Hello from Indiana, USA, Vincent! It’s been a long time since I last posted a comment. I benefited greatly from your great content, I kept up no contact, and got over my ex with both comfort and great advice, smoothly and in much less time than I thought possible. Following what you teach, I was able to sort through my feelings, reason through the breakup, and realize that my ex wasn’t who I thought she was, and wasn’t for me. No contact did get her to try to get in touch with me again, by the way, although following your teachings that wasn’t the point of my being in no contact. Today I am in a happier place, engaged in a much better relationship with a much better and much more compatible, wonderful woman. Thank you, Vincent, for the work you do. I benefited from it greatly, and I highly recommend that people listen carefully to your teachings and follow them. They cannot fail to benefit from them, to achieve peace, and to find a better relationship, whether with their ex when they come back around, as they overwhelmingly do, or with a new and better love, in a new and better relationship. Wishing you the best, in business and in life! Have a couple of coffees on me, with my gratitude!
Hi John, thank you so much for your kind words and generosity. It’s fantastic to hear you are living a happy and fulfilling life. Remember to keep pushing forward and to never be complacent. Make each year better than the last. Stay focussed and positive.
Been broken up for about a month since initial brake up. Reached out a few times via phone call and text. Long story short she randomly mesages me to not conact her again that cant give me anymore time and she needs it for herself. I could respond back. Didnt break my silence. Leaving it where it lies 💔
I did this. Met a good person whom I’m dating now. Still hate it that my ex discarded me. He wasn’t even on my radar but put in the effort to get me back… only to discard me again. Was crushed. Still am. Over a year later. But I’m trying my best to move on.
It’s been over 100 days since my gf broke up with me. I miss her like crazy still but I’m proud of myself for improving in every way that I can. I’m more confident and happy but I still have this hole in my heart for her. I never once reached out the entire time but she has and still does about once a week, mostly breadcrumbs. Should I continue to do nc and wait for her to come back? I feel like I need to do something, I’m still deeply in love with her and want to give her the space she needs but maybe she’s too stubborn or shy to say something. I don’t see myself being with anyone else, I tried a couple weeks ago. I was talking to another girl but I couldn’t stop thinking about my ex the entire time.
I was in a similar situation, but in my case I had to walk away due to her behaviour. I reached out to her after 4 months and she was still mad at me, but I gave it that try and now I'm in peace with myself not reaching out to her anymore.. Do it for you, not for her, try to talk to her once and just once, and if it doesn't work out then just move on as I did, and trust me, you can and you will move on.
I understand your situation, my friend. It can be difficult when you still have strong feelings for someone. However, as a man, your self-respect, should never be sacrificed just "for the 'love' of a woman". That is one of the last things that you have, that you must protect at all costs, and no woman is ever worth, having her humiliate you, especially after she dumped you. My advice...stay in NC and gauge her level of sincerity. If you think she is playing games or is being insincere, don't fall for it. If her messages sound genuine, you can respond, but you should respond with caution, and not sound like you are hurting without her presence. You should sound neutral, confident and non-committal. If she continues to play games, that may be a sign that you should probably move on and start thinking about possibly dating other women. After your 3.5 months of NC, I would probably try and make a final decision about her before the time you get to the 6 month mark. Good luck and stay strong buddy.💪😁
It's been 9 months since I stopped substance abuse. It doesn't seem to have any effect on my ex. Does it mean she has given up on the relationship for life.
V were in no contacf for 2 months. N i didn't realize what to do in that period. So after 2 months when he came back I was the old climgy despo gf. N he again left. Its now that I understand what n how to improve myself but do u think he will come back??
Hello from Indiana, USA, Vincent! It’s been a long time since I last posted a comment. I benefited greatly from your great content, I kept up no contact, and got over my ex with both comfort and great advice, smoothly and in much less time than I thought possible. Following what you teach, I was able to sort through my feelings, reason through the breakup, and realize that my ex wasn’t who I thought she was, and wasn’t for me. No contact did get her to try to get in touch with me again, by the way, although following your teachings that wasn’t the point of my being in no contact.
Today I am in a happier place, engaged in a much better relationship with a much better and much more compatible, wonderful woman.
Thank you, Vincent, for the work you do. I benefited from it greatly, and I highly recommend that people listen carefully to your teachings and follow them. They cannot fail to benefit from them, to achieve peace, and to find a better relationship, whether with their ex when they come back around, as they overwhelmingly do, or with a new and better love, in a new and better relationship.
Wishing you the best, in business and in life!
Have a couple of coffees on me, with my gratitude!
Hi John, thank you so much for your kind words and generosity.
It’s fantastic to hear you are living a happy and fulfilling life. Remember to keep pushing forward and to never be complacent.
Make each year better than the last. Stay focussed and positive.
I’m really struggling with anxious feelings after the break up… my brain is struggling to re wire my life and environment to get used to her absence
Been broken up for about a month since initial brake up. Reached out a few times via phone call and text. Long story short she randomly mesages me to not conact her again that cant give me anymore time and she needs it for herself. I could respond back. Didnt break my silence. Leaving it where it lies 💔
You’re a good dude Vincent.
I did this. Met a good person whom I’m dating now. Still hate it that my ex discarded me. He wasn’t even on my radar but put in the effort to get me back… only to discard me again. Was crushed. Still am. Over a year later. But I’m trying my best to move on.
Exactly what happened with me and my ex ol lady
It’s been over 100 days since my gf broke up with me. I miss her like crazy still but I’m proud of myself for improving in every way that I can. I’m more confident and happy but I still have this hole in my heart for her. I never once reached out the entire time but she has and still does about once a week, mostly breadcrumbs. Should I continue to do nc and wait for her to come back? I feel like I need to do something, I’m still deeply in love with her and want to give her the space she needs but maybe she’s too stubborn or shy to say something. I don’t see myself being with anyone else, I tried a couple weeks ago. I was talking to another girl but I couldn’t stop thinking about my ex the entire time.
I was in a similar situation, but in my case I had to walk away due to her behaviour. I reached out to her after 4 months and she was still mad at me, but I gave it that try and now I'm in peace with myself not reaching out to her anymore..
Do it for you, not for her, try to talk to her once and just once, and if it doesn't work out then just move on as I did, and trust me, you can and you will move on.
I understand your situation, my friend. It can be difficult when you still have strong feelings for someone. However, as a man, your self-respect, should never be sacrificed just "for the 'love' of a woman". That is one of the last things that you have, that you must protect at all costs, and no woman is ever worth, having her humiliate you, especially after she dumped you. My advice...stay in NC and gauge her level of sincerity. If you think she is playing games or is being insincere, don't fall for it. If her messages sound genuine, you can respond, but you should respond with caution, and not sound like you are hurting without her presence. You should sound neutral, confident and non-committal. If she continues to play games, that may be a sign that you should probably move on and start thinking about possibly dating other women. After your 3.5 months of NC, I would probably try and make a final decision about her before the time you get to the 6 month mark. Good luck and stay strong buddy.💪😁
If she’s the one reaching out and not you, that’s a great sign dude. Take it slow make her laugh and fall in love with you again. Don’t act desperate
It's been 9 months since I stopped substance abuse. It doesn't seem to have any effect on my ex. Does it mean she has given up on the relationship for life.
V were in no contacf for 2 months. N i didn't realize what to do in that period. So after 2 months when he came back I was the old climgy despo gf. N he again left. Its now that I understand what n how to improve myself but do u think he will come back??
Love u babe
If my ex is moving to a different country (in 5 days)…is there hope?
How far apart are the countries?
U.K. and Sweden (we were meant to move together and breakup was end of Jan, also there has been messaging from both of us each month since).