My goodness! What an honest conversation! I felt the same way, which is why I ended a relationship. No, me DON'T have to marry but once the emotions and sex are involved, women have an expectation. If that expectation isn't met then you start feeling some kind of way! I left to protect myself and not to be a placeholder until he decides that he wants to further things. Moving forward, NO sex or emotions will be involved until a strong commitment is in place first!
Great podcast, I love all the knowledge. Regarding, being upfront when dating, I watched that video and I agree with sharing your values, likes, etc in the first 1-3 dates but by sharing more personal things like negatives in prior dating history that you’re aware of and working on or more vulnerable things that the man “would need to love you enough to cover in grace” any advice on when and how to bring these topics ? I understand each situation is different and it depends of the exact vulnerability being shared but I’d love your advice. Also, what are your thoughts about saying overtly that you’re abstinent until marriage? Would you say it’s just best to discuss your faith naturally then allow the person to show how much they respect that value vs the person being able to pretend they share that similar value if they don’t ? Thank you 🙏🏾
You have to be on same page 💖💖💖The man have to do more effort, don't chase the men 💖💖💖If you both meant to be it's gonna be happening someday 💘💘💘Trust God 😎😎😎
Can You propose to a girl before You start dating her or Can You propose to her 1week or one month or in the early stages of your dating. Also Can You court with a girl directly and Marry her or You need to date her and court her before proposing to get married together.
@Jollynelgaldotv You should only propose to a woman you have studied well in friendship. Engagement comes once you have fully determined you desire her to be your wife. During the engagement you should enter a premarital course to even further understand eachother and the union of marriage. Patience and intentionality in your courting of your wife will save a lot of heartache down the road.
@@taraboddie I'm right here in this situation. About to call it off tomorrow. It's time to separate. It's been 13 months and with my childhood friend that always liked me. Keep yall updated.
My goodness! What an honest conversation! I felt the same way, which is why I ended a relationship. No, me DON'T have to marry but once the emotions and sex are involved, women have an expectation. If that expectation isn't met then you start feeling some kind of way! I left to protect myself and not to be a placeholder until he decides that he wants to further things. Moving forward, NO sex or emotions will be involved until a strong commitment is in place first!
Great podcast, I love all the knowledge. Regarding, being upfront when dating, I watched that video and I agree with sharing your values, likes, etc in the first 1-3 dates but by sharing more personal things like negatives in prior dating history that you’re aware of and working on or more vulnerable things that the man “would need to love you enough to cover in grace” any advice on when and how to bring these topics ? I understand each situation is different and it depends of the exact vulnerability being shared but I’d love your advice.
Also, what are your thoughts about saying overtly that you’re abstinent until marriage? Would you say it’s just best to discuss your faith naturally then allow the person to show how much they respect that value vs the person being able to pretend they share that similar value if they don’t ? Thank you 🙏🏾
You have to be on same page 💖💖💖The man have to do more effort, don't chase the men 💖💖💖If you both meant to be it's gonna be happening someday 💘💘💘Trust God 😎😎😎
Can You propose to a girl before You start dating her or Can You propose to her 1week or one month or in the early stages of your dating.
Also Can You court with a girl directly and Marry her or You need to date her and court her before proposing to get married together.
@Jollynelgaldotv You should only propose to a woman you have studied well in friendship. Engagement comes once you have fully determined you desire her to be your wife. During the engagement you should enter a premarital course to even further understand eachother and the union of marriage. Patience and intentionality in your courting of your wife will save a lot of heartache down the road.
So u have to leave them …. To get the ring? After all u do u have to leave?… wow please say that isn’t the only way
A lot of times it is unfortunately. And for some that still doesn't compel them. Decide what you want and move forward.
@@taraboddie I'm right here in this situation. About to call it off tomorrow. It's time to separate. It's been 13 months and with my childhood friend that always liked me. Keep yall updated.