I just would like to say a huge thank you to everyone that has watched and commented. What you have said has lifted me more than you can possibly imagine. When I started this journey it was really about me trying to be what I was created for. I had no idea that it might resonate with so many people and I am so humbled and inspired now. There is definitely so much more to the story and I hope to share more in the future. Shout out to Corey and Soul Media for making me look way better than I am. I wish I could respond to every comment, I’ve read every one of them and they all mean the world to me. Blessings on all of you.
I'm 38 and quit a full time job that sucked the life out of me and opened a home recording studio. I needed every word in this video so much. Thank you.
What a beautiful and heartfelt documentary. I'm actually lucky enough to have this guy as my father in law. One of the most genuine people I have ever met.
Hey Tom, thanks so much for sharing mate. As soon as I saw the title... I thought "The algorithm has really nailed it this time." I never write comments, but I had to for this. 20 years taking care of people with disabilities, then I had a stroke at 37. they discover a massive tumor on my heart and gave me months to live. Treatments make me sicker than cancer but seemed to work until I started suffering full blown seizures and discovered I have 3 brain tumors 😬 long story, short... 3 brain surgeries later and a whole lot of soul-searching / hospital visits. I am now in furniture design. I have always loved creating. And now I do it, You just gotta start doing it and keep doing it, the rest takes care of itself
I have no words. This is amazing!!! I have a friend that works in furniture design. A creative path that I never would have even thought about. Now I see furniture design differently.
"You've had a whole lifetime to do something special and you didn't even try..." NO ONE should have to tell themselves this. Life is beautiful and short. God created us, therefore, we are inherently creators. Get out there and create something amazing today!
I mean, isn’t raising a family something special? Seems like he downplayed that part of his life, also was his career choice something that wasn’t fulfilling ? I know the feeling, I quit being a journalist (boring) in my 20’s to become a special Ed teacher and it’s helped me feel more meaning and purpose in my life
Hey everyone, thank you so much for watching! I never thought Tom's story would reach this many people. This mini doc was a passion project birthed out of my love for art and the opportunity to tell artist's stories. It's so cool to see how many of you have been inspired by Tom. It's evident that his perseverance and drive in pursuing his dreams has made an impact. So, I plan on highlighting more artists in the future. I have an idea of who I'd like to feature next. However, if you know of any talented artist that has a powerful story, feel free to reach out and let me know. Thanks and enjoy the show! -Corey Besmer, Soul Original Media
Overall it's a lovely short and I enjoyed it! On the other hand I am disappointed that the Mary Blair piece was not mentioned in the interview. He sat in font of the painting during the majority of the clip. Obviously, he painted it and it's the largest of his work shown. I know the interview was about Tom, but Mary Blair obviously she ment something to him. You didn't ask about the elephant in the room -- why not?
Hey Corey- First, great work on this. Had me engaged from start to finish. Thank you. Second, I’m what some would call one of the Wu-tang Killa Beez. I’m now the founder of @gryskll, a group of “midlifers” who came together via Instagram Reels in 2021 to make music and podcasts about topics like mental health, brotherhood and more. I founded the group as I was clawing my way out of a debilitating battle with depression, anxiety & more. I’m working on learning to tell my story via my Patreon (gryMatter) and I just launched the Patreon for the group (GRYSKLL) this week. I’d love to talk to you sometime if you’re interested.
Everyone tells us that art isn’t good for us. That’s because, most of them are incapable of following their own dreams, due to fear or some other force. They don’t understand the power of ART. It’s innate. Loved this.
As kids we’re told not to bank on being an athlete or an artist for a living. There’s a lot of recreational beer softball league players, but not enough recreational artists. People are too worried about being ‘bad’ at art, but that’s really not a thing.
All true except for your first statement everyone tells us is completely untrue there are many people that support art fully & with gusto, thoughts & words including
Same story as me… always known I was an artist, became an engineer to please my parents, survived a major heart attack in my forties, started painting recently… at 56… don’t want to leave this world without trying out what resonates with my true nature…
my dad passed away and left me two digital keyboards. the last portion of this video was reaffirming to continue using them and to follow my heart and passion for music. I thought it was interesting how Tom developed heart problems when he wasn’t following his heart. Then, once he healed from it he decided to follow his heart and pursue being an artist. It’s both real and surreal when we suppress things in our lives and how over time our body will manifest that into something that shakes and awakens us to choose a different direction. It’s as though we were born to follow that path and the universe gives us consequences when we refuse to heed to its calling.
I've been 30+ years as an artist and making a very good living. I never starved and I've always had a job I loved. The reason is that I loved art as a kid and when I told my parents I wanted to be an artist they supported me even though they had no idea how an artist could make a living. I am so grateful to them that they never doubted me, and that allowed me the confidence to never doubt myself. (BTW- true artists never retire. They just keep creating things as long as they can. Leave the golf to those with nothing else to do.)
That's awesome! Glad to hear you stayed true to yourself. I had a gift of being able to replicate any picture or design to scale just by looking at it and free handing it at a very young age. I painted, did photography etc. and was always told how good I was from everyone.....but was told to go to college and work in corporate in order to play it safe. I did that, and now at 44 years old have decided to resign from my IT job and pursue what I have left behind for so many years. What type of art do you produce and what kind of advise would you have for me?
I'm 48 and quit my job two years ago to be a digital artist and it feels so good to be working on my graphic novel. Can't wait to finish so I can start the next.
RETIRE is such a corporate word. Great story. Listen to your body more. It will tell you when you are doing the right thing. Also, always do what you loved as a kid!!!
A journey many of us have made. My pivotal moment was cancer when I was 60. Now I make portraits everyday and have done for the last 4 years (3000 to date)
I can't even begin to tell you how serendipitous it is to have this video recommended to me. This gives me so much more hope that I'm doing the right thing by going for what I love to do. It's a hard battle, but if it's well-fought, you won't regret the battles. Thank you.
At 51 I recently returned to painting after 4 years off after a devastating spinal cord injury. I am fricking PUMPED about my new work- any time away from the studio feels like I’m wasting time. I can’t even look at my older work even though I had a solid collector base. They might not embrace my new work but I don’t care, my goal is to fill a void, not repeat myself.
Tom, thank you for this inspiring video. I'm 43 and been an artist my whole life. I recently quit my day job a month ago to pursue art full time. Taking that step was scary. But I couldn't go on living with the idea that I'd regret not going for it. This past month has been incredible. The thought of knowing I work for myself. Not having to clock in and work for someone else. The freedom of making my own schedule. I've gotten more work done in 4 weeks than in the last year. I hope more artists and creative people can find it in themselves to make a plan and set forth working for themselves. And share their gifts with the world. Cheers sir.
It’s such a hard way of life, but as my buddy says, prosperity comes in many flavors, like Baskin Robbins. What flavor do you like the most? I’ll never be rich but I wake up, make coffee, walk the dog and paint Mickey Mouse. I love it.
It has been a year since I left my highly paid career in IT. My heart began to fail due to years of stress and corporate bullying. 💔❤🩹Because of my job, I lost friends, relationships, health, and almost my life. 😔 I haven’t been on a date for 4 years (I am not ugly at all). Time flies behind the computer screen, and no one can give it back to you. As a 36-year-old woman, I am starting from scratch as a professional artist. 😶🌫I am scared, but on the other hand, I don’t have much to lose. And for everyone who fears competition - be authentic and have your own style, then you are safe. Remember, authenticity and uniqueness are powerful assets. Best of luck on your journey! 🎨✨
Good heavens. My Mother recognized my ability but told me over and over that I couldn’t make a living as an artist. It has rattled around in my head for nearly 80 years. I’ve dreamed, begun and stopped. So lost. I nearly didn’t read this and I’m glad that I did. Congratulations to you for breaking through that brain barrier and making contact with your heart.
Noooo! I'm so sorry! Thank you for commenting. In Australia I met a guy named Jack Absalom. He ran tours in the outback. He used to take art tours where artists used to go into the outback and paint the stunning scenery. One day he asked one of the artists if he could have a go. He was 44 years old. He said he never even knew he could paint lettle own come to love it. Just paint, just paint....
This came up in my feed as well this evening. Wow, I can so relate. I also picked up a brush for the first time at 44. Those voices in your head that you were referring to, the ones that leave you questioning why we do this…… they’re real. I had hit a wall and needed your message tonight. Thank you for the inspiration. Your work is incredible. As you can tell from all the comments, your message was part of our path and we are all grateful. Onward.
Thanks Tom. I recently retired after 35 years in IT. I turn 60 in September. I've always been a writer and I just started writing on Medium. It's never too late. I wish I had started sooner, but I've started. Thanks for the video. I enjoyed the message.
This made me cry! I'm so glad I found it. Very inspiring. I'm 58 and this was a great kick in the ass for me. I make quilts and have been wanting to make more art quilts and do something more with it, but I've been using my full time job as an excuse to not do what I want. Thank you for this video.
I’ve worked as a creative free lance / entrepreneur for almost 15 years and only recently - when I was 43 - took a job working for a government archive! I love it… my free time feels much more free and I love the financial stability. So that’s an option as well! ❤
I am 60 now. I always as a child thought about, dreamt about and did art. I knew I wanted to be an artist as young as four. When it came time for college my dad Encouraged me to do something else to make money. Stopped doing my own art work. I became a therapist and worked with children and teens and encouraged them to do art as therapy. When I turned 50 I woke up and stated I had lost to many years not having my own art life. I still work as a therapist because I love it. But art helps me survive the stress this job has attached to it. Weekends, days off and after work I am painting. I once again dream of art and never stop thinking through my artistic mind.
Beautiful! Thanks for commenting! I try to tell people that it's therapy. It transports you to another realm. All your troubles seem to disappear for a little while. Maybe because we are bending our minds to other things? All I know is it works. Someone once said to me, have you noticed in kindergarten that all kids love to paint. It's only as they get older they put it aside.
@@BenHeffernanArt I believe art takes us to another place. rather we call meditation, spiritual realm or connection to our inner child it can be very healing. Art allows us to assess the deeper feeling part of the brain, the less logical thinking place to quiet or turn up the volume of the unconscious parts of the true self. Kids just know how to do this and are expressive, excited and proud of their art. They have fun. The young child hasn’t yet learned to listen to the noise in your head that shuts down older brains by being critical and fearful.
Retiring isn’t the end … it’s truly the beginning of a new chapter of life. I’ve always loved drawing and leaving work at 60, not by choice, gave me the opportunity to do more drawing and a more social life. So embrace change and make the most of it.
Thank you Tom for sharing your story. You're one more person I get to add to my list of people who have inspired me during this 'midjourney'... and thanks Soul Original Media for capturing Tom's story so beautifully.
With 21 and studying very frustrated business administration, I stumbled into advertising by coincidence and got my first freelance job as storyboard illustrator. Ever since I’m doing this, makes me happy most of the time. I’m 60 this year. Thanks God.
O so timely, love these stories ! 62 retired architect after an accident no longer able to use my dom. hand, after years of struggle to get back on my feet and practicing with my left hand ro draw, life is worth waking up for. battling those demons, I say, life is brief, time to do what I enjoy despite the money issue.
Thank you so much for sharing! I do the same, waking up at 4:30 to get some hours in the studio. I've always had the same thought, "God gave me this gift for a reason". I see myself in Tom's footsteps. Just a couple more years to become debt free and I'm taking the leap! Thanks again, this means so much to me you can't imagine!
I started with 38, getting up at 4 am to paint while my 1-year old was hopefully still sleeping. I am part time now in my corporate job and started after 7 years to give art classes and to share my experiences and knowledge. I know the demons in my head of not being good enough and why I am not further ahead, too. But it’s not true, I live the life now I have dreamt to live for years with 45 now. There is always more and there is so so much more in the now.
I started taking myself seriously right around my 48th birthday (a few years ago), and I am so much happier for it! I'm not making the big bucks, but my world is much more complete now that I am honoring the thing that makes me the happiest. I can relate to the inner voices telling us that we are far behind others who have been doing it longer- but, we have to remember that we are on our own timeline, not theirs. This was inspiring to watch!
I'm 39 and just quit my office job to make music full time. It's so heart warming to see so many people taking the courage to start from scratch a new life. It's scary, and my inner voice telling me i'm a "loser" is the hardest enemy to fight. Thank you so much! You helped us a lot with this moving short video, which is a lovely piece of art in itself. Go friends! Work hard, be true to youselves and never stop. I'm not alone in this and neither are you.
Inspiring. Thank you! I'm pushing 60 and finally stretching my creative muscles. Hoping to publish a book this year. It's good to hear stories like this of those who have tried and succeeded later in life :)
As a guy a couple years away from his 40s who is finally coming back to music after quitting it professionally almost ten years ago now, this is so inspirational
Thanks for sharing this, I somehow stumbled into songwriting which turned into almost 200 songs last year 🤷♂️ who knew… I’ve always felt a bit unsettled by how and what pours out of me but it’s something I can’t not do so I keep doing it. There’s some ease that comes from knowing I’m not the only one to find this later in life
Nice story. Am very happy for this guy. I'm 62 and planning to give my job up for a few months so i can build a website for my photography. Let's see where the unknown takes me. Thanks for the video.
Love it!!! I think so many of us can relate to Toms situation… doing things in life that are not our calling just because we were told to by our parents or society in general! Amazing he managed to turn the thing around 👏👏👏👏👏
you r correct....i too make videos...for my enjoyment...if someone else sees and likes...then thats great...if not..thats fine too.... i always asked myself how come i didnt get into movies...which i love....now i find i have a little time...and so i am pursuing it...learning it...shooting shorts... and totally loving it....i hope everyone finds something they love to do...so they can enjoy and be happy...creating...
Wow. Just came across this. It resonates so much with me. As a 50 (cough) something making a life change and finally pursuing my creative dream, I totally get this. It's never too late. I'm so excited for the next stage of my life.
This really hit home. I'm 36 and too scared to follow my dream of being an artist. I hope it doesn't come to a near-death experience to finally give me enough courage to take that leap of faith. Its inspirational seeing people like Tom taking back his life and seizing the day. I hope everyone stuck-in-a-rut sees this video and gives enough courage to pursue their happiness. Lord know I need to. God bless you Tom and thank you for sharing your story.
Gave up music for 20 years to build a career and home. Glad I did. Back at writing songs for the last few years; it’s like coming back home. Still working part time bc don’t have to work FT. The rest goes to the inspiration.
I started my adult lift with a career in animation. I hated it. The industry was toxic and I felt lost knowing that. Then I retrained and became a consultant data engineer. I was finally treated with respect at work, managers worked with me in my career development, my analytical and problem solving skills are the best they’ve ever been. I learned how to work more professionally. I just quit that career. Maybe I’ll go back if I need money but I’m obsessed now with making my own language learning mobile game. I can take my art skills and technical skills and life experience and make something unique to me, that hopefully helps a lot of people. There’s no one right path for finding your thing. And having a winding path is normal and beneficial. You learn what you don’t like and pick up extra skills along the way.
I was holding back tears watching this video. Thank you for sharing your work with us, as well as your journey. Congratulations on your new shot at life.
I saw my mom struggling financially because she was an artist, all of us 6 of her children were both, in awe of her and her passion for art and scared to jump into the abyss of being an artist. My brothers all 5 went onto become artists, me the girl, couldn’t make the decision until now after my children left home. It’s the best time in my life.
If I have learned anything on this particular trip called life, it’s that the universe favors us when we follow our bliss, and do so without expectation of any particular outcome. So loosely planned but every single thing worked out in my favor. Art is Life.
Tom's story resonates so much. I've always dabbled with creative endeavors since I was a kid, but worked in construction all my life. I had an epiphany last year (I'm in my mid 40's) that if I didn't pursue art more seriously I would die with regret, and that hurt moved me into action. Like Tom, I'm currently working on my art every day in my spare time putting in the hours to make things happen. Better late then never.
What I enjoy most out of this, is that he's actually extremely talented.. So many videos out here about "artists" who are just people who doodle or throw paint at something and it's considered art.. people say it's amazing.. I just don't get it, and never have.
We all have something to contribute and leave behind. Congratulations to everyone in the comments who've found the courage and found the piece of them they'd like to leave behind. Pursue your passions!
a lot of what he says resonates with me, too. i started with music a little earlier than tom-at 23-but i have had a constant battle to keep working on my art, suffering as i do from severe mental illness and chronic fatigue. at 44, i am only just about to finish my first album. those voices in the middle of the night are real. i keep expecting this era to offer up a whole slew of artists who started much later. there must be a ton of us. hopefully stories like this help provide some of the courage needed to take up the banner.
Thank you so much for this. I started playing guitar at 28 and started writing original lyrics this year at 34. You're an inspiration to keep pushing forward.
Tom, What a pleasure to know you and been able to hang your art at Stockton Bridge Grille. The first time I heard about was through your Mother in law. Once I met you and saw you work and got to know you as a person it was an easy decision. We scrambled that first year to have your work up by the Art and Wine Festival. You were the last artist to grace those walls and it think it was a 2 year run. Congratulations on your success and this video. Lee
WOW - I am very inspired by this video thank you for sharing. I also noticed he had the verse 1 Peter 4 10-11 10 Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms. 11 If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ.
Great video! You hooked me at the very beginning because I turned 50 in July and have been hesitant to put my story/creativity out in the world. Thanks for the inspiration! Your artwork & story is amazing! Sub’d
Great job on the video. Very inspirational and makes me want to break away and go full time at RUclips. I made a video about my similar story (Follow Your Passion), but I'm still doing my regular job along with pursuing these creative interests. This video makes me want to rethink and go full tilt with TY and creative pursuits. Thanks!
I don't know how the algorithm works at times on RUclips, but I'm glad I had this recommended to me. I sincerely needed to see this. I have been doing art and design for the last 30 years, and am nearing 50 years of age, but feel that my career is both changing and stagnating in ways I had never anticipated. This was a really wonderful mini documentary to watch, thank you for making it, and for Tom sharing his story!
I've had a very similar experience to yours. I pursued a predictable and financially stable career in healthcare to avoid the poverty that I grew up in. Then I got very sick for a couple years and it changed my perspective on life. I realized I had been neglecting my creativity throughout whole adulthood because I thought the "stability" was more important. I realized that life is short and if you want to do something, you just have to do it. I recently left my career in order to start something new in the creative field. I'm very optimistic and excited to see where it goes and I feel freer than I've felt in a long time.
Love this commentary. I’m retired and I find art my soothing place . Can’t stop creating and I look at that as a blessing . Now to find venues to sell….some are coming up in the fall so I’m excited . Just built a studio so I’m getting excited to paint every day and create some amazing art! Thanks for the inspiration
This is a reminder that I need to make more music. I took a break when my daughter was born. Now after 3 years I'm itching to get back to it. This time, without an agenda of trying to "break into the industry".
I’m 32 and the part about that voice at night calling you a loser and saying you should be further and have more haunts me quite regularly but I’m pushing through
Thank you for this, my creative friend. I’m about to go on this same journey myself (as a 42 yr old). Out with the corporate, in with the creative! I wish you all the best on this creative path!
Man, thanks for sharing. I am 49 and working with design, but drawing and painting are my passions, and since the mid-age approach, I've analyzed what I really like to do, so I can escape from the gift that GOD gave me. I totally understand the feeling.
I love this! I’m 45 and I don’t feel like I’m done with creative expression yet. There’s still so much more I want to do in a world that tells middle-aged people to hang it up. Thank you for the inspiration to try!
This is what i really felt right now... I always have this innervoice in my mind that says, "Im a loser" all the time. The feeling that no one would really appreciate my works. But then, I realize that its a matter of survival and so we have to keep Going. To pursue the things that we want,Dedicate our life to it, and keep on moving no matter what.
It's never too late to start down a new path and chase your passion. Think strategically and make a plan to transition from one career to another and it can be your new life. And these days, there's no such thing as a secure job, so you might as well chase your art anyway.
where he talks about his mates retiring at 60 and he feels bad about that. Retirement is massively over rated and a BS catch phrase to make people believe they are now going to enjoy life . Look at the art and music worlds. They are full of people who keep creating until they drop. He is a good guy and this is a good film, I hope he keeps going until the end and never retires.
And here I am, aged 35, thinking it was too late and pointless to even try pursuing art. Even for my own enjoyment. That metaphor in the end, about giving someone a gift they then don't use, really kicked me in the face.
It is such a shame that it takes a near death experience for people to realize how important it is to be happy in life. Many don't get the opportunity. Tom has been fortunate indeed, and all the best to him.
I just would like to say a huge thank you to everyone that has watched and commented. What you have said has lifted me more than you can possibly imagine. When I started this journey it was really about me trying to be what I was created for. I had no idea that it might resonate with so many people and I am so humbled and inspired now. There is definitely so much more to the story and I hope to share more in the future. Shout out to Corey and Soul Media for making me look way better than I am. I wish I could respond to every comment, I’ve read every one of them and they all mean the world to me. Blessings on all of you.
Just turned 50 and finally quit my 9 to 5 job to pursue my dream as a full-time photographer. I'm so much happier now .
Great to hear
how cool is that....happy 4 you
Congratulations! Thats a big deal. I’m 50 and just sold my first photos this year.
Awesome.
Amazing!
I wrote and illustrated my first book at 67.
Congratulations
That's awesome
Well done
Congrats! What's the title?
Very inspiring
I'm 51 and just started my new life. Here's to the next 50 years doing what I love!
All power to you!
I'm 38 and quit a full time job that sucked the life out of me and opened a home recording studio. I needed every word in this video so much. Thank you.
What next after quitting your job?
49 year old voice artist here after 12 years of marketing. Still broke but happy lol. Thank you I needed this.
Creation is the affirmation of life. Whether you succeed or not, the reward is being alive.
Love your comment. 🙏🏽
Amen to that!
So impactful with only a few sentences.
To add to that, I would say there is no succeeding, only doing, and that is what you should enjoy.
I’m 57 and I just discovered I love drawing with graphite pencils and I’m getting better at it everyday.
keep going!
Love it
What a beautiful and heartfelt documentary. I'm actually lucky enough to have this guy as my father in law. One of the most genuine people I have ever met.
Thanks son. Love you.
Hey Tom, thanks so much for sharing mate. As soon as I saw the title... I thought "The algorithm has really nailed it this time."
I never write comments, but I had to for this.
20 years taking care of people with disabilities,
then I had a stroke at 37.
they discover a massive tumor on my heart and gave me months to live.
Treatments make me sicker than cancer but seemed to work
until I started suffering full blown seizures and discovered I have 3 brain tumors
😬 long story, short...
3 brain surgeries later and a whole lot of soul-searching / hospital visits.
I am now in furniture design. I have always loved creating. And now I do it,
You just gotta start doing it and keep doing it, the rest takes care of itself
I have no words. This is amazing!!! I have a friend that works in furniture design. A creative path that I never would have even thought about. Now I see furniture design differently.
I would have watched a full 2-hour version of this....thank you.
Hi where is it available? Iam nearing my 40..😂
"You've had a whole lifetime to do something special and you didn't even try..." NO ONE should have to tell themselves this. Life is beautiful and short. God created us, therefore, we are inherently creators. Get out there and create something amazing today!
Thank you.
I mean, isn’t raising a family something special? Seems like he downplayed that part of his life, also was his career choice something that wasn’t fulfilling ? I know the feeling, I quit being a journalist (boring) in my 20’s to become a special Ed teacher and it’s helped me feel more meaning and purpose in my life
Someone gets it! God created us for so much more than to be in a hurry to amass more junk.
Hey everyone, thank you so much for watching! I never thought Tom's story would reach this many people. This mini doc was a passion project birthed out of my love for art and the opportunity to tell artist's stories. It's so cool to see how many of you have been inspired by Tom. It's evident that his perseverance and drive in pursuing his dreams has made an impact. So, I plan on highlighting more artists in the future. I have an idea of who I'd like to feature next. However, if you know of any talented artist that has a powerful story, feel free to reach out and let me know. Thanks and enjoy the show!
-Corey Besmer, Soul Original Media
I've never heard that.
on the contrary, thank you !
Thank you so much for this video! I found it inspiring!
Overall it's a lovely short and I enjoyed it! On the other hand I am disappointed that the Mary Blair piece was not mentioned in the interview. He sat in font of the painting during the majority of the clip. Obviously, he painted it and it's the largest of his work shown. I know the interview was about Tom, but Mary Blair obviously she ment something to him. You didn't ask about the elephant in the room -- why not?
Hey Corey-
First, great work on this. Had me engaged from start to finish. Thank you.
Second, I’m what some would call one of the Wu-tang Killa Beez. I’m now the founder of @gryskll, a group of “midlifers” who came together via Instagram Reels in 2021 to make music and podcasts about topics like mental health, brotherhood and more. I founded the group as I was clawing my way out of a debilitating battle with depression, anxiety & more. I’m working on learning to tell my story via my Patreon (gryMatter) and I just launched the Patreon for the group (GRYSKLL) this week.
I’d love to talk to you sometime if you’re interested.
Everyone tells us that art isn’t good for us. That’s because, most of them are incapable of following their own dreams, due to fear or some other force. They don’t understand the power of ART. It’s innate. Loved this.
Amen!
As kids we’re told not to bank on being an athlete or an artist for a living. There’s a lot of recreational beer softball league players, but not enough recreational artists. People are too worried about being ‘bad’ at art, but that’s really not a thing.
@@AlecBoyd I agree, and “bad” and “good” art is subjective.
All true except for your first statement everyone tells us is completely untrue there are many people that support art fully & with gusto, thoughts & words including
@@JonDunnmusician that was figuratively, but I agree, some do support.
Same story as me… always known I was an artist, became an engineer to please my parents, survived a major heart attack in my forties, started painting recently… at 56… don’t want to leave this world without trying out what resonates with my true nature…
Luckily you pleased your parents so that now you can afford (pun intended) to follow your dreams.
Wow, are you Tom? Haha. Kinda crazy coincidence. Go follow your heart!
my dad passed away and left me two digital keyboards. the last portion of this video was reaffirming to continue using them and to follow my heart and passion for music.
I thought it was interesting how Tom developed heart problems when he wasn’t following his heart. Then, once he healed from it he decided to follow his heart and pursue being an artist. It’s both real and surreal when we suppress things in our lives and how over time our body will manifest that into something that shakes and awakens us to choose a different direction. It’s as though we were born to follow that path and the universe gives us consequences when we refuse to heed to its calling.
I've been 30+ years as an artist and making a very good living. I never starved and I've always had a job I loved. The reason is that I loved art as a kid and when I told my parents I wanted to be an artist they supported me even though they had no idea how an artist could make a living. I am so grateful to them that they never doubted me, and that allowed me the confidence to never doubt myself. (BTW- true artists never retire. They just keep creating things as long as they can. Leave the golf to those with nothing else to do.)
That's awesome! Glad to hear you stayed true to yourself. I had a gift of being able to replicate any picture or design to scale just by looking at it and free handing it at a very young age. I painted, did photography etc. and was always told how good I was from everyone.....but was told to go to college and work in corporate in order to play it safe. I did that, and now at 44 years old have decided to resign from my IT job and pursue what I have left behind for so many years. What type of art do you produce and what kind of advise would you have for me?
Here I am 29 thinking it was too late. This is so inspiring. Thank you.
I'm 48 and quit my job two years ago to be a digital artist and it feels so good to be working on my graphic novel. Can't wait to finish so I can start the next.
RETIRE is such a corporate word. Great story. Listen to your body more. It will tell you when you are doing the right thing. Also, always do what you loved as a kid!!!
My dad always said he was never retired, just tired. He could work harder with 40% of his heart functioning than me in good health.
A journey many of us have made. My pivotal moment was cancer when I was 60. Now I make portraits everyday and have done for the last 4 years (3000 to date)
I can't even begin to tell you how serendipitous it is to have this video recommended to me. This gives me so much more hope that I'm doing the right thing by going for what I love to do. It's a hard battle, but if it's well-fought, you won't regret the battles. Thank you.
Thanks Drew! Glad you were encouraged by Tom's story.
Bravo
And little by little, doors started opening ✨🙏✨
At 51 I recently returned to painting after 4 years off after a devastating spinal cord injury. I am fricking PUMPED about my new work- any time away from the studio feels like I’m wasting time. I can’t even look at my older work even though I had a solid collector base. They might not embrace my new work but I don’t care, my goal is to fill a void, not repeat myself.
Tom, thank you for this inspiring video. I'm 43 and been an artist my whole life. I recently quit my day job a month ago to pursue art full time. Taking that step was scary. But I couldn't go on living with the idea that I'd regret not going for it. This past month has been incredible. The thought of knowing I work for myself. Not having to clock in and work for someone else. The freedom of making my own schedule. I've gotten more work done in 4 weeks than in the last year.
I hope more artists and creative people can find it in themselves to make a plan and set forth working for themselves. And share their gifts with the world. Cheers sir.
🤗 another one "reborn" artist here! 🍒
It’s such a hard way of life, but as my buddy says, prosperity comes in many flavors, like Baskin Robbins. What flavor do you like the most? I’ll never be rich but I wake up, make coffee, walk the dog and paint Mickey Mouse. I love it.
So wonderful. I’m 53 and on an artistic journey after 30 years in business.
It has been a year since I left my highly paid career in IT. My heart began to fail due to years of stress and corporate bullying. 💔❤🩹Because of my job, I lost friends, relationships, health, and almost my life. 😔 I haven’t been on a date for 4 years (I am not ugly at all). Time flies behind the computer screen, and no one can give it back to you. As a 36-year-old woman, I am starting from scratch as a professional artist. 😶🌫I am scared, but on the other hand, I don’t have much to lose. And for everyone who fears competition - be authentic and have your own style, then you are safe. Remember, authenticity and uniqueness are powerful assets. Best of luck on your journey! 🎨✨
Thanks for sharing. Good luck to you too. Take care 🙏
Good heavens. My Mother recognized my ability but told me over and over that I couldn’t make a living as an artist. It has rattled around in my head for nearly 80 years. I’ve dreamed, begun and stopped. So lost. I nearly didn’t read this and I’m glad that I did. Congratulations to you for breaking through that brain barrier and making contact with your heart.
Noooo! I'm so sorry! Thank you for commenting. In Australia I met a guy named Jack Absalom. He ran tours in the outback. He used to take art tours where artists used to go into the outback and paint the stunning scenery. One day he asked one of the artists if he could have a go. He was 44 years old. He said he never even knew he could paint lettle own come to love it. Just paint, just paint....
Lovely video! This is how you "Don't die with your art still inside of you"!
This came up in my feed as well this evening. Wow, I can so relate. I also picked up a brush for the first time at 44. Those voices in your head that you were referring to, the ones that leave you questioning why we do this…… they’re real. I had hit a wall and needed your message tonight. Thank you for the inspiration. Your work is incredible. As you can tell from all the comments, your message was part of our path and we are all grateful. Onward.
Thanks Tom. I recently retired after 35 years in IT. I turn 60 in September. I've always been a writer and I just started writing on Medium. It's never too late. I wish I had started sooner, but I've started. Thanks for the video. I enjoyed the message.
Yes!!!!
This made me cry! I'm so glad I found it. Very inspiring. I'm 58 and this was a great kick in the ass for me. I make quilts and have been wanting to make more art quilts and do something more with it, but I've been using my full time job as an excuse to not do what I want. Thank you for this video.
I’ve worked as a creative free lance / entrepreneur for almost 15 years and only recently - when I was 43 - took a job working for a government archive! I love it… my free time feels much more free and I love the financial stability. So that’s an option as well! ❤
What can be better than retired doing art ? Your dedicated mission was given to you and you sure embrace it .
I am 60 now. I always as a child thought about, dreamt about and did art. I knew I wanted to be an artist as young as four. When it came time for college my dad Encouraged me to do something else to make money. Stopped doing my own art work. I became a therapist and worked with children and teens and encouraged them to do art as therapy. When I turned 50 I woke up and stated I had lost to many years not having my own art life. I still work as a therapist because I love it. But art helps me survive the stress this job has attached to it. Weekends, days off and after work I am painting. I once again dream of art and never stop thinking through my artistic mind.
Beautiful! Thanks for commenting! I try to tell people that it's therapy. It transports you to another realm. All your troubles seem to disappear for a little while. Maybe because we are bending our minds to other things? All I know is it works. Someone once said to me, have you noticed in kindergarten that all kids love to paint. It's only as they get older they put it aside.
@@BenHeffernanArt I believe art takes us to another place. rather we call meditation, spiritual realm or connection to our inner child it can be very healing. Art allows us to assess the deeper feeling part of the brain, the less logical thinking place to quiet or turn up the volume of the unconscious parts of the true self. Kids just know how to do this and are expressive, excited and proud of their art. They have fun. The young child hasn’t yet learned to listen to the noise in your head that shuts down older brains by being critical and fearful.
My mother is an Art Therapist. Best of both worlds!
wow. what a great video to watch the morning of my 44th Birthday. Soli Deo Gloria
Happy birthday!
Happy belated birthday, David! Soli Deo Gloria indeed.
i'm 44 and i learned this year that i love sculpting in VR.
Retiring isn’t the end … it’s truly the beginning of a new chapter of life. I’ve always loved drawing and leaving work at 60, not by choice, gave me the opportunity to do more drawing and a more social life. So embrace change and make the most of it.
its never too late to do anything that you love doing, you are here for a good time, not a long time!
Thank you Tom for sharing your story. You're one more person I get to add to my list of people who have inspired me during this 'midjourney'... and thanks Soul Original Media for capturing Tom's story so beautifully.
Got to meet Tom and his wife the other day. Very nice people and really cool work.
I'm 49 and not doing sh#t creatively. It's nice to know it's never too late. Thanks
It's never too late - start today 🙂👍🏻
With 21 and studying very frustrated business administration, I stumbled into advertising by coincidence and got my first freelance job as storyboard illustrator. Ever since I’m doing this, makes me happy most of the time. I’m 60 this year. Thanks God.
This is beautiful and I think more of us (artists in/entering midlife) need to see this.
Thanks Kara!
Retirement is not in an artists vocabulary. Glad you went for it and are still at it! You're work is amazing!
O so timely, love these stories ! 62 retired architect after an accident no longer able to use my dom. hand, after years of struggle to get back on my feet and practicing with my left hand ro draw, life is worth waking up for.
battling those demons, I say, life is brief, time to do what I enjoy despite the money issue.
Thank you so much for sharing! I do the same, waking up at 4:30 to get some hours in the studio. I've always had the same thought, "God gave me this gift for a reason". I see myself in Tom's footsteps. Just a couple more years to become debt free and I'm taking the leap! Thanks again, this means so much to me you can't imagine!
Amen!
I started with 38, getting up at 4 am to paint while my 1-year old was hopefully still sleeping. I am part time now in my corporate job and started after 7 years to give art classes and to share my experiences and knowledge. I know the demons in my head of not being good enough and why I am not further ahead, too. But it’s not true, I live the life now I have dreamt to live for years with 45 now. There is always more and there is so so much more in the now.
I started taking myself seriously right around my 48th birthday (a few years ago), and I am so much happier for it! I'm not making the big bucks, but my world is much more complete now that I am honoring the thing that makes me the happiest. I can relate to the inner voices telling us that we are far behind others who have been doing it longer- but, we have to remember that we are on our own timeline, not theirs. This was inspiring to watch!
I'm 39 and just quit my office job to make music full time. It's so heart warming to see so many people taking the courage to start from scratch a new life. It's scary, and my inner voice telling me i'm a "loser" is the hardest enemy to fight. Thank you so much! You helped us a lot with this moving short video, which is a lovely piece of art in itself. Go friends! Work hard, be true to youselves and never stop. I'm not alone in this and neither are you.
Awesome video
Inspiring for sure. I'm 50 and I feel I'm just getting into my creative magic.
Right on 💛
50 was the magic age for me ✌🏼
Inspiring. Thank you! I'm pushing 60 and finally stretching my creative muscles. Hoping to publish a book this year. It's good to hear stories like this of those who have tried and succeeded later in life :)
As a guy a couple years away from his 40s who is finally coming back to music after quitting it professionally almost ten years ago now, this is so inspirational
Thanks for sharing this, I somehow stumbled into songwriting which turned into almost 200 songs last year 🤷♂️ who knew… I’ve always felt a bit unsettled by how and what pours out of me but it’s something I can’t not do so I keep doing it. There’s some ease that comes from knowing I’m not the only one to find this later in life
You go man. Years as an architect and, having reached the point where it was all meetings and phones. Now on my second album and not looking back.
This was really cool...inspiring for someone like me in their 50's who always had that 'regular' job.
Nice story. Am very happy for this guy. I'm 62 and planning to give my job up for a few months so i can build a website for my photography. Let's see where the unknown takes me. Thanks for the video.
Having a Dream is great; however, you have the Artistic Talent.
Love it!!! I think so many of us can relate to Toms situation… doing things in life that are not our calling just because we were told to by our parents or society in general! Amazing he managed to turn the thing around 👏👏👏👏👏
you r correct....i too make videos...for my enjoyment...if someone else sees and likes...then thats great...if not..thats fine too....
i always asked myself how come i didnt get into movies...which i love....now i find i have a little time...and so i am pursuing it...learning it...shooting shorts...
and totally loving it....i hope everyone finds something they love to do...so they can enjoy and be happy...creating...
Wow. Just came across this. It resonates so much with me. As a 50 (cough) something making a life change and finally pursuing my creative dream, I totally get this. It's never too late. I'm so excited for the next stage of my life.
This really hit home. I'm 36 and too scared to follow my dream of being an artist. I hope it doesn't come to a near-death experience to finally give me enough courage to take that leap of faith. Its inspirational seeing people like Tom taking back his life and seizing the day. I hope everyone stuck-in-a-rut sees this video and gives enough courage to pursue their happiness. Lord know I need to. God bless you Tom and thank you for sharing your story.
Gave up music for 20 years to build a career and home. Glad I did. Back at writing songs for the last few years; it’s like coming back home. Still working part time bc don’t have to work FT. The rest goes to the inspiration.
I started my adult lift with a career in animation. I hated it. The industry was toxic and I felt lost knowing that.
Then I retrained and became a consultant data engineer. I was finally treated with respect at work, managers worked with me in my career development, my analytical and problem solving skills are the best they’ve ever been. I learned how to work more professionally.
I just quit that career. Maybe I’ll go back if I need money but I’m obsessed now with making my own language learning mobile game. I can take my art skills and technical skills and life experience and make something unique to me, that hopefully helps a lot of people.
There’s no one right path for finding your thing. And having a winding path is normal and beneficial. You learn what you don’t like and pick up extra skills along the way.
I was holding back tears watching this video. Thank you for sharing your work with us, as well as your journey. Congratulations on your new shot at life.
I saw my mom struggling financially because she was an artist, all of us 6 of her children were both, in awe of her and her passion for art and scared to jump into the abyss of being an artist.
My brothers all 5 went onto become artists, me the girl, couldn’t make the decision until now after my children left home.
It’s the best time in my life.
If I have learned anything on this particular trip called life, it’s that the universe favors us when we follow our bliss, and do so without expectation of any particular outcome. So loosely planned but every single thing worked out in my favor. Art is Life.
Tom's story resonates so much. I've always dabbled with creative endeavors since I was a kid, but worked in construction all my life. I had an epiphany last year (I'm in my mid 40's) that if I didn't pursue art more seriously I would die with regret, and that hurt moved me into action.
Like Tom, I'm currently working on my art every day in my spare time putting in the hours to make things happen.
Better late then never.
“Art is always on my mind” - Tom! This is what lives in my soul. I’m glad you’re well and pursuing your dream!
What I enjoy most out of this, is that he's actually extremely talented..
So many videos out here about "artists" who are just people who doodle or throw paint at something and it's considered art.. people say it's amazing..
I just don't get it, and never have.
We all have something to contribute and leave behind. Congratulations to everyone in the comments who've found the courage and found the piece of them they'd like to leave behind. Pursue your passions!
a lot of what he says resonates with me, too. i started with music a little earlier than tom-at 23-but i have had a constant battle to keep working on my art, suffering as i do from severe mental illness and chronic fatigue. at 44, i am only just about to finish my first album. those voices in the middle of the night are real. i keep expecting this era to offer up a whole slew of artists who started much later. there must be a ton of us. hopefully stories like this help provide some of the courage needed to take up the banner.
Thank you so much for this. I started playing guitar at 28 and started writing original lyrics this year at 34. You're an inspiration to keep pushing forward.
@@thomascarter8690 for god's sake keep going. that bloody voice that tells you it's hopeless is a menace. you're a one-man-miracle.
Tom, What a pleasure to know you and been able to hang your art at Stockton Bridge Grille. The first time I heard about was through your Mother in law. Once I met you and saw you work and got to know you as a person it was an easy decision. We scrambled that first year to have your work up by the Art and Wine Festival. You were the last artist to grace those walls and it think it was a 2 year run.
Congratulations on your success and this video.
Lee
WOW - I am very inspired by this video thank you for sharing. I also noticed he had the verse 1 Peter 4 10-11 10 Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms. 11 If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ.
Great video! You hooked me at the very beginning because I turned 50 in July and have been hesitant to put my story/creativity out in the world. Thanks for the inspiration! Your artwork & story is amazing! Sub’d
Great job on the video. Very inspirational and makes me want to break away and go full time at RUclips. I made a video about my similar story (Follow Your Passion), but I'm still doing my regular job along with pursuing these creative interests. This video makes me want to rethink and go full tilt with TY and creative pursuits. Thanks!
I don't know how the algorithm works at times on RUclips, but I'm glad I had this recommended to me. I sincerely needed to see this. I have been doing art and design for the last 30 years, and am nearing 50 years of age, but feel that my career is both changing and stagnating in ways I had never anticipated. This was a really wonderful mini documentary to watch, thank you for making it, and for Tom sharing his story!
Thanks for sharing what our hearts are saying. ❤ Inspiring!
You are great artist 🎨 ❤️
I've had a very similar experience to yours. I pursued a predictable and financially stable career in healthcare to avoid the poverty that I grew up in. Then I got very sick for a couple years and it changed my perspective on life. I realized I had been neglecting my creativity throughout whole adulthood because I thought the "stability" was more important. I realized that life is short and if you want to do something, you just have to do it. I recently left my career in order to start something new in the creative field. I'm very optimistic and excited to see where it goes and I feel freer than I've felt in a long time.
Love that portrait of Mary Blair in the background. What an inspiration!
this is the most refreshing five and a half minutes ive experienced in a while. i needed to hear this so bad. I hope you have a wonderful day! ✌❤
Love this commentary. I’m retired and I find art my soothing place . Can’t stop creating and I look at that as a blessing . Now to find venues to sell….some are coming up in the fall so I’m excited . Just built a studio so I’m getting excited to paint every day and create some amazing art! Thanks for the inspiration
This is a reminder that I need to make more music.
I took a break when my daughter was born. Now after 3 years I'm itching to get back to it. This time, without an agenda of trying to "break into the industry".
I’m 32 and the part about that voice at night calling you a loser and saying you should be further and have more haunts me quite regularly but I’m pushing through
Thank you for this, my creative friend. I’m about to go on this same journey myself (as a 42 yr old). Out with the corporate, in with the creative! I wish you all the best on this creative path!
Man, thanks for sharing. I am 49 and working with design, but drawing and painting are my passions, and since the mid-age approach, I've analyzed what I really like to do, so I can escape from the gift that GOD gave me. I totally understand the feeling.
I love this! I’m 45 and I don’t feel like I’m done with creative expression yet. There’s still so much more I want to do in a world that tells middle-aged people to hang it up. Thank you for the inspiration to try!
This is what i really felt right now... I always have this innervoice in my mind that says, "Im a loser" all the time. The feeling that no one would really appreciate my works. But then, I realize that its a matter of survival and so we have to keep Going. To pursue the things that we want,Dedicate our life to it, and keep on moving no matter what.
It's never too late to start down a new path and chase your passion. Think strategically and make a plan to transition from one career to another and it can be your new life. And these days, there's no such thing as a secure job, so you might as well chase your art anyway.
It's never too late. Go for it, enjoy the ride.
Supercool. Love the Mary Blair piece too. Peace
That's probably my favorite piece too. Thanks for watching!
Im 44 as I watched this...just started putting my artwork out there about a year and a half ago....An inspiring story to sat the least.
This right here 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻. It’s a punch in the gut. I feel this video so much!
God damn this is inspiring
where he talks about his mates retiring at 60 and he feels bad about that. Retirement is massively over rated and a BS catch phrase to make people believe they are now going to enjoy life . Look at the art and music worlds. They are full of people who keep creating until they drop. He is a good guy and this is a good film, I hope he keeps going until the end and never retires.
And here I am, aged 35, thinking it was too late and pointless to even try pursuing art. Even for my own enjoyment. That metaphor in the end, about giving someone a gift they then don't use, really kicked me in the face.
It is such a shame that it takes a near death experience for people to realize how important it is to be happy in life. Many don't get the opportunity. Tom has been fortunate indeed, and all the best to him.