don't fade away [to the bone].

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  • @Mel-eg4xs
    @Mel-eg4xs 6 лет назад +3340

    Probably the most important message of that movie:
    "Stop waiting for life to be easy. Stop hoping for somebody to save you. [...] But you are resilient. Face some hard facts and you could have an incredible life."

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад +26

      agree

    • @sesam.koernchen
      @sesam.koernchen 5 лет назад +8

      Absolutely! I have to tell myself that too.

    • @lemongrassbitch945
      @lemongrassbitch945 5 лет назад +11

      I guess my mindset is the opposite because im the only one whose ever done anything and I want someone to actually do something for me for once

    • @Mel-eg4xs
      @Mel-eg4xs 4 года назад +1

      @@lemongrassbitch945 I know that Feeling. I had to grow up very early in my life. I was Always the one looking Out for everyone. Everyone except me. But I Started to Care for my self and treat me better. Now I'm stronger and healthier. Life is so much better when you live yourself and Not Just for others

    • @ava198
      @ava198 4 года назад +13

      Why is it wrong to want someone to save you? When no one ever did when you were little.. why does someone always have to be strong.. or perfect.. strong.. why cant it be okay to be scared and to ache for someone to give you what you never felt and ached for before..

  • @amelpoulin2714
    @amelpoulin2714 6 лет назад +2250

    I need more movies and shows about anorexia

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад +102

      yeah it should be more talked about

    • @beige6003
      @beige6003 5 лет назад +106

      Watch Skins and Red band society.

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  5 лет назад +104

      love them. but honestly speaking red band society isn’t so much about anorexia. I think this theme is not fully developed there.

    • @dianahoran6010
      @dianahoran6010 5 лет назад +35

      There's Wintergirls- it's a book but it's really good.

    • @ashletash
      @ashletash 5 лет назад +29

      there’s a film called feed, it’s good imo

  • @megansan2070
    @megansan2070 4 года назад +309

    You know it’s bad when you go back to watching these videos....

  • @natashambrooker123
    @natashambrooker123 6 лет назад +1458

    I need a therapist like that dude, he is so cool and just so real about things I love him!

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад +40

      hope you are okay
      all my love

    • @natashambrooker123
      @natashambrooker123 4 года назад +4

      @sleepwalking hey! I only just saw your response, I’ve been through a lot with my mental health and it’s been rough but I’m doing very well and I now have my own RUclips channel called Hopeful Living

    • @Lazlsloth
      @Lazlsloth 4 года назад +9

      When I was in the state hospital I had a therapist exactly like him and he was amazing and so real!! I miss him tbh...and the funny thing is is that when I watched this movie and then ended up in the hospital I thought he was the dude in the movie. I got scared cause even tho he was chill he was also VERY honest and straight to the point but in a weirdly caring way....he would always stop me when talking to point out thinking errors and how it wasn’t all my fault! In conclusion the man was so amazing, funny, caring, and sometimes brutally honest person...(sorry for the vent 😅 he was just a lot like the therapist guy in the movie)

    • @ok-yu9fo
      @ok-yu9fo 3 года назад

      omfg but frr tho 😭😭

    • @bluegrape6412
      @bluegrape6412 3 года назад +2

      We all need Keanu

  • @ellie-uj6cj
    @ellie-uj6cj 5 лет назад +638

    i’ve learned not to say “i’m fine” bc when you say “i’m good” or “i’m okay” or “i’m doing great” they believe you

  • @MuchachoSauce
    @MuchachoSauce 7 лет назад +1183

    "I'm fine." One of the biggest, if not the biggest, lie I tell people..even the ones closest to my heart.

    • @saltydinonuggies1841
      @saltydinonuggies1841 6 лет назад +3

      Idiot Nidiot Theat's why Ellen's sister responds that hundreds of people who were about to die said the exact same thing. Homestly, this movie has so many good points that people just ignored... it makes me kinda sad that everyone focused on the problems with it, instead of the good...

    • @shandiwarren6454
      @shandiwarren6454 6 лет назад +2

      Hey, I really hope you're okay. If you want to talk, I'm here.

    • @MuchachoSauce
      @MuchachoSauce 5 лет назад

      shandi warren thank you Shandi. I hope you’re okay as well.

    • @AndyStarrrr
      @AndyStarrrr 4 года назад +3

      ESPECIALLY the ones closest to my heart.

    • @MuchachoSauce
      @MuchachoSauce 4 года назад

      Ily folks

  • @somer4531
    @somer4531 5 лет назад +575

    i love to the bone. it shows anorexia is not just about being scared of gaining weight. it’s scared of consuming food, touching it, smelling it, and being around it. it doesn’t deserve the hate it gets.

    • @alexismcfarland2486
      @alexismcfarland2486 3 года назад +26

      for me i liked the feeling of being empty everywhere. im in recovering and some days are hard but man im kicking its assssss

    • @lenadelrey9
      @lenadelrey9 Год назад

      ​@@alexismcfarland2486you can do it 💪

  • @bluewithashadeofpink8730
    @bluewithashadeofpink8730 6 лет назад +1582

    "you look like a ghost" ... that's my mum's voice, when I was fading away.

  • @holybiebahyt
    @holybiebahyt 6 лет назад +760

    The quality of this is unreal

  • @itsnotabaddick4282
    @itsnotabaddick4282 6 лет назад +3735

    I don't get why this movie got so much critica, it's not glamorizing these disorders, it's actually about recovery and her journey towards it.

  • @belladalessandro8160
    @belladalessandro8160 5 лет назад +2967

    Sad thing is i watch these to trigger me

  • @haleigh2007
    @haleigh2007 4 года назад +90

    "ok then eat" " *i eat* " that's when i burst out crying.

  • @xxewolvesxx2652
    @xxewolvesxx2652 7 лет назад +871

    4:34 oh man, that girl who played Emma in RBS is in this movie too!? Jeeze, seems to be a reoccuring role for her....

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  7 лет назад +122

      god yeah!
      i didn't expect to see her in this film and in this kind of role (btw im the fan of rbs) but here we are

    • @xxewolvesxx2652
      @xxewolvesxx2652 7 лет назад +46

      yeah right? I loved RBS though, it was incredible as a series... would you know who plays the sister of Ellen?

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  7 лет назад +22

      liana liberato ;)

    • @lcrawford133
      @lcrawford133 6 лет назад +99

      I think I read somewhere that all the actors & actresses who played these roles have struggled and or still do struggle with eating disorders

    • @Jabeljou
      @Jabeljou 6 лет назад +78

      i've kinda noticed that when casting directors want to film a character who looks, in this case unhealthily thin, it's a lot cheaper and less time consuming to use actors who already look closer to the part or can get to a goal in a shorter amount of time and i think that's why she was in rbs and to the bone

  • @forgotsomething4995
    @forgotsomething4995 5 лет назад +172

    The scene when the mom said she was okay with letting her go fucked me up because I had a similar conversation with my dad at my worst and he’s not usually the feelings type of guy but he was just shaking and I realized just how much me hurting hurt him

  • @alanarose767
    @alanarose767 3 года назад +75

    Okay but the rain scene was amazing, it was soo powerful and when Luke said “because we’re alive” omgg

  • @LetsStopThisSong
    @LetsStopThisSong 5 лет назад +112

    this edit was done so well it makes the movie seem better than it was

  • @julesgainey9677
    @julesgainey9677 5 лет назад +90

    I wish I wasn’t so fascinated by this movie, but I just LOVED it.

  • @gracefullmess
    @gracefullmess 6 лет назад +500

    Seriously this is better than the movie

    • @claireb3004
      @claireb3004 6 лет назад +1

      gracefull mess agree

    • @ashak.videodiaries755
      @ashak.videodiaries755 6 лет назад

      lmao right

    • @mmistletoe10
      @mmistletoe10 6 лет назад

      gracefull mess what’s the movie called x

    • @P1SSNUTZ
      @P1SSNUTZ 6 лет назад

      @@mmistletoe10 its in the video title, the movie is "to the bone" on netflix

  • @heyangel8262
    @heyangel8262 7 лет назад +420

    i didn't cried in the movie but i cried watching this
    amazing job

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  7 лет назад +2

      all my love x

    • @heyangel8262
      @heyangel8262 7 лет назад

      wait, are you brazilian?

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  7 лет назад

      why hah

    • @heyangel8262
      @heyangel8262 7 лет назад

      sleepwalking oh forget it. it's bcs i'm brazilian and i saw an user in wattpad with the same icon as you, and for some reason i though the name was the same.. but i think i was just tired or something hahsh

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  7 лет назад

      hah noo, im russian actually :)

  • @amybee193
    @amybee193 5 лет назад +128

    Writing this from a present where I cried for an hour over my body today, my strength is disappearing more and more...

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  5 лет назад +4

      keep holding on

    • @alice-uh6sv
      @alice-uh6sv 3 года назад +2

      I know IM one year late, but youre not alone ❤️

  • @amybee193
    @amybee193 5 лет назад +564

    I just want to be her so much it hurts

    • @savnoel
      @savnoel 5 лет назад +15

      stay strong honey 💕

    • @xtjustme
      @xtjustme 5 лет назад +13

      Dude..same

    • @dopexzombie
      @dopexzombie 5 лет назад +5

      Same...

    • @imgaysoshutup6428
      @imgaysoshutup6428 5 лет назад +7

      Candy Sun You deserve a better family, and someday, you will find it :)

    • @candy3974
      @candy3974 5 лет назад +1

      I'mgaysoshutup I wanna go to foster care but I don’t wanna live with strangers

  • @zoe-jadej8343
    @zoe-jadej8343 5 лет назад +36

    I love Ellen's step mum and her sister so much in this movie. You can see that they just love Ellen so much and you can tell their heart's are breaking, they just don't know how to help her xxx

  • @emethysthe
    @emethysthe 5 лет назад +45

    One of the best edits ever. Hands down.

  • @kensleyd930
    @kensleyd930 3 года назад +50

    when they ask “do you think that’s beautiful?” and you say no. the real answer is yes i wouldn’t be doing this to myself if i thought it was ugly. this was my goal. i reached it. and i’m not going to stop.

    • @selenaperezjaimes
      @selenaperezjaimes 3 года назад +1

      Moots?🥺

    • @Lyriamarie03
      @Lyriamarie03 2 года назад +5

      Exactly how i feel i wouldn't do this to myself if i didn't think it would make me beautiful

  • @allylinville3821
    @allylinville3821 6 лет назад +138

    I loved this movie because I related to it so much. My mom didn’t want me living with her, my stepmom is like hers, and Ive struggled with anorexia. Just know, if you’re struggling, it gets better. I love you❤️

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад

      love you, sweetheart. i hope ur getting better.
      lovelovelove.

    • @MuchachoSauce
      @MuchachoSauce 5 лет назад +1

      Ally Linville hope you’re doing better Ally. ❤️

  • @laney6
    @laney6 2 года назад +6

    my comfort movie 💗💗 i love eli so much and like deserved so much better. i love them all and i love keanu reeves.

  • @haleehudson6652
    @haleehudson6652 6 лет назад +230

    could this be the trailer? like fr

    • @emscnpck
      @emscnpck 4 года назад +7

      Halee Hudson no it gives too much away

  • @idkijustsing9869
    @idkijustsing9869 4 года назад +34

    You know what's funny to me is that I've heard a bunch of people day that these movies are a misrepresentation of eating disorders. All of those people don't have eating disorders and they know that I do. I think these movies are great and a good representation. People with eating disorders are still people we act human we have fun we live our lives were not devoid of emotion or thought.

  • @emallen5381
    @emallen5381 5 лет назад +83

    “Don’t fade away”
    *scrolls past*
    (To the bone)
    HOLD UP *clicks*

  • @mariaguadalupelozanolozano5813
    @mariaguadalupelozanolozano5813 4 года назад +8

    The saddest thing is knowing that no matter how strong you try to be, you slowly break down and there is nothing you can do anymore 😭

  • @ttinkerbelle
    @ttinkerbelle 10 месяцев назад +6

    i remember watching these years ago when i was sick. i hope that someday u will realise that u ARE sick enough to start recovery, that nothing is worth treating ur mind and body with hatred that u would never treat anyone else with. u deserve more than this, u deserve to be on ur own side.
    please start recovery. i’m on ur side.

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  10 месяцев назад +1

      hey, love, i hope you are okay now! stay safe 🤍

    • @ttinkerbelle
      @ttinkerbelle 10 месяцев назад

      @@idioteque5389 thank you, im okay. started recovery in 2020 and i hope to help others start their journey too

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@ttinkerbelle i don’t know you, but I’m very proud of you! it takes so much effort to get there. wish you the best 💙

    • @ttinkerbelle
      @ttinkerbelle 10 месяцев назад

      @@idioteque5389 that’s so sweet, thank you 🧡 i hope you’re okay too

  • @anitaazevedo9762
    @anitaazevedo9762 5 лет назад +72

    wow. i am crying. "you think thats beautiful?" my mom just say the same thing to me

  • @dxnvers8382
    @dxnvers8382 4 года назад +20

    At the end of the day I always end up watching videos like these to trigger myself

  • @agatkamartini279
    @agatkamartini279 7 лет назад +156

    This edit is so perfect, have a great holiday!

  • @iamjmaw4111
    @iamjmaw4111 5 лет назад +16

    This movie helped me... opened my eyes to being able to finally have control. Control over one thing in my life.

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  5 лет назад

      that’s wonderful and really impressive! im so happy for you. hope everything will be okay from now on ❤️

    • @angelgrant5182
      @angelgrant5182 5 лет назад

      What movie is this??

    • @marissacooprs
      @marissacooprs 5 лет назад

      @@angelgrant5182 to the bone

  • @chloehraiky3941
    @chloehraiky3941 7 лет назад +99

    Omg meridith from teen wolf

    • @haribox600
      @haribox600 6 лет назад +1

      Tara 19 shes such a nutter in teen wolf. I love it 😂😂

  • @kiela17
    @kiela17 6 лет назад +23

    The best thing about this video is m83 in the background

  • @erinfeatherss
    @erinfeatherss 7 лет назад +75

    this is amazing 💕 i keep replaying

  • @JH-kw8zy
    @JH-kw8zy 3 года назад +4

    This movie (more the video because it's so short and to the point, thank you) is actually helping me recover. It's rare that you see a protagonist like this in ED films. She doesn't glorifying her body. She doesn't sexualize it. She is battling CONTROL. She is filling voids in her life with ED to pretend she's not helpless. She hates food because it's one of the things that controls her. I need a different type of control. I need to control my relationship with food and myself. I can't control others or every aspect of my life. I can only do everything in my power to make me happy. One of those ways is to become healthy and stop torturing myself. I love you all and I hope one day you can trust yourself with food and have a good relationship with it because your body is so much smarter than you. Good luck everyone, you deserve happiness and success.

  • @gwen_pcid1331
    @gwen_pcid1331 2 года назад +7

    I tend to get so anxious that I starve myself for entire days . But I’ll never feel valide enough because we can’t see it . I lost so much weight and everyone noticed except me . I was just happy to lose weight . That same pain everyday , that guilt , that taste in your mouth .

    • @Dally-e3e
      @Dally-e3e 4 месяца назад

      You know it sucks to realize that other people got this too I can go 4 days no food that 5th day is when I eat but I just throw it up. It hurts because I can lose 5 pounds a day but then you still can’t see the bones it sucks I don’t want to live like this it’s just really the only thing I can control that’s what I put in my body I feel like people that don’t know all of this just judge but the truth is, it’s all just a big game in a way I can only focus on not wanting to eat I sound metal but stuff happens to people and this is my result

  • @_melita
    @_melita 7 лет назад +29

    wow the quality of the video is soooo good! thank you for your work :)
    totally obsessed with it^^

  • @Butterfly-mo7gd
    @Butterfly-mo7gd 4 года назад +34

    I wish so bad I could put my finger around my arm like her like would be total goals

  • @eliavgordon2108
    @eliavgordon2108 Год назад +2

    This movie is a masterpiece . 💎

  • @josephinelauber4550
    @josephinelauber4550 7 лет назад +27

    This is unbelivable beautiful. I can´t discribe how much this Video helps me to go on. I am thankful.

  • @Long-mayshereign
    @Long-mayshereign 4 года назад +9

    I’ve always had a problem with food. When I was 13, I went on a binge and ate whatever I wanted for 6 months, then had a panic attack and went on a binge workout session, lost weight and barely ate. I didn’t notice anything at all. After a couple months i started eating again, i lost weight and it goes up and down constantly. When I eat I EAT when i lose weight it drops too low. I wouldn’t call it a eating disorder but it is a complicated relationship. My friends told me years after they noticed the changes in my body back then and sometimes now

  • @humanalien7604
    @humanalien7604 4 года назад +8

    thanks for making me cry but also giving me a reason to stay alive :)

  • @splishsplashtrash417
    @splishsplashtrash417 3 года назад +2

    This is such a good edit, it captures all the best parts of this movie and its sad heartbreaking moments, it’s heart warming ones, and the important ones

  • @isi15love
    @isi15love 7 лет назад +40

    Oh man this is so perfect 😢

  • @BeaHasPP
    @BeaHasPP 4 года назад +3

    Saddest thing is that I know some of these multifandoms word for word off by heart.

  • @laughoutloudwithme-e9s
    @laughoutloudwithme-e9s 6 лет назад +70

    You ever hear that voice so many times it drives you to kill urself or to stop eating or stuff like that its really hard i dont think im beautiful i do stupid things but its not my fault but this video shows alot to me xox

  • @jasperblue311
    @jasperblue311 6 лет назад +5

    I got curious about the movie, so I went to watch it and I’ve been gross crying for the last hour. I needed this. I connected with Meghan so much.

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад +1

      love you sweetheart

    • @jasperblue311
      @jasperblue311 6 лет назад

      sleepwalking 😭 you’re so sweet

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад +2

      i hope you’re doing fine, love. remember that you aren’t alone. you can go through all the shit on your way 💔

    • @jasperblue311
      @jasperblue311 6 лет назад

      sleepwalking I’m okay. Better than I was. People always say to be happy, or to be good, and I knows that I’ll get there eventually, but for now, I’m okay with being okay. I’m okay with being me. And that’s a lot.

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад +1

      being ok with being who you are is more important than being ok in any other way. ❣️ you are amazing!

  • @GgBruh
    @GgBruh 2 года назад +4

    It’s funny to read people that type “I want to have that” or “I’m planning to have this disease” because when you have it you know you didn’t decide to, it just happens :(

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  2 года назад

      i hope you’ll get better soon! ❤️

    • @GgBruh
      @GgBruh 2 года назад +2

      @@idioteque5389 Thanks! I’m already recovered but I feel bad for the people that haven’t :( I guess that after you got something like this you become more empathic towards people

    • @katiegrundle9900
      @katiegrundle9900 5 месяцев назад

      Exactly. You don't choose to have a disease. Please don't wish this. This is what mg life is like now

    • @natalieshrank7332
      @natalieshrank7332 Месяц назад

      Literally me now

  • @amberanderson6806
    @amberanderson6806 3 года назад +7

    I felt what it was like to “fade.” I was anorexic for a year or two. Everybody saw I was very skinny, but nobody actually cared. I healed myself, somehow, and even myself cannot contemplate it. I am working on gaining muscle, for the most part. I have been clean of an ED for 6 months. You only know what it’s like if you’ve experienced it, and I did. I am almost glad I went through it. Now I know what it’s like for others. I was well on my way to killing myself. When I talk about my past ED, people say things like, “Oh, it wasn’t that bad.” Like, what the hell, I was in pain. Food and the thought of being skinny consumed my mind. I hated the words, “just eat.” To this day I still do; it brings back horrible memories.

  • @noone-yo6rd
    @noone-yo6rd 3 года назад +2

    This is so beautiful. Thank you for this 🙏❤️

  • @lexieg.419
    @lexieg.419 7 лет назад +28

    I absolutely love this. Great work. Love the captions too. 👌❤

  • @gentlegloom2969
    @gentlegloom2969 5 лет назад +3

    this is an insanely good edit. i love it. thank you

  • @ReyeLynn
    @ReyeLynn 7 лет назад +8

    What a beautiful edit 💗

  • @ariananikas3392
    @ariananikas3392 3 года назад +3

    I love this movie because it shows that some of us don’t do this to be “beautiful” it’s because we’re scared and a bit screwed up

  • @darla.theworkingdog
    @darla.theworkingdog 5 лет назад +5

    The actor who plays Eli is so pretty. It's heartbreaking that she's doing that to herself. Thank goodness she's getting help.

    • @zozodabozo
      @zozodabozo 5 лет назад +2

      Ap Ibarra as far as I know she’s fully recovered and suffered with anorexia years ago. She just lost weight for the role in this film xx

    • @simsterlife5123
      @simsterlife5123 5 лет назад +4

      Her name is Lily Collins and she’s an incredibly talented actress.

    • @darla.theworkingdog
      @darla.theworkingdog 5 лет назад

      @@zozodabozo oh ok I just heard that she was anorexic and that she was getting help I just didn't know that she was already recovered.:)

    • @darla.theworkingdog
      @darla.theworkingdog 5 лет назад

      @@simsterlife5123 ikr

  • @lenadelrey9
    @lenadelrey9 Год назад +1

    This is one of the best edits ever. Thank you for doing it 💞

  • @claireb3004
    @claireb3004 6 лет назад +6

    Beautifully done

  • @GabiSheehan
    @GabiSheehan 8 месяцев назад

    way too relatable 😢 I haven’t had a period in years, “you look like a ghost” is exactly what my mom says to me.. and it’s like somehow I’m proud.. thinking this looks beautiful

  • @LibbyLou123444
    @LibbyLou123444 5 лет назад +5

    This made me cry. Wow.

  • @mariacr5515
    @mariacr5515 5 лет назад +72

    4:37 did you saw Emma Chota (Ciara Bravo) right there another anorexia character

    • @millieedwards2339
      @millieedwards2339 5 лет назад +2

      María C yh she’s in this film 💘

    • @shoelicker609
      @shoelicker609 5 лет назад +4

      María C technically she was playing a role in this one as a bulimia patient.

  • @jasminenorthrup4563
    @jasminenorthrup4563 5 лет назад +5

    i watched this movie and ill be honest i have never cried so dam much in my life

  • @CupcakeBla
    @CupcakeBla 7 лет назад +13

    That was beautiful omg

  • @jaminsugar2288
    @jaminsugar2288 5 лет назад +3

    I want a second movie of this so bad

  • @laraamelie8538
    @laraamelie8538 5 лет назад +1

    luke is soooo beautyfull!!!

  • @andrealemus7793
    @andrealemus7793 7 лет назад +16

    I love this!

  • @unachicadeargentina
    @unachicadeargentina 5 лет назад +1

    This movie actually helped me finally get over my eating disorder. It's fantastic.

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  5 лет назад +2

      it is. it is fantastic.
      fuck eating disorders 🖕🏻

    • @GgBruh
      @GgBruh 2 года назад

      Same. It was difficult to deal with and much more with the other comments but I was finally able to beat it and now I don’t get easily triggered :)

  • @averyblanchard3665
    @averyblanchard3665 4 года назад +1

    This is a masterpiece.

  • @Michelle-pd7nu
    @Michelle-pd7nu 4 года назад +1

    This edit is so beautiful

  • @fatbunny606
    @fatbunny606 6 лет назад +2

    This is beautiful and not in the romanticize away but just in the artistry of how you edit it it

  • @hard2hearpodcast
    @hard2hearpodcast 5 лет назад +6

    It’s John wick if he calls bs then it’s bs ... lol. It no in honesty this is a great movie every girl and boy should watch

  • @anabelamino-wr6rk
    @anabelamino-wr6rk Год назад

    Ellen look so beautiful!!!!❤

  • @riverevans726
    @riverevans726 5 лет назад +2

    Ahhhh love this!!! I love this film so much i want a second one so bad, we need more movies about eating disorders💜

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  5 лет назад +3

      what we really need is less eating disorders

    • @riverevans726
      @riverevans726 5 лет назад

      @@idioteque5389 yess!💜💜

  • @ericphillips2235
    @ericphillips2235 11 месяцев назад +1

    We all watch it to see what we are and to stay where we are. We scare people and we do like like that. It's all we have.

  • @sleepysloth4205
    @sleepysloth4205 5 лет назад +31

    Why do I watch these videos to trigger me in recovery

    • @nataliarodriguez8731
      @nataliarodriguez8731 5 лет назад +1

      me too oml

    • @hiddenpain5073
      @hiddenpain5073 5 лет назад +4

      Use this as an inspiration rather than a trigger. Hold on to your life as you only get one chance at it. Yes I am a sufferer of anorexia since 2011 and I fully understand the mental anguish you must be feeling atm. No one is saying it is easy by any means. But if I look at it from where I was to where I am now, I have come a long way. I have had my fair share of admissions both medical and eating disorder ward inpatient admissions. I spent most of my time inpatient than I did out in the community. However for the last year I have managed to remain medically stable and not had one admission for one whole year. This is a huge accomplishment for me and a huge step forward. There is still room for improvement. But that will come with time. Keep fighting. Fight hard for the life you deserve

  • @ashak.videodiaries755
    @ashak.videodiaries755 6 лет назад +6

    this was WAY better than the movie tbfh

  • @flxwercxrpse1871
    @flxwercxrpse1871 5 лет назад +3

    I just remembered they were both on Stuck In Love :)

  • @ariannarivera8629
    @ariannarivera8629 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for this beautiful video

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  6 лет назад +1

      you are welcome! thank you for feedback :)

  • @Camilla-dd3fg
    @Camilla-dd3fg 2 года назад +4

    I can't recover until I have Keanu Reeves as my therapist fr

  • @moodywrites
    @moodywrites 5 месяцев назад +1

    Unlike the movie, this edit made me actually want to recover. It’s beautiful.
    The lack of atypical anorexia representation, years after the diagnosis came out, is inexcusable.
    The stereotype of all people with EDs being shockingly thin was dangerous to promote. Not even most bulimics are underweight. Atypical AN is just as dangerous. People die cuz they don’t “look like” they need help

  • @keirapostlethwaite9989
    @keirapostlethwaite9989 4 года назад +2

    Keanu Reeves could be my therapist any day

  • @hioopsstylinson8195
    @hioopsstylinson8195 7 лет назад +12

    Omfg your icon !! It's Louis 😭💗

  • @vendatta8232
    @vendatta8232 4 года назад +2

    they show how one person saves another and then say yOu dOnT nEeD sOmEoNe eLsE tO sAvE yoU

  • @margievanpetten1
    @margievanpetten1 6 лет назад +2

    This is so good! Love it 😍

  • @dustymarlboro7686
    @dustymarlboro7686 3 года назад

    Wow Im In tears

  • @oliviajeddi7166
    @oliviajeddi7166 4 года назад +4

    yk it has got bad when faking it just becomes so easy and putting on a smile everyday and act happy like im getting better just so i can please others but in reality waking up and going through another day of just wanting to shed all the fat off my body. telling people just makes me want to to this even more bc when i tell ppl i have anorexia they just have that look of like u sure girl cuz u got some meat on ur body u look healthy. ppl telling me i look good i look healthy makes me sad bc i want to look sick i want skin and bone. but from the words of Frank Sinatra "thats life"...

    • @justtoogoodforthisworld4879
      @justtoogoodforthisworld4879 4 года назад +1

      You are not your body. You are just you and that’s is what makes you an incredible person. They don't know you and never will , like you. I love you🤍

    • @oliviajeddi7166
      @oliviajeddi7166 4 года назад +1

      @@justtoogoodforthisworld4879 wait omg that’s the most comfort I have ever gotten in my entire life and it’s from someone idk... OMGGG💜🥺🥺 thank youuuu!!

    • @justtoogoodforthisworld4879
      @justtoogoodforthisworld4879 4 года назад

      @@oliviajeddi7166 I'm happy thanks to your words, I'm happy to have made you feel good. You will be able to feel good and live the happiest moments of your life. Focus on happiness and desire it with all your heart. I will support you from here🤍

  • @hazymind8802
    @hazymind8802 7 лет назад +41

    this is so beautiful, i almost cried!! i love this :) can i ask you where you downloaded "to the bone"? because i've been looking for it for so long, thankssss

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  7 лет назад +2

      thank you xx
      thepiratebay.org/search/to%20the%20bone/0/99/0

    • @kaitlyn8390
      @kaitlyn8390 7 лет назад

      hazymind; Also on Netflix:)

  • @heresthemfbeastytea3525
    @heresthemfbeastytea3525 3 года назад

    i wanted to watch to the bone cuz i can sleep good while it's on, so i searched on yt for it cuz i was to lazy to turn my tv with netflix on and than i found this amazing edit❤️
    now i'm watching it on my tv haha

  • @milly_annxx7516
    @milly_annxx7516 5 лет назад +22

    I'm 13 with an eating disorder, would you say this film is triggering? It looks so good but I don't want to trigger myself.

    • @idioteque5389
      @idioteque5389  5 лет назад +2

      it depends, actually.. but i think it’s not.

    • @GgBruh
      @GgBruh 2 года назад

      It’s actually not, but don’t watch it until you’re sure

  • @HenkaG
    @HenkaG 3 года назад +2

    I don’t even know what glamorizing something because I glamorize everything

  • @mranderson5668
    @mranderson5668 5 лет назад +5

    5:43 I love watching her eat!

  • @emmakossie6182
    @emmakossie6182 5 лет назад

    This made me cry

  • @waleyskaramos8957
    @waleyskaramos8957 5 лет назад +130

    This is thinspo to me 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Breadkun69
      @Breadkun69 5 лет назад +2

      Its hurtful to me idk why

    • @rachhempkin9727
      @rachhempkin9727 4 года назад

      This is disgusting there's people battling anorexia fighting for their lives saying this shit is disgusting

    • @renluvsk
      @renluvsk 3 года назад +1

      @@rachhempkin9727 the same people fighting anorexia are the same people who say this stuff.

    • @rachhempkin9727
      @rachhempkin9727 3 года назад

      @@renluvsk yeah im aware of that. But it's triggering for other people

  • @lucilleball4201
    @lucilleball4201 7 лет назад +1

    So beautiful

  • @rachhempkin9727
    @rachhempkin9727 4 года назад +1

    I cried at this I have suffered with anorexia since I was 14

  • @badflower_ree5155
    @badflower_ree5155 5 лет назад +13

    Its not that I wanna lose weight... I guess... But I wanna feel bones when i touch my ribs.... Idk why but..... I do..... And i don't have anorexia or a eating disorder but i feel disgusted when I eat 3 or more meals and I feel good when I eat nothing at all.. And the on my reason I still eat is because I'm trying to makesure my mom doesnt find out.... Sorry.... I just needed to get it off my chest even though no one will see......... Sorry.... Sorry I'll go now

    • @GgBruh
      @GgBruh 2 года назад

      That IS an ED. You don’t choose to have an ED, it just happens, and it starts like that. So yeah, get help ASAP

  • @beliny544
    @beliny544 4 года назад +6

    I cant cry cause my mom is home and ik she will never understand me