Opening Up With Eamon & Bec (Things Got Emotional!)

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  • @RayaandLouis
    @RayaandLouis  2 года назад +5

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  • @jelynix
    @jelynix 2 года назад +169

    BEC! Everyone needs a Bec in their life! She is so uplifting and encouraging!!

  • @maschahelena
    @maschahelena 2 года назад +255

    Bec talking about Raya’s beauty & her inner beauty made me tear up instantly. ❤❤ This conversation made me feel like I was there with you and I loved that 🥺

    • @kimj2350
      @kimj2350 2 года назад +10

      I just teared up at the same moment you were talking about 🥺

    • @kels0jade6
      @kels0jade6 2 года назад +9

      They are both two of the sweetest most amazing women on this planet. I wish I had a friend like them that was just so uplifting and kind. I feel you on the tearing up thing. I definitely was. Then leave it to Eamon to make me laugh. When he said he saw her shaking it and is looking pretty f*cking hot 😂 not laughing cuz I think he's wrong cuz he's totally right but just the way he said it. They're all just such positive energies and I love them!

  • @karlamaynor5544
    @karlamaynor5544 2 года назад +43

    Man Eamon, I can only imagine how hard it was to be by yourself so much when Bec would need to sleep so much when she was going through all her treatments. You are a total rock, and so grateful for all the people that would visit you during that time. I know Lee was watching over you during that time.

  • @susancampbell8492
    @susancampbell8492 9 месяцев назад +3

    This is my favorite video I’ve ever watched. You all 4 are so touching And stunning humans. Thanks for this.

  • @marycatherineyork409
    @marycatherineyork409 2 года назад +62

    Raya, I am almost 50, married, with three children… One of the nicest things of growing older is the grace you develop for yourself. Body image doesn’t matter, other people’s opinions matter less, generally empathy increases, and your relationships matter more than anything else. It’s really nice, actually. Thank you for your videos.

    • @mandaleemilly6367
      @mandaleemilly6367 2 года назад +1

      I really love your comment. ❤

    • @rosaleejo
      @rosaleejo 2 года назад +4

      I’m over 60 and that grace continues to increase. Raya, you are beautiful. Curves are beautiful. (This is my first time watching your channel. I found you on Eamon and Bec, who I found through Kara and Nate.)

    • @marycatherineyork409
      @marycatherineyork409 2 года назад +1

      @@rosaleejo I look forward to it.

    • @lifewithlarsandsusie8315
      @lifewithlarsandsusie8315 2 года назад +1

      I agree! My belly isn’t very flat after having babies and it cracks me up how much my little kids love to rub it because it’s like bread dough. I try not to let it bother me because I know it’s not a big deal when I’m healthy.

  • @angelamouland8012
    @angelamouland8012 Год назад +2

    Although I have known Louis and Raya have been around as they've popped up in K&N and E&B videos but I have only started watching your videos in the last couple of days. It was obviously meant to be, as I really needed this today. I needed to see Bec and Raya's energy and care for each other. What a great video. Loving you guys collaborating together.

  • @ravinstates8055
    @ravinstates8055 2 года назад +45

    Raya, you are such a bright light in the world! Society has told us as women and mothers that we aren't good enough the way we are and that is such BS. I 100% relate to you and I have struggled with body image my entire life and the changes it went through in pregnancy and after were hard to deal with sometimes. It helped me to remember that my body was able to create a LIFE. How amazing is that? My body is the portal for a soul to come to this earth in. I wish we could see ourselves through the eyes of those who love us, it would heal us from the inside out. Love both of you and I am so grateful you are spreading love and happiness on this earth!

  • @embracewelleness
    @embracewelleness 2 года назад +19

    The vulnerability in this video is so amazing. Beautiful humans!!! The sharing of the feminine pressures of beauty standards, and masculine pressures of staying macho. Love you all! Thank you, as a Genxer, it's heartening to see younger generations embracing these concepts, and tossing the constructs out the window. Sending love and healing. 🙏💜😊🧘🏽‍♀️🕉 xoxo

  • @kels0jade6
    @kels0jade6 2 года назад +55

    Eamon breaking the tears and saying he saw Raya shaking it and she's looking pretty f*cking hot had me dying laughing. He's not wrong! But the way he said it was so dang funny!

  • @Denise-xm8mn
    @Denise-xm8mn 2 года назад +22

    So much of what you shared in this video needs to be heard by young people. Don’t wait to live your best life!!! Thank you all for sharing these wise truths.

  • @shannonmarieyogaandfitness2847
    @shannonmarieyogaandfitness2847 2 года назад +3

    Got so emotional when Bec was talking with Raya about body image, it was raw! Thank you so much for sharing! So many women feel the same way and its so refreshing to see you both talk so openly about it.

  • @Josherson
    @Josherson 2 года назад +8

    I cannot explain how much this group has helped me with my mental health over the years! I love you all so much and thank you so much for sharing a part of your lives with us!

  • @valarya
    @valarya 2 года назад +5

    This was fun!! Re: crying, I have a fascinating story for you. My son is trans and was born biologically female. During his teen years, before he began transitioning, he would cry at the drop of a hat... Cry when scared, when happy, when sad, etc etc. (so do I - I'm a weeper 😅), but he's now 4.5 years on Testosterone and says that it is almost IMPOSSIBLE for him to cry anymore. He just rarely does it or rarely feels the urge or tears welling up like previously. I find that incredibly validating, as a woman, that crying is just part of my biology! 🥰
    It is 100% hormone related. So no one beat yourself up ❣

  • @annawoof836
    @annawoof836 2 года назад +15

    I've paused the video to say this so I don't forget, Raya you've just made me cry because you've vocalised perfectly the horribly innate fear as a woman who has major insecurities around her body when it comes to pregnancy. But just know you are SO beautiful, inside and out. You are magic. And Thank-you. And also bravo to Bec for voicing what we all think of you. Big big love

  • @rainforestspirit
    @rainforestspirit 2 года назад +16

    I LOVE this! Please do more vids like this with others like Kara and Nate, Kristen and Siya, etc! I really enjoy having deep, meaningful conversations with others. Would love to hear what other deep questions you all enjoy talking about (and which questions were discussed at your wedding!). Can you please post your list somewhere?? Also, I cried when Bec reassured Raya about her outer and inner beauty. Would love to have more of these same moments with my friends.

  • @juliadaniels5396
    @juliadaniels5396 Год назад

    I'm sitting here in tears (throughout the entire video) but Raya-you are so beautiful. Having someone in your space that isn't a tiny woman has been so empowering for me. I've been battling some health issues, and weight gain has really been a huge depressing part of the journey for me. Seeing how beautifully put together you always are gave me hope that I can change a few things up and maybe feel pretty again. In that same way, Bec is ROCKING her new hair do...I know it must not have been easy, but you are GLOWING. Thank you all for sharing the meaningful stuff and making me think about some deeper,important things. Love you all oxox

  • @whereslucie
    @whereslucie 2 года назад +1

    AND you should all come to Sri Lanka, i think you'd all love it here! ❤

  • @ayeshagaikwad4500
    @ayeshagaikwad4500 2 года назад +8

    Thank you so much Raya for talking about body image. One of the reasons i gravitate towards your channel is because I see someone who looks like me in you. Someone who has curves and is GORGEOUS! It helps me picture myself traveling in the same way y'all do!

    • @RayaandLouis
      @RayaandLouis  2 года назад

      Ahh this makes me so happy!! Thank you Ayesha ❤️

  • @rachellec5703
    @rachellec5703 2 года назад +33

    Totally teared up in several places in this video. Love it. Love how vulnerable you allowed yourselves to be and to share that with us. I feel you on all the body image crap we go thru as women. It’s such a mind f*ck and so hard to feel as beautiful as we are because we’re told over and over how we are not beautiful if we have a tummy or hips or a booty and god forbid you have ALL the curves. 🙄 Raya, you are stunning just as you are!! As is Bec. And damnit, so am I!! 💪🏼 Love the comment to just dance and sing!! And, yes, just do the things!! ❤❤❤ And be opinionated about veganism!! It’s important! Lastly, the quote I carry with me is from the movie Strictly Ballroom, “a life lived in fear is a life half lived.” I’m taking the leap soon to live fully!! 💚

  • @whereslucie
    @whereslucie 2 года назад +1

    I really LOVE this video you guys have shared with us. I also find that deep conversations like this are so great, and can really connect with the people in the space. Absolutely brilliant guys, was a great listen to whilst i was chopping the veggies for dinner 🥰🌱

  • @lareekline8232
    @lareekline8232 2 года назад +1

    Raya and Louis, you are totally new to me, unlike Eamon and Bec whom I've been following for years. I'm definitely subscribing -- you are such a lovely couple and authentic individuals. I love your deep sharing!

  • @dianetreon
    @dianetreon 2 года назад +5

    I am nearing the end of this video and plan to rewatch it with pauses to answer each question for myself. Self-reflection and awareness is good for the soul.

    • @dianetreon
      @dianetreon 2 года назад

      I am also going to ask my sister these questions. Thank you all for this thoughtful video and for sharing your answers.

    • @RayaandLouis
      @RayaandLouis  2 года назад +1

      I love these ideas Diane!! I hope this led to some great self reflection and hopefully beautiful conversation with your sister 😊

  • @MadddyDawn
    @MadddyDawn 2 года назад +6

    Rays you obviously have a very special way about you. You seem very genuine and real. If someone/anyone judges you for your body and can’t see how beautiful you are inside and out you definitely don’t need that kind of person in your life.
    The video was great. I love getting know people through questions. Great idea.

  • @lins8753
    @lins8753 2 года назад +1

    This was so interesting! I've been watching Eamon and Bec for years and I feel like this video really dug so much deeper than we've seen before. Really beautiful video guys 💛 You guys are so awesome.

  • @wywk
    @wywk 2 года назад

    RAYA, You are BEAUTIFUL! I grew up feeling a lot of the same insecurities especially when it comes to my body. But as I got older I realised that this is my life, my story, my journey, I am the one in control about how I feel and how others or society makes me feel. Your soul shines and that's incredible. Sending you lots of love and light, keep smiling x

  • @kristinaking4351
    @kristinaking4351 2 года назад +1

    Really enjoyed the honesty, support, and embracing the beauty of each of you. I had the good fortune to come across Eamon & Bec on RUclips. They introduced me to Kara & Nate, Kinging It, and now you two beautiful people. I love the adventurous and caring spirits that you all have and consider it encouraging for me as a nomad and adventurer at heart.

  • @jamesballantyne8349
    @jamesballantyne8349 2 года назад

    I love the book 'Self-compassion' by Radhule weininger, in it she describes 7 self compassion practices, that include a mixture of meditation/ quick meditation practices, ive enjoyed following them, my other meditation practice is just to stop and look at the birds on the trees outside.

  • @annabellegettingwell1531
    @annabellegettingwell1531 2 года назад +1

    When anger comes from an unprocessed emotional trigger it’s reactionary. I’m working on that through the lifeline technique. It’s amazing! I would love sitting down with all of you and run lifelines. It’s really about raising consciousness, then recognizing you are in a reactionary state and course correcting by bringing yourself back to present time consciousness. I really love this dialogue and resonate with all of your different and unique personalities. 🤟🏻🤗

  • @Toonksbell43
    @Toonksbell43 2 года назад

    For meditation and how to keep the habit: I started this probably a year ago and it helped me get through depression and horrible anxiety. I find either an app like Headspace, or just use guided meditations on youtube and try to find ones that suite how much time I have available to do the meditation. So sometimes I only have like 10 minutes before I had to get my day going but taking that time is more important than not doing it, so it was finding something that I could adapt to the time frame I had. When I had more time at my disposal like on a weekend I would do 20 to 30 minutes at first and then eventually an hour. I think it is also not pressuring yourself to be able to do a whole hour long meditation because "thats what youre supposed to do" meditation is meditation, and it can be difficult at first for your brain to shut off and do the meditation if you arent used to it. So I highly recommend easing yourself into it, finding a time that is most convenient every day to do it (like right in the morning or right before bed) and then just adapting to whatever time frame you have and not punishing yourself if you dont see benefits right away.

  • @girlandtheglambo9870
    @girlandtheglambo9870 2 года назад

    The way Eamon hypes up the women around him, and how Bec is there for it....UGH love ya

  • @99elizabeth
    @99elizabeth 2 года назад

    Love hearing you talk openly about plant medicine! would love to hear more about your experiences, especially Eamon and Bec as I’ve watched their channel for a long time and not heard them talk about it before.

  • @freetowandernow
    @freetowandernow 2 года назад +4

    I love these conversation videos. Maybe one day you guys could film a behind the scenes "how we make a plan come together over the longer term. So capture the planning, booking, logistics and though process behind the activities and then the actual event. The coming babe only adds to the fun, of course! My quote would be "One crowded hour of glorious life is worth an age without a name"

  • @carlagat1075
    @carlagat1075 Год назад

    Bec is so encouraging and inspirational. You guys are all so great. I'm going to binge watch you guys.

  • @Youtube_user_nhvrxdhn
    @Youtube_user_nhvrxdhn Год назад

    I love how Bec really supported you Raya and mentally and physically touched you to feel that you are loved because of your soul. There is a way to train selflove. Just look in the mirror and really imagine the person you see in the mirror is a super good friend that you deeply love no matter what and than watch your thoughts. You don‘t have to be beautiful to deserve love and you don’t have to be thin to deserve love and you actually don’t have to be anything to deserve love like now your baby also deserves love for just his soul, not more or less. ❤️

  • @toodleloozaz500
    @toodleloozaz500 2 года назад

    LOVE this gathering. Thank you all for your your transparency. Bec..I especially love your therapist challenge...Let yourself be enough. Wow!!! Love you all.

  • @YellowElevenPhoto
    @YellowElevenPhoto 2 года назад +2

    Raya I’ve had insecurities all my life too. I have two boys and my body is larger and different now than before, but I feel so much more gratitude towards my body now for all it has done to grown, birth and feed two humans. The imperfections truly do not get to me like they did before having children and I hope that’s your experience too. I think age also helps. We gain perspective on these things and continue to undo the beliefs that have been ingrained in us for so long. I paused the video to comment this because I see you and feel what that “stew” of insecurities feels like, but you are so beautiful inside and out. Lots of love your way.
    And Bec. Wow. You give such encouraging and beautiful and true words so effortlessly. What an awesome group of people!

  • @carolemurray4532
    @carolemurray4532 2 года назад

    Such a moving video. You really come alive with the revealing questions and make me feel I know you even better. Thanks.

  • @crystalwoods6156
    @crystalwoods6156 2 года назад

    This was such a great video... and of course you all made me cry. I would love to see you all take Eamon and Bec to see ur new home in Costa Rica and maybe a meditation retreat. If the breath work affected you so much I can imagine what it would do for Eamon! All the love!

  • @jamesballantyne8349
    @jamesballantyne8349 2 года назад

    Just so love this video, all 4 of you, so much vulnerability here, proving that Brene Brown, that Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation and creativity is accurate, thank you for sharing all of you, and for leading and inspiring vulnerability

  • @WonderRachy
    @WonderRachy 2 года назад +1

    Hearing Raya speak about her emotional struggle with body image/issues resonated 100% with how I've felt my whole life, before, during and after 2 pregnancies. And as we are always our own worst critics, it is so easy to speak hurtful words about ourselves and what we think are flaws. But Bec totally nailed it, you are so absolutely gorgeous, inside and out. You truly are so beautiful, and then add to that your amazing energy, and you truly are a goddess Raya 💙 and again Bec just nailed it saying we all hope you find the day where you can look at yourself and see everything those who love you do. 20years post pregnancy and I am still learning how to love my body, you are totally not alone 💖

  • @jvm1059
    @jvm1059 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing, it was nice to meet you (over video) I have came across your channel from Eamon and Bec’s channel. I appreciate how open you lol are with each other I was blessed to watch Eamon and Bec’s journey since the start of Covid in 2020…. I will be watching your journey as you upload the videos
    Sending you 4( Raya and Louie, Eamon and Bec) greetings from the other side of the world (New Zealand)…. Stay safe and Hope you have a good week 🙂

  • @HighHopesHizzy88
    @HighHopesHizzy88 2 года назад

    Thank you for having this awesome conversation. You're all such beautiful people spreading joy to the world, both RUclips and otherwise!

  • @daleamcallister284
    @daleamcallister284 2 года назад

    @ Thread 8:38 My Father mostly and Mother taught me that there is beauty and good in every human being thus fortunate for me I've lived my life in just that manner!

  • @navmoon22
    @navmoon22 2 года назад

    Loved watching this video 💜 Everyone's energy is beautiful!!
    A tip for getting into a regular practice of meditation: I've been practising on and off for 10 years (I'm 27 now), but have been more consistent with my practice everyday since May 2021. I decided to do a meditation course (Mindspo) and it was so helpful in learning where to place my meditation practice in my day. Swing it off the back of something you do without fail everyday, key point: IN THE MORNINNN 💜It's the best time to do it as you will not have experienced too much external stimuli. I brush my teeth, get some hot water and jump in! I now use the headspace app too for some shorter mediation practices. There are also sooo many on guided practices on RUclips too. But if you want to try a mantra meditation, I highly recommend picking a mantra and if you need some sound - listen to some wavy meditation sounds.
    Happy meditating 💜🌿🌺

  • @erinandsi4963
    @erinandsi4963 2 года назад +3

    Raya, you are going to make such an excellent mother. I am also self conscious, and had big concerns with how I was going to feel/look post-partum. I have a 9 month old now and feel so amazed and impressed by my body- nourishing from an egg to this tiny human and then (as a breastfeeding, absolutely no pressure- fed is best at the end of the day) as a breastfeeding mom till 6 months sustaining him from solely my body. Women's bodies are so incredible, I hope you get to experience the shockingly wonderful body positivity and further gratitude I have gained from pregnancy/motherhood! xx

  • @krisse966
    @krisse966 2 года назад

    I do not know Eamon personally, but I have feeling (purely based on RUclips videos) he is a very sensitive induvidual. Something in his childhood must have taught him that showing emotions is dangerous/wrong. Anger is just there to rescue him from feeling hurt/shame/disappointment/sadness/fear. I think being uncomfortable alone and loving adrenaline is also about avoiding some emotions he has. Someone close to me had this "problem" as well, untill he went to therapy to work on that initial trauma that caused this (it doesn't necessarily need to be anything dramatic, just adults saying "don't cry" is enough for children to learn it's not ok to show emotions) and worked on letting himself feel those initial feelings. He was very overwhelmed at first when he started letting feelings come but now he has this inner calmness and is way happier!

  • @adamsfamily2124
    @adamsfamily2124 2 года назад

    You all warm my heart so much. Must see coloma cottages. It's quiet and peaceful and gold rush history is cool. But in general just the quiet space I think you guys would enjoy. Oh and white water rafting. I'm having my wedding there in Oct.:)

  • @isabellawalton2265
    @isabellawalton2265 2 года назад

    I love this videooooo - in regards to question about meditation/healthy habits, I really recommend starting a GRATITUDE JOURNAL!! Taking even just 10 minutes at the start of your day to write down at least 5 things you are grateful for, bring yourself back to your breath and say THANK YOU - thats the only prayer/meditation that you'll ever need: thank you. The power of gratitude is incredible and not only does being grateful make you happy, it attracts happiness around you. Love you guys so much, you are such an inspiration, all of you. So on that note, thank YOU guys, you're definitely going in my gratitude journal tonight! :)

  • @matildamatildaaa
    @matildamatildaaa 2 года назад +1

    bec is so smart, we already know that, but to hear her talk deep again. I feel that she has the right words for everything

  • @kathyc6698
    @kathyc6698 2 года назад

    One of the best videos I’ve seen in a while!, love Eamon and Bec and now Louis and Raya.!

  • @vanessasaimbert5273
    @vanessasaimbert5273 2 года назад

    I loved every second of this vlog. I smiled laughed and cried with y’all. I even paused the video after each question and answered out loud. Great thought provoking questions. I hope to find friends like you some day.

  • @ayda7544
    @ayda7544 2 года назад +3

    Bec talking about Raya’s beauty was my favourite part. Women lifting each other up. 👑 That’s what the world needs more of. ❤️ Also, I think Eamon would have some insights in Gabor Mate’s books. (i.e not liking alone time) Much love from Canada!

  • @TaylsTay
    @TaylsTay 2 года назад +1

    RAYA, you're a beautiful person, inside and out, I showed your videos to my mom and she hasn't seen this one yet, I know she'd cry. my mom talks about how beautiful you are 💜💜💜

  • @AndyandRachel
    @AndyandRachel 2 года назад +3

    Awwww yay! Meditation changed my life! I’m so glad you guys are going on a meditation journey! Last winter when I took a virtual class “how to meditate” I meditated every day with a mindfulness practice given to me by the instructor to start my day and I never had more insights and general peace to start my days and it was in the dead of winter when my mind can be harder to settle. Would be happy to set you up with the meditation coach that changed my life ❤

    • @maschahelena
      @maschahelena 2 года назад +1

      Omg I would actually LOVE to hear more about this! How did you find your meditation coach?

    • @AndyandRachel
      @AndyandRachel 2 года назад

      So I actually found her because she lives near me and was in a local women’s entrepreneur group with me and I did a Photoshoot for her. When I decided it was time for me to take her “learn to meditation class” she let me know there was a virtual option which was amazing because I started meditating in my own space with a coach. Epic!

  • @AbandonedCanada-333
    @AbandonedCanada-333 2 года назад

    I loved this video! I could literally listen to all of you talk all night.

  • @maklis97
    @maklis97 2 года назад +5

    This was a beautiful video ❤️ There were a lot of points that I strongly related to and I am grateful to you for letting us hear your thoughts. I hope every Sunday that I will someday get to have these conversations with you in person

  • @alannagilmore8982
    @alannagilmore8982 2 года назад +1

    Oh Raya I wish I could hold you right now! You are so beautiful, it shines from your soul and makes the whole room beautiful!

  • @magdalenanikolovska9892
    @magdalenanikolovska9892 2 года назад

    I love everything about this video. You all are lovely people with wonderful energy. Seeing you together just bumps up the joy. Thank you for your vulnerability and for sharing this magic. Sending you all so much love ♥

  • @lilyw9324
    @lilyw9324 2 года назад

    You're absolutely beautiful Raya, inside and out ❤❤ You're a shining light and I agree with what Bec said 100% - and Bec you are so beautiful as well - such amazing people you all are 💗

  • @elizabethtaylor4448
    @elizabethtaylor4448 2 года назад

    This is one of the best videos I have seen. You made me think so much . However there's one thought I cannot get out of my head, Aemon & his helicopter🤣🤣🤣🤣. I think we have all had those moments & if you haven't get on with it. That baby's going to have such wonderful parents. I cannot wait to see it all happen should you wish to share. Love & blessings. X

  • @ldoolan494
    @ldoolan494 2 года назад

    Who says your body will never be the same! I have two children I didn’t think that way or buy into that. I couldn’t wait to be pregnant and nursing after many miscarriages. It is good practice to not believe others experiences. I encourage you to create your own things. May you be Blessed on your lovely new journey 👼🏼💜

  • @Top_hat_vrgt
    @Top_hat_vrgt 2 года назад +2

    Oh Raya. I totally feel you. I get everything you are saying so deeply. But my goodness, you are so beautiful. Thank you for being so brave to share how you feel.

  • @Jen_Rose426
    @Jen_Rose426 2 года назад

    Well I was crying through this whole video…. I follow all you guys and have for a long time… I love the raw emotion and honest answers you all gave. THANK YOU!!! ❤

  • @liannearsenault
    @liannearsenault 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video. I paused after each question to answer them for myself. I cried hard at a few and had some very unexpected realizations. Took me about an hour and a half to actually finish the video lol. ❤❤❤

  • @loriwentz8447
    @loriwentz8447 2 года назад +1

    I just love you guys !!!!! Soooooo positive!!! It is honestly refreshing to watch!!! ❤️❤️

  • @quinnpatterson6111
    @quinnpatterson6111 2 года назад +1

    Love seeing you all so happy together, Thx for sharing 😊❤

  • @cynjim88
    @cynjim88 2 года назад

    21:02 Bec… same moment for me! 😂 specifically when we were camping in our tent we were so happy to be there (camping in the woods is our happy place) my husband did that and I actually caught it on camera! Just thinking about it and smiling & giggling!

  • @serenasneddon
    @serenasneddon 2 года назад

    LOVED this video!!! I LOVE deep topics, please make more videos like this 💙 especially with Eamon and Bec or other friends!!!

  • @andreaewert7204
    @andreaewert7204 2 года назад

    Wow! Amazing watching you all interact! So much love and support for each other! My quote is from my Grandpa he would write to my mom when she was in nursing school "Don't give up the ship" My mom passed it along to me. For us it ment we had it in us to conquer anything good or bad that was thrown at us! 🥰

  • @stacybroussard3097
    @stacybroussard3097 2 года назад

    What An AMAZING Video!!! I love the Rawness and transparency of All of your Answers to the Questions.... It's not Easy being Vulnerable, but y'all were...Thank you Louis and Raya and Eamon and Bec!! Wishing you all The Blessings and Love in the World, and would love to see more videos of you All in the future... Louis,Raya, Eamon and Bec, You are All so loving, caring and kind... We need more people like you in this world 🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @elisabethvanhouten2914
    @elisabethvanhouten2914 2 года назад

    This video is amazing! You all sharing and being so open is really inspiring. Beautiful people inside and out.

  • @nicandtris
    @nicandtris 2 года назад

    Love this. Two of my favourite couples. You all come across as such lovely people 🥰 Bec and Raya, you are such gorgeous people and Louis and Eamon are wonderful partners, seeing and supporting and adoring you both as they do.

  • @IfSheLovesYou
    @IfSheLovesYou 2 года назад

    "What do you want?" - so simple, yet so effective (especially if you hear it when you're open to being honest with yourself about it).

  • @1927su
    @1927su 2 года назад

    Thank you for doing this! I think it provokes those of us watching, to ask ourselves or each other “ questions “, and it demonstrates that it’s ok to share & not sit in judgment of somebody else! Please do more of these upon occasion!

    • @RayaandLouis
      @RayaandLouis  2 года назад

      Thank you!! I’d love to do more of these 😊 having these deep raw chats is one of my passions and I do it off camera all the time but it’s great to do on camera sometimes!

  • @ellencutspaper571
    @ellencutspaper571 2 года назад

    Really enjoyed experiencing this conversation with you. Bec talking wanting to spend time with her parents and grandparents at the same ages. Truly the spirit is willing and the body is unable is a giant suckfest as we age but in our minds we picture ourselves as we were about then. I appreciate your group’s positivity in general and enjoy sharing in your experiences. Keep living in the moment!

  • @Lilehlow
    @Lilehlow 2 года назад +2

    When I was pregnant I hated the fact people commented how big I was getting. I had worked hard for years to achieve body neutrality and it all crashed down I felt so self conscious because people kept bringing it up. After birth my body is a similar size to pre pregnancy but looks different I still have a small belly, like I did pre pregnancy, plus stretch marks and loose skin. But I am now in a place where those things are impossible to be uncomfortable with because I know that these marks and forms gifted me my son. I feel like I've transitioned past neutrality and really value my body more than I ever did before.

  • @hannahgunter3552
    @hannahgunter3552 2 года назад

    Extraordinary. Truly. Thank you so much for your vulnerability and honesty 🙏♥️ Beautiful ♥️🙏

  • @annieecklor2976
    @annieecklor2976 2 года назад

    I never wanted this video to end. The vibe you guys have is beautiful! ❤

  • @taykah1256
    @taykah1256 2 года назад +1

    Legit everyone needs an Eamon and Bec in their lives! I loved Eamons comment about how hot Raya is! Takes a strong man to complement another man’s wife. Huge props to Louis also for letting Eamon say that too! These guys are amazing 💖💖💖

  • @chels3429
    @chels3429 2 года назад

    Aww, love you all! I follow allllll of you! The four of you, Kara and Nate, Sailing La V, etc! Raya, you beautiful soul! You GLOW everyday, and shine, like the soul you are. This baby is so lucky to have chosen you as Mom, and Louis as Dad. I am so elated you were able to sit down with Eamon and Bec, and do this! You all are so fun to watch, and I look forward to whatever adventures you all decide to do in the future!

  • @Juliathehealthgirl
    @Juliathehealthgirl 2 года назад

    I’m crying , from here We love you Raya. You inspire me to travel and enjoy life .

  • @NoitsBecky.
    @NoitsBecky. 2 года назад

    Yall are amazing people. I'm so glad I follow all of yall and have seen your journeys. Raya and Bec you're both golden 💛

  • @rentedspace7462
    @rentedspace7462 2 года назад

    When Louis said about being tight and anxious as a child I felt that.
    I always tried to be what others wanted.
    I’m 44 and unfortunately I still find myself Doug that.
    However this year I’m less inclined to care what others want and do what I want.

  • @bohoxplorer840
    @bohoxplorer840 2 года назад +2

    Travel Idea. All of you in the cabin with lil one. So Eamon and Bec can see what parenthood is like❤

  • @imshaehen9971
    @imshaehen9971 2 года назад +1

    I swear I could've listened to more...not sure why I cried during some of the answers but yea I cried. Perhaps because I understood the reasons why I hold myself back from my full potential. Gotta get my youtube started for real this time. Oh.. you guys are wonderful and I would love to meet y'all! Xoxo from Dallas Texas ❤️

  • @fawnsells4372
    @fawnsells4372 2 года назад

    Ahhhhhhh... I see your humanity.... and it's absolutely beautiful.

  • @melissapritchett6929
    @melissapritchett6929 2 года назад +2

    Oh, sweet Raya!! Having that sweet baby is going to be so much more important when they get here!!

  • @fletcherchambliss1590
    @fletcherchambliss1590 2 года назад +2

    I’m old…..I also was worried about what people thought of me. After living longer….most people don’t think about you at all. 😂 only care about the thinking of the people you value. No one else really matters.

  • @janisjones1766
    @janisjones1766 2 года назад

    Raya thoughts are the same as so many others. Thank you for being vulnerable!

  • @joannebader7906
    @joannebader7906 2 года назад

    What a beautiful conversation with beautiful people. I find it amazing that I started following both of you couples through “Kara and Nate “ and added “Kinging it “ as well. You 4 couples are destine to be friends forever. True life long friends. This video Raya hit me hard as I have lived with your same body image insecurities my whole life and I’m 59. Your generation is strong, voiced and encouraging. I always say if I could roll back time I’d travel the world and be brave. 🤔maybe I should start now as I’m just retired from nursing. You are all so beautiful. Never doubt that❤️❤️❤️. Love your honesty and videos🥰

  • @chevonnemahon8965
    @chevonnemahon8965 2 года назад

    You are all such wonderful loving caring inspirational people.
    Love watching all of your videos. Keep up the great work guys
    Love from australia

  • @claravonessen5673
    @claravonessen5673 2 года назад

    I really loved this video... Bec, Eamon, Louis and Raya: you should all make a trip together for a week through Costa Rica on your vans! I would love to see that happening ;)

  • @SkysTheLimet
    @SkysTheLimet 2 года назад +1

    Raya, as someone who has also always struggled with body image, and worried about how my body would change with pregnancy. I can say that after having two kids, yes it does change and there is some adjusting, BUT you feel so powerful. You create life, you birth your baby! Learn to look at your body for all the amazing things it has done for you, and bringing new life into this world really helps you see that. You start to see it for how amazing it is and YOU are! Youre beautiful, especially on the inside and that to me matters the most!

  • @jeanetteaughe2628
    @jeanetteaughe2628 2 года назад

    Raya you are such a beautiful woman. Please don’t let society dictate how you feel about yourself! You have so much courage and I admire your honesty. My physical body is not what society deems as beautiful, but I am trying to embrace who I am and dam anyone who won’t accept me. Thank you for letting us see YOU and your loving spirit💕

  • @marielpindar6312
    @marielpindar6312 2 года назад

    I love this so much!! You’re both such amazing couples! I felt Raya so much with being pregnant and the society being against us and having to get right back to like normal! You’re such an inspiration!! 💕

  • @Kazstevens
    @Kazstevens 2 года назад

    I absolutely adore people like you four! Just beautiful souls 💖

  • @sophiem5921
    @sophiem5921 2 года назад

    Isn't it strange how we view ourselves? Raya, the first thing I thought when I stumbled across this channel is how beautiful (inside and out) you are! Four beautiful souls on that couch 😊

  • @kerenmoynihan7955
    @kerenmoynihan7955 2 года назад

    Hey guys - have you been to Iguacu Falls? In all our travels it was the top place - falls, double tiered, butterflies land on you... pure magic on earth.

  • @kirstyboothway3351
    @kirstyboothway3351 2 года назад

    Always love these videos!! Deep connection and openness. Reflection and being there for one another. Can’t wait to see all the adventures you guys go on xo