I feel ugly • Sad Multifandom
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Here's a little vid about how broken and insecure girls can feel. Everyone needs to know that they're amazing and beautiful and worth it! It is hard to be an teenager and a girl, but at the end of the day we're all not so different from each other. Love yourself because you are worth it!
It is a spoken word poem called the girl behind the mask.
i just wish i could believe i was beautiful. i am my worst enemy.
You are the definition of beauty
You’re beautiful
You are all so beautiful 😭❤️
You are tho
We are all our worst enemies. But u need to know that you are not only beautiful, you are drop dead gorgeous! God makes beauty, and that’s what you are
The problem isn’t just feeling ugly, Is being ugly..
Exactly
Yes...
Me too 😔🤮
Couldn't explain it better I always see videos saying that you shouldn't say call yourself ugly and they all say the same old crap and I don't believe it anyway so if I don't believe it it's probably very true I'm ugly...
jup
The worst part is when you realise the girl behind the mask is you :'(
stay strong
Hayley Rogers I have never related to a comment so much
Yep
fake smiles and broken insecurities if only i was dead...😭
Hayley Rogers this gave me goosebumps
Worst enemies :
Mirror
Camera
Reflection
No One don’t forget yourself
No l'm just ugly, mirror and camera only showed me the truth
Social media
Selma Bai your not ugly, we just live in a Judge mental Society.
True , it’s also mine enemies
people tell me i’m pretty but we all know their lying smh
livatrix dazed.legacy I feel the same sis. It's so hard to accept myself. And it's really hard when I give that power away to a boy who I believe will help me with loving myself but it somehow gets messed up. 🙄 Sigh..oh well. We have to try to love our selves without them
no one tells me im pretty and that already proves why
Same
stine watson you’re pretty ❤️💕
olivia moon you’re pretty 🥰😘 don’t ever think that they are lying when they tell u that. You could be the prettiest person they’ve met and they mean it! 💕💗 don’t lose confidence in yourself girl! ❤️ if u need someone to talk to I’m here :)
If only i could lie to my self and say im pretty but i can't because everyone is pretty except me!!
1). Im insecure
2). Im not confident
3). ...
3) you’re beautiful
4) you’re a child of God
5) you have strength to go on through the day
6) you are just amazing the way u are
I’m so glad!!🤗 all I said is completely true you know!!
@@lizgruenloh8467 child of what!!? God dosn't have a child ! +💜
But i don't make people smile...
I don't make anyone's day better,
I have no friends to help them when they need me.
I'm just alone.
Well you've me feel a little better since I now know at least someone's felt the same way as me. I guess we're aren't totally alone
aye allie yh i agree
You have me too 💕 I love you sis. Please stay strong. ☮️
Me too
I’m here for you❤️❤️
I told my boyfriend about my depression eating disorder and cutting..... Then I showed him this video.. He held my hand hugged me tight and told me that he is here for me and that everything will be okay... It was a beautiful moment..
dang you’re a lucky one 💖
I hope you‘ll be fine
Keep him... xx
you're so lucky. I have trust issues because of my ex. when i told my ex about these things he yelled at me, asking why the hell im telling him these things. then he would completely brush me off whenever I felt depressed or sad and upset, and change the topic to something sexual. he'd send me dismissing emojis or completely ignore me sometimes. when we broke up he went on saying that I didn't give a shit about him. I think it was the other way around. that relationship wasn't very cute.
@@pureangelsweet I am sorry that this happend to you. And yeah it's sucks being yelled etc. You are beautiful and so is everyone.
"that what they see as shy is in fact the feeling of lonely "😭
i am not shy or lonely , i am just a girl who is hiding behind a mask pretending to be ok , pretending to be happy and suffering in silence cause she feels so ugly and can't accept how she looks anymore .
Every time. Every single time when I go out I hide behind my mum or stay close to her because I’m afraid of people judging or thinking that I’m ugly. When I was younger I’ve always wanted to go by myself in shopping centres. But now that I’m older, I realised how ugly I am. I can never do anything out in public by myself because I’m so so ugly and afraid. Every time when I go out or even just a walk around the block I get so nervous on what people think of me, driving by in their cars staring at how ugly I am. I just hope I die. I really do. I’m just too depressed and not motivated to do anything. My grades are terrible.
I know that people judge because on all most every RUclips or Instagram video people are always judging on how someone looks. I know what people think.
Lizzy Wolf, I don’t think you know what I think... I think people star at you because of your beauty. They can’t get enough of it! I understand where you’re coming from, and just know, I’m here for you no matter what! Oh also... love the name😉
guys can feel it too, - it’s okay to feel that way. it’s sad, but just because you are male doesn’t mean your feelings are any less valuable.
I know you have value your feelings have Value just because your a boy doesn’t mean your head has less value everyone’s hearts beat the same❤️
When you realize that girl is you but you cant help yourself when its your own mind killing you. Your mind that makes you blind. Your mind that destroys you
Wow, Relate so much I dont know what to say...all I can do is feel it. Heartbreakingly beautiful...or beautifully heart breaking...
my mind already has and I refuse to rake anymore anxiety and depression meds , they only makes things worse . my cat zoey is my ray of sunshine and happiness. the day I lose her is the day I lose myself 💔💔💔
it already has and i've learned to live around it and with it , cause the world and it's people are cruel and harsh
it already has for most of my young life and my young adult life even now and going onwards ,i don't like how i look because what i see is this girl who feels so ugly , alienated , the black sheep in the family , the loner , it hurts me but i can't say it cause my cousins , aunts and uncles don't get it or understand just how much i am dying on the inside and am about to break apart
going to lebanon for vacation this coming summer . but with how disgusted and hateful i feel towards my looks and weight makes me want to hide in my room and cry without feeling anything ... i can't even feel somewhat excited or joyous about going on vacation ... all my fam there will see is fake smiles , forced laughter and giggles and nobody will see or hear the emotionless silent tears falling behind closed doors
i wan‘t to be perfect.. i only hate myself..
Same
This is so beautiful.. I have no words
Thank you so much! That's very sweet xx
When you act....
Nice,funny.....
The girl Behind the mask always helps...
When she needs helps nobody helps her....
I'm one of the girl behind the mask...
Dark and light, I am too... I’m here for u! We all love u and appreciate u!
I hate it... I've always felt I was the only one and all of my friends could easily be themselves, and move on and get things done easily, and know what they want to do with their life. I was always happy until 8th grade. It's been so hard ever since 8th grade. It's like one second I'm fine and I love myself, them the next my mind doubts me.
Its very normal to feel that way, but trust me ur beautiful just the way you are. Dont compare urself to other girls cuz u have something no one does, you're you. U got thissss. And if u ever need someone to talk to, Im here. And my insta is @heyitsarah (not accepting requests atm but feel free to dm me)
Don’t ever let anyone make you feel less in anyway. You know how amazing you are to be able to tell people you don’t even know all of this?! You are strong you are beautiful don’t ever let anyone ever tell you or make you feel otherwise!
It’s hard a lot of the times but it always gets better always just know that. Please don’t ever try to be someone else please don’t ever be unhappy with yourself. People you want to be like have the same issues sometimes have it worse but are better at hiding it. When it comes down to it if you had the chance to change places with these people you really wouldn’t do it. They have problems everyone does. Don’t ever compare yourself to anyone. Be happy with who you are and that will come with age, and that’s ok. Everyday think of something you like about yourself and then tell it to yourself. I can already tell you that you are strong and amazing. Please tell yourself. You are gorgeous. Please tell yourself
Don’t let your mind go there. When you start to feel that insecure feeling don’t think about it. Don’t let your mind think that, don’t feed into it. Stop it and tell yourself all the wonderful things you are.
Thank you guys so much💖💖💖
maemae bee I really hope you see how truly amazing you are! Please please never let anyone make you feel a different way. No one says life is easy but it is full of happy wonderful times and really hard times. You will get through this.
I burst out into tears when he said "it's as if she's blind to how happy she makes everyone. Puts a smile on the face of a person feeling down"
some days, i think i look pretty. and i feel pretty too. but then it’s just one glance in the mirror or one picture that ruins it all and makes me want to lock myself in my room and never come out again.
The mirror and camera is my number one enemy 😕. Everyday i always try to avoid looking into the mirror bc i know the fact that i’ll just feel ugly and judge myself again. I try to smile and be confident, but whenever i see other girls that looks pretty or have good body. I know that i shouldn’t feel ashamed of my own looks and body. I should be confident of who i am. But that’s the only difficult thing i always have to go through everyday. I can’t even make an eye contact to other people while walking. If you see me walking, you might just see me as a normal person walking, but deep inside me i start to overthink and judge myself. It hurts and i hate it. I always wear a mask. People see me as a happy person because i hide my sadness, anger and so on behind my mask, but once i take my mask off. You’ll start to see tears dripping down my eyes.
I know how difficult it is because I'm not really pretty myself but since I've been wearing clothes that I like and taken care of myself I started to feel more confident and it works. Trust me. Confidence is the key.
easier said than done , i'll be confident the day others and society stops being an absolute piece of rubbish and judgemental hypocritical jerks
This fits me so damn well that it just breaks my heart 💔
But im a guy and i feel like this?
Same
A lot of people think that this is just a teenage girl thing but its not, depression or anxiety can hit anyone
Jordon Taylor stay strong, it’s gonna get better.
You are the boy behind the mask. Eighter get rid of the mask and be happy or just make sure the mask looks good
Stay strong
I am ugly by my face, study, habit, skin, body, everything
I am in hell💔
Make a video like this, but with what society defines as "ugly" girls, and see how much support you get then.
Exactly! Ugh
Honestly
Yeah..
Star me :>
it's exactly describe what inside me really it made me cry ........
hajar chahidi I'm here for you stay strong 💛
Always when I feel sad and nobody understand me I watch videos like this these keeps me realised I’m not alone with that troughs and feeling
It sucks when your skinny friend calls themself fat🙄😭🥺
i think im fat when im underweight its body dysmorphia and it sucks so be there for ur friends who obviously going through things
Sad reality ... 💧
everyone in this video is so pretty 😍☺️ be positive girls❤️
I have binge eating disorder. My self esteem plummeted when my father told me I would look prettier if I had a different nose, a different chin, different cheeks and different eyes. I was a child. When my own grandmother told me I should lose weight, since I had extra skin on my chin. I was a child. When I was bullied for extra fat I didn’t have. I was a child.
You so pretty omg💕😻
The girl behind the mask is beautiful too. Even though your hurting all those broken parts will come together and make something gorgeous! And one day the girl behind the mask will see the sunshine and smile 😊
Everyone doesn't care whether if I'm alive or dead. They might even be happier to get this ugly burden away
It’s hard trying to put up a fight everyday when all you think about is wanting to ending it all.
I feel like the people that look the happiest and confident are the saddest because they try to hide the fact that there unperfected
People need to get out of their heads to feel beautiful. Ignore people
Those are extremely beautiful words...but it's easier said than actually done. It takes a lot of time and patience and strength. It's not just a walk through the park...
The fact that we all cried the hell out while watching this video...
I can feel the sadness and hurt in the guy's voice...
Thank u for all the nice comments :) I’m better now, thanks to most of u💓✌️ You all are amazing. Ily! Everyone who tells u That ur useless...THEY ARE WRONG! And please believe me :) YOU ARE AMAZING. YOU ARE LOVED💓😭
Mia Plumley ☹️
xxsad1572 How did u find me???😂
Mia Plumley was just searching for edits like this and you came up in most when i went in comments
Mia Plumley I dont hate you :)
Life With Hannah I suffer from MAJOR anxiety 2 but I’m better thank u :)
Feeling this way hits different when you’re actually not attractive
WOW , THIS WAS SO BEAUTIFUL AND RELATABLE 💕❤️😪
this makes my heart ache this made me realize i can love myself and be happy
but im very very sure its not today or sooner
Quarintine made me happy. I know it was the opposite for most people but my mental health improved i was happy and didnt compare myself. Im starting to see my friends again and its like all the pain i used to feel is flooding back and i just dont wanna feel like that every day again. Im the ugly friend, so that means even though im seeing my friends again its actually making me worse. The comparing and compulsory need to be perfect is back and im just not good enough.
the mask i wear is 1 of happiness and positive emotions , but that's just a cover for the hard truth and emotional storm that's raging inside my brain and soul . i am not pessimistic i am a realist and can see things for what they are and to deal with it accordingly
My favourite video from YT. It´s so beautiful, deep, and accurate. I love it.
i’ve been told i was bEaUtIfuL my whole life and then the days someone didn’t tell me i was pretty i was automatically hideous so the other people telling you are pretty can be quite toxic in my opinion
Lets admit it. The accent makes this spoken word poem a million times better.
(and I'm paying attention to it to distract myself from the pain of the realization that I'm the girl behind the mask. I admit that too.)
I hate that there’s this stereotype that girls are the ones suffering with issues like this. There’s no movies or shows that show males struggling with these feelings and it’s stupid.
'When will you realize that you don't have to be so emo and depressed?' I have I just can't stop. This is my body and my emotions you can not change what I think of myself.
I make people smile...
I make people laugh...
I make people feel good about them selves...
But at the end I am fake I am not the girl who people see everyday going around joking and being a fool... I am that girl behind a mask. I don’t talk about my problems cause there is nobody to help me even though I have really good friendships... I don’t even bring them up because I know amma get no comfort. My friend is always like “you make me laugh when I am having a bad day ur really funny too I say mhm... but at the same time I am also having a bad day but I don’t bother telling people about my problems🥀
Today a girl I considered a friend told me “no boys like you they all hate you and never talk to you because they think you’re weird and you need to accept the fact your weird and no boys like you”
I feel like no boy will ever like me💔
You don’t need a boy, fuck them. Your the only one that should want yourself and your opinion about yourself is the only thing that matters.
Relatble 🥺😖
I just realized that all the perfect pretty girls call themselves ugly..but they're everything i wish i was..
This is so true but it's beautiful
All these girls in this video. They are so beautiful. I am watching this video to feel less lonely but I don't think theres anyone in this world who is ugly like me
The audio to this videp is amazing. Good job.,
What if I told you i'm a *guy* behind the mask :(
Then you need to tell yourself the same; just replace "girl" with "guy".
You still have the same pain, youd just replace the words that say girl with guy in your head
I am the girl behind the mask. And it's killing me day by day this insecurities, fear of people looking at me the way I look at myself. People realizing I am nothing but a sad soul. I really can't remember the last time I was happy wholeheartedly. Pretending around people like I am. No one noticing that this girl is dying day by day. Always being in my room whole day, with the constant fear of people hating me for the way I am.
I have no words. It's so beautiful.
Great speech! Thank you for the video)
I don’t feel ugly, I AM ugly. 😞
What I feel like when doing simple tasks like going into a store going out the feeling of just not fitting in or feeling ugly uncomfortable disgusting unloved not wanted is a dark feeling that many of us feel it’s hard it really really is I kinda feel lost in away
once, that was in school, a classmate said for fun that another classmate could be with me. then he said "have you ever seen what she looks like" but that was not the only thing, i tried to make fun with a boy and said "what do you want, give it back to me!" because he just took something away. then he said "what do you want from me? have you ever looked at yourself? you are ugly" that really hurt me a lot...
i'm the girl behind the mask.. help me please.. no one cares.
Lauren T I'm here for you stay strong 💛
Stay strong:) I understand u
I care! I really do! I’m the girl behind the mask as well. We care for each other! I will always care about u!
I hated myself all my life, It all started when i was 16 yrs old, and now am 29..
i hate when people tell me im beautiful,cause i know im not,no one can make me feel better
I don't even live when someone saying " you are pretty " cause I know they are lying ☹️
Wanting to be happy doesn't even sound right anymore at this point
This is literally me bc now its 2020 and now I have to wear a mask to school and I feel ugly when I take it off.
Nobody was perfect. Not even close. And everybody had wrinkles from smiling and squinting and craining their necks. Everybody has marks on their bodies from years of living- a trail of life left on them. Evidence of all the adventures and sleepless nights and practical jokes and heartbreaks that had made them who they are.There is no better people-watching than at the airport: the whole world packed into such a tight space, moving fast with all their essentials in their rolling bags. And what caught my attention, as I took a few breaths and lay my eyes on the crowds, were all the imperfections. Everybody had them. Every single person that walked past me had some kind of flaw. Bushy eyebrows, moles, flared nostrils, crooked teeth, crows'-feet, hunched backs, dowagers' humps, double chins, floppy earlobes, nose hairs, potbellies, scars, nicotine stains, upper arm fat, trick knees, saddlebags, collapsed arches, bruises, warts, puffy eyes, pimples. Nobody was perfect. Not even close. And everybody had wrinkles from smiling and squinting and craning their necks. Everybody had marks on their bodies from years of living - a trail of life left on them, evidence of all the adventures and sleepless nights and practical jokes and heartbreaks that had made them who they were.
In that moment, I suddenly loved us all the more for our flaws, for being broken and human, for being embarrassed and lonely, for being hopeful or tired or disappointed or sick or brave or angry. For being who we were, for making the world interesting. It was a good reminder that the human condition is imperfection. And that's how it's supposed to be.
But it really hurts when I see how other girls are so pretty ,cute, happy when I see them I smile and ask myself why I can't look pretty like them
I wish I can give everyone in this comment section lots of hugs
The person, them, they* girls aren’t the only ones who feel this way
I’m the girl behind the mask, because I don’t want anyone to feel my pain... so I try to make sure no one does... but, no one really returns the favor that often... at least I know that they won’t feel like this🤗
I get that, take time for yourself and take breaks. Its important to love ourselves just as much as we love others
The problem has never been anyone calling me ugly. It’s me knowing I am
And when people say your Ugly in a photo it infuriates me. If I’m not ugly then what the hell do I look like cause i am ugly in that
I honestly just want to be able to feel good about myself without any beating me down about my body....
I know I'm ugly and fat but my friends are lying to me every time I say that. Stop lying sometimes lies can hurt more than the true
The love of my life said he won't continue dating me until I recover from my depression...but he's the only reason I want to keep living
the best thing about the vedio is that its narrated by a boy!! and he is talking about girl pain
I never thought my insicurities would hit me😔but it did🥺and I hate feeling insicure 🥺I just wished I was perfect beautiful like other girls 😔I look in the mirror and I tell myself I'm ugly I'm fat😔and it hurts me saying it🥺but it's the truth 😔I hate showing my face on everything 🥺 everything 🥺I'll never be perfect 😔I want to feel what it feels to be beautiful perfect 😔🥺
I never really cared how i looked though i was insecure almost my whole like for how i look but i stopped caring about people judging me until my 10 years of boyfriend called me ugly. He used to say that all the time but i thought he was just joking around and i just ignored him but when we got into an intense argument he called me ugly over and over again right on my face and it just broke my heart.
i hate that every girl in the video is really beautiful, then I feel more ugly
I hate feeling this way, it makes no sense to me. The fact that I've been sad for so long now. And the ppl who just walk away because they get bored of me and my sadness. Till I'm left with nobody, nobody who understands at least... And I'm always the one convincing people of their beauty and worth. But no one even acknowledges what I'm saying when I try to speak about it. Friends say they'll never leave, but they do. Yet I'm still here, why? I'm worthless. So why does it matter anymore?? Nobody cares. So why should I...
I started crying
I just don’t believe the fact someone could ever love me. I hate myself so much everyone around me so beautiful and I want what they have. I even don’t like my personality. I feel so alone and I’m tired faking a smile, I hate my body, face,smile everything. I’m so annoying that it makes me angry!
finally started to feel a tiny bit confident and that’s when people finally treat me like shit for how i look. after i get over my own self hatred:/
but this video made me feel worse because they are all gorgeous girls- and i will never stop being insecure about how pretty madison beer is 😭😭😭😭
I would love to say goodbye to myself....
Im almost a teen but this is always how I feel and am. I hide behind a mask .-.
i cried the whole video😭😭it was so sad
I have one enemy. One person i always fight with. One person that always says to go slit my wrists. One person that always has the right words to make me want to suffer. One person that creates all my pain. One person that can say one mean thing, make me want to end it all. And that one person is me
Hi fellow viewer! I just wanna say your beuteiful or handsome. Your you! Your unique! If anyone can not see that I will be there to remind you. Just remember everyone is different, with different bodies, traits and personalities. Your good enough, your amazing, keep up the good work! Keep your head up, cause I know it will get better for you. Don't let anyone, and I mean anyone tell you your not. Well now that you read that bye! And just remember you are worth more than how many stars there are
I mean....i could say im beautiful and pretty....i really could
But do i really mean it and that's what hurts the most
Everyone's talking about they don't have a boy but for boys get attracted to me just because of my body I tried to talk to my friends n they said 'you are beautiful n u have a great body so, why need to get insecure or depressed? It was the most heartbreaking thing I've ever listened in my life they all liked me just because of my physical appearance not for the person who I really am😔
I'm so sorry, stay strong. There is something worth loving on the inside that someone will see one day
Noelle Baird yeah that's the only reason why I'm holding back everything😊
Reality 😞❤️
If it's really doesn't matter , why people care ?
I understand I think or myself as what I am some people say I'm ugly or gross and some people lie and say I'm preety but I need ed this poem to listen to
Some ppl r messed up, dont listen to them, Ik it feels like what they say is right because a lot of people might say negative stuff at the same time. But ur amazing, ur loved, and Im sure you're beautiful. Stay strong and dont let the ppl get to you
ur still beautiful no matter what anyone says they jealous I'd be happy if I found a girl like u
i like to see the comments here, because that make me feel like a normal person for once
people think i have everything... cause my parents aren’t divorced and i have a big house but what they don’t know is that my mom is never home and my dad stays at the bar. when my parents are home they fight. i get made fun of cause of my weight. i have nobody to tell bc apparently i’m over reacting 💔
This is so beautiful...