally said I feel like a prisoner in my own body. I was literally talking to God before bed last night about my body and tonight I clicked on your video. If felt like a warm embrace from a big sister. Your words were encouraging and uplifting. I'm so appreciative of your ministry ❤❤❤

  • @sheflows8085
    @sheflows8085 Месяц назад +7

    Chrystal, your ministry is a blessing to the Kingdom of God! Thank you so much for this video...perfect timing! I was doing my strength training workout from home while watching the video this morning. We celebrated my son's birthday over the weekend and I allowed myself to really "celebrate" when it came to breaking bread. I almost felt guilty this morning but, I did not allow myself to fall into a guilt trip. I decided to make my protein shake, and get to my workout and I am determined to stick to my exercise schedule this week. Your insight has shed a new light on appreciating the body that God has given us and being good to it. Keep going Chrystal...you are making a great impact with your audience!

  • @lorraine3525
    @lorraine3525 Месяц назад +3

    Our Belief reflects in our Behavior. Renew your mind with Gods truth to embrace who you truly are, whose you are and to see the real you through His eyes not man.

  • @ashleyhill4777
    @ashleyhill4777 Месяц назад +2

    Let me stop this video at the 17:45 mark because I am NOT about to start ugly crying in these people's place of business. I will finish this when I get off work! I Lord, I thank you for blessing this body to birth the kids that I prayed for and I thank you for Chrystal sharing this wisdom so that I NOW know that I simply need to "sharpen the tool" that you have given me, in Jesus' name I pray.

  • @faithwoods4143
    @faithwoods4143 Месяц назад +4

    I just this morning said I’m not wearing nothing this summer that’s uncomfortable! Menopause season has given me a belly and HEAT!

  • @jsmith4049
    @jsmith4049 Месяц назад +3

    This is what I needed!! I could use a support group! I was talking with my mom the other day and she kept saying "whe. You lose that weight you'll be able to get in those clothes you bought, etc etc". I then sqid" but until then I'll wear the clothes that look good on me until I lose the weight. I'm not waiting until I lose weight to look or feel good! I'll do it right now!"

  • @TabiEmilia
    @TabiEmilia Месяц назад +3

    Thank you Chrystal 🙏🏿😍 I have been struggling in this area😔 God bless you, Ma 💖

  • @totalbodybeauty4832
    @totalbodybeauty4832 Месяц назад +3

    Love it, thank you! I'm in the process of loving my body right now after having a child, entering into my 40's, dealing with hormonal issues and a difficult relationship. I'm grateful for what God has allowed my body to do and I'm working to keep her in good health ☺️❤️

  • @PRTEEGRL
    @PRTEEGRL Месяц назад

    I recently returned from vacay in St. Lucia. I felt soooooo good in my skin. I hadn’t hit my goal weight by the time I arrived but I had been doing the work to lose weight and I just felt good. Felt good because I was doing something to change. I wore that confidence all vacation long. That’s body positivity to me.

  • @tracycrenshaw9215
    @tracycrenshaw9215 Месяц назад +1

    I can say so much about how this message was just for me; but all I want to say is THANK YOU that my spirit has caught a hold of this!❤❤❤

  • @ashlenealexander7147
    @ashlenealexander7147 Месяц назад +1

    Watching this episode, it made me repent immediately and ask God to remove every negative word I've spoken over my body and allow others to do so as well😢.. Thank you Chrystal for reminding us that our bodies is wonderful tools God want to use. ❤

  • @ramonasmart1028
    @ramonasmart1028 Месяц назад +3

    Just beautiful! Love the message! Appreciate the pouring. Stay profitable for the kingdom. Sending love to all the ladies as we love these bodies in each season of life. Blessings Crystal Hurst 🙏🏾💕

  • @naidumcmillan4922
    @naidumcmillan4922 Месяц назад

    Praise our Lord Jesus for blessings us with this amazing beautiful body this Temple. I always had struggles with my weight. In few weeks I am trying 49 years I am accepting embarrassing and loving myself. Our Heavenly Father said we are perfect and I have to respect His words spoken over me. Crystal thank you I been following you since you came to City Life church in Tampa I think 2 or 3 years ago my cousin bless me to come see and hear you, your are amazing. Love and embrace women. 😊

  • @maryglorysalala6216
    @maryglorysalala6216 Месяц назад +3

    You're such a GIFT ❤
    Thank you

  • @reneclemons4611
    @reneclemons4611 Месяц назад +3

    Chrystal, I love you ,I love your words of encouragement, you know exactly how to express the anxieties I'm feeling, I don't think we know how to help one another navigate how to age well mentally and physically ,thank you for reminding us how to treat and appreciate this gift God has given us, you are a blessing to us all❤

  • @DJ_MME
    @DJ_MME Месяц назад +4

    PREACH, girl!! I need to hear this❤

  • @lauracastaneda2550
    @lauracastaneda2550 Месяц назад +1

    So needed to hear this! I live in Hawaii and agree I am much more fun to be around when I feel good 👍🏼 n my clothes.
    I went on a journey and lost 180 pounds but in the last year I seem to be on a return trip and stress has been real and iI am 80 pounds back to where I started. I agree that the positivity of body image starts with realizing my body is a temple and I need it to do the things God has put me on this earth to do.

  • @sisterpatroach320
    @sisterpatroach320 Месяц назад +1

    Hello Crystal,
    Listening to you talk about the school shopping brought back the memory when I was ages 9-13, we shopped at Sears, the chubby section. It was frustrating for my mom and me. I could see the frustration and on occasions she made comments because the dresses would be hiked up due to my hips. She did tell me as I got older that I was pretty. It was nice to hear that from her, but I so craved hearing that from my dad. I am 67 and so thankful for the way the Lord made me! I am responsible for my weight and has made some changes in what I eat ( have a sweet tooth), but reminding myself from the word that I am fearfully and wonderfully made blesses me so.
    I agree that it is a good and kind thing to compliment my sisters and I do, but will be more intentional in doing so.
    Thank you for being a conduit for the love our daddy shares on your podcasts. I appreciate and love you although we have never met.
    Enjoy a fruitful day and week.
    Warm regards,
    Ms. Pat

  • @samarramiller2225
    @samarramiller2225 Месяц назад +1

    Wow amazing
    My cousin sent me this and I didn't even tell her how I was feeling this morning.
    Thank you for your kind words

  • @karmenjohnson6078
    @karmenjohnson6078 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you for this talk!!! It is what I NEEDED to hear! I will be playing this again til it rests in my spirit! Phew!

  • @lajuancausey2952
    @lajuancausey2952 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you soo much, this word. I love this truth you are speaking.

  • @crystalmora5641
    @crystalmora5641 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for this message Chrystal as a mother of 5 I was so uncomfortable with all parts of my body but today I choose to love my body I am his creation and he makes no mistakes God bless you ❤

  • @dominiquegreen3674
    @dominiquegreen3674 Месяц назад +1

    This is LITERALLY an answered prayer on wisdom needed in guiding my four daughters in this area. Thanks Chrystal!

  • @lenaluz2794
    @lenaluz2794 Месяц назад +1

    Never would I have thought you were 50. Never!

  • @darlenesumter4026
    @darlenesumter4026 Месяц назад +1

    C’on sista!

  • @user-hv6qc1eb5y
    @user-hv6qc1eb5y Месяц назад

    Pray for you alltime

  • @luciemccree1833
    @luciemccree1833 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much, Chrystal, for this talk. I've been fighting up and down weight issues since I was a little girl. Listening to you helps me so much 😢❤. How to love ourselves and take care of our bodies.

  • @marikareynolds4048
    @marikareynolds4048 Месяц назад +1

    Good word!❤

  • @AlleenDavid
    @AlleenDavid Месяц назад

    Thank you, thank you, thank you❤

  • @user-hv6qc1eb5y
    @user-hv6qc1eb5y 18 дней назад

    Pray for you alltime Camille punch godblessing alltime

  • @joycemarsh2261
    @joycemarsh2261 Месяц назад

    This is good! I needed this today. Thank you Chrystal for your insight and godly wisdom.

  • @sharonrobles4866
    @sharonrobles4866 Месяц назад

    Good word, I understand.
    I also went to Hawaii and wore whatever I wanted to wear. I was free to be me.😊

  • @brainsNbeauty727
    @brainsNbeauty727 Месяц назад

    This was right on time! ❤❤

  • @nojo99
    @nojo99 Месяц назад

    I needed this!!!!

  • @patriciaspence2852
    @patriciaspence2852 Месяц назад

    Awesome thank you.

  • @RelyonthewordofGOD
    @RelyonthewordofGOD Месяц назад

    I needed this.

  • @user-tn8wz3te2r
    @user-tn8wz3te2r Месяц назад

    This is such a good message...in so many days.❤

  • @marikareynolds4048
    @marikareynolds4048 Месяц назад

    Yes

  • @daynajohnson7264
    @daynajohnson7264 Месяц назад

    Thank you 🙏 ❤️

  • @betzaidafigueroa9046
    @betzaidafigueroa9046 Месяц назад +1

    Yes!!! Love the ending 😂🎉❤

  • @rochellebell9613
    @rochellebell9613 Месяц назад

    Thank you.

  • @Blossomstastymealsandlifestyle
    @Blossomstastymealsandlifestyle Месяц назад

    Thank you Chrystal ❤❤

  • @NaturalJam22
    @NaturalJam22 Месяц назад

    💛💛 yes, so important to love every phase of us.

  • @tlmickle4983
    @tlmickle4983 Месяц назад +1

    I appreciate this beautifully encouraging and uplifting message. Needed to hear this more than I realized. Extending blessings and grace to everyone as we fully embrace and love our wonderful bodies.

  • @dorothygillenwater5170
    @dorothygillenwater5170 Месяц назад

    Thank you great message with positive energy words.❤

  • @a.i.f.k.2273
    @a.i.f.k.2273 Месяц назад

    Yup sis Chrystal never mess around with these topics❤. Thank you

  • @lolalove2903
    @lolalove2903 Месяц назад

    I listened twice and plan to share with others. Thank you for sharing your amazing gifts.

  • @ladiesofiron
    @ladiesofiron Месяц назад

    I Love you Chrystal 💜🥰 Thank you💎🎁🙏🏽💪🏽👏🏽 Love, Lady T

  • @hellomrswalker
    @hellomrswalker Месяц назад

    Every video you put out is so good. I needed this and glad it was on the Home Screen. 😊

  • @sharriettefinley467
    @sharriettefinley467 Месяц назад

    This is right on time. I needed this so much. Every word hit me. Thank you for sharing a real word on body positivity.💯🦋🌷

  • @celesterobinson4950
    @celesterobinson4950 Месяц назад

    I feel you on packing for trips and say to myself no one knows me I don’t know them.. and I’ll probably will never see them again. I feel you Crystal!! Omgosh!!

  • @patriciaterry5539
    @patriciaterry5539 Месяц назад

    Amen!

  • @lasondrasmith6907
    @lasondrasmith6907 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this, Mrs Chrystal!! This means so much and is truly so inspiring on all levels♥️

  • @user-vn5vc9yr6g
    @user-vn5vc9yr6g Месяц назад

    Amen

  • @missmlb3842
    @missmlb3842 Месяц назад

    Thank you❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shirleybrewer4210
    @shirleybrewer4210 Месяц назад

    I love you Chrystal,thinks for those WORDS.❤❤

  • @darkenyawebber-tennell262
    @darkenyawebber-tennell262 Месяц назад

    Thank you sis. Amen

  • @cissacs1
    @cissacs1 Месяц назад +1

    You're really like the big sister that I need!! Every single time you give just the right things to say for me. I appreciate you and your ministry! ❤❤

    • @ChrystalHurst
      @ChrystalHurst  Месяц назад

      Glad that the content I'm sharing is helpful to you!

  • @cynthialaeger4846
    @cynthialaeger4846 Месяц назад

    Thank you, precious girl!!! This is incredible!!! I needed this!! ❤

  • @christywalker401
    @christywalker401 Месяц назад

    That was an awesome message. Instead of loving our bodies, we try to live up to society expectations.

  • @marvitasteward4814
    @marvitasteward4814 Месяц назад

    Thanks for teaching and sharing. This is blessing me.

  • @karendaniels653
    @karendaniels653 Месяц назад

    Love it ❤

  • @songofjoy446
    @songofjoy446 Месяц назад

    Saving this for the next time I need to hear wisdom, be uplifted, and be encouraged. Thank you 😊
    It’s comforting to hear this out loud and also read the comments knowing I’m not alone thick or thin.

  • @dorothywelsh100
    @dorothywelsh100 Месяц назад +1

    ❤this podcasts is going to be my go to encouragement,🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @maksmakomo
    @maksmakomo Месяц назад

    I have been struggling in this area. Thank you for this encouraging message.

  • @charmaineoates751
    @charmaineoates751 Месяц назад

    Hey Chrystal!!! Happy Memorial day! You look great and fit. Thank you for promoting a healthy life style and for my mental motivation.
    Funny thing sitting here at the toyota dealer to check the car out after they did an oil change and it's running worse now.
    Keep your car don't get anything else til it won't go ...
    Thank you for the motivation. God bless you friend!!!

  • @sfn8483
    @sfn8483 Месяц назад

    What a blessing. What you said about how your mum tried to tell you about nutrition etc is so me to my daughter🥹I am taking this on & Lord help me to use my mouth to speak life into her! God bless you!

  • @rejoicenyashamupazviripo5418
    @rejoicenyashamupazviripo5418 Месяц назад

    Chrystal how your podcasts are always on time for what I need to hear ❤ I love my body and I dress it well elegantly and yess I love to try new things ❤️ Happy and free in my own skin 😀

  • @debracrockett5386
    @debracrockett5386 Месяц назад +1

    Good podcast! We are fearfully and wonderfully made!

  • @camilleharris402
    @camilleharris402 Месяц назад

    Thank you, thank you, thank you for this Chrystal. Not only was this right on time for me, personally, but also I have a 6 year old daughter whose body shape is similar to what you described as a child and it's already a chore for me to find clothes for her. So you reminded me that I need to be mindful of what I say and how I behave with respect to her body because she is listening and watching ❤ Thank you!

  • @kaleahacosta723
    @kaleahacosta723 Месяц назад

    Well said and timely word!! ✨
    A half dozen people came up in my mind that I had to share this with before you were even finished.
    Encourage one another just as you are doing. 👑 Cheers to living free and giving words of life...🍇Thank you!!

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 Месяц назад

    Ok Coach Chrystal 🎉

  • @kjenkins3939
    @kjenkins3939 Месяц назад

    I really needed to hear this. God has “turned the page” on my life and I’m seeing my life in a new and refreshing way. I thank God for His healing and it does start with the” His Word” about me 💕🙏🏾

  • @SarahsDaughtersofFaith
    @SarahsDaughtersofFaith Месяц назад

    Chrystal you are your mom's wisdom and your maturity roled into one.
    God bless you.
    Thank you for walking in the grace God has given you and being present in this season of transition for MANY. ❤❤❤❤

  • @shannong.9742
    @shannong.9742 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for the inspiration Chrystal. I still struggle with being body negative and it doesn’t help that menopause is trying to take me out. Like many, I could probably talk your ears off about all the reasons I have to find fault with my body, but instead I will simply be grateful that God sent this wonderful message through such a beautiful soul.❤️❤️

  • @alvinastarks3051
    @alvinastarks3051 Месяц назад

    This was a wonderful reminder! Thank you for sharing in a practical, God- loving way ❤❤

  • @tammyhairel
    @tammyhairel Месяц назад

    Crystal!!! That’s some GOOD STUTTHHHH!!! All women need to be reminded of these things! Some amazing truths! Thank you!!! Love you, girl! ❤

  • @betzaidafigueroa9046
    @betzaidafigueroa9046 Месяц назад +2

    Yup after having baby’s I’m stuck in the same weight long process trying to make changes in my diet cutting sugar due glucose intolerance. I’m learning the new me in the 40s meaning what I eat in my 30s I can’t anymore. I feel sick, sugar high, headache omg help me Lord haha

  • @mrsheatherteske
    @mrsheatherteske Месяц назад

    I had a different shape too, I remember shopping in the adult section or bigger size area quite young and I too had a bigger chest than others. Even after 40 I struggle. Amen to the fact that regardless of what they look like, these legs get us to church

  • @user-hv6qc1eb5y
    @user-hv6qc1eb5y Месяц назад

    Godblessing you

  • @ct580
    @ct580 Месяц назад

    This was the best podcast ever. I went thru the same when I was young. I was a majorette and my uniform was the only one that had bust marks....

    • @ChrystalHurst
      @ChrystalHurst  Месяц назад

      Awww thanks! Glad I'm not the only one. I was in the flag core. That uniform...

    • @cynthiahillian
      @cynthiahillian Месяц назад

      ​@@ChrystalHurst
      At least you didn't have a home made uniform as a cheerleader because there wasn't a size for me in the catalog.
      I'm a woman of a certain age.. And it's still a thing... This is so so so helpful!!!

    • @cynthiahillian
      @cynthiahillian Месяц назад

      And nobody does care!!
      I was in Capetown and it was so freeing...
      N O B O D Y
      CARES!!!!
      let's reject the lies of the enemy....
      You need to take this message on the road...
      Naw!
      I'll do it 😉

  • @zerubabel777
    @zerubabel777 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this message, Chrystal. I heard someone use the term body "neutrality." I also like this term, as (to me) it means my body is what it is and I don't need to perseverate over how I look.

    • @ChrystalHurst
      @ChrystalHurst  Месяц назад

      Hmmmm... that'a a thought! I'll have to look that up!

  • @leahmcgowan8057
    @leahmcgowan8057 Месяц назад

  • @calawa8500
    @calawa8500 Месяц назад

    F.R.E.E.D.O.M. So let it be!!! And it is so!!!

  • @user-hv6qc1eb5y
    @user-hv6qc1eb5y Месяц назад

    Pray for you alltime godblessingyou

  • @alphaandomega1332
    @alphaandomega1332 Месяц назад

    😊.

  • @LornaAnnMcCabe
    @LornaAnnMcCabe Месяц назад

    So true, my body doesn’t work due to ms and menapause , being housebound bedbound etc, for ten years from size 10 uk until not size 18 , God loves me and I will enjoy this body and live right eat exercise etc but I am still alive and kicking,

  • @msroro3127
    @msroro3127 Месяц назад

    Crystal, being the coke bottle girl all my life I always hated I had to safety pin my dresses of I could look modest. Like you I hated school shopping. Still to this day I don’t like clothes shopping. When you said Cato, I hollered cause that is my store and funny thing is my sister and I go there to shop. Thanks for your encouraging words. I decided along time ago to be
    Cato Cute & Comfortable.

  • @user-hv6qc1eb5y
    @user-hv6qc1eb5y Месяц назад

    Pray for you Camille punch

  • @Therootedhome2019
    @Therootedhome2019 Месяц назад

    I’m listening and I’m from Cookeville, TN.
    I worked at Penney’s. I wonder if that’s where y’all stopped!
    How funny! Cookeville has grown so much in population 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tomilolajinadu7938
    @tomilolajinadu7938 Месяц назад

    Nice hair 😍

  • @lornamclaren1471
    @lornamclaren1471 Месяц назад +2

    Hi Chrystal did you say you used superglue😂😂😂

  • @a.i.f.k.2273
    @a.i.f.k.2273 Месяц назад

    Anyone else wondering what “ufelufuness” 😂mean. It sounds just funny. Oh boy
    This was such a blessing to me. Thanks again. Just came back to ask about the ufelufu…😂