BPD Relationship Hoovering
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- Опубликовано: 10 июл 2024
- We split, then we breakup, then we regret, then we get back together, then we do it all over again.
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If the split has nothing to do with you neither does the relationship. Move on folks.
You are few BPD who says things for what it is instead of trying to justify your actions and trying to lie about things to cover up your illness. Respect!
Because he is under therapy
Sucks that you have to own your behaviour. Sucks that you damage people. Please own it. Do whatever you have to stop the pattern. I am bitter about being harmed by BPD.
It makes perfect sense how BPD is within the same Cluster as NPD and ASPD. The traits are super similar. They are basically 3 impulsive personalities with prefrontal cortex malfunctions! ASPD is a little bit more different considering how BPD and NPD are both validation seekers... While ASPD lacks validation seeking reason why it's name has ''antisocial''.
The pain of losing my girlfriend because of splitting and impulses has been unbearable for the last almost three months. The better I get (I began deep diving into treatment options / learning as much as I can about BPD back in early July) ... the more I feel the sadness, guilt and regret for what I did to sabotage our relationship. Do you relate to that? It's rough... knowing that I hurt the person I love. The relationship almost got repaired but my lack of emotional regulation caused that to fail as well. It's truly unbearable at times.
Life is a waking nightmare . I hate being so toxic . But I always feel so justified . I feel you a lot . I lost a lot of people because of my lack of self control . But you know what we gotta do ? WE GOTTA KEEP IT PUSHIN BABYYY FUC BPD IMMA KEEP TAKING MY MEDS AND FOCUS ON GETTING HOT .
I feel I did the same thing so don't beat yourself up too bad. However, I did get my buttons pushed and perhaps you did too. I reacted unpleasantly instead of just playing it cool and noticing where the exit sign was. It will take some work to become "emotionally regulated" but it can be done or at least mitigated to an occasional dull roar.
Thank you for making these I'm working with a therapist but it feels nice to hear that I'm not alone in these struggles.
You’re definitely not alone. Good luck with your therapy!
Another great video! You're really helping lots of people on both sides of the relationship. Thank you for explaining and sharing this info.
You’re helping me SO much, I can’t really put it into words but I’m sure you have an understanding. Thank you so much sincerely.
You are so welcome!
What about if both partners have BPD/NPD, BPD or any combination of both? then would you say that we are not to blame?
ziggy played guitar, so does this guy, coincidence,you decide
When my ex hoovered me she said she did self harm to feel love for me again , does this make sense to you ? What’s the thinking behind why that would trigger love.
These individuals don’t know what they want.
@@abolisher Hi Friend , I’m in a much better place now . This was a long time ago. The only way to heal is CODA 12 steps and therapy and NO CONTACT. With those 3 working together you will see the insidious nature of the dynamic you were in. You end up realizing the whole relationship was projection and not love.
@@bellofigoitaliano5038 I’ve got a lot of support around me also friends who are psychologist im doing much better now still scared of this person though lol keep in mind we were only together for about 2-3 months so it wasn’t really long enough to hurt me as much as these other relationships who dated were with them much longer.
@@abolisher all
It takes is one discard to do horrific damage. Work the 12 steps or you will
Not recover.
@@bellofigoitaliano5038 that’s very true I cried a lot in the beginning but I was the one who ended things