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Hey everyone, it's Charlotte Dobre here, and today we're talking about a topic that might make some of you uncomfortable, but hey, we're gonna have some fun with it anyway. That's right, we're talking about calling off your wedding.
Now, we know it's not the most pleasant subject, but sometimes things just don't work out, and that's okay. What's not okay is letting the wedding go on when you know deep down that it's not meant to be.
So in this video, we're gonna give some hilarious and creative ways to call off your wedding. Forget the typical phone call or letter, we're talking about skywriting, hiring a mariachi band to serenade your soon-to-be-ex, or even staging a fake alien invasion to distract everyone from the wedding.
Trust me, guys, when it comes to calling off your wedding, you gotta be creative, and you gotta make sure everyone knows it's over in the most outrageous way possible. So grab some popcorn and get ready to laugh, because this video is gonna be a wild ride. And who knows, you might even get some inspiration for your own wedding-calling-off shenanigans.
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The bit where she said, “I know I’m no model, but…”
*HE told her that*
Guaranteed. At some point, during some conversation, he told her that. Gutted for her.
He’s a slimy, entitled, arrogant, narcissistic POS, and he doesn’t love you, babe. He loves himself. That speech of his was horrific. Poor girl is in for a life of being put down, belittled, undervalued and made fun of. She deserves better.
Imho
Yup, Charlotte downplayed it a lot because she's a sweetie that wants to see the best. But I've seen that kind of emotional/ mental abuse play out irl. It never gets better. He never even mentioned his kids.
I wonder how he ended up like that because his mom seems like no shrinking violet…she should have at least taught him respect.
He definitely told her that. My ex told me that. It’s completely gutting and it stays with you for a long time.
Not to mention she's straight up gorgeous.
@Sonia Linsey idk, she might not be a shrinking violet, but that doesn't mean she taught her son to be respectful. I know women who are total power houses, but when it comes to their sons, spoil them rotten and let them get away with everything. That stuff doesn't come out of no where. In fact, she's might be fine with it as long as it's not in public and just expected him to behave for the wedding. She didn't publicly shame him, she joked that her grown ass son would be grounded. I'm sure he got a talk later, but I doubt it's the first or last time he's humiliated that poor girl.
SHE thought HE was too good for HER????????? someone get her to a therapist
Exactly.
For real
We only accept the love we feel we deserve. She needs more than just therapy. She needs a hug and some strong ass women in her life to hype her ass up.
@@erikarussell1142yeah, doesn't even have to be a women, just anyone!! I truly hope she gets a better life then the one she has with him.
STAT!
Story 1: There are already people in the comments voicing all the legit concerns about that marriage. My concern is the children, and what behaviour is being modeled for them. Hearing their dad talk about their mom like she's a s*x toy, and her apologizing for not being pretty enough. I sincerely hope those children have other better role models in their lives
Imagine what this man is telling his daughter to put up with in life. Imagine. They are prone to rape and insult from day 1. That is SO sick.
indeed it must be worse for the children to grow up with this man in their midst, might model the behavior or the faulty beliefs
Yes. My first thought was, 'Are there kids there?!' As soon as she said, 'our 2 children' my heart sank.
If my husband-to-be had made vows like that at my wedding, literally every male member of my family would've taken him aside to "give him a talking to" and every female member of my family would've taken me aside to tell me it's not too late to back out of the wedding.
I don’t even know you and I already love your family!!
Especially how he ended with she being able to choose if she wants to be a toaster strudel or a twinkie. EEEWWWW!!!
@@phaedrapage4217 oh yeah that was just…..🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤢
Exactly!!! My Dad would have shot him there and then. My family would have asked if I was on drugs for being taken in by such a waste of space of a man.
In her vows, she mentioned how she loved parts of his personality. Him, me me me.
God she deserves better!
what a bunch of weirdos.
1st story: He acts like he did her a favor by being with him and she acts so honored to be in his presence. Low self esteem is a narcissist's favorite flavour.
Truth. His actions are disturbing. It appears that he sees himself as far "above" her......he's not. He should learn something called "humility".....as well as appreciation and gratitude for what he HAS.
@@dede4004 He can't. He's a narcissist, he is poisonous scum, she deserves so much better.
I don't blame the bride for having low self-esteem, though. She is ugly, she's not pretty and needs to see an orthodonist to fix her big buck teeth and her massive overbite. Get herself some braces and a palette expander. I feel horrible for her kids who inherit her teeth.
Oooff, that hit home
Damn, that thesis statement though… you’re so right!
Her self esteem is on the floor... her vows are all about apologizing for not being good enough and his are all about telling her she's replaceable... she is so out of his league and deserves better :'(
Perfectly stated. He's a pig.
This!
I couldn't have said it better myself.
Her vows made his vows so much worse😢
Amen to this
She is trauma bonded to that man for some reason and she doesn't even realise it. It's gonna be another 10 years before the light finally clicks!
He mentioned in his vows what she needed to do to make him happy, and that she wasn't good at half of those things. She mentioned that she was 'no model, but thanks for loving me still'. It is heartbreaking to see this.
He probably made those vows in front of his two daughters. If my daughter's receive vows from a husband like that, it would be the shortest wedding ever. Mainly because the guy would have an "accident".
All jokes aside, this may be one of the saddest things I have ever seen. He has convinced her she is the lucky one.
I didn’t find a single joke, this was so disrespectful. And the bride coming out in support? Wth?!
She can’t see that the love of his life is himself
She is going to get sick of this very quick. I give it a couple of years and she’ll be poisoning his food.
Maybe the hair dye got to get brain.
I think his balls being emptied should be the least concern about his balls!
You realize that he said that speech not only in front of his mom and al the guests but in front of his two daughters!!! Imagine hearing your father say those things... I would honestly start crying
I lost all respect and disowned mine for less than this shit.
@Khushe Khan It was in my emoji menu
Honestly, given the mild reactions, those kids have probably heard that and worse often enough that they probably think it's normal.
Those kids need to be taken off him asap! He's toxic af and those girls will grow up thinking they're worth nothing. 😢
@@lashinka2574 Yes!!!
“Thank you for loving me still,” is sooooo sad. He’s taught her that she’s the lucky one to have found a person that can actually love her.
He doesn't "love" her. He loves his balls being empty. As per his vows.
She has had two children and looks fantastic. That groom should look in the mirror. He is fat and as he ages, he will only get fatter. She can find a better man.
Exactly how my ex husband described him being married to me: “no one else will ever put up with your bs, you’re lucky you found me” (by “my bs” he meant my severe depression and self harm)
my ex husband did this to me too. good riddance!
First dude makes it sound like he would be equally happy with a blow up doll and a Factor subscription.
bahahahahahahahahaaaaa my ex husband uses that factor shit 🤣🤣🤣 so this got me a bit 🤣🤣🤣
So, they have 2 daughters together and they had to listen to their father talk about their mother like that! How would he like to hear some guy talk to one of his daughters that way! Disgusting.
I guess he wouldn't care ...
THANK YOU!! That was disgusting, and it taught the daughters that it’s ok for the man they love to debase them publicly
@@rheverendExactly!!! I feel bad for those daughter more then I do the mother, as they are getting RAISED by a person with those standards...
The quote, "Every child deserves a parent, but not all parents deserve a child" comes to mind..
He probably wouldn’t care. He’s probably high five the sleazbag
Guy like him would consider them Her daughters.
Only a son changes this type of guy even a little
“I’m no model” “I’m not a good cook” “I thought you were too good for me” babe!! No!!! You’re gorgeous and you deserve better!!!
She's been gaslit for sure!
Just because we don’t get their humor doesn’t mean she is gaslit. I’ve been though that kind of abuse and it’s really disrespectful to another woman to assume by one clip that she is dealing with the same. Unless you are making this judgement by more than what is in this video.
@@vsand9798 Oh, please. This wasn't "humour". This was a man disrespecting his wife and a wife disrespecting herself to please him. He's pushed her to think that way about herself and probably as a way of keeping her with him.
@@vsand9798 I agree, and talk about the go for blood attack on this guy when most of these women probably have not seen the full video. His was edited, and she’s talking about how she felt when she was in high school we all felt insecure and unsure of ourselves. My husband says I can’t cook all the time it’s true I’m not gonna get all bent out of shape about it. Normally I love her videos but this one the vibe felt like it was bash men’s day
@@laurazepeda6701 he tells you that you are just a place to "empty his balls"? because if the entire thing was about "she can't cook" it would be ok to me
The first guy with his horrible wedding vows spilled out these words in front of their children, her family and her friends toO. Very insulting. He’s a narcissist, and took all her dignity the past 10 years. What a loser. Too bad she doesn’t have the courage to turn around and walk away from him.
The way she talked about him was different than how he talked about her. BUT the way she talked about herself was sadly consistent with the way he talks about her. I can only imagine how much of this kind of low-key emotional abuse and humiliation she’s endured over the last 10 years. God bless mom for saying something, though a very gentle rebuke. Shame on him for doing that to his bride and even more, modeling this for two daughters!?! He’s lucky he’s kept her self-esteem in the toilet. She could undoubtedly do so much better. Even if she can’t cook, she’s beautiful, seems sweet, and I’m sure she’s good for more than 1 thing like he implied.
That first guy is the kind of guy that will cheat on his wife because she won't have sex with him in the hospital bed after giving birth.
😂😂😂
That's both funny and true lol
Facts! It's so disturbing
Oh 100% he is cheating on her. His needs are all that matter in that sham of a marriage.
how the everloving fucking hell does this guy seem like a cheater?!?!m jesus you guys have some wild and stupid takes
his vows basically said "be a better cook so you can be my submissive housewife and give me lots of sex and that's your purpose" and hers was "i'm not good enough for you but I am so eternally grateful that somehow you love me despite the fact that i'm not good enough for you, master"
Exactly. Some weirdos really so be like this. I just feel bad for the two daughters because the parents are so grossly blatant about it.
Summarized perfectly
it's disturbing and disgusting
Yeah pretty much. Dude's so disgusting. And he said that BS in front of their parents, AND daughters! (I'm assuming they're at the wedding though...and if they are, what's he gonna do when they ask about the "twinkie and toaster strudel" joke?) THe POS is NOT at all mature enough to be in a long term romantic relationship, let alone marriage. Hope the bride comes to her senses and divorces him, finds someone better who is actually mature and not a narcissist who puts her down.
@@alexielshadowangel i was thinking the same because his “vows” made a comment/bragging remark on how the kids would listen in on the sex, and I thought it was meaning the future till she mentioned they already had kids.
"Im no model" what a strange thing to say about yourself at your own wedding.
@jen... that's what happens when you're with a narcissist. Watch Dr.Ramani for more info.
I was married to a narcissist for 20 years. He always toldme I would look so much better if Ijust lost a little weight. Well I lost 37 pounds and he said YOu know 10 more pounds and you will be perfect. I gained back every pound I had lost and then some which hurt me but he took it as a real jab to him. Divorced him andmoved on
@@deannarounds3295i was w a narc for 14 years- i feel that pain
My heart just broke for the purple haired bride. She was doing everything to make it seem alright.
went to a wedding recently and ALL the speeches were about the groom. The bride came up just a few times, for a few mins. His people talked about him, her people talked about him. He talked about himself and she talked about him. It broke my heart, mainly because basically it was only me and a few others who noticed it during the whole day. She deserved better.
Oh that poor love. My heart breaks for all women and men who settle for less than they deserve. We only accept we feel we deserve. I can help but feel weighted down and sad when I encounter people like that. No one deserves to feel less than.
Aw 😢
@@erikarussell1142 love the equality comment ❤😊
@@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh awe thanks!
@@erikarussell1142 yeah, all women, men, and nonbinary folx that settle for less. it's sad that it's often ladies that settle, though.
First girl deserves better ,even if she doesn’t know it. And he’s got daughters and he’s acting like that ?!!! Shame !!
I hope that was some joke to embarrass her, or something. There's no way that was genuine. I mean, if she's into it, I guess? Idk. It's so gross. 😂
Oo follow up question: were their daughters at the wedding? Did he say this in front of them? Despite his sense of humour: is this the type of guy he’d want his daughters to look for?
@@goodbher9244both are equally horrible
@@jessm.porthos he said it in front of his mom I wouldn’t be shocked
@@jessm.porthos O my i hope not thats disgusting
I actually met a girl that was addicted like this to her gaming system when I was in rehab. Her husband would do what this girl did. She wouldn't bathe either. I'm so thankful she's doing amazing now living her best life. Both these stories break my heart so much.
That first girl hasn't known anyone else since she said they met in school. That gorgeous girl could get any dude she wants. 😢
It seems like a severe depression. Hope he can find his way outta the darkness.
@FukaiKokoro it was a lot of things. The number one being trauma. And SHE has found a way out.
That bride was stunning and could definitely be a model. I'm in awe
The smug face he had when she said she wasn't good enough for him was another concerning thing.
Good catch. Dude is a huge jerk.
Yeah, you can definitely tell he is one of those guys that manipulates you into staying with him by convincing you that no one else could ever love you. Dated my fair share of guys like this.
yeah they both believe he is too good for her
I saw that too. Made me a bit sick. He thinks he’s some great catch, when nothing could be further from the truth.
I don’t know how old the original content is, but I hope by now, in some way her eyes are open and she takes those girls away to see there are standards and self love.
Kids learn from watching their parents.
I came here to find this comment. I just want to punch that smug face.
First story is heartbreaking. It reminds me of the saying "We accept the love we think we deserve". What's even more heartbreaking is the example she's setting for her two daughters.
I hope those daughters weren't at their parent's wedding.
That man is definitely the type to criticize his daughters looks too I bet, and the mothers self esteem is so low that it sets a horrible standard for how those girls will view what is acceptable for future relationships. Also, I’d be devastatingly embarrassed, and disappointed if I were one of his unfortunate kids.
The first story wasn't sad because of the vows, it was sad because he had two kids with a woman who has huge teeth and a huge overbite. I hope her children don't have her teeth because that's sad and disgusting.
@@Supersoccerchic 👈 Found the first guy's fake account 😂
@@Supersoccerchic Okay, this is a messed up comment. Stupidity like your comment cannot be fixed. Teeth and overbites can be fixed if so desired. Troll you are.
Hearing the bride's vows made me tear up.
She let her heart do the all the talking.
The groom's vows were absolutely vile.
He definitely let his dick do all the talking.
It sounds like to me, he manipulates her and psychologically abuses her.
Making her feeling like it's an honor to be with him and no-one else is good enough for her.
She put herself down so much in her vows and that breaks my heart.
"I know I'm no model, but..." tells me that he has told her this at some point in their relationship and he has made her believe this as well.
The bride is beautiful and he is a straight up disgusting pig of a man.
The fact that she stood up for him in the tik tok video comments, shows the control he has over her already.
I hope that one day she'll realise what he is truly like, divorce him and find someone who will treat her with respect.
Because she truly deserves better than this.
Charlotte got emotional during the first bride vows. Same here, I would leave the man at the altar
Hearing the story about the guy with a gaming addiction was such a hurtful wake-up call for me... When his girlfriend told their story I was like "Yeah dump his stupid ass girl, you deserve better" and then it hit me like a shotgun to the stomach: I am that lazy, unwashed, irresponsible, uncaring addict. (minus the fact I bought my stuff with my own money, and would never in my dreams think about treating the best person to ever come into my life like my personal servant or not giving her attention when she wants) Not taking any care of myself, barely eating at all, absolutely neglecting my wonderful fiance, not doing anything in the house, only leaving the house every 2 weeks to get my cat to the vet... Thank you for unintentionally making me realize how much of a mess I am and how big of a problem I have. And that this has to stop. I'll get help and do my best to get better.
I know this is just some random YT comment thats gonna get drowned out in a sea of other comments but I just wanted to personally say thank you. Unironically thank you for making me cry my eyes out. I'll be logging off for good now.
Charlotte just saved you.
♥♥You got this!! I'm rooting for you! Please remember to be kind to yourself on your journey!!
Stay strong. You got this. You will need to find a replacement for the strong hormones released by gaming that give you a false sense of accomplishment. I would seriously consider volunteering with a non profit or finding other ways to give to others (big brother program, etc) as a replacement otherwise you may be sucked back in.
Take the chance mate! I hope it gets better, if you can't break off immediately, set timers for yourself, to eat, to bathe, to game, to sleep. It's okay to fail a bit, but I wish you the best.
I hear "unmanaged depression" at least as much as "addiction" in these kinds of stories. Find someone you can really talk to, friend.
The groom is astonishingly juvenile, and the bride's defense was 'we've been together 10 years so it's all okay.' It's honestly heartbreaking she believes he's too good for her. Her vows are sentimental and sweet, and ... Wait, wait! They have daughters and he made those vows in front of them? ::headdesk::
I would have walked away from the alter right after he finished that garbage
I am convinced that man actually hates women.
Those daughters are going to have messed up ideas of men to date…people tend to go after relationships with people similar to their parents because those are the relationships that were modeled for them when they were young. How awful…
He's vile
My 4 yr old nephew has more class and maturity than this creep. I WOULD NOT be impressed if I were standing at the altar, with my husband to be, and THIS is what he came up with for his wedding vows to me. Not something beautiful and sincere, that tells of his love for me....but "I want you to bang me and feed me all day." IN FRONT OF HIS MOTHER, no less. He is ABSOLUTELY grounded for life.
If you’re going to expect your partner to look like a model, you damn well better be one! And he sure doesn’t! The way it was so easy for them both to “joke” about it you know she heard all about her “flaws” on a regular basis. I’m genuinely angry at the man and I don’t even know him
Just imagine her poor daughters hearing that their whole lives.
That was the first thing I noticed too. She's gorgeous and this is him at his best? And he's so nastily smug and gross. 🤮
2nd story: My ex husband had a gaming addiction but not quite as severe as this. It slowly got worse after we got married and he stopped spending any time with me, didn’t sleep in bed normal hours and didn’t help around the house at all. Needless to say, this is one of the reasons he’s now my ex. Get out girl, he’s already decided what his priorities are and he’s not even trying to fix it. Plus there is the added issue that he used all your savings and you will probably never see that money again. That’s a secondary issue that is just as bad for you. Run, don’t walk.
she could also decide to stick by him and give her all to help her partner recover from an addiction. not everyone has to be thrown away for their flaws regardless of your biased perspective
@@bm-ww8kb You are correct that my perspective might be biased, but I also know that breaking an addiction like that is hard and her partner has shown no inclination to change or even admit there is a problem. If he had, my suggestions would be different. In addition, he broke her trust and essentially stole all their money to feed his addiction. The fact that he sees no issue with that part as well is what makes me say she needs to leave. You’re entitled to your own opinion and I’m entitled to mine. If he shows a willingness to change then go ahead and stay. But often people put their partners happiness above their own and that just leads to resentment and emotional scarring that may be hard to heal from.
@@bm-ww8kb Absolutely. This kind of addiciton is a coping mechanism, if that happens so suddently there is a high chance your partner is depressed. Therapy is needed, also a man has emotional needs too. They are taught to supress them all their life, so maybe him diving into gaming instead of attending the wife is a way of avoiding mixed feelings and worry if this really is something he saw his life going like.
@@deathysmile well, I can see depression making him game and not taking care of himself... but the fact that he *in addition* is *using her* as a *servant* ...(!?) That speaks to something else but depression, imo.
Breaking habit is hard but if you're willing to marry them you need to give it a try.
Sounds more like a sever depression
First guy literally spoke about his WIFE as if she was an object. Literally compared her to food, a literal object you consume.
Absolutely 💯
Ok but what is the stroogle and a Twinkie (sp)
It’s disgusting ugly putrid behavior.
@@dmomma79 toaster strudel is "frosting" on the outside, twinkie is "frosting" on the inside.
If i am more crass i might get censored.
@@dmomma79 the sweet stuff is either inside or on top
The last story had me worried. As some of the replies said, this is concerning addict behaviour and might require professional intervention. Sometimes we get addicted to a fantasy world to escape something that’s wrong emotionally. Not saying that’s definitely the case here, but I’ve fallen down a video game tunnel when dealing with depression before. There is a deeper problem than just selfish gaming priorities, and I feel so bad for OP for needing to deal with that.
He either has serious issuesmthat are overlooked or OP is just telling bs lies because she is angry at her Bf for spending some money from the savings. To me that story did not add up at all.
Unless you have some serious issues you do not develop a gaming addiction of that sort within two weeks.
@ - You don’t need serious issues to become addicted to video games. All it can take is a desire to avoid dealing with something that is bothering you.
Exactly. Whatever underlying issue he has, THAT has been there for far longer than two weeks. The second something crosses your path to distract you from that - you just fall in.
Definitely been there too. You're dealing with stuff, a game you like falls in your lap, BOOM, that's now your life. I don't even remember how I got out of it, but that was a year of seclusion.
Edit: I remember how I got out of it, it was because the grinding for new armors had become so unbalanced that I got bored of the game, it wasn't even an epiphany or that my life got better 😭
The second story is so similar to what happened with my husband. It almost broke us. The only reason it stopped is I did tell his parents and they tore him a new one and then I threatened to leave. He has gotten so much better now
First story: Not a single "vow" was spoken. Just what he expected out of HER. :/
it's really sad how she doesn't see that, seems like he swiped her up during her teenage "I'm so ugly" phase and kept her in that box since then ...
YES
Well said
She has really low self esteem obviously. It's sad because she clearly loves him, and he clearly loves what she does for him. It's sad. She even says "I didn't think I was good enough for you." And that's obvious that she still doesn't. It's really gross.
@@goodbher9244 .
Yes, it was incredibly disrespectful towards her.
The first video was so hard to watch, you could hear it in her voice that her feelings were hurt. As an abuse survivor I just want to tell her that it's okay to feel hurt when someone is being hurtful.💔
I could have been her. Thankfully I loved my abuser enough to want better for him that what I could ever be for him (or so I thought) even if he didn't love himself enough to think he was worth better than me. A big reason I managed to leave was believing all his claims about me and wanting better for him. Which of course lead to me realising more and more how bad it had been once I got some distance from it.
The scene was shocking
Yep, I'd say she likely laughed along to keep from crying.
@@tuftela I'm so sorry that you went through all of that. While you may have been given a different reason for putting distance, I'm glad you did, and I hope you found your worth ❤️
@@tuftela so glad you've gotten away from that. And I hope you now realize how wonderful and amazing you are, and how much better YOU deserve
This hurts me so much. She was so sweet and loving and that's how he repaid her kindness? She deserves so much better.
As the father of a daughter, and a son primarily raised by his mother. That first story fills me with a complex litany of emotions, none of which are positive. I’ve never been more thankful for learning patience, had a younger man with my face and mind attended that wedding. It would’ve quickly become a funeral, that family deserves more than better. And he barely deserves to breathe. Not in my deepest fever ridden nightmares would I say such derogatory things to the mother of my child, in front of them no less. Absolutely disgusting and we’re not even together anymore. She wanted something else that I couldn’t provide, so I left and we both moved on. But that’s neither here nor there, I could never. And what’s worse, the fact that he has her believing all his bullshit. If the gods are real, they’re cruel bastards.
I agree 100%
God didn't make this guy a bastard, he did that all by himself.
@@azuropixie5703 I never said “god” made him a bastard, I said, if the god’s are real THEY are cruel bastards.
Had to pause the first groom due to my face being in pain. I had such a look of disgust my coworker thought i was having a stroke. RUN BRIDE RUN!
Edit: "im no model " bride looks like a beautiful sunset mermaid!!!
No question! 😳
I guess he is often telling her, who is prettier than her and that he "still" loves her. Wow that guy is so disgusting, just wow. I am not even against bringing up sex in the vows if one is that profane. But it should have been about making her "happy every night", aiming to be her chippendaleguy etc. He really was only listing what makes HIM happy. Guys like that give men a reputation as cave apes. eeewww
I agree with you, she is gorgeous.
She's gorgeous and no offense to him (actually after those vows, absolutely offense to him and I mean this in the most disrespectful way possible) he is the most average looking man I've ever seen in my life.
"Beautiful sunset mermaid"
That reminds me of the time someone called my friend a sunflower (their favorite flower) they were so happy 💜💜💜
Man, I felt so bad for that first bride. I'm glad someone in the comments there pointed out how she most likely has low self esteem based on her comments on herself in the vows. It's one thing to self burn in a funny way but those were just "I genuinely hate myself" vibe type comments. Saying "I'm no model" when she's absolutely drop dead gorgeous but (imo more importantly) when she said "I thought I didn't deserve you". Like girl. No. You deserve so much more than those pathetic excuses for "vows". All he talked about was "haha sex haha im gonna have sex with you, you're so good at sex but be better at cooking", not ONE mention of HER or what he loved about HER. That goes right into my "people that give you the ick" file.
Amen ✨🙏✨
Yh, this. Always I met someone my bf knew first they are like : "I couldn't wait to meet you, he always talks about you and how funny and smart you are." And those are not even our vows.
Wait didn't Charlotte already post that entire first half of the video in a previous wedding video a couple months ago? I know I've already seen half this video from her channel already 😅 it's because I cringed so hard I couldn't even finish listening to his vows the first time she showed this clip! Or was this a different guy who did different joke vows and this is a completely different clip 😂?
I would have ditched him leaving behind a divorce summons and a blow up doll.
I hope someone gives his daughters the wedding vows he just gave his wife. See how he enjoys the amount of respect.
He probably thinks daughters are worthless and wifey better give him a SON or shes dumped.
I told my wife how I felt about her all that I could even when I was in pain and she knew I was putting on a brave front. I loved her every day even telling her I loved her when she was giving birth to our children
Sell the gaming computer, sell your engagement ring, keep the cash & get the hell out of their quick. You deserve so much better.
NOOOO, sell the pc, sell the ring, HALF THE MONEY so he can't take you to small claims. BEFORE THAT gather all your things because he ain't gonna notice. As soon as you clear the effing PC (possibly by sending him to his parents) just get the eff out of there. He is an addict, and this behaviour is a major, major red flag.
@@Midorikonokami Having a lot of experience with PCs and being in a gamer marriage myself (but I'm a gamer too): The gaming PC will not fetch the purchase price if she seels it, and it's not only been the PC but also a desk and chair, reselling furniture is not a good Idea if you want to get your money back. I'd say: get a receipt of the purchases, copy them, keep the banking account statement that shows he withdrew it from the shared savings account, sell the engagement ring and keep your share of the ring and PC setup from that sale. Speaking from experience in my marriage: when a new game comes out that any of us really like to play, taking a vacation for it and holing up in front of the PC for one or two weeks are nothing new - to both of us, but then we come out of our gaming abodes again and return to adulting. We support each other in our hobbies, but also lay down all the games immediately, if something really needs to be done. To be fair... if my husband came to me during a gaming vacation and told me to "just spend some time together" I'd ask him "what for?" and it'd be the same the other way around. Phases like that come and go - at least with us and we've been together for 13 years now, although only married for 2. You need to know what you're getting into, if you want to keep up a relationship like that and it helps if you share the same interests. It's not an addiction, if you want to take a time-out now and then and immerse yourself into your hobbies. Nobody would call a guy taking a 2 week fishing or skiing trip addicted to fishing or skiing, either, but the same as a trip, it needs to be planned for and everyone has to be informed. I'd break up with a guy who'd take out our entire savings to go on a last-minute skiing trip as well. This isn't about the kind of hobby, this is about financial responsibility and respect for your partner.
Sounds like this guy has a video game addiction
@@hopejohnson6347 this is what I was thinking. I don’t believe he was a “novice” gamer. No one spends $8000 on their first gaming system/setup. Because you don’t even know what you’re doing, or if you’re going to enjoy it. He had to have been doing this for quite some time, and I wonder if he really had any intentions of getting married. It’s one thing when both are gamers, like you stated, but when the OP was surprised by his behavior, it made me think he was using her to get the cash for the purchase all along.
@@hopejohnson6347 I'm assuming during your gaming vacations you still take care of yourselves (eating, staying hydrated, showering etc) - because yeah, immersing yourself in a hobby of course doesn't mean you're addicted, but the way the fiance is described here (no showering, not feeding himself, not doing any chores etc) does sound like a red flag. Although with the way he handled the purchase, there's already enough of a reason to consider leaving him regardless.
Charlotte, I was disgusted by the first couple. Well, by him and sad for her. You sincere comment “you deserve better baby cakes” brought me to tears. She really does. So many women are blind to their own worth.
Yeah, if that's his personality, put it in the trash.
I played video games, a fair bit in my late teens and especially in my 20s. I thought having a relationship with a gamer would be amazing for both of us. I have never felt more neglected than sitting there in bed, watching them kill their 50th snow wolf wondering how many more before they finally turn around and realize I’m still sitting there. I put up with it for about a year before moving out and leaving them. Last I heard from them, which was about five years after we broke up, they were still living at home with their parents. Good luck. 😢
Man I wish absolute happiness for the first woman. I hope she's in a good place despite how the wedding went and is able to stand her ground when required. She seems too giving and too compromising and I hope that's not the case.
It makes me so mad that people are just laughing the first wedding vows off like it's not abuse or anything, especially the mom. Bride deserves so much better.
Well, unfortunately it isn't a time or place to lay into him...!!...
Oh for.goodness sake, it's not abuse. They have a different sense of humour than you, and that's ok.
That first clip was edited. The full version includes more sweet and sentimental stuff. They were actually pretty cute and funny.
@@missvoorhees7964 public humulation is only abuse a. If you dont like it and b. Youre actually bothered by what he said. She didnt seem to be, she was surprised at most and even in the comments which everyone seems to be ignoring said its not red flag for her theuve been together for 10 years. Why do strangers feel the need to tell someone else how they should feel, how horrible the perskn they love is or how abusive they are. We dont know them, we dont know their life or how they act/feel with each other on a daily basis. Youve made an assumption over a very edited clip online thats not even that long.
@@missvoorhees7964 again YOU have assumed it's abuse, you do not know this couple you are not in a position to judge them based on a small clip posted online. Abuse is meant to be a strong word not just one thrown around the minute people don't like the way someone spoke, it shouldn't be down to strangers to decide it's abuse for her especially when that word can have lasting consequences and if he's not abusing her like you claim could seriously impact their marriage, their lives and their children's lives.
You know the marriage is doomed to fail when one partner demands total dominion over the other
It was my first marriage. And that only lasted a year and 6 months. Would’ve been sooner, but divorce takes a while and they weren’t willing to annul it. Even though I tried explaining he groomed me and everything. I was drinking the koolaid hard. Good thing my momma talked some sense into me.
@@erikarussell1142 I’m so glad you’re free
But she has been with this guy for 10 YEARS! She will take the abuse until HE finds someone else.
@@katarineiglesias2307 me too!!! It’s like I had severe brain damage the entire time. I mean I do… but I should have never listened to his manipulations.
@@katarineiglesias2307 that breaks my heart. I have been through this as well ❤️🩹 I just want to hug you guys 💓
Can we take a moment to appreciate that first bride's hair? GORGEOUS! ❤❤
For the gaming story. Get a promissory note signed by him for the money he stole from you. You can take him to court over it when he inevitability fails to pay you back. In the note write that there is a time frame of X number of months (I world suggest the save amount of time that you were saving in the first place because you can easily prove to a judge that it is possible for him to save it in that time)
As someone who has a brother who was addicted to gaming, he lost his second wife because of that. She was working 3 jobs, cooking, cleaning, managing the bills, taking care of his daughter from his previous marriage, and pretty much everything in their life while he was gaming almost 24/7. She left him after 6 years. She was patient enough to even last those 6 years and was one of the best SIL I've ever had. The only thing I regretted was that she wasn't my sister, and that thing was my brother.
Damn, poor girl.. and poor daughter.. I hope they are ok now..
I got divorced largely over my husband being addicted to world of Warcraft and not working or doing anything but carry large things for me while I paid all the bills in nyc - rent of 2k myself, plus all the food etc etc. we were married for about 26 months. He became violent when I insisted he stop playing and talk to me or sleep normal schedule. He had finished law school and passed the bar and to this day 18 years later has never had a career.
I don't think this is a gaming addiction. Addicts I have some sympathy for. It's a slow burn.... it happens and worsens over time. (Like over the course of 6 years.) This guy became the worst possible case immediately. This was a PLAN. He strung her along long enough to get the life he thinks he deserves.... a domestic slave and a gaming computer. He didn't lose his job over time. He immediately just stopped working. He isn't even pretending to try or care about her anymore. Nah, he was farming her finances to get his computer faster and he thought he'd picked one that wouldn't ever stand up for herself. The fact her parents had nothing to say to her tells me all I need to know about how they treated her growing up and how she likely values herself as a result. As far as I'm concerned, this is no gaming addiction. This is a parasite. We're looking at something more like a sociopath or narcissist.
@@tashokukisune interesting!
@@tashokukisune I do agree this is too hard and fast to be addiction. Some people can get selfishly obsessed with the New Shiny Thing for a while, and it's temporary, but horrible if they don't manage themselves and act like an obsessed child. The fact that he drained the accounts to get this thing though, and didn't specify he was going to take so much? That feels planned. Especially with the expensive chair and desk additions. The PC itself was way too expensive if that's all the money they had, but to add a chair and desk that might have cost up to $1000 between them was completely unnecessary, even if he wanted the best gaming set up ever. And speaking for where I live, the top of the line option for a popular brand gaming PC (known for being overpriced!), with all the most expensive additions added to it, comes to about £6.5k which is just over $8k USD (it was about $5.5k without the expensive options added on), so while yeah, he also bought the chair and desk so didn't necessarily get the most expensive everything, he must have come very close. He literally spent as much as he could on it, and it seems deliberate.
My husband did the same thing as soon as we got married. The only difference is it was his Xbox (we had one each when we moved in together). I talked to him about it for years, even tried gaming with him to be able to communicate with him. After all this nothing changed so I left and took what I wanted from the house including his Xbox, leaving him mine with almost nothing on it. I had a mutual friend help me out who was there when he got home and apparently all he cared about was the Xbox. He wasn't bothered by me having packed my stuff and moved out without a word, just that I took his Xbox. So glad I walked, some battles just aren't worth fighting.
I think I know who he really married!
Yeah, that said it all. Man, that’s troubling stuff. My husband has had his share of gaming phases but in the end he’s moved on from them and still chosen me. There was damage done but it never reached this level, thankfully. Besides, he’s a very clean person and he never, ever expected me to be his waitress and maid!
Damn that is so hurrful!!! I am so so sorry and honestly I'm a little worried for his mental health. You seem like a person with compassion empathy and intelligence and loving relationships. So I think you're going to be able to move on with life successfully and happily! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Well... he sounds like someone who'll go into a horrible downward and possibly even dangerous spiral. I truly hope you are having a good life now and I hope that he gets the help he needs for the rest of our sake. He sounds like a sad nightmare of a human being.
My ex-husband, too.
How can one get THIS addicted to video games that they can't even see that their life is falling apart.....
05:28 Now THAT is a wedding vow done right.
Lmao, like that dude would ever have a chance if he met Margo robbie
I hope bride with the purple hair finally realizes she deserves better. He seems like the kind of guy that would say “well we aren’t married ¯\_(ツ)_/¯” when she asks him to be better to her
She was defending him and their relationship, fighting tooth and nail in the comments. Looks like she's way too far gone after those 10 years, he's definitely broken her down in that time.
And, to make it worse, he could be right (from a certain angle).
Yes, you are technically (legally) already married when you say your vows. There's a whole process to getting that certificate. However, in many cultures, this isn't always the case - a marriage is binding on a more spiritual, or ceremonial, level.
And, no matter how you spin it, those weren't vows. He didn't once promise her love or fidelity. The only promise he made was, in effect, that she would get to choose how their wedding night sexy-time would go (but not whether or not it would happen).
Similar thing said by my ex "well we don't look like couple at 1st place" when I asked him aren't we taking things too fast, bc I didn't loosed my vcard to him. Dw now I dumped him within 8 days after seeing red flags..but I felt sad that our friendship was good at that time...now I DON'T REGRET that about my doings. 1st video was way too HORRIBLE and TRAUMATISING
And seems like the guy who says, “she’s hot” and it’s not her.
My biggest concern with those vows is that THATS what he said about her in front of their daughters. Disregard the rest of the family, this is the relationship their daughters have to reference. Concerning.
"If I did this to my wife she would probably just straight up cut the computer in half with a chainsaw and say "I paid for half, so half in mine."' Why was that soo freacken funny?!?! XDD
She’s gorgeous! No model?… SHES STUNNING!
All I know is even as a spectator at a wedding, as soon as the vows are being read, I'm getting emotional thinking about how much I love my girl and what I would say to her at our wedding. I could never, in a million years, think about saying those things to my wife. That is just so disgusting. And like, he already has kids with her. Is he seriously still that immature about sex? He strikes me as one of those people who just can't express how they feel because they think it makes you look weak or something.
You could be on to something. 😏
We cant blame him, his brain is inside the pants and really want to open the pants to come out, its sick. And yes some ppl having brains inside pants so all they can think of is sex. I used to be with someone like him, and these ppl give their gfs no respect at all, no one should be with those kind of ppl
More scary... those two kids are two GIRLS. I can't imagine what he's teaching them about their worth and setting the example of how they should be treated. You already know the wife hasn't been treated right by her parents or she wouldn't think it was ok to be treated like this. For ten years. Now these two girls are growing up watching him berate, humiliate, and devalue their mother and learning that it is their place to be treated just like that.
@Catherine K True. He will treat small girls this way also. Any female becomes the target of THAT kind of ignorance, rage and inner anger.
This will not turn out well. Seen it too many times, and had it happen to me too.
@@tashokukisune AND MINORS
I couldn't even imagine hearing my family members talking ab sex and disrespecting the others in front of idk... my 9 yo ass or sth. Like wtf, that's so messed up
Omg that first one was MORTIFYING. I would have walked off and said marry yourself. Even his MOTHER was like STOP! That was painful and humiliating and disrespectful to the bride and friends/family. Absolutely NOT babe! 😢😮 PS. She's GORGEOUS! If anything, HE doesnt deserve her! Her vows were so sweet and genuine. They show how she feels about him but his show how he feels about HIM.
That bride's hair is AWESOME
In the immortal words of the Golden Girl Blanche Devereaux to her daughter on her choice of boyfriend "He's not too good for you! You're too good for him!"
She is a bigger person than me , if my man said those things on our wedding day, there would be no wedding. It’s embarrassing and inappropriate. It’s like he lived to embarrass her . He did it in front of everyone. Nope not me kids or no I would be gone . Her wedding vow was an awesome, in my opinion he didn’t deserve it .
😂 they prob dont take these things as seriously its a funny memory🎉 Some pple are jokers and cant give deep speeches in front of others
I’m not a violent person…. But girllllll… there isn’t a single thing on this planet that could have stopped me from knocking his ass out.
@@thegalhorowitz okay fair but uhh… to tell your wife that all he cares about on his wedding day is whether he’s going to cum inside her or on top of her IN FRONT OF HER WHOLE FAMILY & YOUR OWN & then give more compliments to a complete stranger & basically say “you’re not even my first choice & if a miracle happened where my first choice walked in the room, I’d leave you without question” ya no… sorry. But no. Especially when you listen to her vows & you see how sincere & caring she is…. He could have said “all jokes aside.. you’re the woman of my dreams & I can’t believe I get to call you my wife” or literally ANYTHING ELSE! But he talked about himself, his balls & another woman & didn’t pay her a single meaningful compliment. Nah he’s a POS. I’m not a serious person by any means.. my husband & I are pretend mean to eachother all the time & have what outsiders might consider mean nicknames for eachother.. we don’t take things too seriously… but if he did that on our wedding day? In front of our whole family? I’d kick him in the balls so hard that he would never have to worry about them being “empty” again..
@@thegalhorowitz i guess the point that everyone is trying to make is that there are VERY few occasions when “can’t speak in front of others” is not an excuse for a shitty behavior. A wedding is the most important event in any relationship (besides maybe having children), if you can’t pull it together for one single day, what does that tell you about your relationship? My fiancee is also a terrible public speaker but I’m 10000% sure that he would write the most heartfelt vow, even if I never hear him express his feelings any other time. Because that’s what you do on your wedding day, no matter how many years you are into the relationship.
Poor olittle o
That first story made me feel so awful for that bride. And then for her to defend it.... she's been conditioned to be okay with that. We accept the love we think we deserve, whether we're aware of it or not.
and even her “defense” comment was weak 😢
She said she would choose him over and over or something to that affect.
He’d choose her, unless Margo Robbie showed up.
😢
So true 👏
I blame her parents. The parents who either weren't at the wedding because they're dirtbags... or were and sat there silently letting him speak to her that way.
@Catherine K you can't blame the parents for the attitudes and actions of their crappy son in law. I'm sure if they disapprove of him they've made it known but they ultimately can't control their daughter nor would it be right for them to try to. At some point you have to hold your peace for a greater gain... like not pushing away your daughter.
2:14 and not in front of their kids, that were sitting in the front row. Yep, right there...just a few ft away from them!!!
The slight smile cracked when bringing up "burning the PC" was EPIC!
Story 1 triggered me. I’m old- not triggered easily. The bride extraordinarily thoughtful & kind, clearly capable of great love and forgiveness , absolutely beautiful and quite well spoken. These are GREAT qualities. I hope she finds someone to share her life with who appreciates the rare wonder that is her.
Yep, I hope she comes to her senses soon because she deserves SO MUCH BETTER than that dude.
Yeah very beautiful woman, hope she’s able to see that one day
He's so lucky to have her, not the other way around, pervie selfish vows and her insecurities are heart breaking 💕
Pervie.. a groom of almost 10 yrs, saying he loves his brides and his sex life.. you women love to accuse men of outlandish rubbish.. go like and subscribe to the mountain of over sexualising women and tell them their "slaying it babe".. yous are a bunch of hypercrits in this comment section and Charlotte's no better..
Yup. All she is to him is a penis receptacle. 😢
Yeah. I can only hope she one day comes to her senses and realizes that she deserves better. ❤
She actually thought HE was "too good" for HER!?!?!? Girl, RUN!!! 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
I love all your advice Charlotte 🥰🤗👍 thank you for all you do 🙏🤗you make my day
I lived with a "gamer dude" that was exactly like this. He would ignore his kid, he treated me like I was an inconvenience, he even said he was too busy to "handle me" when I had witnessed a violent death on the way home from work. He ended up getting me my own computer and game so I would stop "bugging" him, then got super pissed that I was ignoring him.
I wonder how long it would take for this guy to notice if she left.
probably about 12 hours, because he wouldn't notice she was in another state until he realized his servant was gone. God i hope she leaves him. take the computer too and sell it to get her money back. But I REALLY hope that at the very least, she leaves this man
He would probably notice pretty quickly since she was feeding and watering him the whole time he’s had the PC
First girl: their relationship might work now, but if she EVER gets sick or hurt where she can’t do what he wants, he’s gone/cheating, and blaming her for it…
100%
Sad but true
They’ve been together 10 years and gave two kids. He’s cheated already. More than once.
My eyes teared up during Her vows.
The chef sliding across the screen @ 0:43 absolutely SENT ME 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I've already seen this on Twitter and yeah it really breaks my heart, she doesn't even realize she's in an emotionally abusive relationship, he negged her in his "vows" just WTF and the fact that he obviously makes her think that way about herself too and only sees her as a sexual object to please him. It's horrible, I really hope she sees the light and gets herself out
Ugh...these poor ladies. My husband developed a gaming addiction around the time of our wedding. It was awful. He didn't just play, but he screamed, ranted, stomped the floor and spewed profanities and slurs. I hated it. He did go to work and meet his household obligations. I knew he was serious about our relationship because he sold his mustang and drove around in a beater to pay off some old debt that he didn't want to bring into our marriage because he believed I deserved better. FINALLY, he heard me loud and clear about how his behavior was affecting me. Getting woken up up in the middle of the night to screaming, cursing, and COD machine gun fire was setting off my anxiety. He initially agreed to some boundaries that included he wasn't allowed to yell, stomp, or turn his TV up when I was asleep, but he couldn't keep them. So after a good bit of tension and me questioning if I could stay in this relationship, he decided that me and our marriage were worth more than gaming with his friends. He realized that he really sucked at managing his behavior regarding gaming, so he stopped. Cold turkey. That was over 10 years ago and our marriage has been mostly wonderful since the gaming exited our lives.
Awesome for both him and you.
Yikes my son games like this. With the constant profanities and pounding the desktop. Idk how to get him to stop.
@killerfreckles1162 Good luck. The brain of people who behave this way resembles the function of someone with a substance abuse disorder. In short, there are ways to support him, but an addict won't stop until they decide they need to do something different. I hope he is able to get it under control and not miss out on relationships and other life enriching things.
We didn't do vows. We did the 'I do' in reply to the officiant. It was a terrible wedding by most standards but I didn't have a dream wedding in my mind so I didn't care. Nine years later we haven't done a re-do even although we can afford a nice party with my family around. I don't care about that stuff. I care about the quality of the marriage. People really put wayy too much weight on this one freaking day.
With the one with the guy’s vows. My dad would have immediately made me call off the whole wedding 😂
Yeah dad would grab his daughters arm and say I am NOT giving my daughter in marriage to this jerk.
Two things:
1. Dressing a man in a suit doesn’t make him a gentleman.
2. Your hair is looking amazing in this video Char! 😍
Lipstick on a pig is still just a pig with lipstick.
@@cholieandresa That was kinda tacky, unless you’re referring to the dude.
Oh my God! Seriously? If one of my sons ever spoke to his bride like that publicly EVER let alone at their wedding my husband would drag him away to have a "discussion" in private about honor and respect. That poor girl! 😡😢
You could hear the mom's embarrassment when she couldn't help but speak up. 😬
I would have loyally boxed his ears like a child and said I felt they didn’t belong together. Even as his mother. Oh hell naw.
My mom has 3 sons. If any of them ever did what he did, they'd have a fat lip halfway through those "vows"
Where her parents in the audience? If someone talked to my girl on her wedding day like that, I'd tackle him. I don't care if I'm splashed all over the internet and end up on this channel.
@@loveli420 I don't blame her. I would have stopped everything at that point.
The funny vow episode is great, awesome couple!
That first one was so sad. She's like, "Whelp I put in ten years and we've got two kids and this is the best I'm gonna get."
As a women who really loves to play video games. Married to my husband who is a gamer, too. I have to say that is such a big red flag. Me and He would never ever had done such a thing. No go.
Same here. Most evenings my partner and I play games alongside each other, but he would NEVER use money we set aside for wedding to purchase a gaming pc. Something else is going on there, but no idea what it could be.
It almost sounds like dude is spiraling into depression or some mental health issues.
I think this is a classic example of why being together a long time isn't necessarily a good sign. I've seen some toxic relationships last a long time. I wonder if this is the case or if her husband is just clueless
Longevity, doesn’t mean healthy
I gotta say that the vulnerability/your soul that I saw you express during the wedding vow debacle stole the show for me. ❤🤟🌿
The candles or lights? to the left were calling my attention. One was saying “blep blep blep” through the whole video. 😂
What stands out to me in the first couple's vows is that he not only spends most of his being wildly inappropriate, super crass and with lust rather than any semblance of affection, he jokes about how he would "stick by you I suppose - unless I meet Margot Robbie" , while she talks about how she wants nobody else and promises to choose him every day for the rest of their lives.
I'm really hoping that what we saw was just a colossal lapse of judgement and not indicative of their relationship as a whole.
Funny thing is, he could meet Margot Robbie all he wants... but that doesn't mean she'd actually WANT HIM. His wife he's disrespecting so hard here loves him so much, he really thinks he could have a shot at a woman like Margot. And that couldn't be further from the truth. But he breaks HER self esteem down??? No, that's ridiculous and honestly, I worry if the guy is abusive.
For the woman that fiancé has a gaming addiction, I totally felt for her. My father, brother, ex bf were the same way. I barely ever spent actual time with my father/brother growing up because they would always be on their computers. And my ex bf was the exact same way as that woman’s fiancé once I moved in with him. I did literally everything by myself and the only time I saw him was when he got up to get the food I cooked for us or when he left for work. No matter how many times I’d ask for some quality time he’d always tell me “okay after this game” and followed up by “oops, I forgot. Definitely after this game”. Then he got a work from home job and he NEVER left that chair. After so long I quit trying to get him to spend time with me and I would go out with a friend every few days. After about a month he finally caught on and got mad at me for never being home with him (even though he never spent actual time with me. Once Covid hit and he turned abusive and manipulative I knew I had to leave. When I started packing everything that was mine, he never noticed…..until the day I was taking all of my things to the car. He got mad and started saying hurtful things while also throwing in some ‘trying to be romantic’ things (trying to get me to stay) but he still never got out of his computer chair.
I am so happy I left him, even if I had to move back in with my mother.
Kudos to you for leaving!
I'm am so sorry you had to go through this. Good for you for leaving. He'll regret losing you.
@@Claudia-lq3ns thank you. And I really hope he does
Plot Twist: Mom spends all her time gaming & ignores daughter.
Hi just gonna state that that guy was horrible and he was using his gaming as an excuse to abuse you! My bf and i are gamers too but we are super respectful of each other, spend loads of time together and would drop any game in a second for each other. Im so sorry ou got entangled with a horrid abuser its a hard wound to heal
Gamer here - an $8000 gaming rig is insane. He didn't just buy a gaming rig, he got the best of the best - one of the top video cards, a 4k or 5k resolution monitor, a full gaming mouse and keyboard setup, etc. You can spend $1500 - $2000 and get a gaming rig that will play just about any game you want to play just fine.
This guy completely took advantage of his fiance and had a custom rig built that would take most of the money. From a gaming standpoint, it's even worse than it sounds on the outset.
Those vows are fucking amazing!! That's some shit my husband would've done. 😂 I love it
Story #2 reminds me of a neighbor I once had. Wife gave him money and a list for Christmas gifts for their young daughter. He came home with some new monster tires on his truck! She packed up the kid and left. How do I know the details? They had a screaming match in the front yard! Everyone knew how he effed up! To show what a good guy he was, he had a new GF in the house before the end of the year. I'm pretty sure they didn't just meet, if ya know what I mean!
That's really sad especially not just for the wife but the daughter as well it means he doesn't care about either of them.
Good riddance
I can’t imagine marrying a man who was ok with speaking like that in front of our entire family…children included 😳🤦🏼♀️
No man will ever treat me like that. More accurately, that man wld never be able to do that again cuz he’d be on the other side of the front door waiting for the ambulance to take him away.
That is the funniest wedding vows. You're a lot like the man I was married to. 38 years of the most fun of my life. Your wife is very lucky
I posted this on another video but feel it should be said again… If my fiancé said ANY of this in front of my family I’d literally walk out of my own wedding. I don’t even have kids but just in front of my mom dad and older sister id literally walk out. Like saying something goofy like “I’m so excited for our wedding.. but more excited for tonight” is probably as far as i would ever let this go, and even that I don’t really wanna hear in vows in front of my family.
Also… the fact that she felt “grateful” because she thinks he somehow saved her and she says all these beautiful sweet things about this pig just makes me so sad for her. Like she really doesn’t think she deserves better than to be made a fool of, it’s also concerning that he mentioned Margot Robbie (which prob was the least aggregious thing in here) but she has to say things like “I’m not a model and I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world” like girl what? She was stunning and he looked like a greasy thumb and she’s acting like she’s so disgusting it was a miracle she got a man? You KNOW he’s making her feel like that at home. And she’s the MOTHER of their children. Their GIRL children, what a wonderful role model he is for them to see… good lord.
Oh yeah, absolutely terrified for her kids, you know he treats them just like her
I’m actually in tears for this woman. I know what it is like to marry a narcissist.
Here here! Great comment! I agree.
She isn't the "prettiest girl in the world". Did you see her teeth? Her whole mouth was disgusting and it's a wonder she could even make-out or have sex with her husband to create two children with that man. I just hope her daughters don't inherit her teeth because if they do, they'll have to spend thousands of dollars to fix it.
Yeah, I'm with you. And I don't know why his mom's standing there, but she needs to knock out the clown she raised.
We got married on our 10 year anniversary, thats not an excuse to be gross during your vows. My husband and i roast eachother constantly, we make dirty jokes, but our wedding was a day to celebrate love. The first goom was awful and im so sad that she doesnt see that
Absolutely disgusting! That first story reeks of emotional abuse happening. Can tell by the way she spoke. So sad😢 Hope she wises up, gets out, and gets the happiness she deserves.
For the gaming PC story, the average price for that type of PC is around £1200 GBP (approx $1500 USD/$2000 CAD), with the highest being £3000 GBP (Approx $3750 USD/$5000 CAD) so it most likely was that alongside the chair and desk that drained the wedding savings and he didnt touch his own account for it, which makes it a bit worse already.
I play video games a lot myself and have a gaming laptop i do a lot of my college work and personal stuff on and they do get expensive.
I have been this bride, I mean I wasn't a bride but I was her.. in a relationship with someone who had me speaking like this about him while he spoke nothing good of me. It was a horrific relationship that (after 4 yrs) had me feeling like I deserved no better ... I eventually left, after one day I just made the decision and walked away, hardest decision to make. Not only because you're not sure whether what you're seeing is true or not, but also because it takes a lot of strength to admit that you did you wrong, and haven't been loving yourself. Even now I am drowning in that guilt almost daily. Very difficult decision she made, I'm so sad because he will continue to break her down without her even realizing it.
I hope she gets therapy.
I am proud of you for leaving. Stay strong.....and keep in mind, that quite a lot of guilt/shame is a side effect of long term abuse. Healing is a super slow process, but as you heal the guilt will significantly lessen.
I am so happy to hear you got away
HUGE respect for getting out!!!! That must have been terrifying!
@Yup Yup Agreed!!! Strongly recommend Crappy Childhood Fairy to help heal the effects of long term abuse!
@Yup Yup thanks, I just subscribed to the channel and will start watching and healing. Thanks for the plug.