HOW TO HAVE CALM CONFIDENCE.

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • In this video, I share some insight on how you develop a calm confidence and be more comfortable in your own skin.
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Комментарии • 83

  • @malakqueen9895
    @malakqueen9895 8 лет назад +60

    Wow I love this, I'm a Muslim girl and I feel very odd when I go out everyone just stares at me because I'm wearing a hijab and dressed very modest. Even when I talk to people they give me this vibe that I'm different. But like you said embrace it and accept that not everyone is going to like because it can be so exhausting! Thank you! Your videos help me a lot.

    • @alishaanimations3058
      @alishaanimations3058 2 года назад +5

      I WANT TO BE A CALM MUSLIM GIRL TOO!
      My number one phrase is “Put your trust in Allah.”

  • @aiyeesia364
    @aiyeesia364 6 лет назад +11

    I feel especially pulled to this video. I’ve always excelled at many things when I was younger and I felt absolutely threatened when this girl showed up from nowhere. Everyone’s attention turned to her because she was better than me in every aspect in school. Prettier, more interesting, more charming and charismatic. I was torn so I gave up everything that I loved doing and moved schools. I feel pathetic even now but I’m trying to get myself sorted out before university. I realise it wasn’t her that was my problem. It was my excessive self-pity and zero self-confidence that brought me down. Anyway, I feel much better watching your video. New subscriber! ☺️💖

  • @darianajimenez3081
    @darianajimenez3081 8 лет назад +13

    A few things: -I needed to watch this video. -I like your new haircut! You look fresh. - I love your contribution to our world.
    Thanks for sharing your positivity. :)

  • @TheNicoliyah
    @TheNicoliyah 8 лет назад +7

    I can't imagine who would dislike you. One if my favourite qualities about myself is that I am really really open minded and I can really empathise with people. As a result my friends know that they can tell me anything and I won't judge them

  • @ftoommozb6386
    @ftoommozb6386 3 года назад +3

    Don't treat every single word you hear from others as if it does identify you. Thanks for your conference ... Great video.. 👍🌹

  • @ericagoehring1089
    @ericagoehring1089 8 лет назад +27

    When I was growing up, I didn't like the dimples in my cheeks because they drew so much attention from everyone. Then I got my wisdom teeth out, and while I was numb, my dimples disappeared! I didn't look like myself! That experience made me love my dimples. I am so glad that two of my kids have them, too.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  8 лет назад +2

      Thank you for sharing, Erica :) It's so beautiful that you can see that trait that you love in your children ♥

    • @Lemon1705
      @Lemon1705 8 лет назад +4

      Your comment made me smile 😊 my boyfriend has got dimples and I hope up our kids will have them later too ☺️

    • @true4585
      @true4585 2 года назад

      It really is that way. Appreciate yourself as you are.

  • @sanneskar1
    @sanneskar1 8 лет назад +3

    Love your videos so much! You seem to be such a nice person and I love your personality! xx

  • @Dariadaria
    @Dariadaria 8 лет назад

    One of the best videos I have ever seen here on RUclips. Thank you Melissa!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  8 лет назад

      Thank you! ♥ I'm glad you enjoyed it :) I hope you're having a great weekend! xx

  • @AnokinaShahbaz
    @AnokinaShahbaz 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this video and for breaking down the attributes of calm confidence. Can you please do a video on how to stop caring what others think so much and get past needing everyone to like you? This is something I have struggled with forever and would love your input and how you got past it. thanks so much!

  • @sunisteph
    @sunisteph 8 лет назад +1

    Such an awesome video and I really enjoy how articulate you are for presenting your ideas. I loved this video! thank you Melissa!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  8 лет назад

      Thank you so much! That's such a nice compliment... I appreciate it :)

  • @helendanakis3078
    @helendanakis3078 8 лет назад

    I really enjoy your videos Melissa. It's as if you take all my inner thoughts and find a way to express them in a way i struggle to do. You are a truly inspiring person!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  8 лет назад

      Aww..thank you for saying that, Helen! It's great to know that the love I'm putting out there is being received :) I'm glad you enjoy the videos ♥

  • @inspiredliving7410
    @inspiredliving7410 8 лет назад +2

    great message, lets learn to embrace who we truly are not what we are trying to be.

  • @simranbafna
    @simranbafna 7 лет назад +2

    Excellent!! It feels so good to listen to you. Thanks a lot :)

  • @Animegorly
    @Animegorly 8 лет назад

    Love this topic! Thank you so much for sharing. It's so important to accept who we are and embrace our own flaws.

  • @mohammadsaneen9729
    @mohammadsaneen9729 5 лет назад

    Ty for saying these words inspired me a lot

  • @SenseAGHam
    @SenseAGHam 5 лет назад +2

    This helped thank you

  • @mariaocampo7240
    @mariaocampo7240 8 лет назад +2

    I needed this kind of advice

  • @hannahsmith9611
    @hannahsmith9611 8 лет назад

    Love you Melissa. You've changed my life.

  • @kriselvis4890
    @kriselvis4890 3 года назад

    This is the confidence I desire

  • @rachaelturner8946
    @rachaelturner8946 8 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this video

  • @Poizonshorts
    @Poizonshorts 4 года назад

    I like all you said. Very useful to me. God bless you!

  • @diverstalent
    @diverstalent 8 лет назад

    Thank you, Melissa!

  • @rubyomaraholt
    @rubyomaraholt 6 лет назад

    This video helped me so much, thank you ❤️

  • @barbm2375
    @barbm2375 8 лет назад

    Excellent information!! Thank you so much for sharing this 😘

  • @dosaysun
    @dosaysun 8 лет назад

    thank you for this very helpful video! you made may day:)
    I'm japanese and I wish there were japanese version of your helpful videos.
    I'm sure this video and your other videos can help a lot of japanese people too...

  • @venkateshsubbaramu4303
    @venkateshsubbaramu4303 6 лет назад

    words of wisdom

  • @varinderlitt2305
    @varinderlitt2305 8 лет назад

    awesome video! sometimes we just need a reminder

  • @carmelomedina7956
    @carmelomedina7956 5 лет назад

    Thanks Melissa This video is great hope you have a good 1 :)

  • @CetWithNobeans
    @CetWithNobeans 6 лет назад

    You just made me a Better me thanks

  • @katestyle22
    @katestyle22 8 лет назад

    GREAT VIDEO!

  • @louisesimply8756
    @louisesimply8756 8 лет назад

    Wonderful Video! Thank You:)

  • @DanielofSparta
    @DanielofSparta 7 лет назад

    You are a bad ass. Thank you

  • @deathbreach3448
    @deathbreach3448 4 года назад

    Mind clearing 🤔

  • @chellycat14
    @chellycat14 Год назад

    This is great and I like the advice. But I feel like it's probably a lot easier for a woman like you who is conventionally attractive to say these things than a woman like me who is ugly and not conventionally attractive. :(

  • @axelsprangare2579
    @axelsprangare2579 3 года назад +2

    A narcissist makes you think your quirks are your flaws and then destroy your sense of identity.

  • @ZoeyArielle
    @ZoeyArielle 8 лет назад +2

    Great video Melissa :) I always love hearing your thoughts! You're so refreshing!

  • @jesseenixon1692
    @jesseenixon1692 4 года назад +1

    unless your in Real estate. I have to prove myself and sell yourself to get a client. I am like you, where I enjoy non judgemental peaceful genuine people and I find it hard in this business. I have not found my place yet.

    • @ringotheshiba8284
      @ringotheshiba8284 4 года назад +1

      How are you doing now?
      I am getting into real estate but do not see myself like I could sell myself.
      I think about a calm confidence as being a trait that people would like.
      I remember meeting calm people and just wanting to be around them

  • @thewellsoul8879
    @thewellsoul8879 8 лет назад +2

    I always your sit down talks but this one especially spoke to me :)

  • @giladeliezer9604
    @giladeliezer9604 Год назад

    Thank you you helped me a lot

  • @carmelomedina2386
    @carmelomedina2386 6 лет назад +1

    Great video thanks I found it to be very helpful

  •  8 лет назад +1

    That was helpful thank you ! As for you last question, for me I like the fact that I can play drums and sing (I have many videos of that on my channel).

  • @natalielabarga8605
    @natalielabarga8605 8 лет назад +1

    Just found you on RUclips and I love your videos & your lifestyle. Thank you for making these videos, it really does show a different perspective on life that I don't have but am striving for.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  8 лет назад

      Thanks, Natalie :) I'm glad you enjoyed the video. xx I hope you have a great week!

  • @musiclover3493
    @musiclover3493 7 лет назад +1

    "Part of my experience" really spoke to me. Subscribed! :)

  • @maciejka8675
    @maciejka8675 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this video. I love you ❤

  • @worldexplorer2024
    @worldexplorer2024 8 лет назад +1

    Girl!. As you know I fully support you but do you have a job? It seems that you have time to make videos almost everyday!

  • @nothingserious3626
    @nothingserious3626 8 лет назад

    What drives you to this conclusion...cause it was quite helpful to me as I am a kind of a crowd pleaser and it end up burning me back.I fear I might become a introvert if I become calm confident.thanks

  • @srm4802
    @srm4802 Год назад

    I genuinely love this❤️

  • @jadeelizaishere
    @jadeelizaishere 8 лет назад

    Do you know your Myers-Briggs personality type, Melissa?

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  8 лет назад

      I took the test a while ago, but I didn't write down what my type was.. I'll take it again ;)

  • @slew4447
    @slew4447 8 лет назад

    love your inspirational positivity it radiates from the inside out 😊 thank you for taking the time to make these videos have a wonderful day 🙃

  • @bellarapanaro7054
    @bellarapanaro7054 8 лет назад

    i love your vid :)