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Story 1: OP is not a jerk here, but the aunt sure is and the dad definitely is. The aunt is just an invasive mooch on everything, especially the dinner party here, and the dad is a massive enabler. Its one thing to want to include your extended family on many things, but the aunt sounds like nothing but trouble in many things. The dad should've 100% paid for the aunt's part of the dinner. He's the one who invited her and her kids along, not the OP. Why on earth should the OP have to foot the bill? He didnt invite her or her kids to this, much less offer to pay. Both the dad and aunt are jerks here, but i think the dad takes the cake for the biggest jerk here. Story 2: I think the OP shouldve started recording the SIL's horrible comments and lies towards the OP here, because i can guarantee that the SIL will deny anything and everything said if the OP confronted her or her brother here. The SIL is just a mean snag and snake. Hopefully the OP can find better housing after this. Story 3: Yeah that is quite amusing, but also pretty shallow by Kate here. Doesnt sound like you missed out on much here. Story 4: Ok, this guy is in some major need of anger management or therapy or something.... otherwise the OP needs to leave him. Its only a matter of time before this becomes physical.
Same but the way the narrator dragged her for no reason was uncool af. HE decided not to go on the third date so why is SHE the stuck up one for not having a third date? Like seriously blaming her because HE didnt want another date. The OP even said that its was cool that they had different senses of humor. The OP called off the relationships but somehow shes a stuck up bitch?
No way OP is the jerk. If anything the dad is the jerk for secretly inviting the aunt and kids and expected them to pay it. If the OP ever wants to do something like that again, and that's a big If now, the rule needs to be said, don't invite the entitled aunt under no circumstances.
Dude OP in story 2 should tell him what his wife said. Especially since she's saying stuff that's not entirely true- By all means, set up a safety net so you're not homeless if things go south, but the guy needs to know how his wife is and how she's conditioning their daughters to be.
The dad knew what he was doing and tried to gaslight the OP. He asked for a bigger table because he knew the OP didn’t know the aunt was coming, then asks why they offered to pay. He’s acting ignorant but he’s fully aware of what he’s done and is just shifting the blame. He probably only invited them because he thought he wouldn’t have to pay and put up with their selfishness. In the OPs shoes I’d have asked for the original table since I hadn’t invited them. If the dad put up a stink, make it clear that I wouldn’t be paying for them as that wasn’t what was agreed upon
His father invited them, he should pay for them. It should have been discussed prior if he expected the son to pay. Freeloaders always run up a bill when they are being treated. Such bad manners.
Haircut story - my late husband had a similar incident. He had left his clippers at his mother's so he borrowed a friend's. He was shaving in uneven rows and suddenly the clippers died! It was late at night so he had to wait till morning and try again. Well the clippers were old and didn't charge so he had to call his mom to bring his over cuz he would not leave the house to go get them! His hair looked like he had stripes on his head! 😂😂
Second story, girl, go back to school, get your stuff together, and get out! My husband passed in January, and I had to move home, and that's what I'm currently doing. I'm actually sitting in the parking lot of the college now about to go in and register. I'm 40, you can do it, and it's NEVER too late to go back to school.
reminds me of my own entitled aunt, she tricked my father into evicting me and my mother, and we're homeless for months, thankfully she got out of my house after everyone finding the truth, and tried faking the tears in hopes of staying, yet none of us was buying it, so good riddance.
On the very unlikely chance Kate from the haircut story is reading this: Sooooo, did you just sit on the stick, or did you have a professional shove it up there for you?
Wow judging a girl for not liking his hair is ridiculously. Just say you hate women. HE decided not to go on the third date. It was HIS decision. Stop blaming her for HIS choice
@@lolarichter9415 She didn't dislike his hair, because it's impossible to dislike something *you never actually saw.* I'm judging her for her complete fucking lack of a sense of humor. And frankly, even if he'd been willing to go on a third date, I'm quite certain she wouldn't have gone for it, considering how embarrassed she was to be seen with him. But I don't blame him in the slightest for not wanting to go on a third date with a humorless shrew. Also, make sure you stay hydrated! Lots of strenuous exercise, including jumping, is very thirsty work. And you just jumped to a hell of a lot of conclusions, to come up with an impression that I hate women.
op's boyfriend is like my high school friend, but he can't control his emotions, always saying sorry to me for no reason at all and keeps on taking his anger issues out on me, like i did something wrong to him.
That first story is gross. Dude I felt bad when I wanted onion rings from BK yesterday when my parents were paying and ended up using some crowns to get them for free.
That last story is insane to me. How can op say they loved their bf but then says they have ptsd from his outbursts. That’s not love, unfortunately that’s enablement. When I spill something, I curse up a storm cause it obviously sucks but I don’t yell at my gf over soda; I say “hey babe, can you toss me some paper towels?” It’s not hard to ask for something instead of verbally abuse
Story one: NTA, op’s dad is a major ahole and I doubt he “ let it slip” and more told his wicked sister about the plans I wouldn’t be surprised if down the line he continues to pull this stunt , and I fear that once the grandparent passes on that this aunt will sell everything she can get her hands on
my brother whenever he decides he wants a haircut i always tell him to keep his hair the way it is bc he'll hate the result like usual and everytime he gets one he hates it and jokes about looking like a lesbian each time
The the first story OP let your father know that next time he won't be invited since he insist on inviting your aunt and her children and you paying for them.
The last story: Oh. Where to begin? It seems to me as though OP was helping her boyfriend was her knight in shining armor but instead he, given the tenure of this post, is nothing more than an overgrown man-child douchebag covering up his series of red flags with tin foil. Screw couples therapy. She needs to break up with him. This kind of incidents tend to cluster and escalate up to and including but not limited to physical abuse and isolation so isn't escape route is it possible. I got goosebumps and my heart race just listening to the story. The fact that she's already making excuses for him and accepting his horrible behavior as normal is another red flag. His poor temperament comes off more like a toddler who hasn't learned how to regulate their emotions yet. Flying off the handle over some mishap and then yelling at her like it's her fault? Nope. Being made to feel guilty when she's not in any way to blame? Nope, nope. Being on high alert, ready for the next blow up, to the point that she feels like she's getting PTSD over being simply in close proximity to him? Nope, nope, nope. If the circumstances were different, I'd be on board with the idea of couples therapy, but that's not the case here at all. Couples therapy would suggest there could be something worth saving and there might be a possible future together. This man does not need a girlfriend. He needs a therapist, but she isn't it.
Story 2: Honestly if that were my sister, and my wife (disregard my PFP it is from like 12 years ago and I was 18 when I took it) I would strongly prefer if my sister were honest with me. I would hope that someone I married had more class and love in their heart than that, and I would definitely want to know what kind of model she was acting as for my children, who I would hope I'd be raising to be more loving and caring about others than that. Frankly, the wife in that story seems like the kind of person who would only agree to help others to boost her own ego.
Story one: The biggest Jerk here is not the aunt, it's the father. He did invite the aunt without asking OP, so it should be on him to pay for her share of the bill, not on OP.
To judge Kate based on the story is the entitled thing, you don't know if the hair thing was the reason. But of course someone who doesn't have the same humor is always a red flag 🙄
Second story: So there is one thing i disagree with AITJ on regarding this story. OP is 100% a teaching moment of “what not to do”. No one should be engaging in sex if they cannot either abort (personally i disagree with this but hey i rather people have options) or take care of the children/child. At 15 OP cannot do the latter and im assuming they couldnt do the former. So yes, OP is 100% a lesson on what not to do and can be used as a teaching moment. With that said, making Op sound worse then they are is f*cked up and uncalled for and is 100% a jerk move.
No you're not a Jerk. Your Father and your Aunt are Jerks. First of all, your father invited your Aunt and her kids without telling you. Because of that, your Aunt expected you to pay for her expensive food. I know that you were willing to pay for food but that was because you didn't know that your dad invited his sister and her kids. He only told you when you were about to sit.
I be honest I think Story 2 they should all sit down cept the kids. I don't want to start a fight but it's not right to have people keep crao talking about you
I notice that when the narrator tells the story he always refers to kids as “stupid kids” which I find disrespectful. Listening to story #1 and you referred to the OP’s aunts children as “stupid kids” and they didn’t do anything wrong. The narrator needs to chill, and hopefully no one ever refers to your kids that way.
Im a bit offput by this narrator, he always calls the literal children that have little to nothing to do with the story "stupid" "bratty" or some other term
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ah yes, 6 days ago
Dawg how this 6 days ago😭
Story 1: NTA. The dad invited the extra people, HE should pay for them.
100% agree
i almost choked when he said 500.00 dollars.
@@viviennemorgan7217 500 plus actually.
Exactly what I was about to say 😂
The father is a dumbass 🤦 🙄
Story 1: OP is not a jerk here, but the aunt sure is and the dad definitely is. The aunt is just an invasive mooch on everything, especially the dinner party here, and the dad is a massive enabler. Its one thing to want to include your extended family on many things, but the aunt sounds like nothing but trouble in many things. The dad should've 100% paid for the aunt's part of the dinner. He's the one who invited her and her kids along, not the OP. Why on earth should the OP have to foot the bill? He didnt invite her or her kids to this, much less offer to pay. Both the dad and aunt are jerks here, but i think the dad takes the cake for the biggest jerk here.
Story 2: I think the OP shouldve started recording the SIL's horrible comments and lies towards the OP here, because i can guarantee that the SIL will deny anything and everything said if the OP confronted her or her brother here. The SIL is just a mean snag and snake. Hopefully the OP can find better housing after this.
Story 3: Yeah that is quite amusing, but also pretty shallow by Kate here. Doesnt sound like you missed out on much here.
Story 4: Ok, this guy is in some major need of anger management or therapy or something.... otherwise the OP needs to leave him. Its only a matter of time before this becomes physical.
Nothing you can do, your father is the one to blame.
Black napoleon-
The guy on the date with the bad haircut, i totally would have laughed with him. Poked some fun. Then ask if he'd let me fix it. Lol
Same but the way the narrator dragged her for no reason was uncool af. HE decided not to go on the third date so why is SHE the stuck up one for not having a third date? Like seriously blaming her because HE didnt want another date. The OP even said that its was cool that they had different senses of humor. The OP called off the relationships but somehow shes a stuck up bitch?
If a guest invited another guest to a plan then they have to pay for the invited person
No way OP is the jerk. If anything the dad is the jerk for secretly inviting the aunt and kids and expected them to pay it. If the OP ever wants to do something like that again, and that's a big If now, the rule needs to be said, don't invite the entitled aunt under no circumstances.
That first story is insane it's like no I'm not paying for them you invited them you pay for them
Your DAD can pay, since he's the one who invited them.
Dude OP in story 2 should tell him what his wife said. Especially since she's saying stuff that's not entirely true- By all means, set up a safety net so you're not homeless if things go south, but the guy needs to know how his wife is and how she's conditioning their daughters to be.
Tell your brother. He went and found you cause he cares and i am sure his heart would break to know what his wife is putting his childrens heads
NTJ. Your dad is. If you said it was for the people that live in the same house, your dad is responsible for the freeloading aunt's bill.
The dad knew what he was doing and tried to gaslight the OP. He asked for a bigger table because he knew the OP didn’t know the aunt was coming, then asks why they offered to pay. He’s acting ignorant but he’s fully aware of what he’s done and is just shifting the blame. He probably only invited them because he thought he wouldn’t have to pay and put up with their selfishness.
In the OPs shoes I’d have asked for the original table since I hadn’t invited them. If the dad put up a stink, make it clear that I wouldn’t be paying for them as that wasn’t what was agreed upon
Not the jerk but ngl that “And her stupid kids” felt like that was personal 💀
His father invited them, he should pay for them. It should have been discussed prior if he expected the son to pay. Freeloaders always run up a bill when they are being treated. Such bad manners.
Its dad's fault, he pays for the extra people.
Dad invited her and her children so he was responsible for her bill
Haircut story - my late husband had a similar incident. He had left his clippers at his mother's so he borrowed a friend's. He was shaving in uneven rows and suddenly the clippers died! It was late at night so he had to wait till morning and try again. Well the clippers were old and didn't charge so he had to call his mom to bring his over cuz he would not leave the house to go get them! His hair looked like he had stripes on his head! 😂😂
sorry for your loss
@@viviennemorgan7217thank you
Second story, girl, go back to school, get your stuff together, and get out! My husband passed in January, and I had to move home, and that's what I'm currently doing. I'm actually sitting in the parking lot of the college now about to go in and register. I'm 40, you can do it, and it's NEVER too late to go back to school.
reminds me of my own entitled aunt, she tricked my father into evicting me and my mother, and we're homeless for months, thankfully she got out of my house after everyone finding the truth, and tried faking the tears in hopes of staying, yet none of us was buying it, so good riddance.
On the very unlikely chance Kate from the haircut story is reading this: Sooooo, did you just sit on the stick, or did you have a professional shove it up there for you?
Wow judging a girl for not liking his hair is ridiculously. Just say you hate women. HE decided not to go on the third date. It was HIS decision. Stop blaming her for HIS choice
@@lolarichter9415 She didn't dislike his hair, because it's impossible to dislike something *you never actually saw.* I'm judging her for her complete fucking lack of a sense of humor. And frankly, even if he'd been willing to go on a third date, I'm quite certain she wouldn't have gone for it, considering how embarrassed she was to be seen with him. But I don't blame him in the slightest for not wanting to go on a third date with a humorless shrew.
Also, make sure you stay hydrated! Lots of strenuous exercise, including jumping, is very thirsty work. And you just jumped to a hell of a lot of conclusions, to come up with an impression that I hate women.
Story 4:he's basically ghastlighting you. He doesn't deserve you, and you deserve better.
Dad invited extra people he needs to pay
You don't need couple therapy, HE need therapy
And she needs therapy to understand what he is doing is abuse
18:35 that's some huge refrigerator to fit a pizza box
Depends on their size
Last story narcissist boyfriend using his girlfriend as an emotional crutch/scapegoat
No your Dad invited her and her kids so it was only right that he pay for their food.
Story 2. Only thing ur good at is a teaching moment. Cant do much, just suck it up and stand up. Best revenge is success
op's boyfriend is like my high school friend, but he can't control his emotions, always saying sorry to me for no reason at all and keeps on taking his anger issues out on me, like i did something wrong to him.
so i understand where she's coming from.
OP2: Nothing childish or petty about it. Tell him what kind of trash hid wife is
That first story is gross. Dude I felt bad when I wanted onion rings from BK yesterday when my parents were paying and ended up using some crowns to get them for free.
Story 1 and 2 yeah they both need to start the process of moving out of their current situation’s.
That last story is insane to me. How can op say they loved their bf but then says they have ptsd from his outbursts. That’s not love, unfortunately that’s enablement. When I spill something, I curse up a storm cause it obviously sucks but I don’t yell at my gf over soda; I say “hey babe, can you toss me some paper towels?” It’s not hard to ask for something instead of verbally abuse
Wow victim blaming much???
Story one: NTA, op’s dad is a major ahole and I doubt he “ let it slip” and more told his wicked sister about the plans
I wouldn’t be surprised if down the line he continues to pull this stunt , and I fear that once the grandparent passes on that this aunt will sell everything she can get her hands on
my brother whenever he decides he wants a haircut i always tell him to keep his hair the way it is bc he'll hate the result like usual and everytime he gets one he hates it and jokes about looking like a lesbian each time
Story 1, your dad should have paid for it since he invited them.
Give it up I have the high ground
Free food
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Ur dad's the one who invited them so he's the one that should pay the bill end of story...
The the first story OP let your father know that next time he won't be invited since he insist on inviting your aunt and her children and you paying for them.
story 1: OP needs to realize that the aunt sucks but the father is the true piece of crap.
Imagine inviting people and refusing to pay for them. The dad is the jerk here.
Break up with him immediately
3:18 yeah you aren't you didn't invite them that's all
The last story: Oh. Where to begin? It seems to me as though OP was helping her boyfriend was her knight in shining armor but instead he, given the tenure of this post, is nothing more than an overgrown man-child douchebag covering up his series of red flags with tin foil. Screw couples therapy. She needs to break up with him. This kind of incidents tend to cluster and escalate up to and including but not limited to physical abuse and isolation so isn't escape route is it possible. I got goosebumps and my heart race just listening to the story. The fact that she's already making excuses for him and accepting his horrible behavior as normal is another red flag. His poor temperament comes off more like a toddler who hasn't learned how to regulate their emotions yet. Flying off the handle over some mishap and then yelling at her like it's her fault? Nope. Being made to feel guilty when she's not in any way to blame? Nope, nope. Being on high alert, ready for the next blow up, to the point that she feels like she's getting PTSD over being simply in close proximity to him? Nope, nope, nope. If the circumstances were different, I'd be on board with the idea of couples therapy, but that's not the case here at all. Couples therapy would suggest there could be something worth saving and there might be a possible future together. This man does not need a girlfriend. He needs a therapist, but she isn't it.
Story 2: Honestly if that were my sister, and my wife (disregard my PFP it is from like 12 years ago and I was 18 when I took it) I would strongly prefer if my sister were honest with me. I would hope that someone I married had more class and love in their heart than that, and I would definitely want to know what kind of model she was acting as for my children, who I would hope I'd be raising to be more loving and caring about others than that. Frankly, the wife in that story seems like the kind of person who would only agree to help others to boost her own ego.
Story one: The biggest Jerk here is not the aunt, it's the father. He did invite the aunt without asking OP, so it should be on him to pay for her share of the bill, not on OP.
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Story 1 3:55 narration states kids are stupid. And the OP didn't diss the kids. 😂
To judge Kate based on the story is the entitled thing, you don't know if the hair thing was the reason. But of course someone who doesn't have the same humor is always a red flag 🙄
Also HE decided not to date her. It was HIS CHOICE
Second story: So there is one thing i disagree with AITJ on regarding this story. OP is 100% a teaching moment of “what not to do”. No one should be engaging in sex if they cannot either abort (personally i disagree with this but hey i rather people have options) or take care of the children/child. At 15 OP cannot do the latter and im assuming they couldnt do the former. So yes, OP is 100% a lesson on what not to do and can be used as a teaching moment.
With that said, making Op sound worse then they are is f*cked up and uncalled for and is 100% a jerk move.
Dad in the first story is a POS ford doing thay
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No you're not a Jerk. Your Father and your Aunt are Jerks. First of all, your father invited your Aunt and her kids without telling you. Because of that, your Aunt expected you to pay for her expensive food. I know that you were willing to pay for food but that was because you didn't know that your dad invited his sister and her kids. He only told you when you were about to sit.
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No you're not the jerk she came out you at had left field with the surprised that you didn't see coming so now you're not a jerk
Story1: yes u are absolutely the jerk
How is he the jerk
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I be honest I think Story 2 they should all sit down cept the kids. I don't want to start a fight but it's not right to have people keep crao talking about you
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You did Kate dirty. Why would you be mad at HER for not dating him when HE WAS THE ONE WHO MADE THAT CHOICE? Thats just woman hating
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I notice that when the narrator tells the story he always refers to kids as “stupid kids” which I find disrespectful. Listening to story #1 and you referred to the OP’s aunts children as “stupid kids” and they didn’t do anything wrong. The narrator needs to chill, and hopefully no one ever refers to your kids that way.
Narrator needs to chill.... or something else wasn't being told here for him to call them 'stupid kids'.
he could have called the kids entitled.
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Im a bit offput by this narrator, he always calls the literal children that have little to nothing to do with the story "stupid" "bratty" or some other term
Its because thats whats in the post... he is just reading what was written
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