ISFJ Loops | Fe & Ne, Si & Ti

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  • Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
  • ISFJs are known for their consistency, especially with those they love, but every now and then ISFJs tend to go through these loops that can sometimes make them act out of character.
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  • @debbieken5639
    @debbieken5639 3 года назад +3

    I'm an ISFJ and I began to notice the Si-Ti and Fe-Ti loops in myself especially when I'm depressed, sad or in a bad mood. I know that my Si, Fe and Ti are well developed. I would say that I would either use Si-Ti or Si-Fe depending on the situation I'm in. The situation around me determines which functions I use.
    Then again I wonder, what mental health also plays a role in these loops.
    This video was helpful. Thank you so much, I now understand myself better.

  • @danooii
    @danooii 5 лет назад +5

    Best explanation of the loops I've heard! Thanks :) I think my relationship with an ENFP has actually helped me connect my Ti and Fe as you say, and it's been really valuable to my life! You've got me thinking now of how on different issues I've leaned way too hard on one or the other, when it's really not the best thing for me.

  • @kellikakes81
    @kellikakes81 5 лет назад +5

    This Si Ti loop reminds me of the guy I'm dating (ISFJ). It's sooooo hard to deal with. He is like this all of the time, which is why I always get confused as to how he even got ISFJ on the test. I am an ENFP. I have now become a cold, factual Te focused person with him, instead of my usual bubbly self. So draining.

    • @tiinat9606
      @tiinat9606 5 лет назад +3

      I resonate....ENFP here and just broke it off with ISFJ for these reasons literally. He stabilized me but he was so afraid of change, intimacy and real emotions that it was just superdifficult to be truly close to him...

    • @kellikakes81
      @kellikakes81 5 лет назад +2

      @@tiinat9606 Wow. Yeah I'm trying my best to deal with it. He's better--this week lbvs. I hope that you find someone you truly click with, hopefully an intuitive.

  • @HonkTheMusic
    @HonkTheMusic 8 месяцев назад

    My brain walking alone at 1am

  • @taramaya4659
    @taramaya4659 4 года назад +2

    This may sound random, but it gave me insight into a character in my fantasy series who is an ISFJ. I didn’t know about loops, but intuitively I was trying to portray that trap people get into.... The character is cursed to forever drag a rock in a circle. The spell on him fed on his own thoughts and self-hate so he didn’t know how to break it.

  • @mhocify
    @mhocify 5 лет назад +1

    I loved your explanations

  • @Nobody-yx8og
    @Nobody-yx8og 3 года назад

    Great explanation. Thank you 😊

  • @amarsiael5951
    @amarsiael5951 Год назад

    tnx so helpfull

  • @kimberlysmith3390
    @kimberlysmith3390 6 лет назад +6

    I go through these both of these loops all the time. I've taken Meyers Briggs several times and I get isfj and I totally relate and see myself in it when I read about it. But I'm not happy and I'm mean and rude alot and wondered what that meant since everyone says Isfj are nice and kind I also get stuck in the deep analytical mode of analyzing myself. This is helpful but do you have any answers on how to stop being mean and rude?

    • @kimberlysmith3390
      @kimberlysmith3390 6 лет назад +4

      I think I figured it out. I'm so worried about the future right now and money and I don't feel secure in my life like I'm afraid of how everything is going to turn out and this makes me mean and rude to people and want to withdraw. When I'm happy I'm nicer

    • @dallasj22266
      @dallasj22266 5 лет назад +1

      this actually makes a lot of sense

    • @ThoughtProvokingVlogs
      @ThoughtProvokingVlogs 4 года назад

      @@kimberlysmith3390 I hope you are doing better!

  • @lovelivesongsplaylists5687
    @lovelivesongsplaylists5687 4 года назад

    god i'm stuck on both of these loops

  • @Stoffendous
    @Stoffendous 4 года назад +2

    How sure are you you are actually an ENFP? Especially when you mentioned you're enneagram 4 you made me think towards INFJ more than ENFP. Enfps are for a very large portion enneagram 7s. Also you come across as very serious, actually way too serious for an ENFP, and you seem quite introverted as well.

    • @mbtefi116
      @mbtefi116  4 года назад +7

      I'm pretty confident I'm ENFP, but back then I was more Te than Fi, which explains the seriousness.
      I'm not really a stereotypical ENFP, I like theories and ideas and love to have deep conversations for hours, I love having fun too but I prefer the more mellow side of life.
      Also, I think INFJs & ENFPs overlap a lot in how they appear or act.

    • @Stoffendous
      @Stoffendous 4 года назад +1

      @@mbtefi116 Thanks for elaborating! Hope you are doing well :)

    • @lauraw353
      @lauraw353 3 года назад +1

      ENFPs do often come across as introverted. They prefer to socialize in small groups or one on one, and they need time to unwind. Many will incorrectly type themselves as INFP, actually.

  • @valpal2792
    @valpal2792 5 лет назад

    I left my relationship with my babyfather hmm physically 3 years ago but emotionally unaware that I left hmm I would say around 5 years.
    Been enjoying my own company and it’s been pretty good I think. Scratch that, it’s been really good. Dated an underdeveloped __?__ (I dislike typing people mostly bcuz I personally think it’s kinda rude but he was definitely an underdeveloped something, big factssss and capital U🗣). Long story short, he didn’t add to my shine (I was still in my si/te self love, ‘if you don’t like it there’s the fuckin door’ mindset bcuz of the aftermath of my first love) sooo he got his heartbroken and I got a reality check from myself about how mean I had become and it hurt my ego if that makes sense. Um Of course it makes sense, I am you 🙄duh
    Anyways I completely opened myself to an ISFJ despite all the warnings from the MBTI matchmakers of the world and I fuckin love them too 🙃

  • @VibeRantInc
    @VibeRantInc 5 лет назад

    INTJ video please