Do this, instead of staying upset after a fight.
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- Опубликовано: 27 янв 2021
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if they dont come dint ask any like why you upset what to do
Sir what is the cost of your counseling
@Boston Khari does they charge
I on personal experience say
The harsh protest came into picture after many peaceful protests .. the mere fore granted and least care attitude however more irritating is their words which no mor has any value Bcz it’s always easier said n forgotten than make an effort to change ..
hard to digest that how one can not realise the difference wen the perosn they so called “love the most” is acting different 😂😂
How to cope up with a relationship with your husband whose relationship with his mother is enmeshed?
I can say one thing for sure ...everyone who saw this video and searched it ...def cared about their relationships genuinely ...thats is for sure ...cz no one would search how to solve problem bout relationship until n unless they care about it a lot ....stay positive yall hope yall get along with ur partners and stay happy for ur life 💖✨
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So generous....this made me smile
Thank you 😊
Or may be to settle our mental health out of all those relationship dramas
You are certainly a gem of a person Kritika🤗😇❤️ wishing the exact same thing to you🙌🏻
Wow beautiful comment by Kritika . Such a remarkable positive attitude. Keep it up . ❤
Staying upset with patner who loves u truly. Works out....becoz he will notice the difference and clear the prblm.. so dont get too much upset with wrong person it may lead to depression.... which is dangerous ...
True
True...
Absolutely true
Trur
Absolutely right
He is absolutely right. Everyone makes mistakes. Learn to forgive and forget. But the problem is too hurtful make sure to bring to his or her notice. So they don't do that thing again.
SIRRRR PEOPLE STAY UPSET BECAUSE THEY ARE HURT. AND THEY NEED TIME TO HEAL.. THEY NEED TIME TO TOLERATE THAT PERSONS BEHAVIOR
Where I'm at currently at right now😢
*Pain is Inevitable... Suffering is purely our Choice...🤷*
True
Love changes everything try to explain by action how much u love him/her , if he get understood , then happyness will rain on you
@@MazharSunil
Happiness is within us !!!
@@Madhra2k24 that's the most important point
Just the video I needed to watch today
Yes
Same yar...I am in relationship with a girl.... she loves me alot ...she does care...she always has my back...but we fight sometimes like idiots
Kmiiaàa
Me too
Mee too. Just right on time
Long term Block of communication creates negativity...So dont break communication ...
Thanks
Yeeee ik
True
Now a days, relationship lacks love and have high expectations. If there are too many fights and less good moments, then think again you won't get this life again and you didn't come on earth to fight with this person. Try to see bigger picture, then being caught up in little things. See what is important, your relationship or your ego/ fight.
In nutshell, if there is Love, then you will find a way. For Love, you need to have emotional connection with this person.
Love = Respect = Communication ( no abusive words ofcourse, good respectful communication without trying to showing ur partner down)
Awesome
Sadly but not everyone has that level of understanding.. No matter you protest Or you die... They have their set pattern of living life keeping the other at the worst.. Disturbed, distracted and what not? 🙏
This is a problem I noticed. It cannot be our responsibility to change someone who won't understand you. Reducing expectations and setting boundaries are the only options that actually work. It isn't our responsibility to make some one understand and at the same time , it isn't practical to wait for karma after an unfair encounter. This is very difficult but with conscious efforts everyday, i do believe someday I can be the source of every emotion of mine and not somebody else. Again, I'm not sure when that day will come :)
If their pattern doesn't agree with you, it will crop up all your life.
I would add, if improvements are not happening, do not invest yourself more in that relationship. Every unresolved issue should help you decide if you want to take a step back from such a relationship.
My husband also same . he don't bother if die also
@@MrVishalkankatala correct..we cannot make a person to understand. Instead we have to save our energy from them.
This is the situation I m going through right now.... I ve tried angered...I have tried silent method... I ve tried peaceful protest...but still she is stubborn...
Now seriously it's out of my patience. I just can't bear more. May be I m behaving stubborn. But it's my nature and personality. If I m doing each and everything for you... I can expect few basics from you right . I m giving you all importance values but can't I get a little.
Yar it's painful... It was the biggest mistake to get into a relationship .that too with completely opposite mentality girl.
If someone doesn't want to communicate then can't pressurise..This pandemic is not right time to fight and making communication gap.....But if someone doesn't want to understand this basic..We are helpless...may God help him and bless him with good health with prosperity
Completely agree with you!!!❤master level skills😄😄
You're right sir, I'm tired of her same temper everytime she makes me upset without any reason
When I stay upset for a valid reason,he blames for staying upset and spoiling his mood making me guilty,then I forget my own feelings and prioritize him and getting hurt again,any ideas to safeguard myself?
Yes same
You are not alone
Very true
my relationship is like this am currently working on putting myself first and focusing on me. my feelings matter too not just his. self respect ✊🏼 makes you more attractive
i guess thats the only i advice i can give xx
Can't agree more! Same to same..🙄🙏
Excellent inspite...loads of respect and likes. Thumbs up mate.
It's so practical and goal-oriented.Basically,its my natural way of protest,or I learned from life at some point, the tagline of the video gets my attention because I have to ensure it is the best way.Iam glad that I watched this.It was really helpful.
Very very clear and logical approach!!!
Thanks Sir, its uncanny ,but this is exactly what i needed right now ..God bless you ! Thank you.🙏
I feel like a lot of the housewife are in silent protests forever. It's a personal view.
Sure- without any result 😇
Two things happen...1. if we are cutting extra luxuries...they take it for granted...n try to cool us down... 2. If we r silent...their imagination is unpredictable...more questions...more of their doughts. What ever way u choose.... should come to the way which he wanted. All the credits goes to house wifes..
Exactly... housewives facing this again anad again .... without getting any solutions 😭
So true
I am sad in my situuation but this makes me laugh ...relationship is hard there is a bit of comfort in knowing we not alone and somebody understands
Extremely helpful for bringing clarity and showing a way out of a conflict! 👌 Big fan of your videos 👍
Really....u rVery intelligent man 🙏
Yes I agree and trying to protest peaceful.
Thank you for this important advice 🙏
Excellent stuff here!
I don't know, me and hubby can't stay upset with each other for more than 5 minutes. We try to directly make our point and follow 'let's agree to disagree' mantra. Before you ask, we have been together for 18 years.
U r lucky n he is also lucky to hve u
Same here
@@illegal5745 thank you dear 🤗
Appreciate
Very lucky dear it's totally opposite in my case
This is incredible video!!
Excellent video,thank you so much 👍
Really made me think in a new way. Thank you!
Ap kitne samajhdaar ho 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Aree...waaa...u nailed it ...exactly...
Very true, shridhar 👍
How to handle ego and attitude issues where both the partners have it in abundance & everytime it leads to furious fights???? Please come up with a video on this topic.
Well said..👏👏👏
word by word, this is exactly what he does. i keep trying to change things for the better between us but more fights would come up recently. and now he has me blocked saying he'll come back once he thinks im okay or done fixing myself
Really useful info, I never had such a good relationship advice like this, this is really going to help me, thnx a lot
I've never commented in any of the videos I watch in youtube except this channel ! Yes , of course it's very very helpful for many ...it's actually an higher level of thinking which u actually discuss here . True it's just classy sir 👍🏻!
Superb surely it will work out
Thank you very much Sir.. You hav Explained a Very important piece of matter in an ongoing relationship.. facing issues..
Superb technique... helps a lot to maintain healthy environment... But it needs lot of practice... yea..👍.. Thanks for making the video..
This video is very useful and convincing . Thank you Sir.
Thank you. Really helpful.
All of this will nly work... If the other person really understands this concept. Sometimes by being engaged people will take you for granted still...thinking oh it's all okay
Hope your videos will reach to all couples.Its really a professional approach to sort out the things.
Very beautiful.. And practical.. Approach.. When to avoid.. When to wait till the concern is addressed...
Thanks a lot ! For giving life points to sustain a better relationship
This is awesome
Very good advice. Thank you for your wise suggestions.
Thanks buddy really need this at this time
Thank u so much
Excellent thank you
Wow you are good thank you for this now I understand what’s going on with how I’m feeling
Wonderful sir 🙏
I needed this 2 years ago
How did you deal with this situation? Could you advise.
Excellent analysis
Your videos make good difference in my life thank you sir
Thank you 🙏
Excellent 👌
Great!
Great video great advice thanks
Sometimes people stay upset because they are hurt. If things were said that’s ere very hurtful it can feel like you have been gut punched. Even if you talk it through it can take a little while to heal.
U r awesome 🙌
Thank you...
Very Helpful
Thanks👍
Excellent lesson sir
Thanks a lot 💓
I am so lucky to see this video నేను స్వయంగా face చేసాను situation చివరగా మీరు చెప్పిన విషయాలు అలాగే నేను సాధించాను మీరు చెప్పింది వింటున్న పుడు అనిపిస్తుంది నేను కూడా బాగా నే ఆలోచించగలను అని 🤝
Excellent
This makes me curious to know about Shridhar's love life. Even before starting an argument he must be like "I know I know what's in your stomach".This guy knows it all 😂.
Thanks.. Its the middle of the night and i was just exhausted thinking about how i can get rid of this vicious cycle....
Thank you
Very true 👍
What will comes after this all only one person suffer the other is comforting in this whole situation .. If you cut down luxuries they will find it from somewhere else n you r making of fool to yourself for a long run n at the end accept where it will starts means no or not … what an approach 👏👏
Nobody is affected by this bec everything going through with only one person other is free from all
Your ideas are superb
U are awesome 👌
Its a good topic..👍
Very good content bro !! Please do create more videos
Thank you for this vedio
Sir whenever I do this goal oriented protest he eventually forgets that anything has happened and behaves everything has fine and gone back to normal
Lucky enough
True
When my do this, i hate it. They act like things have been normal and doing the same thing again which make me upset. And again act normal.
Not only that they enjoy to non emotional part
Nice one cleared many confusion thankyou :)
So good
Much related ....
to many ones 👌
Good noon sir 🌞,
Well said 👏.
Leaving the drastic issues..if we keep practicing in our mind that such issues happens..may we learn to live in flow..and let go off things.
Suupprhitt 👍👍🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌
I can't upset more than a minute.
Very much informative and helpful...thankfully i found your channel...😇
Superb
So true!!! 😂😂😂 I love this video ❤❤❤
Helped me a lot
Very practical
Super👌
Brilliant
Yup u r absolutely right
Hav done it all.
Been upset nd also been upset for long. But it hardly affects them for more than a mnt.
He hardly cares. Inspight of clear nd calm conversation s
Instead he may be happy that ur cool n calm..like in my case🙄
Thank u
Very helpful
Everything you said is sooo true, i’ve been married 52 years😳😳😳😳🤣🤣but what you said helped me a lot, you think by now i would know that, thanks for the great video.
Some scenarios mentioned here..might help ppl get ideas -How to stay upset...
When it's so enjoyable..the respective partner who is enjoying definitely has already planned an "alternative" to walk away from the partner who's ruined already by the so easily mentioned "punishment"
I born to be happy..
Great
Man...yu are so smart yaar✌