Corey changed my whole perception on life. He knows what he's talking about. Ever since I implemented his alpha techniques and phone strategies, women have been more attached than ever. They never met a real man that doesn't text every 5 minutes and doesn't act like a goofball. They don't know how to act. Their brain goes crazy and they crave the attention that you limit.
@Coach Cory Wayne I used to think the same way, as I am around the same age, but instead of going for long boring convos, I started experimenting with a little idea I had, to just have a small convo, keep it funny or kind of teasing, you do not have to set up a date, but after you had a small fun convo, tell her you are going to work, gym, heck even say you are going to have some food or even gonna read a book (see what i did there ;)), and tell her that you'll talk to her later and just DON'T text her again first, if she gets upset, just tell her you much rather talk to her in person, because you want to see her pretty face while she talks, she'll be flattered and just leave you alone, this will most likely result into her texting back after a few hours or if not, the next day, whatever you do, do not text first, also don't immediately answer (i'm usually still busy so I never even get the chance to) you can have another small convo but then you have to make sure you set up a date. So you can have a small convo every now and then, but then you gotta make sure you talk about something that will raise her interest level, tease her, show her you are busy and can't just chat all day, but that you got time to text back now and then... she'll see it as you putting in effort to answer to her in your busy schedule, while you are actually not doing anything special, thus raising her interest level once again!
+arno van roy the idea is not to be a robot, but understand the principles in my book enough to get to the fucking point, which so few men do, and set a date. Good job dude. You seem to get it.
I'm 21 in university and a week ago, after a very long period of constant rejection, blocks and insults from girls I just met for absolutely no reason, I started dating this girl (she's 22 or so). I've been following your advice ever since I got rejected 8 months ago when I started looking for help online, found your work and trying to highlight everything to simplify it as much as possible! - so far I did the minor mistake of dating this girl twice on the first week and got forced to cancel the 3rd date yesterday (I heard one of your advice about that!), but so far this girl is quite shocked at just how good I am that she asked me how many girls have I dated before her and I sarcastically told her "you're gonna need to clear up your phone memory if you want the full list!" - Long story short, your work is phenomenal, and I'm truly grateful that I found your work at such an extremely early age, Thanks!
I’ve been texting my girlfriend a bit too much, and it’s lead to some disagreements and whatnot. Thanks for the video Corey, I’ve referred to it multiple times. Time to keep busy, and keep her wondering.
@adamlanza5383 Meet me in stairwell E during 3rd period while you're in technology, at 1010. I want to get a taste of your sweetness She was there every time.
Agreed. I dated a guy in a LDR who would non-stop text me on multiple platforms, kept telling him that constant contact is WAY too stressful and kills the attraction. He'd slow down right after, then after a day passed would blow up my inboxes. It was seriously darning, and made me wonder if he had any hobbies or friends outside of me.
I agree with this video. I like a man that keeps me guessing. I have met and dated men that text back to back without even giving me a chance to reply and others who would tell me their life story thru a text. It so unattractive and I dont like it. I have always been suspictious of been who just opens up and tell me all their business during the first few fone comversations or texts. The conversation need to be light not get deep into heavy topics. Your video was very good. And I agree with you. Thank you.
Maaan I wish that I saw this before. I had a 4 hours conversation and now few days later I got FLAKED. She died for me before that and was doing her best to spend time with me.
I'm 30 and I'm starting to use snap and Instagram to improve my social life and get people's attention in a positive manner. Example-Going to a concert, only add snaps of things like the line, the stage and some highlights of the songs. As men, we don't need to take the dog selfie 10 times a day. That's what women do. But don't be afraid to take selfies once in a while. And don't be afraid to get a picture with women at an event/bar/club. I've found it's shockingly easy.
Plus, if a woman you like sees you in pictures with other beautiful women, she starts to get jealous and wonder what's going on. Worst case scenario, you don't get the attention of the girl you're currently interested in, but meet someone else instead. That's why we need options. Keep up the good info coach.
I have to be honest Corey. I've been implementing the strategies you've mentioned, but none of these are working what so ever. I use the phone to set dates, but it doesn't work because they never keep them. Straight up do everything right that I can think of.
I've still crashed and burned even not texting. Some have even been like: "We haven't even talked much, so I just don't trust to go out". That's even after I've already met them, and they've given me their number. Like why give me your number if you don't trust me? 😒
Ugh this sucks because this is happening to me! The guy I’m dating will text me here and there and then sometimes stop replying keeping me on my toes!!!
When I'm in doubt I will come back to this video. I just had a girl last night after hooking suggest that I text her "more" because I told her I don't like texting. Thank you Corey. Also on the second reading of your book. I would love to get the hard cover for future reference.
There's definitely a fine line around this subject..too much phone causes them to back away..and too little makes them think you ain't interested(aka- point blank ignoring them and being a 'cold fish'), that's just what i've gathered..just limit the time you talk on the phone and never stop to have a convo' when you're busy.
Coach Corey Wayne Sir, I have read your book 4 times already, watched many videos, and gone out applying what I've learned to great success from your content. As well as from many other dating/lifestyle coaches across the internet. I believe many more people could benefit from you speaking at a convention like the 21 Convention. I am not a representative for them at all haha, but I just wanted to make a suggestion :) thanks for everything Coach.
I deleted my facebook & messenger and only use texting for dates. They don't need to creep on my FB to see if they are interested in me or who I know. I'll respond to whatever she wants to say but go right for the throat and drop a good ol fashion corey wayne "when are you free to get together" and holy crap 9 out of 10 times its worked and that 1 out of 10 is a no response their loss situation.
Love your vids and your so dry sense of humour 🤣 I am rolling in laughter, you do not realise how funny you are Corey 😂Would love for you to do a video on how to spot narcissistic traits on dating sites and first meet ups please?
As a woman this is not true for all! While I don’t want someone blowing up my phone, I also don’t want game playing! Cultivate a connection inside and outside of the date by CALLING! Wondering all the damn time and unclear feelings are not attractive. Yes, enjoy your life and hobbies but let it be natural and not some game. 😑
In my experience, a lot of millennial women are way too much on their phone, too much into social media and sometimes when you suggest to call each other they think that it’s very strange and sometimes creepy because they would rather have your Snapchat or keep texting etc
No. The girl only wants to keep you texting so she can gain your validation. And you should never give girls validation. Therefore, you need to not do the continuous texting. It's a way for a girl to manipulate you and it will eventually put you in the friend zone or you'll come across as a needy stalker. It's a trap. You think you need to keep bs texting. But, you really need to be able to to walk away. You need to not want her, if you actually want to get her. Read that last sentence again. And, stop the bs texting.
What do you do when a woman wants to keep track of your life? Meaning she wants a good morning text and an afternoon text chat to know about your day. Everything runs smoothly with date's and all, but it's the texts that I can't avoid. Even if I try to keep the phone just for setting up date's. What then coach?
this is to true. another reason why i update my ig fb other social media every 5 days or so. and i never add girls i want on social media. then they know whats going on on your life. it's all blasted on there for the world to see. so at dinner. " oh babe i blah blah blah at blah blah blah." her: oh yeah i know i saw your video...." smh. lol
mexican whiteboy same bro! I never add girls I date on social media. the mystery is massively revealed. Show your love, but deny them the social media. Lol!
I’m always caught in between “am I coming on too strong and losing mystery” with getting to the point and asking for a date online, and “am I being a pussy” with building rapport before shooting my shot.
I live by the ”dont care too much about her but rock her world when your meet her in person” and that works awesome. I make them think im the best guy ever then just dont call her or text her afterwards lmao.
Yup. I was dating a gorgeous girl who'd I'd text every day. Not just short texts either, long, long texts all day long. Of course, she got bored and on our dates we had nothing to talk about. Still, you can't blame me though. My first girlfriend was a mute so I had to get to know her by texting lol
I know this video is old - but when he says a woman told him to be less available, i literally had a girl tell me the same thing. Rocket science right 😂
The thing is how do you handle a situation where she's texting you first and your trying not to have a conversation, but at the same not trying to come off as rude?
So, essentially you're trying to build an insecure attachment (by making them insecure about your own feelings and showing them how self-centered you are), so you trigger anxiety in women and they will reach out more for you? For my part, a man behaving like that can walk his own way. I'm too old to take this sort of abuse.
It's also the girls fault too if she thinks just cause you chat with them all the time that they all of sudden know everything about you.. it's impossible. I wouldn't even want to be with someone who gets bored like that anyway, that's kinda basic bitch behavior to me and only good maybe for a fling but not relationship-type status. I would say if you also share a common passion or hobby, it doesn't matter how often you text, because literally that common passion can serve as a infinite source of inspiration for limitless conversations!... I get you though, nobody likes a needy-ass, insecure girl, cause then they pull you away from your passions and friends and that's where a productive girl who also shares the same hobby(ies) as you is WAAAAAY better 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽.. Anywhoo, Im done ranting, thanks for the vid!
What if its a long distance relationship, My gf is living in the US and I am living in the UK. We dont text as much as we used too and its not like I can go set a date. What would be my alternative?
Hi Coach, What do you mean at 13:58 when she is texting other guys? I would not mind if my girlfriend was speaking to her guy friends as long as it does not become a nuisance to the time we spend together. Would it not be a sign of weakness if I forbade her to do so?
xxAYRICKxx I think he was talking about his opinions on that particual behavior.. When he is in a relationship and she starts texting and talking to other guys just because she is bored.. Not the kind of girl I would date and wouldn't care less if she did that. Better for me
this 26 year woman old is chasing after me after 2 days of me not contacting her.. . wow this man is an expert I didn't even read the book I just watch the videos and simply follows the steps I stay busy and only text when I'm available its so easy just STOP texting to much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Even if you are fucking younger, you should be living a dream teenage which is not having more girls, rather having a full fucking life. Corey's work is about being a man and nailing your life. Achieve, achieve, achieve and dont fucking stop. That's what a man does! And fuck phone sex, lmaoo
Can someone help me out, I think my girl has gotten a little bit cold/pissed off at me for not replying to her text quickly and never initiating contact through texts. Like she sent me a message yesterday at like 6pm, but I didnt have time because of work to answer until this morning. Now shes pissed off.. are you sure its creating attraction?
She needs to understand that you were busy at work but if she text you at 6pm and you didn't answer until the next morning and can see why she would be pissed, what I would've done is text her in break letting her know I was busy at work and don't text her anymore until the following day to set up a day and time to get together and keep building attraction that way.
If your busy your busy, but when you have time send him a little flirty text. It more about balance not to much and not enough. Just a short little text every once in a while.
10:50 As he said in the video, I am one of those that over pursued then came across his books and videos, stopped being available 24/7 and she became horribly pissed by this change. What should I do now?
SAXiDaGuiden that is temporary not permanent if those bitches get more better option those girls will toss him off he is emotional tampon more likely friend with benefits
I love how Corey roasts and just say the truth straight out and all you guys as Corey say try to cherry pick from Videos read the book I did the same! 💪🏼😅
I used to txt way to much, and i might be going too far the other way right now... am i making txting too much of a big deal? I am afraid that if i txt too much she will lose interest and if i dont txt enough, she will think im not interessted and go find someone that "pays more attention to her"... im really interessted in her but im just confused about this latly... is the best course: no txting at all exept for setting up dates? or should i show her that im interessted and think about her here and there, not go crasy txting (but maybe 2-3 times per week, send her a little funny msg or anecdote)... thx!
I had an argument with a friend of mine. I claim that i want to wait for a couple of days AFTER the first date (there was a kiss) without making contact and then call to set a date. he claims that if i'll do it then she'll think that i'm not serious\ not interested in her and back away because woman are insecure. he states that calling once in a day to check "whats up" is the right move I'm kind of agree with him about the insecure part but what if she IS so insecure that she'll start to over pursue, or back away because of her Ego or something.. i don't want this to happen either. can somebody suggest something?
this shit is hilarious. For those of us who prefer younger women this is what we get. Why dont you text me? I want you to open up to me! All before the first date! Definitely have to pull the plug whenever I hear something like this
+hakametal this happened to me a couple days ago My lack of texting after setting the date gave off the idea that I'm to busy for her or I'm fooling with other women she became semi aggressive and upset because she wants me to text her all day on the hour.
+hakametal i must admit I actually enjoy the attention bad I know. But the first date went well other then her being upset i didnt text her or call after setting up the date. She reached out to confirm if we were still on because i set a definite date with time and place. I confirmed and said yes can wait to see you she says i cant believe that because i dont communicate it frustrates her. The date went well i did 40% talking because this women asked tons of questions sexual questions. I ended it with a kiss havent heard from her though. Told her im not much of a text which is completely true.
+hakametal is there anything i did wrong aside from doing 40%(me) of talking oppose to (her) 60%? I dont wanna make the same mistake with another girl who i plan to take on a date.
+hakametal I understand Coach Preaches the 80-20 rule of talking to remain a mystery and i haven't read the book well enough yet. I purchased the book and I'm in the process of reading it so much to his teaching become muscle memory. With that being said still fairly new to his material but using what i do know on the dates I'm getting now.
I have this same problem right now what a difference this book makes , 5 months ago got shot down by another girl , brought this book few months later gets a date with another girl online she won't stop texting me girl who rejected me is always calling to hang out on weekends and I keep ditching because I'm really tired and busy . How do I get new girl to stop texting so much new girl isn't even my girl yet . I get scared new girl will loose interest if I don't text but man it's weird because she talks to me so much I get bored but she's hot , and like now I know how other women felt when I texted too much . Old girl doesn't know about new girl , but she's wondering why I'm acting different . gonna read this book a few more times gotta get my shit together
hey everyone. can i get ur wisdom please? im still in the development of my social skills. the farest i can go is talking to women but when i see the signs that i can kiss her or if she hints about sex i totally freeze up. i no its stupid but my irrasional fears wont let me do what i need to do. i no im suppose to go at my own pace but i cant tell if im stopping cause its too scary for me or if im making excuses and being lazy about it. i need help from someone that experienced this other than corey. for some reason my subconscious wont allow me to believe it unless other people besides corey can confirm what will happen and yes ive seen the video improving your social skills. i just think i need someone to explain it in a different way. thanks to anyone nice enough to help and yes i no i sound stupid. forgive me.
SchuperNaturalistic thanks! do u have to say something before a kiss and do u have to put ur hands on her before or are u suppose to just do it without saying anything?
***** thank you my friend. any advice is highly appreciated. i will remember u. if u need any advice as well maybe i can help but it seems u no more about this than me so i probably cant teach u anything BUT IN THE FUTURE maybe.
Can’t be upset that women are looking for a better option. You just have to be her best option. And like Corey says, you want her to find the best everything. Let her choose most of the time she’ll choose you if you are her best option
@@ICar-co2kx so be you mental point of origin and soft next her when she starts asking herself if the grass greener in some inbox? sounds about right :D
Dude i honestly think it really depends. I had the opposite happen, where a woman thought i wasn't interested because of how little i texted and called her. My ex who I was with for 9 years would be texting almost all day or on the phone for hours when we first started dating. I think during the infatuation stage that's what they want lol but maybe it's just me.
hi I have been chatting with a girl I like. I am 15 she is 14 what should I do. I would love to ask her out and call her but I don't know how. I sees her 1 week ones. What should I do
+Raymond Lee just message her saying hey, build conversation, one thing will lead to another, ask plenty of questions about her without being creepy. And when the time comes, could be within the first convo, could be second or third, then you ask if she wants to hang or meet up
I have a question this girl had a time and place with definite time and she said OK but she stood me up.. So just stop calling her right and I will only hang out with her unless she mention she want to go out right .. I want to know is this right
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Guy: i’d like to chit chat
CW: So you have chosen death
The congruency of this man is incredible. Same principles throughout the years.
If the world just had more people like you.
Pepsi97000 never complain when a guy "ignores" you
If everyone was like Corey Wayne, I'd never get laid.
I wish somebody gave me this Big Brother talk when I was 20. Excellent Coach Corey!
This guy should be a comedian
Corey changed my whole perception on life. He knows what he's talking about. Ever since I implemented his alpha techniques and phone strategies, women have been more attached than ever. They never met a real man that doesn't text every 5 minutes and doesn't act like a goofball. They don't know how to act. Their brain goes crazy and they crave the attention that you limit.
whats up dude
I love how honest you are and straight up. Slaps to the face with a smile on your face
@Coach Cory Wayne I used to think the same way, as I am around the same age, but instead of going for long boring convos, I started experimenting with a little idea I had, to just have a small convo, keep it funny or kind of teasing, you do not have to set up a date, but after you had a small fun convo, tell her you are going to work, gym, heck even say you are going to have some food or even gonna read a book (see what i did there ;)), and tell her that you'll talk to her later and just DON'T text her again first, if she gets upset, just tell her you much rather talk to her in person, because you want to see her pretty face while she talks, she'll be flattered and just leave you alone, this will most likely result into her texting back after a few hours or if not, the next day, whatever you do, do not text first, also don't immediately answer (i'm usually still busy so I never even get the chance to) you can have another small convo but then you have to make sure you set up a date. So you can have a small convo every now and then, but then you gotta make sure you talk about something that will raise her interest level, tease her, show her you are busy and can't just chat all day, but that you got time to text back now and then... she'll see it as you putting in effort to answer to her in your busy schedule, while you are actually not doing anything special, thus raising her interest level once again!
+arno van roy the idea is not to be a robot, but understand the principles in my book enough to get to the fucking point, which so few men do, and set a date. Good job dude. You seem to get it.
arno van roy
Wtd
I'm 21 in university and a week ago, after a very long period of constant rejection, blocks and insults from girls I just met for absolutely no reason, I started dating this girl (she's 22 or so). I've been following your advice ever since I got rejected 8 months ago when I started looking for help online, found your work and trying to highlight everything to simplify it as much as possible! - so far I did the minor mistake of dating this girl twice on the first week and got forced to cancel the 3rd date yesterday (I heard one of your advice about that!), but so far this girl is quite shocked at just how good I am that she asked me how many girls have I dated before her and I sarcastically told her "you're gonna need to clear up your phone memory if you want the full list!" - Long story short, your work is phenomenal, and I'm truly grateful that I found your work at such an extremely early age, Thanks!
This video should be shown to every single guy who graduates high school. Shit, make it a necessary video for a course! Great stuff Coach.
I’ve been texting my girlfriend a bit too much, and it’s lead to some disagreements and whatnot. Thanks for the video Corey, I’ve referred to it multiple times. Time to keep busy, and keep her wondering.
You are funny as hell coach! I just read your book a few times and already see the difference. Thanks!
You saved my relationship. I bought your book the other day too , halfway through it.
I'm old enough to be old school...I remember passing notes in class!
haha me too
What would you write?
@adamlanza5383
Meet me in stairwell E during 3rd period while you're in technology, at 1010. I want to get a taste of your sweetness
She was there every time.
This changes when you are on a date. But, even on a date, do NOT become available 24/7 because that is a sure fire way to goof and get friend-zoned
Agreed. I dated a guy in a LDR who would non-stop text me on multiple platforms, kept telling him that constant contact is WAY too stressful and kills the attraction. He'd slow down right after, then after a day passed would blow up my inboxes. It was seriously darning, and made me wonder if he had any hobbies or friends outside of me.
I agree with this video. I like a man that keeps me guessing. I have met and dated men that text back to back without even giving me a chance to reply and others who would tell me their life story thru a text. It so unattractive and I dont like it. I have always been suspictious of been who just opens up and tell me all their business during the first few fone comversations or texts. The conversation need to be light not get deep into heavy topics. Your video was very good. And I agree with you. Thank you.
Leyah McMillan Hello Letha!
Leyah McMillan amen
Maaan I wish that I saw this before. I had a 4 hours conversation and now few days later I got FLAKED. She died for me before that and was doing her best to spend time with me.
I'm 30 and I'm starting to use snap and Instagram to improve my social life and get people's attention in a positive manner.
Example-Going to a concert, only add snaps of things like the line, the stage and some highlights of the songs.
As men, we don't need to take the dog selfie 10 times a day. That's what women do. But don't be afraid to take selfies once in a while. And don't be afraid to get a picture with women at an event/bar/club. I've found it's shockingly easy.
Plus, if a woman you like sees you in pictures with other beautiful women, she starts to get jealous and wonder what's going on.
Worst case scenario, you don't get the attention of the girl you're currently interested in, but meet someone else instead. That's why we need options.
Keep up the good info coach.
I have to be honest Corey. I've been implementing the strategies you've mentioned, but none of these are working what so ever. I use the phone to set dates, but it doesn't work because they never keep them. Straight up do everything right that I can think of.
They’re not interested in you. Ask out women who are excited about you and who have enthusiasm about a date with you.
I think I made the same mistake for ten years by texting too much. I’m going to take your advice and maybe it’ll work this time.
I've still crashed and burned even not texting. Some have even been like: "We haven't even talked much, so I just don't trust to go out". That's even after I've already met them, and they've given me their number. Like why give me your number if you don't trust me? 😒
7:08 "You're 20 years old, so you're young so it's understandable, you're in high school" - 20 years old and in high school LOL
Ugh this sucks because this is happening to me! The guy I’m dating will text me here and there and then sometimes stop replying keeping me on my toes!!!
When I'm in doubt I will come back to this video. I just had a girl last night after hooking suggest that I text her "more" because I told her I don't like texting. Thank you Corey. Also on the second reading of your book. I would love to get the hard cover for future reference.
How is it going bro? What did you learn with the contact stuff
You bring truth all the time man, i laugh when u say things that i do thats wrong , but it gives me an understanding
There's definitely a fine line around this subject..too much phone causes them to back away..and too little makes them think you ain't interested(aka- point blank ignoring them and being a 'cold fish'), that's just what i've gathered..just limit the time you talk on the phone and never stop to have a convo' when you're busy.
Coach Corey Wayne Sir, I have read your book 4 times already, watched many videos, and gone out applying what I've learned to great success from your content. As well as from many other dating/lifestyle coaches across the internet. I believe many more people could benefit from you speaking at a convention like the 21 Convention. I am not a representative for them at all haha, but I just wanted to make a suggestion :) thanks for everything Coach.
I deleted my facebook & messenger and only use texting for dates. They don't need to creep on my FB to see if they are interested in me or who I know. I'll respond to whatever she wants to say but go right for the throat and drop a good ol fashion corey wayne "when are you free to get together" and holy crap 9 out of 10 times its worked and that 1 out of 10 is a no response their loss situation.
Guy : Should i text my girl
Coach : BUILD A COMPANY!
Love your vids and your so dry sense of humour 🤣 I am rolling in laughter, you do not realise how funny you are Corey 😂Would love for you to do a video on how to spot narcissistic traits on dating sites and first meet ups please?
As a woman this is not true for all! While I don’t want someone blowing up my phone, I also don’t want game playing! Cultivate a connection inside and outside of the date by CALLING! Wondering all the damn time and unclear feelings are not attractive. Yes, enjoy your life and hobbies but let it be natural and not some game. 😑
In my experience, a lot of millennial women are way too much on their phone, too much into social media and sometimes when you suggest to call each other they think that it’s very strange and sometimes creepy because they would rather have your Snapchat or keep texting etc
No. The girl only wants to keep you texting so she can gain your validation. And you should never give girls validation. Therefore, you need to not do the continuous texting. It's a way for a girl to manipulate you and it will eventually put you in the friend zone or you'll come across as a needy stalker.
It's a trap. You think you need to keep bs texting. But, you really need to be able to to walk away. You need to not want her, if you actually want to get her. Read that last sentence again. And, stop the bs texting.
That texting other guys bs is so true.. have fun but don’t take it too seriously
Your last comment about the narcissistic behavior is dead on. If one encounters that type, be aware. Have Fun..that’s it !!
What do you do when a woman wants to keep track of your life? Meaning she wants a good morning text and an afternoon text chat to know about your day. Everything runs smoothly with date's and all, but it's the texts that I can't avoid. Even if I try to keep the phone just for setting up date's. What then coach?
Big reason I hate online dating. Although I met my current girl online but it's because we meet up, and didn't talk a lot over the phone.
this is to true. another reason why i update my ig fb other social media every 5 days or so. and i never add girls i want on social media. then they know whats going on on your life. it's all blasted on there for the world to see. so at dinner. " oh babe i blah blah blah at blah blah blah." her: oh yeah i know i saw your video...." smh. lol
mexican whiteboy same bro! I never add girls I date on social media. the mystery is massively revealed. Show your love, but deny them the social media. Lol!
I’m always caught in between “am I coming on too strong and losing mystery” with getting to the point and asking for a date online, and “am I being a pussy” with building rapport before shooting my shot.
I live by the ”dont care too much about her but rock her world when your meet her in person” and that works awesome. I make them think im the best guy ever then just dont call her or text her afterwards lmao.
Moral of the story! Don’t become a penpal!
Yup. I was dating a gorgeous girl who'd I'd text every day. Not just short texts either, long, long texts all day long. Of course, she got bored and on our dates we had nothing to talk about.
Still, you can't blame me though. My first girlfriend was a mute so I had to get to know her by texting lol
It's weird coz I get accused of ghosting when I sense a lack of burning desire and back off.
Great video!. I love Coreys rant!
This is great 🙌🏻. So true
I know this video is old - but when he says a woman told him to be less available, i literally had a girl tell me the same thing. Rocket science right 😂
The thing is how do you handle a situation where she's texting you first and your trying not to have a conversation, but at the same not trying to come off as rude?
So, essentially you're trying to build an insecure attachment (by making them insecure about your own feelings and showing them how self-centered you are), so you trigger anxiety in women and they will reach out more for you? For my part, a man behaving like that can walk his own way. I'm too old to take this sort of abuse.
LOL
Thanks for the Tips Corey!, Greetings from Paraguay (South America).
There are a few that prefer texting over calling...🤦🏾♂️
It's also the girls fault too if she thinks just cause you chat with them all the time that they all of sudden know everything about you.. it's impossible. I wouldn't even want to be with someone who gets bored like that anyway, that's kinda basic bitch behavior to me and only good maybe for a fling but not relationship-type status. I would say if you also share a common passion or hobby, it doesn't matter how often you text, because literally that common passion can serve as a infinite source of inspiration for limitless conversations!... I get you though, nobody likes a needy-ass, insecure girl, cause then they pull you away from your passions and friends and that's where a productive girl who also shares the same hobby(ies) as you is WAAAAAY better 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽.. Anywhoo, Im done ranting, thanks for the vid!
14:10 & 15:30-16:20 Just that simple! Razor sharp!
What if its a long distance relationship, My gf is living in the US and I am living in the UK. We dont text as much as we used too and its not like I can go set a date. What would be my alternative?
Bruh its not gonna work either you go live over there or she as well so
Find a girl in the UK. Best Alternative.
Hi Coach,
What do you mean at 13:58 when she is texting other guys? I would not mind if my girlfriend was speaking to her guy friends as long as it does not become a nuisance to the time we spend together. Would it not be a sign of weakness if I forbade her to do so?
xxAYRICKxx I think he was talking about his opinions on that particual behavior.. When he is in a relationship and she starts texting and talking to other guys just because she is bored.. Not the kind of girl I would date and wouldn't care less if she did that. Better for me
Coach Corey your the man!
Dammm coach I never heard you say the word fuck as much like in this video lol but great video as always keep up the good work
Yes you are very right Corey.
Dude, I love your brutal honestly....classic!!! :-)
this 26 year woman old is chasing after me after 2 days of me not contacting her.. . wow this man is an expert I didn't even read the book I just watch the videos and simply follows the steps I stay busy and only text when I'm available its so easy just STOP texting to much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dreads And Angels READ THE BOOK!
Even if you are fucking younger, you should be living a dream teenage which is not having more girls, rather having a full fucking life. Corey's work is about being a man and nailing your life. Achieve, achieve, achieve and dont fucking stop. That's what a man does! And fuck phone sex, lmaoo
Do you ever get clients who follow your advice and try and get to see you in person..
Can someone help me out, I think my girl has gotten a little bit cold/pissed off at me for not replying to her text quickly and never initiating contact through texts. Like she sent me a message yesterday at like 6pm, but I didnt have time because of work to answer until this morning. Now shes pissed off.. are you sure its creating attraction?
Are you still with her
She needs to understand that you were busy at work but if she text you at 6pm and you didn't answer until the next morning and can see why she would be pissed, what I would've done is text her in break letting her know I was busy at work and don't text her anymore until the following day to set up a day and time to get together and keep building attraction that way.
Is this the same for women too? Should we become busy so we're not always available?
I say no:) make yourself available to the man you want. Obviously stay productive, but when your man offers to take you out you should agree.
If your busy your busy, but when you have time send him a little flirty text. It more about balance not to much and not enough. Just a short little text every once in a while.
You Opened my eyes.... 🤧
Nice work dude sounds pretty damn catchy
10:50 As he said in the video, I am one of those that over pursued then came across his books and videos, stopped being available 24/7 and she became horribly pissed by this change. What should I do now?
Mohid Shaikh let her go and never look back...(until she reaches out then set the date.)
A friend of mine talks on the phone with girls all the time and in the end he still sleeps with them, how?
SAXiDaGuiden that is temporary not permanent if those bitches get more better option those girls will toss him off he is emotional tampon more likely friend with benefits
Tell these kids coach!!!
well said corey
I love how Corey roasts and just say the truth straight out and all you guys as Corey say try to cherry pick from Videos read the book I did the same! 💪🏼😅
hahahaha....he said a 20 year old is in High School. One thing's for sure, they sure act like they are...ha
"emotional tampon" 🖒
I used to txt way to much, and i might be going too far the other way right now... am i making txting too much of a big deal? I am afraid that if i txt too much she will lose interest and if i dont txt enough, she will think im not interessted and go find someone that "pays more attention to her"... im really interessted in her but im just confused about this latly... is the best course: no txting at all exept for setting up dates? or should i show her that im interessted and think about her here and there, not go crasy txting (but maybe 2-3 times per week, send her a little funny msg or anecdote)... thx!
Stephane beaulieu. some time you got to wait for like 3 hour's for you to text her of she dont get back to you and if she text you then you text her
Feel the friction together xD
This is a bad ass video
How does a girl get a guy to set a date rather than continue to text?
Charlene Maeder
Drop subtle hints. If he doesn't respond after, cut the beta loose.
@@skyfall1481 thanks! Im still trying to find my person, 3 years later. Oh, RUclips comments! Lol.
@@charlenemaeder8027 Hi, you can also say that you want to see them, that you want to get to know them privately or tell them when you’re free.
thanks well said.
Can you make vedio on long distant relationship plzz
ty. god bless you
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Get a fucking job 😅😂😂😂
Love it, Coach
This is guy is fucking genius. It works. Pay attention whipper snappers 😏
I had an argument with a friend of mine.
I claim that i want to wait for a couple of days AFTER the first date (there was a kiss) without making contact and then call to set a date.
he claims that if i'll do it then she'll think that i'm not serious\ not interested in her and back away because woman are insecure. he states that calling once in a day to check "whats up" is the right move
I'm kind of agree with him about the insecure part but what if she IS so insecure that she'll start to over pursue, or back away because of her Ego or something.. i don't want this to happen either.
can somebody suggest something?
Great video! (don't like all the swearing but)
this shit is hilarious. For those of us who prefer younger women this is what we get. Why dont you text me? I want you to open up to me! All before the first date! Definitely have to pull the plug whenever I hear something like this
+hakametal this happened to me a couple days ago My lack of texting after setting the date gave off the idea that I'm to busy for her or I'm fooling with other women she became semi aggressive and upset because she wants me to text her all day on the hour.
+hakametal i must admit I actually enjoy the attention bad I know. But the first date went well other then her being upset i didnt text her or call after setting up the date. She reached out to confirm if we were still on because i set a definite date with time and place. I confirmed and said yes can wait to see you she says i cant believe that because i dont communicate it frustrates her. The date went well i did 40% talking because this women asked tons of questions sexual questions. I ended it with a kiss havent heard from her though. Told her im not much of a text which is completely true.
+hakametal is there anything i did wrong aside from doing 40%(me) of talking oppose to (her) 60%? I dont wanna make the same mistake with another girl who i plan to take on a date.
+hakametal I understand Coach Preaches the 80-20 rule of talking to remain a mystery and i haven't read the book well enough yet. I purchased the book and I'm in the process of reading it so much to his teaching become muscle memory. With that being said still fairly new to his material but using what i do know on the dates I'm getting now.
I have this same problem right now what a difference this book makes , 5 months ago got shot down by another girl , brought this book few months later gets a date with another girl online she won't stop texting me girl who rejected me is always calling to hang out on weekends and I keep ditching because I'm really tired and busy . How do I get new girl to stop texting so much new girl isn't even my girl yet . I get scared new girl will loose interest if I don't text but man it's weird because she talks to me so much I get bored but she's hot , and like now I know how other women felt when I texted too much . Old girl doesn't know about new girl , but she's wondering why I'm acting different . gonna read this book a few more times gotta get my shit together
***** Leave her alone until the actual date is it ok if I tell her sorry I didn't get your text I was at work or hanging out with friends ?
what's the correct way I should respond ?
I already asked her on a date but like she keeps calling and won't stop
Ok next time I'll say like Tell me about it when we meet in person for our date. I gotta read this book some more
hey everyone. can i get ur wisdom please? im still in the development of my social skills. the farest i can go is talking to women but when i see the signs that i can kiss her or if she hints about sex i totally freeze up. i no its stupid but my irrasional fears wont let me do what i need to do. i no im suppose to go at my own pace but i cant tell if im stopping cause its too scary for me or if im making excuses and being lazy about it. i need help from someone that experienced this other than corey. for some reason my subconscious wont allow me to believe it unless other people besides corey can confirm what will happen and yes ive seen the video improving your social skills. i just think i need someone to explain it in a different way. thanks to anyone nice enough to help and yes i no i sound stupid. forgive me.
It's really hard to read this because of the poor grammar.
SchuperNaturalistic thanks! do u have to say something before a kiss and do u have to put ur hands on her before or are u suppose to just do it without saying anything?
***** thank you my friend. any advice is highly appreciated. i will remember u. if u need any advice as well maybe i can help but it seems u no more about this than me so i probably cant teach u anything BUT IN THE FUTURE maybe.
5:24 this guy is fucking hilarious
How can I impress a guy and win his heart though text??? And what can I start in a text? And make him want to text me more and text me first???
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+marisa liu probably depends on the type of guy as all are different and have a different mindset on messaging etc. hope it helps
Dan Simonic But is there a logical way?
+marisa liu "hey i was wondering about u , how u doing?"............... thats the best way coach mentions
Maneesh sharma Oh that's very general
WTF? They ALL do that. THEY ALL ARE TEXTING WITH OTHER GUYS. So how to find one that will not put herself out there?! :S
Can’t be upset that women are looking for a better option. You just have to be her best option. And like Corey says, you want her to find the best everything. Let her choose most of the time she’ll choose you if you are her best option
@@ICar-co2kx so be you mental point of origin and soft next her when she starts asking herself if the grass greener in some inbox? sounds about right :D
real shit
So tru
emotional tampon
7:41 😂😂😂
It's time to grow up and be a man ! Lol
Ps. He's good ;)
Dude i honestly think it really depends. I had the opposite happen, where a woman thought i wasn't interested because of how little i texted and called her. My ex who I was with for 9 years would be texting almost all day or on the phone for hours when we first started dating.
I think during the infatuation stage that's what they want lol but maybe it's just me.
You the man Corey lol
hi I have been chatting with a girl I like. I am 15 she is 14 what should I do. I would love to ask her out and call her but I don't know how. I sees her 1 week ones. What should I do
Message her bro, ask how she's going, slowly build rapport over messages then pop the question :) it works
+Dan Simonic how do you to that?
+Raymond Lee just message her saying hey, build conversation, one thing will lead to another, ask plenty of questions about her without being creepy. And when the time comes, could be within the first convo, could be second or third, then you ask if she wants to hang or meet up
I do not like men who are unclear, unavailable and mysterious. That creates anti-attraction. We are all busy with our life purpose.There is a balance.
The things you say and the things you emotionally respond to, are two different things
I have a question this girl had a time and place with definite time and she said OK but she stood me up..
So just stop calling her right and I will only hang out with her unless she mention she want to go out right ..
I want to know is this right
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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Levi Ellerbe Nobody with a high interest level would ever blow you off like that. It's completely rude and disrespectful
+Bogs 1 Well said Bogs. Great video Corey.
I am 16 does this still apply to me to
Yes