TCAV TV: Self-Talk - Story 76

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  • Опубликовано: 12 июн 2024
  • The path from jail, to United States Navy SEAL, back to jail, kicked out of the United States Military, to joining the French Foreign Legion.
    The wise learn from the mistakes of others. Listen and understand so you don't have to learn the hard way.
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Комментарии • 127

  • @sun77711
    @sun77711 23 дня назад +14

    This message is so important. What one becomes is born out of positive affirmations, followed by positive actions. Thank you, Taylor❤🙏

  • @georgemartinez6712
    @georgemartinez6712 23 дня назад +9

    I will master thing that comes my way.....Bruce LEE.....I like that...always have your back cavanaugh

  • @joelrodriguez4299
    @joelrodriguez4299 23 дня назад +7

    💥💥 "And a thought is the ancestor of every action." I love it... Soo TRUE 💥💥

  • @sgt.grinch3299
    @sgt.grinch3299 23 дня назад +10

    Another positive message. Thank you for these words of truth. God bless and protect you. Semper Fi and carry on.

  • @plutothree1
    @plutothree1 23 дня назад +7

    Talk to yourself, don't listen to yourself! Good story and advice today

  • @user-ll4ov1jy8z
    @user-ll4ov1jy8z 23 дня назад +5

    Cav holy shit this is getting deep, this pod cast is amazingly mind changing, still in PTSD treatment 6 plus years and this is fucking amazing.,,, this is not taught anywhere!!! I am still thinking about this cast!!! Airborne All The Way…..LFR Cav, Stand in the DOOR !!!💪

  • @Patrician9000
    @Patrician9000 23 дня назад +3

    I used to get up in the morning and tell myself that I hated myself for all my past mistakes. Now I wake up and tell myself I love myself and forgive myself for being human. It makes a difference.

  • @nickjohnson6368
    @nickjohnson6368 23 дня назад +2

    "A thought is the ancestor of every action." Wow!

  • @Coffeeeveryday89
    @Coffeeeveryday89 23 дня назад +5

    Good way to start my day before I head off to work! Thanks brother 👊🏻

  • @rogerfournier3284
    @rogerfournier3284 23 дня назад

    Words well spoken, it starts with inner self talk, maintain frame, and be honest with yourself.

  • @josephmagana3676
    @josephmagana3676 23 дня назад +2

    “ Wow , Awesome “ your messages are refreshing . Know they-safe , out-here 👍😎. ✅🇺🇸

  • @williamedwards8493
    @williamedwards8493 23 дня назад +1

    Spent the last bit of money I had and was left with 150 dollars in my account. This man’s knowledge is worth every penny. Not only am I looking better than ever I’m looking forward to tomorrow. I have had success in ways I didn’t have before. Hope this reaches someone who is in the shape I was. I believed in and trusted my heart. Truly grateful ❤.

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  23 дня назад +2

      My MAN‼️🫵🏻👊🏼 The man who puts in the work with the CORRECT BLUEPRINT gets the results🏴

  • @ianmacrae5696
    @ianmacrae5696 17 дней назад

    It's always interesting, you often get what you need, if you know where to look. I had a bad night, filled with negative self-talk, as is my default. Then of course I slept poorly. This 11 minutes was exactly what I needed this morning. This short video was master class in self-talk. My one big takeaway was 'No wonder I struggle at times! Negative self-talk.' Keep it coming brother.

  • @williamloeber6253
    @williamloeber6253 23 дня назад

    Great road map to a happy and proactive life. Thank you. 😊👍

  • @cooksquotes
    @cooksquotes 23 дня назад +2

    Great message for others to hear. Now others will understand “military cadence” in developing personal strength to overcome life and death situations! Train Train Train yourself everyday!

  • @JM-jn7vx
    @JM-jn7vx 23 дня назад +1

    Outstanding TCAV! Wish I could have a beer with you ..could listen to you all day. Peace brother.

  • @user-ho7yd2zi8k
    @user-ho7yd2zi8k 23 дня назад +1

    One step back then two steps forward. Love self and one another with the open mind of change.
    Be good, your a good man brother! Thank you once more:)

  • @danielvillarreal6610
    @danielvillarreal6610 23 дня назад +1

    Knocking out a light late ⏰ night weightlifting 🏋️ session after online teaching and before checking my eyelids for holes. Listening to your inspirational words at the same time here in Taipei, Taiwan 🇹🇼!

  • @CommunistCommando1
    @CommunistCommando1 23 дня назад

    At 7:27 Cav talks about seeing yourself in the 3rd person. Marcus Aurelius talks about there's Perception ( what you think is going on ) then there's visually what's going on, Perspective is a good word that seems that up.
    NLPers Love and master seeing things in the 3rd person point of view because it takes you out of your perceptions into a wider Perspective.

  • @jimmyjones6497
    @jimmyjones6497 23 дня назад

    Enjoyed Story 76.

  • @squidbait88
    @squidbait88 23 дня назад

    You are a great man TCAV, and I admire the hell out of you!!

  • @Thorsten89342
    @Thorsten89342 22 дня назад

    Man, I love your channel and the ways you are helping others. I praise you for it!

  • @rebeccawells5496
    @rebeccawells5496 22 дня назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @Phoenix17979
    @Phoenix17979 23 дня назад +1

    Great timing TCAV! Definitely needed this today. Much thanks, I deeply appreciate it!!!

  • @danisfotos781
    @danisfotos781 22 дня назад

    (Although sitting and talking under that high cement-corner is bad Feng-Shui...) Dear Taylor, this 76th Story of yours is THE absolute BEST till now, (according to "my two cents"). You nailed it and absolutely freed it, at the same time, brother! (Maybe the cool shadow becomes you better than the explicit sun... hahaha!) So, I'll add to my daily meditation, this new mantram of yours: "The monk's ability to close the window is world-class". Once again, thanks man and may All the Powers to Be embrace you - rain or shine, shadow or light.

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  22 дня назад

      Danis!!! My MAN‼️🫵🏻👊🏼🏴🐉

  • @georgemartinez6712
    @georgemartinez6712 23 дня назад +1

    When shit fucks up and it does..cadence what do we do we stay cool. As a man thinks so shall he become.....we move the earth..thank you! Taylor

  • @pontificusrex1501
    @pontificusrex1501 23 дня назад

    Thank you.

  • @JoeCiliberto
    @JoeCiliberto 23 дня назад +1

    Thoughts, thinking, contemplation, meditating, self-mediating. Depression, as you say, is a luxury, just as you have said comfort, is a luxury, and again, as you have taught is selfish, and ultimately, selfishness is self-destructive.
    Identifying the sources of thoughts. Where do they come from? How many come form self teaching? How many are inspired from the Holy Spirt. Which one are from sources of evil.
    Should be pretty plain, and one sure sign it aint good is when thoughts are selfish.
    Become your best friend - but be a damn good friend, one that builds self-reliance. Never forget the humility that we know, that the thoughts we receive, whether they come from our wisdom, our regret (again, one of your big lessons), or your surprising successes, have an ignition, a pathogenesis, or source beyond us and yet within us, and we must be grateful.
    A motto - Superavi Te - Overcome yourself. merci mon bon frere - another good lesson.

  • @LucasBright.
    @LucasBright. 21 день назад

    There is SO much value here.
    Healthy ideals, healthy habits, healthy talk, healthy thoughts + time. Each element reinforces the other like a coat of chainmail.

  • @michaelenglish8004
    @michaelenglish8004 23 дня назад +2

    Top shelf motivation video ! Appreciate it !

  • @mario6279
    @mario6279 23 дня назад

    Your environment also plays a part in self talk. I grew up with a pissed off single dad of 3. Would beat the sh1t out of me and my sister if he had a bad day etc. I don’t hold anything against him because I know it must have been hard for him but I don’t talk much to him these days. I grew up to be mad like him always starting trouble. I joined the Corps and it got worse. Finding out my girlfriend of 10 years was cheating on me meanwhile I have dudes banging on my door to get down 1 on 1. The Marines Was brutal experience for me mentally but I never backed down surprisingly. I tried to play my position best as I could. Also I’m born & raised in San Diego like you Taylor. Huge respect to you from coming out the chaos & flames I feel that’s my thriving environment. Very addicting yet toxic.

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  23 дня назад +2

      WE STAY THE PATH BRO‼️👊🏼

  • @DEVanderbiltCecil
    @DEVanderbiltCecil 23 дня назад

    Cavanaugh.
    Someone puts
    this in my feed.
    I suspect this someone
    is just making trouble.
    We're good, dude.
    Go in peace.
    Live in peace.

  • @wademccormick4371
    @wademccormick4371 23 дня назад +1

    Thanks TCav!

  • @Leandro_Furlan
    @Leandro_Furlan 15 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing: Thanks to your video I now understand the importance of self talk/affirmations better and will add them to my daily routine.

  • @joelrutkowski7388
    @joelrutkowski7388 23 дня назад

    Very true!

  • @ChristinaCayo
    @ChristinaCayo 22 дня назад

    This is GOLD❤ It’s always good, this is essential truth ‼️

  • @Dublin777
    @Dublin777 22 дня назад

    GREAT GREAT topic T, you said alot there and it's bang on! Key word I got from this was PRACTICE! I've had times in my life where I was falling to pieces, beating the fuck out myself. I either had to sink or start swimming, I wanted to swim. My mind was was like a wild untrained horse, and all full of delusional crazy thoughts, eventually through constant positive self talk, I was able to gain better control. Not easy but had to be done to survive. Was like the mind was full of negative signs and I had to over take it with positive signs, and look into that mirror everyday and say "your worthwhile". Man, if somebody treated me the way I treated myself,...lol man they'd be in trouble lol. Thanks for these vids, your planting good seeds to the world bro. Keep it on!

  • @JoeRMS
    @JoeRMS 20 дней назад

    This self talk episode really has resonated with me. I have tried at various times explaining self-talk to my son via psychology "self fulfilling prophecy" and it never quite impacted him or he never fully understood what it meant. Your discussion made sense to him....probably because it didn't come from his Dad - ha! Anyway - I am printing off some of the positive statements you made during the video and framing them for He and Myself. We can both reference them to elevate our game/life. Appreciate the topic Taylor and the deep explanation and passion while delivering the message.

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  20 дней назад

      Thank you brother for your time in listening🤙🏼

  • @jamesdillman3720
    @jamesdillman3720 23 дня назад

    Your stories have helped me tremendously. Thank You.

  • @MoM-do7js
    @MoM-do7js 23 дня назад

    Yes, we’re ALL human. Always(99.9%) first thing awakening, 1/2 hour to 1 hour ~ connecting ✨ Throw out the garbage. Positive affirmations with humility. Great stuff Taylor….press on warrior 🌟🔥

  • @KarenAnn-dm4ks
    @KarenAnn-dm4ks 23 дня назад

    Words are powerful. They can kill and destroy or build and bless so transformingly. Choose your words wisely, in each and every situation… for yourself and others.
    Remember, if they were not important God would never have warned us of this: that we shall be accountable for every word spoken.

  • @garycarfagno7910
    @garycarfagno7910 20 дней назад

    Awesome video brother. Change your mindset, change your world in a positive, deliberate, and grateful way. Eliminate all negative, toxic and selfish people and things. No one likes that type of person & they don't even like themselves. Self-talk is God's message to keep you on the straight and narrow and say fuck you to the devil and his temptations to be weak and undisciplined. Much love TC-great stuff!!!

  • @KVX21
    @KVX21 23 дня назад

    Great Work!! Mirror Time

  • @theploeg
    @theploeg 23 дня назад

    Needed this this morning. Thanks.

  • @storyofoneslifehostedbysea2774
    @storyofoneslifehostedbysea2774 23 дня назад

    Every time ⏲️ I thought I was reaching my breaking point I would pivot and Plato up you have a great story brother It's very difficult.
    To go on a journey of the unknown with no guarantees And you succeeded And leveled up in france Cant wait for the movie good work 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 You have the best story out here real talk

  • @526Spartan
    @526Spartan 23 дня назад

    Thank you brother! I really needed this…

  • @jackmercer4244
    @jackmercer4244 23 дня назад

    roger that, brother.

  • @ANDYMORRIS-dz3dv
    @ANDYMORRIS-dz3dv 23 дня назад

    I mastered self talk a while ago,I have a 3/4 length mirror by my front door.
    Every morning I grab my keys, food and my identity card from under this mirror and I look long and hard into the mirror and I say "Dude you look fantastic have an awesome day"
    Every situation where I have had to step out of my comfort zone I have said "I can do this because it is what it is, and it ain't what it ain't and at the end of the day it's still night.
    If it all goes to rat shit, I'll go back and do it again differently!!!!!!!
    TC every time we open the oysters you hand out there is a pearl inside!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Epsillion70
    @Epsillion70 23 дня назад

    “ The all is mind, The Universe is mental.
    As above so below, so below as above.
    The Kybalion.

  • @tonytorres3911
    @tonytorres3911 23 дня назад

    This is what I need to hear, thank you

  • @anchorsaweigh9893
    @anchorsaweigh9893 22 дня назад

    Miyamoto Musashi mentions many times “Know one self, then know others” and he mentions in the Go Rin No Sho “See the way in all things” I think you are communicating many of those same ideas . Musashi even mentions after having a long career that he did not truly know the way of strategy until he was 29-30. As impressive as being a former SEAL/Legionnaire you are only now hitting your full stride.
    Stay Classy 🤙🏽

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  22 дня назад +1

      I agree 100 brother👊🏼🏴

  • @Trailgaunt
    @Trailgaunt 23 дня назад

    Glad you brought this up. I have to catch myself and redirect my thoughts many times every day. Refocus on goals and positive attributes I'm working on, form a clear picture of the desired outcome. It does me no good to dwell on shortcomings or past mistakes, actually drains energy off like you mentioned. I remind myself: If you're not for yourself, who will be? It's not narcissism or vanity, just a simple reminder to be more positive and constructive when dealing with setbacks.

  • @nickjohnson6368
    @nickjohnson6368 23 дня назад

    Bout to hit these five miles after my morning job. As always, thanks TCav

  • @cristianorozco6218
    @cristianorozco6218 23 дня назад

    Thanks man

  • @bobbyc7249
    @bobbyc7249 21 день назад

    WOO! 👊

  • @matthewsoper6609
    @matthewsoper6609 23 дня назад

    On a less serious note, I think this is your best look, Taylor. Clean shaven, short hair, rock jaw. Boom!

  • @keeganmcgilacuddy472
    @keeganmcgilacuddy472 23 дня назад

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom. I enjoy your vlog.

  • @ZmackZebra
    @ZmackZebra 23 дня назад

    Mate your stories are such an inspiration for me Thanks for sharing 🫡

  • @tomtaylor6163
    @tomtaylor6163 23 дня назад

    Yo homey, Watching your vids is like getting advice from The Fons!

  • @jdhsingi
    @jdhsingi 23 дня назад

    Hemorrhaging energy. I never heard that before. Great concept/truth. Thank you.

  • @tehfuqizg0inon588
    @tehfuqizg0inon588 23 дня назад

    Great vidya brotha

  • @Jval_007
    @Jval_007 23 дня назад

    Yo thanks for all your help Taylor! What advice would you have for short men in this day and age?

  • @philb4682
    @philb4682 23 дня назад

    When u said that u say mean things to yourself that u wouldn’t even say to ur enemy…I can relate. But thanks to ur video I’ll be working on being positive to myself

  • @carloszapata91
    @carloszapata91 23 дня назад

    Really helpful your videos ❤

  • @jamesmccann9989
    @jamesmccann9989 22 дня назад

    Another spot on motivational uplifting video what's up T just checked it out been busy have a good Friday T

  • @CodeRed1991
    @CodeRed1991 23 дня назад

    That intro music is so sick.

  • @suppatramp1329
    @suppatramp1329 22 дня назад

    You know Machiavelli was great at this. Machiavelli was not any different than many of the great philosophers except his contributions were different. He was around with DaVinci, Michaelangelo, Medici...For example, Michaelangelo or Machiavelli might explain or contrast the actual Last Battle of Anghiari differently than Da Vinci who was commissioned to paint a picture of the battle. The thing about Machiavelli was that the same family he brought to power lost power supposedly because of him. The people were upset and the Prince, oor the family had to imprison him. The truth as I understand was the family did not listen to him, he was notput into a normal prison, but was made to self reflect a lot. The real family admonished him, but he has his supporters that would come to visit occasionally. He would go a long long time alone, thinking, self -talking...When the prince would come to visit, they had spoken and he had become great. Wrote his book, "The Prince" and had many philosophies. One of his greatest contributions was his theory of holding power and how to remain in power, after all, what is left really. The original Ideas of warfare, militant thinkers were often contemporary, he had to change it just a little bit to make it better. After all, he was in prison, no visitors, nobody except the royal family ever went to see him in the 10 or 12 years he served of a 20 year sentence. Machiavelli is a well known philosopher, advisor, military analysts, but nobody knows his greatest works were brought about in self-talking. Some of the guards who stood watch by him would go on to say the man was crazy, he talked to himself all the time, sometimes laughing, other times crying, he thought he was alone, but never really. I think the problem here is that the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles did not have on called Machiavelli😅I prefer DaVinci myself. The thing about these guys is they were all pretty much the same, reclusive, smart, chosen by royalty or wealth, but critical of each others works. Not openly critical, more subtle. What survives today from the writings, teachings, books, are what their contributions were to society. Mostly what was popular, but after examining the life of Machiavelli his path was different than all the others because of his imprisonment. It has been said his greatest works cam from that time. He was falsely accused, the imprisoned by the same people he had brought back to power. The come back for the royal family was very, very immense and although this may be an extreme example of Self-Talking, he had to do it everyday and labeled as a madman for it. I could just imagine what it was like not knowing the language, and all you guys thrown together not knowing each other's language. You did what you know, you did good. I imagine you do not even have to think about it anymore. The Renaissance Era taught us a lot, change is good for one. Reinventing ourselves is no easy task, but repetition, support, motivation, the positive reinenforcement helps out so much brother. One other thing we learned when in Rome, you do not always have to do what the Roman's did😂Thanks for sharing Cav💪👈🫂

  • @williamedwards8493
    @williamedwards8493 23 дня назад

    Sometimes you just need someone to remind you who you are to say the least. Stay hungry fam !!

  • @stevenbradley5796
    @stevenbradley5796 23 дня назад

    Good Stuff, T Cav....5 mins b4 sleep at NIGHT subconscious is ripe for suggestions, too. RUclips is full of BINAURAL BEATS & Subliminal videos [USE earbuds].... effective tools, if the right ones are chosen...Blessings !

  • @aj-tp2yh
    @aj-tp2yh 23 дня назад

    Good Evening ive got nothing to loose thanks for caring bud

  • @atlantaswelder
    @atlantaswelder 23 дня назад

    👏👏

  • @shawnasantos228
    @shawnasantos228 20 дней назад

    💪🔥🙌

  • @gator5566
    @gator5566 23 дня назад +2

    Fourth place 4th comment that's still top five by NASCAR standards but who gives a shit about NASCAR

  • @Steve-hu7jf
    @Steve-hu7jf 17 дней назад

    😊

  • @iishkii3530
    @iishkii3530 23 дня назад

    🤙

  • @mathewlmathison2712
    @mathewlmathison2712 23 дня назад

    Mind over matter

  • @escrococ9524
    @escrococ9524 22 дня назад

    Hi my man did u struggle with the "luc leger" beep test to enter the legion etrangère ?

    • @tcavofficial
      @tcavofficial  22 дня назад

      I did decent on that

    • @escrococ9524
      @escrococ9524 21 день назад

      @@tcavofficial k thanks, did u train specifically for that test or not

  • @cesarhernandez5055
    @cesarhernandez5055 21 день назад

    444 liked

  • @JacMan30
    @JacMan30 23 дня назад +11

    CAV - are you a believer? A believer in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? I don't mean "are you religious", no, I am asking you if you have a one-on-one personal relationship with the Son of God. You are well-grounded, deliberate, and have direction in life yet I never hear you speak on Christ, which is the most important decision and direction any person will ever take.

    • @nickjohnson6368
      @nickjohnson6368 23 дня назад +6

      Yup! Absolutely, gotta accept Christ as our only refuge, i been prayying for TCav to see this for a while now

    • @spaceskipster4412
      @spaceskipster4412 11 дней назад

      Amen Brothers, I’ve also just stumbled across him. Praying for him also… 🙏🏼
      1 Peter 5:7 😇

  • @SOLMF123
    @SOLMF123 22 дня назад

    Cannot agree more saw wooden sign in place once all actions start with decision hood bad mistakes or prosperous ones 😉🫡