Very interesting!! The most meaningful relationship I've ever experienced, probably will ever experience; we took mdma together strictly for making love. It was like we melted into each other, we became one, our souls became one. The warm tub of goo is a perfect description!
I’ve been with my man for 11 years and we have a pretty good relationship but we took mdma together a few days ago and honestly we feel closer and more in love and I didn’t know it’d be possible to be any more happier with him
Interesting. I’ve been with my husband for 17 years. We’re going to do it together for the first time in a couple of weeks. My idea. Just to spice things up a little - why not!? Gotta wait til the kids are gone for the weekend though!
My man won’t even consider it.... and I know we certainly would benefit from it! But unfortunately, I think that I would need him to somehow already be on MDNA in order for him to agree to taking MDMA, lol! So short of secretly drugging him (which I would never do!) and then asking him to take it with me, he’ll never agree to it! Sucks! There’s a SERIOUS disconnect between us and I just don’t know what to do about it.
I volunteer for studies, me and my partner find it really helps keep us in the loop with what is going on in the other person's mind. We are a lot more receptive of each other when we are sober.
My boyfriend was easily agitated, rarely said I love you, and seemed guarded. He'd be so sweet then pull away. Since we've done this, he really is more vulnerable and available. We had already been working on being more patient, but now I think we have a new sense of empathy.
Yep I hear ya. I done lsd with the devil one time and a bunch of his demons with no faces. They turned up after I took it but kinda ruined it for me tbh
@Dario Spirit some people can. In my case it helps me lie like thers no tomorrow cos I have access to all those raw emotions and I can use them to make the lie even more believable
Not so much relationships but being with friends and doing coke and mandy together we all opened up about depression and suicidal thoughts and it ironically saved our lives. Everything in moderation i say !
For a women who can't giggle, and can't be outward with her girly emotions, it is the most amazing thing. I giggled, cared, loved, and enjoy the opposite life that I was given. I love being more emotionally available to my man and the government needs to quit the war on drugs. I think it is up to us.
MDMA is great with someone you care about… but if anything ever happens to your relationship with that person, whether friend or lover, it makes the drug seem like a cheap thrill and sick joke. “I love you man, I love you so much, everything is about love” *we never speak again* haha, I took mdma with many friends and my girl in college. There’s a fine line between love and hate and salt and sugar look the same. You’re better off just being a emotionally available and putting that love in all the time.
I’m with you. My wife and I recently did a mushroom trip. In an organized group setting, with complete strangers. The need for connection, comes out so strong after. With everyone going on and on, about their love for everyone. Continuing the high, of self congratulation. Then we all go home, to our sink full of dirty dishes. Be open, love those around you, as part of your life.
funny because this makes me think about us italians being always emotionally accessible without drugs, does this make us better humans? is there a connection between openness and longer life expectancy?
Good point. And good question. I lived in Italy for 5 years and being open and emotionally accessible as most are in Italy is a quality I learned from and admire. Longer life expectancy depends of more factors I believe. Not eating pizza and drinking good wine every day. :-) Physical active etc.
Great research!!! Before I watched this video, I already took my opinion through my personal experience, by the way, in the simple way of speaking the MDMA among couples light the fire, bring the passion again( make the people remember how they love each other) sometimes the couple forget due the routine and daily life how they are important and love each other, beside a great feeling of sensibility, true feeling and Hot, super Hot sex. I recommend to all couples that likes to change the conscience to have a periodic MDMA experience,6 to 6 months, 3 to 3 months ( depends your tolerence and recovering on drugs). Create the perfect enviroment based in fire element or something that prodive you being stimulated, cause the perfect enviromment around you, is crucial to drive you in a better hot trip.
Is this safe to try, for my marriage? My wife tells me that I’ll never be able to understand how much she loves me. But we sleep with the dog between us, “it’s safer”. He gets hugs and kisses. I get a touch, to see if I’m still there. She has buried her traumas. She guards them with anger, and detachment. If she is willing to try, should we?
if you take it too often, which is probably less than once a month, it can have a really bad effect on your mental health. It can make you anxious and depressed for several days after you take it. The worst thing that can happen is a MDMA drop - mood swings, anxiety and iritability even for weeks This can happen when you take way too much of it.
†REDZED† facts. 2 years ago I was popping Mollys every week. Really fucked me up, luckily I realised this and I managed to stop. Never was “addicted” to it, I just really liked it, but when it came to quitting it was easy for me. It has had its toll on me. I’m no longer depressed as much as I was, but to put it in a simpler way, it’s just made me more stupid. I find it harder to concentrate, I lose my train of thought very easily, and I struggle with things I was once able to do with no problems. Every 3 months is a good wait, and I told myself that, but I was a very depressed person and the way Molly made me feel was just what I needed at that time. So I took them every weekend. Not a good idea. If anybody who has just starting using MDMA is reading, please take my advice and only use Molly every few months. The brain needs to to recover.
Like all psychedelics its likley it will have some effect if the experience is directed that way unless you get a peak experience it definitely had a permanent effect on alot of things like music choices more outgoing over all reduced shyness in public places permanently definitely had a profound effect on me changed permanently.
At no point in this video did I hear the presenter discuss the quality of nor the verification of the substances being used by the test subjects. My understanding is that the "MDMA" being used by people outside of university experiments, rarely contains any actual MDMA. If the test subjects were taking pure MDMA provided by a university, laboratory tested product, then we need to know this.
Wouldent recomend mdma in the begining of the relationship. Mabey micro dosing later. But THE only One that could save a relationship is YOU. All these ecstasy fealings are allready there, just in lower doses and more Hard to work for it ofc.
Tracy Hardwick Oh babe you need to have psychosis first before you learn MDMA because it’s effects are just too good. It supports criminal activity every time you buy and drug trade:) fairly wonderful. Don’t listen to me drugs are good for you... don’t use it at all best helpful advice. That’s for all illicit drugs. If depressed take a suitable anti depressant from your GP.
For all the people who say to do mdma once a month, it's actually okay to do it once every for days or once a week as long as you have DMSO on hand. Dmso is crucial to protect your body from neurotoxicity, harm, and the comedown after your roll
The problem you experience negative results is very simple. Not everyone has been taught how to self reason, MDMA itself can't make the trigger for the release. the person requires some guidance, everyone who has negative experience have such experience because the activation thought did not come alone. those people need guidance to activate the drug that is in them. ask me how. if you want to know more
Pituwa TV Must of been the higher power or the pixie that gave you this divine puesdo nonsense explanation hmm. Every experience is negative on drugs bc you are disrespecting your brain an doing that has a short lived good experience. She’s a walking advert, supporting child rapists and drug cartels that kill because they are senseless monsters an should be removed from the human race.
Dear Dr. Anderson, I hope you still monitor this RUclips presentation, as it is five years old. I'm wondering, do these types of sessions still continue in the UK? That being said, do they do it in the USA (Michigan) where we live? This sounds like some thing we could really benefit from. We've been married 22 years, but the communication has go down to about 20 on a scale of 1 to 100 where it used to be almost an 80. We still love each other very, very much… But, each and every time we try to talk about something the slightest thing will set my husband off and he will shut down or get angry. I like to talk about all problems and try to solve them before we even go to bed. He even agreed on this with me before we got married. Sometimes it seems like I nag at him to please just stay in the conversation (rather than yell or walk away or tell me to leave the room/go to bed)...when we're having a conversation. I rarely yell or call names....but, if his actions and words get "juvenile" or spiteful, then my voice raises. I can remember a couple times I called him a name. Also, for some reason he's very defensive when I say something about him. And I walk on eggshells when I do it. No, I'm not perfect. I'm sure this would benefit me, too. I need to understand where he's coming from… He grew up in an abusive home and he and his first wife's relationship with him was very abusive. I tried to show him that you don't have to go from 0 to 60. You don't have to fight, you don't have to raise your voice as long as you're being calm, respectful to the other person, etc. (my childhood and my first marriage was not like his experiences at all). We were doing good for a couple years, but then it all changed. He gets upset about anything I say that has to do with him. And sometimes when it doesn't have anything to do with him. If I tell him something good, in his mind he can twist it around that I'm upset with him , mad at him or I don't like him that much anymore. It's very strange. And to end this, I can feel our marriage falling apart and we both are depressed. We still do things as a team, swear we're going to be together until we both die and start to talk all problems through. But, it doesn't happen...now it always gets cut off and we're supposed to "throw it away in the past and forget it". etc.… But, it's not any fun at all. It seems like all we do is argue anymore. We never seriously communicate, the sex is down to twice a year and my feelings are waning. We need help! We did couples therapy a couple times and it didn't work. We don't take MDMA together. I have never done it, but he has before our relationship/marriage. Thank you if you read this and great talk!
The audio is almost watchable. Most lecture hall videos are plagued with echo. This one avoids that, but then the mic is percussive. Maybe don't place it in front of the mouth.
Crazy story! Way back I almost od’d on molly at a party in the middle of nowhere! Thank god I have angels looking over me! Rite before I passed out (spinning and feeling really fucked) I seen the only half glass of water on the table! It was some girls! I just fucking snatched it and chugged it! Instantly felt better! Epic yo
Gave a like to the video. I can questions about her sample and survey methods for sure. But her finding are pretty revolutionary. The last sentence that she made may be someday can become a norm. Good stuff.
A relationship build on the influence of a drug, to keep the conversation /truthfulness up to a healthy level, does have a pitiable touch for me. And I'm really not a person condemning drugs at all.
@@amberbinderup1101 what happens when the effects are gone... does one regret what they have disclosed? Why not express without drugs that's the real desire to express... not induced to express. Like taking a aspirin to mask the headache.?. Eventually the headache will return
@@chickwithaguitar6876 people would rather take a drug that gives them an excuse than to build on missing part of themselves. It’s easier. It’s sad you didn’t get a response. I agree with you. If you need a drug to be closer, are you really that much closer normal? I’ve taken and was an advocate for weed and acid and shrooms in my early life as an adult, but soon found out that I wasn’t enhancing too much of anything about myself. In order for me to feel or do or think a certain way I would have to take the drug to be able to understand myself. Isn’t that sad? Generations before us have taken things like this for different reasons, but for the reason of understanding yourself that is something that is natural it should come naturally through life. Should come to conversation; imagine taking something just to have a deep meaningful conversation about somebody. Maybe there’s instances where this is validated, but to go on a stage and except it as a drug that is a strong dynamic for relationships.
I had taken mdma only with my partner my girlfriend, its the best experience we have in our relationship. Even though we couldn’t do sex when we are high but the emotional and love feeling is worth it . Can have great sex little later
Yeah. A bit wordy. Maybe coulda done with a more unifying message. The delivery is relatively monotonous and rapid-fire. She keeps referring back to ideas like using too many relative pronouns. Feels like less of an oration and more of a recital. Like reading a plot summary/synopsis vs watching a movie. Rehearsal might help with these weaknesses but might need more of a change.
Haha nice, I watched this video because I'm going to take MDMA today for the first time. I have some kind of friends with benefits arangement and I'm really looking forward to try this drug with my girl this night.
Don't just take them, I made a lot of researches on molly, was really curious to take them,thanks to adam_shrooms on instagram, he came through for me and guided me. I order from him
Shits crazy its like shit in a pill that makes u happy and energetic but theres sum other stuff thats different for everyone like senses get boosted and affection and other stuff like sweating or shaking and ect but its a crazy drug man honestly could get super addicted to it bc the come down is normally horrible u go from so happy to normal and ur body stops producing serotonin and dopamine and eventually if ur on uppers too long ur body stops creating those two naturally and will instead rely on the uppers and youll have to take uppers the rest of ur life to ever feel happiness and even then it might not work itll prolly just save u from getting sick. Its crazy and bad if abused look into it its actually super interesting
@@marvinjones689 more like it boost the relationships pre existing. Havnt had much experience with it aside from that but it isss a party drug so fuck yeah
I have to be careful with my wife taking mdma she will go from a respectable woman to taking a gang bang in 45 minutes, I’m not joking or trolling it’s true
I find MDMA isn't good for talking about relationships , it's about discovering who you really are and the God spark within you and the reason God put you here, MDMA can assist with that oh and dancing your ass off as well, but all this relationship bollox, seriously there's about as much truth to that as there is the myth that MDMA cured England of football hooliganism!
A B I’ve used MDMA sparingly since 1989 and personally haven’t found that it has use for relationship introspection and to be perfectly honest that’s not where Ecstasy wanted to take me, I’ve always tried to that kind of stuff outside MDMA. MDMA has always been a bit spiritual for me on one level and recreational on another, but if it helps for other people to work through relationship issues then great, I probably used dismissive harsh terminology in my previous comment which didn’t really add any value to the conversation, anyway hope that explains better.
@@Summer-1976 mdma n sex yessssssssssss oh fucking yessssssssssssssssssssssss!. Are you ok or is there something wrong with you, you n ur gf n mdma = oh yesssssssssssssss yesssss yessssssss n more yessssssssssssssss! N boom goes the dynamite!. Simples!.
Stupid stupid stupid stupid. Bc why. It’s fake feelings an not real, it’s sad that couples even take this chemical an illicit substance to archive what a sober couple has. It can be done just as good without. I dislike her view an opinion encouraging that this illicit drug has benefits. Don’t do drugs.
lol, totally wrong, it all still happens within your own brain the only thing that the mdma does is manipulating the flow of different chemicals in your brain, it's not fake feelings, it's still as real as it can be, you should never abuse any substance, but it does in fact have benefits, open your mind dude, you probably pop every drug your doctor prescribes you, but oh right those drugs are "okay" because the doctor said it was okay
Love this!! It’s actually really fucking sad to hear someone say “let’s do drugs to connect better” the FUCK????? Definitely not a good idea..... neither are the days you physically and mentally have to recover after taking this crazy ass drug!
Ladies and gents this is her opinion and she’s entitled to it ! With that being said……. Here is mine….. do you study the human brain ? Do you study the deep impact thoughts have on emotions ? And how consistently thinking the same thoughts will bring consistent emotional response ? No ??? ME EITHER …… so STFU….. none of us here know WTF… we are talking about let’s be real, anyone can lie and say ummm yeah I fucking do ! Show me your degree ……. Show me studies with data and facts …… it’s like people claiming global warming is non existent…….. can it be ? Sure, can it be real ? SURE….. do I have a fucking clue ? Am I the one out their doing the work figuring out what’s going on witg our planet !?!? NO !!!!!!!! So why will I sit here acting like I know what I’m talking about ……… if I say one or the other, all I’m doing is siding with someone else’s “ research “ get me ? This is a very simple way to think…… anyone can do it. With that being said. I still respect everyone’s opinion. Love you all ❤️ I meanz it
Very interesting!! The most meaningful relationship I've ever experienced, probably will ever experience; we took mdma together strictly for making love. It was like we melted into each other, we became one, our souls became one. The warm tub of goo is a perfect description!
And you two still together? Would not be able to enjoy the others without stimulants?
great description...melting into your partner is exactly the sensation...
Angry Trucker and then they made a video. Its on pornhub
How do u get hard on mdma
Han Bulban 😂😂 yep
I’ve been with my man for 11 years and we have a pretty good relationship but we took mdma together a few days ago and honestly we feel closer and more in love and I didn’t know it’d be possible to be any more happier with him
Interesting. I’ve been with my husband for 17 years. We’re going to do it together for the first time in a couple of weeks. My idea. Just to spice things up a little - why not!? Gotta wait til the kids are gone for the weekend though!
Sixten Bigner af Klintberg yes of course
Yes! Its amazing so much closer now to my woman
My man won’t even consider it.... and I know we certainly would benefit from it! But unfortunately, I think that I would need him to somehow already be on MDNA in order for him to agree to taking MDMA, lol! So short of secretly drugging him (which I would never do!) and then asking him to take it with me, he’ll never agree to it! Sucks! There’s a SERIOUS disconnect between us and I just don’t know what to do about it.
@@_Fluorescent_ how was it?
She really cares about her work. Shout out to her for doing the knowledge and presenting it to the world. 👏
Sounds like she's just spilling her enthusiasm
I volunteer for studies, me and my partner find it really helps keep us in the loop with what is going on in the other person's mind. We are a lot more receptive of each other when we are sober.
My boyfriend was easily agitated, rarely said I love you, and seemed guarded. He'd be so sweet then pull away. Since we've done this, he really is more vulnerable and available. We had already been working on being more patient, but now I think we have a new sense of empathy.
Be careful who you do drugs with... I learned the hard way.
Yep I hear ya. I done lsd with the devil one time and a bunch of his demons with no faces. They turned up after I took it but kinda ruined it for me tbh
Shaun surname sheesh, explain please
Dario Spirit You can if you’re a total wanker, I’ve been lied to while on mdma with “friends” and an ex gf
@Dario Spirit some people can.
In my case it helps me lie like thers no tomorrow cos I have access to all those raw emotions and I can use them to make the lie even more believable
GodWorksOut how do we actually take mdma?Is it a pill or powder substance
Do we swallow or chew
Not so much relationships but being with friends and doing coke and mandy together we all opened up about depression and suicidal thoughts and it ironically saved our lives. Everything in moderation i say !
I feel like every troubled couple who wants to work at being more steadily intimate should use it once a year ...
For a women who can't giggle, and can't be outward with her girly emotions, it is the most amazing thing. I giggled, cared, loved, and enjoy the opposite life that I was given. I love being more emotionally available to my man and the government needs to quit the war on drugs. I think it is up to us.
Watching this on mdma is a trip but I am so fascinated oh my GOD, this is really interesting I can’t stop watching 😭😂
I guess I'm not the only one watching on it lol
Same
Same
Turn your mic sensitivity down!!!
Loved your bubble metaphor, so accurate!
I've heard so many wonderful things about magic mushrooms but I can't easily get some, Is there any realiable source I can purchase from??
I'm so interested in the experience but am terrified of having a bad trip
I tried two grams last time, it was a thrilling experience and I enjoyed it
(doctor_ spores). jason
Got psych's*
This whole thing is pretty new to me, can I try 3grams?
@@geraldmiller5343 where to search? Is it IG ??
Best feeling ever and if its with person you love makes it hundred times more interesting, I took it with the love of my life
I’d try it with ya. Just sayin. For research ya know.
Lol
But what she didn't know was... What she didn't realize was...
We were on a mission for extacy. We were on a mission, and we lied to her!
bredda starvin
Id do it regardless for research or not
MDMA is great with someone you care about… but if anything ever happens to your relationship with that person, whether friend or lover, it makes the drug seem like a cheap thrill and sick joke. “I love you man, I love you so much, everything is about love” *we never speak again* haha, I took mdma with many friends and my girl in college. There’s a fine line between love and hate and salt and sugar look the same. You’re better off just being a emotionally available and putting that love in all the time.
I’m with you.
My wife and I recently did a mushroom trip. In an organized group setting, with complete strangers.
The need for connection, comes out so strong after. With everyone going on and on, about their love for everyone. Continuing the high, of self congratulation.
Then we all go home, to our sink full of dirty dishes.
Be open, love those around you, as part of your life.
Anyone else watching this while rolling? 😂
Scott Brown nah who would watch youtube
Lmao HELLO 🙋🏻♀️😂
Scott Brown 🤣🤣🤣
Rolling rn off of 6 xo's double stacks
Only reason I ended up on this video 🤣
funny because this makes me think about us italians being always emotionally accessible without drugs, does this make us better humans? is there a connection between openness and longer life expectancy?
Good point. And good question. I lived in Italy for 5 years and being open and emotionally accessible as most are in Italy is a quality I learned from and admire. Longer life expectancy depends of more factors I believe. Not eating pizza and drinking good wine every day. :-) Physical active etc.
Got a citation?
Just come to Russia, and you will die from sorrow in 1 year. If you want to know what depression is, your welcome.
it definitely makes you better at penalties
You guys are ultra explosive and often extreme.
Great research!!! Before I watched this video, I already took my opinion through my personal experience, by the way, in the simple way of speaking the MDMA among couples light the fire, bring the passion again( make the people remember how they love each other) sometimes the couple forget due the routine and daily life how they are important and love each other, beside a great feeling of sensibility, true feeling and Hot, super Hot sex. I recommend to all couples that likes to change the conscience to have a periodic MDMA experience,6 to 6 months, 3 to 3 months ( depends your tolerence and recovering on drugs). Create the perfect enviroment based in fire element or something that prodive you being stimulated, cause the perfect enviromment around you, is crucial to drive you in a better hot trip.
How do you have sex on it
You say that but how the hell do one get their hand on it....tired of all these restrictions. Smh
A place to be vulnerable. Very good
Is this safe to try, for my marriage?
My wife tells me that I’ll never be able to understand how much she loves me. But we sleep with the dog between us, “it’s safer”. He gets hugs and kisses. I get a touch, to see if I’m still there. She has buried her traumas. She guards them with anger, and detachment.
If she is willing to try, should we?
Yes
This was really well done. Thank you!
It's a fucking great drug it breaks down social barriers no trouble at all
i'm curious if MDMA would have any effects on psychopathy, antisocial personality disorder and stuff like that
It helps open up and process emotions, in the 1900s it was used for depression and social interactions
if you take it too often, which is probably less than once a month, it can have a really bad effect on your mental health. It can make you anxious and depressed for several days after you take it. The worst thing that can happen is a MDMA drop - mood swings, anxiety and iritability even for weeks This can happen when you take way too much of it.
†REDZED† facts. 2 years ago I was popping Mollys every week. Really fucked me up, luckily I realised this and I managed to stop. Never was “addicted” to it, I just really liked it, but when it came to quitting it was easy for me. It has had its toll on me. I’m no longer depressed as much as I was, but to put it in a simpler way, it’s just made me more stupid. I find it harder to concentrate, I lose my train of thought very easily, and I struggle with things I was once able to do with no problems. Every 3 months is a good wait, and I told myself that, but I was a very depressed person and the way Molly made me feel was just what I needed at that time. So I took them every weekend. Not a good idea. If anybody who has just starting using MDMA is reading, please take my advice and only use Molly every few months. The brain needs to to recover.
Like all psychedelics its likley it will have some effect if the experience is directed that way unless you get a peak experience it definitely had a permanent effect on alot of things like music choices more outgoing over all reduced shyness in public places permanently definitely had a profound effect on me changed permanently.
MDMA would not be able to reverse any mental illness. Because no drug has been able to thus far
At no point in this video did I hear the presenter discuss the quality of nor the verification of the substances being used by the test subjects.
My understanding is that the "MDMA" being used by people outside of university experiments, rarely contains any actual MDMA.
If the test subjects were taking pure MDMA provided by a university, laboratory tested product, then we need to know this.
Is this an ad? Because it sounds like an ad.
Liusila Yeah it does ! Haha
Wouldent recomend mdma in the begining of the relationship. Mabey micro dosing later. But THE only One that could save a relationship is YOU. All these ecstasy fealings are allready there, just in lower doses and more Hard to work for it ofc.
Thank you, inspiring, I am aware of the highly addictive and harmful if over used. I hear once every 3 months is maximum xx
Tracy Hardwick Oh babe you need to have psychosis first before you learn MDMA because it’s effects are just too good. It supports criminal activity every time you buy and drug trade:) fairly wonderful. Don’t listen to me drugs are good for you... don’t use it at all best helpful advice. That’s for all illicit drugs. If depressed take a suitable anti depressant from your GP.
@@jarrodgillespie5736 what are you talking about lol
@Jarrod Gillespie What?
@@jarrodgillespie5736 hahaha anti depressants he says. That's more dangerous than the so called illegal stuff
@@ICEBeta I think he was ironical
For all the people who say to do mdma once a month, it's actually okay to do it once every for days or once a week as long as you have DMSO on hand. Dmso is crucial to protect your body from neurotoxicity, harm, and the comedown after your roll
What is DMSO
Are you sure about this?
How much DMSO must be taken?
I hear taking antioxidants and B- complex vitamins reduce the side effects, I usually do it and its very good
The problem you experience negative results is very simple. Not everyone has been taught how to self reason, MDMA itself can't make the trigger for the release. the person requires some guidance, everyone who has negative experience have such experience because the activation thought did not come alone. those people need guidance to activate the drug that is in them. ask me how. if you want to know more
How
@@crystalclear7329 I guess he's not going to say, SHIT, lol! 💩🤬🙉💩😂🤣🙊🤭🤫🤥
how ? Dear God ??
WE MUST KNOW
Pituwa TV Must of been the higher power or the pixie that gave you this divine puesdo nonsense explanation hmm. Every experience is negative on drugs bc you are disrespecting your brain an doing that has a short lived good experience. She’s a walking advert, supporting child rapists and drug cartels that kill because they are senseless monsters an should be removed from the human race.
Dear Dr. Anderson,
I hope you still monitor this RUclips presentation, as it is five years old. I'm wondering, do these types of sessions still continue in the UK?
That being said, do they do it in the USA (Michigan) where we live? This sounds like some thing we could really benefit from. We've been married 22 years, but the communication has go down to about 20 on a scale of 1 to 100 where it used to be almost an 80. We still love each other very, very much… But, each and every time we try to talk about something the slightest thing will set my husband off and he will shut down or get angry. I like to talk about all problems and try to solve them before we even go to bed. He even agreed on this with me before we got married.
Sometimes it seems like I nag at him to please just stay in the conversation (rather than yell or walk away or tell me to leave the room/go to bed)...when we're having a conversation. I rarely yell or call names....but, if his actions and words get "juvenile" or spiteful, then my voice raises. I can remember a couple times I called him a name.
Also, for some reason he's very defensive when I say something about him. And I walk on eggshells when I do it. No, I'm not perfect. I'm sure this would benefit me, too.
I need to understand where he's coming from… He grew up in an abusive home and he and his first wife's relationship with him was very abusive.
I tried to show him that you don't have to go from 0 to 60. You don't have to fight, you don't have to raise your voice as long as you're being calm, respectful to the other person, etc. (my childhood and my first marriage was not like his experiences at all).
We were doing good for a couple years, but then it all changed. He gets upset about anything I say that has to do with him. And sometimes when it doesn't have anything to do with him. If I tell him something good, in his mind he can twist it around that I'm upset with him , mad at him or I don't like him that much anymore. It's very strange.
And to end this, I can feel our marriage falling apart and we both are depressed. We still do things as a team, swear we're going to be together until we both die and start to talk all problems through. But, it doesn't happen...now it always gets cut off and we're supposed to "throw it away in the past and forget it". etc.… But, it's not any fun at all. It seems like all we do is argue anymore. We never seriously communicate, the sex is down to twice a year and my feelings are waning. We need help!
We did couples therapy a couple times and it didn't work. We don't take MDMA together. I have never done it, but he has before our relationship/marriage.
Thank you if you read this and great talk!
It would help you immensely, the good news is you don't need a therapist to guide you. Just sit and talk face to face for a few hours.
The audio is almost watchable. Most lecture hall videos are plagued with echo. This one avoids that, but then the mic is percussive. Maybe don't place it in front of the mouth.
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Plot twist: Dan is her boyfriend
Yea, good luck getting it up when you're peaking
Really? That's the opposite of the perception. But, maybe that's the key. Prepare her for the eventuality.
It helps me lol idk I get anxiety 😅
I get hard as a steel rod on MDMA, best sex ever
Crazy story! Way back I almost od’d on molly at a party in the middle of nowhere! Thank god I have angels looking over me! Rite before I passed out (spinning and feeling really fucked) I seen the only half glass of water on the table! It was some girls! I just fucking snatched it and chugged it! Instantly felt better! Epic yo
sounds like you just got dehydrated!
Gave a like to the video. I can questions about her sample and survey methods for sure. But her finding are pretty revolutionary. The last sentence that she made may be someday can become a norm. Good stuff.
Thank you for the research. Please continue
Brad Palmer What research ? Her voice or her boobs. Yeah research to support addicts...
I love molly
0ff Zer0 same man it’s fucking good
that's a stupid name for it though....but keep rockin and rolling mate :)
A relationship build on the influence of a drug, to keep the conversation
/truthfulness up to a healthy level, does have a pitiable touch for me. And I'm really not a person condemning drugs at all.
It's not really about building a relationship on a drug, it's about being uninhibited enough to express your emotions and to trust.
@@amberbinderup1101 what happens when the effects are gone... does one regret what they have disclosed? Why not express without drugs that's the real desire to express... not induced to express. Like taking a aspirin to mask the headache.?. Eventually the headache will return
@@chickwithaguitar6876 people would rather take a drug that gives them an excuse than to build on missing part of themselves. It’s easier. It’s sad you didn’t get a response. I agree with you. If you need a drug to be closer, are you really that much closer normal? I’ve taken and was an advocate for weed and acid and shrooms in my early life as an adult, but soon found out that I wasn’t enhancing too much of anything about myself. In order for me to feel or do or think a certain way I would have to take the drug to be able to understand myself. Isn’t that sad? Generations before us have taken things like this for different reasons, but for the reason of understanding yourself that is something that is natural it should come naturally through life. Should come to conversation; imagine taking something just to have a deep meaningful conversation about somebody. Maybe there’s instances where this is validated, but to go on a stage and except it as a drug that is a strong dynamic for relationships.
Your perspective on this is backward. If you have done mdma with someone you love I’m positive you would retract this statement
@@monkeyman1350 There neither is any real argument brought up by you, nor ist there any real context to my post.
Would you feel the same effects on MDA?
MDA is more speedy, less hallucinogenic, less intense
I had taken mdma only with my partner my girlfriend, its the best experience we have in our relationship. Even though we couldn’t do sex when we are high but the emotional and love feeling is worth it . Can have great sex little later
not a clear presentation...needed more rehearsal....
Yeah. A bit wordy. Maybe coulda done with a more unifying message. The delivery is relatively monotonous and rapid-fire. She keeps referring back to ideas like using too many relative pronouns. Feels like less of an oration and more of a recital. Like reading a plot summary/synopsis vs watching a movie.
Rehearsal might help with these weaknesses but might need more of a change.
Interesting! Has Katie written any scientific reports regarding this? Do anyone know where to find the studies she named regarding this?
Check out the MAPS institute website for scientific reports.
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Haha nice, I watched this video because I'm going to take MDMA today for the first time. I have some kind of friends with benefits arangement and I'm really looking forward to try this drug with my girl this night.
Hey, how did this go?
James Hoskinson maybe not too good ? Lol
Lollll he probably fell in love with her
James Hoskinson probably too amazing and got his ass addicted
BesenBein please come back and explain
Ever had surprise MDA? Watch your drink people. 👀
Works great!
Warm goo, love that! He is protected from the world... Anything, echoed just you have echo devices home and dumb!
Where’s molly? 🤠
I will recommend you to a reliable online store., where I do shop from.... he's on both Instagram and telegram as ......,,,.
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He sells quality Psychedelics and lots more ,also ships discreetly to any location.
I love rolling with my bf. It’s the best.
Don't just take them, I made a lot of researches on molly, was really curious to take them,thanks to adam_shrooms on instagram, he came through for me and guided me. I order from him
What is MDMA ?
Shits crazy its like shit in a pill that makes u happy and energetic but theres sum other stuff thats different for everyone like senses get boosted and affection and other stuff like sweating or shaking and ect but its a crazy drug man honestly could get super addicted to it bc the come down is normally horrible u go from so happy to normal and ur body stops producing serotonin and dopamine and eventually if ur on uppers too long ur body stops creating those two naturally and will instead rely on the uppers and youll have to take uppers the rest of ur life to ever feel happiness and even then it might not work itll prolly just save u from getting sick. Its crazy and bad if abused look into it its actually super interesting
@@kotakoh9992 thank you
@@kotakoh9992 but when taking if can it help you approach girls like do u get confident to approach when taking it?
@@marvinjones689 more like it boost the relationships pre existing. Havnt had much experience with it aside from that but it isss a party drug so fuck yeah
@@kotakoh9992 legit lol do I need like a plug or dealer to get it ?
I have to be careful with my wife taking mdma she will go from a respectable woman to taking a gang bang in 45 minutes, I’m not joking or trolling it’s true
Nicr
My bestfriends girl is like that...Do you know how many times I said NO!
the breath hitting the mic and lip smacks make this impossible to watch i gave up less then 2min.
5 minutes in still didn’t get to the point bruhhhhh
Andreas Evans-Adamecz she didn’t get to the core it’s ignorant
Listen to the facts
what country is she from?
England.
El Salvador
Japan
Kazakhstan
Mexico
im on mdma atm and i just hear gibberish.... blah.
Go outside and enjoy your high then, lol
Where you at? Send some to Texas lol
Patrick Leabo fr lmao I’m lookin
Where we from Labour empathy**
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Hallo Volksgenosse :)
"You know nothing, John Snow..."
you are under the influence, so take those feelings with a grain of "Himalayan Salt".
It is chemistry wake da fuck up! Such videos and such people's should not teach, speech nor ditch into places they just licked.
All day and nite long if you will.
Geez can’t pass the freaking mouth noise.
No good if ya fella can't last two minutes ... 🤣
It works great for that, I always had marathon sex for hours with it
Great so if I want someone madly I love with me just take mdma with them…… good to know thank you it’s better den ROOF-EE’s
Interesting topic. Disgusting mouth sounds 😖
Those plosives are disconcerting. Push your mic down, for Pete's sake.
FYA!
te amo 💓
Your mumbling ...what r u talkin bout
I find MDMA isn't good for talking about relationships , it's about discovering who you really are and the God spark within you and the reason God put you here, MDMA can assist with that oh and dancing your ass off as well, but all this relationship bollox, seriously there's about as much truth to that as there is the myth that MDMA cured England of football hooliganism!
Are you talking from experience about the use of MDMA for relationship?
A B I’ve used MDMA sparingly since 1989 and personally haven’t found that it has use for relationship introspection and to be perfectly honest that’s not where Ecstasy wanted to take me, I’ve always tried to that kind of stuff outside MDMA. MDMA has always been a bit spiritual for me on one level and recreational on another, but if it helps for other people to work through relationship issues then great, I probably used dismissive harsh terminology in my previous comment which didn’t really add any value to the conversation, anyway hope that explains better.
MDMA has nothing to do with religion. It can have a great strength for the relationship if taken at home together.
@@Summer-1976 mdma n sex yessssssssssss oh fucking yessssssssssssssssssssssss!. Are you ok or is there something wrong with you, you n ur gf n mdma = oh yesssssssssssssss yesssss yessssssss n more yessssssssssssssss! N boom goes the dynamite!. Simples!.
Maybe you haven't been using MDMA. It opens your heart.
Stupid stupid stupid stupid. Bc why. It’s fake feelings an not real, it’s sad that couples even take this chemical an illicit substance to archive what a sober couple has. It can be done just as good without. I dislike her view an opinion encouraging that this illicit drug has benefits. Don’t do drugs.
Congratulation for your preaching, are you getting enough air up there on your pedestal?
lol, totally wrong, it all still happens within your own brain the only thing that the mdma does is manipulating the flow of different chemicals in your brain, it's not fake feelings, it's still as real as it can be, you should never abuse any substance, but it does in fact have benefits, open your mind dude, you probably pop every drug your doctor prescribes you, but oh right those drugs are "okay" because the doctor said it was okay
Love this!! It’s actually really fucking sad to hear someone say “let’s do drugs to connect better” the FUCK????? Definitely not a good idea..... neither are the days you physically and mentally have to recover after taking this crazy ass drug!
Ladies and gents this is her opinion and she’s entitled to it ! With that being said……. Here is mine….. do you study the human brain ? Do you study the deep impact thoughts have on emotions ? And how consistently thinking the same thoughts will bring consistent emotional response ?
No ??? ME EITHER …… so STFU….. none of us here know WTF… we are talking about let’s be real, anyone can lie and say ummm yeah I fucking do ! Show me your degree ……. Show me studies with data and facts …… it’s like people claiming global warming is non existent…….. can it be ? Sure, can it be real ? SURE….. do I have a fucking clue ? Am I the one out their doing the work figuring out what’s going on witg our planet !?!? NO !!!!!!!! So why will I sit here acting like I know what I’m talking about ……… if I say one or the other, all I’m doing is siding with someone else’s “ research “ get me ? This is a very simple way to think…… anyone can do it. With that being said. I still respect everyone’s opinion. Love you all ❤️ I meanz it
@@karina438 recover? Sounds like you had some pills that were not pure. I once took mdma for 7 days straight and felt fine.
Sad
The nerve
u cant fuck on mdma :c
Yeah what's up with that!? fuck that shit!
Yes you can lol
For hours
Very informational! You need a different microphone. I can hear your lips smack with every word. Cringy to listen to information.
Nani Canizo-martin Yeah wasn’t a great experience
she is smokin
My bitcoin keeps converting to MDMA 😅
Do you know a site to get it bro?
MDMA’s impact on romantic relationships - Katie Anderson spreads BULLOCKS for 17 minutes.
Cosmin V. Miron you know nothing about either I’m sure.
@@crustybastard8256 can I just say…….. I love your fucking name …….
@@NEO_RKX thanks man, it kinda reflects what I've become as I get older.
This is just a load of nonsense... don’t take drugs kids it’s bad for you
Gives me big issues her skin color, and called that healthy? She should stop speaking bullocks, anyhow people need this, since they feed on this.
Too bad it's hit or miss. It's so hard to get real MDMA Molly ex in Chicago westside
Buy a test kit get a real online plugs