I'm Not 'Being Paid' To Love My Plus Size GF | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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- Опубликовано: 5 июн 2024
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Nikki and Terrance have been together for 7 months and met through mutual friends. In the past, Nikki has had toxic relationships with men who have used her weight as a weapon against her during arguments so she was wary when her best friend Kristin tried to set her up with Terrance, Nikki recalls making sure that Kristin had “warned” Terrance that she was plus size incase he was put off by it… Nikki and Terrance started exchanging texts and chatting over FaceTime and eventually met in person 2 ½ weeks later - she admits she was nervous for Terrance to meet her in real life because of her size however, Terrence loves her for who she is! The pair are planning on moving in together, eventually marrying and having kids. Nikki says there is a “clear / massive” weight difference between them. Nikki, who is a fashion influencer says that anytime she posts any content with Terrance, she is trolled. She says because she is plus size people judge their relationship, assume she gives him money, pays for his lifestyle and takes care of him financially in return for his love, she says people assume there must be a catch or an incentive to be with her. Despite the judgement, the couple prove that outside appearances don't matter!
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A "mixed weight" relationship is not a thing 😂😂 It's just a couple.
Exactly🥱
😂😂😂😂 ikr !
Super Heavyweight Champs of the World😂😂😂😂😂
It’s called Pork n Stork Syndrome
Agree
He’s not that thin, they look great for each other 🤷🏽♂️
Exactly. He's almost as big as her.
@@Scifi4life that’s a bit extreme
@@Scifi4life😂😂
This one☝️I thought this wasn’t that taboo. There are a lot of mixed weight relationships. And the woman is usually the larger partner in the mixed weight relationship.🤷🏽♀️
@@Scifi4life Nah, not really but he’s not thin that’s the point
That's my Daughter and she is entitled to love whomever she wants to love. Great Story!!!!! Not A mixed weight couple just a couple....
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Beautiful couple ❤
Wishing them all the best. The world acts like us BBW's aren't deserving of love or that smaller people aren't attracted to us. They're wrong. She looks like she has a beautiful spirit, wishing them both all the best❤️
Yeah I agree. Just because she’s fat, is she not supposed to love? It’s stupid. I wish you all love ❤
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Quick news, people can love REGARDLESS of the appearance of their significant other
Sadly, social media tries to get us to believe otherwise
Why are ppl always being rude to ppl who are happy. They are a beautiful couple!
Exactly❤
Nothing other than jealousy people are always try to put their insecurities on others
People need stop hating fr
Beautiful couple ❤as long as you’re both happy that’s what matter.
Cause they aren’t happy.
“Mixed Weight” relationship? That’s a new one lol
These labels are out of control at this point. I mean, he's fat too 💁🏾♀️ lol
Yeah, I'm like is that a UK thing? 😂😂 I've never heard that term before
Baby you stole the words out of my mouth. Like wtf
😂😂
I mean it is a shirter way of saying we are in a relationship where we both weigh different.
He not ugly and neither is she. Leave these people alone
Don't feel bad he took hours to call. My husband took 28 days to call after I gave him my number! This year we celebrate 18 years of marriage! You just have to grow together and everything that goes wrong in life, will just make you guys stronger. Good luck.
I’m still awaiting likes and responses from hinge matches so your comment gives me hope.
Her size doesn't negate her inner and outer BEAUTY! 🎉🎉🎉
True no it don't but she determine how long she is going to be on this earth without taking care of herself in a healthy way.
She is absolutely beautiful deserves all the happiness
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Is her being heavy set really that big of a deal?? Wow
Thank you SOOO much for capturing our story 🎉🩷🩷
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You two are both polite and respectful to each other ❤❤.
Maturity level in your conversations shows how lucky you two are to find each other .😍
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You and Terrance ROCK!
Happy for yall cousin proud of you
He look so shy and introverted. Love this for both of ya. 🥹🫶🏽
He really is! But he talks a lot once he’s around you a lot 🩷
Shy and introverted people are the craziest behind closed doors don’t be fooled
Girl, u are so pretty@@TheyKrave_Nikki
@@TheyKrave_Nikki Haha I knew it. A lot of nerds are.
Mixed weight relationship?? WTH??? Then we ALL in a mixed weight relationship cuz no man and woman weigh the EXACT same. She is beautiful and plus and he is nice looking and plus...so what? They are good for each other, ain't nun to see here. I don't know where they live, but here in the US, MOST ppl are over weight😂😂.
Atlanta lol. Thank you 🩷
Exactly
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talking bout some mixed weight. wtf are they even talking about💀😂
@@TheActualStonester where your partner at?
I see two good-looking people who love each other. ❤
She’s gorgeous congrats! Also I hate the term mixed weight relationship
She's GORGEOUS. Leave them alone to be happy together...geez.
Its not size its how they make each other feel.
Beautiful Lady! Handsome Man!
All the negative stuff is just people hating on you two cause the two of you have real love, your happy and awesome!
Negative people hate anyone that have what they can’t get.
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They match up, perfectly...he's lucky to have her
Seems like a normal relationship to me. Idk why people are rude to these two
They're both gorgeous and the love is gorgeous
I can believe ppl say those things cause I see weirdest comments on Twitter mainly. He should just keep living his life and live who he loves. She seems very sweet, hope it doesn’t get to her.
He definitely love that lady. It seem like every kiss they showed he couldn’t keep his tongue in his mouth 😂
Hell if that's the case weve all been in "mixed weight* relationships!
As long they Love each other that's what's most important
I’m sad they were both bullied beginning in kindergarten. I’m happy they found love! Cute couple.
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If the man would be “big size“
no one would talk about it…🤷🏻♀️
Mixed weight????? So.... Whos gunna tell him???
Like he's also not that thin 😂
Didn’t you hear me say if you talk about my baby, we got a problem?
Thts what I was thinking to myself😂😂
You don’t even look better than Nikki, a lot of you that’s talking shit dont
@@TheyKrave_Nikkigirllll yk how im coming behind ya 😂 I be ready to argue with anybody behind this plus sized shit . it be a lot of girls that DONT LOOK BETTER , having a lot to say… all we gotta do is lose weight but them faces still go be ugly 👊🏻👊🏻
@@TheyKrave_Nikkilmaoooo Oop
Respect my guy. I pray 🙏🏿 you guys get married and live happily ever after.
Omg I love them for each other. She’s beautiful and he’s handsome. She’s a plus size with a lot of class. Her confidence is everything. There are many of people that are slim and trim, that doesn’t have the confidence in which she possess. He seems like a really good guy. According to what we are seeing here. Love that woman. Love that man. Let God, shine his light upon you both. And walk in his path. You both could never go wrong. Not sure of their religion. However I’m going to pray that they live, love, laugh,and last a lifetime. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
They look gud together to me. She may be bigger, but she pretty, look clean, nice, and confident. He seem happy. Don't see the problem. People act like plus size people don't have personality.
She's fire she keeps up with herself. Yes, she can definitely lose some weight, but she works with what she has, which is a pretty face, and she's portion right. I think shes doing him a favor 😂
I don't see anything wrong with their Relationship, she is Beautiful ❤❤
As long as they are Happy Thats all that matters 😊 ☺️
Hi LOVE ❤️DON'T JUDGE. Yall are a beautiful couple! Negative people don't understand reality. You can be fit & healthy at any size. I wish yall guy 👑👞🎩& 👒👗🥿doll all the happiness & hope all your hopes & dreams come true, Miss Janine👜🥻👡🛍
Please he’s lucky to have her
Ignore people that judge you for your weight
euh whats the problem. Two beautiful souls in lovely relation. Enjoy it.
Who cares of one is "fat" and the other is "average?"...🤷♀️🤦♀️
It doesn't matter! They are both happy.
Just stay physically healthy no matter what your weight is and all is good ❤
She is definitely not physically healthy. Ask her knees, joints and heart
@@asavannah7439they can't talk back
@@asavannah7439 are you her doctor? 🤷♀️
Why is their relationship anyone's business? Why is anyone's relationship someone's business? And who are YOU that they need your approval? People got the most time for the dumbest ish.
It looks perfectly normal to me
💀 why do people care-
Lmfaoooo “mixed weight relationship” this is literally a normal couple . She’s so pretty and it’s not like he’s some he’s some model . He’s just a regular guy . If I saw them out and about I wouldn’t even give them a single thought
"I Like how we FEED off each others energy"
She seems like a nice person with a good personality! She fixes herself up: dresses nicely and applies makeup; she is a pretty lady! Her confidence makes her even prettier! I love the fact that she's not shy about eating in public, a lot of heavyset ppl are. This seems like a positive & healthy relationship, they should be applauded instead of criticized! Ppl need to mind their own business if they don't have anything nice to say!!!
I'm totally confused...this is a regular loving relationship! She is gorgeous and he is a nice looking guy!
She's mad pretty.
Nikki, I'm so glad you found your person. You are the sweetest person, and I pray you both have a lifetime of happiness.
No one is PERFECT.
I love it! Great episode. Keep thriving and flourishing Nikki. Beautiful couple!
Not “mixed weight” relationship 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LOL a mixed weight relationship. How is that even a thing. I guess I was in a mixed weight relationship too.
I have never heard of mixed weight relationship, they just look like a regular couple to me, happy they are happy 😊
We all are in “mixed weight relationships”! For example I’m 128 pounds and my boyfriend is 150 pounds…
Right!!!
In the South, this ain't nothing but a regular couple on a regular day.
Ppl have to realize you can gain or lose weight if you choose to 😂
2:31 This dress looks soooo pretty on her❤❤
Mixed weight....I've learnt a new term today.
Tf is learnt? That’s not even a word.
@@rinar1924I bet u still understood what was written
No. They made up another B.S. label today.
I never heard of mixed weight relationships? People need to stop she seems beautiful and a joy to be around 💕. We don’t need to weigh the same amount in relationships that’s madness
"Mixed Weight" relationship?!?!?!?! They have a term for EVERYTHING now-a-days.
You can’t possibly ‘love’ me and yet stand back and watch me destroy my health….. just doesn’t make sense to me
She's always been bigger and she is actually on a journey to getting better. So it's best to Kai your thoughts to yourself.
Exactly. And what’s worse, birds of a feather really do flock together. So their flaws shake hands in ways we’ll never see. No one ignores and enables such a glaring health condition (and claims to be attracted to it) unless they have an equally disgusting character flaw. We just can’t see his like we can see hers.
It’s why fat girls never have a group of skinny friends - they know they’d have to self reflect every time they come around them .
It’s why drug addicts don’t have ‘health nut’ friends. Or why the rich don’t generally hang around a lot of poor people. You have to have fundamental shiii in common with a person to be around them all the time. So bro is likely a perfect match for her. They both lack something egregiously important in their character.
The great thing is it doesn't have to make sense to you. It makes sense to them
@@chaundasumara the great thing is they aren’t the definition of common sense or logic. So who cares what makes sense to them 😊
He isn’t small though. He like big girls, so what!
Honestly I’m so tiered why can’t we be happy with people if they’re doing legal stuff. like I understand if somebody’s robbing the bank with a gun and hurt somebody, but like leave people who are dating alone.
They love each other and that's the most important thing.
Absolutely ❤
He’s damn near plus size as well why is this video a thing?
Ok regardless of weight they're so cute together! I i love their dynamic
I love how cute they are together. Their energy is so matched. 🥺
Its weird ppl judging he not even in shape himself not even trying too be rude
Really.... Freaking really..... Nobody should ever be that size.... Period
She has a beautiful personality any person will love feminine & beautiful 💕
People act as if some people don’t have a “right” to a loving relationship unless they look a certain way or can check EVERY box. Everyone has imperfections or areas needing improvement. The thing with weight is that you can’t necessarily hide it anymore after a certain point. I don’t necessarily agree with the “mixed-weight” title, but unfortunately we live in a society that likes to categorize everything and everyone, and that’s the thing that causes division. I see two people that lit a spark in each other and were obviously what the other was looking for. I hope they make it. They should limit time on social media to protect their peace and sanity, and keep their relationship free from “outside” influences.
Wow thanks for sharing something so personal.
He said he loves her no matter what size she is. That's great. But he's not thin or fit either. They look like they belong together.
The comments in the video make it seem like he's supposed to be out of her league.
They look beautiful together and he loves her for who she is on the inside and not just for fetish reason. He said he loves plus size but he mostly love her for her personality. I love hearing things like this. If they have a wedding I bet it would be beautiful.
Keep being a happy couple despite the rude remarks from the trolls. They don't have anything else better to do since they maybe unhappy.
Ok I have to say this and this applies to her and him- They are both at an unhealthy weight and I believe if they don't have a mental or physical condition that causes weight gain, they should be in shape. PERIOD.
Oh shut up
I’m really happy that Nikki can be in a relationship and be happy in her own skin because not everyone is confident like that so for Nikki to be confident in a relationship is bars. I couldn’t do it but Nikki can and I applaud her for it.
They are beautiful together. She’s so beautiful and I know her through Tik Tok. Cheers to Black love 💕
First of all if she makes him happy that's no body's business
I didn’t know this was a thing. “Mixed weight…”
Beautifully done you both look so good together I’m so happy and proud of you! Keep shining others are watching and are inspired by your confidence and your beauty
This gives me hope that you can really find your person. I’m so happy you found someone throughout your journey. So proud of you love
Am not a thin girl who cares as long as u guys love eachother
I LOVE yalls energy! You two are a BEAUTIFUL couple🥹✨️🦋🥰🙏🏽
Thank you ❤
i can’t believe this is a documentary type thing. this is like any relationship ship not something peculiar
I am happy for them. They look happy and are enjoying themselves.
Glad she learned not to respond to the negative comments
I never understood what someone weight, height, size or age has anything to do with being in a consenting relationship. Once they're not under age. Ppl can be so shallow
I always see couples who look just like them.
It was so sad when he spoke about being bullied since age 5.
A beautiful couple that exemplifies unconditional love! I am so happy for the both of you! 😀 Congratulations!!
Gorgeous couple! Some ppl talk bc they’re not happy with their life.
I love Nikki .! I love them together 🥰💕 People that are judgmental usually have a closet full of insecurities hence the reason why they speak on others. Big or small, love is love. They both deserve happiness 💕🫶🏾
LOVE IS LOVE IMO ❤️
People are so CRUEL, I like them 🤩
Hurt people, hurt people! Love is Love! Just continue to be happy bc the thoughts of negative people don’t matter. Continue to be confident in all that you do!
His reaction after she said she doesn’t play about him.. 😅!
She has the sweetest personality and I can tell he loves her but this couple is not out of the ordinary. They look like an average loving couple
Thank you 💗 we really just be vibing. Society labeled us.
I mean, he isn't small himself, and truth be told. Some guys like big girls. I don't see anything wrong with that.
Her fashion style is amazing. ❤
Thank you ❤
@@TheyKrave_Nikki I agree I like all your outfits. I am shaped like you and it isnt just your fashion but your home style also. I have similar abstract art in my living room but gold like the black ones you have.
They are both plus sized… TF are we really talking about here
A bih with a crochet can’t say anything about me.
He is not. He's a medium built guy. Let's keep it a buck!!
She is beautiful ❤❤
I’m here because looking at the thumbnail I’m confused??? 😂
Confused about what sis? You got a problem you need solved ?