@nataliecarbone6997 Hi Natalie - You're so welcome... I'm glad it was helpful! I invite you to make a list of all the amazing things about you. If you have a hard time coming up with a list of ~20 things, ask your friends and add those things to your list. Then read that list out loud to yourself every morning and every night. We have to CONSCIOUSLY re-train our magnificent minds to have different thoughts. Think of your mind like a computer program - it can ONLY run the programming that's installed and most of us were given or learned negative programming when we were young... and that's the program that's still running today. WE have to CREATE new programming. I'd love to know your thoughts on doing this. 🤩
I could not agree more. I've been focused on this lately when it came into my awareness. For me it's all about being safe and loved essentially. Not picking the restaurant etc...omg...yes. It's like you're in my head hahah Lovely video 💜
@@Maggieloveslife Oh, yes, SAFETY is HUGE! It’s the number 1 concern of our subconscious mind - to be safe. We must be sisters if we relate about not choosing the restaurant!! 😊 Thanks for sharing your thoughts!!
I am in the beginning stages of finally understanding that I am a people pleaser (and I hated being called too nice). I am trying to accept the fact that 'I am a liar' by not telling my truth to others. I now realize that I dont even understand my emotions nor who I am without external validation. Everyone stresses the pitfalls of 'exagerated kindnesses', but have few precise steps to heal. Thank you. I love your delivery style. Subscribed now. Cant wait for the next video.❤ ❤
@peppermintpammy Welcome to my little corner of the internet where my passion is guiding others on the steps to breaking free from people pleasing! Thank you for sharing! I hear you, I see you because I WAS you! It took a marriage turning toxic for me to realize how *I* was creating all this devastation in my life through my people pleasing. Until the next video, I invite you to watch “I Quit” and “People Pleaser Prison” if you haven’t already. What’s a video topic that would help you most? I love creating specific videos for people like you! 💕
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My biggest people-pleasing hurdle to overcome: the fear of disappointing someone. Do you struggle with this too?
Thank you for sharing this! I recognize myself in this video and am working so hard to correct and change my behavior and my attitude toward myself.
@nataliecarbone6997 Hi Natalie - You're so welcome... I'm glad it was helpful! I invite you to make a list of all the amazing things about you. If you have a hard time coming up with a list of ~20 things, ask your friends and add those things to your list. Then read that list out loud to yourself every morning and every night. We have to CONSCIOUSLY re-train our magnificent minds to have different thoughts. Think of your mind like a computer program - it can ONLY run the programming that's installed and most of us were given or learned negative programming when we were young... and that's the program that's still running today. WE have to CREATE new programming. I'd love to know your thoughts on doing this. 🤩
I could not agree more. I've been focused on this lately when it came into my awareness. For me it's all about being safe and loved essentially. Not picking the restaurant etc...omg...yes. It's like you're in my head hahah Lovely video 💜
@@Maggieloveslife Oh, yes, SAFETY is HUGE! It’s the number 1 concern of our subconscious mind - to be safe. We must be sisters if we relate about not choosing the restaurant!! 😊 Thanks for sharing your thoughts!!
I am in the beginning stages of finally understanding that I am a people pleaser (and I hated being called too nice). I am trying to accept the fact that 'I am a liar' by not telling my truth to others. I now realize that I dont even understand my emotions nor who I am without external validation. Everyone stresses the pitfalls of 'exagerated kindnesses', but have few precise steps to heal. Thank you. I love your delivery style. Subscribed now. Cant wait for the next video.❤ ❤
@peppermintpammy Welcome to my little corner of the internet where my passion is guiding others on the steps to breaking free from people pleasing! Thank you for sharing! I hear you, I see you because I WAS you! It took a marriage turning toxic for me to realize how *I* was creating all this devastation in my life through my people pleasing. Until the next video, I invite you to watch “I Quit” and “People Pleaser Prison” if you haven’t already. What’s a video topic that would help you most? I love creating specific videos for people like you! 💕
Great and very helpful video 💯
@@johnny96_ I’m so glad you found it helpful! 😊
Great video Heidi!
Thanks, Jenny! I appreciate your comment and compliment! 🥰