People need to stop being focused on chasing ass and get on their purpose. The women/money will come when you on your grind. “You’ll lose money chasing women but you’ll never lose women chasing money” 🔑
@@ellsb282 I’d rather think about it as them being ambitious and having other goals in life that don’t revolve around you aka having their own life lol
@@ellsb282 no, but chasing the bag means you have purpouse in life, you are conscious and obviously you're not useless and that's a main treat for men/women.
I've currently seen that that's the best way to attract people. If I can't be magnetic enough for people to be interested in me, then how do I believe they will like me when I approach them.
Well recently media and society just shit on men especially if ur a white man it’s bull shit plus the media says being a slut is empowering to women and they are that shit up
You only live once, so live with your head held high and never look down on others. Nobody is better or worse than you. Be yourself and be proud! Work hard and appreciate the people around you
I honestly don’t know what’s my purpose in this world. I just work a 9 to 5 and always lonely and alone. It’s always the same man. I don’t know what my purpose is. I stopped chasing girls because they piss me off and just get ghosted like always.
there’s a bunch of ted talks on how to find your purpose. it should be something you enjoy doing and makes you happy. for example i want more time and freedom to hang out with family and do whats fun in life. but i also want to make at least 6 figures and live a happy and comfortable life. so i’m currently working a part time job, while starting a phone repair business to fund my trading account and eventually i want to trade full time to be my own boss and have more time/freedom. then once i’m making a good amount i want to diversify my income into investments. while i’m doing this im constantly bettering myself by reading books and working out. not focused on girls atm bc they’ll always be there
Took a lot for me to not rip into you, but serriously, focus on what you enjoy, plan an exit strat from your job if you are not content and don’t feel like you are fulfilling your purpose. Don’t chase women but at the same time don’t bregrudge them, just work on you, your health and improvement. Look deeper at yourself instead of making quick social adjustments. Focus on growth and fufilment, not the end goal. Most of all, use time, don’t waste jt, cut all the bullshit out, all of it. As long. As you are improving you are getting closer to your purpose and when you open up to this journey you will gravitate towards things and things will gravitate towards you. It isn’t easy, but nothing worthwhile is. In a world of distractions, it’s harder than ever, just persevere bro
I had been hooked on StephIsCold for about 6-8 months until I stopped watching his channel on a consistent basis, because it had already started to fuck up my mentality. The thing is that with them, although they mix useful truths with lies, the lies do come from toxic places. StephIsCold is also a funny person, so that's what keeps his audience engaged too. Whenever I go back to those channels, I STRICTLY avoid the videos that they make about women and only watch any videos that they have on self-improvement. It took one of my closest friends (who's confident and good with women btw) to really point out the flaws in some of these dating channels. I now primarily just stick to The Roommates and this channel. It's also very important as men to have a strong support network around you, that's OUTSIDE of your family. Jordan, if you see this, make a video about importance of strong support networks because I was fortunate to get a good support network last year and certain aspects of my life that I never thought would have budged anytime soon have improved.
Same brother, I was hooked on Stephiscold it really messed me up mentally. Stopped to watch for 2 weeks and I remember myself being in the happiest moments I've ever been in months. That was when I realized how bad redpill content can be and how much it can affect someone mentally and spiritually.
I always thought that there was something a bit too extreme about steph and other "redpill" youtubers. I consumed redpill content for like a week and I could already tell that it was messing up mentality too, so the only self improvement youtubers that I watch are Jordan, Cole Hastings, and Improvement Pill. They all have a really good balance in personal development that isn't all just "redpill women bad" stuff.
I believe our lack of confidence always spawns from broken homes... and usually we think creating our own home will fix our problems so we chase for love when we are a bunch of adults with broken spirits...
never knew this side of men exists lol. anyways the younger boys (teens) are moving mad, they need to watch this video. They must have some sort of self-discipline and purpose to live for in life, instead of all they think about is who to date next.
I rarely get crushes but when I do it's so fucking annoying when I'm trying to get my work down and all I can do is think of her. Then again I'm more worried about failing my exams than not going out with her so that's basically what drives my motivation and will to try keep her out of mind lol.
Yes. Instead of chasing external relationships and validation, you need to work on your relationship to self and those other things will fall into place. This is good advice for both men and women.
Can we all just agree that the standrads and expectations of todays society along with the social media outlets enforcing them are toying with young mens emotions and destroying them from the inside out.
People need to stay away as much as posible from social media. Sm are great for businesses and people who need any sort of promotion or have an audience, as they are an advertisement heaven and a great way to connect with the masses.For the common people it is actually terrible and even worse for teenagers and young adults who end up falling victim to excessive advertising, scams, pyramid scemes, materialism,etc. Although for me the worst is that these people end up comparing their lives to that of other people who are mostly rich leading to feeling worthless and other mental health issues. So please people don't overuse these apps, when you use the be carefull and use them mostly to connect with your own people and for the love of god DON'T press any links you see cause you will end up having your data stolen. oh and last thing: YOU WONT FIND A GIRLFRIEND THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA GO OUTSIDE AND MEET PEOPLE.
@@hoodhokage5364 I started to work out and get some type of style but its been how long? I lost count... schools are closed for +1,5 years here if its going to continue like this im gonna screw up at universty exam cuz i got literally nothing from zoom meetings school is the way i talk with people other than my few homies i cant just go to a bar as a 15 year old I just wanna go out at put my myself out there, is it just me or my broken hormone levels cuz after i started to hit the gym when i hit 15 i started to CRAVE females I always felt a missing piece but nothing like this. I used to be quite nerdy would love sum hours long resarch about quantum mechanhics, noutron stars, black holes, cyripto currencys, stocks even I learnt this english all by myself for more clear and better inforation now im literally going down hill on the mind side but much better on the outside my mind is a mess these days. Its so bad i even have myself as my pfp.
If you need someone to talk to then we could talk on Discord but just in case you don't have Discord then my Insta's Desktop Fish. (I made my IG for homework help and art so if you need any help with homework you can also ask me.)
Holy Shit Jordan! It feels like someone spied on me and told you EXACTLY what I am struggling with right now because every point hit me to the core. Like a nice slap in the face to get back on my purpose and stop chasing women. Especially after recently watching some of those other channels. Thank you man!
I agree with you 100%. Men today seem way more infatuated in either trying to get females or complaining why they cant rather than actually being their best version. Its backwards thinking. Its almost as if they want excuses or have something to blame to avoid doing any work. Yes, leveling up is a marathon. Its not easy, but its way better than being your lamest version and complaining when you dam know you can be become better like being smarter, richer, phy/mentally healthier, etc. Accountability is what made me realize it was myself holding me back.
I legit had a dream where I was literally chasing my crush and she was only running away from me and I chase her around the classroom. This dream made me realize that chasing woman isn't worth it and I should focus on myself.
Great video bro! This is one of the reasons why I took a break from watching a lot of self-improvement videos. All I was doing was just watching and consuming, but not applying anything, hence why I took a break from the Roommates. Also, watching videos about female nature, women are this and women are that, get tiring after awhile, hence why I took a break from Kevin Samuels. Yeah, some women are like this, but not all of them are. Also, me complaining about how women are this and that isn't going to contribute to me being on my purpose. Lastly, I realized it's important to find the root cause of your trauma and work on fixing it.
modern men do complicate situations.. if she didnt text you back she doesn't like you for now.... put the work in enjoy life accomplish your goals and WATCH HOW GOD WILL BLESS YOU
Yep, also don't fall for the women who said they like you but don't show it. Then call you mean. I fell for that when I was younger. Now if he she likes me, she will show if not, then she's not interested.
As a woman i agree. Becoming your authentic self is the no.1 attractor. Youll draw in someone end game when it is destined to. So while the universe is pulling the strings, focus on the only thing you can control- yourself
Learn to be single. Like actually. Go for all the things YOU wanted to do and stop chasing women or men, see world wonders, create new passions FOR yourself. Once you are able to train yourself to do this it'll attract certain people who are attracted to your passion for things and then comes new relationships.
2:46 Hit a little close to home bro. I'm 20 right now, no girlfriend, virgin, no first kiss. And sometimes it gets hard to remain on your purpose when those around you seem so far ahead with their relationships. On the upside, since I have started NoFap (day 29), I've become more in tune with who I am and have become more confident. My questions to you are: What made you flip the switch at age 20? What changed? How did you meet your significant other? Thank you for your time brother. ✌🏾
Respect to you I ain't tryna diss you or nothing but dam nigga 20 no first kiss😳😳i pray that with all that off time that you got a bill gates bag than😂
imma spit sumn, go out to clubs go outside have fun and you will meet people, be confident cause confidence is most attractive thing in a man to a woman and shit gon change around, dont sit at home all day and play games, hit the gym, improve yourself, read, study bussiness.
@@zetovicfabio Yeah I’m working and working out on a daily basis. Only thing now is that, now that I’ve become more outgoing, it’s hard for me to get out more due to Covid. I might just say fuck it one day and go out but I ain’t tryna risk Covid for the potential of getting some coochie 😂
Bro there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin. I’m 18 and a virgin and proud. And if ur a man of faith it’s actually better that you are since premarital sex is a major sin. But if ur not religious then I’d still say don’t be ashamed of that bro. Society tries to shame people for not being promiscuous it’s the weirdest thing. Focus on urself and ur purpose. All that sex stuff is overrated once you try it.
Same I wasn't thinking about guys😅 I was thinking about make up, school and mostly girl stuff tbh even in my late teens I didn't really take notice to guys until my friends started to talk about them more often
i ain’t even gonna hold you bro. For most of the video i wasn’t agreeing on a lot but what stood out at the end was not allowing women to dictate my goals in life. that shit hit home bro. definitely got my sub
literally everything Ive ever tried to tell my fellow men. Well done. This man speaks nothing but truth, I advise listening to EVERYTHING this dude just said.
men are chasing pleasure. men want instant gratification instead of slow and steady. this is what creates beta vs alpha. men start showing these characteristics and then they get classified. just find your purpose and chase your goals and you will attractive everything. bless up jordan
yep, too many guys are snowflakes, i mean, people in general are just snow flakes these days. i know that's not what you're talking about when saying they're soft, but this is also a problem
4:27 "Confidence is the key to abundance" yes man yes. It is so much more important than anything in this life. Having confidence in yourself will guarantee your hapiness for the forseeable future
Yes sir I just been trying to build myself up not just for me but for my family. I have had success getting girls numbers but within a few days they leave me on read or just stop texting me at all which is fine. I don’t need to chase them I need to chase my dreams to become the Man I want to become.
Am 46 years old one of the things I see in modern men no confidence its not there fault most have been raised by there mother's my era things were different 80's and 90's we was blessed with game from the 70's pimps on the corners even if girls was out of our league we still holla sometimes it work we talked different men are not romantic anymore I had all types book smart girls,Spoiled Cinderellas,Hood Chicks,Private School girls with hidden beauty,Middle Class Forgotten Daughter,Mature Working Class Chick,the 90's thug is legendary Hustler,Pimp,and player all rolled into one Tyrone and Pookie are products from that 90's thug era
I’ve finally realised that being busy waiting for other people to speak or interest me is pointless and I should be filling my time with learning and working and busy with real things is when people start to notice your motivation and dedication and I am much happier for spending my time wisely
Also I have started no fap which I have found motivates me to enjoy doing jobs which I would have previously found boring and unfulfilling and has greatly boosted my confidence definitely recommend it
Thanks for saving me from a relapse. No deadass, I googled “interac-“ and then your notification came up. I know it’s TMI but I have to let you know how shook I was when ur video notification slid down on my phone as I was typing.
Im 20 too and had some girls Bit at this point i just dont give a fuck anymore an know they contact me and new girls are approching me all of a sudden just do u and dont chase girls guys
I found your channel by accident and was blown away by your knowledge. I'm a youtuber as well and a new subscriber to your channel. Keep up the great work!
Avoid a girlfriend for now young Kings and focus on a passion. My music got ten times better when I became single because I was able to focus on myself.
Wow... I ended a relationship 6 months ago and I'm currently doing the same thing. Trying to focus on my music. I've realized that I'm a getting better and I've got way more time on my hands to focus.
ive finally given myself the opportunity to start working on music and its the happiest ive ever been in my life, like i have that childlike wonder again and that came after i stopped chasing relationships
Thank you for this bro. I'm a 19 year old virgin, and i've been frustrated with this for a while. But it's videos like these that remind me what i gotta do and focus on.
Self-improvement videos won't make things better in most people's lives, as they're merely for infotainment. Viewers of self-improvement videos are like kids that watched Superman. Those kids then went on to feel just as fulfilled fantasizing about being Superman than accomplishing anything close to what Clark has.
The points you make about confidence are 100% fact. I'm not the best looking dude, barely have money, but have been with girls I thought I never would, Just from being confident. Nowadays I don't care about getting women. I'm trying to use that confidence to make a stable living. Best of luck to those that are focusing on themselves.
This generation's fucked up. It's hard for us guys to even focus on things. I feel insecure all the time due to the fake expectations many people share online. I sometimes wish that I was born asexual. It would've been very helpful for me.
Dawg .. wtf .. 🔥🔥🔥 This is the exact wisdom I needed right now. I’m going to replay this about 10 more X’s .. Soak up all the info, & apply it to my life. If you focus from within, everything else will follow.
I have come to realize that I get much better and progress alot more when I am single. And im not trying to be cocky but just know that I am in no way an unattractive guy, I'm 22, 6'4, muscular and play D1 basketball, i invest in stocks and sell art. I can get most of the attractive girls i see but for some reason I just have no desire for a relationship at this point. Even though i feel so lonely and would like a partner to come home to 😞, I believe that its God telling me to stay single for now because a woman/relationship would take time away from my progress and me working towards my future goals and success, i admit i get lonely at times but to get rid of that i just hit the gym and or research something that will benefit my life better whether it's financially, mentally of emotionally.
I used to be so invested in trying to get a new partner to get over my last relationship but with videos like these I know that I don’t need another person in my life to heal me or make me feel better . I can make myself feel better by taking it step by step with myself and contributing on myself mentally and physically. Much love brother and hopefully this message comes to as most men as posible . 💯
Your happiness should be internal and not external. Women are easy to blame. 99.99% of the time you placed value on someone who didn't ask you to. The day you begin valuing yourself is the day you quit overthinking stuff. Its up to you if you work on yourself and improve yourself.
people keep clicking on self-improvement videos and commenting "now this is real, this is what i needed, etc." this is the first video like this that i watched that actually felt like it had a message and got straight to the point.
You are speaking a lot of truth. It's good to hear actual wisdom with positive criticism. Confidence (with the balance of humility) is the key to abundance. I've never liked the word "chase". If you are walking in your purpose, you're on schedule, so you're on time for where you need to be. Missing the train or the bus is like missing your greatest opportunities. If you're there before it arrives, you glide into your purpose and can be confident, not needing validation.
I really needed this thanks man. No hate to Stephiscold he is my boy and I watch him a lot but recently I stopped a bit because his videos just seem to be talking about female nature and attacking them. That doesn't mean there isn't truth to what he is saying but he is doing that because he knows it will get more clicks. I started watching him a couple of months ago and his videos were bangers, especially the old ones. It taught me about female nature. A lot of you tubers in the rp community started with videos of fitness and how to create your own value now they only focus on women cuz that's what guys watch. It's entertaining but sometimes you just need a break from that shii.
Thanks for this video man was really needed. Love the part where you say that you don't have to stress about every social interaction you have with a woman because you're confident in yourself to begin with. Keep up the videos man!
Yo jordan, I just want to thank you for motivating me to do youtube and actually start uploading videos. I know it may not seem like much but i just uploaded my first short! You are definitely my example and I’ve been watching you since 2K ❤️✌️
im ngl i needed this i was trying to impress this girl and I was so focused on her I broke my promise to myself that I would focus on myself. i realize that all girls like a confident man. thank you
I'm glad you touched on the other RUclipsrs a bit. I think there's a lot of good stuff to be learned from the guys at freshandfit, but of course, not all the stuff that they say is the best way to go about things. Great video dude
This is real , honestly this spoke to me cuz lately I’ve been doing this but you changed my perspective now , I will worry ab getting money and doing better for my self and then down the line maybe get a gf when I feel like it’s time❗️
Thanks for this, chief. I am the same as you described your past self btw - 20, 0 relationships, not really confident, all of it. Thought I highly intend to pull myself together starting this week and this really helped out. Cheers!
Usually I ignore videos on topics like this because I don't feel i need them and often I think they're doing more bad than good. But this is awesome. This is a very important topic to promote in our modern society. Just remember that with healthy confidence, good times will come.
Post nut clarity be like:
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i got this rn
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“Focus less on the booty and focus more on your duty.” 😤
HEY HEY HEY
Icecold be searching these quotes on google
WICECold JT🔥🔥🔥
Those are the wisest words I’ve seen in a min
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You can either be blinded by love, or be blinded by lust. You decide what you’re capable of. 🌞
Don't let your emotions control u, u control ur emotions
Facts Rami
Yessir
I love that qoute
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People need to stop being focused on chasing ass and get on their purpose. The women/money will come when you on your grind. “You’ll lose money chasing women but you’ll never lose women chasing money” 🔑
damn straight
men thinking women only care about money lol
@@ellsb282 i mean, do they have something else to offer lmao 🤷♀️
@@ellsb282 I’d rather think about it as them being ambitious and having other goals in life that don’t revolve around you aka having their own life lol
@@ellsb282 no, but chasing the bag means you have purpouse in life, you are conscious and obviously you're not useless and that's a main treat for men/women.
“Don’t chase things, become a magnet to things” 💯🧲
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I've currently seen that that's the best way to attract people. If I can't be magnetic enough for people to be interested in me, then how do I believe they will like me when I approach them.
"dont tell people your plans show them your results"👑💯
Facts sayless it’s a lifestyle
QMO
I think it's not just a problem with men, It's problem with people overall, both gender.
Well recently media and society just shit on men especially if ur a white man it’s bull shit plus the media says being a slut is empowering to women and they are that shit up
Just google "How to pick up women" and "How to pick up men". Which one gives a lot more results? There's a considerable difference.
You only live once, so live with your head held high and never look down on others. Nobody is better or worse than you. Be yourself and be proud! Work hard and appreciate the people around you
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I honestly don’t know what’s my purpose in this world. I just work a 9 to 5 and always lonely and alone. It’s always the same man. I don’t know what my purpose is. I stopped chasing girls because they piss me off and just get ghosted like always.
there’s a bunch of ted talks on how to find your purpose. it should be something you enjoy doing and makes you happy. for example i want more time and freedom to hang out with family and do whats fun in life. but i also want to make at least 6 figures and live a happy and comfortable life. so i’m currently working a part time job, while starting a phone repair business to fund my trading account and eventually i want to trade full time to be my own boss and have more time/freedom. then once i’m making a good amount i want to diversify my income into investments. while i’m doing this im constantly bettering myself by reading books and working out. not focused on girls atm bc they’ll always be there
Search up blackpill. Then your questions will be answered. It will enlighten you however it can also kill you if you indulge in to too mucc
You don’t have a purpose. Your purpose is whether or not your genetics can attract women to you
God bless u man, u can watch some Jordan Peterson videos he helped me a lot.
Took a lot for me to not rip into you, but serriously, focus on what you enjoy, plan an exit strat from your job if you are not content and don’t feel like you are fulfilling your purpose. Don’t chase women but at the same time don’t bregrudge them, just work on you, your health and improvement. Look deeper at yourself instead of making quick social adjustments. Focus on growth and fufilment, not the end goal. Most of all, use time, don’t waste jt, cut all the bullshit out, all of it. As long. As you are improving you are getting closer to your purpose and when you open up to this journey you will gravitate towards things and things will gravitate towards you. It isn’t easy, but nothing worthwhile is. In a world of distractions, it’s harder than ever, just persevere bro
As a man myself, I’m not afraid of showing my masculinity. I won’t let society reject it.
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I had been hooked on StephIsCold for about 6-8 months until I stopped watching his channel on a consistent basis, because it had already started to fuck up my mentality. The thing is that with them, although they mix useful truths with lies, the lies do come from toxic places.
StephIsCold is also a funny person, so that's what keeps his audience engaged too. Whenever I go back to those channels, I STRICTLY avoid the videos that they make about women and only watch any videos that they have on self-improvement.
It took one of my closest friends (who's confident and good with women btw) to really point out the flaws in some of these dating channels. I now primarily just stick to The Roommates and this channel. It's also very important as men to have a strong support network around you, that's OUTSIDE of your family. Jordan, if you see this, make a video about importance of strong support networks because I was fortunate to get a good support network last year and certain aspects of my life that I never thought would have budged anytime soon have improved.
Same brother, I was hooked on Stephiscold it really messed me up mentally. Stopped to watch for 2 weeks and I remember myself being in the happiest moments I've ever been in months. That was when I realized how bad redpill content can be and how much it can affect someone mentally and spiritually.
Steph is a false prophet imo
I always thought that there was something a bit too extreme about steph and other "redpill" youtubers. I consumed redpill content for like a week and I could already tell that it was messing up mentality too, so the only self improvement youtubers that I watch are Jordan, Cole Hastings, and Improvement Pill. They all have a really good balance in personal development that isn't all just "redpill women bad" stuff.
I believe our lack of confidence always spawns from broken homes... and usually we think creating our own home will fix our problems so we chase for love when we are a bunch of adults with broken spirits...
Dammnnnn , niggas need messages like this more often .
exactly. ..been trying to tell people this
LOL after clicking the vid the first ad talks about “how to win over women”
youtube ads be like
I had an ad where a woman was gonna teach me how can I get a woman to say "plz f*ck me" in the span of that one minute ad.
The dislikes are from simps who cant handle the truth
If you aren’t happy with yourself, how do you expect to make someone happy.
never knew this side of men exists lol.
anyways the younger boys (teens) are moving mad, they need to watch this video. They must have some sort of self-discipline and purpose to live for in life, instead of all they think about is who to date next.
😅 agreed
I rarely get crushes but when I do it's so fucking annoying when I'm trying to get my work down and all I can do is think of her. Then again I'm more worried about failing my exams than not going out with her so that's basically what drives my motivation and will to try keep her out of mind lol.
@Joe Ye gonna try my best it's actually really tough but what can I say life ain't easy...
Lol that's normal, it's called attraction, that's completely healthy but if becomes an obsession that's when it's a problem you should fix
Yes. Instead of chasing external relationships and validation, you need to work on your relationship to self and those other things will fall into place. This is good advice for both men and women.
This dude is way too intelligent for his age. Respect
Video not about dating women gives the best advice on dating women.
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Shid I thought I was the only one who peeped, more guys worried about modern women than being on their purpose and self improving.
tough scene bro smh
Can we all just agree that the standrads and expectations of todays society along with the social media outlets enforcing them are toying with young mens emotions and destroying them from the inside out.
People need to stay away as much as posible from social media. Sm are great for businesses and people who need any sort of promotion or have an audience, as they are an advertisement heaven and a great way to connect with the masses.For the common people it is actually terrible and even worse for teenagers and young adults who end up falling victim to excessive advertising, scams, pyramid scemes, materialism,etc. Although for me the worst is that these people end up comparing their lives to that of other people who are mostly rich leading to feeling worthless and other mental health issues. So please people don't overuse these apps, when you use the be carefull and use them mostly to connect with your own people and for the love of god DON'T press any links you see cause you will end up having your data stolen. oh and last thing: YOU WONT FIND A GIRLFRIEND THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA GO OUTSIDE AND MEET PEOPLE.
@@hoodhokage5364 I started to work out and get some type of style but its been how long? I lost count... schools are closed for +1,5 years here if its going to continue like this im gonna screw up at universty exam cuz i got literally nothing from zoom meetings school is the way i talk with people other than my few homies i cant just go to a bar as a 15 year old I just wanna go out at put my myself out there, is it just me or my broken hormone levels cuz after i started to hit the gym when i hit 15 i started to CRAVE females I always felt a missing piece but nothing like this. I used to be quite nerdy would love sum hours long resarch about quantum mechanhics, noutron stars, black holes, cyripto currencys, stocks even I learnt this english all by myself for more clear and better inforation now im literally going down hill on the mind side but much better on the outside my mind is a mess these days. Its so bad i even have myself as my pfp.
If you need someone to talk to then we could talk on Discord but just in case you don't have Discord then my Insta's Desktop Fish. (I made my IG for homework help and art so if you need any help with homework you can also ask me.)
Holy Shit Jordan! It feels like someone spied on me and told you EXACTLY what I am struggling with right now because every point hit me to the core. Like a nice slap in the face to get back on my purpose and stop chasing women. Especially after recently watching some of those other channels. Thank you man!
This guy is like 20 but has the wisdom of a 45 year old,good job bro 👍
I agree with you 100%. Men today seem way more infatuated in either trying to get females or complaining why they cant rather than actually being their best version. Its backwards thinking. Its almost as if they want excuses or have something to blame to avoid doing any work. Yes, leveling up is a marathon. Its not easy, but its way better than being your lamest version and complaining when you dam know you can be become better like being smarter, richer, phy/mentally healthier, etc. Accountability is what made me realize it was myself holding me back.
„It‘s because she don‘t like you!“ Facts!
I legit had a dream where I was literally chasing my crush and she was only running away from me and I chase her around the classroom. This dream made me realize that chasing woman isn't worth it and I should focus on myself.
Dreams often share important signs
dreams are a GREAT way to analyze your subconscious mind
@@JordanGreenYT it really is bro.
Great video bro! This is one of the reasons why I took a break from watching a lot of self-improvement videos. All I was doing was just watching and consuming, but not applying anything, hence why I took a break from the Roommates. Also, watching videos about female nature, women are this and women are that, get tiring after awhile, hence why I took a break from Kevin Samuels. Yeah, some women are like this, but not all of them are. Also, me complaining about how women are this and that isn't going to contribute to me being on my purpose. Lastly, I realized it's important to find the root cause of your trauma and work on fixing it.
Exactly i took a break from watching videos like that because it was tiring and it was starting to irritate me
youre a very wise man 👑
modern men do complicate situations.. if she didnt text you back she doesn't like you for now.... put the work in enjoy life accomplish your goals and WATCH HOW GOD WILL BLESS YOU
Yep, also don't fall for the women who said they like you but don't show it. Then call you mean. I fell for that when I was younger. Now if he she likes me, she will show if not, then she's not interested.
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Difference between a girl and a woman
As a woman i agree. Becoming your authentic self is the no.1 attractor. Youll draw in someone end game when it is destined to. So while the universe is pulling the strings, focus on the only thing you can control- yourself
Learn to be single. Like actually. Go for all the things YOU wanted to do and stop chasing women or men, see world wonders, create new passions FOR yourself. Once you are able to train yourself to do this it'll attract certain people who are attracted to your passion for things and then comes new relationships.
2:46 Hit a little close to home bro. I'm 20 right now, no girlfriend, virgin, no first kiss. And sometimes it gets hard to remain on your purpose when those around you seem so far ahead with their relationships. On the upside, since I have started NoFap (day 29), I've become more in tune with who I am and have become more confident.
My questions to you are: What made you flip the switch at age 20? What changed? How did you meet your significant other?
Thank you for your time brother. ✌🏾
Respect to you I ain't tryna diss you or nothing but dam nigga 20 no first kiss😳😳i pray that with all that off time that you got a bill gates bag than😂
imma spit sumn, go out to clubs go outside have fun and you will meet people, be confident cause confidence is most attractive thing in a man to a woman and shit gon change around, dont sit at home all day and play games, hit the gym, improve yourself, read, study bussiness.
@@zetovicfabio Yeah I’m working and working out on a daily basis. Only thing now is that, now that I’ve become more outgoing, it’s hard for me to get out more due to Covid. I might just say fuck it one day and go out but I ain’t tryna risk Covid for the potential of getting some coochie 😂
Bro there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin. I’m 18 and a virgin and proud. And if ur a man of faith it’s actually better that you are since premarital sex is a major sin. But if ur not religious then I’d still say don’t be ashamed of that bro. Society tries to shame people for not being promiscuous it’s the weirdest thing. Focus on urself and ur purpose. All that sex stuff is overrated once you try it.
@@TheRealNabil how u know it’s overrated if u never tried it
Nah fam I'm to anxious to go after women, just started in the gym so working on myself lol
"a lot of men are soft" hell yeah they are especially in my generation
I feel like a lot of men don't understand rejection that's the biggest problem with men today
What does that even mean? How can you not understand rejection??
@@nidz4 understand how to be rejected
@@shaniahpaster12 I get that. But I don’t get how men don’t understand to be rejected??
i mean, i can understand living under the fear of rejection. but whaaa
r you saying?
@@nidz4 You just proved her point
If you’re chasing something it means that it is running away from you
Amazing
Fuck allat, I'd rather be the one runnin' and runnin'. Everything else can chase ME, but I'll keep runnin'. Focusing on everything else all the while.
In elementary school I wasn't even thinking about girls i was thinking about the next episode of DBZ lol
I was thinking about games😂
I was thinking about how my ass was clean that time when I took a fat shit
Same I wasn't thinking about guys😅 I was thinking about make up, school and mostly girl stuff tbh even in my late teens I didn't really take notice to guys until my friends started to talk about them more often
Lol I was thinking about how to be more like my crush and how the fuck would I make it home to be on time for the next episode.
i ain’t even gonna hold you bro. For most of the video i wasn’t agreeing on a lot but what stood out at the end was not allowing women to dictate my goals in life. that shit hit home bro. definitely got my sub
You're a spark of hope in this doomed generation. Never stop doing this.....ever
we just getting started 📈🚀
literally everything Ive ever tried to tell my fellow men. Well done. This man speaks nothing but truth, I advise listening to EVERYTHING this dude just said.
Facts. I always live by the rule: First I want to reach my goals and fulfill my dreams, then I can settle with a relationship.
Self love/respect > Purpose > Hobbies > about 5 other things > Women
men are chasing pleasure. men want instant gratification instead of slow and steady. this is what creates beta vs alpha. men start showing these characteristics and then they get classified. just find your purpose and chase your goals and you will attractive everything. bless up jordan
facts bro! as within, so without ☯️
yep, too many guys are snowflakes, i mean, people in general are just snow flakes these days. i know that's not what you're talking about when saying they're soft, but this is also a problem
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"When you chase women they run away"- Damn never thought of that
society is trying to turn men into women and women into men, fellas just keep your head up, stay strong and KEEP PUSHING
how? genuinely asking
Everything's going woke!
4:27 "Confidence is the key to abundance" yes man yes. It is so much more important than anything in this life. Having confidence in yourself will guarantee your hapiness for the forseeable future
Yes sir I just been trying to build myself up not just for me but for my family. I have had success getting girls numbers but within a few days they leave me on read or just stop texting me at all which is fine. I don’t need to chase them I need to chase my dreams to become the Man I want to become.
Am 46 years old one of the things I see in modern men no confidence its not there fault most have been raised by there mother's my era things were different 80's and 90's we was blessed with game from the 70's pimps on the corners even if girls was out of our league we still holla sometimes it work we talked different men are not romantic anymore I had all types
book smart girls,Spoiled Cinderellas,Hood Chicks,Private School girls with hidden beauty,Middle Class Forgotten Daughter,Mature Working Class Chick,the 90's thug is legendary Hustler,Pimp,and player all rolled into one Tyrone and Pookie are products from that 90's thug era
I’ve finally realised that being busy waiting for other people to speak or interest me is pointless and I should be filling my time with learning and working and busy with real things is when people start to notice your motivation and dedication and I am much happier for spending my time wisely
Also I have started no fap which I have found motivates me to enjoy doing jobs which I would have previously found boring and unfulfilling and has greatly boosted my confidence definitely recommend it
Out of all the languages in the world, he decided to speak facts 💯
Thanks for saving me from a relapse. No deadass, I googled “interac-“ and then your notification came up. I know it’s TMI but I have to let you know how shook I was when ur video notification slid down on my phone as I was typing.
"It's because she doesn't like you bro it's as simple as that" fuck man lol
“Your purpose will contribute more to the world than a relationship with one person ever could”💯
Definitely something I have noticed with modern men these days. Definitely something I want to talk about in my next video
Jordan is speaking nothing but facts here man
much love bro 💪🏾
"it's because she doesn't like" FACTS
Im 20 too and had some girls Bit at this point i just dont give a fuck anymore an know they contact me and new girls are approching me all of a sudden just do u and dont chase girls guys
focus on yourself 👑
@@JordanGreenYT yes bro thanks i See my self in you its kinda weird nur helps me a lot to See someone who has the same problems an thoughts
I found your channel by accident and was blown away by your knowledge. I'm a youtuber as well and a new subscriber to your channel. Keep up the great work!
Avoid a girlfriend for now young Kings and focus on a passion. My music got ten times better when I became single because I was able to focus on myself.
Wow... I ended a relationship 6 months ago and I'm currently doing the same thing. Trying to focus on my music. I've realized that I'm a getting better and I've got way more time on my hands to focus.
ive finally given myself the opportunity to start working on music and its the happiest ive ever been in my life, like i have that childlike wonder again and that came after i stopped chasing relationships
@@camwad1238 bro I completely relate and understand 😤🙏🏼
@@Jo-qx1kv I only spend time and energy on people who show high interest because time is the most important resource imo
HOLY SHIT, when you said "you are a spiritual being having a human experience" that hit me! thank you bro
any man who can conquer himself, can conquer the world
probably the best lesson I’ve ever learned in my 27 years of life
Thank you for this bro. I'm a 19 year old virgin, and i've been frustrated with this for a while. But it's videos like these that remind me what i gotta do and focus on.
bro
Bro
The longer your a virgin the prouder you should be.
@@gentilimusic3804 bro maybe
You’ll get yo time best thing to really do is focus on yo self get in yo bag and I promise you females will look at you more
Self-improvement videos won't make things better in most people's lives, as they're merely for infotainment. Viewers of self-improvement videos are like kids that watched Superman. Those kids then went on to feel just as fulfilled fantasizing about being Superman than accomplishing anything close to what Clark has.
Nicely put.
People who can't find purpose distract themselves with pleasures.
The points you make about confidence are 100% fact. I'm not the best looking dude, barely have money, but have been with girls I thought I never would, Just from being confident. Nowadays I don't care about getting women. I'm trying to use that confidence to make a stable living. Best of luck to those that are focusing on themselves.
Purpose over pleasure.
This generation's fucked up. It's hard for us guys to even focus on things. I feel insecure all the time due to the fake expectations many people share online. I sometimes wish that I was born asexual. It would've been very helpful for me.
Dawg .. wtf .. 🔥🔥🔥
This is the exact wisdom I needed right now.
I’m going to replay this about 10 more X’s ..
Soak up all the info, & apply it to my life.
If you focus from within, everything else will follow.
I have come to realize that I get much better and progress alot more when I am single. And im not trying to be cocky but just know that I am in no way an unattractive guy, I'm 22, 6'4, muscular and play D1 basketball, i invest in stocks and sell art. I can get most of the attractive girls i see but for some reason I just have no desire for a relationship at this point. Even though i feel so lonely and would like a partner to come home to 😞, I believe that its God telling me to stay single for now because a woman/relationship would take time away from my progress and me working towards my future goals and success, i admit i get lonely at times but to get rid of that i just hit the gym and or research something that will benefit my life better whether it's financially, mentally of emotionally.
Personal growth > everything 🙏
@@BlazingSkyez yes, 100%
I understand
Keep focusing on you bro💯
@@BigxPerk2298 thank you bro, its hard being alone but also getting alot more done💯👏🏿
I used to be so invested in trying to get a new partner to get over my last relationship but with videos like these I know that I don’t need another person in my life to heal me or make me feel better . I can make myself feel better by taking it step by step with myself and contributing on myself mentally and physically. Much love brother and hopefully this message comes to as most men as posible . 💯
much love bro! im glad youve found your inner light 👑
Your happiness should be internal and not external. Women are easy to blame. 99.99% of the time you placed value on someone who didn't ask you to. The day you begin valuing yourself is the day you quit overthinking stuff. Its up to you if you work on yourself and improve yourself.
Fax💥💨
"You are a spiritual being having a Human Experience" im going to carry those Words to the Grave
people keep clicking on self-improvement videos and commenting "now this is real, this is what i needed, etc." this is the first video like this that i watched that actually felt like it had a message and got straight to the point.
You are speaking a lot of truth. It's good to hear actual wisdom with positive criticism. Confidence (with the balance of humility) is the key to abundance.
I've never liked the word "chase". If you are walking in your purpose, you're on schedule, so you're on time for where you need to be. Missing the train or the bus is like missing your greatest opportunities. If you're there before it arrives, you glide into your purpose and can be confident, not needing validation.
I'm a girl, I'm elevating myself and what I learn is that improve yourself and someone will naturally come by you. You attract what you are.
You're damn right and BTW I'm a guy felt the same way.
I really needed this thanks man. No hate to Stephiscold he is my boy and I watch him a lot but recently I stopped a bit because his videos just seem to be talking about female nature and attacking them. That doesn't mean there isn't truth to what he is saying but he is doing that because he knows it will get more clicks. I started watching him a couple of months ago and his videos were bangers, especially the old ones. It taught me about female nature. A lot of you tubers in the rp community started with videos of fitness and how to create your own value now they only focus on women cuz that's what guys watch. It's entertaining but sometimes you just need a break from that shii.
As a woman, i LOVE this video. This content is amazing, thank you.
Thanks for this video man was really needed. Love the part where you say that you don't have to stress about every social interaction you have with a woman because you're confident in yourself to begin with. Keep up the videos man!
You have no idea how many dating ads I got while watching this video
Frrrrr😂
Word
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This is one weird Marques Brownlee video
Yo jordan, I just want to thank you for motivating me to do youtube and actually start uploading videos. I know it may not seem like much but i just uploaded my first short! You are definitely my example and I’ve been watching you since 2K ❤️✌️
This vid hit me hard, i have been struggling with staying focused on myself recently, thank you dude
im ngl i needed this i was trying to impress this girl and I was so focused on her I broke my promise to myself that I would focus on myself. i realize that all girls like a confident man. thank you
1:36 This is wake up moment for me man,this hits man, I hated to hear that but I had to hear that.Thanks😑
I'm glad you touched on the other RUclipsrs a bit. I think there's a lot of good stuff to be learned from the guys at freshandfit, but of course, not all the stuff that they say is the best way to go about things. Great video dude
This is a deep speech from a psychological, philosofical and spiritual point. Thank you algorythm!
Usually don’t watch these but u hit every key point reminding me why I’m tryna be the best version of me 🤝
Simp over meaning, not over girls.
This is real , honestly this spoke to me cuz lately I’ve been doing this but you changed my perspective now , I will worry ab getting money and doing better for my self and then down the line maybe get a gf when I feel like it’s time❗️
Honestly I'm a girl and you gave me some good advice about self value and essentially the law of attraction. Really good video!
i ruined my life being a sex addict and alcohalic. depleted savings. inability to learn new skills. its worse than drugs.
“Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” 👑💯
as within, so without
Thanks for this, chief. I am the same as you described your past self btw - 20, 0 relationships, not really confident, all of it. Thought I highly intend to pull myself together starting this week and this really helped out. Cheers!
Usually I ignore videos on topics like this because I don't feel i need them and often I think they're doing more bad than good. But this is awesome. This is a very important topic to promote in our modern society. Just remember that with healthy confidence, good times will come.
Wise beyond your years. Appreciate your content
basicly dont chase women let women chase u
my stepdad told me that too & what do u know, i had girls chasing me in high school
women are realizing that chasing men is wrothlerss either soo
@@ellsb282 quick question did u voted for biden
@@gelatoruntz1191 im not even american. i swear americans and them thinking that world evovles around them
@@ellsb282 Chasing ppl is worthless in general, there's no need to rush things
3:40 "you are a spiritual being having a human experience" this man is coming straight off the shroomies bruh.... It's facts tho
It’s not as easy as you say it is, I wish I knew what I wanted to do