Why we have a NO GIFT POLICY in Our Relationship | Noha Hamid

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @killphaser25
    @killphaser25 4 года назад +197

    The Prophet Sallalahu alaihi wa sallam said to gift each other with gifts because it increases love, and to accept it even if it were trotters of a sheep (meaning accept it even if you don't like it)
    Also, since birthdays aren't allowed in Islam, there shouldn't be a special occasion why you give your spouse a gift. It doesn't have to be a materialistic gift. It could be a thoughtful card or a box of chocolates or a special dinner.
    I feel gifts aren't mandatory and you shouldn't be expecting for a gift, but if you can surprise your spouse with something they really need or wanted for a long time, it'd be kind of you to do that just to make them happy and increase the love between each other. This is just my take on it. But it's cool to see that you both have come to an agreement on this.. MashaAllah

    • @Qurann21
      @Qurann21 4 года назад +16

      Yesss. You literally saved me from writing all this. I wouldve waffled without getting to the point😂

    • @ghafranhaque7161
      @ghafranhaque7161 4 года назад +4

      Yes my dear but these are RUclipsrs, they seem to have come up with a better policy than the sunnah... They will see it in their book of deeds.

    • @Qurann21
      @Qurann21 4 года назад +7

      @@ghafranhaque7161 a better policy than the sunnah? What🤣 what is better than the prophet's sayings and actions? You really lost the plot my friend

    • @killphaser25
      @killphaser25 4 года назад +7

      @@Qurann21 I don't think you understood the sarcasm. Sigh

    • @Qurann21
      @Qurann21 4 года назад +1

      @@killphaser25 oh looooool my bad. I didnt read it properly at all

  • @asajjad4542
    @asajjad4542 4 года назад +48

    The Holy Prophet has taught that the husband should look for excuses to gift his wife. Whereas, the wife doesn't ever have to gift her husband.

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +28

      If the husband and wife love receiving and giving gifts thats great! I just hope people don't do it from the pressure of society

  • @ferdabegum8407
    @ferdabegum8407 4 года назад +18

    I love gifting or experiences especially anniversaries which are milestones. Or Eid time . Love it

  • @alija1801
    @alija1801 4 года назад +45

    You guys are the first couple I‘ve ever seen doing it like this and having this kind of perspective when it comes to gifts! It makes so much sense though and it’s super inspiring, love you guys

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Awww thanks so muchhh! ❤️❤️ I'm glad it makes sense to you!

    • @fr3Nd0
      @fr3Nd0 4 года назад

      Totally agree 👍👍👍

  • @faiza98.
    @faiza98. 4 года назад +11

    This video randomly came on my feed and I saw it and instantly thought, "What?! That could never be me." I went ahead and watched it and wow, you guys made really good points and changed my perspective.

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +2

      Awwww I glad you understand out view point! I still love gifts but when they are thoughtful and when I need them. ❤️

  • @xAmiin
    @xAmiin 4 года назад +2

    Mashallah, seriously i clapped when you mentioned that you bought Ryan an Xbox before quarantine. You’re a real wifey material. That’s a great healthy relationship right there. 👍🏾

  • @asmauzurmi7547
    @asmauzurmi7547 4 года назад +28

    Well there's no rule that says you can only exchange gifts during occasions anyway 😄

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Very true!

  • @anikalove.0044
    @anikalove.0044 4 года назад +2

    honestly it comes down to it being your relationship so its your rules on how you want to foundation it. this is the most beautiful cause you are not following others ideology, your forming your own methods which means your being a leader not a follower

    • @anikalove.0044
      @anikalove.0044 4 года назад

      Allah's slave ???? What are you even talking about what does that have to do with my comment? Where did I mention Quran and Islam or you okay?

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +2

      Yes I agree with you! everyones relationship is different and I have just seen other people gift their spouse things cause they feel like they have to. I love this rule Ryan and I have between each other!

    • @anikalove.0044
      @anikalove.0044 4 года назад

      Allah's slave I think you are confusing my comment I meant they are not following what society says like social media. Social media has a huge impact on our daily day norms of living like gift giving. If they don’t want to give each other gifts that’s between them (not Allah swt)

    • @anikalove.0044
      @anikalove.0044 4 года назад

      @@noha i respect you two alot, i love your videos :) may Allah swt bless you in this life and the after life.

    • @anikalove.0044
      @anikalove.0044 4 года назад

      @Allah's slave well thats between god and them, you should learn to stop judging others it mentions in the quran many times not to judge someone.

  • @mimo4856
    @mimo4856 4 года назад +2

    I'm exactly the same about gifts. Hate to wait for a specific date to gift someone something. And experiences are more dear to me than tangible objects. InshAllah my future husband will think alike.

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      SubhanAllah we definitely think alike!! ❤️❤️

  • @lamya9168
    @lamya9168 4 года назад +2

    قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم ّ " تهادو تحابو ".. don't make this pressure of what the gift is !

  • @Caro101Pie
    @Caro101Pie 4 года назад +8

    I mean as Muslims shouldn’t we not be caring the much about the dunyah and materialistic things? Gifts don’t always have to be expensive and materialistic things

  • @abturahmankawasmi8101
    @abturahmankawasmi8101 4 года назад +1

    You guys are awesome, inspiring to anyone's life, keep up the good content and GOD BLESS BOTH OF YOU 💚
    LOVE FROM PALESTINE 🇵🇸 💚

  • @chickenbaddie318
    @chickenbaddie318 4 года назад +7

    Yayyyy another video! Everyday I look forward to one from your channel ❤️💕 can’t wait for you to post how you guys met 💖

    • @jamilahmuhammad7715
      @jamilahmuhammad7715 4 года назад +1

      Same here!!

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Awww thanksss, I posted the how we met video Alhamdullilah! ❤️

  • @fb812
    @fb812 4 года назад +1

    nice thought. but going on special trips on special occasions, this amounts to the same thing - its just not an object - its actually a very big fancy lavish gift

    • @fb812
      @fb812 3 года назад

      Just another thought to put out there - if their birthday/special occasion wasnt marked in any way at all (in the scenario that they werent 'needing' a gift), do we really think that would be ok - or would they start feeling like 'my partner doesnt care about me, not even on this 'big' occasion.

  • @Rebeccagabrieella
    @Rebeccagabrieella 4 года назад +6

    Love your view on relationships, greetings from Brussels!

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Thank youuu! Brussels? Sooo cool ❤️

  • @shubenakawunde8932
    @shubenakawunde8932 4 года назад +2

    One never fails to smile watching you guys..may ALLAH protect you

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Awwww thank youuu! ❤️❤️

  • @fatimatarsha9337
    @fatimatarsha9337 4 года назад

    I am very picky too, but mostly with a quality relationship with people.

  • @ronigasu2325
    @ronigasu2325 3 года назад

    I like no gift policy as well! I would rather they pick up on my language of love which is my home to be clean, a meal at home & time well spent! I would rather spend the funds on our goals such as home or something for the home, travel!

  • @SamaiyaMalik
    @SamaiyaMalik 4 года назад +6

    "i am your friend" lol
    Allahumbariklahu

  • @junglemami6941
    @junglemami6941 4 года назад

    I love your style I hope one day you do a wardrobe look book and hijab tutorials 💕

  • @karimoriakhel8287
    @karimoriakhel8287 4 года назад +1

    I like the idea visiting somewhere rather than gifts

  • @wahidaahm
    @wahidaahm 4 года назад +2

    Wow i love your thought on gifting! ✨ That is so true and just right and I definitely think people will get inspired as well as me 🥰

  • @fatimatarsha9337
    @fatimatarsha9337 4 года назад

    I like the way you think, although my kids are older than you. My fifth kid is 25.

  • @adamali6654
    @adamali6654 4 года назад +4

    Amazing perspective, rabana ya7fadhkom🤲🏽

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Thank youuu! Ameen inshAllah

  • @labino4987
    @labino4987 4 года назад

    What a great couple, mashalla. Im definitely going to show my wife this video. ✌️

  • @nm0896
    @nm0896 3 года назад +2

    This is exactly why I hate being gifted things. I feel so seen 😂

  • @karimaidrissiradi4435
    @karimaidrissiradi4435 4 года назад +7

    I love u guys from Morocco 🇲🇦❤️

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Thanksss Karima! Morocco is amazingggg

  • @Sabiha-30
    @Sabiha-30 4 года назад +2

    Spontaneous gifting is still good too

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Yes we love spontaneous gifting for a reason, not just cause it's someone birthday!

  • @leilapunt4499
    @leilapunt4499 2 года назад

    I would prefer vacations too or a nice gift card to a bookstore.

  • @nuhamiley3128
    @nuhamiley3128 4 года назад +2

    Good idea as my husband is not a gifts and I use to get angry now I get use to it stressful trips is the best present go buy it yourself I love that idea . Does Ryan speak Arabic? We have the same name but I spell itNuha

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Heyyy Nuha, beautiful name haha! Ryan speaks some arabic in the Egyptian dialect and formal arabic as well. ❤️

    • @nuhamiley3128
      @nuhamiley3128 4 года назад

      Noha Hamid yesIt is a beautiful name we should know not very common Arabic name which I like then it would be a big challenge for you to do one RUclips segment of all In Arabic And one of the videos oh I think it was maybe on the five love languages He talked about making pad Thai does he do it from his own creation or is he copying a recipe or both if so I would love to see a segment on the pad Thai

  • @sanaali636
    @sanaali636 3 года назад

    Give eachother gifts so it will strengthen yout relationships... saying of prophet mohammad s.a.w...

  • @farrukhismail
    @farrukhismail 3 года назад

    Very mature talk

  • @fatoub5954
    @fatoub5954 3 года назад

    Just tell each other what you want

  • @nguiamoulayeelbechir8645
    @nguiamoulayeelbechir8645 4 года назад +3

    Great video!
    Love from Switzerland!

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +3

      Thanksss! SWITZERLAND? OMGGGG, you're so lucky you live there. I wanna visit again soooo badly! ❤️

  • @alphafish4756
    @alphafish4756 4 года назад +4

    And what about gifting your family and friends? I find that stressful too lol

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      That's true, it can be stressful, I always try to find out from other people what they want. Or cash is a great gift cause then they can get whatever they want, it's just not as thoughtful haha

  • @Michico_Malandro
    @Michico_Malandro 4 года назад +3

    Everything you guys said makes sense.

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Thankss!

  • @madelinebrink8399
    @madelinebrink8399 4 года назад +1

    I love her outfit.

  • @nazlatabd2443
    @nazlatabd2443 4 года назад +4

    French subtitles pleeeeeeeeease !!!!!!! Here we love you

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      I don't speak French so I wouldn't be able to do French subtitles, sorry!

  • @halimawarsame4764
    @halimawarsame4764 2 года назад

    You two Masha Allah are a very nice couple may Allah protect you ...I wish you would stop adding music to ur background cuz it is Haram and we will hear u both better with no music

  • @globalshift8382
    @globalshift8382 4 года назад +1

    🎁🎁🎁🎁 God bless you guys more 💐💐💐💐

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Thanks!

  • @krn.cvlogs6053
    @krn.cvlogs6053 4 года назад

    same here i dont need gift only wishes

  • @YasminMahnaz
    @YasminMahnaz 3 года назад

    So what do you guys do on that day? I don't like eating cake. O try fruit looking like cake or coconut or jibne halawet i want. I want get my kid sushi as cake* he loves sushi.so what u guys do or go out eat?

  • @pradelelien3267
    @pradelelien3267 4 года назад

    Jummuah Mubarak

  • @elisaflores7080
    @elisaflores7080 3 года назад

    Oh noooo...I love 💕 gifts...

  • @Tiaremoorea13
    @Tiaremoorea13 4 года назад

    I am not really into gifting as well

  • @mmohammed3393
    @mmohammed3393 2 года назад

    We hope that your videos don’t contain music

  • @Laurengfan
    @Laurengfan 4 года назад +1

    Love from iraq a7la noha ❤

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Aww thanksss ❤️

  • @imanemorjane6748
    @imanemorjane6748 4 года назад

    May Allah bless you 😇 love from Morocco

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад +1

      Thank you! May Allah bless you too, I LOVEEE Morocco!

    • @imanemorjane6748
      @imanemorjane6748 4 года назад

      @@noha You are absolutely welcome in my country, once the
      epidemic is done inchaAllah

  • @0RiCeBuBbLeZ0
    @0RiCeBuBbLeZ0 4 года назад +2

    Oh so no gifting policy for occasions

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Yeah we do not gift on occasions, just cause it's his birthday I don't just buy something that he doesn't need just to get him a gift. We wait till there is something we want and we get it right when we want.

  • @azadkhuri4991
    @azadkhuri4991 4 года назад

    Flowers once in a while??????

  • @shubenakawunde8932
    @shubenakawunde8932 4 года назад

    Maashallah..

  • @subrinakaif6794
    @subrinakaif6794 4 года назад

    Keep going sis

  • @mariagibson6225
    @mariagibson6225 3 года назад

    Love ýou two

  • @aneesaaaaaa
    @aneesaaaaaa 4 года назад

    I am the same!

  • @pradelelien3267
    @pradelelien3267 4 года назад

    😍❤

  • @safiahamed6747
    @safiahamed6747 4 года назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Fariyalee
    @Fariyalee 4 года назад

    🧿

  • @nuhamiley3128
    @nuhamiley3128 4 года назад

    Do you buy yourself presents?

  • @pradelelien3267
    @pradelelien3267 4 года назад

  • @_Sakina_1
    @_Sakina_1 4 года назад +1

    "Don't show this video to your husband, or he'll hate you 🤣"
    Really? A bit arrogant there, don't ya think luv.

    • @supersleepymedic
      @supersleepymedic 4 года назад +1

      I’m sure my husband wouldn’t want ME to see this video. He loves getting gifts from me. Before kids we always travelled for birthdays but these days that would be the most expensive type of gift. It’s nice to see Noha and hubby enjoying gifting each other these types of gifts 💕 no shame in labelling it 😊

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Haha I didn’t think of it as arrogant, just thought it was funny 😄

    • @noha
      @noha  4 года назад

      Yes, traveling is my favorite gift but it can’t get expensive and hard to do plan with time off. It’s my fav cause experiences last with me longer than any material item. But I still like my stuff! That’s so cute he likes to gift you stuff ❤️

  • @IKY94Zac
    @IKY94Zac 4 года назад +1

    4:50

  • @shevsch8108
    @shevsch8108 4 года назад

    😍😍

  • @tahakazem2256
    @tahakazem2256 4 года назад

    Can I find a wife that thinks like that