How to Fight and Resolve Conflicts in Relationships: Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi 😍❤️

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  • Опубликовано: 30 апр 2023
  • In this candid conversation, Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi Devlukia share insights into how they handle conflicts and fights in their relationship. They discuss their different communication styles and how they've learned to understand each other better. Radhi shares how she used to shut down during arguments, while Jay wanted to talk things out. They also share tips on how to communicate effectively during conflicts, such as taking breaks when needed but also coming back to the discussion to process it together. Join this dynamic couple and learn how to fight in a healthy way and resolve conflicts in your own relationships.
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Комментарии • 90

  • @waldensiansylph4869
    @waldensiansylph4869 Год назад +327

    There’s always one that pulls away, and the others that wants to directly hash it out. It makes for a good balance.

    • @katrina1045
      @katrina1045 11 месяцев назад +5

      I find that you end up waiting three days to sort it out. Move on to someone compatible

    • @shoubhiksaha25
      @shoubhiksaha25 7 месяцев назад

      Its just tough.... Its tough

    • @DominantBtch
      @DominantBtch 4 месяца назад

      no it not, that's toxic

    • @sanchi7410
      @sanchi7410 20 дней назад

      Been there

  • @kamraz5474
    @kamraz5474 Год назад +131

    He is a real gentleman...
    you 2 were made for each other

  • @candicechavis5867
    @candicechavis5867 11 месяцев назад +15

    This couple has the most beautiful eyes 😍. I love this testimony

  • @ue2267
    @ue2267 Год назад +72

    I will always encourage people to walk away for a bit and relax. Then come back and resolve the problem maturely. I do feel that when people are angry, a lot of what they say is things they have censored or hidden. Hence why what they say in anger is so hurtful because it can come from a place of truth.

    • @penelopeannmarie
      @penelopeannmarie 11 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed! I'm all about take break, check in to see you're sleepy or hungry, and then proceed. I have found the more instantly confusing an argument is, the more common it is that it has nothing to do with what you're actually arguing about lol

    • @sarahnitysdivinehealing7603
      @sarahnitysdivinehealing7603 10 месяцев назад +1

      The "instant confusion = not what you're actually talking about" is a great point!@@penelopeannmarie

  • @faustinembeh
    @faustinembeh Год назад +27

    So true! I always want space . Shut down and it hurts more lol! Than when I finally talk to him 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CraftyFingers17
    @CraftyFingers17 Год назад +4

    Communication.
    Listening.
    Compassion.
    Learning.
    Compromise.
    👍🏼✌🏽🤙🏽

  • @bridgettthomas258
    @bridgettthomas258 Год назад +9

    Yes I love when a person wants to talk about the problems❤

  • @xxxarimaxxx
    @xxxarimaxxx Год назад +27

    It can be really hurtful when you're always the one coming to them, even when it's obvious they don't care and would NEVER admit they're wrong when they mostly are. I'm talking about friendship tho

    • @xxxarimaxxx
      @xxxarimaxxx 11 месяцев назад

      @@Freespiritedqueen Wow💜 I'm happy for you and that you learned a lesson

    • @caristewart481
      @caristewart481 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yep. Dealing with this in my marriage now. Ive told him how it feels when he walks away and never addresses the fight, ever again, and I am the one who ends up apologizing just so there can be some sort of resolution. It sucks.

    • @xxxarimaxxx
      @xxxarimaxxx 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@caristewart481sure does😢 hope it all works out🩷

  • @nickglazier7569
    @nickglazier7569 Год назад +8

    Thankyou for speaking that statement. U have to just talk about everything. Even when its hard one person needs to be the one that understands. We together can work through anything as long as we talk. Beautiful well said.

  • @eileenfairbrother2750
    @eileenfairbrother2750 Год назад +20

    What a beautiful couple 😊

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- Год назад +3

    I love the " how do you like to resolve things" .

  • @archanakumaridasgupta5536
    @archanakumaridasgupta5536 Год назад +16

    That's my thing as well. I can't speak when in bad mood. It's better to not speak to me when I'm in a bad mood.
    Edit - Now I know why. Jupiter placement.
    Now I know why jay could not get her having to have space n just discuss - Jupiter placement again 😅

  • @nickysmith5808
    @nickysmith5808 Год назад +6

    I admire both of you as people and as a couple ❤

  • @Unnimaya2202
    @Unnimaya2202 Год назад +3

    Same here! My husband and I fight a lot but we try to resolve within that day and not to stretch it for next day

  • @anamikanegi9570
    @anamikanegi9570 Год назад +3

    She is soooo innocent n cute

  • @grannyblaylock623
    @grannyblaylock623 Год назад +1

    I can see maybe disagreeing but I can hardly see arguments.l. You two are great.👍👍🌹🤗♥️

  • @salomeidufanoa6093
    @salomeidufanoa6093 Год назад +2

    This two beautiful couples 💑 are heroes ❤❤

  • @anjumparwin5660
    @anjumparwin5660 Год назад +1

    In my case,the more we talk about it the more we disagree and fight back

  • @uvkvk
    @uvkvk 8 месяцев назад

    Such a lovely and mature bond....
    May u both be together forever 🎉

  • @jonniricard5383
    @jonniricard5383 Год назад +15

    I would always want to have some time and space. I never wanted to say anything out of anger he did not deserve or I did not want to say something exaggerated that I didn't really mean when I was angry. I believe the old truth that "Angry people are liars" and I just wanted to be super clean and respectful in resolving differences. My husband didn't understand that at first but I finally was able to explain. I needed to clam down and really look at what was valid and not valid. Until I matured more emotionally, this was necessary for me.

  • @niveditakasturi3914
    @niveditakasturi3914 7 месяцев назад

    Divine couple….look so alike…..born to be together

  • @justanotherguy___
    @justanotherguy___ 9 месяцев назад

    Definitely it's important to talk things through. Thanks for sharing, you are a great couple.

  • @tanyamahara4835
    @tanyamahara4835 Год назад +10

    I guess this is how men work, i am like stay away leave me alone,not want to talk... but my partner is like tell me talk to me...this will exaggerate the problem 😅

  • @samanthamiller7267
    @samanthamiller7267 Год назад +2

    my spiritual advisors (through the internet)

  • @annamariebassora9227
    @annamariebassora9227 Год назад +1

    I hope they have children before it's to late beautiful couple ❤❤

  • @oneextra8659
    @oneextra8659 11 месяцев назад

    What a great makeup. Looks very organic

  • @sugumargovinda
    @sugumargovinda Год назад +2

    வாய்விட்டு பேசினால்தான் வாழ்க்கை - my mother

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 7 месяцев назад +1

    I think it's really important to have a plan when it comes to fighting, speak to your partner and come to an agreement on what you do when an argument starts. Do you need space before you can resolve it? Are there any techniques you can use to defuse things that work for both of you? Talk all of it out beforehand so when that time comes you have a plan to resolve things and avoid unnecessary stress and damage to the relationship.

  • @Oneminutethoughts
    @Oneminutethoughts 11 месяцев назад +1

    Must be the cutest fight

  • @Stephanie_bitches89
    @Stephanie_bitches89 Год назад +2

    I do have to say that I hate that he's a Virgo 🤣 but I love the way he looks at her

  • @MarylnBowan-vg7te
    @MarylnBowan-vg7te 9 месяцев назад +1

    (FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Conflict Helps Some Peephole Who Feel Very Little to Feel Something. It is a Antidote to Numbness it Arouses a Part of the Nervous System that Helps a Person Feel Like a Spark in the Nothingness Something Rather then Nothing

  • @kellynichols3124
    @kellynichols3124 Год назад +1

    I love this

  • @ResilientWon
    @ResilientWon Год назад

    These two will have beautiful babies.

  • @dannotes9396
    @dannotes9396 Год назад +1

    Wow learning❤

  • @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557
    @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 Год назад +2

    Right ✅️

  • @jtrenow
    @jtrenow 8 месяцев назад

    beautiful couple ❤

  • @katysullivan-zj2mo
    @katysullivan-zj2mo 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your both beautiful ❤❤

  • @somrajdeshmukh7419
    @somrajdeshmukh7419 8 месяцев назад

    U both are awesome 😊

  • @shrimantdashora3119
    @shrimantdashora3119 8 месяцев назад

    them both look so alike

  • @luzcardona8889
    @luzcardona8889 11 месяцев назад

    Very beautiful couple

  • @purushottam6460
    @purushottam6460 8 месяцев назад

    She is very beautiful❤❤

  • @sonalip5058
    @sonalip5058 6 месяцев назад

    She is so pretty cute 😍 💗

  • @angelitalee4727
    @angelitalee4727 Год назад +1

    That’s good

  • @narjeselhermi1778
    @narjeselhermi1778 6 месяцев назад

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @grandma4557
    @grandma4557 Год назад

    Exactly

  • @libanosdesta4121
    @libanosdesta4121 9 месяцев назад

    Vary cute couple ❤

  • @thejasmeensvlog3713
    @thejasmeensvlog3713 4 месяца назад

    Same

  • @Priya1_123
    @Priya1_123 Год назад +2

    Jay is a gentleman

    • @katrina1045
      @katrina1045 11 месяцев назад

      Yes he seems to be

  • @pauline6005
    @pauline6005 11 месяцев назад +1

    The only time it can't work is when you're dealing with a narcissist
    Trust me ive been there. Now im left hurt and numb and wondering what the hell went wrong

  • @shrur3527
    @shrur3527 Год назад +1

    🙏❤️

  • @Aalkam
    @Aalkam Год назад +1

    Those two are ridiculously beautiful mashalah

  • @me-gd5sb
    @me-gd5sb Год назад +1

  • @KeremPARLAKGUMUS-uc4xb
    @KeremPARLAKGUMUS-uc4xb Год назад

    i just fed up with contradiction and conflicts.

  • @poojarokade2006
    @poojarokade2006 Год назад +1

    Ahe is so beautiful 😊

  • @rbctmg6131
    @rbctmg6131 Год назад +2

    She look like she is 20 years old 😮

  • @johnrainsman6650
    @johnrainsman6650 5 месяцев назад

    I'm currently mad at my girlfriend. See, we've had arguments so many times, and so far, it's always been my fault. I was always the one who was wrong and had to apologize. The one who had to redeem themself. And I have no problem with owning my mistakes. It's just, I'm tired of being _that guy._ Yesterday, I told my girlfriend that I was jealous of her. Jealous that she was always right and I was always wrong. That it brought me so much pain and self-doubt. And she said, "It's not always about right and wrong."
    That actually angered me. Can anyone guess why? I don't want to have to explain it. I want someone to understand how I'm feeling without clarification. So again, I told her how I was jealous of her for always being right...how I was in pain by constantly being "the bad guy" while she was "the good guy" in our conflicts...and she said it isn't always about right and wrong. Why do you think that response bothers me?

  • @christofuar
    @christofuar 7 месяцев назад

    Random but.. You both have amazing eyes 😅

  • @professional.on-line
    @professional.on-line 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hello
    Argument is friction within conflict is the manifestation
    In physical world of machine it's flaw I the design
    .
    Biologically men women are compatible.
    So
    It's the thought process the upbringing and environment (epigenome).
    I live in a city which is fully drenched in cholbay Na (the kameyahnish party) contempt hate anger anxiety gasliting gossiping creating hurdles
    Best regards ✨️
    To ❤ another being is to have it ❤ within (the capacity to own it unit or assimilate it.)
    Out here everyone is scared of this natural phenomenon called ❤

  • @user-zi9zk6kx2g
    @user-zi9zk6kx2g 5 месяцев назад

    Cute

  • @sulakshanawijayagunaratne859
    @sulakshanawijayagunaratne859 Год назад +2

    sorry he was not at all a teacher as i came to explain as I was going through my typing but he was also a very experienced principal I must say after he got through his science degree from peradeniya university and a diploma in teaching.

  • @mahnem322
    @mahnem322 Год назад +1

    They look alike,

  • @vinaykanojia3037
    @vinaykanojia3037 7 месяцев назад

    They more look like siblings now😂

  • @Gym1447
    @Gym1447 10 месяцев назад

    When a women constantly pulls away it gets old and maybe she doesn’t love you if she doesn’t know how to argue and constantly repeats the same habits

  • @sukhqazmi5837
    @sukhqazmi5837 10 месяцев назад

    U don't find such men anymore who rather encourage talking it out.

  • @veronicafior2714
    @veronicafior2714 9 месяцев назад

    These 2 are twins … not even just brother & sister …

  • @rosemariezuniga4791
    @rosemariezuniga4791 9 месяцев назад

    But the problem is he shut me out for 2years, and now i feel like he wants to fix things but i am blocked on his soc medias even on mobile, so no matter how i really wanted to talk, i cannot massage him as cue. We talk in person but i cannot initiate coz of the thought that he might get mad again if i let him remember again the reason of our big fight in 2022. The kids are very affected. We are just pretending that we are ok though we know some things need to be fixed and ask for apology

  • @musicfeel5648
    @musicfeel5648 10 месяцев назад

    Ok let me say mine so we are fighting from two days because she got mad at me because I did something in the past and i said sorry for that . And now she started feeling sad and gatting mad at me and i was not in a good mood that time i said this is not the right time to talk about this but she is like i m not feeling good because of u so if I do say u then whom should I say .... Like I'm ok with how u feel but why get mad or sad which has happened whyy ...

  • @prasannthavanur
    @prasannthavanur Год назад +2

    Why they are marketing their family life, it is same with all Indian family, i see how these two narrative which people get hooked and they make money

  • @jenerella1609
    @jenerella1609 10 месяцев назад

    You should talk about it because YOU want to talk about it. Not because jay makes you feel like you should talk about it.

  • @hopeking37
    @hopeking37 Год назад +1

    So she turned into him? It seems as though she has changed herself so much to just be like what he wants and what he doesnt want etc

  • @sulakshanawijayagunaratne859
    @sulakshanawijayagunaratne859 Год назад +1

    what I really want say is somabandhu kodikara crossing lines of traditional values and customs when it's come to decency disciplinary qualities regarding relationships even he was at the start of it despite his statuses of being past teacher in several schools later holding positions several government schools, private schools and overseas schools finally VIDURA COLLEGE which happened to his last service mof school I suppose and I yet to know if he was transferred to a yet another school since there may had been other mis-aps regarding him during the time of my time way from school which I never came to know by chance or total ignorance on my way or to say that staff of Vidura College Chairman totally being neglcting what's going on inside the school out of hands of responsibilities what mainly causes my prejudices or rejecting or further being avoiding to have continued relationship.

  • @katrina1045
    @katrina1045 11 месяцев назад

    I just feel like for a guru this relationship as they are telling us seems really immature

    • @katrina1045
      @katrina1045 11 месяцев назад

      This must be an auto response

  • @muralipeethambaran1947
    @muralipeethambaran1947 Год назад +1

    Your. Hus. A. Monk &&&. You. Know. World 🌎🌎🌎🌎🌎🌎. Belive😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅. Happy 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊. Time

  • @ab5848
    @ab5848 11 месяцев назад

    Are all women like that? M one and I tend to do the same

  • @abhisheksurve7059
    @abhisheksurve7059 8 месяцев назад

    radhis superr cute

  • @meetjaz
    @meetjaz 7 месяцев назад

    Brother sister

  • @rayrehman7217
    @rayrehman7217 7 месяцев назад

    She is an absolute awful person and wife..I feel sorry for him .