God knows you’re lonely in the waiting
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- Living your life alone is hard, physically, emotionally and spiritually it's exhausting. Many of us silently suffer from loneliness, and maybe you've become tired of pretending to be okay during those quiet nights. You're not alone in those feelings.
The loneliness we face while not having anyone to share life with doesn't just go away. Hopefully in this video you will find some relief and encouragement in the waiting.
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Nailed it. I thought I heard God's voice telling me to move back to my hometown. It was a big mistake. I should have stayed where I was and did things differently. 😢 Nothing here is really changed. I am horribly lonely. As a widow and an empty nester is very hard. All my old friends are nice, everyone has a partner. I am the 19th wheel on the semi..AL THE TIME. This sucks.
Hello! I'm a French man from France. Thank you! I know what it's like to be alone and being rejected. But maybe it's not a bad thing. Better being alone than with an awful person. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. You know, if most women weren't so complicated and interested in money, maybe I wouldn't be alone now. 😄
Please pray for me and my daughter not to become bitter towards God. And just healing all together. We are in two different places fighting demonic attack. It's the fight of our lives.
It’s so hard when we feel left in our struggles. Gods timing is perfect we have to believe! 🙏❤️🩹
@terryshrives8322 praying for you and your daughter! Remember the battle belongs to the Lord, Jesus combatted satan with scripture. Amen 🙏
@@lettyboelte7251 very true! ❤️
Imagine a beam of white light coming out of you, then say this “I cast you out in Jesus’s almighty name” then do the same vision a very bright white light over your daughter and pray to God, pray everyday even if you feel defeated just stand your ground and pray.
Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers
The other day I was washing dishes and realized I haven’t spoke words in 4 days so I made a sound.
@@jakesontiano wow, I feel that. 🙏
And then sometimes the words seem like too much work to speak, can only pray with thoughts and tears. Praying for you Jake ❤️🩹
What ? 😂😂
Did it sound like *NYAHHHUEUGHÆHHHH?*
@@AudaciousBean I freaking hope so, AE-12gynobeanostopperlopper... something like that
@@AyshRowland or maybe it sounded like make america great again 🤣🤣
37yo male, never married, no kids, forever alone. Here I am listening to a sister, who lives God knows where but is laying out my life, my thoughts and feelings right in front of me. It's like you've known me real close for the last two decades or so, Darcy. I'm exhausted to the point I don't really believe anything can change. Maybe I was destined to go trough this life alone. Maybe I failed and squandered every possibility I was given. Guess I'll only know this in the afterlife. Tired of it all but the only to go is forward.
Hello! I'm a French bearded guy. I've always been single. I'm 35 and a half. I totally know what it's like. And I also know what it's like to be rejected. I love dogs. They have never rejected me. They are good friends. If I had to choose between a woman or a dog. I'll probably choose the dog. 😄
being lonely for years and years and years is TORTURE and EXTREMLY BRUTAL and painful but in the end..God sees our pain and will do something about it one way or the another. God will never forget what lonely people endure. At the end of the day NOTHING happens without His consent. This life is temporary ..all the pain will end sooner or later.. Also, lonely people have more time to dedicate to God and grow their relationship with Him :)
It's really hard to maintain that attitude, but it's worth it. God might never choose to take away loneliness and suffering during our lives? but He will heal our bitterness and resentment.
I feel this and praise God that He is in control so we can rest knowing that He holds it all together. We endure the pain but we still have life and His love. You're right though, there's way more time to dedicate to the Lord. Praying for you! 🙏🤍🤗
Amen! Really is hard to maintain that attitude, after our sulking we can get back to praising Him. Thanks for sharing! 🤍🙏
am so happy to run into you you’re message resonates with me I’m going through my loneliness right now !! Thank you for being there ! I have no one right now not even family
So you helped me so much !
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This really resonates with me. Ive been feeling really lonely lately and it's not an easy road. Been crying and hurting
@@MandyGee000 it’s definitely not easy and I’m right there with you, crying and hurting. I’m praying for you! The Lord is our hope and our strength 🙏🤍
Yes one hundred 💯 percent right. It's very lonely 14 years. The light ✨️ will always ✨️ shine ✨️ through ✨️ the ✨️ darkness ✨️. Amen 🙏. The most high is my friends and family.
Darcy, hi! I'm a 53 year old American man, who has been a born-again child of God for 34 years of his life and I just wanted to thank you for this encouraging video because I needed to hear that. I'm in a 20 year loveless sexless marriage right now and it has as you said to have been a lonely agonzing road. So heartbreaking and painful. I've been struggling so much with wanting a good and loving relationship with my wife or with a woman, in general. We've gone to counseling, but to no avail. I just don"t want to be frustrated and sad anymore. I need healing in my heart and soul. Please pray for me and my wife. Thanks! God bless you!😞😢
Paul said it's good to be single serving God that's all I need I never feel lonely in my opinion if are lonely just get a dog they're the best companion comforter also loyalty
I pray you are blessed in your singleness!
I just wanted to say that this is exactly what I've been going through. I've been struggling really bad. I feel like I'm starting to lose hope. But through all this God is helping me understand better. But I think God led me to your video. And it makes me feel like God does actually understand what I'm going through. And he wants me to know that it's not that uncommon. That there are other people who are going through this.
Hi. I feel you Lucas. I’m the same as well. Hang in there. Keep your eyes on Jesus. Michelle ❤
@@LucasB2882 it’s really not as uncommon as we might think, just people don’t talk about it much. I’m praying for you. Stay encouraged in the Lord 🤍🙏
@@Bellbell01137 praying for you also Michelle! 🤍🙏
@@DarcyRie aww thank you kindly. That is so very kind of you. 🌼👋
I have autism so I listen to guided meditations, gratitude right now, and they really help. Especially at night when my mind sometimes races and won’t let me rest ❤️
I haven't found no True Jesus Loving Christian wife who wouldn't look at me crazy when I tell them I already fell in love & gave all of my heart to Jesus so it can not ever be broken 💔 Jesus will always be my Perfect Loving & Faithful & thankfully patient in my case. So I just stop looking & the loneliness, pain, no one to share your life with but without those sufferings I could have never of known so intimately & beautiful experiences in the Spirit but it comes with a price 🙌 just surrender to God's Will. Love all my brothers & sisters out there hang in there were almost home⚡🌎🙏
Just last month God told me to read Ecclesiastes 6:9 “Better is the sight of the eyes than the wandering of desire; this also is vanity and a chasing after wind.” For me personally this scripture made me concentrate on what I do have, not what I don’t.
@@chookvalve very good reminder to be content with what we have. We can’t contain hope and believe for more but to try and be satisfied with what we already have is a good place to be. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you. We all need the Lord. One day we will reign with Christ Jesus.
I’m trying to just look towards his kingdom, but I have a undeniable burning desire for a loving Woman that Loves me. I Just wanna Feel Physically and emotionally loved.
Hi beautiful person your words means so much to me you so a beautiful soul
the Lord has me in a season of isolation and healing from past hurt and relationships... it's been painful... but I feel like I can see the light at the end of the tunnel...
if you're asking why... you're not ready... you'll need more healing...
I just keep watching the passion of the Christ...
Amen! there is a reason for everything we endure, and His word says it's working for our good. So glad you feel like you can see the light. We submit and surrender to whatever He brings us to. He is good. Jesus bless you!! 🙏🕊️❤️
My thoughts came out of your mouth. Exactly. I'm fighting the bitter roots for sure.
Praying for you Brandon! God is good 🤍🙏
I was there once in a previous marriage...alone and lonely. Thank you for sharing your heart❤ Jesus bless you.
@@deguinn8116 it’s a miserable place to be, but teaches us to depend on our Heavenly Father and draw nearer to Him. Thank you for sharing as well and may the Lord Jesus bless you and yours also ❤️🙏
Sometimes I believe that life is exclusively suffering. For me anyway.
Thank you ! It has been a hard and rough journey....Only Yeshuah knows what each are going through.....Many blessings !
May god strenghten you beautiful Soul ❤
This is exactly where I am at in life. Thank you for your videos. I am growing in faith. Growing as a more whole person
me too brother, this was probably the easiest video I've made because it just flowed straight from my aching heart! sometimes these seasons are helpful, even if painful.. we really do grow in resilience and independence. Keep your faith, that's where our hope is 🙏🕊️
I feel seen. You described it so real and raw. Throughout, you give hope and promise from our heavenly Father❤
@@julianna4373 I’m so glad the video helped you feel seen, you’re definitely not alone in this pain. Without our Heavenly Father we might not make it 🙏❤️🩹 praying for you!
Through this video Darcy you reach to all who suffer from loneliness, you talk of with much knowledge..., and by this way, you break part of this loneliness ; and this is very generous, on your part.
Beyond physical proximity, being spiritually close, also is a form of relief to loneliness : loneliness remains present (as if we had for example a physical handicap, a shortcoming, whatsoever), but it makes it much less toxic; it may feed into our self-love.
Thank you for your sharing !
Beautiful thoughts!....Honest but Hopefilled!...Painful but Pure!....Real but Reflective!....loneliness can be like a spear thrust through the heart....
Love it!
I believe it will all end well....our Father loves us all so much....we are His beloved Kids...He went through it.....the loneliness....the pain.....the desertion....He understands ...Hebrews 2.
His Plans for us are good.... really good!!
Good God bless you abundantly!
@@isaacnewton5794 amen! Thank you for the reminder that our God is so good and He takes care of His children. So I too believe that it will turn out well for us, eventually. We grow impatient and it does hurt the longer we have to endure, but He really is good and His timing and plans are perfect. May God richly bless you as well, thank you 🙏🤍😁
Thank you for this video! Although it's been years since before I met my wife, but I remember the in-between time. There was a year or two before meeting her and having a break up. I remember feeling lonely and wondering what happened why things didn't work out and wondering if I could have done things better. After a long time I remember one night I am not ashamed to admit it, but I cried to God to put someone in my life. I asked to be happy, feel loved, have a family. It wasn't too long after that I met my wife and here we are 16 years married 2 beautiful kids. We just have to really keep praying and God will listen. Have faith he is working on whatever you need and want in time.
@@Dannysdailydrive thanks for sharing your story Danny, that really is encouraging to see how God answered you so quickly and you’re still walking in the blessings! So glad you’re not ashamed to admit to crying to the Lord, that’s the best person to cry out to! You could make a video about that story and I bet it will help many!
@DarcyRie You're welcome Darcy! Maybe I could do that one day not sure if it's something people who watch me would want or not lol. I guess you never know until you try. Thanks again for the great video you always make something that we think deep about and that's what you are excellent at.
@ right, never know until you try. I’ve noticed so many people are hurting and we all just want to be encouraged and to see things turn around, testimonies definitely help with that.
It gives me hope seeing and hearing a Godly women speak, in this world many are sinning. I pray that more men and women lead life with GOD at the forefront. Love your videos!! God bless!!
I'm forty years old now. When I look back at my life, I can undoubtedly attest to God's saving grace. But on the other hand, it's easy to look at the same set of circumstances in a negative light. There's a point in the video where you say that suffering can bring us closer to God, yet it can also embitter us. I agree.
Over the years, it's easy to slip and let bitterness take root inside our core. I have some enmity against God that I cannot shed away since my mother died of cancer during the pandemic. She served the church her whole life sacrificially. Yet she suffered a prolonged death. It is in many ways the catalyst that sets forth all of my doubts.
I hope that my trust in Him can be restored. I need Him now, especially at work, where there are many perils and snares that threaten to remove me from God entirely. Thank you for your video. The YT algorithm led me here.
I just with I knew what God wanted. Every time I think I’m doing what God wants me to do, it ends up being the exact opposite.
@@mountainstatematt I’m sorry to hear that, I’m sure it’s frustrating to think you’re doing right but turns out not to be. With a lot of things now I have learned to ask silently for confirmations, something specific, so I know it can only be God answering. I don’t want to do anything outside of His will. That only leads to more suffering. Praying for you to receive wisdom concerning His will and direction for your life! 🙏🤍 stay encouraged He is faithful and has good plans for you.
@@DarcyRiedo you have an example of asking Him something specific so as to differentiate easier if it's His will? I try to align it with the Bible and see if it would contrast, and if it does contrast I would not do it
@ yes, like Gideon asked for the fleece to be wet only and then again asked God to confirm by making only the fleece dry. I asked God silently (so the enemy wouldn’t be able to answer instead) to show me just a single purple balloon to confirm what I was asking, a week or so went by and when I wasn’t thinking about it or looking for it, I saw that balloon in the most random and out of place spot! It could’ve only been God answering me.
Try and choose something random and out of the ordinary for Him to show you.
It was amazing to see that He answered me, I hope this helps!
None of this matters to me anymore, I've just accepted that I just exist
I'm sorry to hear that Donald! but I understand and I will pray for you, there is a purpose for you still waking up each day.. and it's not just to exist. May the Lord richly bless you with wisdom and peace that surpasses all understanding! 🤍🙏🕊️
I've been praying for a wife for a while now. Hopefully one day it'll be possible. It's not good for a man to be alone, I wish I had a normal, non chaotic lady by my side so I can hug her.
You can't get so many people to admit that.
Sorry buddy, nothing is ever going to change
@@TN86I rebuke your words in the name of Jesus!
Why are you so harsh?
You’re on my prayer list
Thank you sister for this message! 😊✝ Yes, it can be really hard in the "lonely" season sometimes. The Lord showed me something one day that really can give someone that feels this way some hope and encouragement. It's in Matthew 19:4-6. First, He was reassuring me by saying..."Haven't you read" (4) then... At the beginning the Creator "made them male and female" and in Psalms it talks about us being with God before we were in the womb in the physical. So, what this tells me is that any sister or brother that has a lot of love in their heart and feels something for a Kingdom spouse, God has it already planned out for you because God is Love. Just stay faithful, stay focused on God and He will do this for whoever in the perfect timing. Hope this helps someone. God bless. Also, pray for your future spouse even if you have no idea who it is. They might be dealing with the same things you are, especially if you are suppose to be yoked to this person ordained by Him.
@@ChristSoldierJCD thank you so much for sharing what the Lord showed you regarding love and kingdom spouses. It’s hard not to doubt at times because of what we don’t see in the physical, but our faith pleases Him and we know by His word that He is a promise keeper. It helps so much to stay focused on the Lord. God bless you with your hearts desires brother! 🙏🤍
Praise the lord my dear sister 🙏🙏. God bless you 🙌 please pray for my ministry children and widows for their monthly needs.
Personally I’m good and content with God alone young lady, but thanks for continuing to try ! 🙏
I know Kevin, and I respect that🤗🙏
Thank you for reaching out to us with such compassion and godly wisdom. "Apples of gold in settings of silver". (Proverbs 25:11)
So strange all this hit me last night when I saw someone got married who i had just briefly went out with less than 100 days ago. I hate feeling jealous and rejected even though I know it was never going to work. And now I see this much needed video. Thank you.
I realize perhaps I might not be ready for that God honoring relationship that I want deep down.
@@kellb9283 yes perhaps the Lord is showing you what you might need to work on before such a relationship. A lot of times we think we’re ready for something but then the Lord allows us to go through something that shows us we still need some pruning.
Praying for you! You can do all things (in His will) through Christ who strengthens you 🙏
Romans 8:28 reminds us that even in life's challenges, we can trust that everything is working together for our ultimate good. We must trust that Everything will work out according to Our Lord Jesus and His plan to make us stronger than ever before and to be able to make our American dreams come true
No problem, done waiting. Moving on to my next adventure. Be blessed.
Thank you, you are genuine
@@SASQUATCHTHEORY you’re welcome. I hope it helped, even if just a little. God bless 🙏🤍
It's a real thing. Thanks for validating.
definitely is, God bless you!
One of your best videos, Darcy.
Very nice.
@@JackLopez-e9k thanks Jack, straight from the heart. God bless you 🙏🤍
@@DarcyRie 😊
I struggle in the waiting season😢.Thank you for the message, it gives hope. Be blessed!
@@JemaPhil the waiting is the hardest part, I’m glad the message brought you some hope. No matter what it looks like God is faithful 🙏🤍
This showed up this morning after a week and a half of discouragement and hopelessness so severe that I have been unable to work. Many, many years of unanswered prayer weighs heavily from time to time. I was blessed to have listened to your words of encouragement.
@@Newgrist 🙏❤️🩹 I truly feel this, went through a prolonged period of severe discouragement last year and the easiest way to put it is I felt like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh, just sad and miserable. The weight really does get to be too heavy at times. That was a mini breakthrough for me then in terms of mentally deciding I was tired of feeling this way, I’ve let the enemy keep me down for so long. Still have moments but not as many. I pray you are blessed with joy instead of mourning and you’re filled up with the love of God to overflowing, so that the wait becomes more bearable. Knowing our God is faithful, it won’t always be this way. 🤍
In so much pain... Though still blessed. Rejected by most everyone and i dont understand why. Good father, thoughtful, present. Even at work things are going sideways, no respect. I feel i deserve better. No idea why im having to fight this battle. Prayer has yet to be answered regarding this, and ive been dealing with it for far too long. 🤦🏼♂️ Suffering.... Thats right. Divorce would be a relief if not for my kids.
thank you .... this suffering is massive to be attacked on all areas since turning fully to God.
I feel that right now too
I will pray for you
TY my God lead u too.@@riewolf7777
you're welcome! It seems the closer we get to God and when we're trying to walk in our purpose, when we awaken to the truth.. that's when we experience more warfare than ever before. The enemy doesn't need to mess with someone who isn't doing anything for the kingdom of God.. also could be God purifying us and testing our faith. Praying for you Lukas, remember that greater is He who is in you than the enemy in the world! Jesus bless you 🙏🤍😊
praying for you also! stay strong in the Lord and the power of His might 🙏🤍
I can’t love anymore sad but true
I pray that you can again one day! 1 Corinthians 13 ❤️🙏
Thank you for talking about this
@@ana______6567 you’re welcome. I pray it was helpful 🙏🤍
Lord JESUS I trust you. I need your strength as I struggle to provide for my children. I’m so discouraged as a single mom. God you gave me two beautiful boys both are special needs. I’m overwhelmed because they require much from me. Every month is a struggle to not end up on the streets with my boys. Lord grant me strength to provide for my sons. With you by my side Lord I know all is possible.💕
Thank You for this uplifting message...We need it...
I used to be so full of longing for a spouse that I thought I would die without it. I wanted it more than a relationship with God. But slowly I started to desire God more than that. Now I know that Gods love is more fulfilling than even a soul mate. It was an impossible to believe that I could live without romantic love but I am certain now that Gods love is all I need. Now the pain I’m going through is the pain of old wounds and waiting for Gods love to heal.
@@lettyboelte7251 amen! Thank you for sharing and perhaps that can help someone else who may read your comment. Without God anyone else’s love will hurt us eventually. I pray you receive your healing from the Lord quickly 🙏❤️🩹
starting to feel the same
So nothing changed?
God's Love is sufficient!
OMG! I love that series The Chosen! I am with you that series really hits you at times and just thinking of what it was like when he was around.
Yes! I'm glad you're a Chosen fan also! 😊
Amen, great message
The devil attacks the body of Christ when we are alone or lonely
God told me I need to be more patient and be obedient to him and trust him. Thank you for your video and the story of Ruth definitely helped me in my faith
You're welcome, I'm glad the video helped. Stay strong in the Lord, it's a blessing to hear His direction. 🙏🤍
I sat and looked at the sun shine at my wall and as I sat staring as the light dimmed I asked God for answer, I asked many questions but the one that made the sun shine on my wall again was this “is life about making other people happy?”
@@HistorysEcho-G that’s very interesting. It is to love God and to love people, amen! 🙏 God bless you
Oh my goodness, there is something about you that reaches out to me. In a good way and this message just hit home in so many ways. If I were going to describe you I would use the term empathic. You can sense another’s needs and find a way to help them through their struggles.
The title of this message drew me in right away. When it comes to my human spectrum I’m lonely at least 95% of the time and that’s could almost be 100%. I’m in a unequally yoked marriage which wasn’t a strong marriage before I came back to the Lord. Because I’m much more peaceful in my soul our marriage is actually better in one regard but further apart because I want to be in a
Christian home. My wife now works in S. Carolina where my daughter also is in her first year of college. I’m in Ohio, my son is in his first year of college at Ohio State, about an hour and a half away. Being where my kids are in their lives they’re more interested in their friends than their parents.
Both are great kids, but that’s just the way things are. They are both saved as far as I can tell, but since their mother isn’t saved their faith is in the infant stage. I belong to a great church, a small intimate independent Baptist church. It’s full of warm, loving people who are very family oriented. So I’m lonely there too, even if I’m in a
Ministry with them. I’m reaping what I’ve sewn in my marriage and I know that and I understand that.
I do have my favorite puppy with me, a German/ Belgian shepherd female who definitely keeps me from being more lonely but she’s
Very self centered and short on conversation. I liked your idea of the Chosen, which my daughter and I enjoyed together, we even saw the ones at the theater. I was able to mirror your message off my phone to the TV so you a you
Actually seemed in room with me as you shared your message. I felt much less lonely as I listened to you. Sorry this is so long, God Bless you Sister !! 🙏🏻✝️❤️
Thanks for seeing that in me, it's a loving quality to have, but it also weighs on me. Thank God I can lay it at the Lord's feet.
I'm sorry to hear about your unequally yoked marriage, I know that's difficult, but it does help when you have the peace in your soul as you described. Still, the longing to be of one accord and walking in agreement is tough to bear. Have you sought God about your marriage, if it's His will? If so, keep believing and standing in prayer for your wife to come to Christ - Acts 16:31 and where Paul talks about the unbelieving spouse being saved through the believing spouse. All things are possible with God! I'm glad my message helped in your time of need and to not feel so alone... scary to think I'm on a big screen 😂 Keep encouraged in your faith, that's where your help comes from brother! God bless you with your hearts desires as you delight yourself in Him 🤗🤍🙏
thanks for making these videos. you are a big help to people
I was born an only child on a remote farm where both parents worked outside the house... you are never alone if you have the spirit and walk with God.
Darcy, you seem to have a good heart and disposition. There are a few of us out here that are taking the time to heal. I've even written a book about my healing journey. I've mostly given up trying to find a feminine woman who knows God's ways, but I'm still a little bit hopeful. In the meantime, I'm very content being alone with my heavenly Father. May God give you the desires of your heart.
@@cobymcgee9459 hey Coby, thank you for the compliments. I’m so glad to hear you’re doing the hard work of healing, and writing a book will certainly help someone! May the Lord bless you in the work you do for the kingdom! I think you’ve got the right mindset being content with our Heavenly Father, the more you heal and the closer you grow in the Lord, the better equipped you become to fulfill the role as husband you’re called to be… knowing exactly how to love your wife as Christ loves the church. Stay encouraged. I’m praying for you 🙏🤍
Amen to God's work making us believers feel fulfilled.
@@chesscomix6 yes! Because most things we do in the world only give us temporary satisfaction if any at all. God bless 🙏
This cry scream through a voice where no one can hear , wow , you came here , I just wrote this to God about been lonely , choosen healer , I went through alot , i need a hug too, I work, and do whatnI have to do with my kids , then my room, is where only I can see my tears. Thank you my Lord, I am gretaful ❤Amen 🙏
Thank you Darcy for this beautiful message. Just what l needed to hear @ this moment in my life. You are an earth angel Darcy & such a blessing. Thank you.🤗🙏🦋
Cry, scream, get it out however you need to, God knows and He hears you. Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted. The joy of the Lord is your strength. Praying for you sister! 🙏🤍🤗
You're welcome Shirley! I'm so glad the message was a help in your time of need. I pray you stay encouraged in the Lord, He is our refuge and strength and a very present help in times of trouble. Jesus bless you! 🙏🕊️
Thanks Darci, I only found your videos last week and they’ve been so helpful.
I’ve been going through a really tough time for the past year and experienced illness and betrayal and I need somewhere to live.
This morning I felt God reminded me to be like a little child. Instead of worrying about the future and what might happen, to be excited and curious like a child would be.
God bless you and all ❤
@@justagirl5593 I’m glad my videos have been helpful! This life is hard, even with the favor of the Lord. But I really think the reminder you got from God was amazing wisdom for how to get through the trials. Children get scared and might worry also but their parents can ease their fears and assure them everything will be alright. Excited and curious, thank you for sharing and may God bless you with healing, peace and a secure home 🙏🤍
@ thank you
Thank you Darcy! Keep up the good work. Your info based on the Bible will help many. Russ
@@TheRussRyde hey Russ! Good to see your comment. Hopefully the biblical wisdom helps someone, that’s really the only true comfort we have. God bless you 🙏
Thankyou very much foryour video talk message.Thank and praise God its all very inspirational meaningful helpful possitive very encouraging. God bless you Amen
You're welcome, God bless you as well Richard! He is faithful, keep believing.
Thank you so much for this! Every feeling, sentiment, struggle, battle, that you spoke of, i’ve experienced and often still do. I know by the Spirit that great things are coming, new doors will be opened, and there is someone God is preparing for me to serve alongside. That is the reason for all the attacks as of late. It is building me stronger and preparing me for her as well. In the meantime, there is kingdom work to be done. I think my toughest battle is in the small things. I get so lonely just doing tasks of every day life alone. Many people take these things for granted while having a partner, but once that spouse is gone, it really hits hard. People complain about shopping or not wanting to go certain places that the other wants to go, but for me, i always enjoyed those times. My late wife and i had our weekly routine, that to some would be mundane, but to us, we enjoyed it. Go to eat some place, browse around the vendor outlet, do our grocery shopping, and at home, watch a movie. I want to encourage others to take nothing for granted. Enjoy life’s biggest, but also smallest things. You are such a blessing Darcy, and i pray you are encouraged greatly as you follow Christ and walk in your gifts, encouraging others. I pray your week has gotten better. I’ve been pouring my heart out to God for things to get better for you and come together. I pray the water heater situation got fixed or at least in the process. 🙏🏼
You've got a great outlook on things Shay! I like how you acknowledge that it is building you stronger and preparing you for the person God has for you. So true, with anything we go through.. just sometimes we might think, I don't care to be any stronger😅 I agree, the small things do get tough going through alone, it's the simple things we miss, even just somebody to occupy the room with you. It does help though if the person is pleasant to occupy space with though, some people don't have that and therefore I do believe that's when it can be a blessing to have no one to share the space with. Even in the lonely, that is better than drama and turmoil. Jesus bless your heart for the people you want to encourage, life is a blessing, but it's also very hard at times.
I sincerely appreciate your prayers! it took all week but my water heater is replaced and I have hot water... was an extremely difficult week emotionally dealing with the home repairs, it's a hard feeling to describe, I know I can do life on my own, but I just don't want to. God bless you Shay!
@ Thank you so much! I totally agree, i’d rather be with someone who is pleasant to occupy space and live life with. I know we must not expect perfection in anyone because we are measured with the same measures as we judge others, but i so believe God cares about even the smallest things, so i have begun praying specific prayers about what i need in a spouse. And i fully understand and feel to my core about what you said.. i can live life alone, i just don’t want to. Solving life’s problems together, and enjoying the good and bad times, praying together, doing Bible study together, house chores, groceries, just every little thing. I’ve never understood couples who spend alot of time apart. Like, for me, i love clingy! 😂 Not in a bad way, but there are good ways to be clingy, loving, affectionate, and caring. Also, i feel deeply what you said about sometimes not wanting to be any stronger. It’s like, how much more can i take some days! I’m so thankful you got the water heater taken care of. That’s a relief. The water here is treated with something that makes the heaters go bad quickly. It’s frustrating. But, i know the struggle. I am celebrating with you for hot water! Praise God!
Jesus bless you, your family, and these days/ weeks/ months ahead! I ask for strength, peace, wisdom, an indwelling and guiding of the Holy Spirit, and that Christ is preparing your perfect spouse for your life, and you for him. In Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you also for your prayers and encouragement always!
Prayers for me I'm single and maybe God wants me to stay this way 🙏
@@ChildoftheKING45 praying for you 🙏🤍 since marriage comes from God I believe if someone has a desire for marriage, knowing what it requires, then that desire comes from God and He would honor it.. in His perfect timing. Jesus bless you!
@DarcyRie Praise God, because I most definitely desire to be married to a Godly Woman 🥰🕊️
Darcy,
Sis, I just wanted to thank you for your videos. They've been a source of encouragement recently. I'm currently going through my season of storms, loneliness & singleness. My relationship of the last 5 years ended in September completely out of the blue. Was just abandoned & kicked out with no emapthy shown. I was not given a legitimate reason, conversation, or a chance to fix/work on things. 3 years dating, 2 years of living together & I threw everything I had into building a future with her. Had the ring picked out & the proposal planned. She still attends the church the Holy Spirit led me to that I brought her to. I've been really trying to lean on the Lord & serving the church. I've even for the first time in my life sought out a christian therapist who's also a pastor & have been doing weekly sessions since Oct. Been attempting to rebuild my own life from ashes & scratch despite all the pain. Its hard for a man when he's not sure of his purpose or direction once everything he was working towards is no more. Again thank you for your kindness & love sis, you will definitely be in my prayers that God grants you encouragement & peace that surpasses all understanding. *Big hugs* 🙏
You should of married a long time ago. There's so much disrespect about living together.
@amysdreamvideos8174 As if you haven't made a single mistake in your life, 1 thing you regret or aren't a sinner yourself. Romans 3:23 For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.
@@JB1Corinthians1558 oh that is a lot to experience, sorry to hear all that happened, definitely doesn’t make sense how someone we were so close to could treat us in that way. Praying for your healing and for the Lord to give you direction for this new season of your life. It’s hard for anyone, but I guess especially for a man to not know what they’re supposed to be doing. Really glad you’re seeing a Christian therapist, that’s a blessing! Stay the course with the Lord and you’ll make it through, and prayerfully I can keep making videos to encourage along the way. God bless you! 🙏❤️🩹
@@DarcyRie Thank you. In this nearly 5 months apart between therapy, scripture, prayer & Godly encouragement from different sources; I can say I've definitely learned a lot; have had my eyes opened & have grown spiritually. I can look back & see why things went wrong & how certain things weren't how they should have been by God. I'm not sure what my future holds but I know you have to go through the wilderness to be prepared for the promised land. God bless & keep you as well my sister in Christ. 🙏🏽 ❤️
Well you are both overly sensitive and insensitive. Obviously I am speaking from experience. Never that many years but yes I was once stupid and let a man live with me
And i thought i was the only one. Thank You.
definitely not. Jesus bless you! I pray the Lord sends you someone to do kingdom work alongside 🙏❤️
Thanks for this message. I find that God speaking to me through signs, visions and wonders not by dreams and as you said God told me to be patient in my loneliness, don't rush it you would know when God will sends your future spouse for you for you❤❤❤
I've felt this STRONGLY for the last few years: I don't have much else going on, yes, there's family, unsupportive but existent... But there's nothing like I hoped as a child, and even a seriously compromised envisioning of what life could be hasn't happened. I'm happy and thankful for what God has given me, but I want to leave. You need money for SOOO MANY things, I just want to leave, there's no human help that's without a catch that..that I'm tired of. Won't go over my whole life, but unless God makes a very huge change... I don't see a point in any of this, the things that's my fault, the things I didn't have control over: what's the point in floundering in it? I'll keep talking to God, but something somewhere has to actually be worth it, and people keep revealing reasons why it isn't... God, merciful God, please help me, inside and out!!!
Yeah..how we have that idea of proving you can do it yourself.
Hmm. In our chapters of life...we have some constants..then there s changes that are not about us.
We dont see what is next. Faith is the substance of things not yet seen...it is a raw and vulnerable position. All of us have had times of not knowing. I pray to be guided
God will give you want in time Darcy just put god First and trust him.
Amen! thank you for that, I believe and trust Him... just hard to endure the wait at times. Jesus bless you Nicky!
This video and the way you give insight is wonderful! Thank you so much 😊 keep it up sister and never give up! Jesus is with us always.
Thank you for this video. It was inspiring and helpful
you're welcome! glad it was helpful in your time of need. God bless you 🙏
My entire life, my biggest fear has been to grow to be a lonely old man and die lonely. Well, only one week ago i turned 56. The people i thought were my friends slowly over the years either died one by one. Moved away to never be heard from again, or betrayed me and walked away or directly denied our friendship. While my famiky members have also died one by one over the years also. Leaving me today a sad and lonely 56 year old man with no friends. No family. Only myself to ponder my life and its ups and downs. Successes and failures. The entirity of a mediocre life success followed by failure. Sucess being dashed by one person or another in the position to deny my success. Many chapters in various places and circumstances. More recent events have removed me from the last people i thought were my friends. And today i have no sight of a future and no road seen. Wth nobody to council with. Nobody to seek insight. Just a broken soul that doesn't even feel alive any longer. A lonely old man with nothing but confusion, rejection, sadness and dispair. Contemplating what may be left of my days and how that will look for how long. Today is a sad day.😢
I don't have many near and present friends, and this is a problem to me, you described how I'm feeling you know...
The only thing I can say about it is "taking it hard"
it's more common than we think. I pray the Lord sends you someone to share life with, in His perfect timing. Stay encouraged in the Lord. 🤍🙏🤗
I'm alone I went to church and don't have any one who I can trust, my faith is important I was Ina bad relationship with a toxic person, who made me feel un worthy
3:22 I've been saying the same thing alot lately.. you are not alone Dacry i feel you, and remember Jesus loves you so much, be faithful god is working it out, he is so good and will not let us down.
you were saying : God where is my person. darcy trust me god is working it out for all of us, you have no idea how the enemy also can sent counterfeits and it happened in my life alot the past 2 years and iam so glad that i didnt made relationships with those people, otherwise these relationships would absolutely 100% destroy me in every aspect of my life mentally physically and financially.
let god choose for us, let us be faithful and wait on him he got our perfect person for us. 💝 💘
@@AbadyAngel thank you for the encouragement even while you are going through the same suffering. Most days it’s easy to believe and wait and keep the faith that God is working it out for all of us who are waiting, just some days the heaviness of it all gets to us. I’m glad you didn’t let the enemy win with those counterfeits, definitely can derail and delay things when we try to move on our own… remember Abraham and Ishmael. Thank you again for the encouragement and I’m praying for you as well 🙏🤍 May the Lord bless each of us quickly and suddenly with the person He has for us.
@@DarcyRie AMENNN!!! what a beautiful prayer thank youuu!! 🙏 🙏
Thank you for this video Darcy! I’m so happy you’re on RUclips and your channel is growing 😁💜
I'm just thankful you and so many others are being encouraged by the videos, the comments continue to amaze me. Thank you for being here since the beginning my friend!
@ Thanks so much! You’re welcome 😁
@@DarcyRieI hope you get monetized soon! You’re views and great lately 😁🤯
@ thanks! I’ve got the first part approved and have the 4000 hrs in analytics but it hasn’t updated in the earnings part just yet.
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Well, I am married, but I am completely alone. Just wait for God to give you someone, or not. It is better to be alone than to be with an uncaring person.
Yours. Right
...Takes a deep breathe... 💛 Was getting ready to walk away with out saying anything, I'm tired... 🌄Do good with a little and you can be trusted to do good with more. A Concept expressed by Jesus.
@@MilesMcWalker yes! Be faithful with the little. Stay in there, don’t give up, take those deep breaths and regroup. I’ve seen too many testimonies of people giving up or just about to and then they see the breakthrough. 🙏🤍 God bless you with strength to endure my friend!
Thank you
You're welcome! I pray the message was encouraging in your time of need. God bless you 🙏🤍
I feel very lonely. But I think about some past relationships sadly I was even lonely but my heart was broken I gave so much and got nothing back. ❤
Same with me
Hey Darcy. Yes the loneliness is real. Even if you are doing all the things you are suppose to be doing, have a relationship with Jesus and other believers around you. You will have those day where it hits you like a ton of bricks, a sadness in you heart wanting that companionship that you can call yours and share life together. I have healed from a lot over the years and God has shown me my shortcomings during my separation, 5 years allowed God to do a work in my own heart for healing. I know that He is doing a work in this mess, but i don’t know what that is. I have been praying for closure. God is good and I do the best that I can in my moments of loneliness. I continue to live and love those around me the best that I can. That’s what He calls us to do…to love one another. Darcy I remind you that you are doing a good thing through Him! I continue to pray covering over you and your kiddos and His covering over you. 🤍🙏🙃
Hey Robert, I agree with everything you've said. It's a blessing to have this perspective my friend, trusting God through the mess and believing He's working it out for our good. I truly appreciate your prayers for me and my girls, may the Lord bless you overly and abundantly for your act of love! 🤍🙏😊
@ have a great weekend Darcy! May God bless you beyond measure!🤍🙏🙃
@ thank you, have a great weekend also 😁
This is me right i can resonate completely
@lewisH-hj7im I am praying for you 🙏🤍
Thanks sis I just wanna be with the lord tbh I hope God fufils your prayers I'm praying for you too @@DarcyRie
I'm lonely and insist on staying that way. I'm 41, single, never married, no children. I have a felony conviction for which the world hates me (no, I won't disclose what I did). I'm given death threats and the world believes I'm only good for two things in life anymore: dead or locked up for life without parole. I'm not going to church because the church is full of hypocrites. They'll visit you in jail, tell you how much God loves you, then when you're released on parole these same "ministries" snub you!!! So much for the grace and mercy of God.
I dedicated this songs by Avalon call can't live a day thanks
all true, now 5 years. total isolation. only church, times even watch church services. youtube, xbox games keep me away from being deeo alone, yes i pray all the time, day night. i still belong to God.
@@EXCALIBURUS187 the Lord must be building you up for something big then, I believe when we’re in isolation for so long there’s a big call on our lives and this time is to be used growing in the things of the Lord. I’m glad you have the right heart posture and still belong to God. Praying for you brother 🙏🤍
The time is now … what is it time for Only God knows I just keep seeking his face that the best place to be but, I have been in a isolation since I broke my back 14 years ago, “ friends” fade away , doctors appointments have been my social life… it’s time blessings in Jesus name
@@HearWeCome truly only God knows, the rest we speculate. You’re right though the best place to be is seeking Him, it’s difficult to stay there while we have to occupy here. I’m praying for you 🙏🤍
@ thank you I pray numbers 6:24-26 over you and your life in Jesus name❤️🕊️
I am 59 and have not found love I come home where is the love of my life lord I wish for companionship
Hi Darcy, thanks for sharing many practical points in your valuable recent video... I found it really helpful! Thanks for your honesty and including what the Bible says on the topic! Darcy, I pray that God would bless you and your family! Hope you're having a great day, dear Sister-in-the-Lord. In Christian ✝️ love, RF
You're welcome RF, I'm glad you found it helpful. I know it doesn't take away the loneliness, but I think it does help to know we are not alone, and that there are ways to endure it a little easier. Thank you for the prayers and I too pray the Lord blesses you! 🙏🤗🤍
@@DarcyRie Hi Darcy, thanks for your message. Great to hear from you. Sorry for the delay in responding. I've been praying for you and your family Darcy! Thanks for praying for me too! I believe that God is amazing and holds the key to answers and solutions for our lives. I love the opportunity to grow in Christ and in Christian community. I'm single (never been married) and I love Jesus with my whole heart. Thanks for your courage and strength in sharing helpful video messages. You seem like a wonderful person Darcy! Thanks again for connecting with me. I love life and try to open about my faith with others around me. Jesus loves every person even those who only seem vaguely aware of Him. Darcy, I pray that God would lift you up and that 2025 would be an amazing year for you! Please continue to pray for me too. I'm glad that we've connected and I would love to get to know you better Darcy. Take care dear Sister-in-the-Lord.
In Christian ✝ love, RF
Yes..empty nest... anyone from work is with others. Im not throwing myself into work. The lack of human contact is compared to a break up...u have lower oxytocin bc no touch. See people at church..good talk w a mom..another senior man.
Just was comforting
My wife passed away recently. I can't really stay with any of her 4 adult kids(non were from me). All I have are our 3 dogs and 3 cats for company when I'm staying at our cabin where she was taken away from me by an asthma attack. Sometimes I would just sleep in our minivan with all 3 dogs and 3 cats, mostly cause non of my family or friends could take me and all 6 pets...We just take it day by day till some miracle comes along...
Thank you For Prayer's That my Son Jason will call me he is in Wilmington North Carolina Please a Mother in Texas God bless you Thank you again please Pray For me for Reststonion between me and my son Jason THANK YOU
It's literally just me. Nobody else. Just angels and I'm a dog ya'll are cats
@@mothermovementa I’m praying for you that the Lord will bring you someone that enriches your life and you two can fulfill the purpose the Lord has for you both!
I can relate, its tough, especially when you focus only on that... I believe you have to move forward, create, build., sort things out, get ready....A moving target is harder to hit. I still believe God writes the most beautifull storys and I don't want to have anything before I'm ready for it. I wanna have an only God story not something I have forced. There is a reason why it hasn't happend yet. I rather build a buisness in the meantime, develop character and skills. cheer people in similar situations on... Even when nobody notices it it will be worth it and the moment when you finaly meet your spouce will be so special. I believe that and I pray that everyone will have the endurance to hold on filled with hope and anticipation fully trusting GOD.
I've been waiting on God to send me a wife for over 40 years since my ex left me for another guy and I'm about ready to give up. I AM ready to go home. I really hope that God takes me soon. I'm 71 years old. You are right that I can't take this anymore.
@@magoolew5131 I’m so sorry to hear this and I sympathize with you. I pray the Lord comforts you and gives you wisdom through your pain. 🙏❤️🩹
Why would anyone contempt God? God is love. Love towards yourself . Love towards other people. Love towards Earth. It's the only answer that I have found using logical realm. Everything else is an attempt of control.
@@szellllest I agree, love is the only logical answer. Thank you for sharing!