Loving a broken person
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
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I suffered 3 years with a literal narcissist because I was arrogant enough to believe I could heal them by demonstrating unconditional love. In the end, they left me with a disgusted look on their face. I admire your compassion. Hopefully, others' stories will be different from mine...
Yes you deff have to have wisdom to know the difference between a hurt person who wants love and a narcassist . A narc will leave your for dead if they can . I did it for 7 years and gave the world to somebody who never appreciated it .
I just have to share this: My girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. She was broken and had a lot of problems to deal with but I loved her anyway, gave her all my time and attention to the point that it cost me my own sleeping schedule, happy mood and some of my mental health. I learned a lot from it as I know that I am nowhere near perfect either, it just hurts that she cut me off and I still have feelings for her....
The both of us walked and talked with God, we did pray together. I really hope God brings us back together if it fits his plan.
I feel you. I have the same issue but we were just friends and they were the ones who wanted to leave. No matter how much I tell them I care they put up a wall. I also feel the same way.. only God can bring them back, I pray that you can endure this. It hasn’t been easy.
I'm sorry you're going through this. Glad you're seeing the growth in the situation though. The breakups and blocking really do hurt, but it could be God protecting us from pain that is even more unbearable. Keep praying and believing that if she is who God has ordained for you, then it will be. 🙏🤍 praying for you also.
praying for you also! it's definitely not easy to endure... God will make a way though if it's His will. 🙏
Same thing here 😢! I just had to accept it and pray for them.
Thank you for your very kind words, I appreciate you very much for wanting to pray for me!
Wow. This is EXACTLY what I needed. I'm going through a situation like this right now. Both of us are hurting and since a few weeks ago we've been no contact. Ive got my issues and she has hers. But i really believe that this is what God wants for me right now. Im going to heal, no matter how long it takes. But it hurts like hell.
Great information, especially for those of us standing on broken marriages during separation. Thanks for always injecting biblical support for your advice. You're doing great work!
You're welcome Kelly and I'm glad the video was helpful.. so many can get advice from the world, but I always want to try and tie things back to the Word. Praying for you and your marriage! 🙏🕊️
This is gold.
I probably had opportunity to leave but I held on. And God seems committed to work this out for something good. I wrestled with God for my family, like Jacob in the night...and he gave me a promise and the blessing i wanted. The healing and salvation of my entire family. But with a lot more effort and struggle than i had planned for. The enemy isnt giving up easily. But we all know in Christ that the enemy has no chance.
Much love. You have a gift and i appreciate your work in the Lord. Thanks for serving. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with holding on and wrestling with God for your blessing, Michael! It's a great encouragement for all who would see this comment, that the Lord does bless us AND He is faithful to save and heal our loved ones! Acts 16:31... most definitely the enemy doesn't give up easily and we shouldn't either. We have to believe the God who is in us is greater and truly His will prevails no matter what it looks like in the natural.
Thank you for the encouragement also! Trying to turn the evil that was meant against me for my good and the good of others. Jesus bless you! 🙏🤍
Thank you for the reminder. My ex is an avoidant and has traumas from the past. Sometimes I get angry that she left me, but I'm glad I run into these kinds of videos that remind me what she has to go through and help me understand her perspective better.
It's good to have grace for those who are hurting. Sounds like you care for her very much. Praying for her healing would be a true blessing for you both. 🙏
@@DarcyRie thank you 😊
Thank you for your spirit lead desire to share this content with all of us. My wife left almost a year ago and we are both broken people. Less than a month ago she could’ve ended the divorce with one decision after our separation agreement was finalized, but somehow she said she wanted to explore reconciliation, which is truly a miracle. But she has pulled away again, and I am deeply hurt. But God is perfect and his timing is perfect. I am standing on the solid rock. Waiting on the Lord is not easy, but it does. It’s perfect work within us. Thank you.
This is a great message, and I tried to do this with my ex, but he sabotages everything. I can’t chase a person incapable of getting out of his own way, and pushes me away
Do yourself a favor and listen to what he's telling you. My wife didn't listen to me, and we Both lost! She got what She wanted, but what she wanted wasn't what she wanted... if that makes sense...
I’m the broken person. I ruin every good thing that comes my way.
I'm here for you sunshine.. I'm seeing you side. I thought you gave up on me. That's why I did that to you
Please believe me I hurt you but I'm for you. So I'll wait if you will have me again.. let start new..
Hey we are all broken. I have been the person who thought I was never good enough to be truly loved. My wife had her own struggles as well. I would have loved to hear this young lady 40 years ago. However by Gods Good Graces we did manage to stay together and He has healed us using a program called Celebrate Recovery. We are approaching 40 years of marriage and we love each other more than ever now. Jesus is faithful. It is hard work to dig through our baggage but so worth it.
@@BkNvh1 you are not broken Broken things can be repaired... If a human broke it a human can repair. It . Say that a couple times a day
Keep repeating that that phase it will work
At least you realize it! Many people don't know this about themselves. You can try to improve and fix things about yourself if you really want to change, or you can choose to like and accept yourself and continue on.
I'm dealing with a person who is so broken due to childhood trauma and broken relationships. He is a wonderful person, but cannot deal with emotions. I'm in love with him. I've made mistakes but I'm slowly figuring things out. He pushes me away. Hard not to take it personal. I can't walk away. I pray about it all the time. Right now we are not speaking, but I can't walk away.
Same here😢
I'm sorry you're dealing with this, I know how painful it can be. If God won't let you walk away, then don't let anyone convince you otherwise.. keep praying and believing. I'm praying for you as well 🙏
Praying for you also! 🙏 Keep believing for their healing ❤️🩹
I am in the same situation. I will pray for you and your relationship.
Well detailed Video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
This is such a heartfelt message, thank you for sharing. Me and my husband are both healing and it can get pretty rough, but we’re both dedicated and we know that God is with us and we’re never alone, even after a fight when we both retreat I see how God works through us. God is great ❤
@@Neja.Speaks Amen! Thank you for sharing and letting us know that when God’s in the marriage it can withstand the storms. It’s amazing to see God working in and through us. He truly is great ❤️😁
This is a very real video. Please pray for me. I still send mine all the help she needs every time she keeps coming back. I really appreciate this. Please pray for Ashley. She asked for prayers.
Extremely timely. You’ve no idea.
Amazing! 😁 I love this, thank you because now I know the video was worth recording! God bless you Kathleen 🙏❤️
@ I gotta say: It was so worth it! I’ve been putting out fleeces regarding a particular person. God just keeps on saying: “Hang in there, Kathleen.” There’s no outward sign of “anything.”
Ty for the blessing. May God bless you too.
SAME HERE
You have just described what I have been going through in standing for my marriage. Thank you. I could have not made it this far without Jesus healing my brokenness. I’m praying for you and your family.
Your so beautiful 💜 a very sweet soul. God Bless you foreal. Just take this person wherever you go at all times when your not on camera and you will be a Joy to yourself and others. ✝️✌️
thank you very much, your comment was very sweet! I try to be a joy to others, not so much myself 😅
@DarcyRie well it's your self you gotta start with Darcy. U know that. And my names Jimmy k.
Such a good message. I was the one who was most broken in my marriage relationship. We both had lots of baggage. We found hope and healing in a ministry called Celebrate Recovery. It is. 12 step ministry with Christ at the head. It is for all hurts, habits and hang-ups. We g received so much grace and healing that we are still together , nearly 40 years now. There were many times for both of us that we were ready to end the pain and go our separate ways. Now we are truly in love with each other and with Jesus. We recently moved to a different area where there was no Celebrate Recovery ministry. So with Gods guidance we are starting one. It is so rewarding and we continue to grow as well!!! God is so Good.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with this! It will give many hope that anything is possible with God and our willingness to obey and persevere. That's truly amazing that you and your spouse are starting a CR ministry, growing in purpose together for the glory of the kingdom! Amen! God bless you and yours 🙏🤍
Thank you for your response. Your message is excellent as well. ❤❤❤
Well versed message and many will take great benefit and wisdom from your wisdom, and love.
There is broken and there is severely damaged and hurt from childhood to first marriage and sometimes you just have to lay it at the feet of Yah and petition Him to soften their heart and bring Shalom to their mind.
Your message is so timely right now.
Keep up the great work
May Yah Baruk and keep you
Shalom
Amen, praise God this message was timely for you! I could not rest until I got it posted, just about 2am my time.
You're right, some situations we find our loved ones in are too much for us to try and help at all.. we give them over to the Lord, His will be done... but still show the love of Christ at every opportunity. I do pray this message helps many if they find themselves in this type of relationship 🙏
Thank you for the encouragement brother! May the Lord bless you and keep you as well 🕊️ Shalom
Yes, patience is so important.
Hardly any one talks about this...
I'm delighted that I found your video. I can relate to it on a personal level.
I struggled with jealousy for many years and I didn't know how to talk about it due to its sticky stigma. It was only last August that I said out loud that I was hung up on trying to impress everyone in my life and said "I just need to let people help me." I now feel excited to be brave, learn new things, and admit my hurdles without sugarcoating.
I've never been in a romantic relationship but I consider your message relatable because I'm grateful that my family believed in me when I thought that I was nothing but a burden.
I'm so glad your family was there for you! Being open and honest with those in our lives is the best thing, we're supposed to be here for each other.. we can't do that if no one knows how you really feel. We are all flawed in some way or another, never be ashamed to admit your faults, it helps you grow and seek change. Psalm 139. Jesus bless you! 🙏🤍
Your videos are amazing and how you can put things on here that I am sure are hard at times. Thank you for how great you are as a person and how many people you are making changes for. Can I add I believe God also put those people to help those who need it and without them knowing it. We are all here for a purpose and most times we have no idea why, but even something as a relationship that we think is just our doing was a purpose. Great video as always Darcy 🙏
You're always so kind Danny! And I appreciate you genuinely complimenting my videos 😅 definitely agree with you, God uses people and puts them in our paths for purpose, nothing is by accident.
I stand firm with God. I love her so much. I will never give up on my love for her no matter how hard it is. No matter how hard it tries to break me. God is with me. Love is with me. I hope she heals and comes back to me. I am patient if only she knew how patient I truly am, how vast the love is in my heart for her. Please God bless my wife
I wholeheartedly agree ❤
I have total control over who I fall in love with. If they're not worth it by letting their decisions affect our relationship in a negative way I simply will just give up on them by replacing them. ❤
I've been living this. I asked God to take away the pain, he said if he does then I wouldn't pray for this man anymore. Give and commit the relationship to God
@@Folkyheart makes so much sense. If God fixed everything for us we wouldn’t come to Him as often. Aside from growth and learning how to have compassion on others, maybe our suffering is a way to keep us humble. A test of faith to see if we will still believe and trust that He is who He says He is.
There is freedom in giving and committing the relationship back to God, where it came from anyways. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your husband 🙏🤍
Wow this is such a good video I was broken and everybody I trying to talk to is broken too and sometimes I feel like it's just too much❤ but I still try to make it work cuz I know they deserving❤❤
Perfect timing on this very encouraging message, God bless you ❤
Great to hear! God bless you as well 🙏🤍😊
Sound advice and great encouragement for those of us who are waiting on the transformation of a loved one..."show up for them," is great advice. I need to keep THAT in mind. Jesus bless you❤
Great video! Like I’ve said before you’re an amazing person 💜
thank you very much David! I really appreciate you seeing that in me just from the videos. 💜 All glory to God I am anything good. 🙌
@ You’re welcome! 😁
What a beautiful message. God bless you!!!
I love all women they are all broken,i will never live with one ever again because i don't want to be broke again
Once was enough for me. 43 years of marriage. No more.
Yep 👍👍
Wow. I needed to hear this today.
What a lovely talk.
thanks Brian, glad you enjoyed it! God bless you 🙏🤍
Never regret doing good imitate Christ not imitate evil
Amen! thank you for sharing! 🤍✝️
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What a wonderful video.Thank You!!!
I have a broken husband that became abusive verbally. He left me because I confronted him on it. Very depressing because I never gave up on him. I loved him like Christ would. Now I feel broken.
You know you basically explained me. Yes past relationships have damaged me. But Honestly i have done most my Damage on my own. The deal with relationships with Love with others or myself is i HAVE got to continue to Focus on Jesus Love on him then myself number one. Or NO relationship will ever work or be filled with love and loyalty. Ive only been working on this Season of my life since oct.22 when i got clean. If i cant focus on Jesus and myself for the next lets say year. NO relationship will ever work. Everybody is tired of hearing my "problems" and "excuses" so am I. Actions speak louder than words. Thank ou you for talking to us.. oh and yesss Hugs are 👍 Great😊
Congratulations on getting clean and realizing your need to focus on Jesus and yourself before any relationship. That's the way to win! The Lord is faithful and good, And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. 🤍
@DarcyRie Perfectly said.😁✝️👑
God bless you❤
Though if this is just a general study group on the topic, then this is really cool of you. I don't like to think about hurts though... There is so many, I could get lost there... I stuck with you for about 5 minutes. I just can't go any further right now. It is a really nice day out here, I need to go enjoy some sunshine... I may circle back later to finish listening to your broadcast.
yes, I agree, don't like to think about hurts either, but not every message can be all blessing and sunshine. we have to talk about the hard stuff sometimes, but I understand not wanting to hear it. no worries, thank you for sticking with it for even 5 minutes.. this was research and some experience. go enjoy the beautiful day!
@@DarcyRie 😇😇
1.5 year mostly great relationship spent 5 hours with her in hospital for her broken foot, made her laugh stuck by her side had a great 4 days with her after just for her to break up with me 24 hours later over text right before Christmas with no closure and now I'm the one who feels broken, was her first healthy relationship and we felt like soul mates no idea what to do in my life now
So this is me I have felt this way since the beginning
She left me after 4 months despite saying how much she loved me, and now she’s with someone who’s just out of a divorce. She doesn’t want healthy love, and I have to come to accept that.
Life’s to short. I could die tomorrow. I’ll love her forever but I have to put myself first. We can walk a thirsty horse to water, but we can’t force it to drink.
Like the background lights. Your hair is beautiful! 😁
@@Chris-l9r3d 😆 thanks Chris! It’s not a professional recording studio but it works.
@DarcyRie lol! I like! So how long have you been this strong n your faith? May I ask what religion you r? I'm a Lutheran.
This was extremely helpful. Can relate to a lot of this. Yes, I do think is a special case here that I'm in. All the dating "coaches" just seem to be saying the same old things. Like "just move on, it's not going to work for this reason and that reason, you deserve better, bla bla bla..." So what, I'm just supposed to give up on someone I love here? Really? Because that's NOT Love in my book. I certainly wouldn't want someone to just "give up" on me.
Really too, the Lord seems to be almost insisting that I don't. I say "almost insisting" because has all been SUCH a nightmare that by now I'm literally struggling to make it just a few days of prayer and so on. Before I inevitably get SO unbelievably discouraged and sad that often will just say, I think I need to give up. Give up, admit defeat and move on? Because really I am starting to wonder if they're right. The "dating" coaches, etc...
Here I am on my knees here, praying like an idiot for this person? And even fasting. Multiple extended fasts. For over 4 years now! Every day God seems to say "keep going". Even things like "hold on, just hold on, because help is on the way"... But I mean really! Am starting to wonder if that help and much-needed change is never going to come. And that the Lord maybe never intended for it to.
PLEASE pray for me. I've been at this for well over 4 years now (praying for "this person" I mean). And really I'm seriously starting to wonder if maybe I'm not going to make it through this. Sorry to sound maybe a bit overdramatic, lol. But this really has been horrendous. Almost like walking through a war. Walking through and living in a spiritual warzone. I don't think is too much of an exaggeration.
Because, yes. The spiritual warfare has been absolutely brutal. And to be honest, things were pretty bad to begin with. Been struggling in one way or another with depression and anxiety here, for really my entire life. From when was a small child even. So I keep asking the Lord to PLEASE tell me the truth. And not fill me full of false hope here, if there is none. I keep TRYING to explain to Him that help and change is very URGENTLY needed here. Because feel am almost drowning really at this point. Right in front of His eyes? Like the water is rising above my mouth as we speak, and starting to approach my eyes. Metaphorically obviously, lol. But my head about to go under though really I think. Could happen potentially any day. But He just seems to keep saying "hang on", and "trust me" and so on.
Anyway, yeah. Sorry if this is long. But things been getting pretty desperate here. If isn't some real, tangible help and significant changes in this situation... And soon...
You seem to have a good relationship with the Lord. PLEASE will you pray and ask Him to maybe take this a bit more seriously. No disrepect but to treat this situation with maybe just a little more urgency? Just a little? Because for some reason He just doesn't seem to be listening to me. I don't know, is like He maybe didn't get the "memo" or hasn't gotten the message here or something. Please pray for me. My little cat Bella too. 🐈 😢😅 Because has really been hard for both of us
I'm glad the message was helpful! I hear and understand everything you wrote, have even pleaded with the Lord for wisdom similarly and I will definitely pray for you. If the Lord isn't letting you let this person go, then don't - you said He's telling you to hold on, and to trust Him.. do those things.
But we have to remember that God doesn't work in our time, He may let things look desperate and like it's all going to crumble, then He moves. Someone just commented on this video, about asking God to take away the pain, and He said if He did then they wouldn't pray for this person anymore.. God knows what we can handle and how to get us to keep relying on Him.
He may not be "helping" you yet because He needs you to draw in closer. The Lord hears your cries/prayers, try and focus on your identity and authority in Christ, your relationship with Him and then keep fighting the good fight of faith. I know spiritual warfare is exhausting, but it's necessary if we want to walk in the fullness of Christ and all that He has for us here.
Stay encouraged sister! I'm praying for you 🤍🙏
@DarcyRie @DarcyRie Thanks! Actually a guy here. And Bella is my cat. So Hay, short for Haydn. Like the composer? Ha ha though, is okay, lol. I realize is often difficult to tell from some random message on the internet. 😀
If you're curious what I look like, should be a few artsy/graphic-design/interpretive dance type slideshows on my channel, somewhere. With various music. Not the guitar ones which are different. Hmmm, unless I deleted them? 🤔 But no, think they're still there. I realize I probably look very artsy, theatrical and different though. So yeah, probably not like your average burly rugby player, lol.
Anyway, thank you! Thank you for praying for us. Is very much appreciated. I actually don't have many Christian friends here where I live (New Zealand). Have started going to a local church and been invited to join the band on lead guitar and vocals. But a while since performed on stage so must admit, a bit nervous about it all. Am sure to get back into it again though soon, with renewed confidence.
That was actually a good point about God sometimes extending a difficult season or situation, because maybe He WANTS us to keep praying about it. And for the person concerned? And to NOT stop. So as to ensure maybe that plenty of good seeds of prayer are sown? That will hopefully bear good fruit? And we draw closer to Him in the process. 🤔 Hmmm, yes... Now that I think about it, actually makes a lot of sense! I actually never thought about it like that before. 😀 Thank you!
Amen 🙏🏼🔥🙏🏼🕊🕊💕💕🌈🌈
Hand them the wrench, don’t be the wrench.
I love this content. The person I care for is a man of God but scared to commit to me in any way. I'm willing to just be his sister. His friend. I don't want to walk away. He does love me though.
I wondered for so long what was going on with my wife not knowing the hell her parents and family put her through, it wasn’t until a restraining order was granted to her against her parents 14 years after we were married that what happened started coming out. For one coming alongside the broken person knowing what is reactive abuse and ambiguous grief and how to defuse it safely without harm with sufficient time to unwind and recharge. I wasn’t aware of this 45+ years ago. She was worth sticking with until her going on to be with Christ, I found Psalm 73 and Psalm 91 helpful.
Than what that your loved one hurts you very often because of her insecurity? I became insecure after dating insecure person for 5 months without clear result. Than in final she walked away and still wanting my atention. Whenever I did not fulfill her expectations I got red flag. So now I am alone. Tried to contact her, she replied me after 26 hours whitout asking me back, than I did not write her anything and she got pissed off on me and when I reached her out again after 2 weeks she did not reply. But, at least she could show me a bit more respect and I would give her everything. She hurted me a lots of times, I wanted to help her, I forgave her everything, but really I am overwhelmed. Now I have to go for healing and visit the terapeut, because my heart is broken. I love her with whole my being, but she gave me so much insecurities that I started blaming myself for everything.
The bible says once you share the gospel and they reject you dust your feet off and move on but doesnt mean you give up on them but make a boundary
right, boundaries are good and sometimes we love from a distance until is safe to move in closer.
Hurting people hurt people, it’s their responsibility to go & get therapy so they don’t hurt others. You cannot fix people, it’s on them to do that for themselves 🤷♂️
I dedicated this songs by Christian call take back yesterday Thanks
I need this now and it pop up now only wow THANK YOU GOD GLORY AND HONOR TO HIM AND ONLY HIM THAT IS JESUS SON OF GOD
Love yourself first. Save yourself. You will throw your life away on people who will spit on everything you have done for them. Don’t waste your time, these are adults, not children.
I dedicated this songs by chuck Girard call don't shoot the wounded
How is a broken person going to respect your boundaries?
it does make you wonder... but hopefully there are some who can. If not, communicate that and love from a distance, surrender them fully to God when it gets to be too much and they're not willing to be respectful.
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thank you ❤️🙏
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thank you Clint ❤️🙏
This is not a great message and is just a hard cope. Yes you can understand someone's wounds, but God doesn't want you to sacrifice yourself, thats BS...walk away or put up strong boundaries
You have beautiful eyes
The Lion of Mount Hope
Pedro from San Diego 🌅
Jesus left the 99 to save the 1. He never gave up on us, so why should we give up on our neighbor? Love your neighbor as yourself. 🙏🏼💟🙏🏼
Amen!
Sadly my family and wives gave up on me😭
Sorry to hear that Randall, I pray the Lord heals and binds up your wounds! He will never give up on you...🙏🕊️
I Love You
and
Jesus Loves You More
It would be hard for me to give up on you.
😊 thank you, God bless you!
Be like Jesus
Tell me ex this...😢
Hang in there... personally hit the bible more. some things should stay private, even many or all prayers..? This almost feels personal and i notice something special about sharing words or thoughts with others... there is a expense and expanse... a multidimensional expanse of those thoughts regarding those people, if I said blessings, then they receive blessings... though if I express honest feelings about being hurt... it seems to cause more hurt when shared like this..? Like I can not tell my story, when I start to share MY STORY... I see my world unravel around me and I have to remove my story. Then the world settles down around me... Maybe I'm different... Just saying, if this is about you and your partner... I don't think this will help. If it does, it was probably just from genuine prayers from people...
thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I would agree some things should stay private.. this was research and some experience. sometimes it helps to share the hard things because people want to feel like they're not alone in the sufferings. and it can give hope when we share personal testimonies of overcoming the hard things.
@ I agree w you... different people need different things at different time and such :) Keep up the good work Sister
@@MilesMcWalker thank you brother. Your initial comment really made me question myself in posting this video though, I thought I had confirmation from God for it. But then doubted. It’s all good now, spiritual attack I suppose.
If you don't give up on them not only can you not repair them as this ultimately CAN ONLY come from themselves, then you are dragged down with them into a dysfunctional relationship. Cut them loose and find someone undamaged to give yourself the best chance of happiness. If you choose to be a martyr and their rescuer you will never be happy and they will die the same as you found them. An exercise in futility, but it does say something about you doesn't it? It gives you the chance to get kudos and that's the real payoff isn't it.
This is only partially true. We ARE to bear one another's burdens to fulfill the law of Christ. So just giving up on someone who is having a really rough time shows more about the person who gave up than the person who is having a rough time.
Jesus Christ of Nazareth...
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Everything is going to get better
Wrong…
I absolutely disagree!A person needs to know when to save yourself. It is not your job to save them. That's why counseling exists!
That’s why she said walk alongside.
True compassion is being alongside.
We aren’t called to walk with everyone. Know who you are called to.
I agree, we cannot save anyone. I said in the video it is not our job to fix or save them, but to love them through their pain, not giving up on them.
Amen! thank you Bluejay.
@@DarcyRie *love saves, omg. love is a savior. love is a protector. love saves. yes, loving someone can save them. UH HUH. yup. being loved **_is_** the fix, **_is_** the cure.*
*nobody needs "counseling" which is the religion of the antichrist. that's why in the faith people are instructed to PRAY because jesus is the counselor, see the difference.*
I’m in Love with an anxious fearful avoidant and I also have a mixture of anxious/Fearful avoidant attachment! I Love him so much! I also believe God is using this to help me heal so I can help him in the future when God brings us back together! We are in a push and pull dynamic right now but I can’t give up on him my heart wont let me!😭❤️🩹🙏🏼
My husband if 35 yrs had a 3 year affair 🥲🥲 he is dismissive avoidant and shows very little remorse 😟😟 while I see he is broken he is in serious denial and is blaming me for his bad behaviour … takes very little accountability … what hope do we have to repair ???
I'm so sorry to hear this! Nothing is impossible with God, if it's His will for your marriage to be repaired then believe for it. Your husband has to take responsibility, I'm praying for you!! 🙏❤️🩹🕊️
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