I would also like to hear your thoughts about growing up, being on your own, handling your life. How did you feel before, how do you feel now, life in yours 20s vs your 30s... love youuuu ❤
I would love to hear your thoughts about the difference between life in LA and life in Baltimore. I’ve experienced both as well and am struck by the difference in body language, slang, outlook on life, etc.
First BRAVO to you and Nick for trying to set a great example for Honor, and no parent is perfect and sometimes life doesn't go the way we want to no matter our best intensions and that's OK! I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend 😓. You have a great day/evening as well! 😊
Don't push yourself to do daily vlogs! Do what feels good and organic. We love watching you and your little family. Sorry to hear about your friend. Prayers to your family, your mom especially
I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend. As humans, many understand that sometimes life can get hectic, but that never diminishes the relationships you have built! Thank you for sharing your real and raw feelings as I’m sure it can be difficult to be truly open on the internet! It really does help others feel less alone and can even create a stronger connect to their own feelings! You have inspired me to reach out to those who I haven’t connected with in some time and to be sure to focus on communicating with my significant other in order to work together to solve the problem rather that focusing on who is right (which can be hard!!!). I have been a subscriber for quite a long time and have never commented but wanted to say thank you and wish you a brighter day tomorrow!
Your videos have always felt genuine, but I really love the candidness of the daily vlogs. And I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. 💕 I understand the guilt that comes with finding out someone passed after having lost touch for a bit of time.
I personally have been LOVING your daily vlogs. Your honesty, transparency, and just realness in your videos is so refreshing in a social media world where everything is so filtered. I honestly look forward to any and all of your videos!
Hey Julia! In a previous video, you shared a childhood memory about walking to rent a movie with your mom and sister. It was a nice story and it made me nostalgic for my own childhood. My question is: Do you have any other childhood memories that you are fond of and would like to share? These daily vlogs have been really great and I find myself looking forward to them each day 😊
I love seeing your growing family, and my prayers are with you and your momma! Love to see you vlogging, I adore it. Your daughter is SO FREAKING ADORABLE
I absolutely love the vlogs! Keep up the good work. I never thought I’d be so excited to watch the day to day of someone else’s life, but yours are so much fun to watch.
Thank you for your transparency and keeping things real of daily life struggles. So sorry for your loss sending positive hugs and vibes your way! You will get through this and things will work out! Love your vlogs!
I love these daily vlogs. This past week I've found myself really looking forward to them. Knowing that I get the opportunity to watch a new vlog each day has been great. I've even caught myself laughing out loud a few times. Thank you for all the dedication it's taken you to make these vlogs happen.
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. That can be really jarring, particularly when it happens unexpectedly, out of nowhere. 😔 And thank you for normalizing arguments in relationships. People act like any conflict, spells relationship doom... which is totally ridiculous. If you're sharing your life with another person, there are inevitably going to be some hiccups along the way. I would definitely be interested in seeing more content in that same vein (relationship stuff, conflict resolution, etc.). Thank you! 😊
I was watching your ASMR Kitten video from 2 years ago today. It made me sleep so well for my nap. Thank you for posting more videos of how you are feeling with all that is going on in your life. Letting that out will help you heal from daily struggles.
There's nothing like setting a challenge for yourself and actually sticking to it to make you feel energized. I'm really enjoying these daily vlogs, no matter how short or random. Looking forward to more!
Hope this doesn't sound weird but I was wondering if you could give your thoughts about love, sex and intimacy over the years, your journey idk. It's such a confusing topic for me and I always like to hear about other people's perspectives, in a respectful and comfortable way of course. ❤
So sorry for the loss of your friend Julia. What is so clear is that you are still very much you - whilst still being an amazing daughter, partner and mother. You are going through beautiful, magical and also emotionally challenging things right now. Your heart is full and it’s also hurting at the same time as you are missing your family so much and torn between two places. Especially with your Mum going through her current journey. I think I speak for many of us in saying we are enjoying being part of your life journey - with all its ups and downs. We appreciate your realness. We wish you and your little family the very best in all that you do. ❤
I'm sorry about your friend passing that's very sad, but having and raising a baby and dealing with your mom's health is really hard. I also want to add that my husband and I have had really poor communication skills for 20 years. We've gotten about 10 percent better since 2003. But we love each other and we laugh a lot, that's probably why we're still together. Our daughter is also a criminal science college student and she thinks we're both immature. She's awesome. Honor is too. You're both great parents.
the fact you are so honest about your flaws as a couple is so amazing though, and it's a sign of maturity! and while love alone cannot make up for problems in a relationship, it's ultimately the necessary base for a happy life as a couple, so i wish you the best :)
Both you and Nick making the decision to model disagreements and resolutions is wonderful! I'm sorry that this disagreement has not yet been resolved. We are not perfect even at our best. I'm very sorry about the loss of your friend. Give yourself grace for not maintaining contact with her. I'm sure that she valued your friendship, time spent with you, and understood that your life changed when you became pregnant and after Honor's birth. You also have your Mom to support now. Take good care of yourself❤
Question about relationships! I’ve seen you and Nick work so hard over the years to be better partners for one another, and it’s really inspiring and refreshing to see people share the harder aspects of being in a partnership. What was it about Nick that made you want to keep trying even when things were hard? ❤
Love, love, love the daily vlogs!!!!!!! Your vlogs are really therapeutic for me and I really appreciate your honesty and the effort you are putting in.
I think it’s great that you both are aware of how important clear communication is for a relationship and it’s a wonderful example for Honor to see! Its not always smooth sailing especially with young kids which in itself is exhausting and cause nerves to be frayed but your respect for each other comes through in these videos and that’s something to hold onto when issues arise!
Julia, we love these Vlogs! It doesn't matter if you miss some days, we are just glad to see new videos! Being a mom is stressful and we appreciate you! 💚
I love the advice for making up in front of your child! I’m going to use that. You are so right about it being healthy thank you for that perspective! Also love you and Nick cooking together. Such precious time!
Hey Julia! I’ve been a long time fan of your asmr, now part of my bedtime routine/ ritual and has been a good way to unwind at the end of the day (and helps ease my insomnia and anxiety!). I’ve been watching your recent vlogs and didn’t realize how much I would enjoy them! It’s comforting knowing that there will be a relaxing vlog to watch at the end of each day :) I really hope you continue to do this in the future!!
Question for AMA: Were you at all worried about losing your identity when you had a baby? (This is one of my personal fears). How do you think your self-image and identity have changed since becoming a mama? Love the vlogs!
This is weird and almost scary how this whole vlog hit. I am currently going through everything that you went over and feeling incredibly vulnerable. I have no solutions yet but I get your point, communication. Hoping and praying I get through this on a positive note. Thank you for sharing.
i would love to hear more about your transition into motherhood! anything that caught you by surprise/was easier than you thought/was harder than you thought.
I would love to see another ASMR video! I really miss those from you- you were one of the first ASMR artists that I got into. Totally understand if that's impossible right now, being a Mom and all! I hope things get better for you and Nick. Relationships are like a roller coaster- its got a lot of ups and downs but sometimes the thrill of the ride is worth it! Take care!
I'm curious if in the past you and Nick ever considered breaking up. I think you guys are great btw! I was just interested in your feelings and how you worked it out🙂.
Julia, your daily vlogs have been such a treat. I can’t explain how much I see you as an older version of myself, you are so comforting ❤️ I just got into my first relationship last year and I’d love some advice or wisdom about how to choose someone to be your life partner… what values did you seek in a partner, especially one you decided to share a home and have a child with? Did you have to compromise on certain things you envisioned having in your life when choosing to be with your partner? If so, was it worth it? My boyfriend makes a lot less money than me and I imagined myself being with a partner more equal to me in financial status at this point in my life, but I love him so I am sacrificing the lifestyle I envisioned for myself to be with him.
for Q&A: how has your perception of love changed as you’ve grown older? and how do you navigate heartbreak and trusting someone new when you enter a new relationship?
I have had two miscarriages this year and live in an isolated place with terrible healthcare. I would love to hear your advice, feeling hopeless. I would also love to see you do an asmr role play as a midwife or taking care of your pregnant friend. Pregnancy nerves had me turning to asmr a lot. Huge fan and love the videos! You inspire me daily ❤
My questions are: 1. once maternity leave is over (here in Canada we get a year not sure what you get in the US) what direction do you see your career going? Do you plan to do RUclips full time, stay at home parent, a little of both or work outside the home away from RUclips? 2. If you stay on RUclips what direction will your channel take? 3. I’d love to see a video about how you stay motivated. Goal setting etc. I’ve noticed that in many videos you will mention that you set a daily goal for yourself and just wondering if this is something you plan ahead of time etc. I am always grateful when I see you’ve posted a new video. Thanks for all you do 😊
so sorry for your loss its hard you have a new baby and you moved and your moms health etc there's never enough time in our lives days and weeks just fly by im sure she understood thanks for posting these videos i love your videos i love to see Honor grow every day and i see such big changes in her i cant wait til she starts talking which will be soon :) much love from NY xoxox
Love seeing more of you!! Maybe you'll be able to squeeze one of your classic asmr vids, even if it ts only five minutes. I've always thought that you are the best asmr artist. ♥️
Late to the party but I’m glad I had time to watch this tonight. Last week my neighbour unexpectedly passed away. I came home from work to police in their driveway and thought maybe burglary but no. Even though we weren’t particularly close, I had the opportunity to say hello only a few days before and I didn’t. That could’ve been our last lovely interaction. Anyway, just sharing sentiments. Nobody lives forever yet it’s still always a shock.
I’ve been loving your daily videos whilst I’m in isolation! I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. Loss is never easy. In terms of questions I’d love to know what advice you have for women who have also experienced loss and are about to start trying to fall pregnant again? It has been so inspiring seeing you raise Honor and it has truly helped reassure me that becoming a mother is what I want for our family.
So, to start -- you're stunning. You carry yourself with this grace and purity that I love. Ok! Had to get that outa the way lol & thank you for your consistent effort on getting the vids up. With little precious baby, I'm sure it can be a challenge but I love seeing you guys. It's like a more modern look at a family video that you're sharing with us 😊 As for future content, I love seeing your "cooking together" vids, maybe some stories of cute funny moments with your parents, future plans that you might have with your baby girl.
My favorite person on the internet. I honestly wish we were neighbors. So sorry for the loss of your friend. Thanks for the blogs this week they have been the best ❤
It's very difficult to keep in as close of contact as we would like with all of the people we care about in our lives, especially when we're busy and stressed and they're busy and stressed. I don't even talk to my sister every single day and she is my best friend! But when someone knows how you feel about them they hold that in their heart and if something happens unexpectedly before you're able to contact them again or say goodbye, they already know you love them or respect them. I'm sure your friend left holding the love you had for her in her heart, so don't beat yourself up too much for being busy with your baby and your mom! I'm sure your friend would understand❤
When my fiance and I have disagreements, we sometimes argue, I guess ,VERY disrespectfully. He always gets over it right away and I am always the one who stays upset longer. I'm not sure. But then we get into it again because I'm still mad and he's not and I've had my feelings hurt by whatever he said. But you're right, no matter how hard you try, disagreements and arguments will happen. Also, I am very sorry about your friend passing. We always get caught up in life and can't always give everyone all the attention we would like, especially when they aren't in our view daily. But I'm sure she knew you cared and just take the opportunity to tell those you care about that you love them and how important they are to you. Love you Julia! Thank you for being so committed to us and doing this daily vlog...you know we've been after you for awhile to try it out! ❤️
LOVE all your videos, especially ASMR. I am wondering what has been different about motherhood from what you expected. Honor is beyond cute! That is one gorgeous child and she is getting so big so fast!!
SO enjoying your daily vlogs! Been watching them during my lunch every day & I think I will be sad when I don't have them to look forward to 😂 so thank you for your dedication to doing them 😃 Question: what is the best advice (that's helped you & Nick the most), that's been given by your therapist? Also, how are the furbabies? 😻 I really enjoy your cooking/ baking + Nick & Honor content 😁
Question/topic for AMA: would love to hear you talk more about ASMR! How’d you get into it? Favorite ASMR creators? Thoughts on making more ASMR videos? :)
Love your videos. Thanks for keeping up with the vlogs. It is very therapeutic for me and probably many. My question: What are your long term career goals?
OMG I binged the entire fourth season of Never Have I Ever. So sad it's over. As a South Asian, that show meant a lot to me. Sidenote: I'd love content around how to give massages in a safe way (how to avoid hurting the person, how to avoid using bad posture as the person giving the massage), and/or how to create ASMR content.
Hey Julia thank u for taking the time to give us these daily vlogs, they’ve been healing for me. I was pregnant at the same time as you and gave birth to my daughter last June. She passed away just 5 months later to SIDS.. I’ve been trying to find purpose in life not to go be with her. Watching your videos with Honor was so painful at first.. I would skip over parts because I was envious/envisioned how I would’ve been interacting with my baby like you do with Honor. Now 8 months later I can watch your videos and find inspiration and wanted to thank you for being the mother I couldn’t be. Thank you. Please continue to make these daily vlogs, they truly keep me going. I don’t know why. Do you think we could ever have a conversation over the phone or email?
That is great you are being mindful of arguments in front of Honor. I wish my brother and I were not exposed to constant fighting and yelling in the home as children. It really does stay with you as an adult. It affects how we see conflict resolution now and is a hard pattern to break free from. It also is very triggering to me now, even decades later. So I commend you for being able to calmly reflect after a hurtful disagreement especially when it is so easy to feel resentful. I have learned nothing good comes from holding onto that feeling and it is not healthy for our bodies to harbor it. I am sure you will work through things with Nick and you both are doing a great job with your beautiful little girl. Love the daily vlogs! Would love to know how your channel grew into doing the ASMR content and then grew to where it is now. Maybe do an origins type story? 💕
Thank you for always uploading , enjoy listening to you always 💓so big thank you for every video you have made I have been a silent watcher for many years on your channel & I know I will watch more of your vlogs in the future also I always wish you and your family all the best In the future and a healthy lifestyle always 💓
I hope to see more cooking videos from you! I love the vlogs. I can’t find the video that had your blue cheese recipe in it ! Would love to see you make it again! Thank you again!
It does sound like a fun project but I feel like I am maybe not skilled enough for my own cookbook. I do loveeee to cook and love that you are cooking! The best therapy for me.
Everyone get busy, life is kind of all over the place. Imagine being so perfect you can balance life, chores, family, children, work, social, hobbies, family, entertainment, friends, health, etc. Its a lot. For peace of mind, When a person passes they dont have any attachments to the life they live, they go on to another life cycle cicle. You just got to hope the people in your inner circle just KNOW you love them and thats life gets on the way sometimes, if you have chosen them, theyre smart enough to know. Youre doing great kiddo, dont beat yourself up
I know your intention is probably not to be a baby mama vlogger and I'm sure nick wants Honor kept more private but I’m just so overjoyed about your little girl, I’d love to hear more about your experiences with her, or how she helps you and nick or your opinions about everything that comes with being a mom in general- whatever you’re comfortable sharing! I had my first last august and second due this upcoming fall. I know babies are born all the time but you are one of the very very few people whom I don’t personally know that I enjoy following so it was a really great feeling to hear about your baby and just something that aligned so nicely with changes in my own life, its just realy cool seeing another mama pushing on strong and doing life with her babe in tow
Wow, I am the first watcher. Yeah for me!!! Lol. Any siblings for honor in the future??? Your voice is still so soothing and your a beauty to watch and listen to. I watch things all over the place and sometimes not in order. So apologies if these ??’s were asked. Do you think you will ever do your soft touch massage or hair play or just ASMR interactions with other ppl?? You would put me to sleep almost every night for 4 or 5 years. I’ll keep watching whatever you do. Keep being you, it’s really refreshing to watch and listen to a “regular” person. With problems, insecurities but self love and getting thru it and just dealing with life as it’s thrown at you. (I am sorry about saying regular person, I am not sure what words are proper or correct these days). Love, from a faithful watcher and have seen the ups and downs and so happy for you and your family. Continued prayers for your Mom and God Bless you all. 💙
Would love some advice on how to motivate yourself to start therapy for the first time? Especially when you have social anxiety 😬 Thanks so much for sharing through these vlogs! I’m sorry for the loss of your friend and I’m sure you and Nick will work everything out 💕
Thanks for sharing so much with us seeing you post always brings me a boost of serotonin! I was wondering how you and Nick worked on communication? Also any key habits you do that help your mental health? Thanks :)
How do you cope when intimacy fluctuates in your relationship, whether it’s due to parenthood or arguments or just the general stress of living? Would love to hear your perspective ❤
I’d love to know what practices you’ve learned from doing ASMR/massage that you have incorporated into your daily life! Are there certain relaxation techniques, aromatherapy, or anything else that you do in your work with clients that you find particularly useful yourself? I’m so inspired by the healing energy you bring to your asmr videos and also your vlogs😌❤
What are your favorite recipes? I have been getting more into cooking for my partner and I, and seeing you cook for friends in the last vlog is inspiring me to have a luncheon😅
Now that you mention it, I do miss the videos where you cook and explain the recipes you make, it gives cute cooking show :) love it. Also I have a question: if you were to pick two positive sides and a negative one of working in clubs, what would those be? I’m super curious about your experience. PS I missed seeing little Honor in this video ♥️
So sorry about your friends passing. ❤ Tomorrow is not promised , so always tell your friends and family that you love them every chance you get. I end every call to family and friends with I love you or Love you. Jim and I have been together 4 years now and I do find it odd that we've never had an argument because the last 10 years with my ex was a daily argument. We just seemed to have clicked from our first meeting. That being said I was married for 30 years . When you're both ready to talk it out , keep the discussion calm. No yelling. You can't over shout someone and you shouldn't have to either. I will tell the person " if you can't speak with me without raising your voice then come back when you can talk to me in a calm collected manner. We can work this out ." At that point I walk away. My ex husband was verbally, emotionally and financially abusive and I will no longer tolerate being yelled at. I'll put a question or two out there when I think on what they might be. I hope you have a peaceful evening. ❤ May Love and Light Surround You , Always Love you
I would also like to hear your thoughts about growing up, being on your own, handling your life. How did you feel before, how do you feel now, life in yours 20s vs your 30s... love youuuu ❤
I would love to hear your thoughts about the difference between life in LA and life in Baltimore. I’ve experienced both as well and am struck by the difference in body language, slang, outlook on life, etc.
First BRAVO to you and Nick for trying to set a great example for Honor, and no parent is perfect and sometimes life doesn't go the way we want to no matter our best intensions and that's OK! I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend 😓. You have a great day/evening as well! 😊
Don't push yourself to do daily vlogs! Do what feels good and organic. We love watching you and your little family. Sorry to hear about your friend. Prayers to your family, your mom especially
Hearing about writing letters, stationary, and Polaroids makes this old gal happy!
Hehe I practice that stuff too..also film photography! It's not dead😉👌
@@Ray-pt5bi glad to hear it. everything comes around again, thats for sure.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend. As humans, many understand that sometimes life can get hectic, but that never diminishes the relationships you have built! Thank you for sharing your real and raw feelings as I’m sure it can be difficult to be truly open on the internet! It really does help others feel less alone and can even create a stronger connect to their own feelings! You have inspired me to reach out to those who I haven’t connected with in some time and to be sure to focus on communicating with my significant other in order to work together to solve the problem rather that focusing on who is right (which can be hard!!!). I have been a subscriber for quite a long time and have never commented but wanted to say thank you and wish you a brighter day tomorrow!
Your videos have always felt genuine, but I really love the candidness of the daily vlogs. And I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. 💕 I understand the guilt that comes with finding out someone passed after having lost touch for a bit of time.
I personally have been LOVING your daily vlogs. Your honesty, transparency, and just realness in your videos is so refreshing in a social media world where everything is so filtered. I honestly look forward to any and all of your videos!
Hey Julia!
In a previous video, you shared a childhood memory about walking to rent a movie with your mom and sister. It was a nice story and it made me nostalgic for my own childhood. My question is: Do you have any other childhood memories that you are fond of and would like to share?
These daily vlogs have been really great and I find myself looking forward to them each day 😊
1. Will we get any more asmr?
2. How is the rental in DC going? Being a landlord can be challenging.
I love seeing your growing family, and my prayers are with you and your momma! Love to see you vlogging, I adore it. Your daughter is SO FREAKING ADORABLE
You got your reply first so apologies for saying I was first. Lol
@@tanyabeers4035 oh I didn’t even notice lol I just saw she had posted and wanted to send some love as I watched
Thank you, Valerie ❤❤❤❤
I absolutely love the vlogs! Keep up the good work. I never thought I’d be so excited to watch the day to day of someone else’s life, but yours are so much fun to watch.
Thank you for your transparency and keeping things real of daily life struggles. So sorry for your loss sending positive hugs and vibes your way! You will get through this and things will work out! Love your vlogs!
I love these daily vlogs. This past week I've found myself really looking forward to them. Knowing that I get the opportunity to watch a new vlog each day has been great. I've even caught myself laughing out loud a few times. Thank you for all the dedication it's taken you to make these vlogs happen.
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. That can be really jarring, particularly when it happens unexpectedly, out of nowhere. 😔
And thank you for normalizing arguments in relationships. People act like any conflict, spells relationship doom... which is totally ridiculous. If you're sharing your life with another person, there are inevitably going to be some hiccups along the way. I would definitely be interested in seeing more content in that same vein (relationship stuff, conflict resolution, etc.). Thank you! 😊
I was watching your ASMR Kitten video from 2 years ago today. It made me sleep so well for my nap. Thank you for posting more videos of how you are feeling with all that is going on in your life. Letting that out will help you heal from daily struggles.
That kitten massage video will always be favorite! It calms me down so much and as a hyperactive, anxious person I need that soothing content 🥰
There's nothing like setting a challenge for yourself and actually sticking to it to make you feel energized. I'm really enjoying these daily vlogs, no matter how short or random. Looking forward to more!
Hope this doesn't sound weird but I was wondering if you could give your thoughts about love, sex and intimacy over the years, your journey idk. It's such a confusing topic for me and I always like to hear about other people's perspectives, in a respectful and comfortable way of course. ❤
I’d like to hear about this too!
Same 😊
You are such a great momma, see so much love in your eyes when you look at her, you light up! As far as Nick, you’ve got what it takes, BREATHE❤️
So sorry for the loss of your friend Julia. What is so clear is that you are still very much you - whilst still being an amazing daughter, partner and mother. You are going through beautiful, magical and also emotionally challenging things right now. Your heart is full and it’s also hurting at the same time as you are missing your family so much and torn between two places. Especially with your Mum going through her current journey. I think I speak for many of us in saying we are enjoying being part of your life journey - with all its ups and downs. We appreciate your realness. We wish you and your little family the very best in all that you do. ❤
I love watching your family life. I am praying for your Mom🙏🏼 Honor is absolutely adorable!
It’s so amazing seeing such consistent content from your channel! I’m loving it! ❤🎉
I'm sorry about your friend passing that's very sad, but having and raising a baby and dealing with your mom's health is really hard. I also want to add that my husband and I have had really poor communication skills for 20 years. We've gotten about 10 percent better since 2003. But we love each other and we laugh a lot, that's probably why we're still together. Our daughter is also a criminal science college student and she thinks we're both immature. She's awesome. Honor is too. You're both great parents.
The second part of this comment is so fun..especially the ending. 🙌
the fact you are so honest about your flaws as a couple is so amazing though, and it's a sign of maturity! and while love alone cannot make up for problems in a relationship, it's ultimately the necessary base for a happy life as a couple, so i wish you the best :)
Lol, I love this comment for many reasons. Thank you for brightening my day. ❤❤❤
It's definitely therapy for me, and pure joy watching you raise your little baby. So thank you.
Random, fun question: how do you feel about the paranormal? Have you ever had an unexplainable encounter? Are you skeptical?
I’d honestly sob tears of joy for a handwritten letter. That’s so sweet, bestie. ❤
Both you and Nick making the decision to model disagreements and resolutions is wonderful! I'm sorry that this disagreement has not yet been resolved. We are not perfect even at our best. I'm very sorry about the loss of your friend. Give yourself grace for not maintaining contact with her. I'm sure that she valued your friendship, time spent with you, and understood that your life changed when you became pregnant and after Honor's birth. You also have your Mom to support now. Take good care of yourself❤
I am loving these vlogs from you! I know it can't be easy to do this daily. Much love from Kansas.
Question about relationships!
I’ve seen you and Nick work so hard over the years to be better partners for one another, and it’s really inspiring and refreshing to see people share the harder aspects of being in a partnership. What was it about Nick that made you want to keep trying even when things were hard?
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We love to see it mama! It’s so awesome to see your journey over these many years ♥️
Love, love, love the daily vlogs!!!!!!! Your vlogs are really therapeutic for me and I really appreciate your honesty and the effort you are putting in.
I think it’s great that you both are aware of how important clear communication is for a relationship and it’s a wonderful example for Honor to see! Its not always smooth sailing especially with young kids which in itself is exhausting and cause nerves to be frayed but your respect for each other comes through in these videos and that’s something to hold onto when issues arise!
Julia, we love these Vlogs! It doesn't matter if you miss some days, we are just glad to see new videos! Being a mom is stressful and we appreciate you! 💚
I love the advice for making up in front of your child! I’m going to use that. You are so right about it being healthy thank you for that perspective!
Also love you and Nick cooking together. Such precious time!
Hey Julia! I’ve been a long time fan of your asmr, now part of my bedtime routine/ ritual and has been a good way to unwind at the end of the day (and helps ease my insomnia and anxiety!). I’ve been watching your recent vlogs and didn’t realize how much I would enjoy them! It’s comforting knowing that there will be a relaxing vlog to watch at the end of each day :) I really hope you continue to do this in the future!!
I'm loving these vlogs!! Your skin is looking amazing! Thanks for sharing with us.
These vlogs are everything ❤
So sorry for your loss 🙏🏽
U have the prettiest skin and bone structure.
I would love to see more of your ASMR. It is literally how I go to sleep every night. I rewatch the old ones over and over.
Question for AMA: Were you at all worried about losing your identity when you had a baby? (This is one of my personal fears). How do you think your self-image and identity have changed since becoming a mama? Love the vlogs!
would love to hear her talk about this!
This is weird and almost scary how this whole vlog hit. I am currently going through everything that you went over and feeling incredibly vulnerable. I have no solutions yet but I get your point, communication. Hoping and praying I get through this on a positive note. Thank you for sharing.
I have really loved all your videos this week. Your vlogs have been great. I have looked forward to them for the passed 5 days. Thanks Julia.
Thank you, Laura
i would love to hear more about your transition into motherhood! anything that caught you by surprise/was easier than you thought/was harder than you thought.
I would love to see another ASMR video! I really miss those from you- you were one of the first ASMR artists that I got into. Totally understand if that's impossible right now, being a Mom and all! I hope things get better for you and Nick. Relationships are like a roller coaster- its got a lot of ups and downs but sometimes the thrill of the ride is worth it! Take care!
I'm curious if in the past you and Nick ever considered breaking up. I think you guys are great btw! I was just interested in your feelings and how you worked it out🙂.
Julia, your daily vlogs have been such a treat. I can’t explain how much I see you as an older version of myself, you are so comforting ❤️ I just got into my first relationship last year and I’d love some advice or wisdom about how to choose someone to be your life partner… what values did you seek in a partner, especially one you decided to share a home and have a child with? Did you have to compromise on certain things you envisioned having in your life when choosing to be with your partner? If so, was it worth it? My boyfriend makes a lot less money than me and I imagined myself being with a partner more equal to me in financial status at this point in my life, but I love him so I am sacrificing the lifestyle I envisioned for myself to be with him.
As an older person I have lived through so many deaths it seems like and that is always the first emotion - guilt/regret. Life is hard sometimes.
I’ve been enjoying these vlogs and seeing how much Honore is growing and moving around. She’s going to be walking in no time.
for Q&A: how has your perception of love changed as you’ve grown older? and how do you navigate heartbreak and trusting someone new when you enter a new relationship?
I have had two miscarriages this year and live in an isolated place with terrible healthcare. I would love to hear your advice, feeling hopeless.
I would also love to see you do an asmr role play as a midwife or taking care of your pregnant friend. Pregnancy nerves had me turning to asmr a lot.
Huge fan and love the videos! You inspire me daily ❤
I like your vlogs because they’re interesting and you’re articulate. I like the advice idea.
My questions are: 1. once maternity leave is over (here in Canada we get a year not sure what you get in the US) what direction do you see your career going? Do you plan to do RUclips full time, stay at home parent, a little of both or work outside the home away from RUclips?
2. If you stay on RUclips what direction will your channel take?
3. I’d love to see a video about how you stay motivated. Goal setting etc. I’ve noticed that in many videos you will mention that you set a daily goal for yourself and just wondering if this is something you plan ahead of time etc.
I am always grateful when I see you’ve posted a new video. Thanks for all you do 😊
so sorry for your loss its hard you have a new baby and you moved and your moms health etc there's never enough time in our lives days and weeks just fly by im sure she understood thanks for posting these videos i love your videos i love to see Honor grow every day and i see such big changes in her i cant wait til she starts talking which will be soon :) much love from NY xoxox
Love seeing more of you!! Maybe you'll be able to squeeze one of your classic asmr vids, even if it ts only five minutes. I've always thought that you are the best asmr artist. ♥️
Late to the party but I’m glad I had time to watch this tonight. Last week my neighbour unexpectedly passed away. I came home from work to police in their driveway and thought maybe burglary but no. Even though we weren’t particularly close, I had the opportunity to say hello only a few days before and I didn’t. That could’ve been our last lovely interaction. Anyway, just sharing sentiments. Nobody lives forever yet it’s still always a shock.
I’ve been loving your daily videos whilst I’m in isolation! I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. Loss is never easy.
In terms of questions I’d love to know what advice you have for women who have also experienced loss and are about to start trying to fall pregnant again? It has been so inspiring seeing you raise Honor and it has truly helped reassure me that becoming a mother is what I want for our family.
So, to start -- you're stunning. You carry yourself with this grace and purity that I love. Ok! Had to get that outa the way lol
& thank you for your consistent effort on getting the vids up. With little precious baby, I'm sure it can be a challenge but I love seeing you guys. It's like a more modern look at a family video that you're sharing with us 😊
As for future content, I love seeing your "cooking together" vids, maybe some stories of cute funny moments with your parents, future plans that you might have with your baby girl.
Im so sorry for the loss of your friend. Im sure she wouldnt want you to feel guilty about not catching up with her, you have a baby to care for ❤
I love listening to you talk and I think your asmr videos are some of the best! ❤
Thank you 🙂🙂
My favorite person on the internet. I honestly wish we were neighbors. So sorry for the loss of your friend. Thanks for the blogs this week they have been the best ❤
Julia - Thanks for 5 straight videos. Long or short, yours are always great! (A huge plus is getting to watch Honor grow!!)
It's very difficult to keep in as close of contact as we would like with all of the people we care about in our lives, especially when we're busy and stressed and they're busy and stressed. I don't even talk to my sister every single day and she is my best friend! But when someone knows how you feel about them they hold that in their heart and if something happens unexpectedly before you're able to contact them again or say goodbye, they already know you love them or respect them. I'm sure your friend left holding the love you had for her in her heart, so don't beat yourself up too much for being busy with your baby and your mom! I'm sure your friend would understand❤
You have a warm heart, writing letters, an old timey cook book, Polaroid pictures.. I love your nasalgia.
When my fiance and I have disagreements, we sometimes argue, I guess ,VERY disrespectfully. He always gets over it right away and I am always the one who stays upset longer. I'm not sure. But then we get into it again because I'm still mad and he's not and I've had my feelings hurt by whatever he said. But you're right, no matter how hard you try, disagreements and arguments will happen. Also, I am very sorry about your friend passing. We always get caught up in life and can't always give everyone all the attention we would like, especially when they aren't in our view daily. But I'm sure she knew you cared and just take the opportunity to tell those you care about that you love them and how important they are to you. Love you Julia! Thank you for being so committed to us and doing this daily vlog...you know we've been after you for awhile to try it out! ❤️
LOVE all your videos, especially ASMR. I am wondering what has been different about motherhood from what you expected. Honor is beyond cute! That is one gorgeous child and she is getting so big so fast!!
SO enjoying your daily vlogs! Been watching them during my lunch every day & I think I will be sad when I don't have them to look forward to 😂 so thank you for your dedication to doing them 😃
Question: what is the best advice (that's helped you & Nick the most), that's been given by your therapist?
Also, how are the furbabies? 😻
I really enjoy your cooking/ baking + Nick & Honor content 😁
Question/topic for AMA: would love to hear you talk more about ASMR! How’d you get into it? Favorite ASMR creators? Thoughts on making more ASMR videos? :)
I hope she carries on, by far the best ASMRtist in my opinion.
Your videos have been the highlight of my week. 🦋❤️
Thank you for being candid and honest about your relationship!
i love your honesty
Love your videos. Thanks for keeping up with the vlogs. It is very therapeutic for me and probably many. My question: What are your long term career goals?
Blessings to you and your family no matter what you decide to do with your sharing with us ❤. Loss can make you realize what is important 😢
You're right, your videos are therapeutic! ❤
Loving your vlogs! Our babies are very close in age so it’s fun. The only thing I miss are your ASMR videos!
I’ve been enjoying your daily videos! 🖤 hope you have a relaxing weekend
OMG I binged the entire fourth season of Never Have I Ever. So sad it's over. As a South Asian, that show meant a lot to me. Sidenote: I'd love content around how to give massages in a safe way (how to avoid hurting the person, how to avoid using bad posture as the person giving the massage), and/or how to create ASMR content.
Hey Julia thank u for taking the time to give us these daily vlogs, they’ve been healing for me. I was pregnant at the same time as you and gave birth to my daughter last June. She passed away just 5 months later to SIDS.. I’ve been trying to find purpose in life not to go be with her. Watching your videos with Honor was so painful at first.. I would skip over parts because I was envious/envisioned how I would’ve been interacting with my baby like you do with Honor. Now 8 months later I can watch your videos and find inspiration and wanted to thank you for being the mother I couldn’t be. Thank you. Please continue to make these daily vlogs, they truly keep me going. I don’t know why. Do you think we could ever have a conversation over the phone or email?
Julia, so sorry about your friend passing. Love and prayers💙🙏
That is great you are being mindful of arguments in front of Honor. I wish my brother and I were not exposed to constant fighting and yelling in the home as children. It really does stay with you as an adult. It affects how we see conflict resolution now and is a hard pattern to break free from. It also is very triggering to me now, even decades later. So I commend you for being able to calmly reflect after a hurtful disagreement especially when it is so easy to feel resentful. I have learned nothing good comes from holding onto that feeling and it is not healthy for our bodies to harbor it. I am sure you will work through things with Nick and you both are doing a great job with your beautiful little girl.
Love the daily vlogs! Would love to know how your channel grew into doing the ASMR content and then grew to where it is now. Maybe do an origins type story? 💕
Thank you for always uploading , enjoy listening to you always 💓so big thank you for every video you have made
I have been a silent watcher for many years on your channel & I know I will watch more of your vlogs in the future also
I always wish you and your family all the best In the future and a healthy lifestyle always 💓
I enjoy your daily vlogs and watching Honor grow ! Thankyou for allowing us to see her .. I love your ASMR videos hopefully you can do one soon 💗
I hope to see more cooking videos from you! I love the vlogs. I can’t find the video that had your blue cheese recipe in it ! Would love to see you make it again! Thank you again!
Would you ever make a cookbook or collection of your favorite recipes one day? You inspired me to get in the kitchen this year!
It does sound like a fun project but I feel like I am maybe not skilled enough for my own cookbook. I do loveeee to cook and love that you are cooking! The best therapy for me.
I would love another ASMR video! I love your vlogs!
Everyone get busy, life is kind of all over the place. Imagine being so perfect you can balance life, chores, family, children, work, social, hobbies, family, entertainment, friends, health, etc. Its a lot. For peace of mind, When a person passes they dont have any attachments to the life they live, they go on to another life cycle cicle. You just got to hope the people in your inner circle just KNOW you love them and thats life gets on the way sometimes, if you have chosen them, theyre smart enough to know. Youre doing great kiddo, dont beat yourself up
I like the shorter ones. So proud that you’re back in the game! Honor is adorable!
I know your intention is probably not to be a baby mama vlogger and I'm sure nick wants Honor kept more private but I’m just so overjoyed about your little girl, I’d love to hear more about your experiences with her, or how she helps you and nick or your opinions about everything that comes with being a mom in general- whatever you’re comfortable sharing!
I had my first last august and second due this upcoming fall. I know babies are born all the time but you are one of the very very few people whom I don’t personally know that I enjoy following so it was a really great feeling to hear about your baby and just something that aligned so nicely with changes in my own life, its just realy cool seeing another mama pushing on strong and doing life with her babe in tow
I would be interested if you talked through each of your tattoos. They look like they have been thoughtfully chosen.
I love your authenticity ❤
Wow, I am the first watcher. Yeah for me!!! Lol. Any siblings for honor in the future??? Your voice is still so soothing and your a beauty to watch and listen to. I watch things all over the place and sometimes not in order. So apologies if these ??’s were asked. Do you think you will ever do your soft touch massage or hair play or just ASMR interactions with other ppl?? You would put me to sleep almost every night for 4 or 5 years. I’ll keep watching whatever you do. Keep being you, it’s really refreshing to watch and listen to a “regular” person. With problems, insecurities but self love and getting thru it and just dealing with life as it’s thrown at you. (I am sorry about saying regular person, I am not sure what words are proper or correct these days). Love, from a faithful watcher and have seen the ups and downs and so happy for you and your family. Continued prayers for your Mom and God Bless you all. 💙
❤❤ thank you Julia, your vidoes make everyday better for me. Really thank you
Would love some advice on how to motivate yourself to start therapy for the first time? Especially when you have social anxiety 😬
Thanks so much for sharing through these vlogs! I’m sorry for the loss of your friend and I’m sure you and Nick will work everything out 💕
Thanks for sharing so much with us seeing you post always brings me a boost of serotonin! I was wondering how you and Nick worked on communication? Also any key habits you do that help your mental health? Thanks :)
As a new mother, I would love to hear more about how you survived the newborn phase!
How do you cope when intimacy fluctuates in your relationship, whether it’s due to parenthood or arguments or just the general stress of living? Would love to hear your perspective ❤
I’d love to know what practices you’ve learned from doing ASMR/massage that you have incorporated into your daily life! Are there certain relaxation techniques, aromatherapy, or anything else that you do in your work with clients that you find particularly useful yourself? I’m so inspired by the healing energy you bring to your asmr videos and also your vlogs😌❤
I’ve enjoyed your Vlogs this week! Thanks
What are your favorite recipes? I have been getting more into cooking for my partner and I, and seeing you cook for friends in the last vlog is inspiring me to have a luncheon😅
Life has been hard lately but I love seeing your name pop up on my notifications. Sending my love 🤍
Now that you mention it, I do miss the videos where you cook and explain the recipes you make, it gives cute cooking show :) love it. Also I have a question: if you were to pick two positive sides and a negative one of working in clubs, what would those be? I’m super curious about your experience.
PS I missed seeing little Honor in this video ♥️
So sorry about your friends passing. ❤
Tomorrow is not promised , so always tell your friends and family that you love them every chance you get. I end every call to family and friends with I love you or Love you.
Jim and I have been together 4 years now and I do find it odd that we've never had an argument because the last 10 years with my ex was a daily argument. We just seemed to have clicked from our first meeting.
That being said I was married for 30 years . When you're both ready to talk it out , keep the discussion calm. No yelling. You can't over shout someone and you shouldn't have to either. I will tell the person " if you can't speak with me without raising your voice then come back when you can talk to me in a calm collected manner. We can work this out ." At that point I walk away. My ex husband was verbally, emotionally and financially abusive and I will no longer tolerate being yelled at.
I'll put a question or two out there when I think on what they might be.
I hope you have a peaceful evening. ❤
May Love and Light Surround You , Always
Love you
plsss vlog the letter writing day that sounds so relaxing