Ep 2 'Learning Gabe has down syndrome' Let’s get down to it - A disability pride month exclusive!

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Greetings Saftronauts!
    In honor of Disability Pride Month, “Let’s Get Down To It” is a coffee talk mini-series celebrating Gabriel, who has Down syndrome. The Safier family opens up about the realities of life together and the power of love, hope, compassion, and awareness.
    Gabe and I appreciate all the support! Please remember to subscribe, like and comment! Also let us know what videos you want to see in the comments! Thank you for watching!
    Please follow our other social media platforms:
    / nicholassafier
    / nicksafier
    For Bookings & Promo, Contact: shawn@ktmanagers.com

Комментарии • 163

  • @shirleyz7400
    @shirleyz7400 2 года назад +110

    When I hear that a person give birth or have a special needs child I always call them angel babies because they are a special gift to the world. I always feel honored to met or be with them. They teach us so much about struggles & love. Bless your beautiful family!✌️👍🤗💖

    • @rsvcs1
      @rsvcs1 2 года назад +11

      They truly are angels unaware!! 💗 💗💗💗

    • @SafierUniverse
      @SafierUniverse  2 года назад +17

      Love this and well said and poetic Shirley 🥰💙💙💙 thank you 💙💛

    • @sheilascoyne861
      @sheilascoyne861 2 года назад +10

      Amen, they are our Angel's, they are the purest of love, heart and soul.

    • @RPangi911
      @RPangi911 2 года назад +7

      Yes indeed!
      The disciples approached Jesus and said, “Who is the greatest in the Kingdom of heaven?”
      He called a child over, placed it in their midst, and said, “Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the Kingdom of heaven.
      Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the Kingdom of heaven.
      And whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me.
      But he that shall scandalize one of these little ones that believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone should be hanged about his neck, and that he should be drowned in the depth of the sea.
      Matthew 18:1-16 Mark 9:30-37, Luke 9:46-50

    • @emmajones5470
      @emmajones5470 Год назад +2

      I have got son who has spical needs. Everything is fine tho pregnancy and giving birth. There no signs off anything tile. He was 9 months ago. He had a cold. And everything when backed fored. Took me 9 years really what needs he had. He is 20 all 21. He got global delay, autism.

  • @thatsthat2612
    @thatsthat2612 2 года назад +14

    My little boy is non verbal autistic. He's perhaps one of the happiest children on earth, he's so loving, he loves cuddles and he reminds me everyday to be happy with my lot and I love him more than anything, I'd never change him, he's so perfect. It's the same innocence as gabe, he's perfect too.

    • @tillybinkie
      @tillybinkie Год назад +1

      I took my grandson to swings and roundabouts. He loved the swings. He was non verbal. One day he seemed to fight to say a squeak, this was his first word 'swing'. He is verbal now. Many other problems to handle but I thought I wd let you know that sometimes non verbal can develop. Do you use sign language? X

  • @aussiegallisawadwell3994
    @aussiegallisawadwell3994 2 года назад +40

    Hi Safier Family. You all present such a wonderful and loving unit. The heartache that must have been experienced by both Mun & Dad upon learning that Gabe would be a special needs person has well and truly turned into an inspiring, uplifting, loving and mentoring of Nick & Kira & Gabe through the reality of life's ups and downs to present what is your family's 'normal lifestyle. Hats off to all of you and special kudos to Mum and Dad for being the strong people that you are. I acknowledge that you have had your own personal struggles to deal with, what which raising Nick and Kira and attending to Gabe with his needs. You have raised 3 loving strong young adults, who express their love for each other and the both of you it is so beautiful and wonderful to experience life from your families perspective. More power to the Safier Family. Hugs to you all. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @SafierUniverse
      @SafierUniverse  2 года назад +13

      Thank you so much Lisa for your heartfelt and incredibly sweet comment 💙💛💙 an incredible journey it has been!

  • @kevinlim2049
    @kevinlim2049 2 года назад +13

    I'm my parents miracle child due to I was born to weeks early and had some issue while my mom was in labor with me. I'm thankful for the Safier family for sharing this amazing journey with Gabe. Keep this funny and awesome family growing.

  • @shelleylongacre2561
    @shelleylongacre2561 2 года назад +21

    Watching your videos make me happy. I can be upset form something at work come home and watch your video and everything goes away. Keep up the great work. ❤️

    • @maziereenie4956
      @maziereenie4956 2 года назад +3

      Same here..I have introduced this to many persons..it's like therapy to me watching something inspiring among all the trials of this world...thank you NICK, GABE, KIRA AND YOUR WONDERFUL PARENTS.. NICK will never leave Gabe out of his life...🙏

    • @user-zk6qq7yv6f
      @user-zk6qq7yv6f Год назад +1

      I think the whole family has a beautiful life together. God bless you all.

  • @tianamoncayo2833
    @tianamoncayo2833 2 года назад +19

    Thank you all for sharing your story. It is amazing to hear and watch how much love all of you have for each other.

  • @karenedwards9510
    @karenedwards9510 Год назад +3

    Until this 2 part video I didn't know Kiera and Gabe were Twins. My cousin had twins and one passed away after 45 min and the other grew up with Asperger's! You are an Amazing Family! God Bless You ALWAYS!

  • @barbarakahat278
    @barbarakahat278 Год назад +3

    Such a beautiful story and testimonial to God's mercy, love, and compassion.

  • @betty3326
    @betty3326 Год назад +2

    It's great watching all the videos that are made about Gabe and the rest of the family. I really like listening to Gabe's unusual laughter and seeing Nick and Gabe twinning in their clothing. The kiss that Gabe gives Nick is sweet

  • @karenedwards9510
    @karenedwards9510 Год назад +2

    I LOVE SEEING THE LOVE IN YOUR FAMILY! YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION!

  • @Nykona-Sharrowkyn
    @Nykona-Sharrowkyn 2 года назад +11

    Thank you all for continuing to share your beautiful story, oh and Nick looks and sounds so much like cameraman (dad)
    🧡❤️💙

  • @kazallen1661
    @kazallen1661 Год назад +4

    It's so refreshing to see unconditional love. You're better than watching TV. Stay blessed, I love you all, Saftronauts.

  • @itumelengmashilo6071
    @itumelengmashilo6071 2 года назад +18

    This was wonderful. I loved this series. Thank you to both your parents for sharing this story with us. And thank you for always bringing positive awareness about down syndrome. Sending your entire family love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤❤❤❤

  • @barbaraunderwood1762
    @barbaraunderwood1762 Год назад +1

    I’ve always said that God gives special needs children to the people that r the best fit. I ❤❤❤❤ this family.

  • @AndreaFlitton-il6bw
    @AndreaFlitton-il6bw Год назад +2

    Nicholas is a great name! My dad was a Nicholas, and he was a wonderful dad, with amazingly dry sense of humor. ❤️

  • @patriciaarpin-wilson4913
    @patriciaarpin-wilson4913 Год назад +1

    Thank you Safier Family for Episode 2! I had seen Special Episode 1, and was so waiting for 2! You have such a beautiful family! Bless you all!❤️🥰💜🥰
    Rancho Cucamonga, California 🌻

  • @domcacciola4205
    @domcacciola4205 2 года назад +5

    I have to say and I might be wrong but I think God knows what he is doing when he picks parents for special needs children. The love this family has for one another is aspiring. He knew this is where Gabriel would fit in. Your Angel that you share with other people and brighten their days. Hopefully you will continue to bring joy and happiness to everyone. The bond this family has should be a learning tool for everyone. Much love keep the videos coming

  • @oodlesacaboodles
    @oodlesacaboodles Год назад +3

    I didn't have twins, but your story is so similar to my own when I had my youngest daughter, who is Down Syndrome.

  • @aprildiaz6298
    @aprildiaz6298 2 года назад +4

    I love Nicks relationship w Gabe. I know the twinning thing is planned but cute. 💕

  • @karenedwards9510
    @karenedwards9510 Год назад +2

    I Love the name Kiera/Kira means " A Beam of Light"! I see both twins' names as an Angel!

  • @tracyleblanc5311
    @tracyleblanc5311 Год назад +1

    It's an enjoyable journey to watch all of you as a family. Thank you for letting us into your journey. Gods blessings

  • @annarcher5198
    @annarcher5198 Год назад +1

    I got to admit when I first started watching this I actually thought that Matt and Gabe were the twins and watching the shorts videos❤❤ I realized I had it wrong....that just shows the awesome connection this family has with one another. Im loveing everything about this family.

  • @msdove61
    @msdove61 Год назад +1

    Hi Safier Family, My daughter's name is Kira she was born in 1982 Kira = Greek Goddess, I love how tight and loving and supportive your family is. I'm so happy I found your channel because I come home from a long stressful day of work and I have to find one of your videos to hear Gabe and his evil laugh at Nick, so cute how they twinny lol Thank You for sahring your jouney with us!

  • @blessedbygod8083
    @blessedbygod8083 2 года назад +2

    What a beautiful family you have...reminiscing the past is sweet.I have to commend Mr. and Mrs. Safier for having a strong relationship as husband and wife in today's world when broken-home is common.I say this because my own family got broken,my husband don't have an interest to enjoy life with me and my children because his friends and alcohol/drugs are much more important to him. But look Daddy Safier,he enjoyed filming his boys and he has a good sense of humor of whom the boys got. I pray for you to stay together stronger...in the name of JESUS CHRIST...Belle of Phils.

  • @Nana_Tink
    @Nana_Tink 10 месяцев назад

    I am loving watching this series. Learning so much about your family. Thank you all for sharing. Watching them all.
    I've always said our Gabriel is our angel.

  • @douglasmcmillan5412
    @douglasmcmillan5412 2 года назад +2

    Your family is amazing. Thanks for sharing videos. Gabby makes my days better. All I have to do is watch a video and it makes my days great

  • @Carole2Kittens
    @Carole2Kittens 2 года назад +1

    You're my hero 💙, Gabe. I'm so glad your family shares the beautiful relationship they share with one another.

  • @claref86
    @claref86 Год назад

    Safer Family, thank you for sharing your story. I also have a brother with Downs syndrome, and the love you all show for Gabe reminds me of how much I'm glad that I have my brother in my life because he's made me a better person in so many ways. Much love ❤️

  • @lenyofwvlog
    @lenyofwvlog 2 года назад +2

    Family bonding is very important...to talk our family each everyone have something to say their feelings....I really admire like this family..hod bless as and keep safe

  • @rachelsmith5687
    @rachelsmith5687 Год назад

    Gabe is perfect, it's the world

  • @alishak1
    @alishak1 2 года назад +6

    I love the series all ready!! It really is truly inspiring and provides a light on that disability's as they are different ability which makes it so special!! ❤️😊

  • @tonisjustknotright
    @tonisjustknotright 2 года назад +1

    Hello Safier family. I really appreciate the candidness with which you are telling your story. When I was young, (early 1960's) people with down syndrome were treated so differently. I am so glad that has and continues to change.
    Your children are a bright, shining example of good parenting and a strong family .

  • @saraengland1336
    @saraengland1336 9 месяцев назад

    This is the most loving family I have ever known you give me such joy watching the fun things you all share and the two brothers that just love each other and love sharing the wearing of same clothes. So awesome. Thank you for sharing this story with the world. You are strong parents and at that time you both were very strong and loving. Hugs and love to whole family. Love your videos
    ❤❤❤❤❤🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nancymawman6859
    @nancymawman6859 2 года назад +1

    Love every episode!! Love Gabby beautiful family! Kids are great parents are the sweetest!!! Feel blessed!! Love your house too!!

  • @jenniferthomas9491
    @jenniferthomas9491 2 года назад +1

    God bless you for choosing life for your son. A beautiful family. ♥️

  • @pennypacheco512
    @pennypacheco512 2 года назад +1

    Your family is so very special and I want to thank you for taking us on your journey. I loved this vlog now I get to met everyone in your beautiful family and see how special you are specially Gabe. He is a super hero

  • @graceland57
    @graceland57 2 года назад +1

    Only got to catch up now, glad I did.
    So lovely hearing about your Mum and Dad’s personal experience of having Gabe and Kira. Respect to your parents…and to be blessed, as you all are with an angel like Gabe is a beautiful gift.
    Very much looking forward to the next part of your story 🥰

  • @irenebaez3060
    @irenebaez3060 Год назад

    Enjoyed the story...Thank you for this history lesson,,, ❤❤❤😊😊...THANK YOU SAFIER FAMILY.....

  • @Kentucky808
    @Kentucky808 2 года назад +4

    I love this series it’s so inspiring and I love you all I have a disability too y’all make my day better and brighter your mom is a warrior and I love this y’all have touch my heart ❤️ you guys are so awesome love your videos I found you guys not to long ago and I immediately subscribed and I’m so glad I did Gabe’s story is so inspiring

  • @heidikane-nl1wn
    @heidikane-nl1wn Год назад

    I'm only telling you this as I have a special needs child and I myself have certain needs and I know what it's like and to see this is upsetting, but on the whole Gabe you are really special and you make the you tube you make me happy 😊

  • @NickyJohnK219
    @NickyJohnK219 2 года назад +3

    Happy Saturday I hope you’re having a blessed day and an amazing summer you’re the coolest family ever I love the brotherly relationship between You two

  • @littlemisssunshine5628
    @littlemisssunshine5628 9 месяцев назад

    What a darling family. 🥰 Thank you for sharing your lives with us. ❤

  • @starsydney
    @starsydney Год назад

    my sister have twins ...she deliver d babies after 6 months only....the other one died minutes after birth....the other one stays for only 6 years with us...he is very special...cannot stand...cannot speak...cannot see clearly...he is d joy of the family...miss them...our angels in heaven...thank u for taking care of gabe...it feels great seeing gabe...love from the Philippines!!!

  • @varshakatara275
    @varshakatara275 Год назад

    Ur family is super blessed ....just started following u ...n really ur a family of angels all of u ...though gabe is above god like really the love n happiness he gets out of each ..
    God bless u all .
    Lots of live from india

  • @rhondabritt972
    @rhondabritt972 2 года назад +1

    Love the series so far. Such a heart warming story. Your entire family are such a blessing. Love watching videos always warms my heart. Have a bless day. Love you guys.

  • @TheSelinab
    @TheSelinab Год назад

    Suchaloving adorable family you are truly blessed god bless you x

  • @collette9008
    @collette9008 Год назад

    So beautiful 😍 a family, I am crying. I know God has blessed you and will continue to bless you 🙏 ❤️.

  • @BNHAalltheway
    @BNHAalltheway 2 года назад +1

    You guys are such a sweet family and Gabe is such a super awesome person thanks for sharing the story of Your family

  • @rossellaestlinbaum4363
    @rossellaestlinbaum4363 2 года назад +2

    Gabe is amazing! I felt a little sad that he wanted to talk and was overlooked. Your family unit is so close and loving. How old are the twins? And Nicky you are so great with your brother!

  • @bethbilby8059
    @bethbilby8059 Год назад

    Hello Safier family thank you so much for sharing your family with all of us and especially sharing the loving bond you all have a million times thank you for sharing your story

  • @dorisburtoncrabtree8844
    @dorisburtoncrabtree8844 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing this story. No idea they were twins. So beautiful ❤

  • @daisymeadow6662
    @daisymeadow6662 Год назад

    I always think of an angel when I think of Gabriel!!! wow, didn't realise you were Jewish, I always thought Safier sounded Jewish but I wasn't sure!!!Im Jewish too, and I cannot stop watching these videos that Ive missed, but its UK and I must get to bed!!! wonderfully told by both mom and dad!!!

  • @SAMMYANTHA81
    @SAMMYANTHA81 2 года назад

    I love your family. It’s remarkable to see how your parents embrace all of you. You share a rare unconditional love, no matter the circumstances.
    You are, indeed, blessed with Gabriel. It warms my heart and makes my days brighter.
    I have Cerebral Palsy. My experiences were quite the opposite. Your stories are truly a gift. Thank you so much for sharing such amazing experiences and making the world a better place.

  • @wildaperez3028
    @wildaperez3028 Год назад

    God bless all of yours, its a beautiful family

  • @teddielester4098
    @teddielester4098 Год назад

    Your family is awesome and we love watching these videos

  • @kathleenirish8516
    @kathleenirish8516 Год назад

    Anyone who may be interested, Special Olympics is always happy to have volunteers. Some schools also have Very Special Arts. I volunteered for both a number of times. Very rewarding experiences.

  • @cozettecampbell1048
    @cozettecampbell1048 Год назад

    I have a disability and everybody loves me for who I am and I and I love everyone and I know that I am an angel

  • @korilester7195
    @korilester7195 2 года назад +1

    I started working with children with special needs about 17 years ago. I provide Developmental Play Therapy for kids in early intervention birth to 3. I truly love it. The tik toks with your two sons are just so adorable, I love them. Just wanted to say to mom and dad you guys do not look old enough to have your oldest son, you look so young The first tik tok I saw with your sons and their dad. I could not believe that was their dad I thought it was their brother.

    • @aquarian2377
      @aquarian2377 Год назад

      You work in a true and unconditionally loving environment, you must be very fulfilled in your heart.

  • @TymeIsPrecious.
    @TymeIsPrecious. 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. 😊

  • @joannemayhew8591
    @joannemayhew8591 9 месяцев назад +1

    I have always said that disabled people are gods special children

  • @kimschmidgall1622
    @kimschmidgall1622 9 месяцев назад

    He doesn’t have a disability! He has a special ability!!

    • @alicepyne-jahneke8042
      @alicepyne-jahneke8042 7 месяцев назад +1

      As the mother of a son w Downs syndrome ,one of the things that I've always wished is that people would recognize that he is disabled. It's not all of who he is, but it is a part of who he is. Gabe, as lovely as he is, is disabled. Both him, and my son, will never reach all of the milestones that other kids reach. Which is ok, but to deny their disability doesn't do them any favors

  • @sharronbevan6425
    @sharronbevan6425 2 года назад

    Beautiful family so close to each other gabe
    so so lucky to be born to u and your so lucky to have him ,TO U GABE xxxxxx

  • @suejarrett6585
    @suejarrett6585 10 месяцев назад

    love this story and love to watch the family!

  • @lifeisgood5226
    @lifeisgood5226 Год назад +1

    As an early intervention teacher of the blind my heart leaps with joy when I get to meet a child with special needs that have a sensory loss or other non-sensory disabilities because I know that in many cases their mother’s were told to abort their child. Yet all of my students are alive and well because their mother’s said ‘No’ and gave their child and themselves a chance to live. I am so glad you have your son and the world is better place knowing he is here. ❤

  • @maegardnermills4292
    @maegardnermills4292 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you. Great family information.
    I love you all.
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @evelynmoya777
    @evelynmoya777 Год назад

    beautiful family. I love to see all your videos, such a loving caring family. God bless you all

  • @dequinceygilliam9491
    @dequinceygilliam9491 2 года назад +1

    What an amazing video. I hope you all have a blessed Happy Saturday. much love ❤️ to you guys!!!!

  • @rg-nj6pp
    @rg-nj6pp Год назад

    Love you guys for sharing your journey. May god keep blessing you and stay strong as always. From leslie sickles and l live in ohio.

  • @elin2962
    @elin2962 2 года назад +1

    Dad- "bring in the clown"
    And Nick steps up with "yellow brick road" 😂😂
    Love your family! Makes me smile😊
    Loved part 1! Loved part 2!
    Happy disablility pride month!
    ❤💜💙💚🧡💛💗💕💕

  • @caelisbisset2937
    @caelisbisset2937 9 месяцев назад

    Very strong love of your family.❤

  • @Always_listeningandlearning
    @Always_listeningandlearning Год назад

    Gabe is perfect ❤

  • @heidikane-nl1wn
    @heidikane-nl1wn Год назад

    Yes he is an angel xx

  • @LindaGarcia-pb2sj
    @LindaGarcia-pb2sj 2 года назад +1

    Quend j'écoute cette maman raconter tout ça, j'ai l'impression de revivre ma grossesse. J'ai moi aussi accouché par césarienne de 2 jumeaux dont l'un est atteint de trisomie 21. Sauf que je n'avais pas eu de Nick avant eux. Ce fut ma première et dernière grossesse. Je n'ai pas non plus voulu faire d'amniocentèse par peur de perdre l'un ou les deux bébés. J'ai appris le handicap de mon Vincent à sa naissance. Ils sont nés à 7 mois et ont du être mis en couveuse. Mes enfants ont aujourd'hui 17 ans. Ils sont soudés comme deux frère aimants et en même temps se disputent comme chien et chat.Mais ils sont heureux. Et Gabby me fait tellement penser à mon fils.

  • @user-dl1hu5yl7e
    @user-dl1hu5yl7e 9 месяцев назад

    You must be a very happy family!

  • @jenniferschmitz423
    @jenniferschmitz423 2 года назад

    Beautiful family. God bless all of you❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @timmaselli2314
    @timmaselli2314 Год назад

    God bless you all you have a nice family

  • @alaskafan21
    @alaskafan21 Год назад

    Yes, part 2.

  • @janetdwyer1867
    @janetdwyer1867 2 года назад

    I new live in Rhode island.love your channel. I have a son with autism. He love to watch your viedos.

  • @lyuskarendon5251
    @lyuskarendon5251 Год назад

    Eaitiful family. God bless you

  • @maryannedelaney
    @maryannedelaney Год назад

    I love your family story!

  • @rachelsirett8809
    @rachelsirett8809 2 года назад

    So touching, wonderful family ❤️ just love you all ❤️

  • @karenedwards9510
    @karenedwards9510 Год назад

    One of my Protective Angels is Gabriel and the other is Michael!

  • @behappy2435
    @behappy2435 10 месяцев назад

    Super L❤VE watching y’all!

  • @michelegraham6561
    @michelegraham6561 2 года назад

    I understand being a premature baby. My mom had me at 6 1/2 months. I weighed 2 lbs 12 ounces. I spent 45 days in the NICU.

  • @micheleaday3902
    @micheleaday3902 Год назад

    Gabe Is Not A Disability Gabe Is Ability To Overcome And Over Achieve All ❤😂❤😂

  • @stevenmurphy399
    @stevenmurphy399 2 года назад

    Great experience with kids that were main streaming when I was in grade school

  • @ooxooxoo8255
    @ooxooxoo8255 2 года назад +1

    So beautiful ❤️

  • @lilyanbean1580
    @lilyanbean1580 2 года назад

    Love your channel ❤️❤️ God bless your hearts and lives ❤️❤️

  • @mindydavidson8653
    @mindydavidson8653 8 месяцев назад

    Love this!

  • @riashontogan4359
    @riashontogan4359 2 года назад

    What a nice story Safier Universe👍👏👏👏👏👏

  • @doriswalsh3929
    @doriswalsh3929 2 года назад

    Sweet family 🥰 😀 I'm a twin fraternal with a sister 1.9 and 1.10. My cousins have ds but so bright and fun amazing people

  • @natashastergianos177
    @natashastergianos177 11 месяцев назад

    You are an amazing family❤

  • @Lovepooh67
    @Lovepooh67 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your family’s life experience

  • @stephaniemoore7889
    @stephaniemoore7889 2 года назад

    I love watching your RUclips channel

  • @pioknto
    @pioknto 8 месяцев назад

    Your an amazing family

  • @Breezy-bv9te
    @Breezy-bv9te Год назад

    You named him correctly, Gabriel is definitely an Angel! I had no idea that Kira and Gabriel were twins. Remarkable! Two Beautiful Angels born at the same time and Absolutely Perfect! 🥹🥹🥰🥰

  • @heidikane-nl1wn
    @heidikane-nl1wn Год назад

    While watching this I found that Gabriel was trying to ask a question several times to his father and sister he was not rude loud even I myself new what he was trying to ask , please take it into consideration family that he's got questions feelings not just to sit there and shut up , because you all spoke over one another at some point . Other wise you are a lovely loving family but let him speak not to assume xx blessings

  • @helenerabouin5867
    @helenerabouin5867 2 года назад +1

    Votre histoire est à la fois belle et inspirante très belle famille remplie d'amour et de compassion je vous 💓💓

  • @hermanwhite2598
    @hermanwhite2598 Год назад +1

    Kira is so beautiful ❤️😍

  • @lisa_yvette3875
    @lisa_yvette3875 2 года назад

    Love all of you guys ❤️