You’re not different. You’re just introverted and that’s fine. The difference between introverts and extroverts is about how people recharge themselves. One likes their own space, the other needs to be around people. Both types have strengths and both have weaknesses. Despite it being implied otherwise in popular opinion there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert.
Hi Betty please keep doing the videos I don't really understand why I enjoy them so much I try to explain to people but it sounds a boring subject but you make them so interesting I'm hooked please keep posting the videos
You're a breath of fresh air in the boating video world! There's a world of narcissists making videos. Great to see a down to earth, humble person like yourself breaking the mould. Keep doing what you do! And never worry about people watching you when you're out - you seem as competent as any out on your boat and far better than so many I see every day.
Hi Betty … please try not to feel “exposed” or folk watching you… you’re very brave to be a boat owner and I assume a live aboard, most people that “Gongoozle” are just curious and some even envious so just to say be proud of yourself and what you’re doing. It’s a massive learning curve and I can assure you your confidence will grow to new levels, even after 24 years as a continuous cruiser I still get slightly “self aware” if at busy locks with public watching.. it’s just being human.. good luck and stay safe 😊
I probably would be shy to but you come across confident in what your doing just make up your mind and go for it. If you start to worry/panic that's when you make mistakes. I love watching someone do something that's how I learn. Others could look and just be envious of you and a good life. Take care and keep up loading,chin up and head held high
For whatever it's worth.....my wife and I (in North Carolina, USA) love your videos and vlogs. We really hope you will keep going. And don't worry about others seeing you talking to your camera.....there are enough narrowboat vloggers these days that I am sure they will realise that you're just another one making your vids.
Thank you, it's really nice to know you both appreciate the videos! 🙂 I will keep going, but it takes me a while to edit the videos so I'm not sure how frequent they will be.
Everyone is watching you because you are nice to look at so don't feel inadequate you are doing nothing wrong just go with it people just want to know you is all it is.
I recognized myself in you Betty when you said "I feel quite uncomfortable even being out on the boat" etc.... And that is totally fine Betty! No accountability is needed.😉✌
@@bettyonaboat Glad you didn't cut it out. It shows that you're a real person and not pretentious and shows to other people who feel the same that they are not alone. That's probably why you're rapidly gaining such a nice and appreciative audience. Long may it continue.
Hello Betty ☺. I could feel your anxiety at the beginner before you even said anything. Don't be intimidated, you go girl. Swans can't get into the air from the water without difficulty! They need a solid runway ... He/she is probably a younger swan or its lost its partner, they mate for life and don't usually mate again, sadly. I lost my beloved husband back in December, afterc54 years together, so I know how that feels 😢. Don't feed them bread, they cant digest it. Rice and oats are ok though. Be careful too, they can be quite aggresive. The geese probably had young near by and was chasing it away. Lots of mythology connected to swans, coud now be your toten animal. Sending love, light and summer blessings 🌻🌺🌼🌾 xx
I'm sorry to hear about your husband. 54 years is a long time, what a wonderful life you must have had together! I've since managed to get special floating food for the swans and also the ducks and geese. Best wishes xx
As an introvert I do understand feeling uncomfortable around many people.. and I chose to be a city manager here in Colorado in the US.. when you said you were uncomfortable I felt a bond.. still, love your channel and sincerity.. I’d pick that every time. Well done.. Frank
I don’t feel so weird now listening to you. The times I’ve waited until my neighbours go out so we don’t bump into each other and I have to make small talk 🤣🤣
Ha, that sounds like things I've done in the past! I actually bought a book called How To Talk To People about 10 years ago because I used to be really bad.
Well done Betty, you did it. Showed us a bit of other boats moving past you, great stuff. Those interactions you have with people on their boats and the towpath really add to the vlog and so many people are 'vlogging' these days I'd try not to feel embarrassed talking to the camera with other people about. Although I do relate to how you feel when the crowds disperse - that's the main reason I get out on my bike, getting away from the crowds and exploring country lanes and towpaths are fabulous for that. Keep the vlogs coming, your followers and I love the serenity, stunning views and gentle pace!
Sitting in the middle of a 12hr night shift in Bologna,Italy and stumbled on your delightful channel. Great to see a calm pace of life back home. Watched all your content in one go, brilliant. Keep going, you are a natural. 😊
There are 500 comments already so I doubt you'll read this. I have agoraphobia, and hate going out. I felt everyone is watching me, judging me, secretly laughing at me. But I am feeling more comfortable going out nowadays compared to a few years ago, since I've come to realise that actually no-one cares. They might glance at you, but most people will barely see you and they just want to get on with their day. So I've come to the conclusion most of my worries are internal. I love your videos by the way. You are so honest and real, nothing pretentious, no gimmicks, and you are very engaging. I love boats and it's very interesting to see your way of life and the stuff you have to deal with. I think you're very brave and amazing to give us a glimpse of it on RUclips.
great comment, i was often told my gaze was intimidating. but as i timidly looked at people i was usually thinking things like "if i made my sandwiches for work the night before would i have more motivation to go to a very dull job ? or things like; my left shoe lace is tighter that the left. all the while other people would give me a sideways look worrying about me , when i was actually thinking about what brand of dog food to buy tomorrow at the supermarket ? what's French for dog food ? where did the word food originate from ? you are so right, no one cares. evryone is so wrapped up in their own bubble. even the swan,
I do read all of the comments eventually but it takes me a while depending on what else I'm doing! I know what you mean about worrying that people are judging you as I worry about this too. I had bad acne as a child and I remember some girls in a shop who were talking about me and laughing at me, and other kids at school would make comments about my skin, so I wonder if that's partly where it comes from. I think all insecurities must come from somewhere?
Hi Betty, your videos and commentary are simply delightful. Who would have thought I would have a ridiculous smile on my face watching a swan feeding rice of the back of your boat and a tumbling camera's video. Your films cheer my day 🙂
I feel like people are looking at me in certain situations but in reality they are not interested in what we are doing. I always try and remember that. Its hard because i sometimes want to hide away when places are busy but i dont, i still get out and about. I love life in the canal x
Gosh, for someone clearly a little uncomfortable around people I have huge respect for you starting this You Tube journey. That must have taken a lot. Well done for pushing your comfort zone a little bit wider. Not to mention making hugely enjoyable videos.
Hi Betty, I've just discovered your channel and your presentation style is just so natural, please don't change. I spent many happy years on the canals back in the 1970's but sadly due to ill health I'm unable to handle a boat now, so I'll tag along with you if you don't mind doing all the work. I need to have a quick catch up on your earlier videos, then if you have no objection I have a few questions for you. Keep up the good work Kevin.
The waters draw a diverse range of people. Some of the boaters, walkers, and others gravitate to the canals, finding solace in a space when they aren't necessarily at ease in mainstream. The egoless approach to your videos makes them a pleasure and a privilege to watch. Your empathy is compelling, and while you might find it taken advantage of on occasions, it can also lead to encounters with some amazing like minded people and wonderful experiences along the waterways. The stretch bridge 24 to 24a at Willington has rocks in the water alongside the towpath. I hope people feedback encourages you to continue producing videos.
Thank you for another wonderful video Betty, alot of people don't realise what is involved when you have a boat and a car with thinking about where you most your boat so you have easy access and short walk to your car, I can understand how you feel about being around people when you are moving your boat when you are an introvert as you feel like people want to judge you. As your loyal followers we will never judge you as we care about you too much and want to support you as much as your family and friends do . If you ever feel like you need someone to talk to I'm sure there is a few of us that are willing to give you the time to chat, I know I would for you
I almost edited out that bit of the video but then I thought I'd show it to explain why I looked a bit uncomfortable. I felt better as I carried on filming though!
@@bettyonaboat glad you didn't as it shows how vulnerable you can feel especially when you are alone and my heart goes out to you when you feel like that.By the way I meant moor your boat when I said most your boat
The Swan must be Starstruck, having met the famous Betty on a Boar😅! Thanks, another entertaing video, despite all the annoying strollers enjoying a bit of Bank Hol sun. I bet at any given time, there are more people watching you online than from the towpath, and besides, that is a boat worth looking at, so they're not all staring at just you. You're doing fine Betty, stick to your task at hand, and sod the gaffering folk.
Yes they were probably just interested and I'm usually fine with people saying hello, it was just the sheer numbers of people that day, which I didn't really capture in the video. Thanks for the encouragement anyway. 🙂
I always watch the full video before commenting & Betty, you're always a breath of fresh air. Your personality make it relaxing & enjoyable...you're abviously a caring individual also. That Swan knew he was on to a good thing with you. Keep safe & be happy...always 😊
@@bettyonaboat I've always found that animals have a unique sense of who they can trust, that Swan is no exception. You would have been there for him, food or otherwise Betty & you know it 😃
@@bettyonaboat I was wondering if you could do a video on what internet connection you use on your boat? Or do you use your phone data or WiFi elsewhere? Thanks Betty.
I've noticed that there is no Barge Pole on your roof, unless you have it hidden. Maybe you should look at getting one if not so you have something to push off with if you get grounded. Great Vlog again.
Oh Betty, I feel for your nervousness around the busy banks. Love your shades 😎❤️ lovely scenery too! That swan looked lonely 😢 He is your bodyguard for annoying heckling men 😜
I just love your videos, you can see you’re a shy lady but you look so confident in driving (if that’s the term!) your boat. Keep up the great videos Betty & don’t be put off by people watching you, you never know they may be envious of a person like you in total control of their boat. Well done girl
Maybe you could show us some inside boat activities like cooking and keeping your boat shipshape. Just saw to the end of your last video, very enjoyable. I reakon you may have got the Swan hooked on rice!
That's a good idea - I'll try to show some inside activities! In fact, I have some friends visiting soon so that would be a good chance to show some inside activities.
@@bettyonaboat Good morning Betty Yes I have watched it👍, I guess u can only travel a couple miles then along Canal if having to walk back to get Car. I'm thinking of Buying but for Leisure purposes not live aboard & have wondered about moving from Marina to Marina around the Network & how I'd do it transport wise as Car would be at Marina where starting but not when finish depending how far & long would cruise. & PS dont let the people watchers get u down, but I know where your coming from 😊
@@johndean4998 sorry I was too busy laughing & thinking how amazing nature is that weeks old things can sense danger & run like the clappers! I stand corrected, must try harder tomorrow 😝
I looked at a narrowboat last year but didn’t go ahead. This issue was always at the back of my mind. I came to the conclusion a folding bike was the answer so I could cycle along the towpath, fold the bike and stick it in the car then drive back to the boat. Walking is great exercise though! Good on ya!
I really enjoy the walking! I think some boaters don't enjoy it though as they give lifts to each other. I remember telling another boater I was walking six miles back to my car and he thought I was mad.
This swan is probably a "yearling" and has not found a mate yet thus lacking purpose in life, as it really should have been partnered up and nesting while going as mental as those ducks whenever anyone comes half-close to their chicks. They may act a bit weird since lacking a "job", but it is quite normal. Thank you for having restored my inner peace yet again, from a fellow introvert.
I live here and I know this swan personally. He is the territorial male of this stretch of water. His partner currently has 5 cygnets and he chases off all other swans or geese. During the winter months I feed the pair and any remaining young with special swan food pellets.
Hi Betty, lovely vid as usual. I love how you don't like everyone looking at you, but then record yourself. That takes courage so well done you. Maybe when your comfortable you will give us little of your background and why you chose a narrow boat, work etc. Do keep the vids coming, such a refreshing change from many others. Take care.
Yes the recording thing was quite frightening to begin with too but I'm getting better as I make more videos. It's hard to explain but I kind of forget that real people are watching the videos, because people are just a name on a screen.
That was so lovely Betty, that swan was definitely guiding you through that shallow root.And don't worry about what other people think they are looking because they are seeing a beautiful woman on a boat, and your sunglasses look super cool 😎 look forward to the next one stay safe Nick 🏴x
I agree, except for the word "envy". Envy connotes a feeling of resentfulness, or a desire to take something away from someone. I think these people were happy to see her, and maybe wished they could experience what she was experiencing. We really need a better word to describe that positive feeling. That feeling of seeing someone else having a good time and wanting the same. Not at their expense, but alongside them.
Awww another lovely video of you doing normal things that we do in boat life.. love how you explain things for people and do it in a way that’s interesting and informative.. you’re a breath of fresh air Betty.. keep doing what you do and enjoy. ❤
Your little boat is so maneuverable compared to those really long 57 or 60 footers. It would have been a right pain getting into that spot where you bought the diesel with one of those huge ones but you zipped in and out no problem! You fed the swan so now he's yours for life! Lol I wonder if he will be starring in your next video as well? :)
It really is, that's the advantage of a smaller boat! I've driven a couple of larger hire boats in the past but I was with friends then. I think handling a bigger boat on your own must be really difficult.
@@bettyonaboat It would surely take a lot take of practice. I know I would definitely be intimidated by the tight spaces you sometimes have to navigate through. Living in Canada I'll never get the chance but it is something I'd love to try, especially with a boat your size.
Your vlogs bring back many memories of my childhood holidays on the canals. My parents were huge boating fans, so we always had a boat of one type or another. Picnics under bridges, feeding Swans, foraging in the woods nearby, clogged propellers etc. My father built a 44ft steel narrowboat from scratch! You handle yours like a true pro.
Just think about when you have been out watching someone doing something. It's usually only a passing interest on your part. So you will get used to just doing your stuff and getting on with things. Wishing you very happy adventures, which I shall be interested to see. Good luck.
Hi, I'd love to know some of the back-story that led to you getting a barge. My dad was a bargee, taking coal from Leeds to Liverpool. He always looked back on that time with real fondness and it was his freedom and joy when he was younger. That idyll that shone from him planted a seed. But, it is just seems too bonkers to me how I just cast it all away and experience it.
As someone who prefers to be on my own or just with my family I can fully appreciate that uncomfortable feeling you get in or around crowds of people - you also have to deal with odd folk shouting at you from the canal bank - that can't be much fun either.....
Hi, Betty, get bottle of methylated spirits and put it in your diesel when the methylated spirits evaporates,, it takes the water /condensation with it
Thanks Betty. Wow! That was special with the swan. Glad you fed him. I wonder if he's sussed out that following or leading a boat usually means food. See next time.
Super episode. Love your style of filming. I find Narrowboat clips so relaxing. Years ago I tripped over a narrowboat rope and fell into a bed of nettles. The old lady inside the boat made me some Nettle tea ironically and bathed my face. I was only 40 years old!
Hi Young mariner, I am a old sailor, You are very good at the tiller, When on the water and at the helm think only of your boat and where you are going, try to forget others people , watch other Boats & where they are going, most important Relax, By watching you I see you are very very good on the tiller, Keep safe & keep up the very good little blog's
Another wonderful video with you and Little One. You're your own boss and captain. You have a smashing little narrowboat, you are independent and doing your own thing. And now producing fab videos allowing us along to share your travels and adventures. We're enjoying joining you, and you should be proud of how the channel is growing. When the canal gets busy, remember your viewers are with you, wishing you calm waters and peaceful cruising. Anybody nearby who disagrees can take it up with your new feathered friend! 😊
That was really fun with the swan. Loved it when it came up and got some food off the boat. I know how you must feel when in a place where seems everyone’s eyes are on you, you feel sorta on display, I really dislike times like that. Was wondering how for do you move before you go back and move your car? I admire you taking on a one woman show… driving the boat, locks, mooring the boat, filming, editing and maintaining the boat. Girl, you’ve got your hands full !!! But love what you are doing, doing what and when you want to do it. Take care and please be careful ❣️
I can totally relate to being more comfortable in the company of a swan than other people! Also, I think he was trying to impress you by having a fight with those two Canada geese 🙂
@@bettyonaboat I can understand that as I don't like being amongst too many people myself and as a keen angler I love to see nature around me such as all the birds
Another good video, walking backwards and forwards to get to and from your car would really keep you fit, im sure I would want to sit down and have a beer halfway through doing that.🤣🤣
Yay - Betty on the boat... watch out for those swans. They will befriend you, and before you know it they have moved into your place and started emptying the fridge!
It’s refreshing to see someone prepared to talk & demonstrate the lesser known domestic side of canal life 👍 I never imagined having a car & barge would be an exercise regimen with the towpath walks 😳 Love the sunglasses & bib 😊 Well done on pushing through the difficult part of your trip 😎
Elegant Swan - me thinks the Swan fancied the color of your narrowboat. Oh snap...wait a New York minute...maybe the Swan fancied your beautiful eyes [I just noticed how beautiful your eyes are Betty]. Anyhoo...I had some good giggles following your Swan saga - thank you for that Betty! I used to worry about what other people thought of me...but when I turned 60 I 'discovered' that a BIG SMILE can be very effective at disarming people's perceptions. Enjoyed the video - thanks for sharing. Be well - many blessings! Cheers...
I thought the person under the bridge would have been more of a distraction than the swan. I don't like being the centre of attention either. That was a lovely video.
I agree about keeping the diesel topped up to avoid contamination. I put my engine hours into a spreadsheet then look to fill up when it says I'm below 50%. So far, I've only used marinas that have service moorings on the canal to save all that manoeuvring around the basin. Also I avoid filling up when it's raining so as rainwater doesn't get in the tank.
Google says: In most cultures, seeing a swan is a sign of prosperity and is a good omen. Many also believe that if you see a swan, then it is time to acknowledge the power of the self. The swan is letting you know that you are amazing, it is time to let your talents unfold and your heart shine 😉
Hi Betty, I have just discovered your channel, now I have watched all of your videos and I think they are extremely comforting to watch. I guessed that accent from the beginning, I am also a local to Wolvo. There is some history to why you are doing what you are doing, and it's not for sharing I don't think. You are doing great with your videos, occasionally shying away from the public is good, you deal with everything your way hun. I am jealous because the canals and waterways are so idyllic and relaxing but my finances won't yet stretch to a boat, in the meantime Betty, please keep churning out those videos and thank you.
Thank you, it's nice to hear from a fellow Wulfrunian! The canals and waterways are lovely and relaxing but you don't need a boat to enjoy them - I've always enjoyed walking along the canals. You're right about there being some history behind this... it's strange how a few people have picked up on it.
Thanks for another interesting video Betty, which included the antics of your escort "HMS Swan". The background shot at 1:33 reminded me of the Willington Power Station cooling towers that you took some drone footage of in another video. When you approach bridges on bends, I wonder if this would benefit from a simple traffic light system or mounted mirror, so you can see any boaters coming from the other direction. I understand what you mean about feeling watched. When I had my first boating experience back in March, I tried to dock the houseboat I had hired along a bank by myself, which was a fairly complicated operation for me. Unfortunately I made a complete balls up of it and got spooked. I had a speed boat and water skier waiting for me to complete the docking, as well as a crowd of campers on the bank nearby laughing at my antics. Sufficed to say that I high tailed it out of there, but I learned from the experience. Very cool heart shaped sun glasses btw!!!
Your the only narrow boater i am watching, you are very special. Keep up the videos, if you run out of ideas, just a day in the life is great. Thanks Love from New Zealand.
I do like your honesty. I some times wear headphones if there are too many people. Nice video. It's a good job you distracted the swan. He wanted to kill the signet!
Lovely moments with the swan. That feeling that everybody is looking at you and your experiences resonate with me. I call it autistic hyper-empathy. When other's emotions feel stronger within you than your own, and it feels overwhelming.😊
Watching another introvert go about typical things in public makes me feel just that little bit more comfortable being different ❤️
Nice comment.
Couldn't have said any better myself.
You’re not different. You’re just introverted and that’s fine. The difference between introverts and extroverts is about how people recharge themselves. One likes their own space, the other needs to be around people. Both types have strengths and both have weaknesses. Despite it being implied otherwise in popular opinion there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert.
I don't consider myself to be an introvert, I just don't like people. It's the solitude of boating (of any kind) that draws me to it.
We are all different however some are jus a bit more differnt then others 😉
Watch the Ted talk 'The power of introverts' by Susan Cain, there's nothing wrong with being introverted.
Please don’t be intimidated by others just do your own thing your really special and a breath of fresh air😊
Thank you!
Totally agree
Hi Betty please keep doing the videos I don't really understand why I enjoy them so much I try to explain to people but it sounds a boring subject but you make them so interesting I'm hooked please keep posting the videos
@@bettyonaboatIn Germany wie would say.. Zieh dein Ding durch 😃🙏✊
So nice to have a boating channel that down't resort to using dramatic titles in an attempt to catch your attention.
Not to mention people who aren't obviously trying to act. It's lovely seeing Betty just be herself.
Thank you both for watching! 🙂
You're a breath of fresh air in the boating video world! There's a world of narcissists making videos. Great to see a down to earth, humble person like yourself breaking the mould. Keep doing what you do!
And never worry about people watching you when you're out - you seem as competent as any out on your boat and far better than so many I see every day.
Perfectly well said, my thoughts also 👍
Well anybody who was watching simply saw you calmly and competently operating your boat. Good stuff...
even a little out of a comfort zone, skills and confidence ceiling gets higher.
..and you're absolutely nailing it!
Thanks for your encouragement! 😀
Hi Betty … please try not to feel “exposed” or folk watching you… you’re very brave to be a boat owner and I assume a live aboard, most people that “Gongoozle” are just curious and some even envious so just to say be proud of yourself and what you’re doing. It’s a massive learning curve and I can assure you your confidence will grow to new levels, even after 24 years as a continuous cruiser I still get slightly “self aware” if at busy locks with public watching.. it’s just being human.. good luck and stay safe 😊
Thank you! I'm the same at busy locks too. I always worry something will go wrong when people are watching!
Another great video. Thanks
I probably would be shy to but you come across confident in what your doing just make up your mind and go for it. If you start to worry/panic that's when you make mistakes. I love watching someone do something that's how I learn. Others could look and just be envious of you and a good life. Take care and keep up loading,chin up and head held high
You are doing a marvellous job!
The swan eating from the side of your boat was super super cool!😊
For whatever it's worth.....my wife and I (in North Carolina, USA) love your videos and vlogs. We really hope you will keep going. And don't worry about others seeing you talking to your camera.....there are enough narrowboat vloggers these days that I am sure they will realise that you're just another one making your vids.
Thank you, it's really nice to know you both appreciate the videos! 🙂 I will keep going, but it takes me a while to edit the videos so I'm not sure how frequent they will be.
Of course you drive a mini! Nice to watch someone on RUclips that's not full of themselves. Go girl!
I'm amazed people can tell the car from the inside!
@@bettyonaboat The first clue is the mini label tab on your seat! 🤣
@@terryroxburgh3276 Oh right, that gives it away! 😂
Minis are cool 😎
@@daverdaceng I concur! I've got a Cooper S myself.
Everyone is watching you because you are nice to look at so don't feel inadequate you are doing nothing wrong just go with it people just want to know you is all it is.
I recognized myself in you Betty when you said "I feel quite uncomfortable even being out on the boat" etc.... And that is totally fine Betty! No accountability is needed.😉✌
I almost cut that bit of the video out as I was worried it would come across as negative!
@@bettyonaboat Glad you didn't cut it out. It shows that you're a real person and not pretentious and shows to other people who feel the same that they are not alone. That's probably why you're rapidly gaining such a nice and appreciative audience. Long may it continue.
Rockin the bib n braces and heart glasses Betty. Revel in the fact that you a powerful individual bringing happiness to those who watch. Thank you :-)
Thanks for the encouragement!
Hello Betty ☺. I could feel your anxiety at the beginner before you even said anything. Don't be intimidated, you go girl. Swans can't get into the air from the water without difficulty! They need a solid runway ... He/she is probably a younger swan or its lost its partner, they mate for life and don't usually mate again, sadly. I lost my beloved husband back in December, afterc54 years together, so I know how that feels 😢. Don't feed them bread, they cant digest it. Rice and oats are ok though. Be careful too, they can be quite aggresive. The geese probably had young near by and was chasing it away. Lots of mythology connected to swans, coud now be your toten animal. Sending love, light and summer blessings 🌻🌺🌼🌾 xx
I'm sorry to hear about your husband. 54 years is a long time, what a wonderful life you must have had together! I've since managed to get special floating food for the swans and also the ducks and geese. Best wishes xx
@@bettyonaboat Thank you for kind words Betty. Enjoy all the nature that's surrounds you, good for the mind, body and spirit. Take care ☺ xx
You can see the goslings in the video so the parents were trying to keep the swan away from them.
As an introvert I do understand feeling uncomfortable around many people.. and I chose to be a city manager here in Colorado in the US.. when you said you were uncomfortable I felt a bond.. still, love your channel and sincerity.. I’d pick that every time. Well done.. Frank
Thank you, I'm glad you're enjoying the channel!
Seemingly genuine , gentle and sensitive. I hope things fall in your favour along the towpath . Pygar is definitely infatuated :)
I don’t feel so weird now listening to you. The times I’ve waited until my neighbours go out so we don’t bump into each other and I have to make small talk 🤣🤣
Ha, that sounds like things I've done in the past! I actually bought a book called How To Talk To People about 10 years ago because I used to be really bad.
Lol I still do this!
That's it, I've decided, I'm coming back as a swan.
😁
Well done Betty, you did it. Showed us a bit of other boats moving past you, great stuff. Those interactions you have with people on their boats and the towpath really add to the vlog and so many people are 'vlogging' these days I'd try not to feel embarrassed talking to the camera with other people about. Although I do relate to how you feel when the crowds disperse - that's the main reason I get out on my bike, getting away from the crowds and exploring country lanes and towpaths are fabulous for that. Keep the vlogs coming, your followers and I love the serenity, stunning views and gentle pace!
Thank you, it's interesting to hear which bits you like about the vlogs!
Sitting in the middle of a 12hr night shift in Bologna,Italy and stumbled on your delightful channel. Great to see a calm pace of life back home. Watched all your content in one go, brilliant. Keep going, you are a natural. 😊
There are 500 comments already so I doubt you'll read this. I have agoraphobia, and hate going out. I felt everyone is watching me, judging me, secretly laughing at me. But I am feeling more comfortable going out nowadays compared to a few years ago, since I've come to realise that actually no-one cares. They might glance at you, but most people will barely see you and they just want to get on with their day. So I've come to the conclusion most of my worries are internal. I love your videos by the way. You are so honest and real, nothing pretentious, no gimmicks, and you are very engaging. I love boats and it's very interesting to see your way of life and the stuff you have to deal with. I think you're very brave and amazing to give us a glimpse of it on RUclips.
great comment, i was often told my gaze was intimidating. but as i timidly looked at people i was usually thinking things like "if i made my sandwiches for work the night before would i have more motivation to go to a very dull job ? or things like; my left shoe lace is tighter that the left. all the while other people would give me a sideways look worrying about me , when i was actually thinking about what brand of dog food to buy tomorrow at the supermarket ? what's French for dog food ? where did the word food originate from ? you are so right, no one cares. evryone is so wrapped up in their own bubble. even the swan,
I do read all of the comments eventually but it takes me a while depending on what else I'm doing! I know what you mean about worrying that people are judging you as I worry about this too. I had bad acne as a child and I remember some girls in a shop who were talking about me and laughing at me, and other kids at school would make comments about my skin, so I wonder if that's partly where it comes from. I think all insecurities must come from somewhere?
Hi Betty, your videos and commentary are simply delightful. Who would have thought I would have a ridiculous smile on my face watching a swan feeding rice of the back of your boat and a tumbling camera's video. Your films cheer my day 🙂
Ha, to be honest that swan made me smile too when I was editing the footage! 😂
Great videos, peaceful, and good to watch. can't believe how green it is in England. You are quite fortunate to live there.
Yes a lot of England is green - it must be all the rain! 😀
'Diesel Bug'. Every day is a school day. Thank you for another insightful video. Such a peaceful life, in beautiful surroundings.
They're actual bugs (well, microorganisms) that live in diesel. That in itself is pretty amazing.
In all honesty I'm not entirely sure what they are, but I know they're a bad thing!
Swans not gonna take that nonsense. Nice video Betty, keep it up 😊
Thank you! 😊
It's a joy to see someone just doing their thing! Happy days!
Thank you! 🙂
I feel like people are looking at me in certain situations but in reality they are not interested in what we are doing. I always try and remember that.
Its hard because i sometimes want to hide away when places are busy but i dont, i still get out and about.
I love life in the canal x
Gosh, for someone clearly a little uncomfortable around people I have huge respect for you starting this You Tube journey. That must have taken a lot. Well done for pushing your comfort zone a little bit wider. Not to mention making hugely enjoyable videos.
Yeah I'm not sure what I was thinking when I started this really. 😂 I enjoy the creativity of making the videos rather than being on camera.
@@bettyonaboat Well, we enjoy you being on camera so please don't stop!
Hi Betty, I've just discovered your channel and your presentation style is just so natural, please don't change. I spent many happy years on the canals back in the 1970's but sadly due to ill health I'm unable to handle a boat now, so I'll tag along with you if you don't mind doing all the work. I need to have a quick catch up on your earlier videos, then if you have no objection I have a few questions for you. Keep up the good work Kevin.
The waters draw a diverse range of people. Some of the boaters, walkers, and others gravitate to the canals, finding solace in a space when they aren't necessarily at ease in mainstream. The egoless approach to your videos makes them a pleasure and a privilege to watch. Your empathy is compelling, and while you might find it taken advantage of on occasions, it can also lead to encounters with some amazing like minded people and wonderful experiences along the waterways. The stretch bridge 24 to 24a at Willington has rocks in the water alongside the towpath. I hope people feedback encourages you to continue producing videos.
Thanks
Thank you, that's really kind of you! 🙂
Thank you for another wonderful video Betty, alot of people don't realise what is involved when you have a boat and a car with thinking about where you most your boat so you have easy access and short walk to your car, I can understand how you feel about being around people when you are moving your boat when you are an introvert as you feel like people want to judge you. As your loyal followers we will never judge you as we care about you too much and want to support you as much as your family and friends do . If you ever feel like you need someone to talk to I'm sure there is a few of us that are willing to give you the time to chat, I know I would for you
I almost edited out that bit of the video but then I thought I'd show it to explain why I looked a bit uncomfortable. I felt better as I carried on filming though!
@@bettyonaboat glad you didn't as it shows how vulnerable you can feel especially when you are alone and my heart goes out to you when you feel like that.By the way I meant moor your boat when I said most your boat
Absolutely an upload I can connect with. Just keep doing what you do, your content is a breath of fresh air :)
The Swan must be Starstruck, having met the famous Betty on a Boar😅!
Thanks, another entertaing video, despite all the annoying strollers enjoying a bit of Bank Hol sun. I bet at any given time, there are more people watching you online than from the towpath, and besides, that is a boat worth looking at, so they're not all staring at just you. You're doing fine Betty, stick to your task at hand, and sod the gaffering folk.
Yes they were probably just interested and I'm usually fine with people saying hello, it was just the sheer numbers of people that day, which I didn't really capture in the video. Thanks for the encouragement anyway. 🙂
All the very best Betty. Lovely video.
Thank you, that's really kind and I'll put it towards my boat maintenance!
I always watch the full video before commenting & Betty, you're always a breath of fresh air.
Your personality make it relaxing & enjoyable...you're abviously a caring individual also.
That Swan knew he was on to a good thing with you.
Keep safe & be happy...always 😊
Ha, he must have somehow been able to tell I was going to feed him!
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I've always found that animals have a unique sense of who they can trust, that Swan is no exception.
You would have been there for him, food or otherwise Betty & you know it 😃
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I was wondering if you could do a video on what internet connection you use on your boat? Or do you use your phone data or WiFi elsewhere?
Thanks Betty.
I've noticed that there is no Barge Pole on your roof, unless you have it hidden. Maybe you should look at getting one if not so you have something to push off with if you get grounded. Great Vlog again.
It's inside the boat because I sanded it down and haven't got round to varnishing it!
Oh Betty, I feel for your nervousness around the busy banks. Love your shades 😎❤️ lovely scenery too! That swan looked lonely 😢 He is your bodyguard for annoying heckling men 😜
Ha, he's my guard swan! 🦢
@@bettyonaboat He was so sweet eating rice 🍚
Heckling men?
@@Englishman999 I heard one shouting hello 🙋🏻♂️
@@cheechU38K Yeah, didn't think you were being sexist or in any way speaking in a derogatory way about men in general. Thought I'd check...
Just remember Swans mate for life, you may never lose your new companion now.
Haha! 🦢
😍🤣
I’d like to mate with Betty for life…
That noddy boat passing you before the marina, for your top up, could've done with slowing down a bit.
I think he might have been speeding!
I just love your videos, you can see you’re a shy lady but you look so confident in driving (if that’s the term!) your boat. Keep up the great videos Betty & don’t be put off by people watching you, you never know they may be envious of a person like you in total control of their boat. Well done girl
Thank you, I think driving the boat does make me feel more confident as I find it easier to talk to the camera when I'm driving!
Maybe you could show us some inside boat activities like cooking and keeping your boat shipshape. Just saw to the end of your last video, very enjoyable. I reakon you may have got the Swan hooked on rice!
That's a good idea - I'll try to show some inside activities! In fact, I have some friends visiting soon so that would be a good chance to show some inside activities.
Hi Betty, looking forward to checking out ur latest vid about car movements, something I have always wondered about with Boat owners & a car ? 🤔😊
I hope you've watched it by now and found it interesting! 🚙
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Good morning Betty
Yes I have watched it👍, I guess u can only travel a couple miles then along Canal if having to walk back to get Car.
I'm thinking of Buying but for Leisure purposes not live aboard & have wondered about moving from Marina to Marina around the Network & how I'd do it transport wise as Car would be at Marina where starting but not when finish depending how far & long would cruise. & PS dont let the people watchers get u down, but I know where your coming from 😊
Why am I now looking at narrowboats for sale? 😂. If I ever move back to the UK I’m getting one. I love this level of peace and quiet. Brilliant.
Ducklings were like “we’re outa here!” 😂, nice wee video 😊
Ha, they're no match for a swan!
Goslings, not ducklings.
@@johndean4998 sorry I was too busy laughing & thinking how amazing nature is that weeks old things can sense danger & run like the clappers! I stand corrected, must try harder tomorrow 😝
I looked at a narrowboat last year but didn’t go ahead. This issue was always at the back of my mind. I came to the conclusion a folding bike was the answer so I could cycle along the towpath, fold the bike and stick it in the car then drive back to the boat. Walking is great exercise though! Good on ya!
I really enjoy the walking! I think some boaters don't enjoy it though as they give lifts to each other. I remember telling another boater I was walking six miles back to my car and he thought I was mad.
This swan is probably a "yearling" and has not found a mate yet thus lacking purpose in life, as it really should have been partnered up and nesting while going as mental as those ducks whenever anyone comes half-close to their chicks. They may act a bit weird since lacking a "job", but it is quite normal. Thank you for having restored my inner peace yet again, from a fellow introvert.
It did seem strange behaviour! Hopefully he'll find a mate soon.
Geese, not ducks.
I live here and I know this swan personally. He is the territorial male of this stretch of water. His partner currently has 5 cygnets and he chases off all other swans or geese.
During the winter months I feed the pair and any remaining young with special swan food pellets.
Your doing a great job,you will get more confidence as your channel grows,Chris
I hope so!
Thanks for taking the time to film your adventure, the Swan following you made me smile, keep the videos coming they are nice to watch.
Thank you, the swan made me smile too! 🦢
Hi Betty, lovely vid as usual. I love how you don't like everyone looking at you, but then record yourself. That takes courage so well done you. Maybe when your comfortable you will give us little of your background and why you chose a narrow boat, work etc.
Do keep the vids coming, such a refreshing change from many others. Take care.
Yes the recording thing was quite frightening to begin with too but I'm getting better as I make more videos. It's hard to explain but I kind of forget that real people are watching the videos, because people are just a name on a screen.
That was so lovely Betty, that swan was definitely guiding you through that shallow root.And don't worry about what other people think they are looking because they are seeing a beautiful woman on a boat, and your sunglasses look super cool 😎 look forward to the next one stay safe Nick 🏴x
Thanks for your reassurance! 🙂
What a special lady you are You don’t have to feel intimidated by people. Most of them will be looking at you in envy.
I agree, except for the word "envy". Envy connotes a feeling of resentfulness, or a desire to take something away from someone. I think these people were happy to see her, and maybe wished they could experience what she was experiencing. We really need a better word to describe that positive feeling. That feeling of seeing someone else having a good time and wanting the same. Not at their expense, but alongside them.
Awww another lovely video of you doing normal things that we do in boat life..
love how you explain things for people and do it in a way that’s interesting and informative.. you’re a breath of fresh air Betty.. keep doing what you do and enjoy. ❤
Ah thank you, I'm glad you enjoy the explanations. I'm not sure what else to talk about really! 😄
Your little boat is so maneuverable compared to those really long 57 or 60 footers. It would have been a right pain getting into that spot where you bought the diesel with one of those huge ones but you zipped in and out no problem!
You fed the swan so now he's yours for life! Lol
I wonder if he will be starring in your next video as well? :)
It really is, that's the advantage of a smaller boat! I've driven a couple of larger hire boats in the past but I was with friends then. I think handling a bigger boat on your own must be really difficult.
@@bettyonaboat It would surely take a lot take of practice. I know I would definitely be intimidated by the tight spaces you sometimes have to navigate through. Living in Canada I'll never get the chance but it is something I'd love to try, especially with a boat your size.
Oh wow she's back! Absolutely adore these videos!
Thank you, it's nice to know you enjoy them so much! 😀
Your vlogs bring back many memories of my childhood holidays on the canals. My parents were huge boating fans, so we always had a boat of one type or another. Picnics under bridges, feeding Swans, foraging in the woods nearby, clogged propellers etc. My father built a 44ft steel narrowboat from scratch! You handle yours like a true pro.
Thank you for another delightful video - especially for the swan and the rabbits!
I enjoyed the swan and rabbits too! 🙂
Your videos bring me so much calm, Thankyou!
I’m glad, thank you! 🙂
Another brill 1 Betty.
The swan was a star.
The king would be proud of you.
Ha, I forgot they're royal birds!
Just think about when you have been out watching someone doing something. It's usually only a passing interest on your part. So you will get used to just doing your stuff and getting on with things. Wishing you very happy adventures, which I shall be interested to see. Good luck.
Thank you for the encouragement! 🙂
Well done with the navigating, so many things to see and do!
Thank you!
I am flummoxed 😊 by your videos, Betty, I feel so relaxed watching them. Thank you for being you! What an amazing way of life
Thank you, it's nice to know the videos are appreciated! 🙂
Hi, I'd love to know some of the back-story that led to you getting a barge. My dad was a bargee, taking coal from Leeds to Liverpool. He always looked back on that time with real fondness and it was his freedom and joy when he was younger. That idyll that shone from him planted a seed. But, it is just seems too bonkers to me how I just cast it all away and experience it.
I'm going to talk about the back story in future... It's a bit of a long story!
As someone who prefers to be on my own or just with my family I can fully appreciate that uncomfortable feeling you get in or around crowds of people - you also have to deal with odd folk shouting at you from the canal bank - that can't be much fun either.....
I'm usually OK with people waving and saying hello, there were just too many people that day!
Hi, Betty, get bottle of methylated spirits and put it in your diesel when the methylated spirits evaporates,, it takes the water /condensation with it
Good tip, thank you!
As ever, a delightful and uplifting video. Everything's better with swans and rabbits ❤ thank you, Betty
Definitely! Especially rabbits! 🐇🐇🐇
Thanks Betty. Wow! That was special with the swan. Glad you fed him. I wonder if he's sussed out that following or leading a boat usually means food. See next time.
Yes I wonder if that's what he was doing! I need to find an expert in swan behaviour!
@@bettyonaboat Yes! By the way Betty I notice you answer so many of your comments. It's appreciated 😊
@@pemman I try to but it takes me a while to go through them!
Super episode. Love your style of filming. I find Narrowboat clips so relaxing. Years ago I tripped over a narrowboat rope and fell into a bed of nettles. The old lady inside the boat made me some Nettle tea ironically and bathed my face. I was only 40 years old!
Oh no, at least you didn't fall in the canal!
Hi Young mariner, I am a old sailor, You are very good at the tiller, When on the water and at the helm think only of your boat and where you are going, try to forget others people , watch other Boats & where they are going, most important Relax, By watching you I see you are very very good on the tiller, Keep safe & keep up the very good little blog's
Another wonderful video with you and Little One. You're your own boss and captain. You have a smashing little narrowboat, you are independent and doing your own thing. And now producing fab videos allowing us along to share your travels and adventures. We're enjoying joining you, and you should be proud of how the channel is growing. When the canal gets busy, remember your viewers are with you, wishing you calm waters and peaceful cruising.
Anybody nearby who disagrees can take it up with your new feathered friend! 😊
Yes I'll set Mr Swan on them!
That was really fun with the swan. Loved it when it came up and got some food off the boat. I know how you must feel when in a place where seems everyone’s eyes are on you, you feel sorta on display, I really dislike times like that. Was wondering how for do you move before you go back and move your car? I admire you taking on a one woman show… driving the boat, locks, mooring the boat, filming, editing and maintaining the boat. Girl, you’ve got your hands full !!! But love what you are doing, doing what and when you want to do it. Take care and please be careful ❣️
The distance depends but I usually go at least two miles. I definitely do have my hands full at the moment but I'm enjoying it! 😀
I can totally relate to being more comfortable in the company of a swan than other people! Also, I think he was trying to impress you by having a fight with those two Canada geese 🙂
I do usually like people, there were just too many that day! I do love animals though.
@@bettyonaboat I can understand that as I don't like being amongst too many people myself and as a keen angler I love to see nature around me such as all the birds
Nice to meet your Guardian Swan! I'd like to see how good he is at helping you with locks though... 😁
Let's hope he doesn't try to get in a lock or he would get squished!
@@bettyonaboat That definitely won't do! 😱
Always wanted to travel on narrow/barge boats, your videos are really useful & informative. One day I'll put the theory into practice! 😀
Thank you! I'd recommend hiring a boat for a few days to give it a go.
Another good video, walking backwards and forwards to get to and from your car would really keep you fit, im sure I would want to sit down and have a beer halfway through doing that.🤣🤣
Ha, I do sometimes take a cup of tea with me in a travel mug!
Another great vid Betty! The swan deffo stole the show. 🦢🦢🦢
He did, he's a star! 🦢
Hi love your videos you must really love being on the canal boat and you always look amazing. 😘
Yay - Betty on the boat... watch out for those swans. They will befriend you, and before you know it they have moved into your place and started emptying the fridge!
I was wondering if one might be brave enough to get on the deck but it hasn't happened yet!
You have a swan...we have a resident skunk, lol. BTW, like your sunglasses.
Ha, oh dear, I hope the skunk isn't too smelly!
It’s refreshing to see someone prepared to talk & demonstrate the lesser known domestic side of canal life 👍 I never imagined having a car & barge would be an exercise regimen with the towpath walks 😳
Love the sunglasses & bib 😊
Well done on pushing through the difficult part of your trip 😎
I actually really love the walking! Sometimes I take longer and more scenic routes to get back to the car.
@@bettyonaboat I totally get that. First a nice boat ride, then a nice walk. Two in one.
3:09 you are a modest person in a modern world full of the self obsessed. It’s what makes your videos so lovely to watch. 👍👍👍
Thank you, that's nice of you to say!
Elegant Swan - me thinks the Swan fancied the color of your narrowboat. Oh snap...wait a New York minute...maybe the Swan fancied your beautiful eyes [I just noticed how beautiful your eyes are Betty]. Anyhoo...I had some good giggles following your Swan saga - thank you for that Betty! I used to worry about what other people thought of me...but when I turned 60 I 'discovered' that a BIG SMILE can be very effective at disarming people's perceptions. Enjoyed the video - thanks for sharing. Be well - many blessings! Cheers...
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed the video!
I thought the person under the bridge would have been more of a distraction than the swan. I don't like being the centre of attention either. That was a lovely video.
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it. 🙂
I agree about keeping the diesel topped up to avoid contamination. I put my engine hours into a spreadsheet then look to fill up when it says I'm below 50%. So far, I've only used marinas that have service moorings on the canal to save all that manoeuvring around the basin. Also I avoid filling up when it's raining so as rainwater doesn't get in the tank.
That's a good tip about rainwater - I hadn't thought about that!
These videos are so calming
Thanks, I'm glad you find them calming!
The Swan could feel your sweet energy and knew he would be treated with kindness. Love your vlogs! Stay safe.
Thank you, I'm glad you like them!
New video😊
Keep up the good work
Thank you! 🙂
Another brilliant video! Thanks Betty :) Do you live in the boat full-time?
Google says: In most cultures, seeing a swan is a sign of prosperity and is a good omen. Many also believe that if you see a swan, then it is time to acknowledge the power of the self. The swan is letting you know that you are amazing, it is time to let your talents unfold and your heart shine 😉
Oh wow, I didn’t know that! That’s good to know! 🦢
Hi Betty, I have just discovered your channel, now I have watched all of your videos and I think they are extremely comforting to watch.
I guessed that accent from the beginning, I am also a local to Wolvo.
There is some history to why you are doing what you are doing, and it's not for sharing I don't think. You are doing great with your videos, occasionally shying away from the public is good, you deal with everything your way hun. I am jealous because the canals and waterways are so idyllic and relaxing but my finances won't yet stretch to a boat, in the meantime Betty, please keep churning out those videos and thank you.
Thank you, it's nice to hear from a fellow Wulfrunian! The canals and waterways are lovely and relaxing but you don't need a boat to enjoy them - I've always enjoyed walking along the canals. You're right about there being some history behind this... it's strange how a few people have picked up on it.
@@bettyonaboat Hi Betty, apologies for the delay in replying. Keep doing what you are doing hun, my best wishes are also with you at this time ❤
Of course they are looking at you, a beautiful woman driving a narrow boat , awesome, keep them coming enjoy your videos, hi from down under 🙏
Thanks for another interesting video Betty, which included the antics of your escort "HMS Swan". The background shot at 1:33 reminded me of the Willington Power Station cooling towers that you took some drone footage of in another video. When you approach bridges on bends, I wonder if this would benefit from a simple traffic light system or mounted mirror, so you can see any boaters coming from the other direction. I understand what you mean about feeling watched. When I had my first boating experience back in March, I tried to dock the houseboat I had hired along a bank by myself, which was a fairly complicated operation for me. Unfortunately I made a complete balls up of it and got spooked. I had a speed boat and water skier waiting for me to complete the docking, as well as a crowd of campers on the bank nearby laughing at my antics. Sufficed to say that I high tailed it out of there, but I learned from the experience. Very cool heart shaped sun glasses btw!!!
Oh no, that's mean of the campers to laugh at you! I think people probably don't realise how difficult it can be to handle a boat on your own.
"Why is this lady following me?" -Mr. Swanson
😂 He probably did think that!
Your the only narrow boater i am watching, you are very special. Keep up the videos, if you run out of ideas, just a day in the life is great. Thanks Love from New Zealand.
Thank you very much, that's nice to know!
The swan would definitely make better company than humans 😊
And drown you at the same time.
I've woke up really early and algorithm has found your channel. I guess you still have much content to share. Look forward to watching more. Enjoy
I’m glad you found my channel and I hope you enjoy the rest of my videos!
@bettyonaboat hopefully you will earn enough to get a electric motor for your boat ☺️
Loved the seek and reject swan love story, especially it ending in dinner.
We're just friends! 🦢
@@bettyonaboat tell that to the swan!
I do like your honesty. I some times wear headphones if there are too many people.
Nice video. It's a good job you distracted the swan. He wanted to kill the signet!
Oh no, that would have been horrible to see!
Lovely moments with the swan.
That feeling that everybody is looking at you and your experiences resonate with me. I call it autistic hyper-empathy. When other's emotions feel stronger within you than your own, and it feels overwhelming.😊
You're videos are so lovely & calming, I feel like I should be paying you therapist fees!
Ha, there's no need for therapist fees but it's nice to know you find them relaxing!
Hi Betty, will you be going to the pelsal boat festival? would be great to see you there.
I haven't heard of this but I'll look it up!